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The Real Housewives Of Atlanta Season 16 Episode 20
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00:00tonight it's part three of the real housewives of atlanta reunion drew are you or are you not
00:21michael jordan's cousin in my head absolutely in your head i said you could have ruined my
00:28engagement charles do you remember meeting phaedra no i've been in several rooms with him that's not
00:42meeting me though you had mentioned that you was trying to highlight her too wow i never charles
00:48when did you date our friend sheree okay andy what everybody want to know about me what about
00:54y'all i'm the only husband here where your husband's at part three of the real housewives of atlanta
01:00reunion starts now shamia i saw or she did a birthday post for you yeah that was really sweet and she
01:09continued her smear campaign right after that i did not why are you fighting with me why are you fighting
01:14with me because you're lying and you don't think you've been lying to and you're wrong what what
01:19you posted about my mom saying she did something egregious to your mom she absolutely did first of
01:23all why are you even bringing up my mom what did she do i've never and anytime people ask me about
01:28your mom i say that's not my business what happened my mom and her mom they were best friends they were
01:35both in the child care industry and they both you know gave tips to each other back and forth my mom
01:40found her location was going under foreclosure and her mom went behind my mom's back and she bought it as
01:46soon as it went on foreclosure that is absolutely true stop this is how my mom found out that her
01:51mom bought her best friend's business when we drove past it and they were taking down my mom's sign
01:57putting up her mother's sign they weren't talking for years prior to my mom buying that business
02:02you're lying right now they were not talking for some other stuff that happened that i don't want to
02:08speak on another great lie that's not true why did they initially i don't want to speak on it because
02:13it's really gonna go okay that mom stuff is deep hold on okay it did not just start with
02:18daycare i understand i'm not gonna even ask about it i think the mom thing okay it shouldn't even come
02:24up honestly hold on hold on it's not good there's a few things happening here there is chatter that
02:31happened behind each other's backs okay not each other's okay not each other's for sure because
02:35i didn't stop behind your back with brit okay hold on hold on she was just coming to tell me what you
02:40said just so you know shamia brit was the one that said that you were showing text messages she showed
02:47me text messages between the two of you guys that said you were dealing with your divorce and your
02:52attorney said this is the best time where you need to deal with yourself in that moment portia kind of
02:57like let it go y'all stuff goes way back before the show we have a beautiful relationship prior to this
03:04show yes once we started filming she took it to the left okay hold on hold on hold on is there
03:10anything that happened during the season that you can apologize for or take ownership for right now
03:16okay let's see i apologize i do own talking about my friendship problems with portia to these ladies
03:22okay why because i wish i had a third party there i wish i had somebody on my side y'all said
03:27the friendship was lopsided but these are things that y'all are feeling
03:31when it was taken to portia it was said like this is how i feel when we went to lunch there was
03:41never a question asked to you by me or angela about the nature of your relationship with portia
03:45it almost felt like you needed to get this out like you found a safe space to share
03:51apparently i didn't well i never took it back i said something so my point is that you had a
03:56pinky swear because you wanted to divulge this and it was something heavy on you so the pinky
04:02swear represented like she didn't know what they would think repeat this okay all right
04:06it almost sounds to me like you have had a harder time with what's happened after the show
04:14yes there's a friendship group that we have a private friendship group right yeah there are two
04:19ladies from that friendship group she told them that i didn't want her to be a peach holder
04:23that i didn't congratulate her so our private friends are echoing the same thing that you said
04:29here these ladies have come to me and told me that you did not want me on the show that you wanted me
04:34as a friendship show so i'm the same lady that used to be now you are lying andy have i always wanted
04:40shamia to be on the show as a housewife yes yes so moving on from that now i'm watching live
04:46interviews someone ask you where's our friendship stand you say well now that i have a peach it's
04:50different well why it is i've never talked about you shamia and i'm watching interviews of you saying
04:55i didn't want you on the show you sang the song of i was trying to sabotage your marriage or your
05:00engagement or whatever girl are you serious right now y'all had that conversation together saying
05:05that i was screwing candy and ty i didn't do that to myself but nobody was sabotaging your
05:10marriage i said you could have ruined my engagement because this is the thing that happened in 2016
05:26i do just as many press as you do okay and possibly more because i've been on the show a little bit
05:39more right and that wasn't a dick so no disney's a um it's kind of a dick a little bit it was a dick
05:44but okay go ahead what i'm saying is i've been asked the exact same questions that you were being
05:49asked and i have never disparaged our relationship i thought we had a beautiful friendship i thought we
05:54had a great friendship too but then i found out that you didn't come to the wedding in kenya
05:58because we were beefing all right kelly you and shamia have become very close i know that
06:03what's your reaction to to this me and shamia have built a beautiful bond a beautiful friendship with
06:09each other and i always tell her i really hope and pray that her and portia can just figure this
06:14all out i just want you to tell her how you really feel this is your moment to tell her this is not
06:20her moment you know what her moment was when we had her one-on-one you know what her moment was
06:25when i called her and i talked to her body it's her moment let her have a moment it's a beat up on
06:29oh you know what this is so girl let her have a moment continue when we sat one-on-one i thought
06:35we had a clean slate and we were moving forward in the right direction like it then i noticed she
06:39was distancing herself from me even down around londie's funeral time i'm reaching out i'm like hey can
06:44we link up girl i'm grieving i didn't go i understand and i'm not trying to discredit that all i'm trying to
06:49say is i continue to try to reach out to hang out and hook up see even that like it's that kind of
06:53things against me can you ever phrase a sentence without trying to make me look bad i'm using stuff
06:59against her when really i'm just trying to express myself okay i'm not here to try to hurt portia
07:04right that i'm not here to like she said try to sabotage her too late this is so difficult to even
07:09just have a conversation okay i wouldn't have even known that there was any beef unless cynthia
07:13didn't tell me i told portia like what brit had done after that i saw them hanging out then posting
07:19i'm like all right cool she's made her decision a decision had nothing to do with her what you did
07:25was what you did all right you didn't go be friends with kelly because we're not friends
07:28you're friends with kelly because you like kelly i think the friendship's a little different well i
07:32think it's odd for you to go sit after you and brit had the conversation about me i think your
07:38friendship with brit is very calculated brit's not your friend brit could care less about what
07:43you guys hold on hold on hold on cynthia where can these two go you guys the love is there but there's
07:50it just feels like the healing hasn't happened and then when you come on a platform like this
07:55everything is magnified and if that foundation is not solid you guys are going to crack it just is what
08:01it is just take baby steps to walk back toward each other please don't throw this friendship away
08:06is there something that you need to hear from each other that would help either of you
08:14no this year was the most difficult year ever it really was i'm literally at the bottom depleted okay
08:22so at this space and time in my life i want to be exactly where i feel comfortable and i do not feel
08:29comfortable within my friendship with shamiya as i'm sure she doesn't feel comfortable with me either
08:34i am only human and i can only do so much and i don't have anything else to offer to this right
08:40now all right that's real okay that's real how do you take that so i think that's the difference
08:45between the two of us because even at times where i didn't have the bandwidth to deal with it because
08:49i had my own happening i would find the bandwidth to deal with it because i had that type of love for
08:54portia so much so to where people call me her lapdog okay so it hurts me but she thinks i came on the
09:02show to sabotage her ultimately i just want peace for both of us you know you take that oh yes
09:09yay all right okay shamiya i think you know one of the lessons of this season and tonight is
09:19that when you feel a certain way i think for your own benefit you have to figure out a way to vocalize
09:27it yeah don't laugh at all if you're hurt it's okay to be hurt because it's diverting in a million
09:32different ways but it still exists and for your friendships with portia and everybody else it's
09:39only going to suit you to say you really pissed me off when you did that i'm hurt so you can move
09:45forward and it's the backbone of an honest relationship you know i i own that i accept
09:51that um and i'm gonna work on that i think that um naturally just when i got a lot happening in my
09:58life i just don't have it in me right so i choose to just move past it i'm gonna sweep it under the rug
10:03and it's okay it's coping right because it's like i don't have it to deal with it now i know but
10:10you see how that plays out yeah
10:13coming up next to me it became a little weird just because ju had mentioned that you was trying
10:21to highlight her too wow you are not gonna come on here and start your lying
10:27hey fellas how do you think today's gonna be man you know when the girls beefing man you gotta
10:43stay out of it you know you gotta let women handle their own business but i'm here to support baby mama
10:49andrew that's family man we're gonna keep it positive and we're gonna keep it moving
10:53we are back with the real housewives of atlanta reunion drew this season we watched you battle
10:59with a divorce that seems to have no end in sight and an ex-husband that is banished in the basement
11:06you'll be able to sing your way out of this sad song let's watch i consider this the lower level
11:13penthouse ralph being banished in the basement i was expecting him to take that opportunity to move
11:18out and do the things that really excite him which is being out in the streets i am officially going
11:25to sign my recording deal this is a time to celebrate all of the hard work allegedly you told
11:32porsha that i wanted to get with you in exchange for free studio time
11:37i don't know why you would listen to that you know we do real business we don't talk about allegedly
11:42this is all fabricated lies yet again serial cheater taking uh money out of your account
11:50tracking you tracking you all that's private but when the case gets unsealed it's out oh the judge's
11:58ruling was to unseal our divorce case he still gets the basement is this a joke i don't have to leave
12:08idiot you're a dumbass i want you to know that the courts didn't take the kids into consideration
12:14they're not even listening to me anymore okay okay i'm sorry to know that my kids are not the same
12:21so drew since that conversation with your mom about your kids have you seen any improvement in
12:29their behavior well since then the kids are all uh in therapy i took that step to good yeah and i can
12:36say that um it's helping yeah as a mom all you want is the best for your kids yes and i started to
12:42even tell myself like this is normal you know what i mean there's no dysfunction here so for my mom to
12:48come in and be an outsider looking in it was like very apparent for her yeah ralph tweeted that your
12:55mom needed to watch her mouth because after your dad's death she spent all his money and ralph had
13:01to bail her out these men now they get disrespectful and a divorce uh that was a new low my father was a
13:07prominent pediatrician in the city of chicago you're now coming against his legacy my mom had an anxiety
13:13attack you know my marital issues start to affect my mom yeah a holy storm there was a
13:18recent clip of you and ralph cooking together oh yeah uh that went viral you two seemed really
13:25happy that video was an effort of us trying to co-parent but the caption he wrote was alluding to
13:32like oh she called me daddy in the kitchen off camera which never happened so he took that moment
13:37that could have been positive for us to move into this new normal of co-parenting and he used it to
13:43make it appear to be something that it just it wasn't i honestly thought it was cute to see you
13:48guys just being happy not thinking oh you know they should get back together but it just was nice to
13:53see you guys having fun together yeah and living in a house with a man who cooked girl get your food
13:58you said the steaks were pretty good i've always loved the meat not the sausage meat but i love the
14:03rib eye and it was good at some point he's gonna come upstairs and we know divorcees can be long
14:10hard and dry so at some point you're gonna be he might come up the stairs after 12 or she may go
14:17downstairs yeah he has cameras in the basement first and foremost oh that make it better
14:22right right lonnie from philadelphia said drew the judge has given you and ralph the weirdest
14:28court orders from having ralph live in the basement to avoid telling the kids you're divorcing
14:33what the hell is that about it's in the order it's public record y'all can go read it it's normal
14:39by the way as soon as you file for divorce everything's gonna stay i lived upstairs with my
14:44but you recently said he had a woman down there with you there girl when i'm there when i'm not
14:49there because you've seen someone on the camera in the basement a woman you can get the manifesto
14:54it's a gated community yeah gated community so everyone that comes through you have to give
14:58your id and we get an alert on the portal so you saw the picture and the driver's license i saw the
15:03name and i looked her up on instagram and when i went to lunch at anaya's school she was there
15:10and so the woman long story short was mean mugging me and approached me oh like what's your name
15:22uh-uh ma'am coming up next i met you at neek's wedding i was there okay one second that's not
15:30me
15:30we are back with the real housewives of atlanta reunion
15:39uh tradarius from mansfield texas said why don't any of the women in this group show any compassion
15:46for drew during her divorce none of the women have checked on her except for angela but
15:50everyone is quick to show compassion towards portia i was really actually hoping that you and i could
15:57have hit it off a little bit more i think towards the end it was kind of more of a connection don't
16:05give me that face no you didn't i mean it sounds good and i appreciate you saying that today but i feel
16:17like you know you really didn't give us a chance to get to know each other you were just like
16:21throwing these things out and being real loud and spicy to me and i'm like girl you don't even
16:25know me and throwing out the liar narrative well you said the liar but it felt like you were trying
16:30for a moment i wasn't trying for a moment i never need a moment let's clear the air on why i considered
16:36you a liar when you came to my baumont event and we were at the bank you said you purchased something
16:42you did not purchase anything and i did you did not purchase multiple things not at the event
16:47they did not have his size so you so i talked to the shopper he found the size so we were texting
16:53so it was when he found the size later thank you and i'm not trying to speak fairly but i will say
16:58the thing of the event was if you purchased at the event some of the proceeds go to osteogenesis
17:03imperfecta correct i arrived to the event i purchased it and i showed you had you had a real
17:09conversation and said well it didn't go a part of the foundation i could have made sure that it
17:14did or made a donation to your family you didn't even but you were okay it sounds like you're both
17:20right she didn't purchase it at your event okay okay okay all right okay drew are you or are you not
17:32michael jordan's cousin okay so in my head absolutely not in my head in your head and y'all
17:40gotta laugh a little more because my last name is drew jordan it's a joke guys um lana from dc said
17:50shamia why was it okay for you to twist drew's words regarding pilar but angela was held to a higher
17:56standard when she relayed her conversation with shamia back to porsha these royalties and the way
18:02this publishing is set up that's gonna pay for pj's whole college now i didn't know pj's college
18:08has already been paid for how did you take it how shamia related back versus how you saw it on tv
18:14it was cringy but it it didn't piss me off but the way i had been told you said it it pissed it did piss
18:20me off originally and it was gonna draw a bigger wedge between us honestly i should mind my business
18:25and keep my mouth closed yeah you should because because i'm sure you said it you meant it happened
18:29and you said it shady you asked me the question you told me she said it for her life honey in this
18:35friendship fighting for her life if y'all cool with it i'm cool with it i'm gonna mind my business and
18:39you should i will i mean moving forward is probably a good idea okay elizabeth from baltimore maryland said
18:47drew you seemed upset that shamia and porsha went out to eat with ralph is that hypocritical
18:51when porsha felt it was wrong for you to shoot with dennis you sat there in kiki with someone who
18:57is publicly humiliating me who you have seen his behavior porsha i came to your birthday party when
19:03we filmed your spinoff and you know because i cried to you about how ralph left me i thought it
19:14was fake drew you're not even using your brain because i called you and i i can't give up with
19:18the lies with you and him all i'm saying is i think you guys make i'm just saying a marriage is
19:22not black and white when it comes to some of the drama you promote victoria from brooklyn said
19:27shamia why did you set up porsha to meet with ralph to get back at drew you don't like her calling
19:32you a lap dog but that was lap dog behavior it was i mean hushina called me lap dog the whole season
19:38so it's like okay well let me act like one i mean initially it was i mean no i'm not i'm not
19:43because she keeps saying it and honestly for me i just feel like i'm being a loyal friend
19:47like you were to her no but i don't i'm too big to say anybody
19:50she said i'm too big to sit on anybody okay twitter said drew in a recent interview you admitted to
20:10sending flirty texts to ty her ex also said you both spoke for an average of 3 000 minutes a month
20:17is this the main reason you're getting a divorce um we have remained to say that we're friends
20:23but first of all i think if you do the math 3 000 minutes or whatever it's not really that much time
20:29but um 3 000 minutes a month i'm married and i'm talking about us for 3 000 minutes did we see a
20:35receipt on that like people can throw out things does it always make it true that's about 10 minutes a
20:40day i would be in a relationship if i was on the phone with somebody that long
20:43okay so who exactly is black and are you dating him um he is a friend like i said before he owns
20:52the number one hookah company in the world and that's my friend what would be the issue if they
20:57were dating at the end of the day do your thing y'all been divorced for a while you two were you two
21:03were facetiming a lot backstage right we were and actually andy can i present everybody with okay
21:09you got some hookah girl you got hookah you got us a free hookah for bless okay look take one pass
21:16so i mean this makes it seem like you're dating if you're promoting this product he has a lot of
21:23friends who promote his business it's no nicotine no tobacco go ahead go ahead
21:30okay um heather from cambridge mass said drew if you were dating someone why didn't you just come
21:37clean in order to shut down the rumors about you wanting the hot dog man oh god dennis is not my
21:42type i mean if you look at you know ralph and you see his physique what's that black ain't all that
21:48either i mean how you gonna come for my friend now like why are you catching strange why are you
21:53catching strange get your eyes on back okay if you were dating someone would you bring them on the
22:01show absolutely when i have a boyfriend i will be so happy to share i will be no no no no no or you
22:07because i heard you know oh yeah you were with ty girl if i find me and ty she might be sitting
22:13right behind me top 2.0 indian all right we're gonna leave it there she know all about it we're
22:20gonna take a break so we can all sit on angela's lap i have receipts about porsche uh being a
22:25buckhead on a date it was some african y'all was in buckhead oh it's probably true yeah i know
22:32i know i like my african i know girl you love your african coming up next did you tell porsche
22:38that drew wanted to sleep with you absolutely not so what was the text dennis you said i'm trying
22:43to get money i'm not trying to f but that for the record was not from me
22:47welcome back to the real housewives of atlanta season 16 reunion joining us are the men hey guys
23:15dennis you and porsche are not matching tonight yeah why i sent you a picture of what i was
23:20wearing i did my best okay ralph you have your shirt on tonight today yeah okay all right
23:29we invited gerald tonight where is gerald he is at home with his kids but he sent some beautiful
23:36yellow roses to you yes that's nice not to nobody else in here okay you couldn't get a sitter
23:43that he just not you know it's not his thing you know well i gotta tell you something in all my
23:49years doing the housewives never thought i'd see the enforcer here charles oakley
23:54sometimes you need an enforcer but i'm here to support my wife she's gonna kill it
24:02and i'm gonna kill it well he'll kill you okay come on charles you just sort of won the group
24:10she ain't got a chance with me yeah andy andy let me start with dennis here dennis clear this up did
24:18you talk to porsche about working with drew we had a small conversation but you know i talked to
24:23ralph first because that's my brother so i would assume that drew would handle the woman's side
24:27are you saying you asked me or no we talked about working together you told me that we we didn't
24:34have an in-depth conversation because i felt like it was drew's place to clear that part you know
24:39considering we're all friends but you told me you talked to porsche because i was expressing to you
24:43that i was trying to call porsche to have the conversation you said we had a conversation she's
24:48good he didn't dennis when confronted about mentioning that drew wanted to sleep with you in
24:54exchange for music you kind of dodged owning up saying that did you tell porsche that drew wanted
25:00to sleep with you absolutely not so what was the text dennis the text read as i'm trying to get some
25:06money that's what the text i'm trying to get money i'm not trying to f that's what the text said
25:12verbatim he says i told drew i wouldn't f her and run me my money wait a minute yeah i missed that
25:20but that for the record was not so he's designing now okay like rafa is my friend for in real life
25:26so to even insinuate a relationship outside of music is ridiculous so what were you responding to
25:32when you said i don't want no i don't even know if the text said that exactly oh it did i saw the text
25:37message okay and what did it say just exactly what porsche said i didn't know exactly what the
25:42relationship was but to me it became a little weird just because you know drew had mentioned that
25:48she was that she was trying to highlight her too i never i promise i promise i promise on everything
25:53and start your lying no no no no i am not gonna i'm not gonna i'm not gonna lie about anything
25:58dennis has never been inappropriate i never said that you never said that so for you to say that
26:02out your lying face right now i don't lie that's the one thing i'm not doing no no like try to do
26:06the right thing you come here you got dressed up and you're all white you get your beijing you know
26:11you want to come for the cameras and every time you come here you do the same thing you lie
26:15and then you play this victim it's not cute bro i don't understand why so much energy though oh
26:19you're gonna get all this smoke that's what you came here for i love it come on okay
26:23dennis do you see yourself getting back together with porsche i mean you know i love porsche and
26:32she's back on the market so you never know um what's your reaction to porsche and shamiya's
26:38relationship over the last year you know we family for real uh me and gerald are really good friends so
26:44you know it's sad to see but i've been around also long enough to stay out of women's business
26:49because tomorrow they can be cool so that's what i'm hoping for um it's been said that you took brit
26:55out on a date you bought her a chain he came on the date brought me a diamond necklace as a gift
27:01and you slid into kelly's dms dennis was in my dm what oh i mean i heard what kelly said but
27:09she ain't tell the rest of the half but it's all good what's the rest of the half i mean red was a
27:13long time ago you know before i even run around porsche what's the rest of the half i'm still
27:18waiting for the other part i'm a gentleman it's all good well let's be very clear we ain't never
27:24been out or done anything or talked on the phone you might have called once or twice
27:28let's talk okay well you you just said we never talked on the phone and then you said we talked
27:33once or twice you know he had a call like hey you outside no i'm inside you want to get inside
27:40i'm trying to get inside i've been knowing kelly for a long time more about business though let's
27:46be very clear when i'm saying conversations like that it's more of that it's not it's nothing in
27:50regards to that okay ralph drew revealed that she found out about you bringing a woman
27:55into the basement it's not even true it's not true it's not true at all hold on she told me
28:00that she came to the house anybody that comes into the gate that doesn't mean that they came inside of
28:04my house so she was just visiting somebody in the neighborhood no no she came to the house
28:08to your house but she didn't come inside she was outside with kelly no no because
28:13no it wasn't it wasn't that he was working on a fitness program so it was all about just fitness
28:19content it was fitness content let me just say this when these cameras are off
28:23you're like you love me you know what i'm saying so you got this on camera off camera thing and that
28:28is really confusing to me at the end of the day man i love you i'm not here to be your enemy i just
28:33want to make sure we raise our beautiful kids we created something amazing together and i love you for
28:39that oh yeah because we was mad at you ralph before you came out we saw you feeding drew steak
28:45yeah that's who we are when there's no cameras those are great words so i appreciate that i would love
28:51to see those actions to back up those words you know but the energy that i have is because of the
28:57press tour that you've been on tweeting the things about my mom and my dad but you hugged me and without
29:03but without an apology you apologize to her for what you said about her mom no um why not i was
29:12there when they were in a place where they lost everything and i was there to pick up the pieces
29:16but if you go through a situation like a divorce i think there should be something to where it's like
29:20hey you know what i'm gonna just stay out of this one i'm gonna you know i'm praying for both of you
29:25guys because i love both of you so you didn't apologize to the mom oh but i will i do believe that
29:31we are bigger than that i think we've had more of an established relationship i looked at our text
29:36messages from way back in the day you know and it was so much love there so to see that just diminish
29:41it was kind of sad to me and it was hurtful i would just add this ralph just be very mindful what
29:47you put out on social media because then that just brings everybody else into it so i would just say
29:52that charles have you watched the season yes i watched some shows how do you feel angela did on the
29:59show i think she did great she cried a couple times but just telling hey you jumped in the pool
30:05you gotta know how to swim charles there were a lot of moments where angela would be saying to you
30:11do you miss me and you were kind of holding back a little bit which i think led to a perception among
30:19some viewers that you don't care for her very much give me a kiss i'm not the guy who just be all over
30:28angela on tv i don't try to put on for cameras and she know i love her and i wouldn't be if i didn't
30:35love her and the kids so hey keep watching i i give it up to you uh man of your profile especially i
30:42mean you showed up for her over and over i'm her husband and uh i thought i have her back and
30:49too thick and thin so yeah it is what it is a lot of the ladies mentioned that they didn't know that
30:54you were married were you hiding that you had a wife no i wasn't hiding i don't know who married
31:00neither i hear that all the time you know people be in the streets i hear a lot of people say i'm in
31:05the streets a lot of people say they know me but don't know me she may have met her for the first
31:10time on the show but i was she said she was at dominique where and i was there no i met you
31:15several times when i mean you might not know me i mean obviously you're a legend but okay one second
31:19i met you at neek's wedding no no and at the no no you didn't meet me i was there
31:25that's not me
31:27i met you several times when i mean you might not know me i mean obviously you're a legend but
31:40okay one second i met you at neek's wedding and no no you didn't meet me i was there that's not
31:47meeting me me and my husband were there and i don't even remember that yeah so i don't understand
31:52that because obviously i wasn't famous i'm just saying though when i met you at my party oh yeah
31:56i met your husband you know nba at the game and i said but i never met you it's so good to meet
32:00you finally mine was never a dig for one i feel like it was and because you said all these years
32:06i knew charles i never knew he had a wife so i'm like how could you know he's married if he
32:10doesn't know you but i have met him okay but you don't know charles do you remember meaning
32:15phaedra uh no where'd you two meet phaedra well i i know i've been in several rooms with him
32:25okay that's not meeting me though but what i'm saying is i've i know you might have been
32:29we might have been in the same bathroom yeah i have it's not the same bathroom we ain't in the same
32:34bathroom what i'm saying is is i've i've no know charay very well and i remember when y'all
32:39were a couple at one point okay we were a couple that don't mean you know me though
32:44me and charay was a couple you know i know you and charay was a couple why do people say they
32:48know first because i know charay what i'm saying is i have been in your presence and it's on numerous
32:53occasions oh where but phaedra you said it to be shady i did not his secret wife well someone told
33:01me charles oakley was married you didn't know that man was married the secret wife of charles oakley
33:07what did you hear about charles i said secret because it's unknown but it was a dig at me
33:13first of all i said i haven't seen him in over 10 years i never said he was having an affair i never
33:17said nothing about no secret baby i said none of that for you to think that one comment come on girl
33:22this is housewives it's housewives so i got ate up like girl we don't know you i didn't eat you
33:28i didn't know anybody but why is it a conversation anyway if i'm married or not
33:32well i'm okay first i'm not i'm just saying everybody want to know about me what about y'all
33:36i'm the only husband here you are where your husband's at yeah where's your husband
33:41well i don't actually know where mine is one is uh at an unspecified address charles charles um when
33:53did you date our friend charrette i knew it was i was back in um 2000 five six seven around oh okay
33:59for like a minute couple years we was going places doing things going to dubai around the country i mean
34:06we was moving dubai yeah oh okay what are we doing here because there has been women in his past
34:17who thought they couldn't let go charrette let go she's not someone who i think is interested in my
34:25husband or vice versa okay charles the women had a lot to say about you having an outside baby
34:31how did this land with you we went to an event me and wendy william had a cook-all for charity
34:38yeah and angela tried to talk to wendy because she had an issue about her husband had a baby on her
34:44right yeah him so she tried to be all wendy sorry that could happen to so wendy took it back to the show
34:51and turned the whole story around wendy made it seem like he had the baby he had the baby
34:57right on me and charles has a side baby she did the story is still being told tell me about the
35:04times wendy invited you over for dinner charles oh she said you want to come over and have some wine
35:08or whatever multiple times and uh no when you were together it was no it was once she had a cat and
35:14i'm allergic to cats and stuff i couldn't go so she didn't have a cat and i didn't go i drank wine so
35:19so you're saying you would have went on a date with wendy wanted me i would have had a glass of
35:24wine with her i've been knowing her i get it but that's not what i'm asking you i said would you go
35:29on a date i said i would have had a glass of wine with her is that a date whatever you want to call
35:34it oh gosh so charles you wrote about in your book the incident at madison square garden
35:40how did that incident affect your marriage well you know it stayed with me for a while um it was
35:47like a step back and um angela just you know frustrated there was a strain in our marriage and we
35:54lived apart because everything that happened to him he wanted to be outside and there were other
36:01women because this is a man of huge ego not in a bad way just who he is and to be drug out of
36:07madison square garden it affected us tremendously you started therapy around then yes it was 2017
36:13wow yeah charles has it been helpful uh yeah well she's real sharp number one and uh she really hit
36:20a lot of points that made me open up more and just you know help myself more accountable and uh i'm
36:27just glad angela stayed strong and stayed with me so to be clear you would take wendy williams for
36:32last one not wendy the therapist no two living people okay okay before i let the guys go anything
36:39else anyone wants to say or clear up from the season well i would like to know what my ex-husband
36:46told you ralph no the only thing he was just talking about was just that the circumstances behind
36:51y'all divorce you know i was pretty much that just one interaction so it was nothing else to share
36:56i appreciate that and let me just tell you this i think it's amazing that you still have a man
37:02and a husband that still wants to take care of his children i don't have that ralph is a good so i
37:06think you know i gotta say you're a pretty stand-up guy for that yeah i appreciate that and that i am
37:11grateful for yeah yep all right well i want to thank the guys for being here that was quick and
37:17painless thank you gentlemen we are going to be right back after this from atlanta charles
37:23wins the next cook-off you know you want to
37:25i want some juice oh i can't get in
37:37welcome back to the real housewives of atlanta season 16 reunion well ladies i want to end by
37:52talking about your time uh drew i'm happy that tonight you're ending the season in a better place
38:02with portia i have to assume that makes you happy oh most definitely because i did care for portia
38:08and i think today we hurt each other found our way back to some apologies and healing and so i
38:12appreciate the accountability and the grace that we're extending to one another kelly what are you
38:18going to take away from this season i would definitely pick and choose who i'm a good friend
38:24to moving forward but you know what i am so lucky to go kind of through this life journey with
38:31these ladies and let me just say this i really really really do hope and pray that shamia and p
38:40can rekindle their friendship i might have lost a friendship with brit but i really hope that you
38:45guys can rekindle the one that i lost okay that's nice it is nice well phaedra your stay was short
38:54but it sure seemed like a lot of fun how does it feel being back on this platform in this group
39:01you know it was a wild two weeks yeah i mean grenada best time i've ever had on a trip outside of
39:08africa wow real yeah i would do it a million times over it's fun to have you back yeah it is we needed
39:17that you know angela i remember seeing you early in the season and you seemed so amazed that you were
39:26even cast on the show you said what did you even see in me and now it seems that so many fans have
39:33seen something in you i have a deep gratitude for the platform for the fangelas uh and just you know
39:43just to be given the opportunity to film with my mom i now know that she can live in everyone's home
39:49forever yeah yeah that is the biggest the biggest that's sweet that's sweet cynthia you did some real
39:58guidance this season i mean you were such a good friend i mean you really kept the train moving and
40:04i can't thank you enough thank you thank you for not being a messy friend thank you thank you guys so much
40:11um i didn't know what to expect coming back as a friend of the show and i just appreciate the respect
40:17and the grace that you guys have given me it's nice shamia we've seen you on this show for so many
40:23years obviously we really got to know you this season what do you take away from this ah just to um
40:31be more open about my feelings it's been an incredible journey and i pray that moving forward
40:37i can build alliances with all the ladies pinky promise
40:45porsha um how do you look back on what was really a very transitional year for you in your personal
40:52life um i mean i've had rough seasons on the show before um but none this transformative honestly to be
41:01able to sit and watch yourself not be your best and i don't blame anybody but me
41:07but i have to say as a woman sitting up here with other divorcees and i just have to thank god that
41:13i am sitting here with my right mind and um you know to shamia i really hate the way this season
41:19went and you know i continue to love you i continue to cheer for you so i'll put a button on that by
41:24saying that i love everybody that are on these couches that's not easy to say on the show and you know
41:30thank you for such a beautiful season and a learning season for me but andy i got to say one
41:35more thing yeah you didn't get to come to my birthday party in nashville oh
41:40uh-oh okay and so i just want to add you into the fun okay
41:50i know you've been wanting to do a dance oh yeah i love dancing on tv
41:54i wanted to do the fan dance oh man okay and hey there you go there you go
42:04oh all right you didn't get a fan okay so we whenever we hang out shamia is the dancer of the
42:11group the choreographer yeah show us the dance real quick that we can see okay so let's go one two
42:18three six one two three let's go two three you gotta pop your hip out andy
42:28when do we get to squirt
42:29that's a wrap on season 16. thanks for watching everybody for more from the real housewives go to bravo tv.com