00:00Well, this is kind of an interesting one because Kate and Carlos have been on three dates.
00:05So they did a lunch date, I think she said, a coffee date, and then they went to Sunset Grill in Ruskin.
00:11They both live down there.
00:12And they were excited to see each other again, we thought.
00:16But she has heard nothing from him since that third date.
00:19Yeah, and I mean, obviously, they're attracted to each other.
00:21And she said, yeah, absolutely, they've kissed.
00:23Nothing crazy, but she said they've just kissed.
00:26But she can't believe that after three dates, now she's not hearing anything from him.
00:30That's weird.
00:31I want to kind of see what's going on.
00:33Yeah, that's weird just to drop off like that.
00:35Yeah, after three dates.
00:36We're going to call Carlos right now.
00:56Hello?
00:58Hey, is this Carlos?
00:59Yeah, it's me.
01:00Hey, Carlos.
01:01This is J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 995QIK.
01:05How are you doing?
01:07I'm good.
01:09How are you?
01:10Good morning.
01:10We are doing great, man.
01:12You're probably trying to figure out what the heck's going on.
01:15So we do something called a 715 second date update.
01:17And we actually talk to people about dates they go on.
01:19And there's a date that we wanted to talk to you about because there's a girl who is really into you and had a lot of nice things to say about you.
01:27And we just wanted to see if we could ask you a couple of questions.
01:32Yeah, sorry.
01:33This is just weird and very random.
01:35I get it.
01:36Sure, why not?
01:37All right, great.
01:38I appreciate that.
01:38We want to talk to you about Kate.
01:40We know you guys have been on three dates, that last date being at Sunset Grill.
01:43And she is into you, man, and just says that you're very sweet, very good-looking, a gentleman.
01:52And, you know, you guys, like I said, have been on three dates.
01:55And after this third date, you've just dropped off.
01:57And she's super confused because she thought everything was going well.
02:01So what's going on, man?
02:02Why the disappearing act here?
02:05Listen, Kate is, she's a very nice girl.
02:09She's pretty.
02:10She's fun.
02:10But I don't know how else to put this.
02:14It's just not for me.
02:16Why not?
02:17She's a good time, but there's just not a connection there.
02:20You know, after three dates, like, it just wasn't clicking.
02:24You know, after the first one, yeah, first dates are awkward.
02:26Second, maybe, yeah, we only went to lunch.
02:29So maybe it was because it was rushed.
02:30But the third one, yeah, I don't know, like we kissed at the end.
02:33And there's just no spark, you know?
02:36And that's really it.
02:38There's nothing against her.
02:41But when it's not there, it's just not there.
02:43I mean, that's really it, though, man?
02:45Like, you're not just looking for an excuse not to call her?
02:47I mean, that really is something you did not feel a connection?
02:50Yeah, it's that simple.
02:52Are you dating anybody else?
02:55Nope.
02:56Again, she's fun.
02:57But our conversations are kind of more, like, just, like, friendly as opposed to, you know.
03:04You want fireworks.
03:05You want flames.
03:06You want passion.
03:08Yeah, right.
03:09You're not getting that.
03:10You know, it doesn't need to start there.
03:11But I think after three dates, just get some, I don't know, we'll stick with the fire thing.
03:16And, like, kindling should be going.
03:17And that just wasn't the case.
03:22So why not just tell her this?
03:24She's just really nice.
03:26And I just felt really bad.
03:28I know it seems kind of crappy.
03:31But it just, I didn't want to hurt her feelings.
03:33And it was just easier to, I guess, disappear.
03:36Well, I'm surprised you haven't asked us how we got your number.
03:39We got it from Kate.
03:41I know the show.
03:42I should have known.
03:42Yeah, we have Kate on the phone with us right now, too.
03:46I want to bring her back on the show because she got to hear what you had to say.
03:51Kate.
03:52Yeah.
03:53Hi.
03:54So I'll let you and Carlos talk, I guess.
03:57Well, it's so weird hearing that.
03:59Like, I just thought we had so much in common.
04:01Like, we just, we laughed.
04:03And I don't know.
04:04To me, it felt like it was going really well.
04:06I don't know.
04:06I feel like this can still work.
04:08Like, I guess we didn't talk about really deep stuff, like, that you connect on.
04:12But, I don't know.
04:13I was just trying to keep it light so we can talk about real things.
04:16I know.
04:17I know.
04:17And we did have a good time.
04:19It was fun.
04:19I was, like, hanging out with the friends.
04:21But I just don't see it going past.
04:24Well, but kisses are always awkward, right?
04:26So I just feel like, I don't know.
04:28I just think this can work.
04:29Like, I, it just, it just felt like we had too much in common.
04:34And it was too easy to, like, let this go.
04:37I don't know.
04:38I think we're just reading this situation in two very different ways.
04:43Again, you're great.
04:45And I'm sure you'll find someone great.
04:49But I just don't think that's, that's you and me.
04:53I just don't get it.
04:54I mean, I just think we had too much, too good of a time and we should just give it another shot.
04:59I don't see a point in dragging out the inevitable.
05:03Well, I mean, maybe now that Kate knows that you want to connect on a more, you know, a deeper level now, maybe another date would be a good idea.
05:11And you guys could, you know, talk about more serious stuff and really figure out if this is something you want to pursue.
05:15I mean, would you be willing to?
05:17He doesn't want to pursue that.
05:18I understand.
05:19But I got to ask this question.
05:20I mean, would you be interested in, you know, maybe trying one more date?
05:23You've been on three already.
05:25I mean, would you be willing to do one more?
05:26And we'll set you up.
05:27We'll pay for it.
05:28And obviously, Kate will be.
05:30I just feel like you won't regret it.
05:31Like, we'll have, I mean, we'll have another, we'll have like a good time.
05:34But maybe we'll add some drinks into the mix and see what happens.
05:38Probably.
05:39I, uh, sure.
05:43You know what?
05:43Okay, fine.
05:44Why not?
05:44You said it, right?
05:45We already, we've done three.
05:47Why not give it a fourth shot?
05:50Really?
05:51Yeah.
05:52That was kind of a 180 right there.
05:54Free drinks and a meal.
05:56Yeah, as soon as we said we were setting it up.
05:57Yeah.
05:58All right, Kate, you heard it.
06:00Well, it sounds good.
06:01It sounds good to me.
06:03Okay, great.
06:04All right, Carlos.
06:05You excited?
06:07Sure.
06:08All right.
06:10Well, here's what we're going to do.
06:11Here's what we're going to do.
06:12We're going to put you on hold.
06:13Oh, man.
06:13I'm going to get all your info.
06:14We will set you up on another date.
06:15We will pay for this date, and we'll see where things go.
06:18But you guys keep us posted, all right?
06:21Okay, thank you.
06:22All right.
06:22Hang on.
06:23I mean, I had to ask the question.
06:24I didn't think he was going to do a 180 on us.
06:27I thought he was going to say no.
06:28I thought I, there's no way they're going out.
06:30He's going to cancel.
06:31Yeah.
06:31You think so?
06:31He was just doing it.
06:32I don't even know if it's a good idea on her part to go on another date, get her hopes
06:36up again.
06:36She sure was very pushy on this.
06:39Well, she really likes him.
06:41I mean, I get that.
06:42Yeah, but you don't.
06:43She was like practically begging him to go out with her again.
06:46I'm like, if some dude's not calling you back and he says to everybody, I wasn't feeling
