Second Date Update - Surprise DM

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4/23/2025

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00:08Right now, though, second date update.

00:10Trying to help out two people.

00:11Get them matched up on another date.

00:12We'll see if we can make that happen for Alicia and Brett.

00:16We have Brett on the phone.

00:17We have him on hold right now.

00:18Alicia was not able to get a hold of him, but we were.

00:20Thank you, Kevin.

00:21Good work.

00:22And let's bring him on and just see if we can get some answers out of him right now.

00:26Brett, you there?

00:27Hello, this is Brett.

00:28Hey, Brett.

00:29Appreciate you taking the time to talk to us.

00:32And I know you talked to Kevin off the air, and he kind of told you that he wanted to talk to you about a date you went on.

00:38Right.

00:38Yeah, so we want to talk to you about this girl, Alicia.

00:43Oh, man.

00:44You know, that particular Alicia is clueless.

00:47Let me tell you right off the bat, man.

00:50She's clueless?

00:51Yeah.

00:52Yeah.

00:53That, I mean, I had a great time and everything until I got home and I got a DM and my Instagram from her.

00:59And it basically actually said verbatim, great time, but not as good looking as I thought.

01:06That was it.

01:07She sent that to you?

01:09Yeah.

01:09I mean, why would anybody send, why would she send me that?

01:12Why?

01:13Why?

01:13Yeah.

01:14Oh, that's mean.

01:17Okay.

01:18Let me just get this straight.

01:18So you go on the date, you go home, you check your Instagram, you have a DM from her.

01:24And what does it say again?

01:25It said, great time, but not as good looking as I thought.

01:29That's it.

01:30Nothing else.

01:31Oh, my gosh.

01:32Well, I mean, I don't know why she'd be reaching out to us.

01:35Not making sense at all.

01:36She was not like, because she said she was into you.

01:38She had a great time and she wants to see you again.

01:41And I guess you said that as well on the date, but now it makes sense why you haven't reached out to her.

01:46I thought things were great.

01:47And then I got home and saw that.

01:49And I'm like, what the heck?

01:50I wouldn't call her either.

01:51Yeah.

01:52I get it.

01:53Well, here's the deal.

01:54This is going to get more awkward.

01:55Brett, we actually have Alicia on the phone with us and I'd love to bring her back on and get her take on this.

02:00Because that is really weird.

02:01Oh, boy.

02:03Do you care if we bring her on real quick?

02:06I do not care at all.

02:07Okay.

02:09Alicia.

02:10Hello.

02:11Yeah.

02:12What are you doing?

02:14You sent him a DM and said you're not that good looking?

02:19I think that was an accidental DM and I'm really sorry.

02:23Well, but I mean, you're calling us to go on a date with this guy.

02:27But apparently you meant to send this DM to somebody else saying that you're not that attracted to him?

02:33I mean, I meant to send that to my friend and it accidentally went to him.

02:39But, I mean, I did have a great time and I think you're really funny.

02:44And it was a good time, I thought.

02:47I just don't know how she can just talk as if that didn't offend me at all.

02:53You know what I mean?

02:54Like, let's just blow that part off and continue being nice to each other.

02:58Come on.

02:59Alicia, you're obviously disappointed in the looks department when it comes to me.

03:06How could that not offend me?

03:07How could you think that that wouldn't offend me?

03:09Well, looks aren't everything.

03:11I wouldn't take it too personal.

03:13I mean, I had a great time, you had a great time, and I think we could continue having a wonderful time together.

03:21And, I mean, what are you talking about?

03:25Look, I don't want to go out with someone who isn't attracted to me.

03:29I mean, I don't even think you know what you want.

03:33I don't really care that much about looks.

03:38You have a great personality.

03:40Right, so you're not attracted to me, and I should be fine with you being okay with my sense of humor when we go out if we're dating.

03:48I want mutual.

03:49That's what I want.

03:50I want mutual attractiveness.

03:52Well, I mean, I just don't think that attraction is always just physical.

03:58I'm not into you.

03:59You just seem clueless, man.

04:01You just seem awfully clueless.

04:03I apologize, but I can't be with someone like that.

04:06Wow.

04:06Yeah.

04:07Well, it sounds like this DM, Alicia, did some damage, obviously, and I kind of get where Brett's coming from in this case.

04:15I mean, if you tell someone that they weren't as good-looking as you thought, that is kind of a bummer to hear.

04:20So you can kind of tell or understand why he'd be bummed out about that, right?

04:24Yeah, I mean, I get it.

04:26But I wouldn't let it affect my whole life and my whole relationship situation.

04:33But was it a mistake, or did you send that to him?

04:37It was a mistake.

04:39Okay.

04:40You meant to send it to somebody else.

04:41Yeah, to my friend.

04:43Yeah.

04:43Okay.

04:44All right, Brett.

04:44I'm just going to leave this up to you, man.

04:46I heard what you said already, but I'll ask you still.

04:48Is this going to be a deal-breaker for you?

04:52Yeah.

04:52Talking about mistake, yeah, I think the whole date was a mistake for me.

04:56Okay.

04:57Oh, man.

04:57All right.

04:58Sorry that happened.

04:59Well, Alicia, you heard what Brett had to say.

05:01I'm sorry that happened.

05:03I'm sorry you guys aren't going to go back out again.

05:05This doesn't sound like a match, but I wish you both luck, okay?

05:09Good luck.

05:11Wow.

05:12I still don't think that she realized the damage that she did with that DM.

05:16Well, she kept saying, oh, looks really aren't everything.

05:20It's not a big deal.

05:21And I'm like, oh, my God, stop.

05:23Here, take this shovel.

05:24You're just digging yourself deeper into a hole.

05:26Yeah, big time.

05:27Oh, my gosh.

05:28Yeah, she was kind of pissed.

05:29I felt really bad for him.

05:31Yeah.

05:32But I don't think he really cared, though.

05:33I don't think he cared either.

05:34I think he had enough confidence to be like, whatever, just check.

05:38All right, let's see what you think about this.

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