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00:00I'm Ryan, do I stay here?
00:03Previously on 90 Day Hunt for Love...
00:06Like you and Usman.
00:08You guys have been so weird to me today.
00:10Well, I think he likes you more than just a friend.
00:13Do you like me as a friend or you're liking me?
00:16I don't know. I kind of like you to be honest with you.
00:19I assumed Colt liked me, but this is my first time hearing it.
00:23He has the potential to be the guy that I do fall for,
00:27but I'm also compatible with Usman.
00:29Come on. Let's go together.
00:33Would we be open when we take you on a date?
00:37Yeah.
00:38I choose Nikki because Nikki is gorgeous.
00:42I'm also trying to make Courtney feel jealous.
00:45If she's not gonna, like, step up,
00:48I'm moving to a different direction.
00:51I told Jen, I said, hey, I don't care if you go date Rob or Chris,
00:54whoever she wants to date, just be open about it.
00:57I know you guys hung out at her poll.
00:59Did you guys hook up?
01:01No.
01:03My interactions with Jen is between me and Jen,
01:05because we're both adults.
01:07We're both single.
01:08Nobody's here getting cheated on.
01:09And we came here to meet people.
01:11So why the hell is everybody so obsessed with what we're doing?
01:14So for those of you guys who do know Rob,
01:20would you say that those are accurately representative of who Rob is?
01:23Wait, Jen, you were with him and had a little sleepover.
01:26Something went down.
01:27Does he still look like that?
01:28I haven't seen him for anybody, but I guess.
01:31Have you seen him?
01:32I didn't have sex with him or go to his place.
01:35I think a lot of people were just coming up with .
01:37First I was Elise, now I'm her.
01:39Hey, Elise is a good woman.
01:41She's not anybody, dude.
01:43Chill out.
01:44Did you know?
01:45He never gave me a kiss.
01:46Oh, my God.
01:47Are you jealous because you have no interaction with anybody here?
01:52Anybody here?
02:22No, no, no, no.
02:26No, no, no, no, no.
02:31Pain, feet to the flame.
02:32Ain't hit the play, I'm taking names.
02:40I think you're full of bull, and you won't admit that you're
02:41in the pool.
02:43This is getting out of control.
02:44We never exchanged here.
02:45I entered here.
02:46What the ?
02:47I don't think you're full of bull ,
02:49and you won't admit that you're in the pool.
02:50What has changed you?
02:51What the f***?
02:52Good person.
02:53What the f***?
02:54I'm sure she's a good person.
02:56That doesn't change the fact that she threw herself to him.
02:59Why are you f***ing Rob?
03:01I'm the f***ing Rob.
03:03Yeah, okay.
03:04Who are you f***ing then?
03:05Is it Cole?
03:06Are you jealous?
03:07Why don't you go through the f***?
03:09Is that your goal here?
03:11Cole just all of a sudden starts, literally went from like a 1 to a 10 with Rob.
03:17And again, like, I have never seen someone flip their temper that quick.
03:21But I gotta be honest, it's really satisfying seeing Jane get called out on her for once.
03:27I feel like I'm like the living iteration of the Michael Jackson eating popcorn meme.
03:31Like, I'm just loving it.
03:33I think I'm just chill out.
03:35Chill out, chill out, bro.
03:38Let me set something clear here.
03:40Even if I want to date anyone here, it's my right.
03:43Because I don't have a relationship, I'm not anybody's wife here.
03:46I don't know anything.
03:47Jennifer, tell him that.
03:48Tell him that.
03:49Because he's the one who's getting hurt.
03:50Let me finish the day.
03:51Let me finish the day.
03:52I want to be with you.
03:53We get into a relationship, then I really owe you loyalty.
03:57The rest, nobody can tell anybody.
04:00Because we have had this conversation.
04:02Don't talk about loyalty.
04:03We had this conversation, but you also admitted, you did not.
04:07You are controlling.
04:08I'm not controlling.
04:09You're turning this back on.
04:10He's pushing me away with his controlling.
04:13No, that's gaslighting right there.
04:15That's what that is.
04:16You're gaslighting.
04:17You are controlling.
04:18You're turning this back on me.
04:19I'm not controlling you.
04:20I'm asking for your honesty.
04:22I'm in the middle of all this chaos, because I think everybody at this point knows what
04:30Jen and I's situation is.
04:31I thought that Jen and I were on the same page, that we were 100% committed to making
04:35it work.
04:36I don't know if Rob and Jen ever hooked up.
04:39Whether or not they come out truthfully about it is to be determined.
04:42I think the big issue right now is trust is out the window.
04:45I think it's the best that we just, like, take a little space between us, because this
04:50is just getting out of control.
04:51They're playing victim with everybody.
04:53I don't respect that.
04:54I don't respect men that play victim.
04:56You're breaking this kid's heart.
04:57I don't like that.
04:58You don't respect Cole?
04:59No, she doesn't, clearly.
05:00I don't respect a victim.
05:02She's a grown-ass woman.
05:03We've all been here for a week.
05:04Nobody should be that upset over somebody hanging out with another person.
05:07But it's happening.
05:08It's happening, and that's unfortunate.
05:09But the person who's upset should check themselves.
05:12Somebody hanging out.
05:13It's about her.
05:14I'm not even listening to you.
05:15All right, guys.
05:16I'm gonna just pause for a second.
05:17You keep beating a dead horse, and I've already told you.
05:18Rob, Rob, Rob, one second.
05:19One second.
05:20Rob and Cole.
05:21Rob and Cole.
05:22Fellas!
05:23I don't know anybody's .
05:25I don't need to be lectured by anybody.
05:27I definitely don't need to hear from Colt.
05:29This is the guy who got caught sending pics while in a relationship.
05:33And he's yelling at me in my ear because I am somehow disrespecting Elise.
05:38Colt is truly the moral authority here.
05:41Because he's never, ever done anything to slight a woman.
05:46Listen, we are all here to date other people.
05:48That's the whole point.
05:49But also the point is learning some dating skills and actually applying them well.
05:54It sounds like communication is not going well.
05:57It sounds like honesty is not going well.
05:59Right.
06:00There you go.
06:01And we want you guys to walk away from this with actual genuine connections.
06:06And if we're just playing each other and trying to get into the rumors and all that stuff, nobody wins.
06:11I'm having a very difficult time believing that Rob and Jen slept in the same bed.
06:18And like there was zero like contact.
06:23You're going to tell me that Rob, the guy that was sucking face with Elise on the first day, almost banged her on the first day.
06:29Then you're going to tell me that this guy did not touch Jen and Jen did not touch Rob.
06:36I'm having a hard time believing that.
06:37How are you doing?
06:38How do I look to you?
06:39I'm proud of you.
06:40Thanks.
06:41I don't know why I always make trouble.
06:42Got to struggle just to be with you.
06:43Oh, oh, oh, oh.
06:44And I don't know why I keep making excuses but it's still right here in front of you.
07:03Oh my God, I can't wait to go check out this brewery.
07:10Beer cleanse, is that what we're doing?
07:13I've never done something like that.
07:14Me either, this is so wild.
07:16I'm so happy that Joe finally stepped in and asked me out.
07:21And we decided to pair up with Usman and Nikki since they're also going on a date.
07:28I know Joe is a little younger.
07:30But Joe is tall, handsome.
07:34He has these amazing green eyes.
07:36He has an accent.
07:37He's the total package.
07:39I cried on the way over to the resort because I seen a dog eating out of a trash can.
07:45Tears.
07:46I don't think I'd make it over there because I have never in my entire life driven by a dog on the side of the road and not picked it up.
07:55Aw.
07:56I've picked up 16 dogs, like five cats.
08:01I've rescued two birds, a lizard.
08:05But seeing dogs on the street, it's nothing back home from where I come from.
08:10It's so normal.
08:11So I'm not going to be on the street looking for any animal that is homeless or whatever I'm trying to.
08:16Nah.
08:17I think it's cute and lovely that Nikki loves animals.
08:20But I really want to live in a nice mansion, not a zoo.
08:24Let's see if we make it first before we think about that.
08:27Come, come, cause you want me.
08:30Come, come, cause you need me.
08:33Come, come to me.
08:35I am the fire.
08:37I am the air.
08:38I am the roots.
08:39I am everywhere.
08:42Hi.
08:43Welcome.
08:44Hello.
08:45Welcome, guys.
08:46Okay, so we have the beer bath.
08:49That's us, yeah.
08:50Okay.
08:51And also we have the energy cleanse.
08:53That's us.
08:54Come with me, please.
09:02This is Jerka Bean.
09:03Welcome.
09:04Oh, my gosh.
09:05Look at this.
09:07This is really nice.
09:08Joe and I are doing a beer bath today, which I hear is supposed to be good for your skin and hair.
09:14Plus, I get to see Joe without a shirt on, so bonus.
09:19Part of me is grossed out that we're going to be sitting in beer, though.
09:23But it is kind of hot thinking about licking beer off of Joe's body.
09:29These are ingredients to make the beer.
09:32So we have the hope.
09:34We have the yeast.
09:35We have malt here.
09:36You put it there.
09:37You mix with the big spoon.
09:40And enjoy.
09:41Have fun.
09:42All right.
09:43All right.
09:46Being in this space with Chantel is definitely unique.
09:48It's not like a typical date.
09:50You know, it's not just going out to dinner.
09:52So being able to do something intimate like this is super valuable to me.
09:57I really want to learn more about her values as a woman and what she's looking for.
10:04That's something that's very important to me.
10:06And, yeah, you know, getting to see her in a bathing suit is obviously a plus.
10:10And I'm happy with what I saw, obviously.
10:13It's nice.
10:14It's nice.
10:15It's really nice.
10:16It's super nice.
10:17Oh.
10:18I feel my skin getting softer already.
10:19Yeah.
10:20Oh.
10:21Yes.
10:22Wow.
10:23I never thought I'd be sitting in a bath of beer.
10:26A bath of beer, right?
10:27I feel like I'm floating away on this.
10:30My place needs to be by this.
10:31Here.
10:32Pull it in on my face.
10:33Oh.
10:34Oh.
10:35Oh.
10:36Oh.
10:37Oh.
10:38Oh.
10:39Oh.
10:40Oh.
10:41Oh.
10:42Oh.
10:43Here we go.
10:44Yeah.
10:45Here we go.
10:46There we go.
10:47That's comfortable.
10:48There we go.
10:49Hey yo way yo ya nah
10:52100
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11:00Tom
11:04I was like what the hell is going on here but I really want to like embrace whatever
11:25they offer me and then enjoy it and I want the Nikki to see that okay I'm like open to
11:30the wall like whatever it is is welcome
11:42this is a super intimate first day I was not expecting there to be smoke everywhere and
11:51caught shells and somebody I don't know that well so it's just a lot for me you can continue with the
12:00hydrotherapist but I will say I felt like we got to see like into each other's hearts for a little
12:07bit and like he was very supportive which was really sweet I did not know we were getting wet
12:20I guess I'm just gonna get in my dress Nikki did not come with her bathing suit so she just came
12:26into the water and go with the whole dress like oh okay she just go with the floor it's vibe well
12:33well this feels nice though we got our energy clean how do you feel about it I feel good I've never done
12:44anything like this before yeah like it's an experience and I feel like yeah it's kind of
12:49like giving you a way to communicate with your heart oh I like that I never thought about it that way
12:56yeah
12:56do you want to sit outside
13:02you said you're from Nigeria right I live in Nigeria but I travel a lot
13:11okay yeah so when it comes to marriage stuff in Nigeria how is just the day-to-day marriage like
13:19over there culturally where I come from you can marry one two oh three oh four but if I happen to meet
13:30the person I love and that person love me I would love to just have one wife so why I'm asking is
13:37because I'm a bisexual okay wait wait bisexual yeah okay I have tons of questions right now don't be
13:51offended because like I'm so curious um if we make it to be like a boyfriend and girlfriend yeah being
13:56bisexual how do you expect me to have sex with you what do you mean like is it like oh my god yeah
14:08because I don't do that oh I just just no sex okay so anybody I'm sorry I don't like you I thought
14:23that's what it means by bisexual I may be a little bit ignorant about it because back home in my culture
14:40nobody talk about sex so sexual interest or affiliation is not something that you reveal
14:46I guess people are a little freaky here than I thought because man it's not something I'm used
14:55to or heard about yeah um I've never dated anybody who is bisexual actually would you be open to dating
15:04somebody who's like bisexual and now Chantel and Joe and Usman and um Nikki are on a date who the is Nikki
15:19but all I know is she's blonde from Florida like I guess he has a type I feel pissed off like he
15:25doesn't ask me on a date hello guys how are you guys feeling this morning what's happening I was an
15:37ambulance over here oh my god you okay are you okay bro
15:55yeah um I've never dated anybody who is bisexual actually so I don't know if he's gonna work
16:06I'm completely okay okay I support getting to know other people okay if I really want to be with somebody
16:19who is out of my culture so many things I have to blend with and compromise but it's not my type
16:25it's not my taste to be with somebody who is into bisexual lifestyle I just feel like me personally I
16:31want to choose somebody who are in the same page and I think maybe this is telling me more that me and
16:37Courtney will be more fit and I'm hoping that the fact that I took Nikki on a date maybe that can make
16:44um Courtney feel jealous and finally pay attention to me I feel like I'm floating away in this no
16:54kind of beard I put in here I mean should we make a name for it well you want the name I don't know
17:00what do you think so have you ever dated older women yeah yeah my ex-girlfriend is a few years
17:19older than me yeah I'm 33 yeah and the youngest guy that I've ever considered dating is 27
17:29so how does it make you feel that I'm 25 you're very mature and I feel good about um the the time
17:40that we've spent together for sure
17:42I don't buy it I don't buy it I don't buy it I don't buy it honestly I ask oh
18:04the kiss is nice Joe has nice lips I was feeling like there wasn't any connection here for me
18:14but with Joe I feel like the attraction is definitely there I'm optimistic that maybe
18:22there can be something here for me this has been so fun cheers to a good first day cheers
18:28Jen hey Jen can we talk real quick just briefly
18:48I just want to briefly talk about what happened in there
18:54yeah get an idea where we're both at
18:57I honestly I don't want to talk to you right now
19:01like I want to take some space from you and I don't know maybe tomorrow with some professional
19:08help we can actually like do it in a respectful way because what happened here is that I just
19:14feel attacked by everybody okay okay yeah sounds good good night
19:20I don't think it's fair that they're like so over me like I'm doing something wrong just meeting up and
19:32knowing people we all have the right to meet everybody like they both are like two completely
19:39different prospects like I want Rob and I want a miracle and that's why I'm taking my time and I will take my time to the last moment if I want to
19:50hey yeah fashionably early
20:09can I have a glass of wine please Prosecco would be great thank you
20:15right now we're getting together on the beach for a tiki party I'm happy to see everybody because
20:23today I just kind of like chilled in my room I was just exhausted and I just wanted to be by myself
20:31besides today the activity was critiquing social media like okay I don't need somebody to critique my
20:37social media my feed pics alone got me followers and plenty of money link in my bio
20:44hey babe I missed you today
20:48wow
20:50so what happened god where do I start
20:56I confronted Jen because I'm sick of getting slandered about my name I was sleeping with Rob when
21:03Jen was oh wow yeah so did she admit to sleeping with Rob or what happened so what happened there
21:09what happened there so she didn't admit to having sex with him but she did admit to sleeping at his
21:13place okay I don't think they're just sleeping if they're in there that's what I thought
21:16and Cole knows this or no Cole knows all of it he's just like so like puppy-eyed for her and like not
21:22seeing what she's doing yeah why are they being so secretive about it I don't know and now Chantel
21:28and Joe and Usman and um Nikki are on a date oh they're on a date yeah are you kidding me I've been
21:39begging you to take me on a date who the is Nikki was all I know is she's blonde from Florida like I
21:45guess he has a type I had no idea he was interested in anybody else because he's telling everybody he's
21:53into me he's telling me he's into me has he been telling Nikki the same like I feel confused and rejected
22:01like was anything real they're in a beer bath I'm glad I didn't do that I feel I get like a yeast infection
22:10literally
22:13since the mud bath Carlo and I still have been hanging out I think it's nice that he's trying
22:32to challenge himself when it comes to dating someone with kids hopefully at the end of the
22:36day he wants me but at the same time I struggle to let people in because I've dealt with you know
22:46some really rough situations in the past so I think with Carlo it's like yes I like you but I'm still
22:53keeping my options open and getting to know other people
22:56oh my gosh hold on I don't even know who to visit first
23:01hi hi hi hi what's up what's up how are you how are you I'm good hi everybody hey Tiki bar fabulous
23:13oh you look cute how's your day every day it's good every day is great here
23:19hi everybody hey Chantel the twin has arrived oh I have arrived I don't have anything to drink
23:28well you have to come here baby let me get you something
23:30see Chantel and Joe together definitely reminded me that I really want to be with somebody I want to
23:44feel the way that Chantel feels right now well you look really nice okay I'm glad that you got
23:49change I feel like right now the person that will make me the happiest here is Courtney it's really hard
23:56for me to make strong connections with anybody but it's just effortless with with Courtney she's
24:00super positive about everything and it's just she's really easy to talk to and connect with I'm
24:05really just looking for the right time to ask Courtney out on a date and maybe tonight's the night
24:09let me come over there with you excuse me I need to know everything how was this day you're smiling
24:17way too much it was good we were able to like you know get a little closer get a little comfortable
24:23with one another how did we get a kiss and we need to talk alone I'll let Chantel answer that
24:29Joe you're happy I never kiss until I never kiss until I'm gonna ask you and probably then okay let's
24:34go girl talk girl talk girl talk okay when you say and when you say comfy how comfy I mean he was in
24:44his swim trunks I was in my bathing suit and we were in a bath with bubbles and beer a newsman Nikki
24:50were in that a different room Courtney don't want to know about your date I don't know how I got comfy
24:59with my man but I don't know how they did I feel pissed off like he's been telling everybody I'm
25:03number one two three like he's telling all of you guys but now he's acting like weird towards me and
25:08like taking another girl on date he hasn't asked me on a date for sure okay was there like a thing with
25:13you and Colt could that be why Courtney's pissed I think Usman at this point is just being childish
25:22because he saw her with Colt and he's like oh really with Colt okay and then he goes on a date with
25:30some girl so I think it's like tit for tat at this point I think there's still some unresolved feelings
25:34between Courtney and Usman but I don't know it's just messy I don't know you need to talk to Ussie
25:44where's yeah I don't know if he's here and then I guess the day went so bad I don't even think Rob's
25:49coming tonight he's not coming I saw Rob on the way here and he's like the party and he went back
25:54but Jen's not here yet either so I wonder if they're just chilling in her room or like what
25:59they're doing so we go knock on the door maybe they're coming I don't know no Rob's coming coming
26:04you think they're coming you think they're you think they're coming yeah like that or playing video
26:12games because I guess there was a lot yeah they're playing video games they're playing the one where
26:17you smack it hard yeah hello showing up it's good to see you hello guys
26:25what's up did you go on a date wait first who'd you go on a date with I don't even know
26:38Queen Nikki okay Nikki Nikki Nikki Nikki okay but it seems like it's it may not work they took me
26:45an hour I feel like we have some little I don't I'm not gonna call it issue but I
26:50be like I'm some differences with Nikki isman yeah you made Courtney jealous hold on hold on
26:56hold on then let me tell you what it is okay she was paying attention to party more than me maybe
27:02she's trying to make you work harder what else do you want me to do
27:06just ask her to go on a date with you and just see how it goes
27:18I took Nikki on a date in order to make um Courtney feel jealous and now a lady that I've been chasing
27:28a begging and pleading with just to pick me now she's showing me that she's angry she's so jealous
27:33I love it because that shows that she likes me too and I'll ask her for a date I believe that she's
27:40gonna say is but sometimes I feel like women are women I don't think the way we think so I am worried
27:45actually I am go-getter go get your girl couldn't can I took different most thing like all booty pics
28:13yeah how are you good how are you I'm fine
28:18do you have fun on your date did you sing her song wait hold on I'm sorry like if that hurt your
28:29feelings I don't do that to hurt you actually I mean I just feel stupid because you're like flirting
28:32with me you're telling me you like me telling all the girls you like me but then I found out you're
28:37asked her on a date and you haven't asked me on a date yet so you're right you're right um for how
28:42you feel but I feel like you kind of like not giving me that attention I was seeing you paying
28:51attention to cold more than me and I was like what am I doing I'm working I'm I'm not ugly I'm strong I'm
29:01looking fully mad what am I doing I didn't realize Usman's ego was so fragile like I have a friendship
29:09with Colt and you're immediately asking another girl out a lot of men say I'm like cold or have my
29:15guard up in the beginning it's like yeah because I'm sensitive I'm vulnerable and I don't need you to
29:21have access to that part of me unless I see like you're genuine I am done explaining to a grown man
29:28like take me on a date I think a middle school student would know to do this did you and Usman get
29:36into like a argument he yelled at my ass and stormed off yeah what he said well he thought I was
29:44entrenching on her because he kept saying the only woman I love here is Coltney Coltney but then he
29:50went on a date yeah but then he went on a date with her I know I think he might be asking her on a date
29:56now Usman's very charming you know he definitely has a personality that attracts people and he's a
30:04he's a great guy to be around he's funny but people don't give Courtney enough credit she's smarter than
30:08what people think and she's not gonna give Usman another shot after asking another girl out I
30:14think Courtney can kind of see through a lot of his I feel a lot of affection a lot of feelings for
30:20Courtney I will feel legitimately hurt if Courtney were on a date with somebody else and especially
30:25Usman I think he's gonna get rejected let's watch I mean you got rejected by May so I respect you for
30:35that but we all have different flavors in life hey Jake who are you going out date with
30:41so Tiffany you want to go on a date yes I didn't get rejected that's crazy
30:57I'm really cool with Jay and he's got like this amazing energy but um I didn't think at all that
31:19he saw me that way I think I'm just gonna try and see where this goes I have done my part to make sure
31:26I've been clear with Carlo and Rocky but I feel like I can this is starting to get a little messy and
31:31I don't want to end up like some other people here whose name I won't mention
31:36I'm having a lot of good conversation or fun with Cole but it's like I don't know if I can trust him
31:43because he's always in toxic relationships but he's been like one of my closest friends in here
31:48I mean you're one of my closest friends in here too I'm not your friend I didn't see you as a friend
31:52I like you I'm sorry but I feel like if you can choose somebody like him as your partner do you think
31:59he's a bad person I'm not like you're trying to downgrade him I'm just saying my mind you need
32:04somebody who's funny you need somebody who like to cheer you up am I not doing that I mean this hurt me
32:10today I felt stupid they I text you at 4 p.m you ignored me all day I get to the party I find out
32:16like you've been going on date with her and you're having the please I want you to get this I am not
32:21here either to bully you to disrespect you to make you look like a fool or stupid no but the only thing
32:29I'm good at is that I know how to mind my business when I'm not welcome or I'm not accepted so now a
32:35question are you down for a day I mean yeah I've been begging you to ask you don't have to beg me
32:49I feel like I'm forcing you to ask on a date basically Courtney you don't beg you're beautiful
32:54you don't have to beg for any man I will beg you and I'm so happy to beg a woman that I love to do it
32:59you're my queen you know that you're beautiful you better sing me a song you want a song no you
33:07better write a song for me I'll do my part I promise because I do like him I do so much
33:15finally Usman took the hints I've never seen the side of him I feel he's always smooth talking
33:22I feel he's being genuine right now I should give him an actual chance but I mean this man better
33:31perform I want to go on a yacht have champagne have fruit have tacos like we're in Mexico I'm ready
33:38to have some fun you ready to head out yeah are you gonna walk me home first baby all right all right
33:49all right bye you guys oh Chantel and Joe are leaving together yeah I'm happy for her I think their date
34:00my god do you want to stay at the party or you want to go I mean what do you want oh yeah you
34:07want me you got me I'm yours I'm yours lady I'm your property you come world to me and take me home
34:16well let's go yeah for you okay guys good night good night night Courtney yeah good night
34:30good night just seeing Usman and Courtney leave together holding hands really makes me feel like
34:38I waited too long to ask Courtney out on a date I mean if they really do rekindle something or have
34:44some kind of great date like she may just forget about me she's the most important person here for
34:51me and I all I can think about is her and Usman ended up together and it's just killing me on the inside
34:58I think that was bad luck we split the tree it's all right we make sure that we cross it up
35:15all right I'm ready to shower you want to oh my god my lights are crazy here
35:24why is the life tripping I don't know I think our energy I'll go to my room now okay take your shower
35:31yeah I'll go to bed then I'll text you all right and then we're gonna talk about how we're gonna plan
35:36for the date yeah super cute beautiful lady oh you're queen
35:42good night yeah okay yeah bye good night
35:55usman can be so cheesy sometimes it's cringe sometimes it's cute right now I'm finding it cute
36:06I know he's probably wanting a kiss good night but I've already told him I'm gonna wait until I feel
36:11like he deserves that
36:12I just want to know everything about you
36:18I just want to know everything about you
36:33want to eat here yeah
36:35hold over here who you hiding in here
36:39Jen's hit me up and is inviting me to just have dinner with her at her room
36:52I feel like Cole definitely kind of tanked it today with Jen I'm hoping I'm the only option and she's
36:59going to be done with Cole so we can go ahead and see about moving this relationship forward
37:03I'm extremely excited
37:05hey
37:33Hi, John.
37:34Oh, sorry, Cole.
37:37Bien, gracias.
37:38I'll be like this.
37:40Good night.
37:40All right.
37:41Good morning.
37:42Did you have a good night?
37:44I did, you?
37:45Yeah, me too.
37:46A lot of rest.
37:47Yes, yesterday was pretty intense.
37:51How are you guys feeling this morning
37:53after, you know, processing through
37:56what went down very publicly yesterday?
38:00Yesterday was kind of like a revelation.
38:03I, you know, just realized how everybody was actually
38:07thinking and all the things that they had to say to me.
38:11And like, I don't know, I felt a little hurt.
38:18I think that after the overly dramatic workshop
38:21that we had yesterday, it made me reevaluate a couple of things.
38:25And looking at Rob, I can see that he loves to be outside
38:29of the drama.
38:31And he just makes me feel very comfortable.
38:33It makes me feel that I want to spend more time with him.
38:36But I have always feel more cold than Rob.
38:40He's my main interest here right now.
38:45But I feel a little disappointed with him.
38:47I hope that this meeting will allow us to clear things up.
38:51What was specifically hurtful to you?
38:53I think that everybody is too focused on what is happening
38:57with my love life.
38:59And if, like, they're just, like, making assumptions, like,
39:03if Rob doesn't come out to a party and I don't go to a party,
39:07then there's these rumors that maybe we're hanging out together,
39:10et cetera.
39:12We are here to meet new people.
39:14Absolutely, yeah.
39:15I don't feel it's OK to judge me because I'm doing that.
39:22So, Cole, are you having a hard time with watching Jen, you know,
39:28maybe form connections with other people, specifically Rob?
39:31You don't want to see it, right, especially because I think
39:33we have two different perspectives where she's dating around.
39:37For me, I have a different mindset where I'm, like,
39:39I genuinely like this girl and I'm going to put my all into it.
39:42I have feel that I know he's starting to, like, develop,
39:47you know, feelings for me.
39:49But I feel that sometimes he's, like, pushing it a little bit too hard
39:54and, like, maybe getting, becoming super jealous and super,
39:58like, controlling.
40:01I went through a very difficult process in my past relationship
40:06and with my ex-husband.
40:09They will always put me inside a cage.
40:13Like, in my past relationship, I wouldn't even, like,
40:15leave my house just by myself.
40:20So it's an immediate trigger for you.
40:22Yes.
40:22An immediate trigger.
40:23I can't follow the same pattern and repeat it over and over.
40:28I've been through really intense relationships in the past
40:33that were very controlled and possessive.
40:35They wanted to control the way I dress, the friends that I talk to,
40:39the places that I go to.
40:41I don't want to think that I attract that kind of man in my life.
40:45Cole has shown me a couple of red flags from the beginning,
40:48but I think that all humans have some dichotomy in them
40:52and he has a lot of good qualities,
40:54qualities that I see in a potential partner.
40:57And I think that that is the reason
40:59why I kind of, like, keep holding on.
41:01I did this when the night were rough,
41:05but nothing really happened, like, sexually.
41:09We didn't even make it out.
41:10We didn't even kiss.
41:11So honestly, like, I've been trying to get outside my comfort zone,
41:28but honestly, I'm struggling bad.
41:30I didn't even get a chance to tell you this,
41:32but, like, me and Elise have kind of been vibing, like.
41:35Finally.
41:35I know, right?
41:36Because I haven't had a connection with anybody.
41:38But the more I get to know her, we actually have a lot more
41:41in common than I thought.
41:43I've gotten to talk to Elise more since the single Olympics,
41:47and she's actually a completely different person than I thought.
41:50Inside Elise, I think there's a beautiful person
41:53that just doesn't know how to show people
41:55that she thinks all she has to offer is physical beauty.
42:00And Rob is, like, pretty much out of the picture
42:02with Elise at this point.
42:03So I'm hopeful that we continue to build
42:06and, you know, maybe we end up going out.
42:08What about you?
42:09Come on, like, way more exciting than me.
42:12The past couple of days have been a little bit crazy,
42:14like, actually.
42:15Hi.
42:16What's up, bro?
42:17How are you doing?
42:17Good, man.
42:18How are you?
42:18You look nice.
42:19That color looks so good on you.
42:20Yeah, you look fine.
42:21I appreciate it.
42:21You look good, too.
42:22Have a seat.
42:22We're finding out Tiffany's got, like, mad dudes trying to holler,
42:26and I'm trying to catch up because I barely saw her yesterday.
42:28That's interesting.
42:29Yeah, let's talk about that.
42:31So Carlo asked me out on a date.
42:32We've gone on two dates, and I feel like I've connected with him the most.
42:35I just don't know how I feel about someone who's got reservations about me having children.
42:40And then Shay asked me out, right?
42:42I don't know, but I'm here to get to know everyone.
42:45If I could go on a date with everyone, I will.
42:47And that's not, like, not in a weird way.
42:49It's just, like, if I'm going to get to know people and I'm expecting them not to be jealous,
42:53I'm not jealous, right?
42:54Well, some people are getting pretty jealous here, wouldn't you say?
42:58Yeah, I would say.
43:00I would say.
43:04So what I'm hearing really is that you guys are going to need to be clear on your expectations
43:09around what's appropriate and what's not in each other's eyes, right?
43:13And, Cole, for you to say, listen, Jen, if you're hanging out with someone else, please tell me.
43:18Like, be honest with me, and, you know, that might be hurtful to you, Cole, but it's something
43:22you're going to have to process through and accept as part of this process, right?
43:28Where do you feel that you both stand right now with each other?
43:31I came here with the intention of giving my all to the person I felt deserved it, and that
43:39happens to be Jennifer.
43:40All right, so my intention, until she tells me otherwise, that she's not interested or she
43:44doesn't want that, is to commit to Jennifer.
43:47And if I have to give her a little space, that's great.
43:50I can adjust and overcome, but I really want to take advantage of the time that we do have
43:54together here.
43:55Jennifer, what does it feel like for you to hear that?
44:01Jennifer, what does it feel like for you to hear from this person?
44:07It's beautiful.
44:11What's happening?
44:16Oh, there's an ambulance over here.
44:24Ambulance?
44:24Wait a second, what?
44:25What happened?
44:26Somebody's on an ambulance, brother.
44:30What the happened?
44:31Jesus Christ, how is that?
44:34You okay?
44:36Are you okay, bro?
44:38Oh, my God.
44:40What the hell?
44:47You need to learn about some ingredients with how to use to do your performance better.
44:53What performance?
44:54Sex.
44:55Next time on 90 Day Hunt for Love.
44:58Oh, my God.
44:59I don't need anything to be horny, and I especially am not going to eat some slimy-ass food to try to get my f**k.
45:07What is that, Tiffany?
45:08It's a fig.
45:10What the f**k is a fig?
45:14Woo!
45:15Girls' night!
45:16Girls' night!
45:18It's girls' night.
45:19We're here to f**k around, have a good time, have a couple drinks, and talk f**k about these guys.
45:24Yesterday, after Jay asked Tiffany on a date, Carlo was so upset.
45:31You're getting a test?
45:32Yeah.
45:37Dean.
45:38Yo.
45:38You going to dance tonight?
45:40I don't dance, bro.
45:41I'm going to sit here more, but I'll go and meet one lady and be like, he said, my daddy, he has so much in one.
45:45The issue here is, you say there's nothing to hide, but then f**king calls, knocking on my door, saying, she's going to sleep.
45:55Get out, you need to put some boundaries.
45:57No, b**ch.
45:58You're stringing him along, and she's really trying to have her cake and eat it, too.
46:02Both slices.
46:03You're f**king fishing.
46:04He's catching the hook, and you're like, f**king off.
46:07I really love it.
46:08Cheers for that.
46:09You don't say what's up besides, like, the one f**king time you go and talk to the girl that I've been seeing.
46:17All of a sudden, this peaceful, drama-free boys' night is about to turn into World War III.
46:22First of all, lower your f**king voice, because I'm not going to put your f**k in here.
46:25What the f**k are you going to do, bro?
46:26No, come on, right now.
46:28Jay, Jay, Jay.
46:28Stop!
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