Second Date Update - Shallow Jake

Beasley Digital

4/23/2025

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00:00Well, Stephanie really wants to see this guy, Jake, again.

00:02We're going to try to get them on another date.

00:04It's commercial-free New Country 99.5 QYK.

00:06We talked to her, but now it's time to talk to Jake because he's the one that went MIA after their date.

00:13Kevin tracked him down.

00:14We have him on hold.

00:15Let's just talk to him.

00:17Jake, you there?

00:18Yeah, hey.

00:19How's it going?

00:20It's going good, man.

00:21I know this is kind of a confusing phone call, and you talked to Kevin real quick.

00:26The rundown is we want to talk to you about a date you went on.

00:28Yeah, and we heard that you went on a date with this girl, Stephanie.

00:33You guys went out to eat.

00:35She thought you guys had a great time, and she wants to see you again, man, and we want to try to set that up for her.

00:40You're not texting her back at all or contacting her.

00:43What's going on?

00:44Not even that night when she would text you to say thank you.

00:47I can't even believe this.

00:49Are you kidding me?

00:50No.

00:51She really likes you.

00:53So what happened on this date or what didn't happen on this date that made you not want to talk to her anymore?

00:58Well, I don't know how to say this in like a pretty much it was like a blind date, you know?

01:07How was it a blind date?

01:08You guys met on Bumble, we thought.

01:10Didn't you see her photos?

01:11Well, I'll tell you this.

01:13We did match on Bumble, and I did like her photos, and she was super cute.

01:17Um, but let's just say in person, she didn't look like her photos.

01:25It's, uh...

01:27She changed her hair or something?

01:28She wasn't as small in real life as she was in the photos, if you know what I mean.

01:33Oh, okay.

01:34Like, too tall for you, or...?

01:37No, that would have been fine, but like, these photos look like they were about 30 pounds ago.

01:43Oh, no.

01:45Okay.

01:46Yeah.

01:47Okay.

01:48I was hoping he wasn't going there.

01:49But he did.

01:50Okay.

01:51Um...

01:52Wow.

01:53All right.

01:54So what?

01:54It was not who I matched with.

01:56It was...

01:57In person, she was just someone I wasn't attracted to, and I thought that was really messed up.

02:02Really messed up on her part, you're saying?

02:04Yeah.

02:05Who puts up photos where they're clearly not looking, you know?

02:09Yeah, but, I mean...

02:10It's like if I put up photos when I was 22 years old with a six-pack.

02:13It's just like, I'm 35, and I don't look like that now.

02:16Yeah, but, Jake, let's be honest with you.

02:17If somebody puts on, you know, a female puts on 20, 25 pounds, the last thing she's going

02:22to do is put up a new photo of herself.

02:24She's going to go with the picture that looks better.

02:26Mm-hmm.

02:27I mean, come on.

02:29Sure.

02:29I mean, and she has every right to do it.

02:32It's just, I don't...

02:33That doesn't mean that I need to like what I see.

02:37Okay.

02:38Well, this is going to get a little awkward, Jake.

02:41Stephanie is on the phone with us as well.

02:44Oh, my God.

02:45You've got to be kidding me.

02:46Yeah.

02:46That's how we got your number.

02:48We wanted to find...

02:49She wanted to know why you weren't calling her back, but we didn't know you were going

02:52to say that.

02:53Yeah, we didn't know that was where we were going with this.

02:56Just give us one second, Jake.

02:58Stephanie, are you there?

03:00I'm here.

03:01Yeah, you heard what Jake had to say.

03:03I'm sorry.

03:04I'll just let you respond to Jake.

03:06Oh, jeez.

03:10I'm really not sure what to say.

03:11Like, I mean, the pictures are me.

03:13It's not like I put up pictures of somebody else, but they're not all the newest.

03:18They're just like, when I made my Bumble, I put up pictures.

03:21It's been a few years, and I just never put up any more pictures.

03:26Which is normal.

03:26Yeah, I mean, I don't know how I'm even looked at as the bad person, because if I did the

03:31same thing, it would be, you guys would be all over me telling me that I messed up.

03:35You cannot deceive people the way that you did that.

03:38I thought I had a date with somebody else, and then you showed up, and, you know, it's

03:43just not what I set myself up for, okay?

03:46You sound so shallow right now.

03:48Like, I don't even look that different.

03:50Like, okay, yeah, I'm like a little bigger.

03:53But, like, first of all, okay, so this is radio.

03:55Nobody knows what I'm listening to.

03:56Let me set the record straight.

03:57I'm not 300 pounds, okay?

03:59I'm like, yeah, I'm a couple pants sizes bigger than my pictures.

04:03No one else that I've been out with thinks anything about it.

04:06Well, you fooled me because I didn't recognize you until you told me your name and introduced

04:10yourself to me.

04:12Okay.

04:13You are making a huge thing out of this.

04:14I don't look that different.

04:16Like, I don't know.

04:17I think that you're a little confused.

04:19I think that nobody's being honest with you, and then this is a little taste of reality.

04:24Wait a minute.

04:25Wow.

04:25This is going a little bit too far, JR.

04:28What are you saying JR for?

04:30I didn't do anything.

04:31Well, no, you need to stop this.

04:34Jump in, JR.

04:35JR, I get blamed for it.

04:36No, no, jump in.

04:38I'm just saying.

04:39This is, I mean, people don't look that different.

04:41You gain 15, 20 pounds.

04:43You don't change in your looks.

04:44I think you're being a little overdramatic here, Jake.

04:47Listen, a face changes when you gain 20 pounds, okay?

04:51Okay.

04:51All right.

04:52I'm still waiting for that.

04:53I'm going to go ahead and just stop this.

04:55Like, this is just, this is not what I expected.

04:59This is not, I mean, it's just, I, frankly, like, I don't want to talk to you again.

05:04I have my answer.

05:06That's all I needed from this.

05:07I'm done.

05:08We just don't need to talk again.

05:10Okay.

05:11There you go.

05:11That works for me.

05:12All right, guys.

05:13Well, thank you guys for coming on today, and I wish you both luck, okay?

05:17Thanks.

05:19Oh, man.

05:20How'd you get blamed?

05:22No, I was saying he needed to get in and, yeah, just, like, do something.

05:27I wanted to, I didn't know what to do.

05:29I just, all of a sudden, he kept going.

05:30So, anyway, that's...

05:32Well, that guy was a jerk.

05:34Yeah.

05:34Obviously not a good match.

05:35I'm sure people are going to have a lot to say about this one, so I want to hear it right

05:38now.

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