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00:00The word virgin, people see it as a joke. It's quite obsessing.
00:11In a world where sex is everywhere...
00:15My God!
00:16The truth is surprising. There are more adult virgins than ever.
00:21Being a young adult in this day and age, it's difficult.
00:24Social media.
00:25Dating apps.
00:26TV shows.
00:27Porn.
00:28Porn.
00:29Porn is everywhere.
00:30Are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each other?
00:33Now?
00:34Yeah.
00:35At this radical retreat, intimacy experts are offering a very hands-on solution.
00:41Oh, hell.
00:42She's a miracle worker.
00:44Woohoo!
00:45Like that?
00:46I like that.
00:47To help Britain's virgins...
00:49...lose the one thing...
00:51Don't make you nervous.
00:53...they feel is holding them back.
00:55I want to lose my virginity. It's now or never.
00:58But when the moment arrives...
01:01Would you like to move to bed?
01:03...who will be ready...
01:05I just don't want anyone to touch me.
01:08...to go all...
01:10...the way.
01:11Yes.
01:12Yes.
01:13Yes.
01:14Yes.
01:23Over the last few days on Virgin Island...
01:25I'm definitely gay.
01:27I know.
01:29That felt really good.
01:30Yahoo!
01:31...revelations...
01:32This is my buzzing.
01:34...led to breakthroughs.
01:36Right now I feel on top of the world.
01:38...Charlotte's bravado...
01:40Why do you use these horrible stretch marks?
01:43Did you say horrible, did you?
01:44...has caused issues for some.
01:47I've always hated my body.
01:48I know it's a little thing, but for me it's quite big.
01:51And Dave...
01:52How are you feeling?
01:53Good.
01:54...started work with surrogate partner Kat.
01:57It's given me a massive confidence boost.
02:00Now, halfway through the course...
02:02...the group will be challenged like never before.
02:05The relationship with the body is very crucial...
02:08...to dating, intimacy and sex.
02:11How are you feeling about genital touching?
02:14What we bring to sex is our bodies.
02:16If we feel shame about our bodies...
02:18...we won't be able to engage in sex.
02:27It's day seven of the retreat.
02:36And this morning there's an extra surprise in the star.
02:39Oh, fuck's sake.
02:41Well, that's not scary.
02:43It doesn't bode well that there's a robe.
02:47It's the stage of the course they've all been dreading.
02:50This phase of the course is the body.
02:52Please come to this workshop in as few clothes as you feel comfortable wearing...
02:56...underneath a bathrobe.
02:58Suddenly you need the loo.
03:01For about four hours just until after the workshop's over.
03:05I think this may be one of the scariest workshops for a lot of people...
03:09...because it's so intense to expose your body.
03:13I'm not a bathrobe person.
03:16I like clothes.
03:17Clothes are a mark of civilisation.
03:20Morning.
03:22Is that what you're going in?
03:24Yes.
03:25I've never really looked at my body and not felt sick.
03:31In school, my friendship group, I was the uglier, fatter friend.
03:37So even though, like, I'm not as fat now, I feel like I just still feel it.
03:43You're nervous?
03:44Yeah.
03:45I want you guys to know I'm really small and skinny, so don't be surprised.
03:48Hmm?
03:49Is it all about the cock?
03:51I don't know.
03:52I was just nodding my head.
03:53Oh!
03:58Oh!
03:59Oh!
04:00Am I the only one that's not going to fully turn the robot off?
04:02Yes, you never.
04:03In this morning's workshop, the experts are keen to see if anyone has the confidence to bear all.
04:09We get horrible messages about our bodies.
04:12There's so many ways in which we think, my body isn't right, my body isn't enough.
04:17And then we're supposed to go out and, like, enjoy pleasure in our body?
04:20It's quite impossible, actually.
04:21Hello, hello.
04:22Welcome, welcome.
04:31Our relationship with our body makes such a huge difference to how we feel about ourselves.
04:37And social media, where it's, like, constant images of the Kardashians with all of their augmentations and all the influencers.
04:44It just creates these crazy expectations, which is why it's so important to start to reclaim our bodies.
04:54And what better way to get comfortable with bodies than by seeing some firsthand?
05:04Well, Deva, if you feel ready.
05:15So this is my body, everyone.
05:18And though I love my body now, I struggle with something called body dysmorphia.
05:23Which means when I look in the mirror, I don't see the same thing that everybody else sees.
05:28This is my body.
05:41And I also love my body now.
05:44But it has been years with poor self-image.
05:48So, yeah, it's a process.
05:49It's a process.
05:50Yeah.
05:51How do you feel when you look at Joy and Deva?
05:58Sort of feel like I'm crossing a boundary.
06:00There's a lot of discomfort and a lot of feelings of, like, oh, that's private.
06:03But if you're going to have sex, it's not private anymore.
06:07I feel like I actively avoid mirrors.
06:10And I feel like it can bring me down.
06:12So I don't really have mirrors in my room or in my house.
06:15Thank you for sharing.
06:18Thank you so much.
06:20If being exposed to two naked bodies wasn't awkward enough, what's coming next is the group's worst nightmare.
06:28The biggest thing that we can change is how we relate to our body.
06:33We're going to invite you one by one to claim your body.
06:40We're asking the group to take off their robes and stand in front of the mirror and look at their body.
06:45It's such a way to shift their body confidence.
06:51Who's ready?
06:55Do you know what? YOLO.
06:58First to volunteer is 25-year-old Jason, who has always had a problem with his self-image.
07:03OK.
07:05Right. So...
07:09The front I'm fine with is the butt because my stretch marks are really red.
07:13Looking in the mirror feels strange because I don't see myself as attractive at all.
07:18I don't like my hair. I don't like my face.
07:20I've always been, like, a stick man. Like, if you had a cartoon stick man, that's me.
07:24OK.
07:27YOLO.
07:39Can you come to the mirror with me?
07:41Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll do that.
07:43This is your mirror here. You can check yourself out.
07:45I've seen this every day for 25 years. I'm used to it.
07:47And then when you feel ready, I want you to just say, this is my body.
07:52This is my body, yeah?
07:54One more time.
07:55This is my body.
07:56Yes!
07:58YOLO.
08:00Amazing!
08:02Who's ready next?
08:06OK. Oh, my God.
08:07Next to face the mirror is 29-year-old Charlotte, whose relationship with her body has always been a struggle.
08:17I had a massive weight loss. My highest weight was 120 kilos.
08:24Since losing the weight, I have scars. I have loose skin.
08:29When I was larger, my self-esteem, I would definitely say, was lower, but I act a lot more confident than I am.
08:56I have scars.
08:57Yeah, I have them too.
09:02You've been on an intense journey around your body.
09:06I remember the queen that you are.
09:11This is my body.
09:13Yes.
09:15Try one more time to really feel it.
09:19It's yours. You earned it.
09:23This is my body.
09:25This is my body.
09:28Oh, my God.
09:36As they each get up...
09:38This is my body.
09:40..to face their reflections...
09:42I'm basically, like, pretty dress warmly all of you put together.
09:45...how much they're willing to reveal varies.
09:48This is my body.
09:50There we go. Beautiful.
09:52Looking at their bodies, loving their bodies holistically, can be hugely empowering.
09:57This is my body.
09:59That's great.
10:00That's great.
10:05Who's ready?
10:07Yeah, fuck it.
10:09So far, 24-year-old Dave has kept a relatively low profile at the retreat.
10:14When I look at you, I'm gonna embarrass you a little bit.
10:31I see a sexy, handsome man.
10:36Yeah, that doesn't embarrass me.
10:38I know. It's okay.
10:41This is my body.
10:47Who else?
10:49So I think everyone in this room knew I was going to do this today.
10:52Um...
10:54I don't actually want to.
11:03This is my body.
11:09I wanna go next.
11:10Hey, love. How are you feeling?
11:26I just feel like I could be sick.
11:29Okay.
11:31What thoughts are coming up?
11:33What emotions are there? Like, what emotion are you feeling?
11:36Anxious, sick, and disgust.
11:41You can get up there in front of everybody else and be with your body and see what comes next.
11:48You're not gonna let a fear or a lack of self-worth stop you from living your life.
11:59This is my body.
12:00Who else is ready?
12:06Who else is ready?
12:14This is amazing.
12:24You don't wanna look? Then look at me for a minute.
12:26This is my body.
12:28This is my body.
12:30This is my body.
12:34I'm so proud of you.
12:45Go, be proud of yourself, flaunt your bodies around, shake them, remember what they're there for.
12:52Well done, Dave.
12:56Thanks, man.
12:57I commend you both for what you did.
13:00I got, yeah, you get a little bit of a high after.
13:01You do, right?
13:03That's the first time I've been naked in front of anyone, let alone a room full people.
13:08I think today was, er, the biggest thing I've done so far.
13:12Did you feel this?
13:14Yeah, mixed.
13:15I thought I had this confidence and then it's different when you stare at yourself while other people are staring at you.
13:20I feel like maybe I've hit a bit of a wall.
13:26The exercise was particularly difficult for Louise.
13:29When you look in the mirror, I feel like you just instantly look at the things that you hurt the most.
13:35Jiggly legs and stretch marks on my hips.
13:38Like, that's just where your eyes go to.
13:40I just want to feel good in my skin.
13:45I don't know.
13:47I still feel a bit sick, to be honest.
13:48The day is like dark. I thought you were wearing boxers.
14:03Yeah, but no, we saw everything.
14:05Yeah, our bed all.
14:07I realised when I was looking in the mirror, one bollock was so much lower than the other.
14:10I didn't notice.
14:11What I saw, you all look great.
14:13I feel like it's easier for a girl to be naked.
14:15Really?
14:16If you've got a small dick, it's more embarrassing.
14:19I'm going to be very happy if we had sausages today.
14:21Of course.
14:25Hi.
14:26It's the afternoon on Virgin Island.
14:29Can you have an Indian wedding if you're white?
14:31Of course you can.
14:33Of course you can. Do you have that?
14:35I just want to wear that dress.
14:37While the car seems to be building confidence for some...
14:42Oh, that's so sweet.
14:44Turning me on a little bit.
14:45Really?
14:47The body phase is a huge challenge for others.
14:50I was so confident.
14:51And then I stood in front of the mirror and I was like, don't like that, don't like that, don't like that.
14:55I hate my hands.
14:56At least you've not got man hands.
14:58You've got man hands.
15:00Where's your man hand?
15:02It's a little, like, my face.
15:03Take that.
15:04Let's talk about Louise.
15:05Yeah.
15:06She was just terrified of being judged and she felt that her body was disgusting.
15:14So I was wondering, like, what you feel like the next steps were.
15:17To maybe disrobe the whole way to find new words to describe her body.
15:23I hate the way I look.
15:25I wouldn't say I've ever felt like confident.
15:28I started going to the gym, that helped a lot.
15:31But yeah, it's a work in progress.
15:34Come and have a seat.
15:36Ayesha hopes that a repeat of this morning's exercise in private could help improve Louise's confidence.
15:43So mirror work, you did that this morning.
15:46And I wonder if you'd like to continue doing a guided tour of your body.
15:50Yeah.
15:51Yeah.
15:59Okay.
16:00I don't want to put it down.
16:06If this was a friend's body, and they were like, hey, look, isn't my body disgusting?
16:12How might you show up differently?
16:14If it was a friend, I'd just be like, there's nothing wrong with you.
16:17Shut up.
16:19I just feel like I can't say that and mean it about myself.
16:23Say it like you would to your friend convincing.
16:25There's nothing even wrong with you.
16:27There's nothing even wrong with you.
16:32Next step is to remove the sheet.
16:38Okay.
16:41My boobs. I just hurt my boobs.
16:43One second, lady.
16:45Have you ever had compliments about your boobs?
16:48Yeah.
16:49Tell me about that.
16:51People wish they had these.
16:53It's like the perfect.
16:54Perfect.
16:55I want to invite you to receive the compliment.
16:59They're perfect.
17:01Mmm.
17:04Okay.
17:07Louise is making progress, but Ayesha has one final challenge.
17:11So, noticing what your body wants to take off next.
17:15And I'm thinking...
17:17...bra.
17:19Great.
17:21When you're ready.
17:23I couldn't do that myself.
17:31What's changed now that your bra's off?
17:35It's always nice to take your bra off.
17:38What's the feeling in your body, the sensation of it?
17:40Obviously, I do feel more free and just...
17:43Yeah.
17:45You feel more free?
17:46Yeah.
17:47Louise.
17:49Everyone feels better when they're naked.
17:51Just on their own.
17:53Yeah, okay.
17:55So, feeling better when you're naked.
17:57I'm going to bring the robe.
18:02Don't be ashamed.
18:04Don't be ashamed.
18:06Just love yourself.
18:08Just love yourself.
18:10Body image is definitely a place where Louise struggles.
18:14That strength of feeling that she has,
18:17it feels like it comes from way, way down inside of her.
18:21From way, way back in her life.
18:23Louise, look how much you've done.
18:26Thank you for sharing your body with me.
18:29Thank you for listening.
18:32It felt good to replace my negative thoughts.
18:35I tried to.
18:37I feel like once I change the view that I have on myself,
18:40then it will be easier to accept it from other people.
18:48How was your one-to-one?
18:50Basically, just redid this morning, but properly.
18:54Do you feel better now, having done it?
18:56Yeah, cos, like, we properly stood in the mirror and, like...
18:59Assessed.
19:00Yeah, talked for everything.
19:02I think you're gorgeous.
19:04Thanks.
19:05Although Louise struggled with this morning's workshop.
19:08Tuck in the visor. Yeah.
19:09Bring them out like this.
19:11There. And pull.
19:13Dave shocked everybody by going the full Monty.
19:16Look at your veins.
19:18These popping veins.
19:20I was so impressed.
19:22Three of them got naked.
19:23Three...
19:24Yeah.
19:25But, like, Dave was a huge surprise.
19:26Dave.
19:27Totally.
19:28Yeah, I feel like today he was definitely sending a message
19:31and being like, okay, I'm ready.
19:33We'll just kind of get in and see, like, if that energy is there
19:36and where he wants to go with it.
19:37Mmm.
19:40There you go.
19:41There.
19:42Four.
19:43Four.
19:44Two more, two more.
19:45I'm an accountant.
19:46So, pretty boring.
19:48All of my friends know I'm a virgin.
19:50And, actually, pretty embarrassingly, I think all my co-workers know as well.
19:54Cos you tell one person at work and then everyone knows.
19:58I don't have the confidence to properly get to know someone.
20:02In an intimate moment, I'm scared about what they're going to think of my body
20:06and what they're going to think of what I'm like
20:09and I've got to, like, start living my life properly.
20:14Getting naked in the workshop was a huge step for Dave.
20:18Hello.
20:19Hey.
20:21But does it mean he's ready to take his therapy to the next level?
20:25My suggestion would be to practice, like, touch and giving feedback.
20:30OK.
20:31Yeah, sure.
20:32OK.
20:33I'll have you start with my arm.
20:39I'll try long and slow.
20:42And can you look at me while you do it?
20:44Yeah.
20:49Building up to sex with surrogate partner Kat is a possibility.
20:53If Dave can master the basics and form a connection.
20:58Am I OK to try to sort of go on top?
21:02Yeah.
21:04Is that what you mean?
21:05Yeah.
21:06Yeah.
21:08And you can kiss, too, my mouth, if you want.
21:11OK.
21:13I feel like this definitely isn't the best position.
21:15I don't like the way my arm is.
21:16Are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each other?
21:21Because that's why you're in that position.
21:24It's so obvious now.
21:25Yeah.
21:26OK.
21:27But does that make you uncomfortable?
21:29Subconsciously, yeah.
21:30Yeah.
21:31OK.
21:32Do you want to try again with you on top?
21:33Or do you want to try with me on top?
21:34Can you go on top?
21:35Yeah.
21:36OK.
21:50And can you practice coming alive a little?
21:54Yeah.
21:55Yeah, I'm staying still, aren't I?
21:56Yeah.
21:57Yeah.
21:58Try again?
21:59Yeah.
22:00Yeah.
22:01OK.
22:08That feels good.
22:12As Dave slowly opens up...
22:17Go.
22:19Mine won!
22:21Oh, it came back.
22:23The course is encouraging Charlotte to address her buried emotions.
22:28I was so large for such a long time.
22:30You think everyone is judging you all the time because you're so used to being on the defensive
22:35because you feel like you have to protect yourself.
22:41Today I saw a softer side of Charlotte.
22:44I saw, like, the quivering of the lip and that was very challenging for her, like, to look at herself.
22:51It was really hard for her to keep the inner image that she has of herself in front of the mirror.
22:57And that's something that so many people are struggling with.
23:02At boarding school, I just wasn't fitting in.
23:05And that's been a big thing for me my whole life.
23:08And then everyone says, oh, don't worry, when you go to uni, you'll find your people.
23:13And then I went to uni and then I didn't find my people.
23:17So now, at almost 30, it makes you doubt yourself.
23:22The mirror workshop revealed that Charlotte's issues are more than skin deep.
23:27Hi.
23:28Hi.
23:29How are you?
23:30I'm good, thank you.
23:31So the experts suggest clinical therapist Abby tries to find out what's really going on.
23:37They kind of want to check in with, you know, the reasons that brought you here.
23:42Um, sometimes I do still feel like I'm still this sort of young, you know, sort of teenage girl
23:49because I wasn't really friends with any of the girls at the boarding school.
23:52And also because of my size, I was quite isolated.
23:55Like, here's this part of you that feels emotionally trapped in your adolescence.
24:01Do you feel like no one sees you for you?
24:05My perception of myself can be vastly different to how other people see me.
24:12I feel like I'm trying to really just be as fearless as possible,
24:17putting on what I call The Charlotte Show.
24:19Ooh.
24:20And it's like I think I'm giving off this image of me.
24:22Like, sometimes I have to do it at work.
24:25Mm-hmm.
24:26Then you're just working here.
24:37You don't have to work for people's love and care.
24:41People will love and care for you without performing.
24:46I don't know if you believe that, though.
24:49What if you show up as vulnerable?
24:52I don't know how to kind of do that.
24:55We're going to get there.
24:57We're going to get there.
24:58Yeah.
25:01You can't really hurt something that isn't real.
25:06But I've maybe been putting on The Charlotte Show too much.
25:12I think the whole thing is all about being seen.
25:17And I guess we're going to see who sees me.
25:22Yeah.
25:23Yeah.
25:34It's day two of the body phase at the retreat.
25:37And there are promising signs of change.
25:39I feel like every session I have, I come out feeling a bit better in somewhere.
25:44And getting undressed, that is a massive thing for me.
25:48I think I've achieved a lot.
25:50I know there's things that I'm more confident about.
25:53But I think there's still further for me to grow.
25:57I'm definitely seeing the confidence level rise.
26:00They're much more likely to try different tools.
26:04They're really growing.
26:06But progress for Zac can't come quick enough.
26:09I'm feeling a little bit of frustration.
26:12I'm hoping to make some more progress.
26:15And eventually Zac's.
26:17It is the next step.
26:19And it's something I want to do.
26:21And, you know, I'm not afraid to say that.
26:28You can definitely tell that they're definitely amping things up on them.
26:31Absolutely.
26:32And, like, again, we got to halfway.
26:33I just want to be able to give people compliments.
26:38Because I struggle with that.
26:39Let's try that now.
26:40Yeah.
26:41OK.
26:42I like your little nose.
26:43It's kind of cute.
26:44Aw, thank you.
26:45I love your beard.
26:46I wish I could grow a beard like that.
26:47It's phenomenal.
26:49Brilliant, isn't it?
26:50It is.
26:52Let's think of one for the girls.
26:55In a bid to improve how he interacts with women,
26:58Zac challenges himself with his own exercise.
27:04One thing I am not very good at is giving sincere compliments.
27:10So, every day I'm going to come up with a new one for everyone.
27:14Aw, sweet.
27:16Emma.
27:18You have some incredible eyes.
27:20Thank you very much.
27:21It's amazing to stare into them.
27:22Thank you, Zac.
27:23I really appreciate that.
27:25Louise.
27:27You have a banging body, mate.
27:30You're fucking sexy as hell.
27:32Thanks.
27:34Holly.
27:35You can be so fucking funny sometimes and you have the greatest expressions and it's hilarious.
27:41Pia.
27:42You have the greatest smile, honestly.
27:44When you're happy, it's wonderful.
27:45I love it.
27:47Taylor.
27:48You have a brilliant singing voice and you know the words to all the songs.
27:50It's fucking amazing.
27:51Charlotte.
27:52You're always flirting with me, but I know you'll say you're not, but you're a liar.
27:56That's not a compliment.
27:58Well, it is.
27:59And you're actually pretty good at it.
28:00Okay.
28:01There we go.
28:02Woo.
28:03Zac may be pleased with his compliment session.
28:05Thanks, Zac.
28:06I feel like mine needed to be reworded a bit, but okay.
28:10But not everyone is feeling the love.
28:13Don't take this personally, but can you take me out of tomorrow's compliment, but for the day I don't want to be alone.
28:17Okay.
28:18Thank you, though.
28:19I appreciate it, but thank you.
28:20That's fine.
28:21Don't worry about it.
28:22It's okay.
28:23I hope you like the one I gave you.
28:24I compare myself enough to girls I see on social media.
28:26I don't want him to be feeling different qualities about us all individually into my ear on a daily basis, him thinking it's helping me.
28:36Thankfully for Emma, the boys and the girls are splitting up for today's workshop.
28:41I'm confused why we're taking the book.
28:44I hope it's just like drawing like a life model.
28:48As it's become clear to the experts, when it comes to the body, they need all the help they can get.
28:55I've never had any contact with anything below a woman's waist.
28:58With my ex, you know, we touched up there, but I've never been, I've never got that far.
29:03I believe the clitoris is quite out of the top.
29:07So, admittedly, I wasn't the best at biology in school either.
29:11Someone asked me, where's the clit?
29:13I'm like, I don't know.
29:14No, I need to use Google.
29:18Today, we'll start with a little bit of anatomy.
29:21I know a lot of you really, really wanted to learn how to touch a pussy.
29:28Are you ready?
29:29Okay.
29:34This is the vaginal opening.
29:36We have the outer lips, or labia majora.
29:42I think the biggest mistake that I see men make is they just think, oh, it's all about the clitoris.
29:46And so they just, you know, like do a lot of this.
29:51And it's quite painful, actually.
29:53When you think of a vulva, think like, oh, you know, I want to like pet the whole vulva.
30:01But there's only so much you can learn from a diagram.
30:06Kat is generously willing to take her panties off and show you how a real vulva looks like.
30:13I think the show and tell is really important because when you look at an actual vulva, you're going to see it does look quite different than those quite sterile pictures.
30:26Yeah.
30:28Okay, so here you see the outer lips, the outer labia right here and here.
30:33And then here and here are the inner.
30:37And there's the clitoris.
30:42And then down here is the vaginal opening.
30:44Do you have any questions?
30:45I just want to say, Kat, I really admire your courage for doing this because you're basically doing this so we can learn.
30:58So thank you a lot for doing that.
31:00And, you know.
31:01Yeah, thanks for saying that.
31:03Okay.
31:05That's a lot for one day.
31:07I think you deserve some rest.
31:11Bye.
31:12Anyone take notes?
31:16No.
31:17I'm paying attention.
31:19Yeah.
31:20I don't want to whip out a pen.
31:21It's good to hear from women who have had a lot of men make a lot of mistakes and to hear from that experience and to hear how to not fuck up like that.
31:29Across the island, the girls are also talking privates.
31:33What do you think of pubic hair?
31:35I don't really have an opinion on it.
31:36Yeah.
31:37Like Joy, for instance, had pubic hair.
31:39It looked really nice.
31:40It wasn't a lot though.
31:41It was a very...
31:42She had what was called the landing strip.
31:44It was shaped and I really like that.
31:46Yeah.
31:47Yeah, that's called a landing strip.
31:48A landing strip.
31:49I might go and get one of them.
31:50Yeah.
31:51I think that looked very stylish.
31:52Embrace a girl, yeah.
31:54But it's not the female body most of the girls need to get better acquainted with.
31:58Obviously, you have lessons in school about the way the body works, but it's not really something that I've dived into.
32:07Obviously, I've kissed a couple of boys, but that's about it.
32:12I've had as much contact with the penis as I would like, which is very, very little.
32:18Hello.
32:20Okay, welcome.
32:21Now we're going to invite up Thomas and Deva to give you a little bit of an anatomy lesson on penises.
32:28So, you've got the shaft of the penis.
32:38Sometimes a penis, when it's erected, is not like super straight.
32:42It can be a bit like this, like this.
32:45After yesterday's penis preview...
32:47Getting used to doing this now.
32:50Deva can now give the girls a proper guided tour.
32:53People might think that the penis is really sensitive and, like, delicate or something, but it's not.
32:58You can really apply a lot of pressure. It doesn't hurt, you know.
33:02This is obviously the shaft here.
33:05This is the glands.
33:07And this part back here, the frenulum.
33:10But on me, anyway, it's the most sensitive part, don't we?
33:12Yeah.
33:13And this is the scrum, obviously.
33:15Now, that is like Play-Doh.
33:17That's why Jason always talks about Play-Doh skin.
33:19Yeah.
33:21Does anyone have any questions?
33:23Do you think you prefer a touch of, like, hands?
33:26Or, like, someone's tongue?
33:28The best combination that I enjoy is when someone's using their hands, but also their mouth.
33:33Right.
33:39We'll see you later.
33:41You all right? Hello. How's your morning been?
33:55It's been all right. What's your vagina?
33:57Really?
33:58Did you see a penis?
33:59Yeah.
34:01Yeah.
34:02Speechless.
34:03It's not my breath away. What can I say?
34:04Louise may be learning more about the body, but the experts now want a window into her mind.
34:13Louise is not an easy person to read in terms of how she feels or what she wants, but you can tell there's something big going on underneath the surface and that that needs to be dealt with.
34:24To do that, they've asked Louise to keep a journal to help understand herself better.
34:29Hey, how's the writing going?
34:31Good. I feel like it's kind of got quite a bit out.
34:35So, my homework from Aisha was write my emotions down and things I've felt in the past and, like, repressed.
34:42I started with what I thought was, like, maybe the biggest factor. I know what it is, but I just can't express it.
34:51Louise has formed a bond with Aisha, but whether she's ready to open up remains to be seen.
34:57How are you feeling today?
34:59I kind of want to feel what I've wrote.
35:03Yum.
35:04I don't know. I thought, like, maybe reading it to you.
35:06Yeah.
35:07I feel like I'd just be able to let it all go. I can move on.
35:10So, taking a breath.
35:17And when you're ready...
35:19I honestly don't even know where I should start because I almost feel like there's just too much that could be playing a part in why I am the way that I am.
35:31Pause. Take a breath.
35:34I know I don't like being or feeling vulnerable, and maybe that stems from repressing my emotions from quite early on in life.
35:42All thanks to my dad.
35:43He was never really a big part of my life. He just left us for his next wife and their kids.
35:52It's a cool thing.
35:53I always used to think, what's so bad about me, that even my biological father just doesn't want to know me.
36:07If I wasn't even good enough for my dad, then why would I be good enough for anybody else?
36:19My mum used to say, you're not bothered about your dad, are you? And stuff like that. I'd say no to her.
36:34What a little part of me would be like, but I do.
36:37You were taking care of her. And now what are you doing? Now you're taking care of you.
36:45You're starting to build up again, that sense of, I'm important. I'm worthy of love and respect.
37:03Would you like a hug?
37:05Please.
37:06Yeah.
37:07I feel a lot better, a lot lighter, slightly happier.
37:14I'll see you later.
37:16Even though it is what seems like little steps, they're making a big difference.
37:25Keen for progress of his own, Zach's attention is still on his compliments list.
37:30Are you sure you don't want a compliment every day?
37:32Yeah, no, just because I've come here to try and steer myself away from comparing myself to other girls.
37:37Well, I do that enough at home on Instagram.
37:39I think you and Louise are the two best-looking girls here.
37:42You don't want to be saying, like, oh, Louise, you've got a bad body and you've got nice eyes.
37:45And then you say, Pia, you've got a nice smile. I don't know what you did say about that.
37:49I'm not attracted to Pia, though.
37:51That's what I'm trying to like.
37:53Right.
37:54Just put yourself in the position of...
37:55I'm not going to lie.
37:57I don't like being compared to other people, do you know what I mean?
38:02It's late afternoon on Virgin Island.
38:17Hi, hi, hi.
38:19And Charlotte still has some body issues to conquer.
38:22So why didn't you go naked in front of the mirror?
38:25Charlotte, Charlotte.
38:27I'm noticing more and more my issue is being vulnerable.
38:31You can't do it.
38:32It's hard.
38:33You can't do it.
38:38How about Charlotte?
38:39When she feels in control, then she feels powerful.
38:42Yeah.
38:43I think, like, the next step for her is she needs to work on her body confidence and really kind of, like, feeling at home in her new body.
38:52Hi.
38:55Hi.
38:56Hi.
38:57Over a few sessions, Charlotte has built a bond with surrogate partner Andre.
39:01But is she ready for the radical next step?
39:04This is an opportunity to see my body naked and for me to also see your body naked.
39:15I've never been naked in front of another person.
39:19The intimacy scares me.
39:22It's a lot if everything that I use, such as, like, clothes and humor has been sort of stripped away.
39:30I guess I could try going topless first and then I could kind of see how I felt continuing on from there.
39:39That sounds great.
39:41Let's go ahead and do that.
39:42Hi.
39:43Your body is your body.
39:44If there is ever a desire to be in an intimate connection with someone.
40:01Yeah.
40:02There's a good chance that they're going to want to see your body.
40:07Yes.
40:08I think I feel comfortable taking off my top in this space.
40:26How does it feel?
40:27It's refreshing.
40:28Oh, my God.
40:29You have beautiful breasts.
40:34How is your energy if we were to remove our bottoms?
40:39I think I'm feeling okay to do it.
40:42Would you like me to turn around?
40:43Yes, please.
40:44Okay.
40:46Okay.
40:47Yeah.
40:48Okay.
40:49Okay.
40:50Okay.
40:51Yeah.
40:52Okay.
40:53Okay.
40:54Okay.
40:55Okay.
40:56Okay.
40:57Okay.
40:59Yeah.
41:00Okay, how are you going to put it play?
41:01Okay, y'all.
41:02Okay.
41:03Okay.
41:04Just keep breathing.
41:05Know that you are safe here.
41:07Okay.
41:08Okay.
41:09Okay.
41:10Yeah.
41:11We did it.
41:13We did it.
41:16We're naked.
41:17We're naked.
41:22The change in Charlotte is beyond words.
41:27And there's still room for her to feel comfort and safety in her body, knowing that she is worthy of pleasure.
41:36So proud of you.
41:37Thank you so much.
41:38I built that level of trust with André that I felt that I could be vulnerable, that I could be naked with him.
41:46And that he was going to sort of embrace all the little parts of myself that I don't fully love all the time.
41:55How was that?
41:56So we stripped down naked and it was this moment of like, we did it.
41:59And I was like, we're naked.
42:00Yay.
42:02And I just felt like, you know, the door of the Explorer.
42:04When you've like conquered whatever you need to do with Dora and she goes, you did it, you did it.
42:10I've never seen that episode before where the two get naked in her TV.
42:16While Charlotte is moving on, some of the boys can't stop thinking about this morning's workshop.
42:21You know what, I wanted to know how to properly touch your vagina.
42:26And I feel there were some good tips there.
42:29Like I said, that's important information.
42:31The thing is, if we gain anything, it's a plus.
42:34It's a plus.
42:38Dave was very interesting.
42:39I did think he took a lot out of it.
42:41I think so too.
42:42Yeah.
42:42He's really interesting in technique.
42:43It was super educational for him.
42:45He really wants to know more.
42:47He's thirsty for that knowledge.
42:49Dave may be interested in the theory, but expert Kat needs to find out if he's ready for a practical.
42:57How are you feeling about genital touching?
43:04Okay-ish.
43:06Say it more.
43:06I know I need to do things I'm not 100% comfortable with, but everything that I've done that I haven't been comfortable with, I've ended up being comfortable with, if that makes sense.
43:19Yeah.
43:19To get Dave relaxed, Kat starts with some kissing.
43:30But before progressing to the next stage, he's got to learn one crucial detail.
43:37But you have to get naked too.
43:39Okay, sorry.
43:40I mean, if you want to.
43:41Yeah.
43:45Do you have a preference for who does what first?
43:47Maybe you want to touch those?
43:50Yeah.
43:51Okay.
43:51Go ahead and lie down.
43:54I think touching someone in an intimate way is probably more nerve-wracking than me being touched,
44:00because I don't know if I'm going to be doing it right or if they're going to be enjoying it.
44:10Try to just close your eyes.
44:12Feel into it.
44:13Okay.
44:13If Dave is to eventually lose his virginity on the island...
44:28The switch.
44:29Yeah.
44:30..he needs to learn to give as well as receive.
44:33It's always weird the first time, so I feel like you should just come and try.
44:37Get used to what it feels like.
44:44It did not feel high.
44:51How did you expect it to feel?
44:53I don't know.
44:54Not that.
44:58Can you find it?
45:04Is that it?
45:04Yeah.
45:07And then down at the bottom.
45:09Yeah, that's like the vaginal opening.
45:14Yeah, that feels good.
45:21I feel more mature now.
45:23Good.
45:29Dave's been gone for an hour.
45:31Hi.
45:32Yeah.
45:33You had your own to one?
45:34Uh, I did.
45:35Was it good?
45:36It was quite good, actually.
45:38Everyone's curious about his session.
45:40Who?
45:41Uh, Cap.
45:42But a gentleman never tells.
45:44Okay, how'd that go?
45:45Just educational.
45:47What way?
45:49He doesn't want to say.
45:51I think it was good.
45:53We got through a lot.
45:54So I think this is the most progress I've made in the session.
45:56There was so much I didn't know.
45:58So I feel like I made a big step.
46:05Next time.
46:06Oh, yes.
46:07Lessons take to the bed.
46:09I like that.
46:10And one-on-ones.
46:11I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:14Hmm.
46:15Build up a head of steam.
46:16I don't know if you find that intimidating.
46:22But sex isn't always simple.
46:25People get dressed and that's an upgrade to me.
46:27I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:45I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:45I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:45I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:46I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:46I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:47I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:48I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:49I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:49I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:50I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:51I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:52I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:53I'm going to look on your g-spot area.

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