00:00All right. It is the second date update right now. We are trying to help out Brian. He has been out on two dates with Nicole. He wants to make it a third date. We're going to try to help him with that. Yes. But it sounds like they had a great time together. Yeah. And they even went back to his house, had a couple of drinks and everything was great. But he said I was a perfect gentleman. Yeah. Nothing happened. Nothing happened. And he's like and then she left. We were hoping to see each other again and she won't get back to me. OK. We have her on hold and we want to bring her on. She's heard us talk.
00:29About this date so far. Nicole, you there? Hey, I'm here. Hey, Nicole. You just heard us talking about your time with Brian. I guess he lives in downtown St. Pete. You guys did some bar hopping down there and then went to his place afterwards. But that's kind of where things ended for him. And he hasn't heard from you since you left there. And we kind of want to know what's going on. So what's the deal?
00:51I mean, you know, Brian was really he was he was nice and he's cute. But honestly, we went to his rooftop pool, you know, after we had a nightcap or two. And he offered me a bathing suit, not just any bathing suit. It was a youth bathing suit.
01:11Wait, what?
01:12His exes. His exes bathing suit that he still had at his house. And I was like, no, sir.
01:19What?
01:19Mm hmm.
01:20Wait a minute. He said you could use an ex-girlfriend swimsuit.
01:25Yeah. Mm hmm.
01:27Oh, yeah.
01:29What?
01:29I don't know. Yeah. Everything about that was just no.
01:33So he went and do a little night swimming and this was his idea.
01:36Yeah.
01:36Yeah.
01:37Gosh.
01:38Why does he still have it is what's weird to me.
01:41Why would he offer that to you?
01:43Everything about it was just so the worst.
01:46And so I know I wanted to work out, but I am.
01:50I'm just no.
01:51How fast did you get out of that place?
01:54Oh, my gosh.
01:55Yeah.
01:56OK.
01:58Well, we got to talk to him about this, Nicole.
02:00We have Brian on the other line.
02:02Is it cool if we bring him back in?
02:04Really?
02:05Yeah.
02:06Oh, my gosh.
02:07We're about to get confrontational.
02:11No, I'm not going to be confrontational.
02:12We'll kind of ask him about this if that's cool with you.
02:15Well, let me ask him about it.
02:16He needs to know everything about that is wrong and unhygienic.
02:21Girl, you have nothing to be ashamed of.
02:23OK.
02:24Brian, you there?
02:25Yeah, I'm here.
02:26I can't believe this.
02:28You're not talking to me because I offered you a bathing suit?
02:31Not with any bathing suit.
02:32Your ex's baby suit.
02:34And you thought you were, like, cool doing it.
02:36Ew.
02:37I'm so sorry.
02:38It was so funny.
02:38No.
02:39I'm doing you a favor.
02:40I thought we were having a good time.
02:41We're going to go swimming.
02:42And you needed a suit.
02:43I didn't think I was offending you.
02:45Like, what?
02:46I mean, you weren't offending me, but I am offended that you thought it was appropriate.
02:50Like, even just give me some, like, basketball shorts of yours.
02:53You know what I'm saying?
02:54Just be like, here you go.
02:55Like, your ex-girlfriend's bathing suit?
02:57Ew.
02:58Even if it had been new and I knew it was your ex-girlfriend, that would have also been,
03:02like, cringy.
03:03But use ex-girlfriend bathing suit.
03:07Like, I didn't watch it.
03:08It's clean.
03:09Ew.
03:09You can never get that clean.
03:11I'm sorry.
03:12I'm so sorry.
03:13Like, honestly, I really did have a super fun time.
03:16Like, we used to have really fun times.
03:18But, no.
03:18Like, that was...
03:19Yeah, I got to admit, that's pretty bad.
03:23You think that's crazy, too?
03:25I didn't even know it was a thing.
03:27I didn't even think about it.
03:28I thought it was helping you out.
03:30Anything ex-girlfriend is going to be a problem, I think, in the first place.
03:33And then a bathing suit on top of that is going to be a little weird.
03:36It's not like we were together a week ago.
03:38It was months and months ago.
03:39Who cares?
03:40If somebody gave me swim shorts when I went to a pool, I'd be like, thanks, bro.
03:44But I don't understand what the problem is.
03:46It's a little different for a dude, though.
03:47Oh.
03:48Why do you have it?
03:50Throw it away.
03:51Yeah.
03:52Throw it away.
03:53I didn't know it was a problem.
03:55So you're going to, like, totally disregard me.
03:58Throw me away after two great dates because I offered a swimsuit.
04:01I don't get this.
04:02This is crazy.
04:03It was a red flag.
04:05It was multiple red flags all at one time.
04:07I was not prepared for it.
04:09So, you know, it was fun.
04:11It was really fun.
04:12Like, we had a good time.
04:14But we had to throw that away.
04:16I'm confused.
04:17Was it red flags or was it a good time?
04:19It was both.
04:20That's what I'm saying.
04:21It was a good time punctuated with a red flag, unfortunately.
04:25But what happened is too much for you to go back out with them.
04:29I think so.
04:30Like, the second I was offered the ex-girlfriend bathing suit, I was like, oh, my God, where are my keys?
04:36Like, I was still on the roof.
04:38Don't blame you.
04:39I was still looking at the pool.
04:41I was still being like, oh, my gosh, should I get in?
04:43Should I not?
04:44And then it was, like, instantly, like, how do I get out of here?
04:47Yeah.
04:48I wish I could teleport.
04:49Yeah.
04:49That's one of those.
04:50That's a bit much, Brian.
04:51I'm sorry.
04:53So, Nicole, is this going to be a no for you for another date?
04:56It really is.
04:57I'm so sorry.
04:58And you know what?
04:59Keep your head up, Brian.
05:02It's a hard pass.
05:03Well, I mean, life lesson learned.
05:05I had no clue this was a big deal.
05:07Won't happen again.
05:09All right.
05:10Well, I'm glad you have a comment.
05:11You're still laughing about it, so you're not too bummed out.
05:14So, anyway, I appreciate you, Nicole, coming on with us this morning.
05:17Brian, sorry it didn't work out.
05:19And I wish you both luck, okay?
05:22Thanks.
05:23Wow.
05:24Dude, that is not the...
05:26Why would you think that that would be okay?
05:28I have no idea where he thought that was going to go right for him.
05:32I don't know many women that would be like, yeah, sure, I'll wear your ex-girlfriend's
05:36swimsuit.
05:37We'll find out right now.
05:38Anybody who would have been down for that or been okay with that or maybe not been a deal
