Red Flag Friend

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4/22/2025

Red Flag Friend

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00:00All right, we're talking about our 7-15 second date update today between Mark and Jenna.

00:04If you didn't hear this one, definitely worth a listen to because they met at a bar.

00:09They kind of hit it off and then something happened at that bar that night

00:14and they never ended up going out on a date.

00:16And this is just, I feel really bad for Jenna.

00:19So, but I don't even know if I really believe Mark.

00:22I think there's something else going on.

00:24I don't know. You tell us. Leave a comment below.

00:26Well, interesting. Jenna and Mark actually met out at Gaspar's Grotto in Ybor.

00:31She was with her friends. He was with his friends.

00:34And they've actually never been on a one-on-one date.

00:36But they had some private time as they were out at the bar.

00:40Yeah, she was like, it kind of felt like a date because we were kind of off on our own.

00:44He was buying me drinks. She was like, I gave him my number.

00:46I mean, she was kind of basically saying they were both very interested in each other.

00:51They left separately and she's been trying to hit him up to go on another date.

00:56She doesn't learn anything.

00:57And I'm like, well, maybe as a girlfriend, did you stalk his Facebook?

01:00And she said, yeah, she did.

01:01She's quote, unquote, I'm definitely a stalker.

01:04Yes.

01:04That's what she said.

01:05All right.

01:06So we actually have Mark on the phone with us.

01:10Kevin got a hold of him and we asked him if it was okay to talk to him on the air.

01:13So we're going to ask him about this as well.

01:14Mark, you there?

01:16Yeah. Hi.

01:17Hey, Mark.

01:18I know you talked to Kevin.

01:19I appreciate you coming on with us.

01:21You know that we want to talk to you about a date, right?

01:23Yeah.

01:24What's going on here?

01:25All right.

01:25Well, I guess it's not really a date.

01:26It's actually about someone you met.

01:28We're talking about Jenna.

01:29You met her at Gaspar's Grotto?

01:32Oh, yeah.

01:33Yeah.

01:33So she said you guys really got along and she said that you guys kind of had like your own

01:38time off to the side and we're talking and you guys were talking about going on a real

01:42one-on-one date.

01:43But that hasn't happened because she hasn't heard from you since that day meeting you.

01:48And we're kind of like, what happened?

01:50Because it seemed like you guys were really into each other, if that's an accurate depiction

01:53of what she said.

01:54Oh, yeah.

01:56You know, look, here's the thing.

01:57I'm somebody who doesn't always pay the best attention to like red flags.

02:03But this one, I don't know.

02:04It kind of stood out.

02:05All right.

02:05So from meeting her at a bar, you already got a red flag, but you still gave her your number.

02:11I'm kind of confused by that.

02:12What was the red flag?

02:12I feel weird.

02:16Well, Mark, I will just tell you, obviously, we got your number from somebody and that

02:19somebody was Jenna.

02:20So whatever it is, I mean, she's okay hearing it from you.

02:23I mean, we're looking for an answer.

02:25So, yeah.

02:25What was that red flag?

02:27All right.

02:27So her friend grabbed me and kind of pulled me aside as we were leaving and said that she

02:34does this every weekend.

02:35You know, she kind of like connects with a guy and he's the one and how it's like kismet.

02:41And then, you know, she dates a lot and it's always like this.

02:45And she, you know, she was really sweet.

02:47She was like, you seem nice.

02:48I just wanted to let you know that this is something that happens a lot with her.

02:53Well, it sounds like the friend is moving in.

02:55That's what I thought, too.

02:56I was like, is this like some weird like competition?

02:59Yeah.

03:00But no, the friend was just like, you know, kind of dropped the bomb and walked off.

03:06So she's like, hey, I just want to give you a heads up about my friend that she's kind

03:10of someone who dates quite a bit type of thing.

03:12Yeah.

03:13I mean, it seemed like she kind of like saw what was going on and saw that we were like

03:17kind of, you know, and that I was into it.

03:19You know, I was digging her and then she kind of wanted to make sure I was aware of the

03:23whole situation.

03:24So Jenna doesn't know that her friend grabbed you and pulled you aside and was telling her

03:28a bunch of stuff about her.

03:29She has no idea.

03:32No, no, I felt weird.

03:35Well, here's the thing, Mark.

03:36We actually obviously we got your number from Jenna.

03:38She's on the phone with us as well.

03:39So she heard all that.

03:40But she wanted to know.

03:41I got to tell you, she wanted to know.

03:42So Jenna, I mean, I'm just sitting here like absolutely floored.

03:49Yeah, you got some bad friends.

03:50Well, hold on.

03:51Seriously, like that's insane.

03:53Mark, which one of my friends told you that?

03:55Seriously.

03:56Look, I'm not I'm not getting involved in that.

03:59No, no, thanks.

04:01No, I mean, seriously, like I have a right to know.

04:04I really do have a right to know who is saying like all of this like BS about me.

04:10So I'm sorry if this causes any sort of drama.

04:12I'm not about that.

04:13But the friend gave me some examples, too.

04:15Who said it?

04:16Okay.

04:17Examples?

04:17I don't know.

04:18They didn't tell me their name.

04:19She didn't say her name.

04:20So I don't know.

04:21What'd she look like?

04:23Okay.

04:23I'm not I'm not doing a police lineup.

04:26Okay.

04:27I'm not.

04:27I don't I don't I don't want to be interrogated about your friend.

04:30Okay.

04:31She's your friend.

04:32Take care of your own.

04:33Seriously.

04:33Like, I have a right to know more.

04:35Like, just just tell me what she looks like.

04:37I don't it's not that big of a deal.

04:39Jenna, I don't know if he's going to tell you.

04:41Like, so someone says something random to you, but you spoke to me the whole night and

04:46had fun with me.

04:47Like, and you're not getting back to me because of what someone random says.

04:51Like, it just doesn't make sense.

04:53Well, but it's not what someone random said.

04:55It's what your friend said.

04:57It's not like somebody at the bar pulled me aside, some stranger.

04:59It was the person who you came with.

05:02But I'm saying it's not someone that you know.

05:04Exactly.

05:05It's someone you know.

05:06It's just not true.

05:07So I don't know why you would believe what someone would say over what I would say.

05:13Like, you didn't really talk to my friends.

05:15Yeah, but really, we don't know each other.

05:17And like, it's just we it's just the fact that they did it.

05:20The fact that your friend did that.

05:23That's drama.

05:23That's that's like, look, I don't want to be on a reality show.

05:26You know what I mean?

05:27I just want to I'm a pretty laid back guy.

05:29I just don't want any part of that.

05:31I'm sorry.

05:32I'm for it.

05:33I really like I really need to know who said this about me because I need to just

05:37cut them out of my life.

05:38This is ridiculous.

05:40But someone would lie about me, you know, Mark, would you be willing to find out for

05:46yourself if this is true?

05:47I mean, I have to ask that question.

05:49I mean, what if you went on one date with Jenna one on one and you found out for yourself?

05:53Would you be willing to do that?

05:55Look, the whole situation has kind of thrown me off.

05:58Look, I believe you.

06:00I'll take your word for it that you're you're not like that.

06:02But I'm good.

06:04OK, well, Jenna, I am sorry that Mark is not willing to go back on another date.

06:09It sounds like you maybe get some calls to make and some texts to shoot to some of your

06:13friends.

06:13She's going to be on the phone all day with her girlfriend.

06:16So I'm finding out who said this.

06:17Mark, thanks for the time.

06:18And Jenna, thanks for your time as well.

06:20And I wish you both luck in your dating lives.

06:22Thanks, guys.

06:23All right.

06:24See you guys.

06:24That's a bummer, man.

06:25I would be so upset if one of my friends.

06:28I mean, I'm sitting there talking to some guy all night and I, you know, I'm like, oh,

06:31I'm really excited to go out with them and then my friend walks over there and spills

06:34a bunch of lies.

06:35I mean, you don't do that to your girlfriends or or was she telling the truth?

06:40But who is she friends with?

06:41She's friends with her, not him.

06:43I know.

06:43Oh, no, absolutely.

06:44Loyalty has been betrayed big time.

06:46Yeah.

06:47I want to know what you think.

06:47Eight hundred nine nine to ten nine eight hundred nine to ten nine.

06:51Should he have just trusted Jenna or should he have definitely taken that warning?

06:55We don't know right now.

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