📱🔥 "You texted something funny… she laughed… then ghosted you. What went wrong?"
We’ve all been there. One minute you're texting like a pro 🧠💬, the next — CRICKETS 🦗. Silence. Confusion. Panic mode: ON 😱.
But guess what? I’ve been in that exact same situation. And worse. Like when my dog literally destroyed my house mid-convo and I had to choose between saving my couch or saving the chat 💀😂.
In this video, I’ll show you how to text like a charm even when your brain goes blank – from breaking awkward silences, to dodging weird questions, to handling emotional moments without sounding tone-deaf. You’ll learn:
👉 How to turn boring conversations into fun flirty chats 👉 The sneaky trick to make her open up (without asking “how are you?”) 👉 What to say when she asks something random like “Do you like white wine?” 👉 How to deal with her ex drama without becoming her emotional doormat 🚫💔 👉 And why showing up when she’s sick might be your golden ticket 💊❤️
💡 Real-life examples. No cringe pickup lines. Just smooth, natural, and effective texting strategies that work for guys at any level.
📌 So if you’re tired of running out of things to say, or getting ghosted after a good vibe, hit that Subscribe button and let’s fix your texting game together!
🎯 Who is this for? Guys who panic when the chat dies 🤯 Beginners who don’t know where to start Flirters looking to level up their texting game 💬✨ Anyone who wants to keep the conversation fun, fresh, and flirty
00:00Has anyone here ever been in this situation before?
00:03Just five minutes ago, you were texting like a pro.
00:06Now the girl reads your message and starts laughing uncontrollably.
00:09But then weirdly, after another five minutes, crickets.
00:13You don't know what else to say.
00:14You rack your brain, but nothing comes up.
00:17In the end, the conversation just fizzles out and your crush loses interest.
00:21Don't worry, I've got your back.
00:23I've been there too, even many times worse than that.
00:26But since I started using these tips, I've never had to panic over running out of things to say during a chat.
00:32In this video, I'll show you exactly how to text when you have no idea what to say.
00:37But first, you need to understand one thing.
00:39Not every message you send has to be brilliant.
00:42Sometimes your texts are on fire, but sometimes they're just plain bad.
00:46And from that awkward moment, things can spiral and you can't get the vibe back like before.
00:52You must understand this.
00:53No one on earth texts perfectly all the time.
00:56No one.
00:57I remember once I was texting a girl and my dog suddenly went berserk, throwing stuff around the house, under the fridge, off the couch, pillows everywhere.
01:05At that moment, who wouldn't freak out?
01:07I had to clean up, calm the dog down.
01:10It wasn't normal anymore.
01:12He dragged his leash around like a madman.
01:14I literally sat there with my phone for 10 minutes, unable to think of a single reply.
01:20Instead of stressing over what clever thing to say next, do you know what I did?
01:24I sent, want to see the face of the worst dog in the world?
01:27She laughed when she saw the photo and everything went smoothly again.
01:30So when you're stuck, use some of these tricks.
01:33Here are some secrets I want to share with you.
01:35Texting to break the silence.
01:37The reason conversations go silent is often because the topic you were discussing was just boring.
01:44Like, really boring.
01:46For example, earlier you told her,
01:48I've never been in love before, so now I'm looking for a serious, kind, capable girl to date and marry.
01:54Then the conversation goes dead.
01:57Why?
01:58Because she might feel like she's not good enough for you.
02:00Do you think she needs to prove herself to you?
02:03At this early stage, if you're not already attractive or interesting enough,
02:07she doesn't feel the need to try hard.
02:09That's when the conversation falls into silence.
02:12Here are a few ways to break through that silence.
02:15One, surprise her.
02:17Let's say the conversation went cold after you said something overly serious like,
02:22I've never been in love, so now I'm looking for a good, high-quality girl to marry.
02:26Break the ice by saying something unexpected.
02:29Anyway, I'm bored of being serious.
02:31Right now, I just want to chill.
02:33We can talk about that tomorrow.
02:34Sure, you still want to find someone real,
02:36but no one says you can't joke around or keep it fun while texting.
02:40Two, bring up a trending event.
02:42Lately, everyone's rushing to watch Face Off, huh?
02:45Have you seen it yet?
02:46Three, make her imagine something.
02:49This is one of my favorite techniques.
02:52If you suddenly had one billion VND and had to spend it all in one day, what would you buy?
02:57Most girls will reply with things like,
02:59I'd buy a designer bag.
03:00I'd get a boob job.
03:02I'd travel somewhere.
03:03From their answers, you can learn a lot about her desires and mindset.
03:06If she replies with something like,
03:08I'm broke as hell right now.
03:10Wish someone would just give me money.
03:12You can playfully respond with,
03:14What's money anyway?
03:15I'll give you everything I own,
03:17but you've got to take it all.
03:18No picking and choosing, including my underwear.
03:21You don't want my underwear?
03:22All right, then what part of me do you want to keep and what do you throw away?
03:28It breaks the silence and steers the conversation in a flirty direction.
03:31Texting when your crush asks something tricky.
03:34Sometimes she throws you a question that makes you freeze.
03:37Do you like white wine?
03:39Why the hell is she asking that?
03:41Is she hinting at what kind of wine she likes?
03:44Is she subtly questioning your masculinity?
03:47Or is she suggesting we should go out with wine someday?
03:50In cases like this, the best move is to probe her intention.
03:54In my course, Decoding Text Messages,
03:57I teach a technique called reading between the lines.
04:00It's super important in texting.
04:02Example, she asks,
04:04Do you like white wine?
04:05You can reply,
04:06Oh, do you like white wine?
04:08Simple.
04:08Just ask back to figure out where she's coming from.
04:11Another example.
04:12She asks,
04:13What do you think about a girl who's been in a relationship before?
04:17Probe gently.
04:18Wait, do you mean a girl who knows how to row a boat and climb trees?
04:21Because I think those girls are awesome.
04:23Or,
04:24Oh, you mean someone who's had a past heartbreak?
04:27Honestly, I think everyone deserves a second chance.
04:30This gives you time to think and respond thoughtfully,
04:32So you don't accidentally make her want to run away with her flip-flops.
04:36Texting when she brings up an awkward topic.
04:38Sometimes she drops something heavy like talking about her ex-love life.
04:42Even sending photos of cakes she made for her ex or hairstyles she had when dating him.
04:47Why not send a 50-second video while you're at it?
04:49In real life, this rarely happens.
04:52But online?
04:53Very common.
04:54Sometimes she just wants someone to listen and vent.
04:57Of course, most guys don't want to hear about this day in and day out.
05:00Eventually, you become just a doormat for her feelings.
05:04You're the backup tire, the second-choice soulmate she won't pick.
05:07In situations like this, just reply.
05:10Can we talk about this when we're closer?
05:12That means when you actually like me, I'll be ready to listen.
05:15Right now, I've got better things to think about than your ex.
05:18If she gets upset because you didn't listen, well, it's not that you're not empathetic.
05:23You're just not going to entertain creepy stories.
05:26You'd be surprised how many girls make this stuff up after reading too much romance fiction.
05:30Texting when she's sad or going through a rough time.
05:33Sometimes out of nowhere, she tells you something sad.
05:36Her dad is in the hospital, her grandma passed away, or her cat ran away.
05:40In moments like this, it's tough to know what to say.
05:43The conversation can easily hit a wall.
05:45Avoid oversharing similar stories from your own life.
05:48Oh man, I remember when my grandma died, it was so hard.
05:52That only pulls her deeper into sadness.
05:54And it makes her feel like your presence isn't really helping.
05:57Only her pain matters.
05:59Actually, in such moments, there's no perfect way to comfort someone completely.
06:03The best choice is to offer support and remind her you're there.
06:07Try something like,
06:08I know you're feeling really down.
06:10I'm here for you.
06:11If you need anything, just tell me.
06:13Just knowing I'm here helps, right?
06:15Texting when she's sick.
06:17Remember this.
06:18When a girl is sick, she's probably exhausted and doesn't want to talk to anyone.
06:22But if she still texts you and even shows off how under the weather she is,
06:26she's testing your feelings.
06:28She wants to know,
06:28Are you genuinely caring or just full of empty sweet talk like,
06:33I miss you so much.
06:34I love you the most in the world.
06:36But when she's actually sick, you ghost her with a good night.
06:39On other days, you stay up till midnight.
06:42But today you're sleepy by 10 p.m.
06:44Come on.
06:45Once you've asked around and figured out how she's doing,
06:47the best move is to show up with something.
06:49Buy food, fruit, medicine, whatever.
06:52Park outside her place.
06:53Call her to come out and get it.
06:55That's how you build trust and credibility.
06:57This is your golden opportunity to jump from number 100 to number 1 or number 2 in her eyes.
07:03Because for girls, these little moments matter deeply.
07:06They tap into their primal instincts.
07:08They're wired to carry a baby for 9 months.
07:11You get the idea?
07:12If a guy can care for them when they're slightly ill,
07:14he might also be able to support them through pregnancy.
07:17Not necessarily true.
07:19But that's how girls think instinctively.
07:21So this is your shot to score big.
07:23Even if she says,
07:24Don't come over.
07:25I don't want to see anyone.
07:26I'm really sick.
07:27She's lying.
07:28She just wants to test how much you truly care.
07:31These are 5 texting strategies for when you don't know what to say.
07:34In today's modern world,
07:36real-life conversations are fading,
07:38replaced by text messages.
07:40If you don't know how to text well,
07:42especially when flirting,
07:43you're at a major disadvantage.
07:45So keep these tips handy,
07:46and next time you're stuck in a conversation,
