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00:00You're here to ask for permission.
00:04Oh, for real?
00:06Alexis, she has control issues.
00:08She's too aggressive, too.
00:09I'm kinda aggressive, and that's what I want her to call him.
00:11He told me, like, your mouth kinda can get him.
00:13My mouth.
00:14I got a game for us.
00:16To whether if you were gonna accept your significant other.
00:19My answer for the game was a hell yes.
00:21I ain't gonna lie to y'all.
00:22I put no.
00:23That's very surprising.
00:24Six kids in the house is crazy.
00:26I set up a second date for me and Brittany.
00:29No tone.
00:32I can't get no tone.
00:33I would rather prefer him allow me to come to him.
00:38I don't think this is working.
00:41I feel like you're being a big man baby right now.
00:43I started packing.
00:44I have no more fight, no more gas in the tank.
00:59Clay.
01:00He's a sweet guy.
01:01He's very sweet.
01:02But he got a lot of **** to learn.
01:03As an individual, but not as a kid.
01:04He got a lot of **** to learn.
01:05Go bro up.
01:06So we get into the home stretch.
01:07We down to the nitty gritty.
01:08We only got a week left in the house.
01:09Clay and Tati leaving early.
01:10I wouldn't say it's surprising.
01:11We just look at it as, you know, another couple down.
01:13Only the strong survive.
01:14The ones that are still here are the ones trying to ride this thing till the wheels fall off.
01:19Wait, wait, wait, let's now since there's five, let's rate the couples again.
01:34From top to bottom?
01:35Yep.
01:36Us first.
01:37Y'all second.
01:38And everybody else else.
01:39Oh ****.
01:40Alexis and Chris third.
01:41Brandon and Kiki fourth.
01:42And then, Ty and Brittany left.
01:44Ty and Brittany, they that **** over.
01:46They asked to be going to separate cars.
01:48Yeah, I mean, unless Ty and Brittany want to make their quick exit.
01:51They can do that **** tonight.
01:53They can do that **** tonight just like them.
01:58I love her.
01:59Me too.
02:00Yeah.
02:10Everybody has some issues still hanging in there.
02:12Yeah.
02:13The people who seem like they was the perfect couples, right?
02:17Go.
02:18Yeah, they out or no?
02:19What was y'all there?
02:20What was y'all?
02:21Is y'all out there?
02:22Fellas.
02:23I just wanna...
02:24I got a real question for you fellas just trying to make sure that everything's set in
02:26stone.
02:27Uh...
02:28Who's next?
02:29No, not that.
02:30Uh...
02:31We know who's next.
02:32Oh, we know?
02:33Oh, oh, oh.
02:34I don't think so.
02:35Try to say we're up next.
02:36I don't think so.
02:37Try to say we're up next.
02:38I don't agree with you.
02:39I'm lying, I'm lying, I'm lying.
02:41I'm starting to pot.
02:42Start the pot.
02:43Wow.
02:44You know, no, no, wait, wait.
02:45No, I got a follow up question.
02:46Hold on.
02:47Hold on.
02:48Wait a minute.
02:49Hold on.
02:50How'd that day go?
02:51Yeah.
02:52I had a real ass conversation with her.
02:54What?
02:55We went to my crib.
02:56I cooked her her favorite dish, crab legs.
02:58For sure.
02:59I added some lobster tails.
03:00Okay.
03:01Okay.
03:02I did a baked potato.
03:03Okay.
03:04Okay.
03:05Loaded.
03:06Yeah.
03:07Given everything that we've been through, feeling very excited for me and Brittany after
03:12our date because, you know, now I know that, you know, we can go ahead and we can work
03:17through it.
03:18We're still hanging in there.
03:20If you put it out there, you're going to be all right.
03:24If you want to hide it, make a secret, you're going to get burnt up by it.
03:33How was your time with Ty?
03:36I had a good time with Ty.
03:38Like, you know, Ty's funny and, you know, he's laughing and carrying on doing his thing.
03:45I feel like he's like doing more talking and being loud than anything, you know what
03:49I mean?
03:50But no, I actually saw that he was listening.
03:52Yeah.
03:53He definitely put in the effort.
03:54I see through everyone's veil and I can tell that man really likes you, but I can also
04:01tell that you love his personality, but you're not attracted to him.
04:07I'm attracted to Ty.
04:08I'm just, sometimes I feel like more of like friends vibes than anything else.
04:14So you're taking it slow?
04:16Yes.
04:17Yes.
04:18So for me, it's more of like a mental stimulation.
04:21Ty is giving me a bit of friendship vibes.
04:24He plays so much.
04:26He's just always joking, clowning around most of the day.
04:30So since this experience, it's almost over.
04:33Hopefully Ty and I will chat soon about like how our future would look like if we did decide
04:40to move forward and be together.
04:42I can tell what his love languages are.
04:44His love languages, I feel like are physical touch and acts of service.
04:49You are not giving either of those to him.
04:54Well, I'm not doing the physical touch because that's not my love language.
04:58I have to feel it like inside me, like Ty, it's just, it's just not there yet.
05:05Ty has a really cool personality, very funny, very outgoing, very loud.
05:11But Brittany, I think she thinks he's too loud and he's too much for her.
05:16And you can tell she's very frustrated, but she doesn't want to talk about it.
05:19You both are beautiful people.
05:21Agreed.
05:22And he has nothing but their intentions.
05:23No, like I don't want to hurt Ty.
05:26100%, I don't.
05:27I know Ty is an amazing man.
05:30I just need time to get there.
05:42That was a good break.
05:43How you feeling?
05:44Good.
05:45I got to have this hard talk with Charlie before my sister get here.
05:49Because my sister, of course, she knew about my kids.
05:53She was always the one saying, you got to tell Charlie, don't wait till the last minute.
05:57You got to tell Charlie.
05:58And me, I wouldn't listen, so I waited till the last minute.
06:01But what she don't know is about Charlie's babies.
06:04Today, my little sister, Jewel, is coming to visit.
06:08And mind you, she's a very smart, beautiful young lady.
06:12But my sister is very real.
06:14What exactly does your sister know about Charlie?
06:17She knows, I guess, the gist of it.
06:19She knows who Charlie is.
06:21She knows what she looks like.
06:23So anything she's heard about Charlie has only been a good thing.
06:25Right.
06:26The relationship I have with my sister is, she is my right hand.
06:30Anything good or bad in my life, my sister's the first to know.
06:34But my sister's filter is a lot less than mine is.
06:40We got to have a hard talk about like three different topics.
06:42You know what time your sister comes?
06:44You don't want to wait and then the sister show up an hour or two later.
06:47If you like play a couple games of this, get your mind right.
06:50Yeah.
06:51Then, you know, just go break it down.
06:53Go break it down.
06:54Yeah.
06:55Because you don't want it to be, you talk to it in 45 minutes later or an hour.
06:59So you might want to start early.
07:01Yeah.
07:02I hope it goes well for you.
07:03I hope it goes well too.
07:06Yeah.
07:10After you, my lady.
07:17Oh, I do.
07:22So nice out here.
07:25Okay.
07:26So I brought you here to talk to you about a few things that I feel like you deserve to know.
07:33You know, just shooting stuff with the guys, I said a few things that I feel like you should be aware of
07:39because they weren't becoming a few.
07:42The game that we played at dinner, everyone wrote their answers on whether if we planned on leaving with our partner the next day if the show ended.
07:49I was the one that put F no.
07:50The game that we played at dinner with the cards and everyone wrote their answers on whether if we planned on leaving with our partner the next day if the show ended.
07:54I was the one that put F no.
07:55You told me you put yes.
08:01I'm sorry about that because, like I said, I had just gotten the news of, you know, I'm sorry about that because, like I said, I had just gotten the news of, you know, I'm sorry about that.
08:08The news of your extended family.
08:09And so in my mind, I was over it.
08:10After you had told me, I had just gotten the news of your extended family and so in my mind, I was over it.
08:15After you had told me, I had a whole new different outlook on us.
08:16I didn't know that.
08:17I didn't know you put F no.
08:18Because when I asked, like, I said, I was like, I'm sorry about that.
08:19I'm sorry about that because, like I said, I had just gotten the news of your extended family.
08:32And so in my mind, I was over it.
08:35After you had told me, I had a whole new different outlook on us.
08:40I didn't know that.
08:41I didn't know you put F no.
08:46Because when I asked, like you said, your answer was yes.
08:50So I'm thinking everything's like fine.
08:53I respect Jared.
08:54I speak very highly of him.
08:56And if I have an issue, we prided ourselves on coming to each other and not talking amongst other people.
09:01And at this point, I'm very, very angry.
09:05I came into this thinking I was going to convince you and your one child to move to South Carolina.
09:13And then finding out that it was three more and seeing the realistic side of that, that that wasn't going to be possible.
09:20I told myself that I'm here.
09:22Might as well enjoy myself.
09:24So you were just going to drag me along to see that you can have fun here?
09:30Yeah, that was the plan.
09:31How do you feel now?
09:36It varies day to day.
09:39I mean, just being completely honest with you.
09:41I want to say the last few days, my answer went from a F no, to a maybe, to a yeah, like back to a maybe.
09:50And the more I think about it, the harder I think it is to make this possible.
09:55I just never expected that from you.
09:57Yeah.
09:58I'm sorry for that.
09:59I didn't expect it from myself.
10:00That's stupid .
10:01Up until this point, being in the house and dealing with our relationship, I thought we were at a great place.
10:09Not in a million years that I think he was going to tell me something like that.
10:14I have some other things I want to talk about as well.
10:17So my sister's coming this evening.
10:20She doesn't know about what you told me.
10:23Yeah.
10:24So that's something I'm going to have to tell her.
10:27She's probably going to go the route as like, like I got my together in some state.
10:32Do I need to be really taken care of?
10:34Four children on our mind?
10:36I'm just telling you what she's possibly going to say.
10:39I know.
10:40It's hard to hear that .
10:41I don't want to say that.
10:42I don't think I've ever said that to you face to face.
10:44It's just that's why I hid it from you.
10:46Like I didn't want to hear like that.
10:48Who wants to be with a mom with four kids?
10:51That's why it took so long to meet you because over the phone, like everything's fine.
11:01Now we're like in this reality where, you know, it might not work.
11:06I've never asked this man to help me raise a child.
11:09I've never asked this man for anything financially.
11:12I've never asked Jared for anything.
11:15I can do battle by myself.
11:17I wanted him because I wanted him for me.
11:20Wait, I have one question.
11:22Yeah.
11:23Do you, do you want to be with me?
11:30In a perfect world?
11:31I would love that.
11:32Perfect world.
11:33I don't have anything to say.
11:36Okay.
11:37I feel disrespected.
11:38I feel embarrassed.
11:39I feel like he's wasting my time.
11:42At this point, I'm like, I don't know what I even want to say.
11:46My thoughts are everywhere because it just doesn't make sense to me.
11:50It's not clicking in my brain.
11:51What's wrong?
11:52What's wrong?
11:53What's wrong?
11:54What happened?
11:55Jared.
11:56What did he do?
11:57Remember that like third night we were here and we played that game where we wrote yes or no if we were going to stay.
12:08He's the one that put no.
12:10And then he was just like, he said, like, what do I look like, you know, taking care of four kids that aren't mine.
12:19He said that just now?
12:20Yes.
12:21Like, this is what I didn't want to happen.
12:24Now I'm thinking if someone who says they love me and has been with me for four years doesn't want that, then who the will?
12:31Right.
12:32So I don't know what to do.
12:34I don't know if he even really likes me.
12:37I think he likes you, but he doesn't want to be with you.
12:42That's what it sounds like to me.
12:44Does it show?
12:46No.
12:47But the fact that he put no, I can't move forward with that.
12:54What bothers me is that he didn't tell you this initially, but then he continued to have sex with you.
13:01Like, why are you sleeping with me and writing no on the paper one day,
13:06and then we're in the boom, boom room the next day?
13:09Yep.
13:10You can't be with a man that's not going to accept your kids.
13:13Yeah.
13:14With Jared, one of the things that I loved about him is that I felt like he didn't make me feel like other men made me feel.
13:23And I was just super confident about our relationship where we're heading with this.
13:27And now I literally have no idea.
13:29It's like the whole thing just went up in flames.
13:31I don't like that though.
13:32You need to talk to him.
13:34Um, ASAP.
13:35I know you like him.
13:36I know you like him.
13:37I know you like him.
13:38I know you love him.
13:39I'm not good at this stuff.
13:40We all right?
13:41Yeah.
13:42Yes, how you doing?
13:43Good.
13:44I'm amazing.
13:45You look amazing.
13:47I know you requested a coaching session.
13:49So I brought my good friend in, Dr. Ally.
13:50She's a relationship expert.
13:51So she's going to help you guys navigate through some things.
13:53Okay?
13:54Yes.
13:55All right.
13:56I'll leave you guys to it.
13:57All right.
13:59Bye.
14:00Today, me and Alexis is meeting with Dr. Ally.
14:02I feel great about this because all the guys that's in this house tell me I need to talk
14:04to someone about problems.
14:05That therapy helped me, man.
14:06I always just thought therapy was BS until I did it here, so.
14:09I'm going to talk to someone about problems.
14:10That therapy helped me, man.
14:11I always just thought therapy was BS until I did it here, so.
14:14Yeah.
14:15Yeah.
14:16Yeah.
14:17Yeah.
14:18Yeah.
14:19Yeah.
14:20Yeah.
14:21Yeah.
14:22Yeah.
14:23Mm-hmm.
14:24That's how I did it here, so.
14:25I had been told several times I should try it, but I just never really had the courage
14:29to go.
14:30I would definitely do that.
14:31So at this point, me and Alexis are getting more of a good vibe, but sometimes we're still
14:35bumping heads.
14:36So I was like, maybe I could learn something, you know what I'm saying?
14:39So, why do you think that I might be needed?
14:43Probably because throughout this process, we done had some good times and some just bad
14:49times through things that we didn't see out of our own.
14:52Hmm.
14:53Like what?
14:54Sometimes I feel like she can be kind of controlled and a little bit more aggressive and things
14:58of that nature.
14:59Hmm.
15:00How do you interpret her as being controlling?
15:01How does that come across?
15:03When I say controlling, it's more so I pay attention to science because I've seen control
15:09on every level.
15:10Mm-hmm.
15:11I've watched my dad try to control situations.
15:14Mm-hmm.
15:15I'm not ashamed to say it.
15:16Like combined, I probably had eight stepmoms and stepdads together.
15:20So can't nobody tell me nothing about control.
15:23I just wanted her to be more understanding because, you know, the little things I say may sound
15:28petty, but I got very strong reasons for feeling that way.
15:32Okay.
15:33Ninth grade, I had my own apartment.
15:35Oh, wow.
15:36Because my father was so busy.
15:37So I'm used to being alone a lot and I'm used to being very independent.
15:42Christopher sharing his childhood trauma was like, wow.
15:46You know, Chris is pretty much a secretive person, stays to itself.
15:52So I'm really surprised that he really opened up.
15:55Maybe that's what he needed.
15:56You know, it's several times in the house.
15:58She's been a sweetheart and asked to do my laundry.
16:00And I'd be like, no, I got it.
16:02Let me ask her something real quick.
16:03So how does that impact you, him not wanting your support or your help in a lot of spaces?
16:08I just had a problem with it being looked at as control.
16:13I am aggressive, you know, which I know a lot of people, they can consider it controlling.
16:20Do you think people misunderstand you?
16:22They don't misunderstand me.
16:23I am assertive.
16:24I am dominant.
16:26You say I am aggressive but dominant.
16:28Okay.
16:29Oh, yes.
16:30Okay.
16:31You know, I don't need a mother.
16:32I need a woman.
16:33You feel what I'm saying?
16:34I got a mom.
16:35I don't like the kind of control or the aggressive attitude or, you know, kind of like, you know,
16:39I do whatever.
16:40And how does that impact you?
16:41I mean, I can adjust, but it's kind of like, in my mind, what's the problem?
16:47It's a part of my culture.
16:49So it's not control.
16:51It's just who I am.
16:52So let me pivot the conversation a little bit.
16:54So I know you all played a game where you didn't see what the other person wrote, but
16:58they were asking if you would leave with that person.
17:01Would you leave?
17:02Yes or no.
17:03Like, how did that game go?
17:05Oh, I'm just like, oh, man.
17:10So I know you all played a game, but they were asking if you would leave with that person.
17:16Yeah.
17:17At the dinner table.
17:18Oh, okay.
17:19It was like, if you left tomorrow, would you leave?
17:21Yes or no?
17:22Like, how did that game go?
17:24No.
17:25No.
17:26Um, so in that moment, I was a little bit uneasy because the circumstances of the game, it
17:36wasn't long term.
17:37It was right now in that moment that was said at the table.
17:41And in that moment, I said no.
17:43Mm-hmm.
17:44In that moment.
17:45Okay.
17:46Christopher wrote no.
17:48Before therapy, I thought he was maybe like a maybe or something.
17:52I don't know.
17:53But I didn't, I really didn't expect the no.
17:56What did you write?
17:58I wrote yes.
17:59And I wrote yes because even though we usually have disagreements or whatever, by the next
18:05day, you know, we work it out, we talk it out, and we move on.
18:08I figured it was one of them things we would work through and move on.
18:12So, do you think there's any more direct conversations you want to have with her?
18:15I think I'd have had them all.
18:17Everything, how I truly feel, and I want to use the rest of the time here to see if that
18:21can be reciprocated in some type of way.
18:23Okay.
18:24Before I make my final decision whether I should leave officially with her or not.
18:31And I feel like if you know how I totally feel now, and I know how you totally feel,
18:37that's more than enough time to see just a little improvement.
18:40So, that's where I met with it.
18:51I like magic.
18:52Pick a call.
18:55Hold on.
18:56Do I show you?
18:57Yo, don't show me nothing.
18:58Don't show me nothing.
18:59Alright.
19:00I got you.
19:01Okay.
19:02Put it back.
19:03Ooh.
19:04It's the face, bruh.
19:07Ding dong.
19:08What's your call?
19:09It's the ace of diamonds.
19:10That's my card!
19:11Bro, that is crazy.
19:12Hello, how you doing?
19:13Hi.
19:14Welcome to the house of magic tricks.
19:15How you doing?
19:16I'm good.
19:17How are you?
19:18Who are you here for?
19:19I'm Jewel.
19:20I'm Jewel.
19:21Okay.
19:22That's my brother Jared.
19:23Okay.
19:24I'm BJ.
19:25I'm BJ.
19:26Hi, y'all.
19:27Sorry.
19:28Hello.
19:29Hi, y'all.
19:30Sissy.
19:31Hey.
19:32I'm not an emotional person, but when my sister arrives, I felt my tear ducts filling
19:39up.
19:40But I pushed them back and it was just filled with happiness.
19:43I was so happy to sit here.
19:44Come on.
19:45We got to chit chat.
19:46We got a lot to do.
19:47I got a lot to do.
19:48My sister, she gives the best advice that everyone in my family.
19:51And she'll give me the advice that I need to hear.
19:53How's everything?
19:54No.
19:55Look at you.
19:56Oh my God.
19:57I'm here and seeing like how everyone is like, it's been beautiful so far.
20:04Um, the time here with Charlie has been interesting.
20:10Hey, how are you?
20:13Welcome.
20:14So I have my best friend, Sabrina, coming to see me.
20:19And we have been friends since our freshman year of high school.
20:23So it's been about 20, over 20 years.
20:26As much as I like these people in the house, I need to see someone from home.
20:30And I cannot wait.
20:32We have to talk about everything that's going on.
20:34Oh God, where do I even start?
20:37Why do you say it's been interesting?
20:39Um, I've been hiding Tracy from Charlie.
20:42Uh huh.
20:43But Charlie had a secret to tell me as well.
20:46And so, Charlie actually has three more children.
20:54But guess what?
20:56He has a newborn too.
20:58What?
20:59What is wrong with you guys?
21:01I don't know.
21:02There's no way.
21:03Really?
21:04Yeah.
21:05He has a six month old.
21:06I had no idea.
21:07But the problem is, is that I dropped three kids on him.
21:10And then he dropped the one on me.
21:11So it's like, I'm worse because I kept three kids from him.
21:16I'm sorry.
21:17I'm sorry.
21:18Ooh, one, two, three.
21:19Okay.
21:20More?
21:21So she has four?
21:22She has four total after she told me.
21:24Um, in my mind I was already checked out.
21:27And so even though she may have still been in La La Land, I came down from La La Land, but
21:33I still chose to still enjoy myself.
21:35Uh huh.
21:36And so one could say that maybe I was leading her on.
21:40Right.
21:41I thought everything was butterflies and rainbows and s**t.
21:45Like, like if you wrote down like what a perfect man is, Jared hit every box.
21:50We've been good.
21:51We had sex.
21:52F**king amazing.
21:54And we played a card game after dinner and the thing was, if we had to make a decision tomorrow,
22:01would you leave with your partner or would you say no?
22:04And what did I write?
22:05I wrote f**k no.
22:07I wrote hell yet.
22:08And he didn't tell me until today.
22:12No the f**k he did not.
22:13Uh huh.
22:14And he was like, yeah man, like I was drunk that night and that's how I felt in that moment.
22:18I don't feel like that anymore.
22:19And I was like, what the f**k am I supposed to believe?
22:22But today we had our first real conversation and the question arose of why I said that.
22:29And then that's when we got into how I really felt.
22:32That's a lot.
22:33It's a lot.
22:34That's a lot.
22:35At the end of the day, like we do go back to reality.
22:38So if you're not ready to take on that, then.
22:44Do I really want to raise someone else's children at this point in my life?
22:47That's the question.
22:48That's the question.
22:49Charlie's a beautiful person and Charlie and I's relationship has only been good vibes.
22:54And at first I thought that she would fall in love with me and would want to move to South Carolina.
23:01And that would relive happily ever after.
23:03But once I got the knowledge that was three more kids, I started to see how unrealistic that was.
23:08I just feel like I'm still trying to figure out how to raise my own kids.
23:12And I think it would be really tough for me to try to take on four more.
23:17And I don't have a definitive answer.
23:19I can't say yes or no right now, but that's just the conversation that we just have to have.
23:24Well, how are you like, how do you feel right now?
23:27I feel disrespected.
23:28I feel like even though I dropped on him and he told me I never disrespected him.
23:33I'm like really trying here.
23:35Right.
23:36So I guess I just have to process and figure it out to make sure like he really wants me because I really want like this to work.
23:45It's good to kind of vent Sabrina about everything that's been going on, kind of what's been happening in the house.
23:51But Jared's sister is here.
23:53I'm just nervous.
23:54I'm anxious.
23:55And I'm like, how is this visit going to go?
23:58I don't want to meet his sister under these circumstances because Jared has been giving me mixed signals.
24:04And his sister there too.
24:06Oh my God.
24:07Where's all the exits?
24:10That door is open.
24:11You know I would know nothing happened.
24:12Oh, I know.
24:13That's why you're here.
24:16I'm sweating.
24:17Dropping three kids on somebody and then expecting them to just be like, okay, bet we're just going to go this way.
24:22It's unreal.
24:23I didn't expect that.
24:27Can I talk?
24:28You never let me talk.
24:29That's the problem.
24:30Oh, I never, never.
24:31Never.
24:32Never.
24:33You just ask me a question and I can even like complete my.
24:34Go ahead.
24:35Go ahead.
24:36To discuss it in the kitchen.
24:38Pull up everyone else.
24:39Let me know when I can talk.
24:41Cause I'm a little boy.
24:48How you feeling dog?
24:49Trying to figure out like, I don't know what she's about to take me cause she's playing this date.
24:54So I'm just trying this up.
24:55She didn't give you no hint?
24:56You don't have no inclination?
24:57You just told me.
24:58Yeah.
24:59She's not really happy.
25:00So it's going to be something y'all might sweat.
25:04Today is a big day for me.
25:05I have a date with Alexis.
25:06But at the same time, it seems like Dr. Ali notices a disconnection between me and Alexis.
25:11I know this rubbed Alexis the wrong way cause I could tell her by her facial expression.
25:15We haven't went on a date since the beach.
25:17Oh for real?
25:18Yeah.
25:19Since the first date I took on, I took up to the beach.
25:21I'm kind of nervous because me and Alexis have had some up and down moments.
25:25And also, I'm kind of confused.
25:27Because I'm like, where are we going at night time in Los Angeles that I need to put on athletic gear?
25:32So I'm planning this day for Christopher because after my meeting with the relationship coach, I thought about everything.
25:49I kind of was caught off guard.
25:51I don't like to be caught off guard by things, you know.
25:55But sometimes I feel like she can be kind of controlled and a little bit more aggressive and things of that nature.
26:01Anybody that knows me knows that I am assertive.
26:06I'm dominant.
26:07I'm aggressive and I own it.
26:09But I'm not so aggressive that I can't be feminine.
26:15I'm not gonna lie.
26:16I did miss some things with Christopher.
26:18I missed, I missed, I missed a lot of little things.
26:22But I hope we're in a better place going forward.
26:28This is Charlie.
26:30Hello Miss Girl.
26:32Hi, we're all wearing all black.
26:35Jared's sister is there.
26:36Oh Jesus.
26:37I'm beyond nervous.
26:40I instantly just got anxiety, sweats.
26:43What's gonna happen?
26:44What am I gonna say?
26:45I've filled her in on everything.
26:48Okay.
26:49I just want to know how you feel when you have Charlie here now.
26:52Do you have anything that you want to discuss or you want to share?
26:57Before this, before meeting each other, like in face to face, like how did you feel about my brother?
27:02What were your feelings for him?
27:03So I guess, you know, over four years, like, I love that man.
27:06I love that man.
27:07So it's like, I was hoping to come here and tell him and we would kind of work through that.
27:12Even after like everything that like was told, I'm still hoping to leave with him.
27:16Like that's the goal.
27:17So I don't know, that's kind of where I'm at.
27:19Okay.
27:20I don't know.
27:21He's filled me in about, um, I guess your secret, but it's just like, I guess in a sense like, why hide?
27:30I guess it was just like my, his perception of me, like as a woman with like all these, a single woman with like all these kids.
27:39Babe, but if you're doing what you gotta do to me, like, you should be proud of that.
27:43Yeah.
27:44Like, okay, I got kids, but I'm taking care of mine.
27:46That's what I'm saying.
27:47I don't need a man.
27:48I mean, no offense.
27:49I'm pretty sure I make a lot more money than you.
27:52Like I do very, very well for myself.
27:55And so I just didn't tell him at first and there just never became a topic of conversation.
28:00And again, I know it was selfish and I know I should have told him like from the jump.
28:05Okay.
28:06Did you feel any, how did you feel when he told you about the comment, the answer?
28:12We had just gone and we told each other our secrets and we agreed like, don't hide from me anymore.
28:18Okay.
28:19Even after we were in the dining room and you know, we asked each other like, are you going to leave your significant other or not?
28:24I asked him, I said, what did you put?
28:26And he said, I put yes.
28:28Yeah.
28:29I'm a yes.
28:32Did you know?
28:33Yeah.
28:35But come to find out he put no.
28:37Right.
28:38So I'm like, wait, we just had this whole conversation trying to like get over this and you're still lying.
28:42Like he's still lied to me.
28:45If he told you like, after the conversation, sitting in that kitchen and you found out like, oh, what did you put?
28:51No.
28:52How would you have felt in that moment?
28:53Fine.
28:54Would you?
28:55Fine.
28:56Because that's how he felt.
28:57That's why we get along so well, because I do understand like that.
29:00I'm not the one to be like going crazy over.
29:03If that's how you feel in the moment, let's talk about it.
29:06I get mad when you lie about it.
29:08Obviously, I can't really say that because I lied.
29:10I'm not talking about that.
29:11I'm talking about where we, we establish our lies and we were going to not do that anymore.
29:15Yes.
29:16Okay.
29:17And then he still did it.
29:18That's what pissed me off.
29:19Like I just dropped three extra kids on you.
29:22You have a right to be angry.
29:24Like, just talk to me about it.
29:27Dropping three kids on somebody and then expecting them to just be like, okay, but we're just going to go this way.
29:32I didn't expect that.
29:33But it's unrealistic to be like, oh, we're just going to go off in La La Land.
29:38It's like, okay, but this is a big secret.
29:41No, I didn't, I didn't expect that.
29:43He's the one that was like, everything's good.
29:45And I'm like, you know, I'm talking to other people.
29:48Like, I know it's not good, but he didn't tell me it wasn't good.
29:51He's making me believe it was good.
29:53He's the one that was like, everything's good.
30:04And I'm like, I know it's not good, but he didn't tell me it wasn't good.
30:07You have to trust me enough to tell me it's not good.
30:10So I can like, you know, react to that.
30:12Like, I have to know that part.
30:14And that's what you didn't tell me.
30:16I've been heartbroken.
30:18So it's like, I get, I don't like liars.
30:21Yeah, that's a deal breaker for me.
30:23But that's my brother at the end of the day.
30:25So I'm always be in his corner.
30:26But I always, I'm the, you're wrong.
30:29Why did you lie?
30:30I'll take ownership of that.
30:32I shouldn't have lied.
30:33And I should have expressed myself immediately.
30:35And the mental space that I was in at the time.
30:38I think that's one of the biggest ups I've had here is not doing that.
30:42And then lying to you.
30:43So I apologize for that.
30:44I know I'm like what my mistakes that I made.
30:47And I know what I should have done.
30:48And you know, hindsight 2020, we both lied to each other.
30:50We both lied to each other.
30:51We both hid some .
30:52I feel like we can get over that.
30:53But I'm just not sure where his head is at right now.
30:57When I think like of the realistic side of it, like that's a lot.
31:01And like we've been living in La La Land for the past couple of weeks.
31:05And we had our first real conversation about it today.
31:08And I think our next conversation that we need to have is mainly for us privately.
31:13But we need to have a hard conversation on what going forward looks like.
31:19Being serious, like kids are beautiful and it's never anything to hide.
31:23Like they say, if they don't accept you without makeup, they don't deserve you with makeup.
31:27But kids, you keep those.
31:29Those are your pride and joy.
31:30You keep those at the front.
31:31I come with kids.
31:32I love my kids.
31:33And you either love me or you could go.
31:35Right.
31:36Jared's sister, she was actually really sweet and understanding.
31:39She took the information very well.
31:41And I loved meeting her.
31:43Don't let them tell you what they want.
31:44You want to tell them what they want.
31:45You want to tell them what they want.
31:46Thank you so much.
31:47The talk went very well.
31:49And I think both parties got their point across.
31:51And there was no disrespect.
31:53It was just a beautiful discourse.
31:55But I know that there's a hard conversation coming up with Charlie.
31:59Of what we're going to do in the future.
32:06Athletic here with Alexis.
32:08Now this is interesting.
32:10You got me thinking.
32:11So where do you think I'm taking it?
32:13I think you know I'm into, like,
32:15fitness and athletics stuff.
32:17So I think it's somewhere around that ballpark.
32:19Oh, that's how you blink.
32:21It could be there.
32:22Okay.
32:23Did I get it?
32:24I'm pretty sure.
32:25I don't tell you.
32:26Yeah.
32:27This is the first date ever that I have taken a man on.
32:31I'm not big on that.
32:32But I'm trying new things.
32:35Oh, .
32:38Man, you done brought me the box.
32:40Mm-hmm.
32:41That's what's up.
32:42You know, I love this type of stuff.
32:47Hello.
32:48How you guys doing today?
32:49Welcome to Mayweather Boxing and Fitness in Hollywood.
32:51My name is Allende.
32:52I'm going to be your trainer for today.
32:53Okay.
32:54I'm going to walk you guys through a couple of different exercises
32:56and see how you guys fare and do, all right?
32:57Y'all look like she's trying to do something to impress you, right?
32:59Yeah.
33:00I think she might be trying to see if I got them hands.
33:02Let's see if you got them hands.
33:03Okay, let's see.
33:04Lexus brings me to a boxing gym.
33:07And it's the gym of one of my favorite boxers, Floyd Mayweather.
33:10My heart is filled with excitement.
33:12Lexus know I like boxing, so this made me feel good.
33:15Maybe this woman is paying attention.
33:17So these right here laid out are what we call battle ropes, all right?
33:20They ain't even going to hit me with the beginner stuff.
33:22We going to hit it with this, and then we going to lighten it up a little bit.
33:27All right, we're going to get our body warmed up.
33:29He said you want to keep up with me.
33:31Nice, nice, great form.
33:33He said you're loving my company.
33:35Had an excellent job, excellent job.
33:39I said I'll work out with you.
33:40See, it's night time.
33:41See.
33:42Now I know a follow-up in the morning type stuff.
33:44Boxing date is going good.
33:46Alexis seems to be in tune.
33:47She's taking instructions from the instructor really well.
33:50She seems to be motivated.
33:52Everything is going good.
33:53Now we're going to get to the fun part, right?
33:55Yes.
33:56Yeah.
33:57He's going to hold that, keep that stable for you.
33:58So as you shoot it, dab cross, and let that go.
34:01BOOM!
34:02BOOM!
34:03BOOM!
34:04BOOM!
34:05BOOM!
34:06I see you Layla.
34:07Oh, Chris is in heaven.
34:08He got to show his skills.
34:09Like a double A battery.
34:11I like him, and I want him to be happy.
34:14I want him to know that he does have somebody that's in his corner,
34:17and will have his back no matter what.
34:19Good work, good work.
34:22You know, and it was also to show him that me being strong as a woman is not a bad thing,
34:28because I had out that bag when he was hitting it, and I was not moved.
34:32So, you know, he got to see me too.
34:35How you feeling?
34:36I'm good.
34:37Yeah.
34:38I feel good.
34:39Good.
34:40I feel good.
34:41Good.
34:42I never would have thought you would have planned this little date.
34:45That's really exciting.
34:46I'm excited.
34:47It's a 10 out of 10.
34:4810 out of 10?
34:4910 out of 10.
34:50All right.
34:51This date really has me in a good mood.
34:53I say me and this woman is really making steps in the right direction.
34:57So at this point, we is vibing, and we see that we both is stronger than what we thought.
35:01Oh, man.
35:02Oh, that was weak.
35:03Give me one of them love hits.
35:04Give me that boxing crunch.
35:05Give me a jam.
35:06Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
35:07We'll get chicken on this grill.
35:08Let's do it.
35:09Have a good night.
35:10Let's do it.
35:11The last couple days have been insane, but hopefully dinner will be a lot better.
35:32We can be in peace and just have a minute to relax.
35:36We're going to have that game when everybody's going to eat.
35:39I'm hoping for good energy and good vibe.
35:42All right, y'all ready?
35:43Yeah.
35:44In as minimal drama as possible.
35:47You ready for the start off?
35:48Yeah, go ahead.
35:49Give me one piece of sex advice.
35:51Um, make sure you, um, don't skip foreplay.
35:59That's good advice.
36:00That was great advice.
36:02What is one difference between us that you love?
36:06You're a lot more mature than I am.
36:08That's a real good, that's a real good.
36:11Yeah.
36:12How can your partner make you feel sexy?
36:15Touch me.
36:16All right.
36:17If you have not had sex, do you think y'all would be good sexual partners?
36:25I get the question on whether I feel that Ty and I are sexually compatible.
36:36I just feel it's no one's business.
36:38You know, that's something for Ty and I to discuss.
36:40I don't know.
36:41That's a yes or no.
36:42That's a yes or no.
36:43That's a yes or no.
36:44That's a yes or no.
36:45The only answer you can give.
36:46Why y'all put this guy...
36:47No, no, no.
36:48That's the rules.
36:49I don't know is not an answer.
36:51I'm gonna go with yes.
36:52Okay.
36:53Okay.
36:54I'm gonna go with yes.
36:55Okay.
36:56Okay.
36:57All right.
36:58Honestly, the answer is no.
37:01But I have been focused so hard this whole time and, like, sparing his feelings.
37:03I didn't want for him to have an ego trip.
37:04I was trying to spare him.
37:13No, it's Ty.
37:16It's Ty.
37:17I'm sorry.
37:18It's Ty.
37:19I'm sorry.
37:20I'm sorry.
37:21I'm sorry.
37:22It's Ty.
37:23It's Ty, I'm sorry.
37:24I'm sorry.
37:25I'm sorry.
37:26What is Ty?
37:27I'm sorry.
37:28I'm sorry.
37:29No, it's Ty. It's Ty.
37:30No, it's Ty, it's Ty, it's Ty, it's Ty.
37:33Oh!
37:33Oh!
37:34Elaborate.
37:35No, it didn't say to elaborate.
37:37It didn't say to elaborate, so I ain't gonna elaborate.
37:40Brittany took forever in a day to respond before she reluctantly said yes.
37:45For me, it was an abrupt and honest no.
37:48I don't think that we have chemistry so far.
37:51I've been trying to have that chemistry with her,
37:54and it feels like I'm doing something wrong and I don't know what that is.
37:58He tried to stir the pot. Elaborate.
37:59No round table.
38:00No round table.
38:01No round table.
38:02She killed him with the eyes.
38:04Here we go, time and time again.
38:06I'm constantly sparing Ty's feelings,
38:09and he's not giving me the same courtesy.
38:11Smiling!
38:14I don't wanna hear about this.
38:16We need some comedy relief.
38:19Is she gone? She gotta come back.
38:21We outta here.
38:22Why is that such a big deal?
38:23Because she pissed off.
38:24The question said, do you think your partner would be a good sexual partner?
38:27Well, she was doing I don't know this thing.
38:28She finally said, yeah.
38:29And then she said, yes.
38:30And Ty said...
38:31At that point, he like, fuck that.
38:32He said, no.
38:33Welcome to the show.
38:34Chris and I are on, like, cloud 10,
38:37and we walk into the dining room,
38:40and there was a blow up.
38:43He really didn't want any part of it.
38:45Like, whoo!
38:46I was taking his, like...
38:48Feelings into consideration.
38:49Yeah, his feelings into consideration.
38:52He didn't do the same for me.
38:53Don't with me.
38:54It's like, like, bitch to me.
38:56Every time I make an advancement
38:58or any type of progress,
39:00I'm getting rejected.
39:01That's what they were talking about earlier.
39:02So how would you feel like sex would be good
39:04if she don't even want sex?
39:05That's why I said no.
39:06I was being honest.
39:07Yeah, she's not trying to be honest.
39:08She's like...
39:09I don't know what the wrong with her to be honest.
39:11That's what I said. Go ask her.
39:12Britney exited the room.
39:17I've been noticing a trend with her.
39:19When she doesn't want to be on the spot,
39:22she will flee.
39:23And for me,
39:24I'd rather just stand and talk about it.
39:26What's up?
39:27What you mean?
39:28Why you left?
39:29So you had annoyed me, like, real talk,
39:31if you're gonna ask me right here.
39:32Why I annoyed you?
39:33How you answer the question,
39:35would we be sexually compatible?
39:37Mm-hmm.
39:38You were just like, no.
39:40I was answering honestly.
39:41No, look, and I appreciate your honesty,
39:44but you know what?
39:45I said yes,
39:46because I didn't want to embarrass you.
39:47No, but you also took forever to say yes.
39:50You didn't just say...
39:51No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
39:52If you remember correctly, right?
39:55Can I talk?
39:55You never let me talk.
39:57That's the problem.
39:57Oh, I never, never, never, never.
39:59You just asked me a question,
40:00and I couldn't even, like, complete my answer.
40:02Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.
40:03Go ahead, complete your answer.
40:04And when they asked me...
40:05Let me know when I can talk, okay?
40:07Let me know when I can talk,
40:09because I'm a little boy.
40:10Go ahead.
40:11Let me know when I can talk.
40:12Can I talk now?
40:13I'm sorry, can I talk?
40:15You know what?
40:15You're going to be a asshole to me.
40:17Why are you going to say that again?
40:18And why are you going to put your fingers in my face?
40:20It's going to piss me off.
40:20Don't put your fingers in my face.
40:22I'm not disrespecting you.
40:23Don't do that.
40:24Why are you putting your fingers in my face?
40:25I don't like that.
40:26I don't like it.
40:27I don't do that.
40:28Why are you putting your fingers in my face, though?
40:29Because I don't do that.
40:30Ty wants to discuss it in the kitchen,
40:33full of everyone else.
40:34I'm just done.
40:35It's already obvious that Ty and I do not communicate well.
40:39At this point, we no longer respect each other.
40:42This isn't, it's not going to work.
40:44I don't do that.
40:45You're doing that?
40:46Get out of my .
40:47But you don't like how I'm talking to you?
40:48Move.
40:50Get the out of here.
40:59Me up and moving, it's hard.
41:01I just think Atlanta's better.
41:02But you got to listen.
41:03You don't have a child.
41:04He's four.
41:07One of the big reasons why I wasn't able to see you
41:10for a few years is because I was still involved with my ex.
41:14That's just damn right disrespectful.
41:17You came here to meet him.
41:18You mean every other in this house.
41:21You're going to look like a promiscuous whore on TV
41:23when it's there.
41:23Girl, you doing too much.
41:25You can leave.
41:26At this point, I'm done.
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