Second Date Update - Play Ball

Beasley Digital

4/23/2025

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00:00Lori has reached out today for the second date update.

00:02This is where we're trying to match her back up on another date with Jeremy.

00:06They've hung out one time.

00:07They went to Bonefish.

00:08She said things went great.

00:10He had great teeth.

00:11That was mentioned.

00:13Yes, it was.

00:14But she has not heard anything from him since this date.

00:17So we're going to try to call him right now.

00:30Hello?

00:37Hi, good morning.

00:37Is this Jeremy?

00:39Yeah, who's this?

00:40Hey, Jeremy.

00:41Sorry to bother you this morning.

00:42This is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.

00:46How are you doing?

00:47Good morning, Jeremy.

00:50Good morning.

00:52Random for a radio station to be calling you this early in the morning or maybe ever.

00:57But we wanted to see if we could talk to you for a second.

00:59And we'd be on the air.

01:01And it's actually about someone who's really, really complimentary of you.

01:05Would that be cool if we just asked you a couple questions about that person?

01:11Sure.

01:12Okay, great.

01:13So we want to talk to you about this girl, Lori, that you went on a date with.

01:16We heard you guys went to Bonefish, had a great dinner.

01:19She, like I said, was very complimentary of you, wants to see you again, wants to hang out again,

01:25but has not been able to set that up with you.

01:27What's going on?

01:28Have you kind of been avoiding her?

01:30Is there something that happened?

01:34Yeah, I have been kind of avoiding her.

01:37It was a nice date.

01:39She's a nice, she's, she's, she's a nice date to go on, definitely.

01:43But it just got a little weird at one point, and it just not really hurts for me.

01:49What got weird?

01:50Yeah, what happened?

01:52Well, she asked me to donate money to her daughter's softball fundraiser or something,

01:57and it just got kind of weird.

02:00So this is on the date and at the table at Bonefish, and she's like, hey, by the way, do you mind donating?

02:05Yeah, and she was super, like, nonchalant about it.

02:09She, she was asking me to donate.

02:12She was like, just 50 bucks, come on.

02:13And she got kind of pushy, and I don't know, I was kind of taken aback.

02:1750 bucks?

02:19Yeah.

02:20I was like, you don't know this girl.

02:22Yeah, I thought it was kind of weird and a bit rude because, you know, I'm, I'm paying for the day and taking her out.

02:28I don't really know her.

02:29I, you know, I don't know her daughter, obviously.

02:31So, uh, I just thought it was weird.

02:34That is kind of weird.

02:35Yeah, I don't blame you.

02:37Did you do it?

02:38Yeah.

02:39No.

02:40Oh, okay.

02:41Well, good for you.

02:41Standing your ground, I guess.

02:42Yeah, that is kind of weird, though.

02:45I mean, why would she ask you to, you don't even know her.

02:47Yeah, I thought it was just a bit strange, and she was pretty pushy about it.

02:54Like, she asked me, she said, oh, come on, it's like, for a good cause, and I don't know.

02:58It just felt like a, like a boundary pushing kind of thing, and just kind of cut me off, if I'm being honest.

03:04Okay.

03:05Bye, Jeremy.

03:06Okay, here we go.

03:09Um, Jeremy, that's Lori.

03:11Yeah, no.

03:12Hey.

03:13Pushy, huh?

03:1550 bucks?

03:16You can't cough up 50 bucks to help kids on a softball team buy some equipment?

03:22What?

03:22I'm a little shocked.

03:24What?

03:25Well, I'm a little shocked that you're not letting this go, and now you're calling the radio about it.

03:29But here we are.

03:30Because the date was so perfect, and everything went perfectly.

03:35I mean, I didn't push you after you said, no, you didn't want to do it.

03:38I just thought, you know, you needed more time to think about it or something.

03:41But, I mean, if the Girl Scouts come to your door and sell Ben Mints, surely you don't turn them down, do you?

03:48I do, yeah.

03:49It's just not really, not really my thing.

03:51I don't usually give up money to people I don't, I don't know.

03:53So, I don't know.

03:55We were on a date, and you made me feel obligated.

03:59It just made me uncomfortable, and I don't know.

04:02I mean, with the Girl Scouts, you get something in return.

04:04Yeah.

04:04To, you know, just donating.

04:06Yeah, were they selling, like, popcorn and candy or anything, or is this donating to a fundraiser?

04:12It's a donate, but you get to see the equipment and photos of them.

04:15I would bring them to a game.

04:17Like, what's not to love?

04:19Is this something you do with all your dates?

04:22No, it just happened to be top of mind when we were talking.

04:26We were talking about sports.

04:27We were talking about our kids, and it just came up.

04:31It was very happenstantial.

04:33It wasn't, like, something I had in mind to say.

04:36Yeah, it just made me uncomfortable, and I also wondered if, like, maybe you are doing

04:40this with other guys, trying to get money for your daughter's fundraiser.

04:45Oh, my God.

04:46No, no.

04:48It was just in the moment.

04:50Maybe he's not into kids.

04:51Who knows?

04:52Okay.

04:53Well, I mean, he's paying for the date, and now he's paying, you know, you're asking

04:56him for money for your daughter's softball team.

04:58I mean, it's kind of a lot.

05:00It's a little forward, right?

05:01Can you see how he might take it that way?

05:03I mean, I hear it in his voice now, but at the time, I thought nothing of it, honestly.

05:09Okay.

05:09So, Jeremy, that's good.

05:12She's kind of getting where you're coming from.

05:14You did say it was a good date.

05:16Would you be willing to hang out with her again?

05:18Because, you know, she's not going to be hitting you up for money anymore, I don't think.

05:22You know, I just don't think we're a great match.

05:27All right.

05:28It's got to be kind of awkward after this.

05:30I agree.

05:31It's awkward.

05:32Well, Lori, you heard what he had to say.

05:34I'm sorry.

05:34It's not going to be a match for you guys.

05:37But good luck with the fundraising.

05:39Do you guys want to donate to the softball fundraiser?

05:43You know what?

05:44We got your info, so maybe.

05:47But for right now, we just want to say thank you for coming on, and we appreciate you.

05:51Appreciate you.

05:53Yes.

05:53Thanks, Jeremy.

05:55That's completely inappropriate.

05:57I don't blame her for trying, but there's a certain place and time for that.

06:01Yeah.

06:01If you have kids in sports, you deal with fundraising.

06:04Yeah.

06:05Absolutely.

06:05But just you don't do it there.

06:07On a first date.

06:08No!

06:09And then she tried to get us to commit.

06:11What was that?

06:13I don't know.

06:15She's got no shame, no doubt about that.

06:17But that would be an awkward situation, someone pressing you like that on a date.

06:20Oh, for sure.

06:21Okay.

06:22If you want to weigh in on this, hit us up.

06:24800-992-1099.

06:26800-992-1099.

06:29Maybe you don't think it was inappropriate.

06:30We want to hear from you.

Second Date Update - Play Ball

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