4 Ways to Talk to Any Girl Without Ever Sounding Boring

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00:00This is one of the most interesting observations I've made while watching how women communicate.

00:05As you may already know I once lived in a house with five girls for two years.

00:09During that time I noticed something fascinating about how women interact, it was this.

00:14Whenever my ex-girlfriend met up with her close friends whom she hadn't seen in a long time,

00:18they often ended up retelling stories they had told and retold many times before.

00:23And it wasn't just my girlfriend, all the other girls did it too.

00:27They all had a tendency to revisit old stories, even though they'd been heard countless times already.

00:33So why does a man who brings up 100 brand new topics suddenly seem boring, even uninteresting, to women?

00:40While women themselves can tell the same story over and over again, yet still seem genuinely excited,

00:46that's actually the secret to having conversations with women that never feel boring.

00:50Today I'm going to share with you four ways to talk to any girl without ever being boring.

00:54First, if it's a memorable story or experience, you can absolutely retell it, but from different perspectives.

01:01The first time you might tell the story about your motorbike breaking down on the way to buy bread.

01:05The second time, you could add a humorous detail.

01:08Remember when we were pushing the bike under the scorching sun through the old quarter,

01:12then the side stand suddenly hooked into your pants and tore a big hole?

01:16The third time, you could bring in a related update.

01:18I just sold that bike for a little bit of cash, and guess what, the night I sold it, I dreamed I bought a car.

01:25Each time, choose a different angle or detail.

01:28That's how women can keep revisiting the same story without getting bored.

01:32And you can totally learn this trick from them to improve your conversation skills.

01:36Second, to have engaging conversations with women, you need to know how to be playful.

01:41Between a funny guy and a very serious one, women usually prefer the joker.

01:46A man who's overly logical, rigid, and doesn't know how to create a fun vibe often gets labeled as boring.

01:53Being playful isn't hard.

01:54At the simplest level, it means teasing gently during conversations.

01:59For example, if she says,

02:00I'm 22 this year, you could reply,

02:03You're 22? Don't try to act so mature.

02:06You look way younger than that.

02:08Or, 22 this year? What zodiac sign is that? Cat?

02:11Okay, I'll go with that.

02:12However, if you're talking to a more sensitive girl, be careful.

02:16Try a light joke first.

02:17If she reacts positively, keep going.

02:19But if she clearly dislikes it, stop.

02:22Don't push it and risk annoying her.

02:24It's like when I sometimes tap a friend lightly on the head and tease.

02:27Your head sounds hollow when I knock on it.

02:29Mine sounds solid.

02:30Most girls I joke with like that don't mind at all.

02:33Some even fire back.

02:34Well, yours is not only hollow, it's also bald.

02:37If she pretends to be mad, you can tease a bit more.

02:40But if she really doesn't like it, apologize and stop.

02:43Either way, it's better than being overly serious and making the conversation dry and dull.

02:48Third, to avoid being boring, you must know how to talk about yourself.

02:52That means sharing something about you instead of constantly asking questions about her.

02:57Many guys keep asking question after question until she finally turns the tables and asks,

03:02What about you?

03:04And then they freeze.

03:05Uh, I'm pretty normal.

03:08Nothing special really.

03:09That's a fast track to disaster if you don't know how to open up about yourself.

03:13So how do you talk about yourself effectively?

03:16It's simple.

03:17Paint a clear picture of who you are through specific details.

03:20For example, when you watch my videos, you'll notice I often mention my course decoding real

03:25world conversations.

03:26Sometimes I brag that within days of launching, over 100 people signed up.

03:30Other times I tell stories about students A, B, and C, who succeeded after taking the course.

03:36Over time, you start getting curious and want to learn more.

03:39In the same way, when you share personal experiences, recount memories, or post pictures and videos

03:45about your life, you're creating a vivid image of who you are in her eyes.

03:49Your job is to make her think you're more interesting and attractive than you even are.

03:54Fourth, talk about topics that women enjoy discussing.

03:57Women generally aren't interested in football, politics, macroeconomics, or high-tech stuff.

04:03I swear.

04:04If you start every conversation with those topics, chances are she'll just nod politely out of habit.

04:09Instead try talking about things like, love differences between how men and women see

04:13certain issues, relationship situations and emotional handling etc.

04:17I promise, women can talk about these subjects with you all day long and never run out of

04:22things to say.

04:23From a small story, you can lead into deeper topics.

04:26Even uncovering personal secrets she's never shared with anyone.

04:30That's the goal of a meaningful, engaging conversation.

04:34By the way, if you didn't know, I also run a website.

04:37One that many people who followed my early writings on dating, flirting, and social interaction

04:41are familiar with.

04:43I've been building this site for over 15 years now.

04:45If you'd like to upgrade your conversation and connection skills with women in a natural

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