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  • 4/18/2025
HOW TO BECOME HIGH VAQLUE MAN
BY
KASHIF MAG
Transcript
00:00of course so we hear a lot about this high value man and high value women and all these things
00:04online you know and the high value man is someone who's making over six figures and over six feet
00:08tall and whatever it is like mr house over here yeah um but what is it that men can do to become
00:18more high value than just their financial abundance and their height how can they be a high value man
00:24whether they have money or they have height or any of that stuff have complete and utter self-control
00:32and what i mean by that is you try and control your mind body and soul in a way that would lead
00:37to positive long-term outcomes for you as a man if you get to the gym and you eat right your long-term
00:44body will appreciate that if you save your money you don't waste it on alcohol and clubs and this
00:49something out your long-term self who will be able to invest in uh net i was gonna say netflix not
00:54netflix nfts and all that whatever it is that businesses your long-term self will appreciate
01:00that if you're able to dedicate some time to some spirituality or something to disconnect from this
01:06world your long-term anxiety will appreciate that so a man who has complete and utter self-control
01:13and makes responsible decisions that serve him in the long run is truly high value somebody who can
01:19resist short-term desires and short-term temptations for long-term goals who can shake a man like that
01:25a man who can resist having sex with every single woman because he doesn't want to get the wrong
01:28woman pregnant who can who could shake a man like that whereas a man with no self-control the you know
01:35any woman can distract him any money can distract him any opportunity can distract him he is malleable
01:42that doesn't you can't be high valuable a high value and malleable at the same time so it's having an
01:47identity that's constructed on self-control that will make you high value it doesn't matter how tall
01:52you are how short you are how rich you are how broke you are if you've got no self-control you're
01:57a weak man unfortunately it's very difficult to have self-control but if they can master it they're
02:02incredible so what i'm hearing you say is women should really be looking for that quality and the
02:07partner they're choosing self-control okay he's tall dark and handsome or whatever it is these days and i
02:13guess women are more into like the skinny like artistic guy whatever it's always like changing
02:18but he's a certain look and he's got a certain amount of money he's a high value man if he hasn't
02:23got self-control he's a liability to you and your children yeah and you have to remember that so what
02:29happens when you get in a relationship with a man who on paper looks like they have everything great
02:37career they've got money they've got the car they got the house they're put together dressed well
02:42groomed perfect height you know all these different things great friends great network but they lack
02:49self-control what will happen down the line relationship marriage kids unfortunately what
02:56that might look like is if you lack self-control it might look like um indulging with other women it
03:02might look like um gambling your money away it might look like eating and consuming the wrong
03:07kind of drugs or whatever it is a lack of self-control will lead to a man down a path where he will no
03:13longer be able to recognize himself wow whereas self-control he has a consistent identity from the
03:18day he's born until the day he dies because he dictates his future even if he wants to have a day of
03:22no control it was his choice it was genuinely his choice if it's one or two days where he wants to
03:27get drunk and he was it's it but he's not he's not subject to the environment or to people and to
03:33everybody else he's not influenced by his surroundings he's influenced by his what his long-term goals are
03:38and if he's got like tomorrow i don't have to start early i'm going to get drunk today or you know what
03:42i'm single i'm just gonna you know today i'm just gonna do what i want to do no i'm not judging that
03:47because it's an element of self-control but when it's like oh my god i'm so stressed i need to watch
03:51pornography oh my god i'm sorry unfortunately that man is self-destructive and you can't have children with
03:57self-destructive men unfortunately similarly with having women right i don't mean it's just a menu
04:03you cannot have children with people who are self-destructive because it's contagious and it
04:08will then go on to the children and so on and so forth and so many people forget this when they're
04:13selecting partners

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