Second Date Update - Drama Queen

Beasley Digital

4/22/2025

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00:00But right now, you're trying to help out Patrick on the 7-15 second date update.

00:04He is very confused because he goes, I don't date a lot.

00:07And I went on a date with this girl, Stephanie, and she's really all I could hope for in a date.

00:13Yeah, and they went to Mellow Mushroom, and actually, it was a good question.

00:15You said, hey, because Mellow Mushroom's a casual place.

00:19It's not like a formal sit-down dinner type place.

00:22Do you think that was a problem?

00:23He said, no, I don't think it was a problem.

00:25I think it was a good spot.

00:27And we both love that place.

00:28It's delish.

00:29But now, I mean, he said he only called her once.

00:33He didn't want to be that guy.

00:34But now he's that guy on the radio.

00:36Yes, he is.

00:37All right, so we are going to try to call Stephanie and see if we can get her on the phone.

00:41Hello?

01:02Hi, this is Stephanie.

01:05Yeah, this is Stephanie.

01:06Hey, Stephanie.

01:07Sorry to bother you this morning.

01:09This is actually JR and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.

01:13How are you doing?

01:15I'm good.

01:15How are you guys?

01:17We are doing great.

01:18I'm assuming by your response there, you probably have heard our show before?

01:23I have, yeah.

01:25Okay.

01:25Well, we're doing something that we do on our show every day.

01:28And it's called the Second Date Update.

01:30And we talk to people about dates they went on.

01:32And there's actually a date we want to talk to you about.

01:35Is that okay?

01:35We talk to you for a couple minutes?

01:36Yeah, it's okay.

01:40But can I guess who it is?

01:41Yes.

01:42Ooh, here we go.

01:45Is this about some guy named Patrick?

01:47It's about the guy named Patrick.

01:49Yes.

01:50And Patrick reached out to us.

01:51That's how we got your number.

01:53And told us about your date in Clearwater at Mellow Mushroom.

01:56And he said that you were everything he could hope for in a date.

02:00And was very interested in seeing you again.

02:03And wants to set up another date.

02:04And we're going to try to help him out here.

02:06But we want to know what's going on with you.

02:07Because I guess you're a little MIA.

02:10Well, it would be him calling into a radio station, first off, to do this.

02:16But Patrick is a bit of a drama queen, I found out, on the first date.

02:20Really?

02:21Yeah.

02:22How so?

02:23I sat for an hour, pretty much a whole date consisted of drama that he was sharing just

02:32openly with me between his friends, between his sister that he hasn't talked to in a couple

02:37of years, and his work drama.

02:40It was just like, everything was just out there on the table, the very first 30 minutes

02:46within our date.

02:47So were you inquiring about these things?

02:50Or this was just like, I'm telling you everything about my life.

02:52Here we go.

02:54Well, like, I guess, like, for, I don't know, conversation starters, I probably said something

02:59like, hey, like, how many siblings do you have?

03:02Or like, where's your family live?

03:04Like, where'd you grow up?

03:05And, you know, what's like your friend circle like?

03:08I mean, all these questions, though, I wasn't asking to have like the full drama laid out

03:13that you have between these people.

03:15What kind of things was he saying?

03:16Like, his work drama between his co-workers, like, he feels like he has two that are like

03:22ganging up on him.

03:24And he feels like he's always like having a helicopter boss around.

03:29And just like, he doesn't get along with his boss that well.

03:33So just like these really incident things that he was, you know, saving no, like, he was

03:39comparing the drama of any of it.

03:41It was just so dramatic, like, to the point it was exhausting to hear.

03:45Yeah, it kind of turned into like a therapy session, huh?

03:47Yeah, that's what it felt like.

03:50Well, yeah.

03:50I mean, if someone just kind of just goes, all right, here's everything about my life

03:53and just spills everything about themselves to you, I guess I could see how that could

03:57be very, very exhausting.

03:59We actually have Patrick on the phone, Stephanie, with us.

04:02Like I said, that's how we got your number.

04:04I want to bring him back on and ask him about these things.

04:07Are you cool with that?

04:09Yeah, that's fine.

04:10Okay.

04:11Patrick.

04:12Hey.

04:13Did you kind of overshare a little bit, man?

04:16I'm kind of in shock right now because I wouldn't consider what I said overshare.

04:20And I was just kind of talking about my life and what I have going on.

04:24And honestly, I'm kind of hurt.

04:27Like, that really upsets me that you're going to call me a drama queen just because I'm not

04:31lying or holding back who I am.

04:34And I think that's not cool.

04:38I mean, yeah, I asked to know about you.

04:41And I was trying to get to know about you, but not to the extent where I needed to know

04:46about your strange sibling and just every piece of drama in your life right now.

04:51And so your solution is just to never say anything, just to ghost me.

04:55And just you couldn't even say, hey, you know, I don't think it worked out or I don't

04:59think the vibe's there.

05:00You just you wanted to leave me just kind of out there wondering forever what happened.

05:05So I don't I mean, that was your plan.

05:07I mean, you just should not be telling your problems to just anyone and you should reserve

05:15them maybe for when you get to know someone a bit better.

05:19We have been texting for at least a week.

05:21I mean, we were talking at least every day.

05:24And I thought I could trust you.

05:26I thought you were someone who actually cared.

05:29This is this is why I don't date often.

05:31This is why I don't go out there.

05:33I mean, this this really hurts.

05:35That's your problem right there.

05:37You said you can trust me after just getting to know me after one week.

05:41Like we just met and you should keep your problems a little bit closer to you, like

05:46shield them a bit more.

05:47It just it was just negative the entire way through the date.

05:51And I can't be around that negative energy.

05:54You didn't say anything the entire time.

05:57Why didn't you say anything?

05:59I was just reflecting back to you what I was hearing, just like as a therapist might do

06:04in a session, like that's what it was feeling like.

06:07Patrick, obviously, Stephanie felt like you overshared a little bit and you got the vibe

06:12that you could share all those things and you felt comfortable saying those things.

06:17I just think that maybe it was a little bit too much for Stephanie.

06:20But I'm going to ask Stephanie.

06:21Stephanie, is this something that's going to be a deal breaker for you?

06:24Or what if he reeled it back a little bit and you guys talked about more positive things?

06:28Would you be willing to go out with him again?

06:32Patrick still seems to be having a hard time, like, gauging that that's just too much information

06:37in one go.

06:38So I think I'm OK with the date.

06:41Patrick's a great guy.

06:42I'm sure you're going to do just fine with somebody else who could possibly help you out

06:46and kind of steer you in the right direction with each of your problems.

06:49But, I mean, I just can't.

06:50I don't have the energy right now, too.

06:53OK.

06:53All right.

06:54Well, Patrick, you heard what she had to say.

06:56We did get you an answer.

06:57I'm sorry.

06:57It's not the one you probably wanted to hear.

06:59But I encourage you, man, to get back out there.

07:02And thanks for coming on with us.

07:03I appreciate it, guys.

07:05Don't think I'm going to be going on any more dates anytime soon.

07:08But I appreciate you guys helping me.

07:09Well, never say never, man.

07:11Keep the faith, all right?

07:12I appreciate you coming on.

07:13You have a good day.

07:14And Stephanie, thanks for your time as well.

07:17Thanks, guys.

07:17Take care.

07:19Ah, man.

07:20You sound like a nice guy.

07:21Yep.

07:22But you know those people that you hang out with,

07:25and they just tell you every single thing that's going wrong in their life.

07:29And you're like, enough's enough.

07:30And it's like, man, I got my own stuff going on in my life.

07:33I know.

07:33I mean, geez.

07:34So I could see why she'd be super overwhelmed.

07:37Yep.

07:37Would it be a deal breaker?

07:39I don't know.

07:40What was your vibe on that?

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