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00:00:00All right. So, this all comes out. Hi, everybody. This is just something that comes out of a call

00:00:05this morning. It was a private call, but I asked the caller if I could share this with the general

00:00:13population. So, here you are getting the benefit of a private call for free, but, you know, gives

00:00:18you a sense of how much value there is in the private calls. So, I'm not even going to do a

00:00:26hit-me-with-the-why thing here, because, like, I just know. I just know that you and I and

00:00:34everybody involved in these kinds of conversations, these kinds of fix-the-world conversations,

00:00:38get a little bit frustrated from time to time. We try to fix the world. We try to reason with

00:00:45people. People don't listen, confidently sail off into disaster, and then come and bend

00:00:52our ears with their complaints. Right? They just come and bend our ears with their complaints.

00:01:04So, the guy I was talking to, the fellow I was chatting with this morning, was angry.

00:01:13Was angry with the world, and with the world not listening. And, of course, we've all been

00:01:20there. We've been there. Of course, I've been there in a global conversation with the world.

00:01:24Other people have been there. Perhaps you. No, not you, but you. Yeah, you. That one right

00:01:29next to him. So, you've probably been frustrated in your personal life with people who just refuse

00:01:37to listen to reason and don't engage in good faith. You know, they're trolls. They're just

00:01:45trying to win stupid little points. You know, just endless, endless arrays of nonsense as a whole.

00:01:55And, so, I did have a good conversation with this fellow, and he is willing to release,

00:02:04not obviously any of the content of the conversation, but the form of the conversation

00:02:08to you. And I wanted to make sure I got this out. You ever have this thing? It's like your dream,

00:02:13you know, like you have some really powerful dream. And your brain is like, here's a really

00:02:16powerful dream. And you wake up and you say, wow, that was great. We should think about that. Whoa.

00:02:23Where the hell did that go? Dream has evaporated. And you're like, maybe I'll get a deja vu at some

00:02:28point over the course of my day. See, deja vu over the course of my day. It's very English-French hybrid.

00:02:34But then it vanishes never to return. And you're like, well, it was super important. And your brain is

00:02:39like, it is super important. And hey, squirrel! And it's gone. It's doomed. It's gone. It's done.

00:02:45It's tragic. So, angry at the world. This is probably the thing that I happen to meditate on

00:02:56the most. This is what I think about of sort of any single particular subject. This is what I

00:03:02think about the most. And I'll give you an analogy. And I think it'll hit hard.

00:03:09I think it'll hit hard. In a good way. In a good way. Okay.

00:03:16So, if you're a nutritionist, and not just a nutritionist, but a fitness nutritionist,

00:03:24like a nutritionist will teach you how to eat, a fitness nutritionist will teach you how to

00:03:27exercise and how to eat in combination. So, if you are a nutritionist, let's say you live in,

00:03:36I don't know, let's roll the dice, Florida. Right? You are a fitness nutritionist. You're lean,

00:03:44you're mean, you're healthy, you're good weight, you stretch, you do your weights, you exercise,

00:03:49and you're in robust health. And you like the sun. You know the sun is good for you. You like the sun.

00:03:59So, you go down

00:04:00to the beach. Where should we go? Where should we go? Fort Lauderdale. That's pretty nice. Miami Beach,

00:04:08bit trashy. Cocoa Beach. There's lots of different beaches. But let's say we go, let's say we go to

00:04:14Cocoa Beach. Echo Beach is far away in time, so we can't go to that. We'll go to Cocoa Beach.

00:04:20So, we go to Cocoa Beach. We're married. We got three kids. The kids are healthy. Our wife is

00:04:28healthy and strong. And we go, and we care about nutrition and exercise. We want the best for people.

00:04:34Like, the numbers, the stats, they just roll around in our brain, like tumbleweeds of thunder.

00:04:39Remember that diabetes takes an average of 15 years off your lifespan. That if you're obese

00:04:51as a child, you have a 70% chance of developing diabetes, joint pain, back pain, sexual dysfunction,

00:05:01heart attacks, clogged this, you name it. Bad digestion, bad sweat, bad sleep, bad sex.

00:05:08It's a wretched, flesh-encased, buried in large prison to be significantly overweight. Not

00:05:19just a little bit of a, but a lot of a. So, we go to Cocoa Beach, man. Find some good

00:05:28parking. It's a beautiful day. We pack up our stuff. Kids are squirming, itching to go and

00:05:32look for shells and run into the water and play with the dolphins.

00:05:38And we pat down, enjoying the feel of sand between our toes, a beautiful blazing day.

00:05:44A couple of little puffy clouds, like sheep wandering around in the blue.

00:05:50We get down to the beach, and most of the people there are obese.

00:05:56Yes. Oh, God.

00:06:02And we see, when we look at this obesity, I mean, we feel sympathy. Bad childhood, bad

00:06:09diet, bad, you know, emotion managing, stress eating, whatever it is, right? Eating your

00:06:13feelings. Apparently, you have a lot of feelings in the shape of cheesecake.

00:06:18We go down to the beach, and we look, and we see all this fat.

00:06:22Yes.

00:06:26And it hurts, and it's frustrating, and it's upsetting.

00:06:32And we want to run up and down the beach, grabbing people by their pudgy shoulders and

00:06:39saying, stop eating, stop moving, stop eating, stop moving, stop eating, stop moving.

00:06:46For God's sakes, this is your life. You get only one.

00:06:54And you, right now, you're not sick. You have a thousand dreams, but when you get sick, you

00:06:58have only one dream, and one dream only, which is to stop being sick.

00:07:02And you're choosing food over health, happiness, boners, quality sleep. Your life is miserable.

00:07:15Because your life is miserable, you eat more. Because you eat more, your life gets more

00:07:19miserable, and it doesn't stop until you get a coffin in the shape of a surprised face.

00:07:28Oh!

00:07:32Everywhere we look, like a dermatologist seeing nothing but sunburns, right? Everywhere we

00:07:39look.

00:07:41It's not that it's offensive to our eyes. It's that we can't relax, really, and enjoy the

00:07:49beach.

00:07:50Could be the mall. Probably not the gym. Could be swimming pools. God help you, if you're

00:08:01near Orlando, maybe you go to SeaWorld. Maybe you go to Universal. Maybe you go to Disney.

00:08:08Maybe you go to, I don't know, even Wild Florida. Gatorland, whatever. Walk around Lake Eola.

00:08:20Everywhere you go, buttons are hanging on like grim death. Oh, we can't burst, but we must.

00:08:32Zippers holding back pudge like Spider-Man trying to stop a subway car.

00:08:41Thighs chafing together. Weird back boobs.

00:08:50Chins falling like a slow-motion waterfall to the chest. No jaw. You can't even see when

00:09:00people swallow. Do they have Adam's apples? Nobody knows. Nobody knows.

00:09:07And because of this, they have to actually have test seats at the roller coasters. Can you

00:09:17even fit? Can you even fit? And we care. We care. It's our entire business, our entire

00:09:25job to have people be healthy. And everywhere we look, people are either fat or skinny fat.

00:09:37They're either fat or flabby. You know, the people, they don't have a lot of weight.

00:09:47But they're like skeletons with skin. And everywhere we look. How many times do we roll around?

00:10:04The town, the city, the beach, the boardwalk, the rides, the parks.

00:10:11How often do we roll around? Now, it's our job. You know, we're ripped, we're cut, we're

00:10:20whatever, right? So we're not expecting people to be like that. But how often, when we roll

00:10:27around the world, do we see people rolling around the world? How often, when we go around

00:10:35the world, as fitness and nutrition experts, how often do we see people who are healthy?

00:10:46You know, they're not overweight. We can see by some muscle tone that they're doing something

00:10:53active, something physical. Not just walking, although walking is fine, but something.

00:10:58Something that gets their heart rate up, something that gets them to sweat, something that gets

00:11:02them to lunge, something that gets them to move, and to build some kind of muscle.

00:11:08And they don't have to have abs. But it would be nice to see a vein somewhere.

00:11:24Throbbing vein somewhere. These are the kind of people that give blood, and people go in

00:11:29with pion jar drills and oil rigs trying to find a vein.

00:11:33Trying to find a vein, yes, the quest is in vain.

00:11:38So what do we do? I don't know if you're an exercise person. I don't know if you're a

00:11:45nutrition person. I would consider myself mild to moderate in both reasonably healthy weight,

00:11:54reasonable amount of muscle, you know, far from a bodybuilder, but far from a walking skeleton,

00:12:02or an oompa-loompa in strained jeans.

00:12:13When we care about diet, nutrition, and exercise, and we walk through the valley of the shadow of death

00:12:23with people often wider than they are tall, or people who have outgrown their muscles as if they

00:12:31stepped out of a skin suit, because they're so flabby, how do we enjoy our life when we care about

00:12:37health, and we are surrounded by the chronically, imminently, eternally unwell?

00:12:46Well, when we know, let's say, one of the reasons we became a diet and exercise person is because,

00:12:56it's because, our mother was a

00:13:01catch-up-the-ass, constantly eating, what's-eating Gilbert's grain,

00:13:07grape lifted out by a crane, 600-pound-plus,

00:13:11dead by 45, obesity, tragedy.

00:13:20When your mama sits around the house, she really sits around the house, your mama so fat,

00:13:26she gets up on both sides of the bed, right? And we saw this tragedy, we saw this misery.

00:13:30And, of course, I say this with great sympathy, but you look deep within the fat folds of an

00:13:41obese person's eyes, and you will see great misery. Great misery.

00:13:51Now, when we know, based upon our own personal experience, how miserable

00:13:57that makes people, and how tragic a life it is, how uncomfortable and difficult

00:14:10and early mortality a life that is,

00:14:14how do we

00:14:17walk around the world

00:14:20looking at everybody, looking at everybody

00:14:24playing a slow,

00:14:27fleshy game of Russian roulette

00:14:28with pink bullets to clog an artery

00:14:32every time

00:14:33they eat, every time they walk, every time

00:14:36they lever themselves up?

00:14:39How?

00:14:41Knowing how difficult, how painful

00:14:42it is having nursed her own mother

00:14:44through her morbid obesity,

00:14:47suffocating in her own skin,

00:14:49fleshy death,

00:14:50knowing exactly where it leads,

00:14:54also knowing how it hits us in her wallet,

00:14:57because people are going to consume

00:14:58massive amounts

00:14:59of

00:15:01healthcare resources.

00:15:05You know, people who are overweight

00:15:06who say, well, we need socialized medicine

00:15:08because we want to help people

00:15:10who don't have access to healthcare,

00:15:11I'm like, well, you're blocking access to healthcare

00:15:13because you're overweight,

00:15:14which means you're going to consume an excessive amount

00:15:16of healthcare over the course of your life

00:15:19relative to somebody who's of a healthy weight.

00:15:20So, you're choosing food

00:15:25over poor people's access to healthcare.

00:15:27Of course, we can imagine

00:15:28that if people stopped being so obese,

00:15:32imagine what would happen

00:15:33to

00:15:35the price of healthcare.

00:15:38Just imagine.

00:15:39Imagine if people dealt with their emotional issues

00:15:42through psychology and philosophy

00:15:44rather than

00:15:45endless

00:15:47happy pills.

00:15:51Imagine what would happen to healthcare costs

00:15:54if people stopped

00:15:56being fat

00:15:57or didn't become fat in the first place.

00:16:02Imagine.

00:16:04Just imagine.

00:16:04It's pretty horrible

00:16:07to contemplate, right?

00:16:13So,

00:16:15we are a diet and exercise person.

00:16:18Our family is fit,

00:16:19lean, healthy,

00:16:21strong.

00:16:21We go down to the beach

00:16:24and

00:16:27everywhere we look

00:16:28our eyes are scalded

00:16:30by the

00:16:32imminent

00:16:33ill-health

00:16:35raspy breaths

00:16:36and

00:16:39lycra-encased pudginess

00:16:42of those doing the slow

00:16:45twinkie stroll

00:16:46to an early

00:16:47wide

00:16:48grave.

00:16:49Can we enjoy the beach?

00:16:54Can we enjoy the beach?

00:16:59If you are an audiologist

00:17:02like a hearing doctor

00:17:03and you know how bad

00:17:05loud sounds are

00:17:06for long-term hearing,

00:17:08can you go

00:17:09to a concert

00:17:10that's super loud

00:17:11like Spinal Tap Levels

00:17:13or

00:17:13the who levels

00:17:16of decibel

00:17:17of eardrum

00:17:18shredding decibels,

00:17:19can we go

00:17:20to a concert

00:17:21and enjoy the concert

00:17:22knowing that people's hearings

00:17:24and people's hearing

00:17:25is being wrecked?

00:17:29I mean,

00:17:30I'm very careful

00:17:31about my hearing

00:17:31and

00:17:34it really does,

00:17:36it really is quite shocking

00:17:37how loud everything is.

00:17:38Even at the church

00:17:39I just went to on

00:17:39a Sunday

00:17:40at the sermon I went to

00:17:41it was loud, man.

00:17:43I've got to put

00:17:46in my ear protection

00:17:46or maybe it's

00:17:47because it's older people

00:17:48but

00:17:49what's our relationship

00:17:52as diet,

00:17:53nutritional

00:17:54and this analogy

00:17:55what's our relationship

00:17:55to diet and nutrition?

00:17:59When we're diet

00:18:00and nutrition experts

00:18:02what's our relationship

00:18:03to going to the beach?

00:18:05It's painful,

00:18:06it's difficult

00:18:06everywhere we look

00:18:07it scalds us,

00:18:08it rubs us

00:18:08the wrong way,

00:18:09it chafes at us

00:18:11how do we enjoy

00:18:17the world

00:18:18when we care

00:18:19about health

00:18:20and everywhere

00:18:21we see

00:18:21the slow

00:18:22suicide

00:18:23of

00:18:25sedentary

00:18:27overeating

00:18:27and or

00:18:30but probably both.

00:18:34It's tough

00:18:35when you care

00:18:38about

00:18:39the future

00:18:41and you see

00:18:42every

00:18:45step

00:18:46being taken

00:18:46to lay

00:18:47the tracks

00:18:51inevitably

00:18:51towards

00:18:52conflict

00:18:54war

00:18:56violence

00:18:58and you see

00:19:00all of that

00:19:00how do we live?

00:19:03How do we live?

00:19:05How do we live?

00:19:07How do we live

00:19:08and be happy

00:19:09when we care

00:19:11about a world

00:19:12that seems

00:19:13steadfastly addicted

00:19:14to rank and rampant

00:19:16self-destruction?

00:19:20I mean if you have

00:19:21boomers in your life

00:19:22man it's pretty wild

00:19:24that way.

00:19:26There's a great post

00:19:27basically saying

00:19:28it's kind of like

00:19:29a weird reversal.

00:19:31Like you shield

00:19:33toddlers from the world

00:19:34because they can't

00:19:36handle it

00:19:36and then you have

00:19:37to shield boomers

00:19:38from the world

00:19:38because they can't

00:19:39handle it.

00:19:41They can't handle it.

00:19:45I was talking

00:19:45to a boomer

00:19:46the other day

00:19:46who loftily

00:19:47informed me

00:19:48that a particular

00:19:50set of islands

00:19:51was going to be

00:19:52underwater

00:19:52because of

00:19:53global warming.

00:19:57And I said

00:19:58well that's

00:19:58kind of odd.

00:20:01You're like

00:20:01when you fill

00:20:02the bath

00:20:02does only

00:20:04one side

00:20:04get filled?

00:20:05Doesn't it

00:20:06get filled

00:20:06evenly?

00:20:06He's like

00:20:07well yeah.

00:20:08I said

00:20:08well how could

00:20:08just one set

00:20:09of islands

00:20:09go underwater

00:20:10because the sea

00:20:12level would have

00:20:12to rise everywhere

00:20:13right?

00:20:14Tends to even

00:20:14out right?

00:20:16I don't

00:20:16understand right?

00:20:18And you just

00:20:18get this pause

00:20:19and this resentment.

00:20:23Younger people

00:20:24might say

00:20:24oh I guess

00:20:26it's kind of true

00:20:27I never really

00:20:27thought of that

00:20:27bit right?

00:20:30Let's get

00:20:31this resentment.

00:20:32How dare you

00:20:32take away

00:20:33my worldview?

00:20:34How dare you

00:20:35take away

00:20:35what makes me

00:20:36feel good about

00:20:37how dare you?

00:20:40And of course

00:20:40I normally

00:20:41wouldn't have

00:20:42engaged

00:20:43with such

00:20:44a person

00:20:45but

00:20:45unfortunately

00:20:46he said it

00:20:47in front of

00:20:47my daughter

00:20:48so the

00:20:49obligations

00:20:49are different

00:20:50right?

00:20:55So

00:20:56if

00:20:58listen man

00:20:59if you

00:20:59have

00:20:59thoughts

00:21:00about

00:21:01this

00:21:01if you

00:21:01have

00:21:02things

00:21:02that

00:21:03you

00:21:04want

00:21:04to

00:21:04say

00:21:04about

00:21:05this

00:21:05if you

00:21:05I mean

00:21:06I think

00:21:06we all

00:21:06struggle

00:21:06with this

00:21:07don't we

00:21:07I mean

00:21:07we care

00:21:07about our

00:21:08parents

00:21:08we want

00:21:10our parents

00:21:10to see

00:21:10reason

00:21:11right?

00:21:12We want

00:21:12our parents

00:21:13to see

00:21:13reason

00:21:13we want

00:21:14our parents

00:21:14to

00:21:15understand

00:21:16things

00:21:17to accept

00:21:18reality

00:21:19yet

00:21:21boy oh

00:21:23boy oh

00:21:24boy

00:21:24do they

00:21:26ever not

00:21:26a lot

00:21:27of times

00:21:28boy oh

00:21:31boy oh

00:21:31boy

00:21:32do they

00:21:32ever not

00:21:33a lot

00:21:34of times

00:21:35so

00:21:39this is

00:21:39what I

00:21:40meditate on

00:21:40the most

00:21:41how can I

00:21:41achieve

00:21:41happiness

00:21:42when I

00:21:44want

00:21:44the world

00:21:45to be

00:21:45sane

00:21:46but it

00:21:47steadfastly

00:21:47throws its

00:21:49lot in

00:21:49with rampant

00:21:51craziness

00:21:52and

00:21:53corruption

00:21:53and

00:21:56so if

00:21:59you have

00:22:00you know

00:22:00thoughts

00:22:01that you

00:22:01wanted to

00:22:01share

00:22:02in this

00:22:03area

00:22:03I'm

00:22:03obviously

00:22:03very happy

00:22:04to hear

00:22:05them you

00:22:05just need

00:22:06to raise

00:22:06your hand

00:22:06otherwise I

00:22:08can at least

00:22:08talk about

00:22:08I don't have

00:22:09any magical

00:22:10perfect solution

00:22:10or anything

00:22:11like that

00:22:11but I

00:22:14do have

00:22:14some thoughts

00:22:15on it

00:22:15I have a

00:22:17question

00:22:17yes go

00:22:18ahead sir

00:22:18yeah so

00:22:20speaking of

00:22:21kind of

00:22:22diabetes and

00:22:23obesity I

00:22:23had a

00:22:24parenting related

00:22:25question

00:22:25I'm sorry

00:22:26a what

00:22:27related

00:22:27a parenting

00:22:28related

00:22:29question

00:22:29is this

00:22:31is this

00:22:32in the

00:22:32topic as

00:22:33a whole

00:22:33I

00:22:39I suppose

00:22:41it's tangential

00:22:42are you

00:22:45I mean

00:22:45I'm trying

00:22:46to do a

00:22:46theme here

00:22:47now if

00:22:48you want

00:22:48to make

00:22:49it about

00:22:50something

00:22:50that's off

00:22:50the theme

00:22:51because you

00:22:52said on

00:22:53the topic

00:22:53of diabetes

00:22:55I have

00:22:55a parenting

00:22:56related

00:22:56question so

00:22:57I just

00:22:57wanted to

00:22:57make sure

00:22:58it is on

00:22:59the topic

00:22:59that's fine

00:23:00if it's

00:23:01not on

00:23:01the topic

00:23:01that's fine

00:23:02too but

00:23:02you kind of

00:23:03got to tell

00:23:03me that up

00:23:04front don't

00:23:04you

00:23:04sure I

00:23:08suppose that's

00:23:08fair

00:23:08so is it

00:23:10on the

00:23:10topic or

00:23:10not

00:23:11it's

00:23:13I suppose

00:23:15off topic

00:23:15okay

00:23:16so then

00:23:18what do you

00:23:19need to ask

00:23:19me I mean

00:23:20I'm just

00:23:20trying to

00:23:21teach you

00:23:21some sort

00:23:22of basic

00:23:23politeness

00:23:23thing

00:23:24sure

00:23:26would you

00:23:28mind if

00:23:29I ask

00:23:29an off

00:23:30topic

00:23:30question

00:23:31or

00:23:31I

00:23:31don't

00:23:33mind

00:23:33sitting

00:23:33down

00:23:34if you

00:23:35might

00:23:35I don't

00:23:37mind

00:23:37since you've

00:23:37asked nicely

00:23:38I don't

00:23:38mind asking

00:23:39an off

00:23:39topic

00:23:39question

00:23:40it just

00:23:40seems like

00:23:41you were

00:23:41trying to

00:23:41wedge it

00:23:41in as if

00:23:42it was

00:23:42an on

00:23:42topic

00:23:43question

00:23:43speaking

00:23:44of

00:23:45diabetes

00:23:45should I

00:23:47invest

00:23:47in

00:23:47bitcoin

00:23:47you know

00:23:48what I

00:23:48mean

00:23:48so

00:23:49okay

00:23:49go ahead

00:23:49okay

00:23:51yeah

00:23:52sorry

00:23:52about

00:23:52that

00:23:52yeah

00:23:54there's

00:23:54a

00:23:54there's

00:23:56a book

00:23:57that was

00:23:57written

00:23:57recently

00:23:58and it

00:23:59kind of

00:23:59comes from

00:24:00the

00:24:00unschooling

00:24:01kind of

00:24:02school of

00:24:03thought

00:24:03regarding

00:24:04parenting

00:24:05and there's

00:24:05this idea

00:24:06that

00:24:06we should

00:24:08have

00:24:08kind of

00:24:08no limits

00:24:10whatsoever

00:24:11in regards

00:24:11to what

00:24:12we feed

00:24:12our kids

00:24:13and if

00:24:14they want

00:24:14to eat

00:24:14kind of

00:24:15nothing but

00:24:16ice cream

00:24:17and sweets

00:24:18we should

00:24:18kind of

00:24:19just let

00:24:20them do

00:24:20that and

00:24:21kind of

00:24:22allow them

00:24:22to experience

00:24:23the consequences

00:24:25and kind of

00:24:26point those out

00:24:27to them

00:24:27and say

00:24:28you know

00:24:28maybe warn

00:24:29them ahead

00:24:29of time

00:24:30and say

00:24:30you know

00:24:30it's okay

00:24:31if you eat

00:24:32the ice cream

00:24:32but you're

00:24:33probably gonna

00:24:33have a stomach

00:24:34ache after

00:24:35and um

00:24:36do you have

00:24:38any thoughts

00:24:38about like

00:24:39because they

00:24:40kind of

00:24:40come at it

00:24:41from the

00:24:42angle of

00:24:43it's kind

00:24:45of uh

00:24:46a moral

00:24:47a moral

00:24:48thing

00:24:48like

00:24:48what right

00:24:49do parents

00:24:50have to

00:24:50kind of

00:24:51restrict

00:24:52kids

00:24:53from doing

00:24:54what they

00:24:55want to

00:24:55do

00:24:55we can

00:24:56we can

00:24:57teach them

00:24:57and we can

00:24:58guide them

00:24:58and give

00:24:59them advice

00:24:59but can

00:25:00we really

00:25:00force them

00:25:02to not

00:25:03eat certain

00:25:04things

00:25:04um

00:25:05if they

00:25:07really are

00:25:07set on

00:25:07it

00:25:08uh

00:25:08do you

00:25:08have any

00:25:08thoughts

00:25:09on that

00:25:09kind of

00:25:09frame of

00:25:10mind

00:25:10yeah

00:25:12i mean

00:25:13i i

00:25:13certainly

00:25:13have some

00:25:14trouble

00:25:14understanding

00:25:15it

00:25:15if children

00:25:16could make

00:25:17good decisions

00:25:17they wouldn't

00:25:18be children

00:25:18i mean

00:25:21children make

00:25:21bad decisions

00:25:22not not

00:25:23relative to

00:25:23children

00:25:24but relative

00:25:25to adults

00:25:25so parenting

00:25:28is the

00:25:28recognition

00:25:29that children

00:25:30are going

00:25:30to make

00:25:31bad decisions

00:25:32and then

00:25:32we teach

00:25:33them how

00:25:33to make

00:25:34good decisions

00:25:34and then

00:25:37when they

00:25:37consistently

00:25:37make good

00:25:38decisions

00:25:38we turn

00:25:39them loose

00:25:39on the

00:25:39world

00:25:39and then

00:25:40they you

00:25:40know

00:25:40we increase

00:25:41consequences

00:25:42and so

00:25:43on

00:25:43but i

00:25:45don't know

00:25:45what it

00:25:46means to

00:25:46force a

00:25:47child to

00:25:47not eat

00:25:48i don't

00:25:49know

00:25:49a bag of

00:25:52potato chips

00:25:53every meal

00:25:54right

00:25:54well

00:25:56you just

00:25:58don't have

00:25:58the potato

00:25:58chips in

00:25:59the house

00:25:59and if the

00:26:02child doesn't

00:26:02have access

00:26:02to the potato

00:26:03chips

00:26:03the child

00:26:05can't eat

00:26:05the potato

00:26:06chips

00:26:06now

00:26:06if

00:26:07we don't

00:26:08have bad

00:26:09food in

00:26:10the house

00:26:10is that the

00:26:11initiation of

00:26:12the use of

00:26:13force against

00:26:13children

00:26:13that's a real

00:26:14question

00:26:14yeah i would

00:26:18say it's not

00:26:19okay it's not

00:26:20of course it's

00:26:20not of course

00:26:22it's not right

00:26:22it's not an

00:26:23initiation of

00:26:24the use out

00:26:24it's an

00:26:24initiation of

00:26:25the use of

00:26:25force to

00:26:26not have

00:26:26any food

00:26:27in the

00:26:27house

00:26:27because kids

00:26:28got to

00:26:28eat but

00:26:28to not

00:26:28have bad

00:26:29food in

00:26:29the house

00:26:29is not a

00:26:30violation of

00:26:31the non-aggression

00:26:32principle and

00:26:33so on right

00:26:33so there's

00:26:34that

00:26:34now

00:26:35are children

00:26:38allowed to

00:26:40drink alcohol

00:26:40in this

00:26:41scenario would

00:26:42you allow

00:26:42your child

00:26:43to get

00:26:44drunk on

00:26:45a regular

00:26:45basis

00:26:46i haven't

00:26:52heard them

00:26:53make an

00:26:53argument to

00:26:54be fair but

00:26:55i i assume

00:26:56that they

00:26:56would not

00:26:57let their

00:26:57kids get

00:26:58drunk

00:26:59okay what

00:27:00if your

00:27:00child wanted

00:27:01to make a

00:27:02smoothie out

00:27:03of laundry

00:27:04detergent

00:27:05yeah i'm

00:27:10sure they

00:27:10wouldn't let

00:27:10their kids

00:27:11do that

00:27:11either

00:27:11okay

00:27:12what if

00:27:13your child

00:27:14wanted to

00:27:17take a

00:27:18blanket

00:27:18tie it

00:27:19into the

00:27:19shape of

00:27:20a parachute

00:27:20and jump

00:27:21out of a

00:27:21third-story

00:27:22window

00:27:22yeah of

00:27:26course not

00:27:27right

00:27:28what if

00:27:30your child

00:27:30wanted to

00:27:32eat lipstick

00:27:33i mean

00:27:33it looks

00:27:34like candy

00:27:35sometimes

00:27:35yeah definitely

00:27:41not okay

00:27:42okay so i

00:27:43mean the

00:27:43idea that

00:27:44you should

00:27:44not

00:27:45prevent your

00:27:46children from

00:27:47doing things

00:27:48is absurd

00:27:49i mean it's

00:27:51beyond absurd

00:27:52so this is

00:27:53as usual

00:27:54immature

00:27:55personalities

00:27:56overreact

00:27:57right well

00:27:58my parent

00:27:59was way

00:27:59too

00:27:59authoritarian

00:28:00so i'm

00:28:01not going

00:28:02to exercise

00:28:02any authority

00:28:03whatsoever

00:28:04which is as

00:28:06sensible as

00:28:07saying well

00:28:07my my my

00:28:09mother fed

00:28:10me too much

00:28:10food and i

00:28:11got fat so

00:28:12i'm going to

00:28:12starve my

00:28:13children

00:28:13like it's

00:28:15you've got to

00:28:16have the

00:28:16pendulum in

00:28:16the middle

00:28:17so as

00:28:22parents you

00:28:23should model

00:28:23good eating

00:28:24and you

00:28:24should have

00:28:25healthy food

00:28:26in the

00:28:26house now

00:28:27you should

00:28:28also of

00:28:28course give

00:28:30your children

00:28:30some exposure

00:28:31to treats so

00:28:32that they learn

00:28:32how to handle

00:28:33and manage

00:28:33them right i

00:28:35personally would

00:28:35not in a

00:28:36million years

00:28:36deny my

00:28:37child the

00:28:37pleasure she

00:28:38took when

00:28:38she was

00:28:39young and

00:28:39going out

00:28:40for halloween

00:28:40with friends

00:28:41because it's

00:28:43a blast

00:28:43so yeah

00:28:46there's going

00:28:47to be some

00:28:47uh i mean

00:28:50i don't know

00:28:51i mean treats

00:28:52anything that's

00:28:54that's edible

00:28:55without danger

00:28:56is to some

00:28:57degree fine in

00:28:58moderation right

00:28:59so is

00:29:01chocolate bad

00:29:01well no

00:29:04uh you know

00:29:05i mean dark

00:29:05chocolate has

00:29:06some health

00:29:06benefits you

00:29:07could argue

00:29:07but chocolate

00:29:08is not bad

00:29:09it's just too

00:29:09much chocolate

00:29:10right i mean

00:29:10even a couple

00:29:11of handfuls of

00:29:11potato chips

00:29:12not going to

00:29:12kill you you

00:29:13know that kind

00:29:13of stuff right

00:29:14unless it's

00:29:15pringles in

00:29:16which case it's

00:29:16like dear god

00:29:17how do they

00:29:17make them all

00:29:18the same shape

00:29:18what do they

00:29:19have some

00:29:19machine put

00:29:20saliva in

00:29:21them and

00:29:21then stamp

00:29:21them out

00:29:22it's like

00:29:22it's just

00:29:23weird to me

00:29:23so when it

00:29:25comes to

00:29:25parenting you

00:29:27model good

00:29:27behavior and

00:29:29then you

00:29:29progressively expose

00:29:30your children to

00:29:31tempting foods

00:29:32and you also

00:29:33show yourself

00:29:34saying no to

00:29:34tempting foods

00:29:35right every time

00:29:35you go to a

00:29:36restaurant they're

00:29:36like oh you

00:29:37guys want to

00:29:38see the dessert

00:29:38menu i'm like

00:29:39nope it's

00:29:41tempting right

00:29:41it's tempting

00:29:42so of course

00:29:45you have to

00:29:46have your

00:29:46children learn

00:29:47self-discipline

00:29:48children are

00:29:48not born with

00:29:50self-discipline

00:29:50and that's a

00:29:51good thing

00:29:51right because

00:29:52babies cry out

00:29:53for what they

00:29:54want without

00:29:55thinking about

00:29:55the mother's

00:29:56needs and that's

00:29:56how the baby

00:29:56stay alive

00:29:57that's serving

00:29:57the actual

00:29:58needs of the

00:29:58mother which

00:29:59is to keep

00:29:59the baby

00:29:59alive

00:29:59so the idea

00:30:02that you should

00:30:03not have any

00:30:03authority with

00:30:04your children

00:30:05is ridiculous

00:30:07because no

00:30:08child will

00:30:08survive without

00:30:09parental

00:30:09authority

00:30:10so i mean

00:30:13when you have

00:30:14toddlers you

00:30:15childproof the

00:30:16house right

00:30:17that's a

00:30:17reasonable thing

00:30:18to do

00:30:18because otherwise

00:30:21the toddlers

00:30:22can engage in

00:30:23some seriously

00:30:23dangerous behavior

00:30:24they can tumble

00:30:25down stairs and

00:30:26break bones and

00:30:27so on right

00:30:27so you i mean

00:30:28oh my god

00:30:30i'm i'm i'm

00:30:31confining the

00:30:32child like i'm

00:30:32imprisoning the

00:30:33child by putting

00:30:34a gate at the

00:30:34top of the

00:30:35stairs when

00:30:36they've just

00:30:36learned how to

00:30:37walk right

00:30:39you keep your

00:30:40kids safe and

00:30:41that's going to

00:30:41involve some

00:30:42authority so i

00:30:45i find this is

00:30:47uh fool both

00:30:48foolish and

00:30:49dangerous and

00:30:52i was it i

00:30:55remember was it

00:30:56dana martin or

00:30:57someone i mean

00:30:57she was on my

00:30:58show and she

00:30:58was like oh

00:30:58yeah if my

00:30:59kid wants a

00:31:00steady diet of

00:31:01chocolate every

00:31:01night they'll

00:31:02get sick of

00:31:02it well maybe

00:31:06i mean i i

00:31:07knew a family

00:31:08once uh their

00:31:09kid uh wanted

00:31:11to fall asleep

00:31:12uh drinking

00:31:14juice or apple

00:31:16juice i think it

00:31:17was and uh

00:31:20the kid ended

00:31:21up with uh

00:31:22eight cavities

00:31:24because you know

00:31:25the juice would

00:31:26all pool in

00:31:27the crooks and

00:31:28nooks and

00:31:28crannies of the

00:31:29teeth and it

00:31:30was horrible

00:31:31so no you

00:31:35have to your

00:31:36kids have to

00:31:36brush their

00:31:36teeth right

00:31:38your kids have

00:31:39to get up and

00:31:39move your kids

00:31:41can't stay hunched

00:31:42over all day on

00:31:44computers and

00:31:44tablets your kids

00:31:46have to learn how

00:31:47to read your

00:31:49kids have to

00:31:49learn how to do

00:31:50math your kids

00:31:51have to learn

00:31:51something about

00:31:52history and

00:31:52geography they

00:31:53have to know

00:31:53these things

00:31:54and my

00:31:56standard as i've

00:31:57said before is

00:31:58always and i've

00:31:59explained this to

00:31:59my daughter when

00:32:00it was age

00:32:01appropriate i said

00:32:02my job is to

00:32:04deliver you to

00:32:05adulthood well

00:32:08educated and

00:32:09healthy that's my

00:32:11job and i don't

00:32:14judge by whether

00:32:15you want things or

00:32:15don't want things in

00:32:16the moment what i

00:32:17judge is by what

00:32:18you will turn to

00:32:19me and say when

00:32:21you're 18 or

00:32:2119 or 20 now

00:32:23if you never

00:32:24learned how to

00:32:25read then you're

00:32:27gonna be 17 or

00:32:2918 maybe you

00:32:30want to go to

00:32:30college or maybe

00:32:31you want to do

00:32:31something like that

00:32:32and you won't be

00:32:33able to because you

00:32:34didn't learn how to

00:32:35read will you turn

00:32:35to me and say

00:32:36actually dad i'm

00:32:37really glad you

00:32:38never taught me

00:32:38how to read

00:32:39no of course not

00:32:41you're gonna have

00:32:44a job it's

00:32:45probably gonna

00:32:45involve some

00:32:45numbers right

00:32:46you're gonna make

00:32:47some change for

00:32:47people you're gonna

00:32:48have to add things

00:32:49up and have a

00:32:50rough sense of you

00:32:51know how much

00:32:51you're charging

00:32:52them and right

00:32:53so if you try to

00:32:55get a job in a

00:32:57service industry

00:32:58where you're dealing

00:32:58with customers or

00:32:59some other job where

00:33:00you might need to

00:33:00know numbers and

00:33:01you don't know any

00:33:02numbers they won't

00:33:03hire you would you

00:33:03sit there and say

00:33:04well i'm really

00:33:04glad now i can't

00:33:06get a job i can't

00:33:06go to college i'm

00:33:08so glad that you

00:33:09didn't teach me how

00:33:10to do numbers or

00:33:10read right

00:33:11similarly of course

00:33:14if i were to

00:33:15deliver my daughter

00:33:16to adulthood 50

00:33:18pounds overweight

00:33:19and she couldn't

00:33:22play sports and

00:33:23she couldn't

00:33:23attract a

00:33:24quality guy and

00:33:27she had trouble

00:33:27climbing stairs and

00:33:28she had trouble

00:33:29sleeping because her

00:33:30breathing would be

00:33:31off and she

00:33:34felt embarrassed and

00:33:35didn't want to go to

00:33:36pool parties and

00:33:37didn't want to go to

00:33:37the beach and like

00:33:38and i said well

00:33:39would you would

00:33:40you thank me for

00:33:40that would you

00:33:41like hey man i'm

00:33:42really glad you let

00:33:43me have all of

00:33:43those twinkies and

00:33:44ding-dongs when i

00:33:45was a kid no you'd

00:33:47be like why did you

00:33:47let me why did

00:33:49you let me do

00:33:50that so taking

00:33:52care of people's

00:33:53future considerations

00:33:54is really important

00:33:55i mean i exercise

00:33:59when i don't want

00:34:00to because not

00:34:01that i always don't

00:34:02want to but i

00:34:03exercise even when i

00:34:04don't want to

00:34:05because i want to

00:34:07take care of my

00:34:07future self you

00:34:10know my future

00:34:10self if i don't

00:34:12exercise my future

00:34:12self will not sit

00:34:13there and say hey

00:34:14i'm really glad our

00:34:15bones are brittle man

00:34:16that was a good

00:34:16call

00:34:16good job well

00:34:20done

00:34:21so yeah we

00:34:25take care of

00:34:25future selves

00:34:26and i would argue

00:34:28that it is actually

00:34:30close to and it

00:34:33depends on the

00:34:34severity but it's

00:34:34close to abusive

00:34:35parenting if you let

00:34:36your children get

00:34:37fat that's on you

00:34:40as the parent because

00:34:41you control the

00:34:41entire environment

00:34:42if your children

00:34:44don't exercise don't

00:34:45develop any basic

00:34:46physical skills

00:34:47like we all know

00:34:48like when i was

00:34:49in my teens we

00:34:50used to play

00:34:51soccer and we

00:34:51used to play

00:34:52baseball a couple

00:34:53of times a week

00:34:54just to pick up

00:34:54game and there

00:34:58were always these

00:34:59one or two kids

00:34:59had no physical

00:35:00coordination well

00:35:03that's not nice

00:35:03either i'm not

00:35:04saying it's abusive

00:35:04but that's not a

00:35:05good thing to have

00:35:08a kid who can't

00:35:09throw and catch or

00:35:09can't kick or

00:35:10can't you know run

00:35:11and kick at the

00:35:12same time who has

00:35:13developed physical

00:35:14dexterity and

00:35:15control over their

00:35:16bodies because you

00:35:16look like an idiot

00:35:17you look like a

00:35:19total nerd

00:35:19right i mean this

00:35:24is the less

00:35:24nest but in

00:35:25wkrp his mother

00:35:26forced him to play

00:35:27violin all day

00:35:28rather than doing

00:35:29any sports so he

00:35:30can't do sports

00:35:31he had no business

00:35:34being out there

00:35:35no business being

00:35:36out there that's

00:35:38bad man

00:35:39that's bad

00:35:42like if you deny

00:35:44your kid peer

00:35:44play

00:35:47right

00:35:48then they don't

00:35:49learn how to talk

00:35:50to peers they

00:35:50don't know how to

00:35:51make and take jokes

00:35:51they don't know

00:35:52how to do the

00:35:54back and forth

00:35:54they don't know

00:35:55how to lead or

00:35:56follow they or

00:35:57both both hopefully

00:35:58right so

00:35:59it's not good

00:36:03to not

00:36:05exercise any

00:36:06authority

00:36:07is cowardly

00:36:09and it is a

00:36:12withdrawal from a

00:36:13necessary responsibility

00:36:15as parents

00:36:16i do not i

00:36:18emphatically do

00:36:19not agree with

00:36:19unparenting

00:36:20and i have talked

00:36:22about this

00:36:22for decades

00:36:24i i emphatically

00:36:26emphatically disagree

00:36:29that is a form of

00:36:31neglect in my view

00:36:32and neglect is

00:36:32really bad

00:36:33your kids need

00:36:35guidance

00:36:36your kids need

00:36:39guidance

00:36:39i mean

00:36:42if you

00:36:44let's say you run

00:36:46your own business

00:36:46right

00:36:47and you have an

00:36:49accountant who does

00:36:49your taxes

00:36:50and you say

00:36:51hey

00:36:51um

00:36:52can i pay myself

00:36:54a bonus this year

00:36:55right now your

00:36:57accountant might say

00:36:58uh

00:36:59yes

00:37:00and you know

00:37:00here's how much

00:37:01you can do

00:37:02or

00:37:02or here are the

00:37:03consequences

00:37:03or your accountant

00:37:04might say

00:37:05probably not a good

00:37:06idea because of x y

00:37:07and z or whatever

00:37:07does your accountant

00:37:08just say

00:37:09well you know

00:37:10spend as much as you

00:37:11want

00:37:11and uh

00:37:12you know

00:37:13we'll see how it

00:37:13shakes out

00:37:14you'll learn

00:37:14through experience

00:37:16no

00:37:17right

00:37:19right you go to your

00:37:20dentist

00:37:20does your dentist

00:37:21just say

00:37:22oh just

00:37:22you know

00:37:23eat what you

00:37:23want

00:37:24you'll figure it

00:37:24out through trial

00:37:25and error

00:37:25no

00:37:26of course not

00:37:28i remember

00:37:30this is um

00:37:31uh

00:37:32back in the days

00:37:33of the

00:37:33don mills mall

00:37:34i don't know

00:37:34i was like

00:37:3513 or 14

00:37:36years old

00:37:36and i still

00:37:37vividly remember

00:37:38this and it

00:37:38actually did

00:37:39really help

00:37:39there was a

00:37:41woman

00:37:41who was

00:37:44uh

00:37:45at the

00:37:46behind the

00:37:46counter

00:37:46at a sort

00:37:48of walk-in

00:37:48dental place

00:37:49and i don't

00:37:51i honestly do

00:37:52not remember

00:37:52the conversation

00:37:53that led up

00:37:53to this

00:37:54but she said

00:37:56you have

00:37:57to floss

00:37:57you have

00:37:59to floss

00:38:00and it

00:38:03like kind of

00:38:04goosed me

00:38:04she was so

00:38:04emphatic about

00:38:05it and i

00:38:05assume that

00:38:06it's because

00:38:06someone just

00:38:07came in with

00:38:07truly wrecked

00:38:08teeth or

00:38:09whatever right

00:38:09and i

00:38:11remember

00:38:11someone on

00:38:12the fdr forums

00:38:13way back

00:38:13in the day

00:38:13saying like

00:38:14i have the

00:38:14price of a

00:38:15small car

00:38:15in my mouth

00:38:16because i

00:38:16didn't take

00:38:17care of my

00:38:17teeth you

00:38:17don't let

00:38:18you know

00:38:19experts don't

00:38:19tell you

00:38:20like do you

00:38:21go do you

00:38:22go to a

00:38:22nutritionist

00:38:23who just

00:38:23says yeah

00:38:24eat whatever

00:38:24you want

00:38:24figure it

00:38:25out you

00:38:25know do

00:38:26you gain

00:38:26weight do

00:38:26you lose

00:38:26weight do

00:38:27you have

00:38:27more energy

00:38:27just figure

00:38:28it out

00:38:28you go to

00:38:30a personal

00:38:31trainer does

00:38:31you say you

00:38:32know just go

00:38:32do various

00:38:33machines or

00:38:33don't do

00:38:34them or

00:38:34whatever and

00:38:35you go to

00:38:36experts for

00:38:37expertise so

00:38:37they save

00:38:38you time

00:38:38and you

00:38:40don't get

00:38:40injured you

00:38:42go to the

00:38:43personal trainer

00:38:43so he'll

00:38:44teach you

00:38:44proper form

00:38:45the proper

00:38:46amount of

00:38:46weights

00:38:47the diet

00:38:50and you

00:38:51know protein

00:38:51is a big

00:38:52thing apparently

00:38:52the diet and

00:38:53stuff that

00:38:53that you

00:38:54might need

00:38:55in order to

00:38:56progress

00:38:57you go to

00:39:00tutors so

00:39:00they save

00:39:01you time

00:39:01you go to

00:39:05coaches so

00:39:07they help

00:39:07you improve

00:39:08authority is

00:39:10everywhere this

00:39:10is like the

00:39:11old Bakunin

00:39:11thing right

00:39:12people say he

00:39:12was an

00:39:13anarchist he

00:39:13said people

00:39:14say I

00:39:15resist authority

00:39:15nonsense I

00:39:17fully accept

00:39:18authority I

00:39:18accept the

00:39:19authority of

00:39:19the shoemaker

00:39:20on how to

00:39:21make shoes I

00:39:21accept the

00:39:22authority of

00:39:23the baker on

00:39:24the best way to

00:39:24bake bread I

00:39:27just disavow

00:39:28coercive

00:39:29authority so I

00:39:32think unparenting

00:39:34is a

00:39:34chickening out

00:39:35and it is

00:39:36an overreaction

00:39:37to excessive

00:39:41authority is

00:39:42to have little

00:39:43to no

00:39:43authority and

00:39:45it leaves kids

00:39:46adrift having

00:39:46to figure things

00:39:47out for

00:39:47themselves which

00:39:48to me is

00:39:49foolish you

00:39:50don't just

00:39:51say to kids

00:39:52figure out

00:39:53language on

00:39:53your own

00:39:53figure out

00:39:54spelling on

00:39:54your own

00:39:55figure out

00:39:57how to read

00:39:57on your own

00:39:58figure out

00:39:58numbers on

00:39:59your own

00:39:59figure out

00:39:59diet nutrition

00:40:00exercise on

00:40:01your own

00:40:01no no

00:40:05not a

00:40:05thousand times

00:40:06no so

00:40:07anyway I

00:40:08hope that

00:40:08helps is

00:40:09there anybody

00:40:09else who

00:40:09had any

00:40:10other

00:40:11questions or

00:40:13comments about

00:40:14what do we

00:40:15do as

00:40:17a nutritionist

00:40:19and exercise

00:40:22mogul when it

00:40:23comes to

00:40:24trying to

00:40:24enjoy our

00:40:26day at the

00:40:26beach or the

00:40:26mall or the

00:40:28airplane or

00:40:30wherever because

00:40:31it's rough

00:40:32man it's

00:40:35rough you

00:40:40know if you

00:40:40are a lung

00:40:41doctor and

00:40:41you see people

00:40:42smoking it

00:40:43hurts your

00:40:43soul because

00:40:44you're really

00:40:44dedicated to

00:40:45keeping people

00:40:46healthy and

00:40:47it's rough

00:40:48man it's

00:40:49rough seeing

00:40:49that and

00:40:51you know now

00:40:52of course it's

00:40:52more rare to

00:40:53see people

00:40:53smoking in the

00:40:54past it was

00:40:55like half of

00:40:55people smoked

00:40:56and it was

00:40:57really common

00:40:58grease and

00:41:00in the

00:41:001950s was

00:41:02a tobacco

00:41:03smoke cloud

00:41:04with occasional

00:41:05patches of

00:41:06earth underneath

00:41:06so I don't

00:41:10know the

00:41:10answer as a

00:41:11whole and

00:41:12the answer is

00:41:12probably

00:41:12individual to

00:41:13some degree

00:41:14although I

00:41:14think there

00:41:14are general

00:41:15principles that

00:41:15work so I'll

00:41:16tell you my

00:41:16answer and

00:41:17if you have

00:41:18any thoughts

00:41:19about that I'm

00:41:20certainly happy to

00:41:21hear but

00:41:24yeah my

00:41:24answer is

00:41:26something like

00:41:27this well

00:41:31you spend

00:41:37your life

00:41:37trying to

00:41:38teach people

00:41:38about diet

00:41:39and exercise

00:41:39right in

00:41:40this analogy

00:41:41and there

00:41:43are people in

00:41:43your personal

00:41:43life who

00:41:44won't listen

00:41:45and then there

00:41:47are people in

00:41:48society as a

00:41:49whole who

00:41:49don't listen

00:41:50everybody knows

00:41:51that obesity

00:41:51is bad

00:41:52everybody knows

00:41:55that not

00:41:55exercising is

00:41:56bad for

00:41:57you and

00:41:59you must

00:42:01you must

00:42:02you must

00:42:03must must

00:42:04must to

00:42:05keep your

00:42:06sanity in my

00:42:06opinion right

00:42:08I know I'm

00:42:08saying to my

00:42:09you must and

00:42:09in my opinion

00:42:10but I'm I'm

00:42:11pretty solid about

00:42:12this on though

00:42:12of course I'm

00:42:13certainly happy to

00:42:13take counter

00:42:14arguments you

00:42:16must detach

00:42:17from the

00:42:22consequences of

00:42:24people's bad

00:42:24choices you

00:42:25must detach

00:42:26from the

00:42:28consequences of

00:42:28people's bad

00:42:29choices

00:42:29you have to

00:42:33discipline yourself

00:42:34to not care

00:42:37even about that

00:42:39which you care

00:42:40about enormously

00:42:40obviously I care

00:42:41about bringing

00:42:42reason facts

00:42:44empiricism and

00:42:45evidence and

00:42:46ethics to the

00:42:47world

00:42:47and I have

00:42:49of course talked

00:42:51to millions

00:42:52of people

00:42:53tens of

00:42:53millions of

00:42:54people directly

00:42:54indirectly

00:42:55thousands of

00:42:56people directly

00:42:56millions tens

00:42:57of millions

00:42:57or more

00:42:58indirectly

00:43:00how many

00:43:04people listen

00:43:05I don't know

00:43:08I don't know

00:43:09and I obviously

00:43:10I can't tell

00:43:10from the call

00:43:11in shows

00:43:11because the

00:43:12call in shows

00:43:12are usually

00:43:13people who

00:43:13didn't listen

00:43:14saying hey

00:43:14I didn't

00:43:15listen and my

00:43:16life kind of

00:43:16went bad

00:43:17well that's

00:43:19that's important

00:43:19but that's a

00:43:20self-selecting

00:43:20group right

00:43:21it's like the

00:43:22doctor saying

00:43:23man everyone's

00:43:23sick it's like

00:43:24no they just

00:43:24come to you

00:43:26when they're

00:43:26unwell right

00:43:27so a lot of

00:43:28people do listen

00:43:28of course I do

00:43:29get the messages

00:43:30of like hey

00:43:31here's my wife

00:43:31and kids

00:43:32or here's my

00:43:32husband and

00:43:33kids you know

00:43:33everything's great

00:43:34thank you so much

00:43:35right no need

00:43:36for call and

00:43:36show things

00:43:37are going

00:43:37beautifully

00:43:37because you

00:43:37know they

00:43:38listen to

00:43:38philosophy

00:43:39reason

00:43:39evidence

00:43:39UPB

00:43:40that kind

00:43:40of stuff

00:43:40RTR

00:43:41so it is a

00:43:46certain amount

00:43:47of self-discipline

00:43:48you got an

00:43:48uncle who smokes

00:43:49you tell him to

00:43:50stop smoking

00:43:50for 20 years

00:43:51and then he

00:43:52gets sick

00:43:52you have to

00:43:55discipline yourself

00:43:56to not care

00:43:56and if you're

00:44:04staying in that

00:44:05kind of relationship

00:44:06for whatever

00:44:06reason he also

00:44:08has to know

00:44:08if you don't

00:44:10listen to me

00:44:10I don't care

00:44:11right you're a

00:44:16diet nutrition

00:44:17guy your

00:44:18uncle is fat

00:44:18doesn't exercise

00:44:19and you say

00:44:20you need to

00:44:21lose weight

00:44:21and exercise

00:44:22I really

00:44:24strongly recommend

00:44:24that I'll help

00:44:25you out as

00:44:26best I can

00:44:26but if you

00:44:29don't

00:44:30I will not

00:44:32help you if

00:44:32you get sick

00:44:33not sorry

00:44:34not if

00:44:35when

00:44:35when you

00:44:36get sick

00:44:36just so you

00:44:39know

00:44:39right

00:44:39the price

00:44:41of not

00:44:41listening to

00:44:42me

00:44:42is my

00:44:43elemental

00:44:44indifference

00:44:45when bad

00:44:45things happen

00:44:46in other

00:44:50words

00:44:51if you

00:44:52don't care

00:44:52about bad

00:44:53consequences

00:44:54neither do

00:44:55I

00:44:55this is

00:44:58really

00:44:58foundational

00:44:58for me

00:44:59so I

00:45:00can go

00:45:00to the

00:45:00beach

00:45:01look around

00:45:02and be

00:45:02happy

00:45:03so I

00:45:03can see

00:45:03crazy people

00:45:04everywhere

00:45:04and be

00:45:05totally happy

00:45:06with my

00:45:06day

00:45:07I will

00:45:10not care

00:45:10about

00:45:12people's

00:45:13futures

00:45:13more than

00:45:14they do

00:45:14and of

00:45:15course the

00:45:16future

00:45:16becomes the

00:45:16present

00:45:17all too

00:45:18quickly

00:45:18I will

00:45:19not

00:45:19I will

00:45:19not

00:45:20care

00:45:21about

00:45:21people

00:45:21more than

00:45:21they care

00:45:22about

00:45:22themselves

00:45:22because

00:45:23that's

00:45:23just a

00:45:24recipe

00:45:24for

00:45:24getting

00:45:24the

00:45:24living

00:45:25shit

00:45:25exploited

00:45:25out of

00:45:26you

00:45:26forever

00:45:27and ever

00:45:27amen

00:45:27if you

00:45:31want to be

00:45:32fat

00:45:32and not

00:45:33exercise

00:45:33that's

00:45:35your

00:45:35choice

00:45:35I'm

00:45:36obviously

00:45:37encased

00:45:38and yanked

00:45:38along by

00:45:38your decision

00:45:39because of

00:45:39your consumption

00:45:40of my

00:45:40taxes and

00:45:41public

00:45:41health

00:45:42resources

00:45:43and dollars

00:45:43but

00:45:44if you

00:45:45don't care

00:45:46about

00:45:46your

00:45:46future

00:45:46I will

00:45:49not

00:45:49care

00:45:49about

00:45:51that

00:45:51future

00:45:52when

00:45:52it

00:45:52arrives

00:45:52oh

00:45:57I've

00:45:58been

00:45:58overweight

00:45:58for 40

00:45:59years

00:45:59my knees

00:45:59are

00:46:00killing

00:46:00me

00:46:00don't

00:46:01care

00:46:01I

00:46:03don't

00:46:03care

00:46:03this

00:46:04is a

00:46:05matter

00:46:05of

00:46:05self

00:46:05discipline

00:46:06it's

00:46:06really

00:46:07really

00:46:07important

00:46:07now

00:46:10if

00:46:11somebody

00:46:11has a

00:46:12health

00:46:12issue

00:46:12that they

00:46:13did not

00:46:13bring on

00:46:13themselves

00:46:14you know

00:46:15which is

00:46:1625-30%

00:46:17of the

00:46:17time

00:46:18health

00:46:18issues

00:46:19are not

00:46:19lifestyle

00:46:20related

00:46:20like

00:46:20three

00:46:21quarters

00:46:2170-75%

00:46:22of the

00:46:22time

00:46:22health

00:46:23issues

00:46:23are

00:46:23lifestyle

00:46:24related

00:46:24and

00:46:25an

00:46:25obvious

00:46:26lifestyle

00:46:26related

00:46:26right

00:46:27right

00:46:32if

00:46:33you

00:46:33love

00:46:34to

00:46:34speed

00:46:35on

00:46:36your

00:46:36motorcycle

00:46:37I'm

00:46:38not

00:46:38visiting

00:46:38you

00:46:38in

00:46:38the

00:46:39hospital

00:46:39if

00:46:43you

00:46:43do

00:46:43really

00:46:43stupid

00:46:44shit

00:46:44like

00:46:44you

00:46:44go

00:46:44rock

00:46:45climbing

00:46:45without

00:46:46a

00:46:46belay

00:46:46and

00:46:47you

00:46:47fall

00:46:47you

00:46:48break

00:46:48your

00:46:48leg

00:46:49I'm

00:46:49not

00:46:49coming

00:46:50if

00:46:56you

00:46:56get

00:46:57some

00:46:57ailment

00:46:58out of

00:46:59nowhere

00:46:59that you

00:47:00didn't

00:47:00cause

00:47:01that you

00:47:01know

00:47:01whatever

00:47:02right

00:47:02like you

00:47:02eat

00:47:03well

00:47:03you

00:47:03exercise

00:47:04and then

00:47:04you get

00:47:05some

00:47:05ailment

00:47:05hell man

00:47:06I've

00:47:06nothing

00:47:06but

00:47:07sympathy

00:47:07but it

00:47:13is a

00:47:13matter

00:47:13of

00:47:13self

00:47:13discipline

00:47:14to

00:47:17teach

00:47:18yourself

00:47:18to

00:47:18be

00:47:19cold

00:47:19is

00:47:20essential

00:47:20for

00:47:21keeping

00:47:21your

00:47:21heart

00:47:21warm

00:47:22because

00:47:24if

00:47:24you

00:47:24are

00:47:24open

00:47:25to

00:47:25everyone

00:47:25and

00:47:26their

00:47:26dog

00:47:27who

00:47:27makes

00:47:27bad

00:47:27decisions

00:47:28oh

00:47:29I'm

00:47:29a

00:47:30gambling

00:47:30addict

00:47:30man

00:47:30I

00:47:31need

00:47:31you

00:47:31to

00:47:31lend

00:47:31me

00:47:31money

00:47:31no

00:47:32hey

00:47:34I

00:47:34sympathize

00:47:35with

00:47:35the

00:47:35trauma

00:47:35that led

00:47:36to

00:47:36the

00:47:36gambling

00:47:36addiction

00:47:37but I've

00:47:37been

00:47:37telling you

00:47:37for 10

00:47:38years

00:47:38you've

00:47:38got

00:47:38to go

00:47:38to

00:47:39talk

00:47:39to

00:47:39therapist

00:47:40you've

00:47:40got

00:47:40to

00:47:40figure

00:47:40out

00:47:40how

00:47:40to

00:47:41quit

00:47:41this

00:47:41and

00:47:42you

00:47:42keep

00:47:42going

00:47:42okay

00:47:43right

00:47:43I

00:47:47don't

00:47:47care

00:47:47because

00:47:48you

00:47:48didn't

00:47:49care

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00:54:40fun

00:54:40of

00:54:40the

00:54:40engineers

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00:54:40being

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00:54:42to

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00:54:44felt

00:54:44very

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00:54:45you

00:54:46guys

00:54:46did

00:54:46have

00:54:46the

00:54:46significant

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00:54:47of

00:54:47actually

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00:54:48after

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00:54:49so

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00:54:49did

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00:54:50of

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00:54:52all

00:54:53of

00:54:53that

00:54:53I

00:54:53was

00:54:53trying to

00:54:54give a

00:54:54little

00:54:54laugh

00:54:55wherever

00:54:55I

00:54:55go

00:54:55and

00:54:55there's

00:54:56a

00:54:56certain

00:54:56amount

00:54:56of

00:54:56bitter

00:54:57truth

00:54:57in

00:54:57that

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00:54:58I

00:54:58have

00:54:58a

00:54:59history

00:54:59degree

00:54:59well

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00:55:01chief

00:55:02technical

00:55:02officer

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00:55:02software

00:55:03company

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00:55:04so

00:55:06if

00:55:09people

00:55:09take

00:55:10the

00:55:10pleasure

00:55:10now

00:55:11I'm

00:55:12not

00:55:12going

00:55:13to

00:55:13have

00:55:13sympathy

00:55:13for

00:55:14the

00:55:14pain

00:55:14later

00:55:15you

00:55:18know

00:55:18some

00:55:18woman

00:55:18has a lot

00:55:19of fun

00:55:19she

00:55:20sleeps

00:55:20around

00:55:21she

00:55:21travels

00:55:21on

00:55:22questionable

00:55:22dollars

00:55:23right

00:55:23usually

00:55:24cock

00:55:25surfing

00:55:25dollars

00:55:26right

00:55:26so

00:55:27some

00:55:28woman

00:55:28sleeps

00:55:28around

00:55:29she

00:55:30has

00:55:30a lot

00:55:30of

00:55:30fun

00:55:30she

00:55:31gets

00:55:31to

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00:55:33a lot

00:55:33of

00:55:33attention

00:55:34flirts

00:55:35a lot

00:55:35gets

00:55:36stuff

00:55:36paid

00:55:36for

00:55:36a lot

00:55:37of

00:55:38fun

00:55:38and

00:55:39then

00:55:39she's

00:55:40burnt

00:55:40out

00:55:41thousand

00:55:42penis

00:55:43stare

00:55:43in

00:55:43her

00:55:44thirties

00:55:44and

00:55:45it's

00:55:45like

00:55:45I

00:55:46don't

00:55:46I

00:55:47mean

00:55:47I

00:55:47told

00:55:47you

00:55:47not

00:55:47to

00:55:48do

00:55:48all

00:55:48of

00:55:48that

00:55:48stuff

00:55:48I

00:55:48told

00:55:48she

00:55:49was

00:55:49going

00:55:49to

00:55:49be

00:55:49bad

00:55:49for

00:55:49you

00:55:49I

00:55:51don't

00:55:57I'm

00:55:59not

00:55:59going

00:55:59to

00:55:59listen

00:56:00to

00:56:00you

00:56:00complain

00:56:00because

00:56:00you

00:56:01had

00:56:01fun

00:56:01you

00:56:05had

00:56:05fun

00:56:05it's

00:56:07like

00:56:07somebody

00:56:08goes out

00:56:08partying

00:56:09instead

00:56:09of

00:56:09studying

00:56:09for

00:56:10an

00:56:10exam

00:56:10and

00:56:11then

00:56:11they

00:56:11want

00:56:11to

00:56:12bitch

00:56:12and

00:56:12moan

00:56:12at

00:56:12you

00:56:12about

00:56:13they

00:56:14failed

00:56:14their

00:56:14exam

00:56:15it's

00:56:15like

00:56:15I

00:56:16don't

00:56:16care

00:56:16you

00:56:17chose

00:56:17to

00:56:17go

00:56:17out

00:56:17and

00:56:18party

00:56:18you

00:56:18chose

00:56:18to

00:56:18try

00:56:19and

00:56:19write

00:56:19an

00:56:19exam

00:56:19hung

00:56:20over

00:56:20and

00:56:22you

00:56:22failed

00:56:22like

00:56:22why

00:56:23would

00:56:23I

00:56:23like

00:56:24the

00:56:24guy

00:56:25I

00:56:25was

00:56:26in

00:56:28school

00:56:28with

00:56:29and

00:56:29university

00:56:29with

00:56:30who

00:56:31took

00:56:31a

00:56:32lot

00:56:32of

00:56:32uppers

00:56:32to

00:56:33write

00:56:33an

00:56:33exam

00:56:33and

00:56:34he

00:56:34thought

00:56:34he

00:56:34had

00:56:35aced

00:56:35the

00:56:35exam

00:56:35it

00:56:35turned

00:56:36out

00:56:36he

00:56:36wrote

00:56:36all

00:56:36of

00:56:37his

00:56:37answers

00:56:37on

00:56:37one

00:56:37line

00:56:38so

00:56:39all

00:56:39they

00:56:39got

00:56:39was

00:56:39a

00:56:40completely

00:56:40pen

00:56:41shredded

00:56:41and

00:56:41ink

00:56:41shredded

00:56:42one

00:56:42line

00:56:42that

00:56:42went

00:56:43through

00:56:43five

00:56:43pages

00:56:44but

00:56:44of

00:56:44course

00:56:44there

00:56:44was

00:56:44nothing

00:56:44to

00:56:45read

00:56:45so

00:56:45he

00:56:45failed

00:56:45like

00:56:51no

00:56:52sympathy

00:56:52I

00:56:53reserve

00:56:53my

00:56:54sympathy

00:56:54for

00:56:54the

00:56:54non

00:56:55self

00:56:55inflicted

00:56:55and

00:56:56the

00:56:56people

00:56:56who

00:56:56self

00:56:57inflict

00:56:57know

00:56:58that

00:56:58I

00:56:58don't

00:56:58have

00:56:58sympathy

00:56:59why

00:57:00would

00:57:00I

00:57:01why

00:57:02would

00:57:02I

00:57:02have

00:57:02sympathy

00:57:02somebody

00:57:03who

00:57:03goes

00:57:03and

00:57:04spends

00:57:04all

00:57:04their

00:57:04money

00:57:04and

00:57:04has

00:57:05a

00:57:05blast

00:57:05spending

00:57:07all

00:57:07their

00:57:07money

00:57:07and

00:57:09then

00:57:09later

00:57:09they

00:57:09complain

00:57:10about

00:57:10being

00:57:10broke

00:57:10it's

00:57:10like

00:57:11I

00:57:11don't

00:57:11have

00:57:11any

00:57:12sympathy

00:57:12I

00:57:13don't

00:57:13have

00:57:13any

00:57:14sympathy

00:57:14some

00:57:16guy

00:57:17who

00:57:17you

00:57:18know

00:57:18didn't

00:57:18learn

00:57:22tightrope

00:57:23walk

00:57:23of

00:57:23talking

00:57:23to

00:57:23girls

00:57:24in

00:57:24his

00:57:24teens

00:57:24it's

00:57:25like

00:57:25man

00:57:25I'm

00:57:2530

00:57:25I

00:57:26can't

00:57:26talk

00:57:26to

00:57:26girls

00:57:26it's

00:57:26like

00:57:27because

00:57:27you

00:57:27chose

00:57:28you know

00:57:29porn

00:57:30over

00:57:30talking

00:57:30to

00:57:31girls

00:57:31like

00:57:31you

00:57:33you

00:57:34avoided

00:57:34that

00:57:34pain

00:57:35you

00:57:35had

00:57:35some

00:57:36sort

00:57:36of

00:57:36satisfaction

00:57:37with

00:57:37your

00:57:38hand

00:57:38or

00:57:38whatever

00:57:38right

00:57:39and

00:57:39so

00:57:39like

00:57:39why

00:57:40there's

00:57:41nothing

00:57:41to

00:57:41have

00:57:43sympathy

00:57:43about

00:57:43there's

00:57:48nothing

00:57:48somebody

00:57:48some

00:57:49guy

00:57:49doesn't

00:57:49brush

00:57:49his

00:57:49teeth

00:57:50very

00:57:50well

00:57:50doesn't

00:57:50floss

00:57:51doesn't

00:57:51go to

00:57:51the

00:57:51dentist

00:57:52oh

00:57:52my

00:57:52teeth

00:57:52hurts

00:57:53like

00:57:53you

00:57:53know

00:57:53and

00:57:55and

00:57:57I

00:57:57don't

00:57:57like

00:57:57that

00:57:57and

00:57:58it's

00:57:59completely

00:58:00predictable

00:58:00so

00:58:04if you

00:58:05want to

00:58:05stay

00:58:05warm

00:58:06hearted

00:58:06to

00:58:06people

00:58:06who

00:58:07are

00:58:07suffering

00:58:08genuine

00:58:08misfortune

00:58:09misfortune

00:58:10is when

00:58:10you

00:58:10didn't

00:58:10do

00:58:10it

00:58:11yourself

00:58:11right

00:58:11misfortune

00:58:14is getting

00:58:15shot

00:58:15in some

00:58:16random

00:58:17drive-by

00:58:17in a

00:58:18decent

00:58:18neighborhood

00:58:18like

00:58:19just

00:58:19you

00:58:19caught

00:58:20a stray

00:58:20like

00:58:21couldn't

00:58:21predict

00:58:22it

00:58:22you're

00:58:22just

00:58:22out

00:58:22walking

00:58:22your

00:58:23dog

00:58:23weird

00:58:24bad luck

00:58:25coincidence

00:58:25right

00:58:26okay

00:58:26but

00:58:28somebody

00:58:28shoots

00:58:29themselves

00:58:29I

00:58:30can

00:58:31have

00:58:31sympathy

00:58:31for

00:58:31what

00:58:31might

00:58:31led

00:58:32up

00:58:32to

00:58:32it

00:58:32or

00:58:32whatever

00:58:32right

00:58:33but

00:58:33I

00:58:34can't

00:58:35I

00:58:36won't

00:58:37matter

00:58:38of

00:58:38self

00:58:38discipline

00:58:38you

00:58:38have

00:58:39to

00:58:39have

00:58:39self

00:58:39discipline

00:58:39because

00:58:40if

00:58:40you

00:58:40don't

00:58:40have

00:58:41self

00:58:41discipline

00:58:41people

00:58:42will

00:58:42just

00:58:42exploit

00:58:43you

00:58:43what

00:58:45they'll

00:58:45do

00:58:45is

00:58:45they'll

00:58:45have

00:58:46all

00:58:46of

00:58:46their

00:58:49they'll

00:58:50stay

00:58:50on

00:58:50the

00:58:50couch

00:58:51and

00:58:51all

00:58:51of

00:58:51that's

00:58:51enjoyable

00:58:52for

00:58:52a lot

00:58:52of

00:58:52people

00:58:52and

00:58:52then

00:58:53when

00:58:53their

00:58:53knees

00:58:54hurt

00:58:54and

00:58:54their

00:58:54back

00:58:54hurt

00:58:55and

00:58:55they

00:58:55can't

00:58:55sleep

00:58:55and

00:58:55they

00:58:56lose

00:58:56their

00:58:56job

00:58:57and

00:58:57whatever

00:58:57right

00:58:57they have

00:58:58health

00:58:58issues

00:58:59and

00:58:59whatever

00:58:59like

00:59:00gout

00:59:01or

00:59:01whatever

00:59:01it is

00:59:02like

00:59:02whatever

00:59:02that

00:59:02thing

00:59:02is

00:59:03that

00:59:03makes

00:59:03your

00:59:03cough

00:59:04swell

00:59:05up

00:59:05like

00:59:06a

00:59:06Schwarzenegger

00:59:07peck

00:59:07okay

00:59:08well

00:59:09was it

00:59:10red

00:59:10wine

00:59:11yeah

00:59:11you had

00:59:11a lot

00:59:11of

00:59:12red

00:59:12wine

00:59:12and

00:59:13now

00:59:13you

00:59:13got

00:59:14gout

00:59:14it's

00:59:14like

00:59:14well

00:59:15but

00:59:15the

00:59:16wine

00:59:16was

00:59:16fun

00:59:16wasn't

00:59:16like

00:59:16I'm

00:59:20not

00:59:20because

00:59:21to

00:59:21give

00:59:21people

00:59:22sympathy

00:59:22for

00:59:23their

00:59:23self

00:59:23inflicted

00:59:23wounds

00:59:24is

00:59:25to

00:59:25pretend

00:59:25that

00:59:26they

00:59:26didn't

00:59:27have

00:59:27fun

00:59:27before

00:59:28like

00:59:28you

00:59:29had

00:59:29fun

00:59:29now

00:59:30this

00:59:30is

00:59:30less

00:59:30fun

00:59:30I

00:59:33mean

00:59:34all

00:59:34my

00:59:34friends

00:59:35who

00:59:35didn't

00:59:36have

00:59:36to

00:59:36have

00:59:36two

00:59:37or

00:59:37three

00:59:37jobs

00:59:37when

00:59:37they

00:59:37were

00:59:38teenagers

00:59:38they

00:59:39didn't

00:59:39really

00:59:40achieve

00:59:40very

00:59:40much

00:59:40I

00:59:41think

00:59:41I

00:59:41have

00:59:41achieved

00:59:41a

00:59:41fairly

00:59:42good

00:59:42amount

00:59:42of

00:59:42things

00:59:43in

00:59:43my

00:59:43life

00:59:43and

00:59:46well

00:59:48they

00:59:49had

00:59:49easier

00:59:49youth

00:59:51and

00:59:51I

00:59:51have

00:59:52I

00:59:54wouldn't

00:59:54say

00:59:54easier

00:59:54necessarily

00:59:55but

00:59:55definitely

00:59:55a

00:59:55more

00:59:56rich

00:59:57and

00:59:58meaningful

00:59:58older

00:59:59age

00:59:59so

01:00:05it

01:00:05is

01:00:05an

01:00:05essential

01:00:06self

01:00:06discipline

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01:00:09get

01:00:09roped

01:00:10into

01:00:10the

01:00:10self

01:00:10pity

01:00:11of

01:00:11the

01:00:11self

01:00:11inflicted

01:00:12well

01:00:17I

01:00:19got

01:00:20COPD

01:00:20man

01:00:21says

01:00:21someone

01:00:22I

01:00:23told you

01:00:23to

01:00:24quit

01:00:24smoking

01:00:24yeah

01:00:25I

01:00:25should

01:00:25have

01:00:25listened

01:00:26yeah

01:00:26good

01:00:27luck

01:00:28right

01:00:32this is

01:00:33like the

01:00:33the story

01:00:34I talked

01:00:34about

01:00:34a year

01:00:35or two

01:00:35ago

01:00:36on the

01:00:36show

01:00:36about

01:00:37the

01:00:37guy

01:00:38he had

01:00:40his

01:00:40girlfriend

01:00:40she

01:00:41wanted

01:00:41to go

01:00:41to some

01:00:42really

01:00:43sketchy

01:00:43party

01:00:44in some

01:00:44really

01:00:44trashy

01:00:45neighborhood

01:00:45and he's

01:00:46like don't

01:00:47go man

01:00:47don't go

01:00:48do not

01:00:48go

01:00:49I will

01:00:51not be

01:00:51your

01:00:51boyfriend

01:00:51if you

01:00:52go

01:00:52I can't

01:00:53control

01:00:53you

01:00:53but I

01:00:53can

01:00:54control

01:00:54whether

01:00:54I

01:00:54spend

01:00:54time

01:00:55with

01:00:55you

01:00:55she's

01:00:56like

01:00:56okay

01:00:56right

01:00:57you

01:00:57make

01:00:57a

01:00:57good

01:00:57case

01:00:58I

01:00:58won't

01:00:58go

01:00:58so

01:00:58then

01:00:58she

01:00:59went

01:00:59she

01:00:59got

01:01:00sexually

01:01:00assaulted

01:01:00she

01:01:01called

01:01:01him

01:01:01at

01:01:01four

01:01:01in

01:01:01the

01:01:01morning

01:01:02sobbing

01:01:05because

01:01:06she

01:01:06was

01:01:06sexually

01:01:06assaulted

01:01:06and

01:01:07he

01:01:08broke

01:01:08up

01:01:08with

01:01:08her

01:01:08and

01:01:09everyone

01:01:09was

01:01:09like

01:01:09how

01:01:10could

01:01:10you

01:01:10break

01:01:11up

01:01:11with

01:01:11her

01:01:11man

01:01:11she

01:01:12suffered

01:01:12she's

01:01:12in

01:01:12trauma

01:01:13how

01:01:13could

01:01:13you

01:01:13how

01:01:13could

01:01:14you

01:01:14it's

01:01:14like

01:01:14she

01:01:15didn't

01:01:16listen

01:01:16he's

01:01:20not

01:01:20happy

01:01:20right

01:01:22nobody's

01:01:22happy

01:01:23with

01:01:23these

01:01:23situations

01:01:24but I

01:01:25refuse

01:01:25to have

01:01:25my

01:01:26good

01:01:26choices

01:01:26ruined

01:01:26by

01:01:27people's

01:01:27bad

01:01:27choices

01:01:28see

01:01:28you

01:01:29gotta

01:01:29guard

01:01:29your

01:01:30warmth

01:01:30of

01:01:30your

01:01:30heart

01:01:30and

01:01:30the

01:01:30happiness

01:01:31of

01:01:31your

01:01:31environment

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01:09:20around

01:09:20quit

01:09:20being

01:09:23lazy

01:09:23quit

01:09:24smoking

01:09:24weed

01:09:24quit

01:09:26not

01:09:26exercising

01:09:26quit

01:09:27overeating

01:09:28so

01:09:29it's

01:09:30fair

01:09:31right

01:09:33the

01:09:33hedonist

01:09:33does

01:09:33what's

01:09:33pleasurable

01:09:34for

01:09:34him

01:09:34and

01:09:37not

01:09:37taking

01:09:37care

01:09:38of

01:09:38the

01:09:39inevitable

01:09:39negative

01:09:40consequences

01:09:41of the

01:09:41hedonist

01:09:42lifestyle

01:09:43not

01:09:43taking

01:09:43care

01:09:44of

01:09:44that

01:09:44feels

01:09:44good

01:09:44to

01:09:44you

01:09:45you

01:09:45prefer

01:09:46not

01:09:46to

01:09:46he

01:09:47doesn't

01:09:47want

01:09:47to

01:09:48quit

01:09:48smoking

01:09:48you

01:09:49don't

01:09:49want

01:09:49to

01:09:49wipe

01:09:50his

01:09:50ass

01:09:50he

01:09:53didn't

01:09:54want

01:09:54to

01:09:54quit

01:09:54spending

01:09:54you

01:09:55don't

01:09:55want

01:09:55to

01:09:55give

01:09:55him

01:09:55money

01:09:56he

01:10:00did

01:10:00that

01:10:00which

01:10:00was

01:10:00easiest

01:10:01for

01:10:01him

01:10:02you

01:10:02can

01:10:02do

01:10:03that

01:10:03which

01:10:03is

01:10:03easiest

01:10:03for

01:10:03you

01:10:04which

01:10:04is

01:10:04say

01:10:04no

01:10:05don't

01:10:05want

01:10:05to

01:10:06don't

01:10:06want

01:10:06to

01:10:06sorry

01:10:07don't

01:10:07want

01:10:07to

01:10:07people

01:10:11indulge

01:10:12themselves

01:10:12and yell

01:10:12and scream

01:10:13and pull

01:10:13fits

01:10:14and boss

01:10:14and bully

01:10:14and then

01:10:16they end

01:10:16up

01:10:16alone

01:10:16it's

01:10:16like

01:10:17well

01:10:17welcome

01:10:21to the

01:10:22inevitable

01:10:22consequences

01:10:23of your

01:10:24own

01:10:24choices

01:10:24right

01:10:26you had

01:10:26some

01:10:26boyfriend

01:10:28or girlfriend

01:10:29back in

01:10:29the day

01:10:30kind of

01:10:30bullying

01:10:31kind of

01:10:31nagging

01:10:31kind of

01:10:32negative

01:10:32always had

01:10:33to be

01:10:33in the

01:10:33right

01:10:33never

01:10:33admitted

01:10:34fault

01:10:34they end

01:10:35up

01:10:35alone

01:10:35well

01:10:36you did

01:10:38what was

01:10:39easiest

01:10:39and now

01:10:40you get

01:10:41to live

01:10:41with what

01:10:41is

01:10:42hardest

01:10:42that's

01:10:43the deal

01:10:43that's

01:10:44life

01:10:46but it's

01:10:50a matter

01:10:52of self

01:10:52discipline

01:10:52you will

01:10:55see people

01:10:56everywhere you

01:10:57go

01:10:57making bad

01:10:58decisions

01:10:59and you

01:10:59don't let

01:11:00people making

01:11:01bad decisions

01:11:02ruin your

01:11:02good decisions

01:11:03I don't let

01:11:05couples who

01:11:06fight interfere

01:11:06with the

01:11:07happiness

01:11:07I have

01:11:08with my

01:11:08wife

01:11:08I don't

01:11:11I don't

01:11:13let people

01:11:14who don't

01:11:14exercise and

01:11:15overeat

01:11:15interfere

01:11:16with my

01:11:16happiness

01:11:17at being

01:11:18able to

01:11:18you know

01:11:19like I

01:11:20I had

01:11:21friends over

01:11:21in fact

01:11:23we're doing

01:11:23it later

01:11:23but I

01:11:25had friends

01:11:25over

01:11:25and we

01:11:26did

01:11:26two hours

01:11:27of hard

01:11:28sports

01:11:28fantastic

01:11:30I'm glad

01:11:31we can

01:11:31do that

01:11:31and if

01:11:38there was

01:11:38some

01:11:39person

01:11:39who was

01:11:39overweight

01:11:40and couldn't

01:11:41do it

01:11:41well

01:11:42but you

01:11:44enjoyed all

01:11:45the cheesecake

01:11:45and chocolate

01:11:46and cookies

01:11:47and chips

01:11:47and those

01:11:48things are

01:11:49nice

01:11:49I like

01:11:49cheesecake

01:11:50I like

01:11:50cookies

01:11:50I like

01:11:51chocolate

01:11:51I like

01:11:51chips

01:11:52but I

01:11:56say no

01:11:57to that

01:11:58which is

01:11:58easy

01:11:59so I

01:12:02can say

01:12:03no to

01:12:03those who

01:12:03never said

01:12:04no to

01:12:04that which

01:12:04was easy

01:12:05I mean

01:12:13you chose

01:12:13porn over

01:12:14talking to

01:12:14girls

01:12:14okay

01:12:15you've got

01:12:15a I

01:12:16guess a

01:12:17significant

01:12:17forearm

01:12:18you've got

01:12:18a Popeye

01:12:18forearm

01:12:19and you

01:12:20have no

01:12:20muscles to

01:12:20talk to

01:12:21girls

01:12:21well I

01:12:22mean I

01:12:22guess you

01:12:22can try

01:12:23you can

01:12:23start

01:12:23or whatever

01:12:24but it's

01:12:25not my

01:12:25business

01:12:25I told you

01:12:26to talk

01:12:26to girls

01:12:27you chose

01:12:28not to

01:12:28so now

01:12:30you can't

01:12:30talk to

01:12:30girls

01:12:31you know

01:12:34oh you're

01:12:34moving to

01:12:35Japan

01:12:35you should

01:12:35probably learn

01:12:36Japanese

01:12:36well I

01:12:36moved to

01:12:37Japan

01:12:37I didn't

01:12:37listen to

01:12:38your good

01:12:38advice

01:12:38and now

01:12:38I can't

01:12:39talk to

01:12:39anyone

01:12:39and I

01:12:40can't

01:12:40get a

01:12:40job

01:12:40it's

01:12:40like

01:12:41well

01:12:41I'm

01:12:42not going

01:12:43to give

01:12:43you any

01:12:43sympathy

01:12:43for that

01:12:44make

01:12:49your good

01:12:49decisions

01:12:49encourage

01:12:51people that

01:12:51you care

01:12:51about to

01:12:52make good

01:12:52decisions

01:12:53if they

01:12:54make bad

01:12:54decisions

01:12:55uncouple

01:12:56yourself from

01:12:56those

01:12:56consequences

01:12:57you must

01:12:58you must

01:12:59you must

01:13:00or you

01:13:04are no

01:13:04longer in

01:13:05control of

01:13:05your own

01:13:05happiness

01:13:06I'll tell

01:13:06you this

01:13:06man you

01:13:07cannot wrestle

01:13:07that steering

01:13:08wheel from

01:13:08my hands

01:13:09I will

01:13:09not

01:13:10you know

01:13:11Wikipedia

01:13:12bullshit

01:13:13lies

01:13:13slander

01:13:14deplatforming

01:13:15I will

01:13:16not

01:13:17let

01:13:17people

01:13:18take

01:13:21from me

01:13:21control

01:13:22over my

01:13:23own

01:13:23happiness

01:13:24I will

01:13:26not

01:13:27let people

01:13:28take from

01:13:28me

01:13:28my control

01:13:29over my

01:13:30own

01:13:30happiness

01:13:31I will

01:13:31not get

01:13:31into the

01:13:32car

01:13:32with a

01:13:33drunken

01:13:33person

01:13:33I will

01:13:35not get

01:13:36on the

01:13:36plane

01:13:36with a

01:13:37blind

01:13:37pilot

01:13:38I will

01:13:42not take

01:13:42diet

01:13:43advice

01:13:43from

01:13:43fat

01:13:43people

01:13:44I will

01:13:44not take

01:13:44workout

01:13:45advice

01:13:45from

01:13:46flabby

01:13:46people

01:13:46and I

01:13:47will

01:13:47not

01:13:48put

01:13:48my

01:13:49happiness

01:13:49in the

01:13:50hands

01:13:50of people

01:13:51who don't

01:13:51listen to

01:13:52reason

01:13:52because then

01:13:53my control

01:13:53over my

01:13:54own

01:13:54happiness

01:13:54is gone

01:13:56is gone

01:13:58I might

01:14:03screw up

01:14:04my life

01:14:04but I

01:14:06will not

01:14:06let other

01:14:07people

01:14:07who screwed

01:14:08up their

01:14:09lives

01:14:09screw up

01:14:09my life

01:14:10if I'm

01:14:10going to

01:14:10screw up

01:14:11my life

01:14:11damn it

01:14:11it's going

01:14:12to be

01:14:12on my

01:14:13terms

01:14:13I'm

01:14:14going to

01:14:14be the

01:14:14one

01:14:14who puts

01:14:16the car

01:14:16into the

01:14:16ditch

01:14:17not

01:14:17someone

01:14:17else

01:14:18and the

01:14:22only way

01:14:22I can

01:14:23have

01:14:23or maintain

01:14:24control over

01:14:24my own

01:14:25happiness

01:14:25is to

01:14:27uncouple

01:14:27my

01:14:27caring

01:14:27from

01:14:30people's

01:14:30bad

01:14:30decisions

01:14:31the only

01:14:36way

01:14:36I can

01:14:37maintain

01:14:37happiness

01:14:38any

01:14:39sense

01:14:40of

01:14:40control

01:14:40over

01:14:40the

01:14:40happiness

01:14:41in

01:14:41my

01:14:41life

01:14:41is

01:14:41to

01:14:41uncouple

01:14:42my

01:14:44emotions

01:14:44from

01:14:45people's

01:14:45bad

01:14:45decisions

01:14:45with

01:14:49the

01:14:49exception

01:14:49that

01:14:49it

01:14:50involves

01:14:50children

01:14:50I'll

01:14:51say

01:14:51something

01:14:51like

01:14:51if

01:14:51I

01:14:52see

01:14:52a

01:14:52parent

01:14:53out

01:14:53there

01:14:53yelling

01:14:53at

01:14:54his

01:14:54kid

01:14:54I'll

01:14:54say

01:14:54something

01:14:55but

01:14:56yeah

01:14:56other

01:14:57than

01:14:57that

01:14:57nope

01:14:58no

01:14:59no

01:14:59because

01:14:59the

01:14:59kid

01:14:59is

01:14:59not

01:14:59responsible

01:15:00has

01:15:02no

01:15:02control

01:15:03but

01:15:08yeah

01:15:08you

01:15:12must

01:15:12maintain

01:15:12control

01:15:13over

01:15:13your

01:15:13own

01:15:13happiness

01:15:14that

01:15:14is

01:15:14one

01:15:14of

01:15:14the

01:15:14most

01:15:14essential

01:15:15tasks

01:15:16in

01:15:16life

01:15:17is

01:15:17to

01:15:17maintain

01:15:17control

01:15:18over

01:15:19your

01:15:19own

01:15:19happiness

01:15:19and

01:15:20if

01:15:20you

01:15:20have

01:15:20people

01:15:20like

01:15:20let's

01:15:21say

01:15:21you

01:15:21got

01:15:21some

01:15:21girlfriend

01:15:21she

01:15:22keeps

01:15:22making

01:15:23bad

01:15:23decisions

01:15:23she

01:15:24won't

01:15:24do

01:15:24that

01:15:24she

01:15:24won't

01:15:24do

01:15:24that

01:15:25she

01:15:26won't

01:15:26take

01:15:26the

01:15:26SATs

01:15:27because

01:15:27she

01:15:27won't

01:15:28take

01:15:29a

01:15:29driver's

01:15:29life

01:15:29well

01:15:31deal

01:15:31with

01:15:31your

01:15:31anxiety

01:15:32or

01:15:32I

01:15:32gotta

01:15:32move

01:15:33on

01:15:33I'm

01:15:33not

01:15:34gonna

01:15:34sit

01:15:34there

01:15:34and

01:15:34be

01:15:34yanked

01:15:35around

01:15:35like

01:15:35the

01:15:35tail

01:15:35of

01:15:36a

01:15:36kite

01:15:36by

01:15:36people's

01:15:36bad

01:15:37decisions

01:15:37I

01:15:37will

01:15:37not

01:15:38put

01:15:38my

01:15:39happiness

01:15:40in

01:15:40the

01:15:40hands

01:15:40of

01:15:41people

01:15:41who

01:15:41don't

01:15:41listen

01:15:42to

01:15:42reason

01:15:42because

01:15:43then

01:15:43my

01:15:43happiness

01:15:44is

01:15:44out

01:15:44of

01:15:44my

01:15:44control

01:15:45and

01:15:46I

01:15:46gotta

01:15:46beg

01:15:46and

01:15:46plead

01:15:47and

01:15:48I'm

01:15:48a

01:15:48slave

01:15:48I

01:15:50will

01:15:50not

01:15:50be

01:15:51a

01:15:51slave

01:15:51to

01:15:51other

01:15:59decisions

01:15:59oh

01:16:05man

01:16:06I

01:16:06inherited

01:16:06some

01:16:07money

01:16:07and

01:16:07I

01:16:07blew

01:16:08it

01:16:08and

01:16:08now

01:16:09I'm

01:16:09broke

01:16:09don't

01:16:09care

01:16:10don't

01:16:11care

01:16:11what

01:16:11do

01:16:12you

01:16:12think

01:16:12I

01:16:12should

01:16:12do

01:16:12don't

01:16:12care

01:16:13you

01:16:16didn't

01:16:16listen

01:16:16to

01:16:16my

01:16:17advice

01:16:17before

01:16:17I'm

01:16:19not

01:16:19going

01:16:19to

01:16:19give

01:16:19you

01:16:19advice

01:16:20now

01:16:20no

01:16:21no

01:16:21this

01:16:21time

01:16:21I'll

01:16:21listen

01:16:21man

01:16:22this

01:16:22time

01:16:22I

01:16:22guarantee

01:16:23you

01:16:23I'll

01:16:23listen

01:16:23don't

01:16:24care

01:16:24it's

01:16:25too

01:16:25late

01:16:25like

01:16:29once

01:16:30you've

01:16:30blown

01:16:30the

01:16:30money

01:16:30you

01:16:30inherited

01:16:31what's

01:16:32the

01:16:32point

01:16:32of

01:16:32me

01:16:32telling

01:16:32you

01:16:33to

01:16:33save

01:16:33the

01:16:33money

01:16:33you

01:16:33inherited

01:16:34it's

01:16:34gone

01:16:34once

01:16:34you've

01:16:35blown

01:16:35the

01:16:35health

01:16:35you

01:16:36had

01:16:36by

01:16:37smoking

01:16:38not

01:16:38exercising

01:16:38and

01:16:39being

01:16:39fat

01:16:39then

01:16:41it's

01:16:41gone

01:16:42it's

01:16:44gone

01:16:44once

01:16:46you've

01:16:47destroyed

01:16:47your

01:16:47relationship

01:16:47with

01:16:48your

01:16:48wife

01:16:48what's

01:16:49the

01:16:49point

01:16:49of

01:16:49like

01:16:49this

01:16:49lock

01:16:50in

01:16:50the

01:16:50barn

01:16:50door

01:16:50after

01:16:51the

01:16:51horse

01:16:51has

01:16:51left

01:16:52right

01:16:52oh

01:16:56but

01:16:56you're

01:16:56so

01:16:56wise

01:16:56man

01:16:57this

01:16:57time

01:16:57I

01:16:57listen

01:16:57nope

01:16:58nope

01:17:00I'm

01:17:00not

01:17:00getting

01:17:00involved

01:17:00I'm

01:17:02not

01:17:02putting

01:17:02my

01:17:04happiness

01:17:04into

01:17:04your

01:17:04hands

01:17:05because

01:17:07you're

01:17:07a

01:17:07drunk

01:17:07blindfolded

01:17:08driver

01:17:08who's

01:17:10constantly

01:17:10feeling

01:17:12around for

01:17:13things in

01:17:13the back

01:17:13seat

01:17:14and

01:17:15playing

01:17:15with

01:17:15the

01:17:15radio

01:17:16don't

01:17:16do

01:17:16it

01:17:17I

01:17:17won't

01:17:17do

01:17:17it

01:17:17I'm

01:17:18not

01:17:18getting

01:17:18in

01:17:18the

01:17:18car

01:17:18I'm

01:17:20not

01:17:20putting

01:17:20my

01:17:20health

01:17:21at

01:17:21the

01:17:21mercy

01:17:21of

01:17:21your

01:17:22bad

01:17:22driving

01:17:22and

01:17:24I'm

01:17:24not

01:17:24putting

01:17:24my

01:17:24happiness

01:17:25at

01:17:25the

01:17:25mercy

01:17:25of

01:17:25your

01:17:25bad

01:17:26decisions

01:17:26did

01:17:27my

01:17:27mother

01:17:27make

01:17:27bad

01:17:27decisions

01:17:28after

01:17:28a

01:17:28truly

01:17:29terrible

01:17:29childhood

01:17:29and

01:17:29I'm

01:17:30perfectly

01:17:31clear

01:17:31about

01:17:31that

01:17:32did

01:17:32my

01:17:32mother

01:17:32make

01:17:32bad

01:17:33decisions

01:17:33has

01:17:33she

01:17:33ended

01:17:34up

01:17:34alone

01:17:34yep

01:17:34do

01:17:36I

01:17:36wish

01:17:36she'd

01:17:36made

01:17:36better

01:17:37decisions

01:17:37in

01:17:37the

01:17:37past

01:17:38of

01:17:38course

01:17:38am

01:17:39I

01:17:39going

01:17:40to

01:17:40go

01:17:40and

01:17:40fix

01:17:40things

01:17:40now

01:17:41nope

01:17:41I

01:17:42told

01:17:42her

01:17:43she

01:17:43needed

01:17:43to

01:17:43make

01:17:43better

01:17:52just

01:17:52read

01:17:52a

01:17:52book

01:17:52on

01:17:52stress

01:17:53management

01:17:53whatever

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