- 4/22/2025
Therapy Thursday: Would You Want Your Daughter To Get A Butt Lift?
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00:00to hollywood upstairs medical college too which therapist you need therapy thursday now on wild
00:0594.1 right now it is therapy thursday time if something is on your mind like i needed a little
00:11therapy a few minutes ago and getting it out there helped me out a lot i feel a lot better you can
00:15hear it in my voice uh so now it's on you 888-429-0941 you can call us or you can text us
00:22let us know which therapist meredith or myself you have a question for and we will give you 60
00:27seconds of brilliance first one that came in is for you meredith okay it says my 22 year old daughter
00:33wants to get her butt done the brazilian butt lift thing i know i can't stop her because she's old
00:39enough but i'm worried it will change her personality do you think that is a thing uh yeah it's a thing
00:45getting your getting anything done on your body could definitely change how you act how you perceive
00:51yourself um you know the new photo shoot she could potentially be doing photo shoot you know she's
00:57not going to change who she is deep down inside but she just may be more confident um listen i wish
01:03that i had a butt i i am just the average white girl with no not much working back there and i think
01:09about it you married i'm just average but you know we're talking bbls here and i if i had i can only
01:14imagine what that would be like to wake up the next day and then all of a sudden you have a nice
01:18round derriere back there you know what we uh we know somebody who got one done yes and this isn't
01:25what you're gonna want to hear but it seems like it totally changed her personality totally change
01:30her personality from far away the pictures that she posts now compared to the pictures that she
01:35posted before yeah is night and day well she uh lingerie photos lingerie photos got a new job
01:42where she gets to show that bbl off every night yeah so i mean is as much as you probably don't want
01:49to hear this i think that your concerns are valid i really i really do so would you tell your daughter
01:56not to get a bbl of course i think all everybody would but she's 22 she's gonna do it anyway it's
02:03expensive so uh hold on it's gonna be a wild ride uh davi i found out my father is not my biological dad
02:12as a gift someone bought me a 23 and me test kit and i found out that another man is actually my dad
02:18i guess once i took the test and we uh found out we were actually related they notified him
02:25and now he wants to meet up my mother has uh passed on a while ago and i've leaned on my dad
02:32a lot since then i don't know if my real dad even knows the truth where do i go from here how can i tell
02:39my dad about the truth without even betraying him so the the by a lot okay the the man that raised you
02:47might not even know yes oh oh i you know what honestly this is something that you're probably
02:53never going to be able to get out of your head so i say go for it bite the bullet i i say make make
03:00that initial contact let the the man that raised you who is still your dad if he was there for you
03:06and was your father growing up that doesn't change anything but i feel like this is something that
03:12will always be in the back of your head if you're if you're messaging us i'm sure it's something that
03:18you can't stop thinking about so i i say go for it i i think it's i think it's fair i i don't think
03:27you'll be able to to get past it and the fact that somebody gifted you a 23 and me maybe somebody else
03:34knows too maybe maybe this isn't a total and complete secret you know it there there could
03:41be people out there that know family members usually have you know people talk and you know
03:46i'm sorry to hear that your mom passed on but she might have been the the person that was trying to
03:53keep it from from you for for whatever reason um you can't hurt her feelings at this point so if if it
03:59was me and i was in that situation i would say go for it you'd want to know yeah i'd want to know
04:04okay uh another one for the room me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little while
04:10just um a little under a year i'm 33 she's 44 but looks 26 but she's been hinting a lot how young
04:18and immature i act at times she's been pushing for me to ask her to get married but i'm so focused on
04:25my construction business and my own two kids how can i word it to her that i'm just not ready for this
04:31yes i love her and i want to be with her but she wants us to move in and get married like yesterday
04:37so what can i do i mean this is one of the things i think that comes with being with somebody
04:42significantly older than you you would say like 11 years older or something like that don't i i'd say
04:47don't let somebody pressure you into proposing if you're not ready and you if that's not the path
04:54that you want to take you will also potentially could lose her but i that's that's the opportunity
05:02cost that that you're facing well just i would say determine whether you actually want it one day
05:07this is this is something that isn't going to go away right she can put it on pause for a little bit
05:11if she knows that yes this could happen maybe after you get your business and the kids grow up a
05:16little bit then that's totally fine but uh we talked about this yesterday don't waste your time
05:20either that that's true just be considerate so i'm telling you how she feels and what she wants
05:24so she's telling she's laying all her cards out and i think you need to do the same thing okay it's
05:29therapy thursday time part two 888-429-0941 you could call us or you could text us more brilliance
05:35after the baby it is therapy thursday time the freak show got you if you're in trouble if you need
05:40some advice trouble yeah sometimes people are in trouble okay yeah don't call us for bail money
05:45uh yeah hit meredith up personally she got it yeah 888-429-0941 you could hit us up let us know
05:54who you need a little bit of advice for meredith we have a text it's late it's got a bunch of
06:01profanity so i will paraphrase it shocker so his wife is now all of a sudden showing him these new
06:10tricks in bed oh which and like a lot of them which she never did before and now he thinks that
06:17there's something extracurricular going on is this much to do about nothing or is she learning these
06:23tricks from somebody else okay so i had an ex of mine ex for a reason where he started trying new
06:29things like uh several things not just like one like he saw a video or whatever a conversation with
06:35his boys no he was bringing new tricks in the bedroom and six months later i found out that he
06:40had been cheating on me for a while and that he was doing new stuff i'm not saying that that's what's
06:46going on i'm just telling you know that this is my experience it would 100 be like a red flag and i
06:52would absolutely bring it up so the the new tricks in the bedroom are absolutely a red flag this is what
06:58he is scared of yeah and you think that his uh it's not like a new thing like okay dobby you have your
07:04moves in the bed right yeah you got your go-to's let's say you got two or three okay and every now
07:09and then you may you know bring an extra one in or try something new but are you really bringing in
07:14five or six new things in the bedroom no okay honestly i'm not thank you not all at once no you
07:20gotta spread it out for sure and that's you know just talking about guys in general as a female
07:26there you go so take that for what it is so call her out yeah yeah yeah her him whatever yes
07:32absolutely check the phone well you guys are against that that was check the phone question
07:36mark oh not check the phone do it check the phone you think you should i mean i i yeah okay here let
07:43me i also found out an ex was cheating on me by going through his phone so this do you think there
07:47is a high likelihood that she stepped out on him yes yes i know i'm sorry i don't mean to be painful
07:53here that's what therapy thursday is for i know we'll tell you what nobody else will tell you
07:57eight eight eight four two nine zero nine four one um okay so this is for the room i have a friend
08:02and she is my best friend however i've been extremely frustrated with her lately she is super delusional
08:08when it comes to men like saying men want her when that's definitely not the case always in different
08:14men's faces then she gets upset if uh the said man that she was interested in chooses somebody else and
08:21starts kind of bullying the other female oh my goodness how can i tell her she's being absolutely
08:26ridiculous without hurting her feelings it's to the point that i don't even want to be around her
08:31she is 38 years old and at this point it's like come on grow up i would distance myself from toxic said
08:37said person because you are the company you keep and now people are going to start valid or not they're
08:44going to kind of start associating you with her so do you cut her off if that's been your your girl for
08:51such a long time i wouldn't cut her off completely but i would slowly start to not hang out with her
08:58as much yeah that's probably good i don't think you should tell her hey you're not hot you think
09:02you're hotter than you are i don't think she's gonna think that you're jealous right she probably
09:07thinks everybody's jealous of her oh my god i would slowly create some distance how would you handle
09:12that uh yeah definitely see if you can hang out with another friend for you know just a little bit
09:17more um she she could be going through something right now and she's just acting out and uh hurt
09:23people hurt other people so distancing yourself i think is a really good idea it doesn't mean you
09:28don't have to be there for her listen to her call her or go to lunches and stuff like that but let's
09:32not hang out and talk to her so much start to get busy um okay meredith out the 727 it says i was
09:38married for two years my now ex-husband wanted a divorce so we got divorced now he wants to get back
09:44together since we got divorced now he yeah now he wants to get back uh together he had me and let
09:51me go what should i do you need to remember why the relationship didn't work i have fallen back
09:58with people before or you you know you just remember the good times and you forget the the bad times
10:03it's almost like childbirth um you know a lot of pregnancies suck and childbirth is awful for a lot
10:08of people but then what happens a little bit later you go ahead you get pregnant again you do the
10:12whole rigmarole but this is different in the fact of i mean getting a divorce the paperwork
10:16the payout the separation it's very painful it's almost like a death sometimes so i'm not saying it
10:23can't work because there are situations where it can but just i would definitely have my guard up
10:27yeah i i would say if he did it once he would do it again yeah so i i would not put myself in that
10:35position again right yeah i there's plenty of fish in the sea and if you need to hook up i mean
10:41we've all been there before so what no it's the ex that wants to get it it's the ex-husband that
10:48dropped you like a sack of potatoes he doesn't deserve it but listen at least you're not adding
10:53to your number right add to the number find you a little fling a little one night ting and just keep
11:00it moving i don't that guy doesn't deserve the goodies at all i agree 888-429-0941 meredith i've
11:06been in this relationship with a guy for over three years in the beginning we started off as friends
11:11because he said he wanted to get to know me as a person later into the relationship he tells me
11:15that he doesn't trust it was a shocker because how we are to each other and all the things we do i just
11:22need advice um about he doesn't trust he doesn't trust um that's something you got to work on
11:29yourself i mean it's you know when other people just bring in so much baggage into the new relationship
11:34because they were hurt um it's gonna happen because it's natural because you you know you you put a wall
11:39up and all that and you want to see the red flags ahead of time but you can't punish me when i'm
11:44treating you good or the relationship is going good because of what some other dumbass did in the past
11:50that's not fair to me or our relationship and so i think you just got to lay it out there like just
11:54because you don't trust other people i haven't lost your trust at all and i you shouldn't treat me like
12:00i think after three years if you haven't done something that you can put your finger on of
12:05why you lost his trust i think this is deflection i think he's doing something shady and now he's
12:10trying to put that on you i think he is like you shouldn't trust me so i'm gonna say he does i don't
12:17trust i think i think it is just uh transference i don't know the word but he is he's basically
12:23having the feelings that he thinks you should feel about him and he's projecting those on so should
12:29she go through his phone i didn't say that that's what i heard therapy thursday is a riz app
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