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00:0012 virgins have traveled to a paradise island to take part in a unique experiment the word
00:14virgin people see it as a joke it's quite obsessing I'm 23 still a virgin I feel like
00:22there's something wrong with me in a world where sex is everywhere my god terrified
00:29absolutely terrified the truth is surprising there are more adult virgins than ever being a
00:36young adult in this day and age it's difficult social media dating apps influence with TV shows
00:42porn porn porn porn is everywhere are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each
00:48other now yeah this radical retreat is offering a very hands-on solution she's a miracle worker
00:58whoa oh god yes overseen by a group of experts yeah like that I like that ready to do anything to help
01:07Britain's virgins there's the clitters do you have any questions lose the one thing don't make you
01:16nervous they feel is holding them back I would love to have sex with you I do feel like there's a
01:22barrier between me and sex I want to lose my virginity it's now or never but when the moment
01:29arrives would you like to move to bed who will be ready I just don't want anyone to touch me to go all
01:38the way the way in the first phase of the course the virgins tried to overcome the shame of sexual
01:55failure I didn't handle the rejection too well and started to express their sexual desires she pushed me
02:02down I'd probably do something for a sex I don't know what I'm doing Jason arrived on the island
02:08barely able to shake hands oh hello welcome thank you he panicked when things got touchy-feely feels
02:16too intimate a little overwhelming yeah yeah but Zach leapt ahead I would like to go all the way I would
02:25love to have sex with you and there were early signs of attraction I I think you're really pretty
02:31thank you do you think Ben likes me now things are set to escalate with the next phase of the cause
02:39erotic touch nothing happens if you're not good at touching that's what creates all of the pleasure
02:48and sensation in our body and that's eventually what gets us to orgasm it's the morning of day three
03:15on virgin island have you guys read your letters no okay what is this and time for the group to
03:23discover what's in store for them over the next two days oh god the next phase of the course is all
03:31about touch I mean I'm fine with like friendly touch but as soon as it becomes like an intimate touch I
03:42think it'll be more much more difficult for me I feel sick biggest fear is touch sexual and touching I've
03:52never done it like no that's not me God touch yeah that's really hard for me yeah nervous
04:04God knows what they have planned I have no idea probably just outright sex to start off with
04:13for this group the idea of intimate touch is terrifying oh here we go here we go but now
04:22it's time to face their fears hello welcome good morning oh my god what are we doing why is there a bed
04:31in this room I imagine all of them will be quite anxious but you can't learn how to give and receive
04:36pleasure by just talking about it you have to practice
04:39so this first exercise today is called touching for your own pleasure
04:46one of the problems is if you touch being worried about the other person and thinking oh are they okay
04:52am I doing it right then you get all performance anxiety in your head until you actually feel the
04:58sensation of touching for your own pleasure you can't get to that next level it's like the first
05:03step right who's ready to touch for your own pleasure
05:08in my childhood my family we were never huggers I hated being hooked I just never liked it never have I'm not an intimate person at all in my adult life never kissed anyone but I'd like to be the opposite
05:29see I'll pop on there the end goal is actually try and lose my virginity and find a girlfriend be more intimate can I put it off can I do this
05:40see if you can take a deep breath down into your belly and connect your body with your hands
05:46think of your hands think of your hands as like I'm gonna get pleasure out of her arms
05:52you know what I mean yeah for yourself I wank off your arm sorry I wank off your arm sorry
05:57see if you can breathe a little bit while you do it so that you actually feel the sensations
06:07for Jason just a few seconds of touches all he can handle but Celeste isn't finished with him yet
06:28when I'm touching you I just want you to see like let yourself take it yeah just feel it
06:37good yeah good work good on you mate honestly yeah it's great one cloud nine okay who's next
06:58encouraged by Jason's example the others get touchy too
07:05just explore the sensations in your hands
07:11see if you can take a deep breath down into your belly and connect your body with your hands
07:21did you feel the difference there yes that was amazing good work
07:30the session seems to be going well so Celeste and Danielle decide to turn up the heat something
07:39that helps touch get even better is sexual energy I want to invite Ben and Holly to demonstrate oh God
07:4830 year old Ben is the oldest in the group and has had more opportunities to get intimate than any of
07:54us over the last 10 years I've been on dates of about 40 different women mostly when I've met on just
08:01dating apps some it's just been one day and up to and including an ex-girlfriend of mine who was
08:07probably about you know 15 plus dates we did sort of try making out a couple of times but I wasn't
08:12comfortable doing stuff so it was we hit we hit a brick wall you know what I really needed so to teach me this
08:17stuff I'm not very I'm not very good with the energy mumbo-jumbo so you have to I'll help you okay just
08:25remember a moment that you felt kind of excited about someone or excited about an experience yeah you
08:33are holding a lot of tension in your mouth can you like open your mouth a little bit and then relax
08:39it yeah it's okay play with it you need to play with it it's okay let yourself feel it like oh here
08:47you go did you feel the squibber no okay I think it's just lack of experience and lack of success at
08:56reading social signals there's probably occasions where I probably could have got physical or just
09:00kissed and then if that'd be absolutely fine but they may have even wanted it but I didn't because I
09:05can't read the signs I don't want a woman to think I'm a creeper that I'm handsy because that's
09:09just not me just let yourself enjoy Holly fantastic you have very sexy energy right feels good okay you
09:23did it so Tom Taylor last up is Taylor who after coming out as bisexual at University has always
09:38found the idea of intimacy with anyone agonizing anytime I've had something near in a sexual
09:45experience it's been so overwhelmingly negative that when it comes to it I freak out and I really don't
09:50want to do it and I get that feeling in the pit in my stomach that makes me stop that's why I'm here
09:55is to like trying to work out what is that's holding me back and how to move forward with it because it
10:01would be really nice to just be able to have what everyone else has okay so I'm gonna invite you to feel
10:08into your desire Tom this is really good keep it steady it's really good really good you keep it
10:21steady I'm gonna check what's with her okay if she can receive it great that's great let it touch your
10:28belly okay just to help you out sweetie okay good let it shake it's let it cry you're safe now okay
10:35you know you're safe but your body forgot okay yeah so I'm here despite Danielle's reassurance the
10:45exercise still proves too much for Taylor yes you're doing great Taylor yeah let it cry
10:53really proud of you okay thank you really proud of you good work we love you Taylor I don't know
11:10what's wrong with me for the group the workshop has thrown up very mixed emotions Ted why was the
11:28looking thing so hard for you I think as soon as it becomes intimate sexual thing yeah shut down
11:36sounds ridiculous because they're only looking at each other but that's something I clearly need
11:40to work on I usually run the opposite way if anyone looks at me like that but if you're not crying
11:44you're not doing it right Louise did you catch his wanking comment yeah I didn't I mean I didn't
11:54think okay I love that you haven't got a filter I feel absolutely fantastic I understand now what people
12:01like touch I'm not just saying they actually generally do us I can't really convey how good
12:06it feels now how did you find the whole thing is a whole I'm quite intense well I had lots of fun
12:14yeah what I was doing I did feel like you feel the connection couldn't you really yeah yeah I'll ask
12:20that new-age mumbo-jumbo slide nonsense I'm quite a logical person I it's just a lot of some of that
12:26stuff it just doesn't doesn't connect to me all right do you want me like try it and see if you
12:29can feel me yeah despite his skepticism there are some things Ben is open to trying especially if
12:39it's with Charlotte you open to receiving my energy yeah see you can feel it now what does it feel like to you
12:51the witching many of the women here I find attractive I mean physically but there's something about
13:01Charlotte I really like her and it's just I like how we connect I mean I don't know if it's mutual or
13:07but she's very confident person and she's just got that thing about her I feel like I'm doing voyeurism
13:13just watching you enjoying that no I'm gonna walk away right sorry yeah
13:25it's day one of the touch phase of the course and after an intense morning a chance for the group to
13:51unwind who's your celebrity crush I quite a lot of like female celebrities I like Charlize Theron
13:57she's just stunning I like Henry Cavill but not as Superman I like him as the witcher I really like
14:03Henry Cavill because he's really nerdy as well what do you think when you hear virgin
14:11because for me shame failure undesirable weird yeah it's definitely mostly negative connotations
14:22yeah I've had people call me a virgin and it does feel like an insult I know it's not it's a matter of
14:28it's a matter of fact but it does feel like an insult when someone says it here makes me feel weird I'm
14:35like a lot of people younger than me know more about sex than I do but um I'm hoping to change
14:42that Jason's feelings about his lack of sexual experience haven't gone unnoticed by the experts
14:50anytime there was an increase in intensity he would resort to humor so that he could distract himself from
14:58what he was feeling we're gonna work on that today actually staying with the breath as sensations rise
15:03yeah receiving is a huge thing for him now the experts want to build Jason's confidence and joy
15:12has a plan to help you with his horror of hugging hello again hey come on in thank you and have a
15:22seat oh excellent oh what is it that happens when you're in a hug what do you feel weird like alien to
15:33me when I see people hugging just freaks me out yeah I don't know why so we want to work towards a hug
15:39that feels really good yeah so let's let's stand here because it's a little more even and I'm gonna touch
15:47your arm first okay you want it yes go ahead and you feel me and you can put your hand on my arm yeah if
16:00you'd like yeah I feel sick no no no bad way I feel like in a good way British slang as usual
16:12Jason tries to mask his awkwardness with humor I feel like I just want you to receive okay so I can
16:23get a sense of what it feels like to be in this moment mm-hmm but joy perseveres before escalating
16:36intimacy can I come even closer if you want to yeah like yeah you know you can move like that I'm just
16:44staying connected with your breath yeah so you don't lose that sense of the moment
16:51yeah can I come even closer still okay I can get closer yeah okay I can touch your neck
17:07would you like to do a hug why not let's do it yeah let's do it
17:28how is this yeah awesome yeah cool yeah
17:42thank you
17:48great after the session Jason's confidence is sky high and that's not the only thing that's up
18:01what happened so I was standing like this because as much as I was like that I had a bone I was like
18:07that's really good dude I'm getting there I'm getting there I'm in a really great mood I feel like I'm
18:17glowing I didn't think I'd do this I'm really proud of myself on this page I'll be a sex God
18:22absolutely professionally trained sex demon while Jason's conquering new heights I haven't really
18:33gotten much out of mind yet I just feel like I'm letting the team down Taylor's still struggling after
18:39crying in this morning's workshop the experts feel they may be more to Taylor's tears than meets the eye
18:45even though she was being emotional she wasn't actually letting go and going into her emotion I
18:52feel like she's hiding and that's probably been a survival tactic that has worked really well for
18:57her yeah she is so scared Danielle wants to discover what makes Taylor so anxious about intimacy
19:08so how do you feel with guys as opposed to women or girls they're a lot scarier do you ever see
19:19like someone very chiseled and it's like I just want to touch the muscle I don't know I don't know I
19:24don't have it I like hair like I'm always like I want to touch people's hair like that interests me
19:29because it's soft but I'm not like I don't want to touch muscle I don't I don't prefer it when I was
19:35in secondary school I felt the shift into realizing that maybe I wasn't exactly the same as all the
19:42girls but being gay was like the worst thing so while I'm still in the process of like working out what
19:49I want all of these opportunities are passing me by it just makes me feel a bit a bit rubbish do you
19:59have women lovers or I had one really negative experience she got annoyed at me that I wasn't
20:05enjoying myself she did stop but she seemed really disappointed and she was like upset with me and it
20:10kind of ruined that friendship yeah I don't see myself as desirable right because I am a lot what
20:21are you oh now we're getting there my love okay so there's a part of you that feels that people
20:28wouldn't want to be with you yeah yeah I get told a lot the time that I'm loud and I'm tall and I'm I
20:40I take up a lot of space and yeah and that's what makes you so special and beautiful
20:46oh baby your feelings are so great sweetheart yeah just talking about my experiences always makes me
21:07upset but I've had quite a few negative experiences and of course those are the ones I need to talk
21:12about for this to work thank you but I've had I've had a breakthrough I think thank you very much bye
21:20I left happier then I went in and forward is always good isn't it so as long as I'm going forward I'm happy
21:31you nervous no I mean other than falling off the cliff yes it's late afternoon on Virgin Island
21:44Jesus yeah this is quite steep and Celeste and Danielle have hatched a plan to push the group
21:51further all right let's get a mat down we want them to start just getting comfortable with any kind of
21:56touch massage is something that a lot of people have experienced I'm hoping maybe they'll take off
22:01a piece of clothing to start to feel more relaxed around touch and maybe you know eventually nudity
22:07are you taking your cup off or go on I'll like lift it up for you through massage the experts can
22:13assess how comfortable the group are with exposing their bodies a little bit yeah and touching each other
22:21for pleasure you're very good at this thank you I have my skills all of them end with a said
22:29let's learn it my family does them we grew up giving each other massages you're shaking a bit you sure
22:38it's all right no no I'm fine I'm fine okay I mean I'm actually sure you like this yeah I need to be
22:44more loosey-goosey while uptight Ben struggles to relax rock this off the experts are keen for
22:51Jason to build on his growing confidence around touch with the islands most outspoken virgin Charlotte
22:58how's this it's fine yeah it just feels I don't know weird but in a nice way why do you use these
23:06horrible stretch marks I don't know all right did you say horrible did you well it's just it looks
23:11painful it looks like you just see my ass it's more on my ass okay I'm bored now yeah I'm bored now
23:20all right which arm first this one this one yes okay okay why are you focused in one area you need
23:30to see okay do you want me to show you on you now let's go I'll put more oil on lock it on for Jason
23:38intimacy with another member of the group is proving tougher than with an expert more thumb more movement
23:46you need to be doing you need to be doing the whole all right like that have it there like that
23:50I think it's all of it Jesus Christ what are you doing it's like wanking up your arm like that
23:55like that's how you do it but slower okay now I definitely want you to stop
24:00hello hello how was the monsieur oh so did you not like it that was a disaster I looked off my shirt
24:17and everything you go stretch more all right looking like man maybe not being berated a lot would have
24:29felt nice I've always hated my body my especially my back the stretch marks I know it's a little
24:36thing but it's for me it's quite big although Jason's suffering from overexposure to Charlotte
24:44who's yours yes you've already tried them on Ben can't get enough of it I was fine I end up
24:55getting very steep in the summer because of the hay fever tablets I take I'm sorry I was getting
25:00very steep in the summer to all the hay fever tablets because they're drowsy ones the big
25:05question now is is the feeling mutual how many songs you can get there anyway oh I have like a I have a
25:13thousand and seventy I mean it's so great that we've gotten to know each other and that we can you
25:24know we feel comfortable around each other but I'm not interested and so it's gonna be tricky you know
25:34this is my friend this is someone I'm gonna have breakfast with tomorrow and I'm gonna have to be cruel
25:39to be kind and tell him that I'm not interested
25:42it's day two of the touch phase and the
26:12sessions are about to intensify really in order to have amazing sex you need to touch you won't be
26:20able to make any moves you won't be able to seduce someone if you're feeling anxious and worried that
26:24everything that you're doing is wrong a lot of people they're holding back all of those animal
26:28instincts they just need to open up I think it's one of those things where you've got to just keep
26:36on going and try and get yourself to the next step ideally without crying but we'll see I'm dreading
26:43the group activity it's just getting more intimate with touch I feel nervous after yesterday's massage
26:50catastrophe yeah I'm not sure what would happen next for me um just being desired that's a key thing
26:56for me that's one of my sort of issues is you know being wanted and desired and I don't think I've had that a
27:00lot but um just you know see what happens and uh go with it I guess
27:04yeah it's getting first on the back row yes my plan exactly
27:12so today we're going to go much deeper into touch and work on disinhibition and that means letting
27:34out a little bit more of your wildness a little bit more of your inner animal oh god
27:38we are wired for sex right we're wired to go after it and yet society says shame shame shame and
27:46you know and we shut down and the animal game helps people feel the passion and desire in their body
27:52so I know Tom that you've taken some acting classes so I'm wondering if you would be willing
28:00to demo with me yeah sure so let's get on our hands and knees why don't you just to start to feel your
28:09senses we close our eyes and we start to feel this animal inside of us and we let that animal go after
28:17the other person actually letting it move letting it out in our body Tom may be finding his wild side
28:41but for the rest of the group it's too much to bear
28:51that was a lot of fun to be there
29:15it was very jungle book and I was feeling very Downton Abbey
29:24it's lovely like they really enjoying it but also
29:29someone want maybe 80% to try it the whole role play animal thing just really like freaks me out yeah yeah
29:49yay okay does someone wanna try it with Charlotte
29:58yeah I'll do it I mean amazing
30:05you can change your mind yeah I wouldn't yeah I wouldn't do it yeah okay
30:15I just always feel like I'm ugly and repulsive in some way and I know that objectively I'm not
30:28but I was bullied in school and I think the dating experience sort of just saying reinforce that I'm
30:34just not like good-looking why would any girl be interested in me so I struggled to to sort of
30:40initiate you know contact or intimacy find a place on the road your life is awkward unfortunately and
30:51you simply you know you just move on you know that's that's how that's how it goes and I'm just
30:55not very good at that start to notice that there's another animal here with you
31:01men are expected to make that first move and I think for guys like me who just struggle with that
31:31making the move and reading the signs it's very hard
31:35did you feel any arousal I'm curious yeah I think some yeah yes
31:59acting like a zoo animal that was not for me oh god that was just it was a bit rough and that was cringe
32:13I found interesting them bringing up saying oh you've done drama so you've done this sort of stuff
32:17like I'm not sure I've gone quite that far in drama to be fair
32:21how did you feel a bit at all I flipped our instructor I noticed like I could hear people
32:29like talking and giggling that's oh you know and I had to kind of try to block that out yeah it was
32:34like watching a porno I felt like a proper pervert yeah were you getting turned on no I thought you'd
32:40do one of the first ones up Jason no absolutely hated that in the back of my head I had a bit of
32:46trepidation about a bit of fear about it so I didn't want to do that Jason's massage experience
32:53has set him back and the experts have sensed that something's changed Jason he's been so gung-ho and I
32:59thought he would be gung-ho today but he was way more reserved we did in our session I have very close
33:07body-on-body but he wasn't able to then move the energy into something more sexual okay so maybe I
33:15can build on that yeah Celeste decides Jason needs to put his massage fiasco behind him in a one-on-one
33:21session to boost his sexual self-belief the only person if I had sexual experience with was my right
33:27hand I'd love to have more confidence I'd love to be able to be intimate yeah that's my goal to reach
33:34his goal Celeste wants to try a different approach to unleash his inner animal so we had the animal
33:42game and the touching we did seem like the animal game was not doing my cup of tea yeah so I was
33:49thinking maybe trying some different connection positions to build confidence yeah maybe you like
33:55lying down and us like touching each other I'm here to try new things right yeah well let's try it so
34:01you can lie down like yeah lie down on your back like with your head down there I'm gonna like
34:07yeah in here maybe I'll take off my glasses see if you can like just connect with your sexy energy
34:15and you if you feel an urge to touch back feel free okay and there's like a little bit of intensity
34:22intensity that we're gonna kind of try to build between us
34:26and you can touch I can't touch you guys you can
34:52yeah as his confidence builds Celeste makes things harder now I want you to see if you can take your
35:11energy seriously now and look at me like I want to fuck you kind of
35:15okay
35:18okay
35:19okay
35:22yes
35:27yes
35:30yes
35:31so good
35:32yes
35:32so good
35:33yes
35:34yes
35:35oh
35:36yes
35:39oh
35:40oh
35:42Do you need a little break or do you need a little break?
35:59Okay.
36:00It's amazing.
36:03It's a lot different than hugging.
36:09A lot different than hugging.
36:17That is your inner animal.
36:19When you take your desire seriously, it's very compelling.
36:25Whoa.
36:26Whoa.
36:27Okay.
36:28I'll see you soon.
36:29Yeah.
36:30See you soon.
36:31Have a lovely day.
36:32You too.
36:33Bye.
36:39I'm feeling incredible.
36:40Absolutely incredible.
36:41She's a miracle worker.
36:43I was a virgin.
36:44Well, I am a virgin still, but I'm like a different virgin there.
36:47I'm closer to losing her.
36:49Ben.
36:50How'd it go?
36:52I kissed her on her cheeks.
36:54You're a cloud nine, are you?
36:56I'm lying down, yeah?
36:57And I'm there, cupping her breasts, squeezing her.
37:00How did that feel?
37:02Great.
37:03I feel like I'm glowing.
37:04Like, woohoo!
37:05Woohoo!
37:06I feel like Jason is a superstar.
37:09I cannot believe how much he has blossomed today.
37:13It is insane.
37:15He brought his sexual energy, eye contact.
37:19He really got what sex is all about.
37:22Who dance him?
37:24Da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da.
37:28We like the top patterns, I think.
37:29Oh, yeah.
37:37Oh, I smell banana.
37:38The touch phase of the course is drawing to a close.
37:41Ooh, whipped cream, chocolate.
37:43Oh, there's strawberry laces. Do you like strawberry laces?
37:45I do like strawberry laces, yeah.
37:47OK.
37:48And the group have been served up a tasty exercise.
37:50A smallish bite. I'm not going to put it in too much.
37:53There's something very sensual about feeding each other.
37:56You know, the experience of putting food into someone's mouth,
37:59especially if you do it with, like, a little bit of flirtatiousness.
38:04When you laugh, I know where your face is and I can slap it.
38:08Technically, this will be the first act of penetration,
38:11so I'm very curious how they put objects inside one another.
38:17Put the whole strawberry in.
38:20Open wide.
38:21I'm not opening my mouth wide.
38:23You can trust me, you can trust me.
38:25Many of the group are throwing themselves in.
38:28You dropped it, man!
38:30Have you ever fed someone before?
38:32No.
38:33No.
38:34You're the first person.
38:35But not everyone is feeling fruity.
38:39I feel like this is probably not the most romantic.
38:42No.
38:43No.
38:44So far on the course, it's Ben and Taylor who are holding back the most.
38:51So the experts want to see if they can help, starting with Ben.
38:56The animal game was really hard for Ben.
38:59When he volunteered to help out Charlotte and she said no,
39:03that she didn't want that, he was very sad.
39:05Yeah.
39:06He needs to understand rejection and, like, how you survive that as a man dating women.
39:12After Celeste's breakthrough with Jason, she wants to help Ben find his sexy side.
39:18But spontaneity is not his strong point.
39:21I'm quite a logical person. I like to think things, I like to plan for things.
39:24Probably the best example, and this is going to sound quite sad, but it's true.
39:27I've got a spreadsheet on my PC at home of just, like, every date I've been on.
39:30I see dating in the same way a football manager would see their team.
39:34I like to analyse things and see what I can do better.
39:40So can Ben ditch his spreadsheet approach to sex with some hands-on practice?
39:46I think if you learn how to hold a little bit more flirtatious energy, like...
39:53Yeah.
39:54I'm going to do it now with you for a second, okay, and show you what I mean, like...
39:58I'm really enjoying being here with you.
40:01That's what I would do, to them.
40:03Yeah. So as you talk to me, just at some point when you're talking,
40:07give me a touch while you're talking.
40:10I mean, this is quite crude, but you are sort of my type, so it's sort of like, yeah.
40:13That's not crude, that's a compliment. Thank you.
40:16I mean, yeah, you're quite attractive, so I mean, you know.
40:18I usually go for the hair, actually, sometimes.
40:20Yeah?
40:21So I sort of do that, and yeah, it's, um...
40:24That's actually my total weakness.
40:26Oh, really?
40:27Yeah, but I like it really, really slow, like...
40:30And I feel, like, very precious.
40:39Yeah.
40:40Yeah.
40:41So, like...
40:49And I think even if you go a little bit slower, so then it feels more, like, sensual.
40:54Mm.
40:55Mm.
40:57Mm.
40:58I do feel tingly when you do that.
41:02Yeah.
41:03Um, well, maybe I'm better than I thought I was, but...
41:05Mm-hmm.
41:06Uh, you know, it's, it's, it's not something I have sort of conscious control over,
41:09just sort of, you know...
41:10That's what's good about it, is I feel like you're touching me just because you desire me,
41:14and you want to touch me, not like you're thinking about it, and that's hot.
41:18Yeah.
41:21By losing himself in the moment, Ben's gaining a flair for the physical.
41:26If you just want to, like, come in and, like, kiss me on the cheek,
41:29you don't have to.
41:30Mm-hmm.
41:31But you can.
41:34Yeah.
41:37Mm.
41:38Oh, my goodness.
41:39What?
41:40Look at you.
41:44Mm, makes me want to touch you back.
41:48Mm.
41:57Wow.
41:59You don't realise how much of a confidence booster this is.
42:03So now I'm doing it good.
42:05It's really great.
42:07You're getting better every time.
42:10It's baby steps, but Ben's session has been a success.
42:22Now the experts want to get to the bottom of watch troubling Taylor.
42:27The furthest I've ever gone with a boy is met a nice guy.
42:32He was very attractive and very lovely.
42:34Invited him back, and I was like, right, you can do this.
42:38I'd convinced myself I was going to lose my virginity.
42:40But I freaked out, I hit that invisible barrier, and I was just like,
42:46no, I can't do it, that's it, I can, and he left.
42:49And then I just felt so bad and disappointed in myself
42:52and, like, I'd let him down, cos I couldn't follow through.
42:57To clarify her thinking, the experts want to pair her
42:59with male surrogate partner therapist Andre.
43:05So my role in this is to basically stand in as what could be
43:11a potential partner or a potential lover.
43:15And I'm here to support you through the emotion,
43:18the communication, transparency.
43:20Surrogate partners help by forming a therapeutic relationship
43:23supported by a clinical therapist.
43:26I will leave the two of you to enjoy your time together.
43:29Thank you for having me.
43:30All right. Thank you very much.
43:31I'll see you soon.
43:32Okay. Take care.
43:42I'm scared.
43:44You're sorry?
43:45It's okay.
43:46I've got a lot of emotions about this whole thing,
43:49and they're kind of trickling into everything.
43:51There's nothing to be sorry about in displaying emotion.
43:55So what could potentially be, like, a desired, like, goal or outcome?
44:03Less of this.
44:04Okay. Then we're on the right track.
44:07Step on less of this.
44:09And just feeling more comfortable, like, in a situation where...
44:12I feel like any time it comes to a situation, sorry,
44:16where, like, sex is on the table, I freeze up and I panic.
44:21I just don't want anyone to touch me or anything like that
44:24because I just feel wrong.
44:27Okay.
44:29Well, that is exactly why I'm here, and we can practice with one another.
44:38We can explore the things that you came here to explore.
44:44Oh, God.
44:45I just want to see how you're feeling.
44:54It feels like there's, like, a knot in my throat.
44:58So it's generally, like, uncomfortable kind of a feeling?
45:01Okay.
45:03Is there anything I can provide for you?
45:05Do you like a hug?
45:06Oh, thank you.
45:07Okay.
45:13The therapy that was explained to me terrifies me
45:15down to the very depths of my cot.
45:18Well, if you'd like, you're welcome to head on out whenever you're...
45:21whenever you're ready.
45:22Okay, thank you very much.
45:23You're very welcome.
45:25I don't know if I've made any actual progress
45:28because I just kind of get a bit weepy.
45:31I really liked Andre and he was really lovely
45:33and I'd love to be his friend,
45:34but I'm trying to work out why I'm so panicked.
45:38I think it scares me, the fact that he's a man.
45:47Sorry.
45:49I just have one minute.
45:53I think I'm upset about more things than I got on.
46:00Next time...
46:02Jason gets back in the groove.
46:04I just feel the pleasure.
46:06I got a boulder.
46:08Taylor tries a fresh approach.
46:10I just feel such a relief to not feel scared at all.
46:13This is my posse.
46:15And Emma reveals a secret.
46:17Because you're so stronger than you think
46:19and wiser than you know.
46:21As Ireland dates...
46:23Does that make you nervous?
46:25A little bit.
46:26Hotter.
46:31And that's it.
46:32Monday at nine.
46:33Head to another liberating retreat with Open House,
46:36The Great Sex Experiment.
46:37Stream now or watch Friday when there are big questions
46:40after a big night for half a couple at ten.
46:43Even after 25 years, tomorrow hold some house hunt firsts
46:46for Kirsty and Phil.
46:47The Great Sex News kicks off a night of location celebration.
46:48The Great Sex Experiment.
46:49The Great Sex Experiment.
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