🎯 How to Bring Her Back Into the Conversation When She Goes Silent There’s nothing worse than being on a date where everything starts off great — but ends with her glued to her phone and barely saying a word. 📱💔 And you’re left wondering: “What did I do wrong?”
Spoiler: You were talking about the wrong things.
In this video, you'll discover: ✅ Why girls lose interest mid-conversation ✅ The #1 mistake guys make when trying to impress ✅ What topics kill attraction (and what makes her lean in) ✅ How to pivot the topic and become instantly more interesting ✅ Real examples you can use on your next date
Whether you're new to dating or just stuck in a rut, this is the guide you’ve been looking for. Let’s turn those awkward silences into deep, engaging conversations. 💬✨
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00:00In this video, I'll show you how to keep talking with a girl when she suddenly becomes incooperative,
00:05like avoiding conversation or going silent out of the blue.
00:09I'm sure you've been in this situation many times before.
00:12You took her out on a date, and at first, the two of you were chatting pretty happily.
00:18But then all of a sudden, she goes quiet and seems like she doesn't want to talk anymore.
00:23At this point, what you need to do is get her talking again,
00:26because if you let her go home still feeling that silence, chances are, you won't get a second chance to meet her again.
00:33First, why did she stop cooperating?
00:36You were having a good conversation, and then suddenly she pulls out her phone and starts scrolling, or looks away while you're talking.
00:44That's because she's losing interest.
00:46And she's losing interest because you're rambling about random stuff, astronomy, geography, Three Kingdoms history,
00:53South Down, will be you, basically topics that just make her want to yawn.
00:58If you don't realize why she yawning constantly, it's time to flip the script.
01:03Let her talk about things she actually cares about.
01:06Like, for example, what makeup products she carries in her bag, how she applies blush,
01:11what kind of foundation she uses, skincare routines, beauty tips, etc.
01:16Imagine sitting there listening to that for 30 minutes straight.
01:19Trust me, no matter how cute she is, you'll be begging for mercy, literally bowing down.
01:26So ask yourself.
01:27You're bringing up topics she doesn't care about and doesn't understand.
01:31Then you expect her to respond enthusiastically, even though she has no idea what to say.
01:37So tell me, wouldn't you stay quiet too?
01:40Girls go out with you to talk, not to play, the silent role.
01:45No girl wants to stay quiet the whole time.
01:47If she shuts up from start to finish, it's simply because you're talking about completely irrelevant stuff.
01:53Things she doesn't know, doesn't understand, and has no connection to.
01:57So here's the second thing you need to realize now.
02:01Damn it, switch topics while there's still time.
02:04So what do girls like to talk about?
02:07Shopping, fashion, beauty, for example.
02:10What kind of face mask are you using?
02:12Oh, I use product ABCXYZ, but honestly, does any girl really enjoy hearing guys talk in depth about skincare ingredients like Botox or fillers?
02:23Those are topics meant for girls to chat among themselves, got it?
02:27You can talk about literally anything else.
02:30National soil, potato farming, whatever, I don't know exactly, but avoid those girly topics that girls only discuss with each other.
02:37Skincare, plastic surgery, lifting this part, injecting that part, which filler is better?
02:43The more you act like you're an expert on these topics, the more likely you'll come off as weird, and trust me, it won't help you score points at all.
02:51Okay, so now you get it, you need to change the topic.
02:55Stop talking about Lu Bei and Cao Cao.
02:58Now, sweet topics that girls are actually interested in and want to share with you.
03:04For example, talk about travel.
03:06I'm planning to go to Dalat next week.
03:09Even if you're not actually going, just throw it out there casually.
03:13Of course, when she hears that, she might ask,
03:16Oh, who are you going with?
03:18But truth is, she doesn't really care who you're going with.
03:22What she does care about is your intention.
03:24Are you hinting that you want to invite her along?
03:27At that point, just play it cool and vague.
03:31Say something like,
03:32With who?
03:33I'm going alone.
03:34Girls love playful teasing like that.
03:36It creates attraction.
03:38If you notice she shows even a little interest in traveling with you,
03:42just go ahead and invite her directly.
03:44At that point, half the battle is already won.
03:48But if she seems indifferent, then shift back to sharing something about yourself.
03:53For example,
03:54Actually, I'm going with friends.
03:56But last time I rode trip to Dalat by motorbike.
03:59So then I'm flying to save energy.
04:02When you drop hints that spark her curiosity, she'll start paying more attention.
04:07Like, wait, you went on a motorbike trip to Dalat?
04:10Then you can add,
04:11Yeah, last time I did a one-way adventure by bike.
04:15The return trip?
04:16I shipped my bike back by train to save myself the trouble.
04:21See what I mean?
04:23When you bring up stories she's never heard before,
04:25you instantly become way more interesting than the boring guy she was talking to five minutes ago.
04:30At this point, she'll naturally want to know more about you.
04:33Of course, I'm not telling you to lie or make things up,
04:38but you can share real experiences of yours in a more engaging way,
04:41making her curious and wanting to hear more.
04:44Your goal is to become an interesting guy, not a boring one.
