- 6/25/2025
Open House - The Great Sex Experiment 2025 Episode 05
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00:00Okay, now I'm getting those.
00:08Thanks.
00:10En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.
00:15It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?
00:21Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.
00:25We've known each other for 16 years.
00:27Lauren's brother is one of my best mates, and now I can't talk about women issues with him.
00:34Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.
00:39Look at that rock on your finger.
00:41She just makes me, basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.
00:45The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.
00:50I'm a huge adrenaline junkie, and when it comes to sex life, the same.
00:55Tom fully understands what I'm like, and to be honest, joins me.
01:00Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.
01:04The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.
01:11I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.
01:17We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.
01:22Mm. Yeah.
01:24I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open, because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
01:31Here they go!
01:41With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.
01:49How are you guys doing, all right?
01:51Hey!
01:52They're a good-looking couple.
01:53Yeah.
01:54You look lovely.
01:55Very lovely.
01:56Hi, guys.
01:57You all right?
01:58Hey!
01:59Come on, I love your shirt.
02:00We're almost matching.
02:01Yeah, these guys look fit.
02:06One girl, but you.
02:08I'm excited, but nervous.
02:13Oh, I'm nervous now, yeah.
02:15Yeah.
02:16Definitely nervous now.
02:17I'm so excited to be here.
02:19I really am.
02:20I am like, come on.
02:22Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need, it's just a real big push.
02:30Guiding couples on their journey.
02:32Hello, come in.
02:33Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.
02:37Take a seat.
02:39I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.
02:42So, me and Tom had been together for about a year.
02:45I was terrified, but brought up the conversation with him about going open.
02:49Mm-hmm.
02:50I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt if I was with one or the other, that I wasn't complete.
02:56We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.
03:06Okay.
03:07Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?
03:09I panic when it comes to actual performing.
03:12Mm-hmm.
03:13I've basically got hard midway having sex, and then it has just gone soft.
03:21When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.
03:24If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong, and it's not that at all, and then that's, for me, game over.
03:34I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't, I can't get him up, I can't perform, and it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.
03:47I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?
03:50There's been a couple of times, there's been in the past, even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.
03:56I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.
03:59When you've attempted to open up with other women, what is the story in your head?
04:04I can't take the top off. I absolutely hate looking at myself. I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.
04:14When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy. Then Tom got his heart diagnosis, and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom. It was terrifying.
04:26The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down, die at any point.
04:33It was so, so scary. He got really down. He obviously put on a lot of weight, because he wasn't allowed to work out.
04:40Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself, and doing all of that is basically, well, it just went down the drain.
04:52You have a terrible relationship with your body.
04:54Yeah, definitely, definitely.
04:56It's like you're not going to get a hard-on, because you might be mentally aroused, but you're not physically aroused.
05:08Hey, you're okay?
05:09Yeah, I'm good.
05:10I'm good.
05:13I wasn't expecting that.
05:15Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?
05:19The fact that I'm just, I've stopped in my path and just let myself go.
05:24So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right? Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up, which is kind of what Lauren wants.
05:40And I imagine you feel the pressure of that.
05:42It's what I want as well.
05:48Lauren, what do you want to achieve? What would be your ideal situation?
05:51I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap.
05:55And also, I've never had more than two men at once, and it's always been a fantasy of mine.
06:02And the same for women as well.
06:04But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.
06:09Sure, yeah, no, exactly. Hopefully, here is the place where we can help you get over those things.
06:14Starting with a good old party.
06:16Tonight is about taking the lead.
06:18Why don't you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right?
06:22I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.
06:31This is about sensuality.
06:33That's about cuddles and touches.
06:36I want you to focus on one person, and I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching, how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.
06:47Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.
06:55And then, be open to things escalating.
07:02That's the part that I get a bit, wow.
07:04When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight sex.
07:07Yeah.
07:09Right.
07:10It sounds really exciting.
07:11Yeah, okay.
07:12Beautiful.
07:13Yeah.
07:20Tom has a bit of work to do because his issues are mostly in his head.
07:26So, the exercise today is to get him into the present, feeling what pleasure looks like and to be more embodied.
07:32If you could just think about that he doesn't need a hard penis, it's amazing how quickly one will appear.
07:41Oh, wow.
07:43Oh, wow.
07:44I do worry for me and Lauren, because if I can't, if I can't do the whole open relationship, I feel like we go our separate ways.
07:55I'm hoping it won't get to that stage.
08:05Previously on Open House.
08:08Ultimately, why we're here is to bring in another couple, but I've got to be okay with Alex being with another woman.
08:19What's at stake is Alana's feelings and emotions.
08:22I've been cheated on quite a lot.
08:25Yeah, I've seen women as more of a threat.
08:27So, we kind of want you to face that threat.
08:32Would you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy threesome?
08:37That scenario wasn't in my head, I don't want to do it like I want to live.
08:42If this is going to work, it has to be the right person.
08:45Who Alex is sitting with now is Georgie.
08:50She's gorgeous.
08:52Would you like to come and spend some time in what's up with us?
08:55Yeah.
08:57If it does go wrong, is it something I'd be able to get over?
09:01I did not think this is where we were going to be on like our first night.
09:12And he was.
09:13This would have literally been my worst nightmare.
09:15Really?
09:16If someone was like, how would you feel about doing this?
09:18I'd be like, no.
09:19We didn't think that we would be in a hot tub if we were better.
09:22And here you are.
09:25How would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss?
09:34How do you feel?
09:36I'm okay.
09:37Yeah?
09:42I'm okay.
09:44In that moment, watching Alex and Georgie kiss,
09:47I thought, oh, no.
10:12How did that make you feel?
10:14Like, fine.
10:15I was like, yeah, look, almost a bit turned on by it.
10:20I really want you on me.
10:22Can I like, can I like, can you on me?
10:25I can't believe this.
10:26Are you proud of me?
10:27Yeah.
10:29Like, what the hell?
10:31Yay.
10:32Yeah.
10:33I've never seen Alana kiss another woman.
10:42I knew it was part of her life, like, long, long ago.
10:45But to see that, like, reopen that door was such a huge turn on for me to see that.
10:49It was, like, really hot.
10:51Oh, my God.
10:53Oh, my God.
10:55I'm obsessed.
10:56Stop it.
10:58Can we just take you home with us?
11:01Well, it all flowed very naturally.
11:03Have you got three weeks?
11:04Yeah.
11:05Who the fuck would have thought we would have been here?
11:15I honestly don't know what's happening right now.
11:18I feel like this is normal.
11:19This is normal.
11:24I think, like, if things are feeling good, do you maybe want to come back to our room?
11:30I would love that.
11:32Yeah.
11:33Explore things a little bit more.
11:35Let's take the next step.
11:36We'll do baby steps.
11:37Let's do it.
11:39I didn't think that was going to be a thing at all to bring in, like, a single female.
11:44I thought that would be way too intimidating.
11:46I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned up.
11:50Yeah.
11:53Yeah, like, this has been insane.
11:55Honestly, I can't believe what, like, it's such a change.
11:58You can do anything, and now we're inviting...
12:02I just have to come back to our room.
12:03Back to our room.
12:16Oh, my God, that shot shot.
12:20I know, I did say, my ass, like, eats the...
12:23New arrivals Lauren and Tom are preparing for a big night.
12:27Oh, that's bad enough.
12:33They'll be attending a sexy barn dance, where they hope to meet residents who could help Tom overcome his physical stumbling block when it comes to opening up.
12:42Whenever we've dipped our toes into being open, Tom felt he just couldn't perform, felt really uncomfortable.
12:52They've been tasked with finding residents interested in joining them for a group experience, where the focus is only on foreplay.
13:01Hey, babe. What?
13:04I look fucking ridiculous.
13:06With no pressure to perform, the hope is Tom will relax and rise to the occasion.
13:12I do foresee hurdles. The residents are all very beautiful.
13:16The problem with that is obviously Tom being body conscious.
13:20If I went in there on my own, I think I'd probably walk straight back out.
13:33How are you guys feeling?
13:35Yeah, great.
13:37Shit's good.
13:39This is out of my comfort zone. The heart palpitations I've got right now are through the room.
13:58So what we're going to do is we're going to go around and we're going to talk to them.
14:06I feel sick inside. I don't think I can.
14:08OK, so listen, there's no pressure. That's what we're saying.
14:11Let's just give it a really good go. This is what we're here for.
14:15First to meet them are married couple Jem and Daz.
14:19What are you looking for then?
14:21That's the question. So for me, I need that conversation.
14:25Yeah.
14:26And for you, it's obviously just about feeling body confident around.
14:28Yeah, I'm a bit, yeah.
14:30Yeah.
14:31Just lacking in confidence a little bit. That's understandable.
14:33You know, it's really nerve-wracking.
14:36If there's any environment where personality matters more than looks, it's this environment.
14:41We'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their journey.
14:45Hello, you all right? I'm Tom.
14:46How you doing, me? All right? How you doing?
14:48Hi, I'm Gaze. This is my wife, Olivia. What's your dynamic?
14:51So we...
14:52That's a big word, that is.
14:53Dynamic.
14:54That's a very big word, isn't it?
14:55That's my favourite word, is that right?
14:56Dynamic.
14:57I love it.
14:59We're really good at reading people's body language and kind of like how they're feeling.
15:03You know when someone's nervous and you know when someone's a little bit scared.
15:07But when you have that, you know, responsibility to kind of give them that first good impression of the lifestyle, you want to make it the best.
15:14I used to be like really like outgoing, going gym seven days. I used to have like the abs and I basically comfort eat and drink and of course I put on the weight now, so...
15:23You can just like kiss and you can like, you can go down on them and you can touch and you don't necessarily just have the build up.
15:31But I think it is the power mentality, you think you've got to go through that natural process.
15:35Olivia and Gaze, they made me feel so like, it just felt, it just felt natural just talking to her.
15:41After a confidence boost from Gaze, Tom moves on to single resident Aaron, who's no stranger to open conversation.
15:51Do you have an idea of kind of what you want from the experience?
15:54Basically, have fun, relax and try and let my hair down.
15:58To a couple that's coming into the retreat that are looking to open up, I think the best thing they can do is talk to, talk to us.
16:06You know, you've come here for the sex, but don't forget that the sex comes from a person.
16:11I'm a single guy, I've literally just come out of a relationship with two women at the same time for two years.
16:17Oh wow, that's crazy!
16:18Split 50-50.
16:20There'll be days and weeks and months where I don't feel like I have the confidence and I'll go and play and I won't even get hard.
16:27But that's okay because if you're around people you're comfortable around.
16:31That's what I'm, this is what we're trying to get through to Tom.
16:34Speaking to Aaron, he made it easy for me to basically say I don't need my penis basically, I've got my hands and I've got my tongue.
16:44And I think Lauren really likes them as well.
16:47Aaron has given me fanny photos.
16:52So I've never had more than two men at once, so my ideal situation would obviously be more men.
16:57I know you.
17:01Fresh from meeting Aaron, Lauren feels it's time for Tom to start deciding who to invite to their sensual soiree.
17:10Aaron, because he was on the same page as you and even he doesn't get hard.
17:13Yeah, yeah.
17:14Because I feel like he would understand you as well.
17:17Yeah.
17:19Aaron made me feel really at ease.
17:21He, yeah, he was absolutely brilliant.
17:23I'm so scared of the rejection.
17:27Mainly for Tom rather than for me.
17:29Because is he then going to be really nervous going forward?
17:33That little bit inside that if they say no, it'll feel like shit, yeah, but you know.
17:39You just have to wait and see and see what happens.
17:42We just want to know if you want to come back to him basically just...
17:46Maybe some games, some teasing, some cuddling.
17:49If it escalates, it escalates.
17:50If it doesn't, it doesn't, and that doesn't...
17:52Yeah.
17:57Okay, guys, I'm not going to say that I'm going to play.
18:02It's for me at the moment, I take a lot more to get to that point.
18:08I was surprised by Aaron because he said he didn't want to play.
18:13Aaron, without being rude, obviously we have to move along with being honest.
18:16Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea, but for me, I don't obviously want to put Tom off even more with this process.
18:24It's like rejection.
18:26I'm just, yeah, I'm shocked.
18:27Right, move all the things with the bed. Put them all on the...here.
18:39In their bedroom, Alana and Alex are preparing to be joined by resident Georgie.
18:44Are we going to be weird and go, are you okay if we get protection just in case?
18:49Or just have it on the side?
18:52They're hoping that tonight they can take their first steps towards their ultimate dream of a couple swap.
18:59By having a threesome.
19:00I don't know how this is going to go.
19:04Seeing Alex being with another woman.
19:07With where we are now, look, I'm definitely open to...
19:12Season 2.
19:14Just seeing hot ghosts.
19:16But as much as this is a really big step for me, it's also a really big step for him because he's going to potentially be with another woman.
19:25This is all new and it's starting to feel very real.
19:29So my worries going into this is me being with another woman and how that might make Alana feel.
19:35I hope that it's the most amazing experience that we could have, but equally it could not be it.
19:44Hello, come here, come in, you all right?
19:47Oh, it's so nice!
19:49It would be, it would be devastating if anything went wrong here, for sure.
19:57So much better. Okay, cool.
19:59This is a bit more chill.
20:01If you don't mind, I'm just going to pick up the momentum.
20:04No, I like that. Let's just pick up when we're left though.
20:10The sexual chemistry was insane.
20:12The fact that I could, like, just let go of everything and just really enjoy it, like...
20:26I never thought that would have happened in this experience.
20:32oh, oh, my goodness, yeah, yeah.
20:35What's going on, it takes this.
20:40Oh, my goodness, yeah, yeah, yeah.
20:43My goodness.
20:44Oh, my goodness, yeah.
20:45Oh, my goodness, yeah, yeah.
20:47Oh, my goodness.
20:48I'm going on, it takes this.
20:50But as play between Alana and Georgie intensifies, Alex retreats to the sideline.
21:11I think, like, I was overwhelmed.
21:13It was, like, from zero to a hundred and it caught me off guard, really.
21:21Although I was, like, turned on an idea, I wasn't, like, turned on.
21:37Fuck!
21:38Yeah, yeah, I'm done.
21:42I can't quite match that right now.
21:49Oh, my God, yeah.
21:57I've had, like, the best evening, like...
22:00Yeah.
22:01Give me a little kiss. Yeah.
22:02Bye.
22:03I'll see you soon as well.
22:04Yeah, we'll see you soon.
22:05Bye.
22:06Bye.
22:07I love you so much.
22:08I loved it.
22:09I genuinely loved every minute of that.
22:10There wasn't any part where I thought I feel uncomfortable or, like, oh, I don't know how I feel about this.
22:16Like, I literally loved every single second of that.
22:21Did you enjoy it?
22:34I loved seeing you, like, enjoy it.
22:36Yeah.
22:37I loved it.
22:38Yeah, I loved it.
22:46Do I always seem to get the wet patch?
22:56Maybe I could have done more, but I think I was a little bit, like,
23:00overwhelmed by how quickly it all went.
23:03At this moment, I don't know if I can open up the relationship.
23:26It's the morning after Alana and Alex's first threesome,
23:30with a female resident, Georgie.
23:35You're so quiet.
23:39Got up this morning feeling really good about what happened,
23:43but I could feel there was something a little bit off.
23:46What are you thinking about?
23:59I'm just thinking. Processing.
24:05Are you sure you're okay?
24:06Yeah.
24:10When we first came in here, obviously our aim and our kind of end goal
24:14was to be able to do a full couple swap.
24:21I knew Alex was in his head a little bit.
24:24Even at home, like, he can go a bit quieter sometimes,
24:26but today I just knew there was something kind of underlying.
24:35Hello. Come in.
24:36Hello.
24:37Take a seat. Take a seat.
24:39Get comfy.
24:41How was last night?
24:43Like, I'm really happy.
24:44Yeah.
24:45It just, it felt right.
24:48Beautiful breakthrough.
24:50Absolutely.
24:51I think what I liked is,
24:53it was actually Georgie that said, like,
24:56would you be okay if I kissed Alex?
24:59She kind of, like, led it a little bit, which was nice.
25:03I actually enjoyed watching it,
25:05which I never thought those words were going to come out of my mouth.
25:09What are you thinking, Alex?
25:10I don't, I don't know.
25:14I don't want to take away,
25:15because I loved last night.
25:16Sure.
25:17It was incredible.
25:18But I was a little bit, like,
25:21overwhelmed by the whole situation.
25:23Okay, so, yeah.
25:24Tell me about that.
25:25I don't know, like, I don't think I was,
25:28I wasn't, like, turned on physically, like,
25:30so that's what I'm confused at the moment about.
25:32Okay, okay, okay.
25:35The couple thing I definitely want to do,
25:37but again, I don't know if I go all the way.
25:38So, that's where, I think, that's why I've been quiet this morning,
25:42because I wasn't sure.
25:43For me, there was, like, something missing,
25:45and I don't know what it was.
25:46I feel like maybe I'm more of a connection-based,
25:48like, when it comes to sex.
25:50Like, deep, deeper connections.
25:52Sure.
25:54Intimacy?
25:55Is that what you're seeking?
25:56Like, intimacy to go with your sexual experience?
25:59I do find it better if there's a connection,
26:03and that's where I am right now.
26:04Like, I'm trying to figure that out.
26:05The thing that I want to understand is,
26:08how do you feel about that?
26:14Um...
26:15I don't feel comfortable with that.
26:20Sure.
26:21Now, like, I do see that as threatening.
26:24Like, what if you build, like, this really great connection
26:28with someone else that you then feel is, like...
26:34That's never ever going to be the thing.
26:37You're okay?
26:38Yeah.
26:39It's okay.
26:40You're really challenging some of the things
26:41that you're the most afraid of,
26:42and stuff is coming up.
26:43Like, that's all about that.
26:45So that's scary to you right now.
26:46So let's just look at it in the face.
26:47Tell me, what do you mean by connection?
26:48Let's just, like...
26:49I think it's definitely not, like, deep connection with what I have with you.
27:04It's a lot less than that.
27:06It's more familiarisation.
27:07Like, you almost want to be friends with that person before it...
27:10Yeah.
27:11Okay.
27:12I've never been, like, a one-night guy, if you know what I mean, so...
27:15To be fair, like, yeah, even we didn't sleep together, like, straight away.
27:19Mm.
27:20So I get that.
27:21I know that's not necessarily, like, how you work.
27:24Mm-hmm.
27:25So what would that look for you in terms of you guys dating couples?
27:29Like, do you want to have, like, one couple friend that you date and play with?
27:36Or do you sort of meet a bunch of couples?
27:40Like, what does that look like for you?
27:41We did say, like, it would be nice to have, like, one couple that we're, like, best friends with.
27:46Mm-hmm.
27:47And we get on really well with them and, like, play together as well.
27:50Mm-hmm.
27:51So what I have in mind is I want you to have a taste of the couple experience that you want.
27:58But I feel like the next challenge for you is to navigate the connection piece.
28:03For you to actually go there and start making a connection and for you to feel, like, to figure out what it feels like when it's happening.
28:10And spend a bit of time connecting with the couple.
28:12And then once you feel like you have a connection in place, then you can escalate things in your own time.
28:19And take it from there and you see how it goes for you. How does that sound?
28:22No, that sounds good. You happy?
28:24Okay.
28:25Good.
28:26I'm fine with that. Are you definitely fine?
28:27Yeah, I feel relaxed.
28:28Okay.
28:29Okay.
28:30I think that the biggest thing off my chest was what we've spoken about now.
28:33That was, like, just something I needed to understand.
28:40You're welcome. Enjoy.
28:47I'm excited to meet some couples today.
28:51But this moment, I don't know if I can go all the way.
28:56We'll have to see.
29:02We love each other, right?
29:03Yeah, we do.
29:10At the sexy barn dance, Lauren and Tom are coming to terms with being rejected by resident Aaron.
29:26Let your hair down.
29:27Let my hair down.
29:28I'm going to make you line dancing.
29:29I am not line dancing. That is not happening.
29:37Oh, oh.
29:40Oh, my God.
29:43I used to do quite a lot of dancing with Lauren.
29:49It's what I used to really enjoy.
29:51So, I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
30:00When I was around Tom, we had a little mini dance battle.
30:03Yeah.
30:04And, like, the fact that he was just busting out the robot and, like, just having so much fun with it.
30:07And I was like, let's do this, let's do that.
30:09And he was just like, yeah, let's do it.
30:10The last.
30:16I'm buzzing.
30:17I'm literally buzzing from how happy he is.
30:24He's so relaxed now.
30:25Rejection behind them, thoughts return to their objective, finding residents for a sensual after-party.
30:35I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
30:37So, I think it's a lot more easier to invite people and to see if they say yes or no.
30:41You lead the way.
30:42Hello, man.
30:43Welcome to my friend.
30:44Hello.
30:45I'm your shirt for tonight.
30:46Have you guys been enjoying yourself?
30:47Yeah.
30:48You're welcome.
30:49But it was basically, we're just wondering if, um, if you'd like to be, to, like, come back
31:06with us and just basically cuddle, kiss, touch.
31:10Well, I'm ready whenever you guys are.
31:11I'll be at the bar.
31:12I wasn't expecting that.
31:13I wasn't expecting the fact that I was actually waiting for a no.
31:22As Tom's confidence grows.
31:23And I was just wondering if you guys want to come back.
31:26Yeah.
31:27Yeah.
31:28Yeah.
31:29Oh, wow.
31:30Yeah.
31:31So does the after-party.
31:33Wondering if you want to come.
31:35Yes.
31:36Wow.
31:37That was quick.
31:38That was so easy.
31:40And the guest list swells to five.
31:43We were pleasantly surprised.
31:45And it actually feels kind of, like, nice, like, feeling, I know it sounds weird, but wanted.
31:51I would say I'm definitely attracted to him, for sure.
31:55They're a vibe.
31:56100%.
31:57I'm just really excited just to get to know them a bit more.
32:01Lauren and Tom's next challenge will be their biggest yet.
32:05As the five residents will be joining them to attempt to help Tom overcome his performance
32:10anxiety.
32:11And successfully open up.
32:14We're basically, we'll go back to the bedroom and basically see what happens.
32:20I'm not promising anything.
32:22I've still got them hurdles.
32:23I've still got them body confidence and all that.
32:26The worst thing that can happen is going into shock and walking out.
32:31Would kill Chuck stenttro hot toda, and basically see the
32:41Manhattan's head when he was deserving of asthma.
32:43Having been in two minds as to whether he's ready to open up.
32:46open up Alex has agreed to try to make connections with couples oh this looks
32:54so cute we're just looking for like good vibes obviously going into the
32:59couple scenario is slightly different because it's both of us have got to have
33:04an attraction to two different people then we'll see you know if it's the
33:10right people then it will it will be that
33:16hello Joe love to meet you love to meet you how are you doing you all right
33:21both Alex and Alana really want to get to know them don't we yeah they're definitely super hot
33:29who was the one who instigated sort of coming here and stuff then I think coming
33:33here might have been a more me did you guys come in initially looking to bring
33:39in a single lady well what were you initially looking for connections with
33:44couples yeah is where we were looking at the hardest part was obviously for me to
33:48kind of go over like insecurities with having another female like being
33:53physical and like smash that on the first night so we're like yeah one thing I'd
34:01say is I'll do three some as easiest you guys have actually done probably one of
34:05the harder things like foursomes are sort of easiest everyone's got something to do
34:08today tonight you're looking for a couple swap yeah find our way into it though it's
34:24definitely been a space it's just finding our like place big thing letting someone
34:28else into your relationship but it's it's nice because like you say everyone's like
34:33scenarios are different well it's about you guys that's the thing it's like
34:37you're not here to please someone else yeah it's what's best for you I didn't
34:42know how I was gonna feel about it yeah but actually like I shocked everyone ended up
34:48being absolutely fine with it Alex and Alana were quite attractive actually there
34:53was definitely a vibe there I think we'd definitely be into them if they wanted to
34:59kind of spend a bit more time with us can I go for a chat yes
35:06how have you found it um like it's been nice to speak to couples today like obviously that was
35:26what we wanted to do for me I feel like Jem and Daz feel like they would be like a really great
35:34couple to get to know I feel like they've got a similar vibe to us how are you feeling is there
35:41anyone that you felt like might have had a connection with I've like um honestly at the moment I just don't know
35:54right now if I can go any further
36:00how do you how are you feeling about um yeah like I'm a little bit surprised um
36:15what is it that's making you feel that way is it that you don't feel like you want to go any further at all or do you feel like it's just maybe been a little bit too much too soon like it's just got a bit overwhelming
36:30yeah mate I don't know like it's more of a me thing this now
36:37for like for now but that's as far as I can go you've hit like a bit of a wall with it yeah okay
36:47I do want to revisit this okay
36:54okay that makes me happy
36:59with Alex unable to continue the couple stay at the retreat has come to an end
37:16going forward I do think open up the relationship is for me and Alana but it's going to take time it will take more time for me
37:29um I don't know I feel like emotional now
37:49I don't know
37:55what just happened then
37:56I don't know
37:57I don't it's just the whole thing's like just very overwhelming isn't it like
38:02what's it
38:04I don't know because I don't like I don't know what to say
38:09it's just like a very emotional few days isn't it
38:18the future will at some point be a full open relationship but at the moment it's baby steps still
38:29right house
38:31it's just been a very overwhelming process but um I don't want to keep crying but like I'm actually really proud of myself
38:38opening up our relationship is a lot harder than I first thought like I really thought it was going to be a straight line but it's curves and angles and everything that goes with it
38:51it's not easy but like we've absolutely got the ability to do it
38:59I absolutely love you to pieces and I'm happy and glad and I love you so much
39:03I love you so much
39:04just goes to show that you're saying that you haven't got it however if you hadn't then why is everyone saying yes
39:22Lauren and Tom have invited a small group back for an intimate party in the residence playroom
39:28even though they've said yes and all that kind of stuff
39:32it doesn't mean like you know they see me and go actually no what the fuck is that
39:37it's what goes to my head
39:38what goes to my head
39:39I know
39:40so that's why we're going to go take it one step at a time
39:45okay
39:46yeah
39:47no pressure
39:48they hope that by focusing on touch and foreplay
39:52Tom will manage to get an erection
39:55a stumbling block that's stopping the couple from opening up
39:59I'm hoping to leave here knowing the fact that I don't have to worry about for my dick not to hurt
40:09I don't quite know how I'm feeling right now
40:21I'm feeling shocked to be fair
40:23my biggest concern is obviously making sure Tom is comfortable because I will get naked and run around like I am the opposite of Tom
40:44I know I want to be open and I'm not planning on changing that I'm not the person that struggles with this lifestyle and it's Tom that is
40:57should we make the lighting a little bit more sexy guys
41:00oh yeah
41:01let's do it
41:02let's do it
41:03let's do it
41:04let's do it
41:05let's do it
41:06put blindfold on
41:07nice nice nice
41:08is there any areas that you genuinely want us to avoid
41:11it's basically just taking the top off
41:13it feels weird that I can't see you
41:20I definitely want to make Lauren happy
41:23we'll try anything like jump this hurdle basically
41:27but once it's in my head I can't before I freeze
41:31once I'm in that rut I can't get out of the rut
41:34how are you feeling mate?
41:36it's weird but
41:38you're getting worshipped
41:39you're getting all the attention
41:41this is my favourite thing
41:42despite Effie's advice to actively engage in foreplay Tom lets the ladies lead
41:51just let us know if it gets a bit too overwhelming
41:52it was putting shivers down my spine I could feel everything
41:58I feel absolutely petrified and sick
41:59I feel absolutely petrified and sick
42:05next time on Open House
42:06are you ready for the next level?
42:07I feel absolutely petrified and sick
42:08next time on Open House
42:14I feel absolutely petrified
42:15I feel absolutely petrified and sick
42:16I feel absolutely petrified
42:21I feel absolutely petrified and sick
42:28next time on Open House
42:30are you ready for the next level?
42:31are you ready for the next level?
42:32I feel absolutely petrified
42:37I feel absolutely petrified
42:39yeah
42:40is it okay to kiss?
42:42it's two guys
42:44back in the dirt
42:46I have identified as gay
42:49today I don't know
42:51I've been feeling very nutty
42:54never had any experience with gay men before
42:57but worst case no would be it
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