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00:01Previously on Match Me Abroad.
00:03You have a little bit of sauce on your forehead.
00:05Oh.
00:06There you go.
00:07You're so sweet, it just would make you sweet and spicy.
00:09Harold seems very sweet.
00:11But at the same time, I am not so sexually attracted to him.
00:16What do you normally do for leisure?
00:19I guess I'm here on vacation to meet you.
00:22Right.
00:25So, honey, why are you single still?
00:27I would just go out with any pretty girl that would want to go out with me.
00:31And I wouldn't actually talk to her and get to know her first.
00:33You have to go really deeper.
00:36I want to take physicality out of it.
00:39We have dates for you.
00:41Can I at least see their picture?
00:42No.
00:45Frog, porridge.
00:46Kind of slurp the meat out from the bone.
00:49Slurp the meat out from the bone?
00:51Yeah.
00:52Yeah.
00:53If you have one chance to take a girl and impress them,
00:58dining in the red light district, eating frog porridge soup is not the way to do it.
01:03This is very tender.
01:07Okay.
01:08Okay.
01:09I'll see you again.
01:10I promise.
01:11Really?
01:12As we were saying goodbye, Bernardo kissed me.
01:17I came in this door.
01:18I shut it.
01:19Right?
01:20And I was like, ah!
01:21I want you to try a little bit more.
01:25Dating Brazilian guys and see how things go with Bruno.
01:30Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:31And don't kiss.
01:32These Brazilian men.
01:34Woo!
01:57Oh, wow.
02:00Oh, my gosh.
02:01This is great.
02:02This is great.
02:16Okay, what am I going to wear today?
02:24I've been anticipating this date with Bruno since Luisa showed me his video way before I left for Brazil.
02:30When I think about finding love, I think about a partner who wants to grow together with me and I'm ready to love.
02:41That was cute.
02:43And now I can't believe this day is here.
02:46But I still really like Bernardo and we have been talking every day since our first date.
02:52I don't know how to make sense of what I'm feeling.
02:58I think I'm just getting a little bit nervous about potentially liking two people so much at the same time.
03:04I'm a worrier, but I'm trying to be open to the process.
03:11Oh, hi, Mom.
03:12How are you guys?
03:16Right now I'm walking to my date.
03:19I'm actually going to go see Bruno.
03:22Oh, my God.
03:24And we are going to be rollerblading.
03:26Oh, wow.
03:28I don't know how to rollerblade.
03:30I don't think I've ever rollerbladed in my entire life.
03:33That's so funny.
03:35Oh, my gosh.
03:36Think about me over the next couple of hours as I'm on rollerblades.
03:39Oh, my gosh.
03:40Okay.
03:42Okay, babe.
03:43Love you.
03:44We love you.
03:45All right.
03:46Chat later.
03:47Bye.
03:49Bernardo was a great match for her for the first date.
03:54But I think Bruno is a better match for Monica because Bruno is much more firm about what he wants in life.
04:03And he's really ready for a relationship.
04:07I'm excited about Monica's future with Bruno.
04:10And I hope they can build this relationship together with good communication and maturity.
04:24Hello.
04:25Hi.
04:26Hi, Monica.
04:27Hi, nice to meet you.
04:28Nice to meet you.
04:29We give a kiss.
04:30Oh, we do?
04:31I have a rule against kissing.
04:33I'm just kidding.
04:34Don't worry, don't worry.
04:35Nice to meet you.
04:36Nice to meet you.
04:37You smell good.
04:38And think about we just going to ride.
04:40You want to ride with me?
04:42You have experience with rollerblading?
04:43No.
04:44No.
04:45No?
04:46No?
04:47Like, zero.
04:48Not at all?
04:49Like, you are going to have to help me.
04:50Yeah.
04:51I will.
04:52Okay.
04:53Let's go.
04:54When I first see Monica, I think, oh, she's pretty.
04:59She's smaller than me.
05:01And I love this.
05:03And I love the smile.
05:06And I'm really nervous because I've never been on a date with an American woman.
05:11But when I saw her, my spirit, my mind come down.
05:15No, so this is probably mine, right?
05:16The smaller one.
05:17Yeah.
05:18Yeah.
05:19With a big head.
05:20Not going to lie.
05:21Oh, it looks pretty.
05:22But is it, like, tight enough?
05:23Should I take my ponytails out?
05:24No.
05:25I will help you.
05:26It's the other way.
05:27Other.
05:28I had it on backwards, Bruno.
05:32No.
05:33Wow, a dork.
05:34It's not like that.
05:36You can do that.
05:38I'm good.
05:39I'm fine.
05:40Okay.
05:41You're going to think I'm such a dork.
05:44Okay.
05:45You can think that.
05:46I will.
05:50Bruno's turning out to be a real gentleman.
05:52Every girl needs a Cinderella moment, right?
05:54I just happen to be in rollerblades.
05:56Having a little help from someone so attractive and handsome like Bruno, he has a bright, brilliant
06:02smile.
06:03And the butterflies are just kind of fluttering inside of me.
06:07But Luisa warned me about not kissing him.
06:10I got to keep my emotions in check on the first date.
06:13So, Bruno, what do you do for work?
06:16Um, business consultant.
06:18Oh, yeah, yeah.
06:19But I'm a journalist.
06:20Oh, wow.
06:21Yeah.
06:22And tell me more about you.
06:24So, I have a daughter.
06:26You have a daughter?
06:27I do.
06:28Oh, yeah.
06:29Can you guess how old she is?
06:30Um, 10 years.
06:33A little older.
06:34A little older?
06:35I have a 21-year-old daughter.
06:3621, yeah.
06:37Yeah.
06:38Yeah.
06:39Um, she's my only daughter.
06:40She looks pretty like mom.
06:41Aw.
06:42Aw.
06:43Okay.
06:44Breathe.
06:45Concentrated.
06:46Oh, God.
06:47Okay.
06:48Okay.
06:49Okay.
06:50I feel like that kid in, um, Christmas Story.
06:51Yeah.
06:52Holy chihuahua.
06:53Yeah, yeah, yeah.
06:54All set.
06:55Let's go.
06:56Okay.
06:57Yay, we're rollerblading.
06:58Yeah.
06:59Kind of.
07:00Preston?
07:01No.
07:02No.
07:03No.
07:04Are you afraid?
07:05I am afraid.
07:06I feel like I'm gonna fall.
07:09You're amazing.
07:10Oh, my God.
07:11I'm amazing.
07:12You're sweet.
07:13You're doing well.
07:14Wait, how old are you?
07:15Uh, I'm 40.
07:16Okay.
07:17I'm 41.
07:1841?
07:19Okay.
07:20Do you have your daughter so...
07:21So young.
07:22Yeah.
07:23So young.
07:24So young.
07:25Yeah.
07:26So do you have any kids?
07:27No.
07:28Okay.
07:29Do you want to go for more?
07:30Um, sure.
07:31Why not?
07:32Oh, oh.
07:33Do I want to go for more?
07:34For more.
07:35Children.
07:36Oh, I thought you meant rollerblading.
07:37I was like, sure.
07:38Uh, no.
07:39Um, but...
07:40That's all right.
07:41Oh, my God.
07:42I'm amazing.
07:43You're sweet.
07:44You're sweet.
07:45You're sweet.
07:46You're sweet.
07:47You're sweet.
07:48You're sweet.
07:49You're sweet.
07:50You're sweet.
07:51You're sweet.
07:52But...
07:53It's all right.
07:54But what about you?
07:55I mean, what...
07:56No, I'm looking for a woman, not a...
07:57Yeah.
07:58A mom of my child's or...
07:59Good for you.
08:00Look at you.
08:01Yeah.
08:02Okay, that's...
08:03I'm looking for love.
08:04You are?
08:05Yeah.
08:06Let's sit down.
08:07Yeah, let's sit down.
08:08Okay.
08:09Use the brakes.
08:10Use the brakes.
08:11Asking Bruno if he wants children and hearing that he doesn't, it's like a weight lifted off
08:16my shoulder.
08:17So he's proving to me, you know, that he knows what he wants without hesitation and that is a big
08:21deal for me.
08:22Right now, do you want to go walk away on the...
08:25Do you know what is the name?
08:27What is this?
08:28To me, it would be like a little street market.
08:30Street market.
08:31Yeah.
08:32Yeah.
08:33But in Brazil, the name is Ferinha.
08:35Ferinha.
08:36Ferinha.
08:37Ferinha.
08:38Ferinha.
08:39Okay.
08:40I'll do the Ferinha with you.
08:41Okay.
08:42I am having an awesome time.
08:46Bruno is attractive and kind and funny and smart.
08:51But I am now very confused and very conflicted.
08:55I like both guys.
08:57And though this is a lot of fun, it's also very...
09:00It's just not my character and it's troublesome for me.
09:04Here, let's take a picture on your phone.
09:06Yeah.
09:07Let's go.
09:18Do you have any idea where we are going next?
09:21To fly a kite.
09:22All right.
09:23Hello again.
09:24Hello.
09:25Hey.
09:26There we go.
09:27Okay.
09:28And we're on our way.
09:29Yay.
09:30I haven't flown on a kite for years.
09:41Me too.
09:42It's been such a long time.
09:44I have a lot of interest in many things.
09:47And I took an interest in kites because I wanted to make a kite that would be a generator.
09:51You hang a kite and you could charge your phone or you could make a big one.
09:55Wow.
09:56Oh, that's an interesting idea.
09:58Amber and I just finished eating some signature Singaporean food.
10:03And for the second part of my date with Amber, Dolly's idea was to go fly kites.
10:08I'm not sure if she's interested in me or not.
10:11And I hope that with flying a kite, we'll get to know each other.
10:15We'll get to experiment and work as a team.
10:17You know, Benjamin Franklin proved that while flying a kite, lightnings consist of electricity.
10:23And I hope that there's a spark while flying a kite with Amber.
10:26You talk about so many, like, little things.
10:30How old are you?
10:31Where are you from?
10:32I mean, I know you're here, but where were you born?
10:34So I'm 37.
10:35I was born in China.
10:37I migrated here when I was seven years old.
10:40I'm glad that I came here and I got a very good education.
10:44Oh, I should talk about myself.
10:48I'm 43.
10:49I'm Harold.
10:50Okay.
10:51I'm from the United States.
10:53I was born in Connecticut.
10:54I have a certificate and certifications to work with nuclear material.
10:59So I keep people safe at the nuclear power plants.
11:02Is it a dangerous job?
11:04It's very safe.
11:05There is danger there, but it's like a very powerful tool.
11:09As long as you follow the steps, it's safe.
11:12Wow.
11:15I think I'm in touch.
11:18I'm okay to hold hands.
11:19Oh, okay.
11:20Yeah.
11:21Nice.
11:22Yeah.
11:23I'm so happy holding your hand.
11:24I was distracted.
11:25The chemistry between me and Harold, it's a bit uncomfortable.
11:33But I think the date is going pretty well.
11:35In the Asian culture, we normally don't hold hands on the first date.
11:39But because of how short he has the time here, it might be a good idea to hold hands,
11:44which will kind of give us more chance to build up this contact and intimacy.
11:50His hand is very chubby, so it feels like holding on to a sponge kind of feel.
11:57Very comfortable, actually.
12:09Oh.
12:10I'm going to need a screenshot.
12:11I mean, a selfie of that.
12:13That is awesome.
12:14Selfie?
12:15Oh.
12:16Okay.
12:17So we should go this side, right?
12:18Let's go this side.
12:20Nice.
12:21Nice.
12:23Oh, what a view.
12:24This looks like a good spot.
12:25I have something planned.
12:26Oh, okay.
12:27Want to do one?
12:28Okay.
12:29We'll do one first, because we're going to have to run with it.
12:31Because there's only a slight breeze.
12:32Yes.
12:33I'm having a wonderful time.
12:34I feel as if my lungs might burst.
12:35I feel so full of butterflies.
12:36I have to breathe to let them free.
12:38But I don't know if she feels the same.
12:39I don't feel she's as excited about this date as much as I am.
12:43And I'm trying my best.
12:44Okay, let's run, run, run, run.
12:45You got it.
12:46Woo!
12:47Ah!
12:48Ah!
12:49Ah!
12:50Ah!
12:51Ah!
12:52Ah!
12:53Ah!
12:54Ah!
12:55Ah!
12:56Okay, one, two, three.
12:58Yay!
12:59Oh!
13:00Oh!
13:01It's totally fine.
13:03It's a good time.
13:04No.
13:05I'm having fun.
13:06You're going to have fun.
13:07Okay?
13:08Yeah, I'm having fun.
13:09Okay, let's run, run, run, run.
13:10You got it.
13:11Oh!
13:12Ah!
13:13Ah!
13:14Ah!
13:15Ah!
13:16Ah!
13:18Ah!
13:19Ah!
13:20Ah!
13:21Ah!
13:22Ah!
13:23Ah!
13:24Ah!
13:25Oh!
13:26Ah!
13:27totally embarrassing as my pants try and fall down as I try to run yeah I do
13:33wish I had suspenders it would have kept my pants up it would look very stylish
13:37go oh yay
13:47okay that was fun too bad there's not a better win yeah
13:53you enjoy it oh yes she is amazing and oh my god she's attractive but before I
14:03develop any more feelings for her I have to get something off my chest I guess
14:08we'll go okay let's go I'm nervous because Amber is already sending me mixed
14:14signals so this very well could be a deal breaker but I'm trying to find
14:18someone that will embrace the whole me so it's a necessary next step it's a
14:24bit quiet here right today yes it's very quiet
14:31you're here for a blind dating experience oh no I didn't have in mind flying or
14:41halfway across the world to be blindfolded on a first date so how long you've been
14:45single for five years now so you've been a celibate for five years
14:48all right let's go all right thank you
15:07hi Tony hey how are you good how are you good good do you know why you are here today I don't know it looks like I'm at somebody's house here
15:12I don't know it looks like I'm at somebody's house here you're here for a blind dating experience
15:39God okay I want to challenge you to see more than looks and physical thing
15:51uh do you see what you have in front of you oh no yeah it's black blindfold
15:58you have to trust this I just arrived to Sao Paulo Brazil a few days ago and today is my first date
16:11in Brazil and I didn't have in mind flying halfway across the world to be blindfolded on a first date
16:17in the past I've fallen for women solely based off of their looks so I get it she's doing something
16:22physical to stop me from seeing my dates I invited three women okay and they're good matches for you
16:31and they're gonna be blindfolded too it's a double blindfold date yeah and then you have a little
16:38time to talk okay to them and to connect with each of them okay perfect okay in the end you're gonna
16:46choose only one girl to go to an official date with okay so are you ready I'm ready let's go okay
16:56I decided to create a blind dating experience for Tony because Tony wants a serious relationship
17:06I need to take physicality out of it mental and emotional connection those are much more important
17:13to have a solid long-term relationship so you guys can sit and talk a little bit I'll be back soon enjoy
17:29all right where are you I'm here oh yeah this is me okay hi hey what's up I'm Tony sorry I'm Tony
17:44I'm Lucila Lou Lou Lou yeah Lou Lou just move oh so tell me about you I'm Lila I'm Gabby Gabriela nice to
17:56meet you I'm 26 years old okay I used to work in like digital fashion but now I am just a full-time
18:06content creator okay what do you do for a living I'm DJ I don't you don't go to nightclubs um it's just
18:15too loud for me um yeah you can go ahead go that's my there you go no hair yeah no hair don't care right
18:27or is it long hair don't care which one is it mine is very long hair oh okay yeah very long hair oh wow
18:33okay where are you I'm here yeah I don't mind like bald guys it's okay but um of course I I'd rather
18:44hair but I'm open to know people better so I think it's all about the whole package you know
18:52so how long you've been single for single um one year wow okay I think since COVID five years now
19:04five years wow is it a long time four years that is a long time yeah that's a long time so you've
19:13been celibate for five years there's some stuff in the middle oh okay normal stuff normal stuff yeah
19:24okay what's stopped you from getting a boyfriend I don't know I think sometimes it's just not meant
19:34to be uh in Brazil guys are not very commitment so we go with the flow wow um I'm a little bit more
19:46conservative than that she told me that she has not been celibate and if you're not in a relationship
19:55you should be celibate and how long have you been celibate
19:58uh I don't feel comfortable answering that so what are you looking for in a woman uh definitely
20:09a woman that has like longer hair has her shoulders uh a woman that exercises has a little bit more
20:16muscle okay interesting mm-hmm he was talking about just physical things it tells me that he's a little
20:26a little bit insecure or maybe not sure about himself he's not my type compared to what I really
20:30like do you have any kids no no kids no kids no kids not yet no and do you like children oh I love
20:40kids yeah cool absolutely yeah kids are great my daughter has one year and a half and six months okay
20:48I am pretty surprised that she has a kid and is a DJ you wouldn't think those two things would really
20:57go together so it's a little bit concerning for me especially in a long-term relationship
21:02okay okay time's up it's nice to meet you Gabby nice to meet you too yeah yeah walk safe okay
21:08this blind date experience overall was a it was a very precarious situation for me I tried to make
21:16the best of it but I kind of felt like disappointed and I'm wondering if this experience is all a waste
21:23of time it seems as if he's not as established as most men that I'm typically used to dating
21:32that fairy tale Prince Charming doesn't exist compromising a little is that in the is that in
21:38the future for you to compromise I don't feel like I should have to
21:43do you want to go eat with me um tomorrow I was 100% set on Bernardo and then enter Bruno oh my god
22:02when I look around I don't see no action just words I can say what you want to but I know you ain't
22:10about that lie all right let's go to the market
22:14morning hi good morning ready yes sir we're ready
22:23so how'd it go with Freddie last night he was really nice it was really fun um he lives with
22:37his mom which I thought was interesting but apparently here they all do we're totally married
22:41oh I love that I know you would
22:43but mom let's be real we would call each other if we live together of course
22:48I went on my first date last night in Singapore it was very very very different red light just
22:55direct eating frogs honestly I think Freddie is great um but Freddie just seems a little bit
23:00young for me maybe lacking his stability and success that I was hoping to find in a Singaporean man
23:06this morning I'm meeting Dolly to talk about the first date and to go over next steps because the
23:27reality is like I I'm not trying to waste anyone's time here like especially not mine
23:33so welcome to the durian market okay yeah thank you thank you so it's kind of unusual yeah let's
23:40have a look at some durians okay so this is like Singapore's national fruit okay right and it looks
23:47like what you see here is in that shell okay do you want to try that sure I decided to ask Sarah and
23:57Kitty to meet me at the fruit market to hear all about her date with Freddie I also want them to
24:04try some durians it's not kind of foul it is not for the faint-hearted but I want to see Sarah out of a
24:13comfort zone because she needs to reset her mind she's been dating the same kind of guys in Texas and I just
24:21want to do the exact opposite of what she's used to so I hope this wakes her up and will get her
24:29excited to date differently it is a sweet sweeter taste so the smell actually lingers on your fingers
24:39for 24 hours oh wow wow so I'm just messing with you I'm just messing with you not surprising
24:48almost looks like what I imagine a yellow kidney or something like I'm much more open to eating a fruit
24:58than a frog and in some sort of weird way it grows on you you know how there are sometimes some things
25:05that like smell kind of rank but like for some reason it's like a good rank oh my god that's gross
25:13so tell me about the date
25:17Freddie took me to a place in the red light district and we ate frog porridge
25:24what did you think did you actually try it I did it tasted like chicken wow
25:30what I liked about him is I just liked how much fun we had together
25:35but it seems as if he's not as established as most men that I'm typically used to dating
25:40you want to have someone to make you feel safe
25:44I am drawn to guys that kind of remind me of my dad in that aspect
25:49I didn't really get those vibes from him
25:53the family life that I had growing up my dad was kind of like the breadwinner and my mom took
26:02care of the family and the kids and even though I own my own business and I support myself
26:07that's what I want one day why would I put myself in a stressful financial situation if it's if it's not
26:13necessary especially if you're talking about having a family and even a future with someone
26:18when you're thinking about bringing children into the world stability is like
26:23yeah it's very very important right yeah I think what you've asked for is fair okay good it's just
26:29about setting the right expectations I think that's very important because even though you may find
26:35someone checks a lot of the boxes that fairy tale Prince Charming doesn't exist you're gonna have to
26:41compromise a little bit on certain things so I'm just talking about priorities now yeah right so far
26:47you have been like covered in brands right I that's what I noticed about you are you gonna expect your
26:55man to pay for all of your apparel because he's gonna look at you and go oh can I provide for her he's
27:02gonna wonder that too they have to provide for me and my family on a comfortable level does it have
27:08to be a luxury lifestyle no but I am used to a nice thing compromising a little is that is that in the
27:15future for you to compromise I don't feel like I should have to of course I'm annoyed that Dolly and
27:23my mom want me to compromise with what I'm looking for I mean if I can provide this life for myself
27:29then I feel like a guy should be able to as well and I'm not to the point where I'm willing to
27:35potentially like give up on that dream yet I am fully committed to finding love in Singapore I feel
27:41in my heart and soul and God that I'm getting closer and closer and that he is right around the
27:47corner and I'm just not willing to compromise if five years down the road I still haven't find
27:53someone and found anyone then sure I'll okay right now I'm not really willing to compromise
27:58try the chicken okay what do you think
28:13that's good it's good so good I gotta tell you you guys have some delicious food in Brazil
28:23do you ever try a pastel no but you know what it reminds me of a little bit of like um an empanada
28:31but like an empanada but with more of a fried taste um it's very yeah very super good I mean I love them
28:39um so so um I don't mean to change the subject but I wanted to thank you for that video you made
28:48yeah and tell me about like are you looking for a relationship yeah in this moment in my life I'm
28:54very anxious to to meet you and I was wondering oh how looks uh she or imagining all this thing so
29:03you were nervous I'm nervous I'm very curious to to to know you to talk to talk with you and know
29:11everything um I'm really I really like you really like to to this day I really like to be here and I
29:19want for more so cute I really like you really like you I'm glad we met yeah what am I gonna do with
29:30you no no no no no no no no no no you're great you've done nothing wrong you're awesome you're
29:40amazing you're wonderful I just yeah I just dealing with stuff but I just think you're great
29:46man I like it I really like it
30:00I really like it yeah Bruno is such a good kisser
30:30gosh I could have kissed him forever I felt like he really wants me and I feel like he really
30:36likes me and there's a part of me that didn't want to kiss him because of Bernardo and Luisa had told
30:45me not to kiss somebody else and maybe she was right but I just feel so connected to him so impressed
30:52by him so enamored do you wanna do you wanna go eat with me um tomorrow maybe um I don't know what
31:02my plans are but I do want to see you again yeah I just think you're great I just I don't know I just
31:08don't know anymore okay you're about the distance about a lot of things distance people I've yeah
31:16other people I've met okay I have a lot to think about yeah
31:21well I think um okay I think I need to go okay I'm gonna see you again yeah yeah see you tomorrow
31:39maybe I'll see you again I was I am was 100% set on Bernardo I didn't expect to have such a fun day
31:49thank you I thought this that was it I could go home happy and then enter Bruno and I've got two
32:00amazing candidates like how does that happen all right see you bye wait for you oh my god this is
32:10horrible so now I'm like what do I do this is the worst case scenario I just it's like a good problem
32:18to have but it's the worst problem to have because someone's gonna get hurt and that's the last thing
32:24I ever wanted to do have you done any picnics recently no I haven't I haven't gone on many dates
32:38actually okay I just want to fully disclose everything about myself especially since I
32:44really want to find a woman that accepts me for the way I am
32:54you have a great deal yeah nice
33:02Ali wants me to go deeper on this first date with Amber so it means speaking more hard truth
33:09and getting to know each other so have you done any picnics recently no I haven't I haven't gone on
33:18many dates actually okay I just want to fully disclose everything about myself especially since
33:26I really want to find a woman that accepts me for the way I am I have not told a date I'm autistic
33:32before so this is new territory for me and it's deeply personal I hope she takes it well
33:37so what kind of qualities do you look for in you know in a wife kind honest attractive you have the
33:49chemistry very independent but caring and I need her to be patient with me because
33:55I'm a little bit autistic so I miss obvious things I've been told I'm very patient so I think I probably
34:07feel the view yeah I'm not looking to just casually date someone yes I'm actually looking for my future
34:15husband I've never been with someone who is autistic and I'm I know there's a spectrum of autism so I'm
34:25not sure how much autistic he has actually if he didn't tell me that he's autistic I probably
34:33wouldn't have noticed I think we match on many different levels and we have many similar interests
34:41I am looking for someone who wants to put the family first and it's important to my family as well
34:48yeah so uh well I'm I'm the only child so my parents worry about my lack of a marriage life
34:59which is also one of the reasons why I was so intent on finding someone and uh you have like many
35:06tests to pass many tests to pass so you have like to pass my um my parents of course and then my my
35:17close group of friends my relatives back in China so three rings okay and then even my ex-boss oh is
35:24very invested in my um dating life right now I sound like I have a lot of tests I have to pass
35:30you do actually bars to measure okay I share this intimate detail with her about me being on the
35:39spectrum and she seems to understand she takes it well and then Amber tells me I must get past her
35:45Chinese family her friends and an ex-boss and have all of their approval before being able to truly move
35:51forward I'm pretty scared but I think Amber sharing all these walls and obstacles I must overcome
35:58is quite quite good it alludes to that there's a path forward where we might have a future together
36:04because she's laying out the path and she's on my side so how can I lose
36:09I've never been put in a position where I have two amazing people that are just genuinely awesome
36:21I have been cheated on in the past and it's the worst feeling in the world I feel like I'm cheating
36:28hello I need to just have you listen to me for one minute
36:34I just feel so bad I feel so bad
37:02because I really like I have feelings for Bernardo I really do he's awesome but then
37:08Bruno's awesome I've never been put in a position where I have two amazing people that are just
37:15genuinely awesome and that have been interested in me at the same time and that I've been interested
37:20in at the same time and like someone's gonna get hurt and I don't want to hurt anybody
37:25so you know I feel like if Bruno's being as nice as he says he is and he's that interested in me and
37:36he's that cool and he has that much going on and we had great chemistry and the kiss was kisses were
37:40great and he wants to see me again and if I say no I mean that'd be great for Bernardo it'd be great
37:47for me because I really like Bernardo and I would feel like I was true to him
37:54I have been cheated on in the past and it's the worst feeling in the world and so now going on
38:04two dates with two great men I feel like I'm cheating since my first date with Bernardo we text
38:10all day long and he has become someone that is like a threat in my life so I feel this sense of
38:17obligation I feel this sense of like responsibility towards him now at this stage in my life and what
38:24I'm looking for I'm not going to build a relationship on omissions I want to be totally transparent I
38:31want to be totally clear so I just want to talk to him and make sure that I haven't ruined everything
38:35between us okay hello hi how are you good how was your day today
38:54um good it was good I uh you know I want to tell you I need to tell you that I um I need to just
39:06have you listen to me for one minute um I had a good date today
39:12and it was really fun and and the person I was with was really nice and he was really great
39:19and we spent time talking afterwards and I really I like him too and I want you to know
39:27that like I I kissed him a couple times
39:30can you hear me
39:34what can I say you I I feel so bad
39:40still to come on this season of match me abroad
39:48oh nice what do you want to wager if I win the rest of time you're here you just take me
39:55he then definitely is in the running but Glenn has been texting me every day
40:02so have you broken up with him yet
40:04what's the most exotic place I've had sex
40:10uh I think mine's a public toilet you're gonna make me blush
40:15it's something we I want to try
40:19oh wow hello handsome I'm a sucker for big muscles and tattoos
40:29I spoke to EJ earlier today
40:33what did he have to say about me
40:35remember I'm on your side
40:37okay what are you gonna tell me
40:39so Monica how are you feeling I feel like I don't want to make a decision
40:46I have two incredible men and I'm still unsure of what to do
40:51I invited Bruno and Bernardo here
40:55together
40:56grown-ups make decisions right
40:59Darren and I are supposed to hang out
41:05doesn't show up
41:06I feel like what he did it just triggered so much
41:09I guess I'm just so used to being like strong and independent
41:11so if I feel vulnerable it makes I guess feel like I'm not
41:15I don't know strong I guess
41:16I have another date for you
41:22however
41:23how can I help him
41:26if he doesn't want to be open
41:29if we have a list of deal breakers
41:33it's gonna be very hard to find someone for you
41:37I don't think you've ever met anybody that's like me before
41:40you can't put me in a box
41:41get out
41:44cause you're not gonna lie on me bitch
41:46get the f*** out
41:47I don't tolerate people being disrespectful to me
41:51he gotta go
41:52don't f*** him out of my face
41:55stupid ass
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