Second Date Update - Law and Order

Beasley Digital

4/23/2025

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00:00all right we're trying to help out owen this morning on the second date update he has gone

00:04out with stacy and had a great time but has not heard from her since that date this is where we

00:09come in uh we have stacy on hold with us right now let's bring her on stacy you there hey guys

00:16hey thank you for agreeing to do this um i know it's weird but we wanted to talk to you about

00:22this guy owen that you went on a date with and we heard you guys went and got some drinks he had

00:28some really nice things to say about you but now he's been trying to get a hold of you to set up

00:32another date has been unsuccessful with that and we're just trying to figure out why that is

00:37i'll i'll be honest with you guys i think he's a total joke i just i don't really know why he

00:43thinks he should get to go out with me a second time i don't get it oh a joke yeah what happened

00:49he sounded like such a nice guy and he had a lot of nice things to say about you well yeah that's

00:55because i was totally up front about my life but he he totally lied to me about his job and what

01:01he does for a living well what does he do or what did he say he does his profile told me that he was

01:09that he's an attorney um but he is not an attorney he is a paralegal and he had like played it up

01:16like he's this big shot attorney at law and he's just not and i'm like what just there is no need

01:23to lie on the first date okay so he does work in a law office though he's in the courtroom close

01:29enough no he played it up like he was this big shot that he was the attorney and he he was talking

01:37about all the things that he did without saying paralegal until finally he like he slipped up and

01:41he could tell he's lived up and i was like wait so you're a paralegal i mean do you have a problem

01:46with that i mean doing that i mean that's a good job too i mean were you searching for a lawyer

01:51no but like don't lie on a first date like i would have i probably would have liked hanging out with

01:57you just fine if you had led with honesty but now i'm just so put off that he felt like he had to lie

02:03to make up for something it just it seemed like lying was easy to him and that he just like

02:09thought he should do it just to impress someone like i was just gonna say was he lying or was he

02:14just trying to impress you i don't care if he was just trying to impress me he could have impressed

02:18me by just being a nice honest person and going out with me like he didn't have to do all of it up

02:24but he did and he spent so much time like creating this idea around him being an attorney that he wasted

02:31time that he could have just been spending being honest with me okay well obviously he was a little

02:38misleading here and we do have owen on the phone with us and i'd like to bring him back on and just

02:44ask him some questions if that's cool with you i guess um owen hey so were you a little misleading

02:52when it came to what you do for work i mean uh i'm a i'm a paralegal but i do like 90 percent of

03:00their work and all the digging and all the hard stuff and they get to go to court and just use all my

03:04work like i i even write all the letters like i do everything so technically like not a lawyer yet

03:11but i i i do everything for them working towards that job are you oh do you want to be an attorney

03:17one day or yeah yeah yes yep assistant lawyer i just i just find it odd that um you know you know i i

03:25i just spoke about what i do basically i do the same thing as lawyers i didn't take the you know

03:31the exam at the bar yet or anything but i'm getting to that okay but your profile didn't say that

03:37okay well i mean you seem concerned about what like a lawyer makes or something you're concerned about

03:42money no no it's not it's not about money i know you can afford to go out and have drinks clearly but

03:48like it's it's just about it's about honesty because there's just no need to lie on a first date

03:54because then it seems like that's just second nature to you and then what can i expect going forward

03:59we talked about my work i didn't lie about anything i didn't tell you when we were together i said that

04:05i work at a law firm i didn't say i was a lawyer like i didn't just said we do a lot of work it's not

04:09that big of a stretch i don't know i didn't say i was a professional baseball player i mean

04:15it says where i work like i mean on your online dating profile does it say that you're an attorney

04:22technically yes but i mean it's just easier to say that what am i going to say paralegal for such

04:28and such and i do all their work like i mean i guess you could have they didn't have a drop down

04:34menu for that yeah yeah there's there's really nothing to say so it does say lawyer because it's

04:40just easier i just i just don't get it because starting out as lying is just it's just not a good

04:47start and also like i know what a paralegal is it was it's you don't have no but that's okay

04:54i i understand the job that you do but you misled me i understand the work that you put in

05:01but you misled me sure you were nice and you bought my drink but you misled me that's just that's

05:07where it starts i it's not a good start it's not a good book for you i don't care what you do or how

05:12nice you were you're you're a liar and i just i don't i don't play with that well listen stacy let

05:18me ask you a question you just said that he was misleading and you just said that he uh is a liar

05:23so i'm gonna guess that you're not wanting to go on another date with him now that you know what he

05:27does it doesn't matter what he does i don't want to see him again because he was misleading

05:31okay gotcha well guys i wish you both luck i'm sorry it didn't work out and you guys have a

05:37great day okay all right thank you all right see you do you really think it was that big of a deal

05:44um i think there's definitely a distinction between a lawyer and a paralegal i mean that's a big

05:49difference but he does work in a law office if that's what he would have said that would have been

05:53one thing i mean it's like if i said i have my own radio show i don't it was no it's not it's not

05:58the same at all uh no i i get what you're trying to say but i just feel like it's like in the same

06:06thing it's the same field no doubt about it it's the same field but it's just they're not a lawyer

06:11yeah he didn't go to law school he didn't take a bar exam but again it is an important job no doubt

06:18about it so i guess the bar exam is i guess the big deal yeah and law school yeah i kind of forgot

06:23about that part okay well and if you would like your own radio show all you gotta do is ask

06:29all right 800-992-1099 800-992-1099 uh would this have been a deal breaker for you

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