90 Day Diaries - Season 6 Episode 8 -Dear Diary, Let This Be The One
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00:00I'm so excited, I cannot wait to see my little chippy tiny baby beans.
00:16Special day, got to pull out all the stops, a little bit of champagne.
00:21Here I come.
00:22I hope you're ready for me.
00:24I would have a threesome with two girls, no penis involved, it's too much.
00:29Bogota is bisexual, which means that I also find women attractive.
00:33Tonight we're on a mission to find sugar.
00:35We're going to find it.
00:36I'm going to do it.
00:37Are you ready?
00:38I'm going to do it.
00:39I'm out of your bubble.
00:40It's like out of your comfort zone.
00:43You met my mom.
00:44Yes.
00:45You met my daughter, and now I'm in your town.
00:49Nati is a 33-year-old single mom from Bogota, Colombia.
00:55I want to be in a fully committed relationship with her.
00:58I just hope she feels the same way.
01:00Do we have a label of my girlfriend, or what is the label?
01:13I don't know if we're going to have your mom's green card in time for the birth.
01:18This is not good news.
01:19Neither of us have the family nearby to help with the baby.
01:23We have to move back to Thailand.
01:26Do you open for Thailand?
01:28No.
01:48Time for some chili.
01:50Hello, my love.
01:51What are you doing?
01:52Oh, I was trying to surprise you.
01:55I was going to make you chili dog, peanut butter, and jelly, and some pickles.
01:58Oh, one of my new favorites.
02:01I'm David.
02:02I'm 56 years old, currently living in Fountain Hills, Arizona, with my incredible wife, Annie.
02:07I am Annie, 31 years old, originally from Bung Kan, Thailand.
02:12How many do you want?
02:13Just one, five for now.
02:14You're doing good.
02:15Do you know how to shop, Annie?
02:16I don't know how good I am at it.
02:17When I was 45 years old, I moved to Thailand.
02:20I met Annie, fell in love, and in just 10 days, we were engaged.
02:29High five you.
02:36We moved to the U.S. and got married after 17 years.
02:42We moved to the U.S. and got married.
02:45After seven years later, we decided to have a baby through the IVF.
02:51So I know you're really anxious about it, but I'm beyond happy to report that your pregnancy
02:58test was positive today.
03:01Congratulations.
03:03We're having a baby.
03:06Sad about, sad about, sad about.
03:09Thank you for taking care of me.
03:12No, my pleasure, my love.
03:14I need you, night, my love.
03:16I'm currently six weeks pregnant, and I feel like a sloth, you know?
03:21I can't sleep anywhere, anytime, and always hungry for veggie and fruit and noodle and salad.
03:31An occasional chili dog.
03:32Yeah.
03:33I just like something really flavorful in my mouth.
03:36Cannot eat spicy like I used to.
03:38Yes, she farts like a machine.
03:40That wasn't me, that's your baby.
03:42Oh, you blame the baby.
03:44You know what's funny is my mom talks about my dad coming back, and you know he loved chili dogs.
03:49I think David want my baby to be his dad.
03:54My mom, talking to her medium, said that my father wanted to come back as a grandchild.
04:00My dad used to love chili dogs, and so every time that Annie says she's craving a chili dog, always reminds me of my dad.
04:09It's not your dad.
04:11Dad, if that's you, kick twice.
04:20Mmm, that's good.
04:22Is it good?
04:23Mmm.
04:24Because we've got to head to the built or something.
04:26Oh, you can take your hot dog with you if you want.
04:28No, I'm good.
04:30I eat only one bite at a time.
04:32Mmm, I'm going to buy my chili dog.
04:35They'll still be here when you get back.
04:37Don't laugh at me, I'm very emotional.
04:43We're here for our second to last checkup.
04:47Today's a big day.
04:48Yes, I feel so excited.
04:50I cannot wait to see my family.
04:54I cannot wait to see my little chippy, tiny baby beans.
04:59And I cannot wait to go outside.
05:02When can I get my boom boom back?
05:05We have our priorities.
05:07Heartbeat and boom boom.
05:09I never thought we'd say that in the same sentence, but let's go do this, my love.
05:13Today is very important.
05:15We have our first ultrasound at the IVF center.
05:17You ready to sign in?
05:19Yes.
05:21Hopefully everything's looking good, going good.
05:25Baby in the good track.
05:27I'm so excited.
05:29Everything we've been planning for seven months, we're now like, the doctor's here.
05:34Good morning.
05:36How are you guys?
05:38How are you feeling?
05:40Very good, fantastic.
05:42So today what we're going to do is we're going to look to see how the heartbeat looks.
05:46Sometimes we can hear it, sometimes not, because it's pretty small.
05:48The fetus will measure somewhere around a centimeter or something like that, so it's pretty small.
05:52Any questions or concerns before we do the ultrasound?
05:55So when can we have our boom boom back?
06:02Boom boom time is going to be on postponement, okay?
06:06You're not ready. No boom boom with each other.
06:08Maybe give it a few more weeks.
06:10Let's go ahead and start our ultrasound.
06:12Go ahead and lay back.
06:14And Angela's going to help me and you can get a good view.
06:17How are we doing?
06:19Good, good, good.
06:21There's the baby coming in right there.
06:23Oh my God, so big.
06:25Yeah.
06:27Let me see if I can get the heartbeat for you while we're here.
06:38Amazing.
06:40There's another heart inside me.
06:42Oh my God.
06:47That little bitty life.
06:49I know.
06:51There's some souvenirs.
06:53To be able to hear the heartbeat is like, wow, it hit me for real.
07:00Oh my God.
07:03I am going to be a mom in real life.
07:09Everything looks great.
07:11Good heartbeat, good fetal growth.
07:13The gestational sac looks good.
07:15The yolk sac looks good.
07:17We'll see you again in about a week or two.
07:19Okay, thank you.
07:21Thank you so much for everything.
07:23You know, after Annie became pregnant, we knew that it would be difficult to basically have the child by ourselves without any help nearby.
07:31So we've decided to put in for my mother-in-law's green card so she can come to America to assist us in raising the baby.
07:38It is very important for me to have my mom here to be around and give us some help when I have my first child.
07:47That's what we do in Thailand. Grandmother raising the baby.
07:51You're so beautiful. Look at this.
07:53That little baby is growing.
07:55If you look up close, look.
07:57It's got my chin.
07:59But it has better hairline.
08:01Stop. Give my baby back.
08:04We better go.
08:08Oh, we're beautiful. I love this.
08:12Today, we're going to Carefree Arizona to the English Rose Tea Room, which is an authentic tea house.
08:20It's kind of our fun, premium proper.
08:23Have a spot of tea and high tea today.
08:26It's my favorite place to go. The tea is so good.
08:32Would you like a lump of sugar?
08:35One lump or two?
08:36One lump or two is what the old saying is.
08:38Really? Oh, my God. I love this.
08:41I cannot wait for my mom to arrive so I can bring her here.
08:45I have talked to her. She said, I'm so happy that you guys decided to have a baby and we don't have family around here.
08:55I would be grateful to have my mom here.
08:58It's important, obviously, to have help.
09:00Yeah, of course. Let me go to the bathroom real quick.
09:04Okay.
09:06You know, I love seeing Annie so happy and I don't want to ruin her mood.
09:11But I did some research last night and I don't have good news on the green card.
09:18Oh, my God.
09:24I'm ready to have a good afternoon tea time.
09:28So for your mom to come, you know, we can put in, obviously, for the green card because you're a U.S. citizen.
09:36But some sites say it could take a year, year and a half.
09:41So I don't know if we're going to have your mom's green card in time because it's not like they say by this date it'll happen by this date.
09:50This is not good news. Neither of us have the family nearby.
09:56Neither of us have the family nearby to help with the baby.
10:00And I am a new mom. I don't know what I am doing.
10:04We absolutely need help.
10:06And if we cannot get my mom here on time to help with the baby, we might need to look at another option.
10:14If by the time that I give birth and she couldn't get her green card on time, do you open for Thailand?
10:21I mean, having the baby here, we have the comforts of home.
10:25We have the routine, the stability.
10:28Even though we have the condo there, it's not really set up for a baby.
10:31Then buy me a home.
10:35My main concern is my work.
10:39Things have gotten better and better and we're in a better position.
10:42I know. I would love to have a baby here if my mom could be here.
10:47I know. I would love to have a baby here if my mom could be here.
10:51Because we have our house, a comfortable night house.
10:55But on the other side, in Thailand, my mom and my aunt will come down to help.
11:01But in America, you know, I don't have anybody.
11:04And that's why, you know, to have a baby in Thailand, that might be a good option.
11:11We have to move back to Thailand.
11:14I just have my concerns.
11:17What will I do for work and how long we're going to be away for?
11:20I'm not ready to leave America forever yet.
11:23Maybe we will see about being there for the birth.
11:26It is very important for me to get some house, so we have to do it.
11:30You know, it is not another option.
11:33It's a decision we have to make soon.
11:36We have to. Because if we decide to have in Thailand, we have to prepare for the room, for the stuff, for everything.
11:42We have to.
12:07My name is Sophie. I'm 25 years old from London, and I now live in Austin, Texas.
12:12Yeah, you want to go out?
12:14This is my son. He's my new puppy. His name is Timothy.
12:19It's like Timothy with an H, but I call him Himmy.
12:22For some reason, it's like I turned 25, and then it's like I really wanted to be a mom out of nowhere.
12:28And so I'm like, OK, I'm not going to have a baby right now.
12:31Who am I going to have a baby with? And so I was like, let me start with a dog.
12:35So yeah, he definitely makes me feel like a mom.
12:38What's the bag like? Did you pee in the bag?
12:41It got Himmy when my relationship with Rob officially ended.
12:45I was about 20 years old when I had seen Rob on one of those social media model pages.
12:51And I decided to follow him, and that's when he decided to then slide in my DMs.
12:56I flew to America to see him. After like a week, he asked me to be his girlfriend.
13:02I love you, baby.
13:04After two years of us dating, I then came to America under K1 visa to get married.
13:09It's my very pleasure and delight to now pronounce you husband and wife.
13:22And yeah, and then I found out that he was online cheating throughout the whole relationship.
13:27I'm not perfect, but I'm definitely not trying to f*** with nobody else but you.
13:33I saw the messages, even the ones that you didn't say, so I don't care what you keep saying. It's a liar.
13:37But he ended up convincing me to try therapy and see if we could make it work.
13:42But I feel like Rob didn't listen to the advice of the therapist and apply it to our relationship.
13:48So ultimately, I decided to end it for good.
13:51What are you doing?
13:55We're just not good together.
14:00I promise you, I've really tried.
14:03And I'm just not happy.
14:05Neither am I.
14:07I know that.
14:09And I want us both to be happy.
14:12Yeah.
14:14After things ended between me and Rob, Rob moved back to LA pretty quickly
14:19to live with three roommates in his basement.
14:23But I decided to stay in Austin.
14:26And I recently moved into my place and just signed a lease in my cute apartment.
14:31Kimmy is ready to go!
14:34In his little bag.
14:36So cute!
14:44Just pulling up to the cafe now to meet one of our best friends, Kay.
14:47I have a really good friend group in Austin.
14:50A lot of people that have been there for me since the breakup, which has been really helpful.
14:54Kay's been one of them who's kind of got me through.
14:57Can you go see Kay? Go see your friends.
15:03Oh my goodness, how have you been?
15:05I've been good. How have you been?
15:07Good. I'm just in the process of moving soon.
15:10Yeah, I miss having this little nugget around coming home to you.
15:14Thanks for bringing a stroller.
15:16You're welcome, girl.
15:18Do you want to get some food?
15:20Yes, I'm actually really hungry.
15:22Same.
15:24I'm really grateful for my friend, Kay.
15:26She let me stay with her after I moved out of Rob's house.
15:29And let me stay there as long as I needed while I kind of figured things out for myself.
15:33Cheers to us for making it look easy to be roommates.
15:37Because a lot of people do not survive friendships when they live with their friends.
15:41Cheers!
15:43So now that you're single, how's your new love life going?
15:47Have you dated anyone or tried talking to anyone?
15:50For the most part, I've just been reflecting and healing from it.
15:54Because I can't jump out of a marriage to a relationship.
15:57Because I'm just going to bring in the same problem into the new one and my same issue.
16:01No, that's the way to do it.
16:03Yeah, I think now I'm at a point where I do think I'm in a headspace where I can date.
16:07You know, I think my new relationship is like, I don't want to be ghastly.
16:10I don't want to be lied to.
16:11I just want to be treated kindly and sweet and romantic.
16:15I don't know, that's why I'm still open to like, okay, maybe I should try dating again.
16:23I identify as bisexual, which just means that I also find women attractive.
16:28I've just never had a relationship with a woman.
16:31It's always just been like, you know, like having fun or like a hookup.
16:34I mean, I'd definitely be interested to at least try it, especially after having such a bad experience with men.
16:40I just feel like too, in general, like, oh, I want a guy to just, you know, be nice to me and buy me some clothes, take me on a date, you know?
16:48And it's like, this is like the bare minimum stuff.
16:50That's what women want.
16:52So I'm like, if I date the woman that wants that, it's like, maybe I don't have to beg for it, you know?
16:57And I think until I try it, I won't know.
17:00What cracks me up is we're over here talking about, you know, you and your bisexuality and you like women, but all I'm seeing is you eat this wiener.
17:08I still like them.
17:11There's another thing too, like, will I miss that?
17:14That's why you really have to explore.
17:17Women make women f**k more than men. It's a study.
17:21Oh, really?
17:22It's a fact. There's such a small percentage of men that can make women actually f**k.
17:27Well, damn.
17:29Well, f**k. Maybe you'll get better experiences than me.
17:33It might be better.
17:34This is like your new era of Sophie.
17:37It's your time to go out there and explore and figure out what you like.
17:41Go flirt, go mingle, get some numbers, you know, go on some dates.
17:45You've gone through so much. It's time for you to shine.
17:48So, I'm going out tonight with my best friends, Aaliyah, Tiffany, Savannah, and Jasmine.
17:54Cute guys.
17:56I have a great group of friends in Austin that have really helped me through the breakup.
18:00And I'm hoping that they can help me meet someone tonight.
18:04Well, I'm not screwing up.
18:06I'm not screwing up.
18:08I'm not screwing up.
18:10I'm not screwing up.
18:11I'm not screwing up.
18:13I'm not screwing up.
18:15I'm not screwing up.
18:17While I'm not screwing off men, I am also kind of looking forward to exploring my sexuality a bit too.
18:24Okay, guys.
18:25Cheers, y'all.
18:26Cheers.
18:28It's my first night out since now I've been single.
18:32How does it feel?
18:33It feels nice.
18:35I'm ready to like meet new people and just like vibe.
18:38I'm going to try like dating women.
18:40So, what's your type?
18:42I would say very feminine girls.
18:44I don't want like too masculine.
18:45Okay.
18:46Yeah, just dress cute.
18:48I like like curvy kind of.
18:51Okay.
18:52Imagine like.
18:53She's dressed in the waters.
18:54Yeah.
18:55Okay.
18:56You're single.
18:57You're ready to mingle.
18:58You want to have fun.
18:59I'm open to anyone that is healthy for me and makes me happy.
19:03So, I think.
19:04But what about something like kinky?
19:06I'm just saying.
19:07What's up with that?
19:08Sorry, mom.
19:09Make a threesome, maybe?
19:11Oh, we're going there.
19:13I guess we are.
19:15I would have a threesome with two girls.
19:18Okay.
19:19Yeah.
19:20Okay.
19:21Yeah.
19:22Okay.
19:23No penis involved.
19:24That's too much.
19:25I think you should try that.
19:26Yeah, I would say.
19:27Well, tonight we're on a mission to find two.
19:28We're going to find two.
19:29I'm trying to do it tonight.
19:31Get out of your bubble and like get like out of your comfort zone.
19:35It feels good to be in a place where, you know, I have my dog, my apartment and my life's going well.
19:41Let's make some moves.
19:43And I'm definitely in a place where I'm ready to meet someone new.
19:46It's also exciting to get out there and talk to women and explore my by side and kind of just figure out that part of me.
19:55Even if I don't find the right person tonight or tomorrow, it doesn't matter.
20:00It's about just finding someone that is what I want.
20:03I'm not going to settle.
20:05Until I find the one who I actually deserve, then I'm just going to keep enjoying my life.
20:13So, I think I have met the most perfect person in my life.
20:17And I'm so happy to be here.
20:19I'm so happy to be here.
20:20I'm so happy to be here.
20:21I'm so happy to be here.
20:22I'm so happy to be here.
20:23I'm so happy to be here.
20:24I'm so happy to be here.
20:25I'm so happy to be here.
20:26I'm so happy to be here.
20:27I'm so happy to be here.
20:28I'm so happy to be here.
20:29I'm so happy to be here.
20:30I'm so happy to be here.
20:31I'm so happy to be here.
20:32I'm so happy to be here.
20:33I'm so happy to be here.
20:34I'm so happy to be here.
20:35I'm so happy to be here.
20:36I'm so happy to be here.
20:37I'm so happy to be here.
20:39So, I think I have met the most perfect person for me.
20:43A little shorter than I thought.
20:47But, definitely, definitely my heart.
20:51The most beautiful woman in the world.
20:55My granddaughter.
20:57How are you?
20:58Good.
20:59I'm Brian.
21:00I'm 52 years old.
21:01And I'm from Harvard Illinois.
21:03You want a race?
21:04Yeah.
21:05Wait a minute.
21:06I gotta take this off.
21:07Okay.
21:08I'm gonna close my eyes.
21:09One.
21:10One.
21:11Two.
21:12Three.
21:16I'm serious.
21:17I'm gonna win.
21:22You guys got me tearing up already.
21:23Hey.
21:24Good.
21:25How are you?
21:26Hey.
21:27Ah.
21:28It's always nice to see you guys.
21:29How are you?
21:30Good.
21:31Good.
21:32How are you guys?
21:33Good.
21:34My 90 day journey started when I met a beautiful Brazilian woman named Ingrid.
21:38On a dating app.
21:46After two years of talking to Ingrid online, I was head over heels.
21:49I was crazy for her.
21:50So, I booked my ticket to Brazil because I felt in my heart of hearts that she was the one.
21:57What?
21:59So, that first meeting was teary and emotional, but things got really weird and really bad fast.
22:13You're not being real with me.
22:29Coming back from Brazil, I felt defeated.
22:32I felt deflated.
22:33My confidence was shaken.
22:35And I wasn't sure if I'd ever find love.
22:37But things have started to look up and I want to share some exciting news with my family.
22:42Emily, if you want to go play and relax a little bit.
22:44Yeah, you don't got to ask me twice, huh?
22:46Wow.
22:47You can sit here and talk with us.
22:49Oh my goodness.
22:51How you been?
22:52Good.
22:53What's going on?
22:54Everything.
22:55Oh my God.
22:56I'm crazy.
22:57You guys remember Nati that I brought to Graham's birthday party?
23:02So, she was here for two or three months and we spent a lot of time together.
23:07Almost every day.
23:09I met Nati a couple of months after coming back from Brazil on a dating site.
23:16Nati is a 33-year-old single mom from Bogota, Colombia.
23:21Super beautiful.
23:23After talking for a couple of months, she lets me know that she's spending three months in Chicago at her sister's house.
23:29I wasn't sure if I was ready to open up to somebody again.
23:33But after spending time with Nati day in and day out for three months,
23:39it gave me hope again that there's somebody that cares for me.
23:44So, we've been talking for the four months that she's been home.
23:48And I'm going to Colombia next week.
23:57I feel like we were just having this conversation about Ingrid.
24:01I'm just a hopeless romantic and I just have those dreams of finding that romance.
24:07The only thing is, don't get married.
24:12How about a gay?
24:13No, none of that.
24:15How many times has it been that you've proposed to somebody or gone through?
24:18I've been engaged seven times.
24:21Oh, jeez.
24:22But married four.
24:24Let's not do that anymore.
24:26Slow it down.
24:27Don't carry a ring in your back pocket.
24:29No, definitely not.
24:32Well, I actually don't have a return ticket.
24:35I got a one-way ticket to Bogota, Colombia.
24:38And no return.
24:45I think he approaches everything too quickly.
24:48Because he wants a relationship and his emotions get away with him.
24:54So, he goes too fast.
24:59You want a new grandma?
25:01I already have a lot of grandmas.
25:04So, that's a no?
25:08I think we're all on the same page.
25:15Okay.
25:17So, I cannot forget my medical supplies.
25:23When Nati was here during those three months,
25:26even though we spent almost every day together,
25:29we never put a label on our relationship.
25:31And that's fine with me.
25:33But when she left, that just left me wondering.
25:37Can we be something more?
25:39Can we be that what I'm looking for?
25:45I bought a one-way ticket to Colombia.
25:47Because if things go well with Nati,
25:49I'd like to stay as long as I can.
25:51We are all set.
25:55And I'm going to ask Nati to be my girlfriend.
25:57But I'm worried about Nati not being ready for a relationship
26:00with a guy in a wheelchair,
26:02or even a guy that lives in another country.
26:04So, I don't know what's going to happen.
26:06But I'm going to ask Nati to be my girlfriend.
26:08But I'm worried about Nati not being ready for a relationship
26:10with a guy in a wheelchair,
26:12or even a guy that lives in another country.
26:15Either I'm going to get heartbroken on this trip,
26:17or I'm going to end up with a girlfriend.
26:19We'll see.
26:21Nati, here I come.
26:23I hope you're ready for me.
26:37Super excited. I'm here finally.
26:39Wish me luck.
26:41Here we go.
26:45I think I found her.
26:47I think I found her.
26:51Joanne, it's your dad.
26:53How are you?
26:55I want to stay here.
26:57To finally hold Nati in my arms
26:59and feel her close to me feels incredible.
27:01Just amazing.
27:03How do you feel right now?
27:05I'm so excited.
27:07I'm so excited.
27:09I'm so excited.
27:11I'm so excited.
27:14Right now, see me again.
27:16Six months.
27:18I'm nervous.
27:20I'm shaking.
27:22Let's go.
27:24To the hotel.
27:26I'm very excited to spend time with Nati
27:28because I want to be in a
27:30fully committed relationship with her.
27:32I'm excited to tell her.
27:34I just hope she feels the same way.
27:36I want to
27:38show in my CD
27:40what do you
27:42do?
27:44Anything.
27:46You know me.
27:48We spent time in Chicago.
27:50We did many things.
27:52You met my mom.
27:54You met my daughter.
27:56And now, I'm in your town.
27:58And it's my turn to know you.
28:00Yes, like you know me.
28:02Meeting with my family.
28:04I'm not sure if
28:06it's available.
28:09I heard this story before.
28:11In another country,
28:13they were too busy to meet me.
28:15Never wanted to come out.
28:17And I started to feel like maybe
28:19they don't like me.
28:21It feels a little convenient that
28:23her family's not available to me.
28:25I don't like it. I feel like she's hiding me.
28:27She's embarrassed of me.
28:29It makes me feel like ****.
28:31It makes me feel like she's not into me as much
28:33as I'm into her.
28:39I just got to my dad's house.
28:41And I'm going to be helping him
28:43with some chores.
28:45He just moved his business
28:47to a different location.
28:49So, I'm going to help my old man.
28:51And we're also going to do some wedding planning.
28:53I'm Luke. I'm from Los Angeles.
28:55And I am engaged to my wonderful
28:57fiancee, Madeline.
28:59I'm going to be helping him with
29:01some chores.
29:03I'm going to be helping him with
29:05some chores.
29:08I'm Luke. I'm from Los Angeles.
29:10And I'm engaged to my wonderful fiancee, Madeline
29:12from Colombia.
29:14Two years ago, I went to Colombia
29:16on a boys trip.
29:18And I met Madeline on the first night.
29:20I thought she was stunning, gorgeous.
29:22I couldn't keep my eyes off her.
29:24After six months of dating,
29:26I decided to propose.
29:28She said yes.
29:30And we've been doing long distance ever since.
29:32I've been traveling back and forth
29:34with the hopes of someday
29:36I let go from my job and lost hundreds of thousands
29:38of dollars on tough investments.
29:40Eventually, I confessed my
29:42financial situation to her.
29:44I'm going all in on these businesses.
29:46I'm trying every single day.
29:48But I don't have any money
29:50coming in.
29:52I don't know if this time is the trip
29:54that I fully move here.
29:56Are you f***ing kidding me?
29:58We worked through it.
30:00And I decided to come back to the U.S.
30:02to make some money for our wedding
30:05and for our future so I can move to Colombia.
30:07But it's taken a lot longer
30:09than I expected.
30:11He hates when I do that.
30:23Hey dad, how's it going?
30:25Is that you ringing the bell?
30:27I might be getting up there in years
30:29but I'm not deaf yet.
30:31How's it going dad?
30:34Welcome to my dad's house.
30:36Come on in.
30:38I love my dad.
30:40He's like a best friend.
30:42We talk every single day.
30:44He's a successful entrepreneur.
30:46He's funny.
30:48We get along really well.
30:50And he's just the best.
30:52You ready for some wedding planning?
30:54Yeah, boy.
30:56I'm just trying to wrap my head around
30:58how much each of these items cost.
31:00Venue,
31:02furniture, food, tux,
31:04Madeline wants three dresses.
31:06Why does she need three wedding dresses?
31:08I'm only taking one suit.
31:12Content,
31:14a drone guy,
31:16we need a photographer as well.
31:18Just a photographer
31:20can cost you six grand if he's a decent one.
31:22No ****.
31:24Oh yeah.
31:26That's without the booze and the food he's going to eat.
31:29I don't know if
31:31my budget will allow for all of these
31:33high ticket items.
31:35The DJ might be
31:37an iPhone hooked up to an aux cord.
31:39Let's do a karaoke, we can all sing.
31:43Are you paying for it all?
31:45Yep.
31:49Here in America it's customary for
31:51the bride's parents
31:53to pay for the wedding.
31:55Yeah, well
31:58it's kind of my sole role
32:00in the wedding planning right now
32:02is just to pay for it.
32:04But is it money you have?
32:06Or have you got to borrow more money
32:08or take out another loan
32:10to be able to fulfill that?
32:12I don't want you getting into debt.
32:14Yeah, I hear you.
32:16Because I've got good money management
32:20and you're not so good.
32:22You like to spend
32:24what you haven't got.
32:26I feel for my son Luke.
32:28I'm worried for his
32:30financial future.
32:32I think he's bartering off
32:34more than he can chew right now.
32:36I understand why he's doing it.
32:38It's to please Madeleine.
32:40But it is a worry for me.
32:42But I don't want you to
32:44go bankrupt trying to
32:46please her and
32:48create a wedding
32:50that you're not really ready for right now.
32:53I get what my dad's saying
32:55but he doesn't understand
32:57Madeleine's expectations.
32:59It's only two weeks away from our
33:01two year anniversary and she expects
33:03to be married by now.
33:05I don't even have enough money to move to Colombia
33:07and that needs to happen first.
33:09I told Madeleine that I would at least
33:11be there for our two year anniversary
33:13but now I'm thinking that traveling
33:15might not be the best financial decision
33:17so
33:19I don't know.
33:23I just want to let you know
33:25I'm here for you
33:27any way you need me except for my wallet.
33:40So today's my two year
33:42anniversary with Madeleine
33:44and
33:46I was supposed to be there with her today
33:48but I wasn't
33:50because of money
33:52and money
33:54and more money
33:56I scheduled a phone call with her
33:58so we could celebrate
34:00together
34:02I got a bad haircut
34:04and I'm trying to grow it out
34:06and try to make it
34:08not look as uh
34:14Alright
34:16so special day
34:18gotta pull out all the stops
34:21got a bunch of decorations
34:23new backdrop
34:25little bit of champagne
34:27gotta try and keep it romantic
34:29I'm gonna get her on the phone
34:31and we can have our video chat
34:37Happy anniversary baby
34:39Hi my love
34:41Happy anniversary
34:47I love you so much
34:50I love the decoration
34:52It's so amazing
34:54I'm excited that we get to
34:56celebrate today so
34:58let's cheers to that
35:02Cheers baby
35:16All the time with you
35:18It's been amazing
35:20I just hope and wish
35:22are you here
35:24and I cannot touch you, kiss you
35:26I know baby
35:28I wish I could be there too
35:30I'm so sorry I wasn't there
35:32Where do you think you're gonna move here?
35:36More soon
35:38Very soon hopefully
35:40You think soon
35:42is a correct response
35:45You've been told me soon for 2 years
35:51I mean it really comes down to money
35:53but
35:55sooner is better than later
35:57but as soon as possible would be fantastic
36:01I don't think your response is sufficient
36:03like we are adults
36:05we have a schedule
36:07how more long you think I'm gonna do waiting here
36:10I mean sure
36:12I would love to just
36:14f*** off to Colombia
36:16and be with you
36:18and hopefully it works out
36:20but how are we
36:22going to sustain the lifestyle
36:24that we both like
36:26I need to be sure that
36:28I have sufficient money coming in
36:30or it's gonna be
36:32bad news bears
36:34This is the last chance
36:36do you have to make this through
36:38to you come here
36:40to live with me like you promised
36:42because
36:44if you don't move this year
36:46this is over
36:48I can't live with this anymore
36:55I'll try and make it work
36:59I understand her frustration
37:01and honestly I'm frustrated too
37:03all I can do is the best that I can
37:05make as much money
37:08so I can move to Colombia
37:10as fast as possible
37:12you know
37:14I love more than anything
37:16but
37:18love is not sufficient
37:20and you know that
37:38good morning
37:40no
37:42at least a good morning
37:44look at this woman so shy
37:46don't talk to nobody in the morning
37:48I'm Brian, I'm 52 years old
37:50and I'm from Harbor, Illinois
37:52I arrived yesterday in Colombia
37:54to meet Nati
37:56somebody I had met on a dating app
37:58so I flew to Colombia to see
38:00if we could make our relationship official
38:02gonna help me pick my clothes
38:04okay
38:07for me, we didn't get off to a great start
38:09because she said I wouldn't be meeting her family
38:11but we had a great night last night
38:13so I'm still hopeful
38:15well
38:17take your time
38:19enjoy your coffee
38:21please
38:23knock on the door
38:33don't knock on the door
38:35it's not a great feeling when Nati has to help me out
38:37I mean, it sucks
38:39when we were in Chicago
38:41because she was staying with her sister
38:43I didn't have to rely on her at all
38:45where is she?
38:47over there?
38:49I don't know
38:52but this is my reality
38:54and I hope that she
38:56doesn't see her help being as
38:58a burden or a chore
39:07you gotta be careful not to
39:09depend on somebody too much
39:11I really like Nati
39:13and I hope this doesn't scare her off
39:15yeah
39:22what are you doing?
39:24there you go
39:34things are really going great right now
39:36it feels like I'm in a relationship finally
39:38who's first?
39:40in the end, I am a hopeless romantic
39:42no beginnings
39:44okay, cheers
39:46no beginnings
39:48I'd like to ask her
39:51if we can talk more serious
39:53and put a label on this
39:55but I don't know if she's ready for that
39:57so I'm nervous
39:59I'm nervous about if she has the same
40:01desire and commitment as I do
40:03I had a good time
40:05nice time
40:07I've been here a couple of times
40:09for me, it's not simple
40:11because of the situation
40:13wheelchair and everything
40:15but I really look for somebody
40:17to grow old with
40:19to love my life, to share my life
40:21you are special to me
40:23but
40:27there is a situation
40:31because of your injury
40:33and our distance
40:37but I don't mind
40:39you're with your man
40:41but you're looking for a serious relationship
40:43yes
40:45for somebody to be with
40:48step by step
40:50not tomorrow
40:52we have a label
40:54love of my life
41:00or what is the label?
41:02my girlfriend
41:04my future
41:13your girlfriend
41:15but
41:18I don't want to only label
41:20if only words
41:22but no real meaning
41:28it's our deal
41:32it's a great feeling
41:34to feel wanted, to feel loved
41:36to feel cared about
41:38and finally I can start thinking of a future with her
41:40and more days and more vacation
41:42more time
41:44for me I like to stay some months
41:46six months, five months, one country
41:48and then another time go to USA
41:50yes but in my case
41:52I can't
41:56stay in the United States six months
41:58you?
42:00only marry
42:02oh yes
42:04oh my goodness
42:06but
42:08it's an option
42:10I'm going back home with a girlfriend
42:12not a fiancé mom
42:15I'm ready to see where this goes
42:17this is just amazing
42:44you