đ§ď¸ Hey, can I ask you something? If someone only comes to you when they're hurting⌠When they're lost⌠When they just need to feel seen⌠But disappear once they feel okay againâ Does that make them a bad person? Or is that just⌠human?
đ The truth is, some people don't mean to use you. They just don't know how to stay when the storm clears. You're their light in the dark⌠But when the sun comes out, they forget where that light came from.
⥠Sometimes, I feel like a switchâturned on when needed, turned off when not. Needed when emotions overflow, forgotten when silence returns.
đ¸ And honestly? It's a cycle I see too often. Especially in people who wear their hearts on their sleevesâ Posting âIâm sad,â âSo bored,â Not because they want attention, But because theyâre quietly begging for connection.
This video isnât just about me. Itâs about you, too. Maybe youâve been the one who disappears⌠Or maybe youâve been the one they always come back to. Either way, youâll understand.
đ Watch till the end. Because the next time someone reaches out⌠You might see their message a little differently.
00:00Hey, can I ask you something? If I come to you when I need a favor, or when my heart feels heavy and I just need someone to talk to, only to go quiet again afterward, almost like a stranger, does that make me a bad person?
00:14The truth is, reaching out to you is something I want to do, and honestly it happens a lot, like it's become a regular part of life. You call me, I answer, and then there's silence. Maybe one day you'll realize that some people only come to you when their emotions hit rock bottom, when they desperately need something, someone to pull them back up.
00:37To them, I'm like a switch. When they're sad, they flick it on and need me. But once they're okay again, they turn it off and walk away. Sometimes, when life feels dull or empty, people look for someone to make them feel seen, to lift their spirits. So they come to me. But once things are fine again, they fold the flower back up and put it aside, like it never meant anything.
01:00It becomes a pattern. Reach out when needed, disappear when not. So tell me, is that emotional manipulation, or just human habit? Honestly, it's a pattern I see in a lot of girls, especially those who live more through feelings than logic.
01:17They get swept away by emotions, and often post things like, I'm so sad, so bored, or is there anything fun today? If you see a girl posting like that, it's usually a sign. She's looking for someone to lean on. Not every girl is ready to share what's inside, but the ones who do usually just want to breathe a little easier, not bottle everything up.
01:40But if the person they open up to dismisses those feelings, that bond is unlikely to survive. Because if I'm not the one she turns to when her heart is full of emotion, she'll eventually find someone else who is.
