00:00Porn doesn't just hurt your brain. It destroys your family, quietly, slowly, and nobody's talking about it. Until now. This is not about shame. This is about the survival of your marriage, the safety of your kids. If you're justifying porn use, you're part of the problem.
00:21The average age that a child first sees porn is 10. Some kids, it's even down to 8. And if you think this isn't affecting your family, think again. Porn use is linked to higher divorce rates, lower sexual satisfaction, partners feel emotionally neglected, betrayed. In homes where porn is present, children are more likely to develop behavioral challenges and emotional regulation issues.
00:50You know why? Because the emotional center of the home is unstable. If you're watching porn, you're not just harming yourself. You're destabilizing your whole household. You don't need a secret stash. The algorithm, it's already feeding your family what you're feeding it.
01:12Billie Eilish candidly expressed her experience with pornography. This is what she said. I couldn't watch anything unless it was violent. It destroyed my brain.
01:24On an episode of the Joe Rogan Experience, comedian Oliver Anthony said this. That stuff's terrible for people. It really disconnects you from reality. When you watch porn at home, it doesn't stay isolated to you. You know what it does?
01:40It primes the algorithm to feed explicit content to every device on your Wi-Fi, including your child's. Here's how it works. Platforms like YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, even your smart TV. It collects the data from what you're watching. And then it serves you more of that. But it can't discern who's watching. You get more of what you feed it.
02:07And thanks to COPPA, the Children's Online Privacy Protection Act, your child's searching behavior cannot be tracked.
02:16But you know what that means. They're not tracking those child family shows. Instead, it's tracking what you're consuming.
02:26They only know if someone in your house watches provocative content. So the system plays it safe. It will only serve up what's being consumed in the home.
02:38Okay, so think of it like this. A dad watches porn before bed. Now the next day, his 10-year-old daughter wakes up, pulls out the family iPad, and there in front of her are provocative thumbnails and low-key explicit shorts.
02:55The system doesn't know who's watching. It only knows that someone is.
03:01Okay, so how do you know what the warning signs are? Here they are. Your child's TikTok feed starts suggesting sexualized TikTok dances, drama, softcore imagery, autocomplete and trending suggestions start to echo what some of the people in the home have searched for.
03:20Kids are being exposed to material they don't want to see. Who trained the system? You did. Forget just clearing the history or setting up filters. Those are just band-aids.
03:32Incognito mode? I don't think so. If you're watching porn on your home network, you're actively training the algorithm to feed your family sexualized content.
03:44The only way to stop it is to stop feeding it. Cut it off completely. No porn, no thirst traps, no endless scrolling of explicit content.
03:56The algorithm doesn't care who you are. It just keeps spreading what you feed it. And your kids? They're next in line.
04:03Porn trains your brain to reject real intimacy and to over crave artificial novelty. Porn triggers excessive dopamine spikes, dulling natural rewards. It damages the prefrontal cortex, which is in charge of impulse control.
04:22It increases high beta brain waves. That spikes anxiety and agitation. Long term use leads to emotional numbness and compulsive behaviors.
04:34You stop craving your partner and instead you crave pixels. That's not love. It's a hijacked nervous system.
04:43You're not broken. You're overstimulated. Here's the steps that you're going to take. Number one, own the damage.
04:52Two, seven days. No porn, no masturbation, no erotic triggers.
04:58Three, daily connection, presence with your family.
05:09Chris Rock said it like this. At first, porn's great. People are naked. Woohoo.
05:15But then you need the perfect porn cocktail to feel anything. I'm better now.
05:22If you're ready to stop hiding behind a screen and you want to rebuild your life, drop a red X in the comments.
05:31Click the video that's coming up now so you can learn more about quitting porn, stepping away from the screen, rebuilding your brain, your life and your relationships.
05:42It's time to get your family and your mind over explicit matter. Let's go.
