Remy ma and Hitman Holla talk about children education

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Remy Ma and celebrated battle rapper Hitman Holla come together to discuss the vital topic of children's education.

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00:00Nick Cannon got like 13 kids now.

00:01What you, I mean-

00:02That's it?

00:03I think he just had like 13 or 12.

00:04I feel like it's so much more.

00:06When you started having all these kids, because he was sleeping with all those Wild N Out girls

00:09for so long, and none of them were getting pregnant.

00:10I know you said you didn't.

00:11I don't think he slept with no Wild N Out girl.

00:14The twins had his face tattooed on them.

00:16Maybe because they liked him as a mole.

00:19But you, I mean, I like him.

00:21My first joke on Wild N Out was asking, well you remember my first joke.

00:23Yeah, I remember.

00:24I'm saying, I don't think, I ain't got no proof that he slept with any of them.

00:28I just know he got four baby mamas and 12 kids.

00:31So they all from-

00:32See what I'm saying?

00:33It's just so relaxed.

00:34That's still a lot.

00:35But it's only-

00:36Four baby mamas is crazy.

00:37A lot of people think it's 12 baby mamas with twins.

00:40Four baby mothers is crazy.

00:41The population got three baby mamas, four baby mamas.

00:44So if somebody with 100 of them is with me, that's at 80%, I'm within that 20 there.

00:48You know what's so crazy?

00:49Not if you take the LGBT community and the equation and divide it into what the whole

00:55world is, because we don't have a lot of, we don't have those issues.

00:58Divorce and all.

00:59I mean, it's new to us.

01:00We didn't have those rights.

01:01Baby mamas.

01:02Yeah.

01:03No, I know a lot of people in the LGBT that have baby mamas.

01:04Really?

01:05I was like, yeah.

01:06Well, when Nick was with Mariah, that was his ex-wife.

01:08Then he made all the baby mamas.

01:09Right?

01:10But-

01:11They have three sets of twins, too.

01:12So that's six.

01:13Isn't it three sets?

01:17But they say he was tired as hell on Christmas, zigzagging across the world trying to get

01:20to all these kids.

01:21Santa.

01:22Real life Santa.

01:23I don't even like kids like that.

01:25I love my kid.

01:27It takes a lot for me to like a kid.

01:29You got to be cute.

01:31You got to be smart.

01:33You got to have something about you.

01:36The average kid, they be dirty.

01:37They be want to touch stuff.

01:38I like seeing cute kids on Instagram, but do not bring them to my house.

01:41Don't bring them here.

01:42You would love my daughter.

01:43She's trained though.

01:44I would love your daughter because I love you, but I do not love people's kids.

01:49Listen to me, I promise you.

01:51My daughter, like people, they don't even call for me anymore.

01:53They come to visit me to see her.

01:55She's not like a regular kid.

01:57She's super, she's very smart.

01:59She's articulate.

02:00And I feel like that's because that's how I raised her.

02:02I didn't want her to be just like, what's that?

02:05Can I have some?

02:06I don't like what being a kid entails.

02:08I love kids.

02:09I love little dogs.

02:10Being a kid entails.

02:11So, you don't let people bring their kids over to your house for like holidays?

02:13No.

02:14What?

02:15No, don't come to my house and take kids.

02:16So, if I come over, I can't...

02:17My house, if you want to...

02:18If your kid is doing something, they be like, you want to go to Remy's house?

02:21My son is 16.

02:22My house is a punishment.

02:23My son is 16.

02:24Oh, he can come.

02:25I'm working him.

02:26Here.

02:27I pay by the room.

02:28You clean, like I don't have...

02:29But I'm talking about little kids, like my cousins and them, they threaten their kids

02:34with coming to my house because they know I don't play that.

02:37We're not doing that.

02:38Don't ask me nothing.

02:39Don't touch nothing.

02:40Mean auntie.

02:41Don't do...

02:42It's not even that I'm a mean auntie because they call me.

02:43I get all the best presents, but play with them at home.

02:46Don't come over here.

02:47I wouldn't give you nothing.

02:48What do you mean?

02:50You mean.

02:51I'm not mean.

02:52Mom, I don't want to go to my mean auntie house.

02:53Yeah.

02:54They don't want to come over because they know they can't do whatever they want.

02:57You can't run through here.

02:58There's no running through the house.

03:00One toy.

03:01My daughter has a lot of toys.

03:02They know the rules.

03:03One toy at a time.

03:04That's it.

03:05That's it.

03:06When you're done with that one, you put it back.

03:07Oh, y'all know how to act?

03:08You go in that room.

03:09You go in that room.

03:10I separate the whole thing.

03:11I don't play with them.

03:12I don't play with kids.

03:13So nobody else in your family can spank your kids?

03:14Are you dumb?

03:15What?

03:16No.

03:17Absolutely not.

03:18But it takes a village to raise a child.

03:20No, the ... don't.

03:21I don't even know what a village is.

03:22I've never lived in a village.

03:23I live in towns, neighborhoods.

03:24I've never lived in no ... village.

03:25Don't hit my kid.

03:26I barely hit my kid.

03:27So what you say is you get on other people's kids?

03:28Oh, I'll ... somebody else's kid.

03:29I'll ...

03:30So don't hit my kid, though.

03:31That's the difference.

03:32I tell people all the time.

03:33People are like, oh, you say this and this and this.

03:34But when I say something, just because you let me talk to you crazy, handle you crazy,

03:35that don't mean I'm going to let you talk to me crazy.

03:36That's the difference.

03:37That's the difference.

03:38That's the difference.

03:39That's the difference.

03:40I tell people all the time.

03:41People are like, oh, you say this and this and this.

03:43But when I say something, just because you let me talk to you crazy, handle you crazy,

03:47that don't mean I'm going to let you do it to me.

03:49This is like, no.

03:50It doesn't work like that.

03:51You're who you are.

03:52You tolerate what you tolerate.

03:53I am who I am.

03:54I tolerate what I tolerate.

03:55That's right.

03:56And I don't tolerate that.

03:57So don't try to do to me what I do to you.

03:58It's not going to work.

03:59I knew the other question.

04:00I forgot to ask, Carter.

04:01I want to ask you.

04:02Being a mom, did you ever suffer postpartum depression?

04:04Because you know what?

04:05I'm talking to more women who are being more open about their journey with postpartum that

04:10I didn't even understand that postpartum could last days, weeks, months, and even years.

04:16I just didn't know.

04:18I don't think it was diagnosed, but I do recognize that there was something going on.

04:22I breastfed my daughter.

04:23My daughter is four.

04:24She just turned four like two weeks ago.

04:26I breastfed my daughter since she was almost three years old.

04:30Is that long?

04:31I mean...

04:32What?

04:33Anything for...

04:34I don't know.

04:35What kind of relationship...

04:36I don't breastfeed.

04:37You've been in a relationship for three years?

04:38I was in foster care.

04:39I'll put it like this.

04:40What's the longest relationship you've been in recently?

04:41Right.

04:4224 hours.

04:43Exactly.

04:44So, imagine...

04:45What's the average age when they're supposed to stop though?

04:47Well, they say...

04:48There's really no average age, but they say the doctor recommends like at least going

04:53a year.

04:54Oh, yeah.

04:55And that's what I was saying.

04:56I was like, I'm going to do a year.

04:58And I ended up going when she was almost three.

05:01And a lot of it had to do with...

05:02It was COVID.

05:03It was COVID.

05:04It was inside, whatever the case may be.

05:05But that shit takes a lot on you.

05:08It's a lot.

05:10It's just...

05:11It was an experience that I loved that I had with her, but getting her off of it and stopping,

05:17it was just...

05:18And then your boobs.

05:19It's just a lot.

05:20Wait.

05:21How long do y'all produce milk?

05:22Me, my shit was still going.

05:23If I would've still gone, I believe it would've still been coming out.

05:26Some people, it's harder for them, but my shit was just like a whole milk dairy aisle.

05:32It's cool.

05:33Come on, man.

05:34Not 2%.

05:35But wait, so postpartum, when they say postpartum depression, how do you know that?

05:43I don't know.

05:44Your hormones be fucked up.

05:45Like, your hormones be all over the place, so you be having different emotions and things

05:50that you go through.

05:51And I think with us, meaning people of color, there's so many things that we assign to other

05:58races.

05:59Black people don't go through that.

06:00They don't have bipolar.

06:01They don't have mental health issues.

06:02They don't do postpartum.

06:03All of these different things that we've been going through for years.

06:06And because we were not diagnosed and because we were in denial that these things happened

06:10to us and in our community, that's why a lot of us was having child abuse.

06:14That's why a lot of us was dealing with shit that we thought was normal.

06:20I thought it was normal that if I said something, my mother said it to get my ass whooped.

06:23That's not normal.

06:24That's not normal.

06:26And we became accustomed to it.

06:29I think as a people, we're starting to go to the doctor more.

06:33Think of all the people.

06:34Like, have you ever heard of anybody growing up, like their parents were bipolar, their

06:38parents were suffering from mental health?

06:39Like, you had to-

06:40See, my mom, you know, in my book, I just said, she's crazy.

06:44Yeah, that's how it was just, they're crazy.

06:47Just like, knew that it was going from day to night, instantly.

06:51We had these diagnoses and there was medications.

06:55Like, people might have had different childhoods.

06:57Yeah, that's a fact.

06:58You know what's so crazy?

06:59They be out here talking about women versus men in hip hop, when you got the Gunners and

07:05Six Nines getting out while all their homies locked up and you and Kim went to prison.

07:09They locked us up.

07:10Y'all the real G's.

07:12Nah, that was whack.

07:13I ain't like that.

07:15I was talking to God many nights, like, really?

07:17Eight?

07:18Eight?

07:19I promise you, like, I just, what I don't like about the judicial system, like, it's

07:25just mad random.

07:26Like, they really could just be like, we're not, like, yeah, they're facing 5 to 25.

07:30That is a big range for somebody to just play around in.

07:34I mean, have options.

07:35You got to have options.

07:36Like, 5 to 25?

07:37Like, what?

07:38So, you could just be like, uh, 18.

07:41No, you could, no, no, no.

07:43Like, no, that's a big difference.

07:45No, let me tell you how you can make sure that that's not a problem.

07:48You go and say, being a part of the YSL gang.

07:53This is great.

07:56I mean, it clearly worked for some people anyway.

07:59That's crazy.

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