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00:00See the menu.
00:01Oh, you're making crap waves.
00:02Yay!
00:04I set up a second date for me and Brittany.
00:06Hopefully, she's going to like it.
00:07You know, I'm going to hook it up.
00:10No tone?
00:11I can't get no tone?
00:12No.
00:13A little bit of tone?
00:13Maybe later.
00:15Already obvious that Ty and I do not communicate well.
00:20I don't understand how you can be so soft
00:22but don't want affection.
00:24I still have to tell Brandon my secret about my ex.
00:27And I don't know what to do about it.
00:30What would I get if I make this, though?
00:32A kiss.
00:36My sister is coming to visit.
00:38I've been getting nothing but positive feedback.
00:40She's a really good guy.
00:41Manson Gold's future, I feel like, is very bright.
00:44Everyone in the house keeps saying,
00:46invite us to y'all wedding.
00:47Do you think y'all would be a good sexual partner?
00:49I don't know.
00:51Every time I make an advancement, I'm getting rejected.
00:54Let me know when I can talk, because I'm a little boy.
00:57Yo, my God, I'm talking to you.
00:58Move.
00:59It's not going to work.
01:12You treat me like I'm a little boy.
01:13Let me know when I can talk.
01:14You know what?
01:15If you're going to be a asshole,
01:17why are you going to say that again?
01:18Why are you going to put your fingers in my face?
01:19It's going to piss me off.
01:20Don't put your fingers in my face.
01:21Don't do that.
01:22I'm not disrespecting you.
01:23Don't do that.
01:24At the dinner table, we play the game where the question comes up about partner and sexual
01:29compatibility.
01:30Brittany takes a while to answer.
01:31She kind of forces out a yes.
01:34Ty picks it up, immediately says no, and all hell breaks loose.
01:38You don't like how I'm talking to you?
01:40Move.
01:41Get the **** out of here.
01:44What's going on?
01:48I didn't think it was appropriate for me to like dish out our business like that at the
01:55table.
01:56So I said an answer that I felt like would protect him in that moment.
01:59If he wants to talk about like our sexual compatibility later, that's fine.
02:04But at that moment, my main thing was protecting him.
02:07And he didn't have the same thing for me.
02:09And as I'm talking, when he does that loud talk and starts jumping over you and gets,
02:14you know, being condescending and all that, I don't like that.
02:16You don't think he ever feel disrespected the way you walk around his house?
02:19How do I disrespect him the way you walk around his house?
02:22Like anything.
02:23Like, yeah, he's saying he's not getting nothing back from you.
02:25He's doing everything.
02:26Picking you drinks, bringing you breakfast in bed.
02:28He don't get **** back.
02:29That's the problem.
02:30Because y'all do too much talking with one side and not the other.
02:34Just because I'm not loud about it does not mean that it's not happening.
02:37I'm moving, I'm moving silence a lot.
02:39I feel like Ty did a great job of trying to communicate with her.
02:42Just seeing Ty make her breakfast, make her lunch, bring her drinks, wait on her hand
02:46and foot just to get nothing in return.
02:49She makes slick comments about him.
02:51He doesn't even look his way.
02:52What planet is she on that she thinks she's really like top ****?
02:57Y'all are so dramatic.
02:58You can tell like the immaturity.
03:00Like what the **** are we even talking about?
03:02There's only so much a man can take.
03:03I don't think he want food or no tea.
03:06He wants some hugs and some kisses and some **** attention.
03:09He wants you to rub and tickle him like you do everybody else.
03:12Who the **** am I touching?
03:13Everybody but Ty.
03:15And he sees it too.
03:16Whatever.
03:17We are all seeing what Brittany is doing.
03:19She's here to drink and to touch and rub on every other guy in the house other than Ty, the one who she's supposed to be here with.
03:26How you been doing?
03:27I've been doing all right.
03:28I love the grown man's sexiness.
03:33Especially B.
03:34You can go get my brother and my big little brother.
03:40Okay, fine.
03:41Come on.
03:42Give me the card.
03:43Come on.
03:44Come on.
03:45I just do what I do.
03:46I am who I am.
03:47All the guys are handsome, but it's just my personality.
03:50I wouldn't describe it as flirty.
03:52Others may feel that it's flirty.
03:54You gotta understand what it look like when Ty see it.
03:56Girl, you doing too much.
03:57No, baby.
03:58You are.
03:59You doing too much.
04:00You do be tickling me though.
04:02I really don't remember that.
04:04I was standing right there.
04:05Ty was standing right there.
04:06And you came up and you tickled Synchro.
04:09Can I be ticklish?
04:10Look, if you tickle me, I'm almost done.
04:13Get your ass over there, man.
04:15If you tickle me again, you're going to the **** machine.
04:17You look like a promiscuous whore on TV when it's there.
04:20You know what that term means?
04:21Mm-hmm.
04:22What does promiscuous mean?
04:23You.
04:24Me.
04:25What does it mean?
04:26What's the **** definition?
04:27The way you walk around the house.
04:28So that's promiscuous?
04:29That's you.
04:30Wrong.
04:31That's you.
04:32You don't even know what it **** means.
04:33That's you.
04:34If you came here to meet him, you mean every other **** in this house.
04:36She's pointing her finger at me, and she just was bent over in the shower the first night.
04:42But I'm promiscuous.
04:44Don't, like, put stuff out and say things about people if you don't know what the **** definition is.
04:49We all say it.
04:50You don't even know what promiscuous means.
04:52Listen.
04:53Listen.
04:54Listen.
04:55Listen.
04:56Listen.
04:57Listen.
04:58Listen.
04:59Everyone who's saying that is ****.
05:00You don't know what that means.
05:01What's up, brother?
05:02What the ****?
05:03I don't know.
05:04But I refuse to have ignorant conversations.
05:07I mean, I think this is a healthy conversation.
05:09Nah, some **** just being spewed out, like, shows, like, the intelligence level and I can't do that.
05:15I can't do stupid ****.
05:16You can leave.
05:17You know, I've been in high school before, and I don't ever feel like I should have to feel like I'm defending myself.
05:23Like, at this point, I'm done.
05:25And she left again.
05:26Of course.
05:27Every time the kitchen gets hot, she leaves.
05:28So y'all definitely should have a talk in the morning when y'all should be hot.
05:31I'm not having a talk.
05:32Because every time I have not all the way even been wrong, I still went and approached her, apologized, and said what it was.
05:40I'm not doing it again.
05:41She was the one line.
05:42She the one who's not taking no accountability.
05:45I'm not about to apologize again and again and again and again just to smooth **** over.
05:50**** that.
05:52I think with Britney's background, she's used to getting her way and being treated a certain kind of way.
05:58And I'm not used to such dominant energy.
06:02It goes both ways.
06:03And I think that she's not understanding what I need, which is to be heard, to be listened to.
06:09If you're a nice guy, you can hang it up.
06:12And that's what I am.
06:14I gotta be an ass ****, which is the ass **** she keep calling me that I'm not.
06:18At this point, I just feel like I'm in the wrong space.
06:22I can't have conversations with stupid.
06:27And you can try to teach people how to grow out of ignorance, but is it really even worth it at this point?
06:34Like, for what?
06:35It's not gonna do anything for me.
06:36I'm not gonna keep going back and forth.
06:38This just really honestly is beneath me.
06:41Unless Ty has something amazing to say to keep me to stay, I'm leaving.
06:47I fished.
06:48Did you?
06:49Yes.
06:50And I think we caught the biggest catfish in the pond.
06:52Hey, that's the biggest one.
06:53That's the biggest one right there.
06:54It really is.
06:55And I went to go grab it and that **** was strong.
06:56Like, it was straight muscle.
06:57Go pick him up, y'all.
06:58I ain't picking that ****.
06:59We're looking at this catfish on the side.
07:00This catfish is looking at us.
07:01Yeah.
07:02I just cut the hook.
07:04My braids gonna be black and gray.
07:05They are.
07:06I feel like you're gonna be great fast.
07:07I feel like I keep telling you.
07:08with the kid thing.
07:09I just think Atlanta's better.
07:10I feel like you're gonna be great fast.
07:11I feel like I keep telling you.
07:12With the kid thing.
07:13I just think Atlanta's better.
07:14Yeah, it really is.
07:15It really is.
07:16It really is.
07:17And I went to go grab it and that **** was strong.
07:18Like, it was straight muscle.
07:19Go pick him up, y'all.
07:20I ain't picking that ****.
07:21We're looking at this catfish on the side.
07:22This catfish is looking at us.
07:23Yeah.
07:24I just cut the hook.
07:25My braids gonna be black and gray.
07:30They are.
07:31I feel like you're gonna be great fast.
07:33I feel like.
07:34I be tired.
07:35Like I keep telling you.
07:36With the kid thing.
07:37I just think Atlanta's better.
07:39Why?
07:40When it comes to moving forward with Jay,
07:42I'm very serious about our relationship.
07:44We just have a, I don't even wanna say disagreement.
07:46We have some questions about where we're gonna relocate.
07:49If she's gonna relocate to Atlanta.
07:51Or if I'm gonna go up to the Chicago area.
07:54We're down to the last couple of days.
07:56I think that's the biggest thing that we have to figure out.
08:01Before we get to Happily Ever After going.
08:03So me up and moving, it's hard.
08:05Me packing up all my **** and my son alone, it's hard.
08:09Moving his whole life.
08:10His best, he has best friends.
08:12He's four.
08:13He has cousins that he played.
08:14See, that's.
08:15No, no, no.
08:16You gotta think about it from him.
08:17He's four, but what that mean?
08:18Somebody like me who went to a different school almost every single year.
08:24That **** up.
08:25Until I was in high school, I had to learn.
08:27No, but it helped me though.
08:29Made me like learn people and talk to people and build friendships
08:33and understand how to deal with multiple people on different levels
08:36because I'm not accustomed to the same people.
08:38That **** ain't easy trying to find a **** school zone.
08:41It is just trying to figure out what school will fit your child and.
08:43You wanna make sure that he's.
08:45I have more stuff in Chicago going on and I feel like because you don't have that extra-ness,
08:49you can just easily just move your life to Chicago.
08:51What else do you have going on in Chicago?
08:53Outside of your ****, outside of your people being there.
08:55My word.
08:56You can move that.
08:57The same way I can pick my computer up and come to Chicago,
08:59you can pick your computer up and come to Atlanta.
09:01Next.
09:02But you got to listen.
09:03You don't have a child.
09:04Okay.
09:05When you have a child, you have, especially if you're a single parent,
09:07you have a support system.
09:08So my support system is there.
09:10I have a lot of family.
09:11They're all there.
09:12When it comes to having a child, stability is a big thing.
09:15All I'm saying is give it a chance.
09:17Why would I move somewhere across the country with my child?
09:21That makes no sense to me.
09:22Like, I just don't see myself moving.
09:24So that part is tough.
09:26Just trying to figure out how that would work.
09:28Moving to Atlanta makes sense to him, but not to me.
09:31Are my grades gone?
09:33Mostly.
09:34Free safe.
09:43Knock, knock.
09:46Ty.
09:47Hey.
09:48Hey, what's up?
09:49Can I talk to you?
09:50Yeah, sure.
09:51After that, he exchanged between Ty and I.
09:55We need to discuss the big elephant in the room.
09:57And I need to just go ahead, get the courage, then knock it out.
10:02This conversation is hard for me.
10:04Mm-hmm.
10:05But, um, I don't feel like this is working.
10:15Are your family coming home?
10:16Yeah.
10:17And who coming for him?
10:18His brother.
10:19He did go down to meet you, what, four times?
10:21And you flaked on him.
10:22I kind of have an explanation.
10:24Now is a better time than any to kind of get this off my chest.
10:27Own up for touching other men in the house.
10:30No, because that's me.
10:31You can't take no accountability.
10:34I don't even think you know what the word means.
10:39Okay.
10:40This conversation is hard for me.
10:42Mm-hmm.
10:45But, um, I don't feel like this is working.
10:49Like, our connection and everything.
10:51Same.
10:52When all of that stuff started happening in the kitchen, and everybody was, like, saying this or that about me, and it seemed like I was basically getting ganged up on the kitchen.
11:03I felt that if you actually really do true care, you know, truly care about me, that you still would have stuck up for me in that moment.
11:10Again, something that you, um, I'm always something I'm not doing.
11:14What really set me off was you putting your hand in my face and talking to me like I'm your kid, and I'm not.
11:21I didn't want to engage in that conversation because I know how that's going to turn out.
11:25So I said, let me remove myself from it.
11:27When I came back, I'm hearing conversations of how much you be flirting with Senko, and how much you be flirting with some other people now.
11:34You know?
11:35How do you think that makes me feel?
11:36You're not tickling?
11:37I don't consider that tickling.
11:38Okay.
11:39But we do, like, poke at each other and all that kind of stuff.
11:41So you have a...
11:42So whatever.
11:43I don't touch another woman to tickle her at all.
11:46I don't consider that tickling, but whatever.
11:48No, no.
11:49There's many witnesses in the kitchen that told me that.
11:51To me, the writings on the wall has been on the wall.
11:54We've been having argument after argument.
11:56We haven't found any common ground.
11:58And I think at this point in the moment, we're both at our witch's end.
12:01There's a lot of tensions in this house.
12:02There's a lot of jealousy in this house.
12:04And the thing about it is that people are noticing that I'm not connecting with you.
12:07So they're just like, oh, who is she?
12:09You know, who is she connecting with?
12:10But can we take accountability and own up for touching other men in the house?
12:15No, because that's me.
12:16I touch everybody.
12:17One excuse after the other of why you can't take no accountability.
12:21I don't even think you know what the word means.
12:25I no longer feel comfortable in this situation.
12:28It's almost as if we no longer even like each other.
12:31I think we should leave.
12:32Yeah, I think so as well.
12:33Yeah, I think that's the best thing.
12:34Yes.
12:35Yeah.
12:36All right.
12:37I'm out.
12:38You out?
12:39You out?
12:40Damn, bro.
12:41You out for something?
12:42Damn.
12:43Yes, sir.
12:44Yes, sir.
12:45Damn.
12:46Damn.
12:47All right, bro.
12:48All right.
12:49All right.
12:50My intentions of coming here was to build my relationship with Brittany.
12:53Although, unfortunately, that did not happen.
12:54I do feel relieved that I'm no longer going to put myself in a situation where I'm being
13:00mistreated or not appreciated.
13:02Brittany?
13:03You ain't talking no bye?
13:04Huh?
13:05You don't get no bye?
13:06Absolutely.
13:07All right, now.
13:08Keep, keep.
13:09It's nice to meet you, Todd.
13:10All right, now.
13:11You too.
13:12She said she didn't want to be here with us.
13:13And clearly, she don't.
13:14She walk right past us.
13:15Alexis even called her name.
13:16She kept it moving.
13:17That kind of hurt my feelings, but I'm chasing people.
13:18If you want to walk through here but her, you walk your ass out this door the same way
13:35you came in this bitch alone.
13:37See you when we never see you.
13:39Yeah, that Brittany Thai was crazy.
13:41It was very distracting to have that negative energy, so I'm just glad it's over.
13:48What's the verdict?
13:49So I'm leaving.
13:50We both agreed.
13:52You are leaving?
13:53Yeah.
13:54I love you, Brittany, but you did not like that man.
13:58Like, there's nothing I can say.
13:59I'm like, oh my God, they're so cute.
14:01They're not cute because they just, they're forcing it.
14:03Like, are you going to keep in contact with him?
14:06No.
14:07Like, block central?
14:08Absolutely not.
14:10The best thing for them is to leave the house.
14:13You're my best friend in the house.
14:14Oh, I know.
14:16And you were mine, and you are mine, and yeah.
14:19I'll be keeping in touch with you regardless, so.
14:22Bye.
14:23You too.
14:25You too.
14:26This was not the best experience for me.
14:29I'm not even going to lie.
14:31It sucked.
14:32It sucked dealing with my boundaries constantly being crossed.
14:38It sucked dealing with all the different females in the house and everyone's opinions.
14:43And just, just dealing with just ignorant people.
14:46Shit.
14:47I'm not being fake today.
14:48Uh-uh.
14:49Nope.
14:50I'm not going to be impolite though.
14:51You know my mama raised me?
14:52Mm-hmm.
14:53Hey, it is what, it is what it is, and I'm glad that it's over.
15:00Oh, goodness.
15:02One of the takeaways from this experience is to not try as hard to please other people.
15:11If I look back in my life, this is not the first time I've neglected myself trying to look out for others.
15:18And I've learned that sometimes it's okay to put yourself first.
15:26My best friend coming.
15:27Oh yeah, people coming tonight.
15:28Yeah.
15:29Oh, your family coming tonight?
15:30Yeah.
15:31And who coming for him?
15:32His brother, he say.
15:33His brother.
15:34His brother coming.
15:35There's going to be some tonight.
15:36Let us know now.
15:37It shouldn't be.
15:39Okay.
15:40You sure?
15:41I don't know if that was confident.
15:42I think that'd be all right.
15:44No, she ain't saying nothing right now.
15:47I think that me and Brandon are doing really good, but Brandon doesn't know that I have been in a relationship with my ex at the same time that I was in a relationship with him.
15:56Maybe, hopefully, he has a secret.
15:58So we're, you know, even playing field.
16:00That would actually be the best case scenario.
16:02We'll see.
16:03Let's, let's do it.
16:05Here's to good vibes and the final eight.
16:08Yeah.
16:09It's a celebration.
16:11Woo!
16:12It's perfect out here.
16:13I have a question.
16:14Mm-hmm.
16:15You know how we've been, like, in Clay's ass and Brittany's ass and Kiki's ass, like, kind of telling them about themselves, like, in a respectful way?
16:20Yeah.
16:21It's hard to hear about yourself.
16:22So, like, if someone did that to you, would it, like, throw your whole day off or you just, like, accept it and, like, you're still good?
16:27I don't listen to anybody's advice anyway, so I, I'll listen, but I was like, it's probably going in one ear and out the other.
16:32So would you listen to me?
16:33Yeah.
16:34You would definitely.
16:35You're the only opinion I'd probably care about.
16:36Okay.
16:37As, you know, the days have gone on, I'm realizing, like, oh, he's just a smooth-ass talker, he knows what to say to me now.
17:04ass talker he knows what to say to me now he's literally telling me what i want to hear you know
17:09we're nearing you know the end of this whole process and i need to know like really where
17:13is jared's head does he see himself with me does he not like i have no idea at this point
17:18and like how do i trust what he's saying okay i'm gonna get ready all right i'm gonna sit
17:23out here for a little bit okay this is nice out here just me and my thoughts
17:34hello never ever met hi and britney they left the house how y'all feel good you look like you
17:44got a lot on your mind say it if it's there i hate to see people go i do i believe in love but hey
17:50it was time for her to go the point of the show is to figure out if this is your forever or not
17:56and i think they figured it out quicker than we did are you guys comfortable yes i love the four of us
18:02the four groups of yes everything is perfect it's a room this is beautiful all right i'm glad it's
18:08beautiful for you guys it's about to get beautifler after today there are only two days left in this
18:13house so make the most of it and i'm gonna leave you guys to it enjoy the rest of your day
18:17fit check fit check today i planned a date with me and jay jay chose our first date which was us
18:30playing basketball and i was a little more on the physical side that was kind of geared more
18:33towards me but for her i wanted to get more in touch on her softer side her more feminine side
18:38so we're basically going to create our own perfumes cologne and just our own personal sense
18:44traffic on a sunday i wonder where the hell we're going
18:48how are you doing hey y'all welcome hello how you doing my name is tizzle i'm gonna be your blender
18:57for today have either of you ever blended a perfume before no okay amazing so this is about to be a
19:03whole sensual experience for both of you what i want to find out are what you like and what you
19:08don't like and then the most important thing for me is your intention okay okay so who wants to start
19:13with the yes i'll go okay i like cookies warm cookies like freshly baked okay what else i like
19:21more vanilla and like chocolate amazing okay this is a very good foundation do you want to give me
19:29your intention to like melt to melt for him to melt make my man melt yes yes i got you okay i think i'm a
19:39copycat and that's crazy because most of those answers are like the same like so not actually
19:45like all the way but a lot of that so like i could tolerate the smell of like french vanilla no cinnamon
19:51i just put no oh okay yeah put no cinnamon on it i'm not really big on like citrus smells that much
19:56even like tacos those mixed with cleaning type of scents like linen like linen like linen yeah like the
20:02game dryer sheets type of you just want to write breakfast in bed for you yeah but i also but i also
20:09like the oh you smell good let me touch you type of because we do we doing breakfast in bed and you
20:14eat the breakfast in the bed and then you do whatever you're gonna do okay i'm gonna start to pull
20:19notes for y'all right now and i'll be back with y'all all right i love the smell of perfume i have
20:26nighttime since i have daytime since going out since i love a good scent i'm very excited i've never did
20:32anything like this before it's very intimate like without the physical like just intimate just
20:36talking and just working the mind and just learning more deep stuff like deeper connection type stuff
20:42yeah does it smell like her yeah your smile look at your smile oh my goodness there's definitely
20:49something she put on i'm seeing that he's paying attention and he knows me a little bit so i like
20:52that what i want y'all to do now is to hug each other and smell it on each other and see how it feels
20:59mm-hmm yeah yeah okay so i'm gonna blend chat it up and then i'll be back got you thank you
21:09this is a great day i never did this before never i love this i love smelling good but then again i have
21:17like a small amount of colognes because i don't go that many places but you know when you finally
21:21moved to atlanta then you know i got a lot of places to go
21:23still thinking about that yeah it's a big um big thing to think about
21:31it's like what are you nervous about my child being comfortable he's a kid you keep saying he's a kid
21:38you have you can't dismiss it just because he's a child what am i dismissing though him make sure
21:43he's comfortable and good a big adjustment of change no not all kids can take change he never had
21:47change before that's a lot to throw it on on him what i'm saying is you got to put him there to give
21:52him a chance to be comfortable he might be happy as hell but you won't know because you already like
21:56because in my mind it's just a lot easier and faster for you to just pack your stuff up and come here
22:03yeah i'm not telling you to get up and move yeah now i want to be in atlanta and i just want you
22:10open to i'm open to it looking at it and seeing if it fits but if it doesn't fit then
22:16we're leaving together the house yeah so we got that part now we just gotta make sure everything
22:21the scheduling i know you don't want to wait too long i don't we're having meaningful conversations
22:27conversations that need to be had conversations that are very important for the longevity of our
22:32relationship and even though i feel like it'll be in our best interest to bring her to atlanta
22:37at the end of the day i just want to be together this was very fun
22:41yeah damn this smell like fresh fresh laundry
22:47we gotta make sure we give a good review i'm gonna 10 out of 10
22:58i'm ready to put my sweatsuit back on yeah i'm cold for real for real i bought a lot of summer clothes
23:06thank god i decided to bring this
23:08i'm gonna have five cards stop cheating i'm not
23:14hello i'm kiki's friend
23:18oh okay kiki's friend maya yeah i can take you to her
23:22okay this is our little game room and she's right here kiki do you have a guest
23:27i have a guest hey maya has been my best friend for my entire life and maya is very skeptical of my
23:38relationship with brandon hey hello hey maya this is brandon maya's opinion means a whole lot to me
23:46she's very protective of me and he thinks maybe he's hiding something
23:50have you been fully transgender with him oh well i did have to tell him about my ex are you really
23:58comfortable if you holding back though how do y'all finally feel after connecting in person i learned
24:04that if it ain't your way it's kind of like the highway and i learned about your alcohol problem
24:10my alcohol problem yeah
24:12kiki do you have a guest hey hey maya this is brandon brandon this is maya
24:23hello this is my best friend okay this is the house wait who's coming from him his brother is coming
24:32younger or older why not right now
24:49hello hey how you doing i'm christian christian nice to meet you nice to meet you awesome you smell
24:54great by the way oh thank you where my brother at well dang you don't give me a minute to show you
25:01around oh um yeah of course that's cool where'd you come from what state where you live where i
25:07look like i'm from i don't know that's hard cali no i'm from uh alabama actually what's up man oh my
25:17god it's so good to see you yo christian means everything to me he's been my brother since i was five
25:25years old his dad is actually my stepdad you know i wanted to get another point of view from somebody
25:30they really know me man i've been holding it down i miss you too bro come on just go make a look
25:35real quick that little rude what happened what you mean he just walked in like where my brother at
25:41i'm like oh okay my mom and dad are doing they're good man that's true i asked i was like where you
25:48come from he's like where i look like i came from he's a lot you can tell he's doing a lot i can tell
25:52that when he walking here yeah it's so happy ass down really i want to talk about you you know and
25:59like how everything's been here we had our first date first date great he said he planned like a
26:10little photo shoot for me it was so cute and thoughtful i'm just like but we sit down and he's
26:16like i didn't know like there's an issue about my drinking so like kiki is a heavy drinker
26:26mm-hmm and i understand people be heavy drinkers but i don't want that in my relationship i dealt
26:33with that and then he poured himself like a full you know glass and i'm like can i get some more he
26:38gave you the lady portion he gave me the lady portion and i mean you know me i made a little
26:42jokey joke i was like well can i you know can i get my full pour and baby that set him off when i tell
26:47you but like the whole week he's feeling like i'm an alcoholic or something now he has been like
26:53drinking you know a little bit he don't really drink so i feel like you know maybe the hands
26:57he make you you know maybe you feel yourself but you need to feel yourself somewhere else
27:03i think mom as husband he was a heavy drinker and uh you know he's had some harsh things to me
27:10and that's just something that i don't want to deal with again because i don't i don't want it to be
27:14that for me and kiki where she end up going overboard and it turns out to be ugly seriously i remember
27:21that and with them arguing not being at the house i said it myself that you had to take care you had
27:26to step up and essentially be the parent you know and take care of like our two younger siblings at
27:31the time at 15 bro at 15 years old i can understand why that would mess you up a little bit you know
27:40what have you told him as far as your last relationship have you been fully transparent with him
27:47oh well oh well i do have to tell him about my ex i got here to do this yeah but only because i felt like
28:01you were i don't want to stress me out i didn't want to stress you out but i felt like a lot of times
28:09when i can't get it out and you help me spit it out and make sense of it i just how can you really
28:17fault me i i to be honest i hope he said yeah me too i hope that he's been dealing with somebody else
28:24and that sounds crazy but it's just like now we're even yeah i get it why has it been such a hard thing
28:32to just like get it out there now i don't want to lose another comfort person i already lost mama
28:39i already lost my ex like you know i'm saying are you really comfortable with you holding back though
28:44christian this is kiki what's up kiki this is krishna i'm doing good to meet you yes ma'am
28:56long time coming i know it definitely have and christian this is maya nice to meet you maya i'm
29:01christian i'm a brandon brother okay blood brother yeah okay how do y'all finally feel after connecting
29:09in person we're learning a lot more about each other in person yes we are there a lot more about
29:15each other in person like what like what have you learned i've learned that you're caring i learned
29:24that you overthink i learned that if it ain't your way it's kind of like the highway
29:31and i learned about your alcohol problem my alcohol problem yeah he did mention that you drink every
29:38single day just about is that true everybody in here drinks every almost every single day
29:43yeah that's a drink or two it's about our relationship like we're in a house just chilling
29:49it's like a vacation if we were to go on a cruise would you drink would you drink every day on the
29:53cruise like that exactly that's what it is he brandon making it out to be like oh i'm just drinking
30:00a bottle a day or i'm just you know what i'm saying or like this is a normal thing outside of here
30:04my best friend is here now how much do i drink i feel like it's the same as like a social drink
30:09how much does she drink she doesn't drink that often she doesn't really i'm also hearing hypocrisy
30:16not from you i'm saying when y'all talking about it you're drinking as well are you drinking less
30:21than her and are you seeing her overdo it i drink to my length i do feel like just under these
30:28circumstances there should be some leniency with the drinking you know what i mean we just got to be
30:33rational about things sometimes you know i do sense there's a lot of miscommunication between
30:39the both of y'all because now he does particularly have trust issues with you because he did go down
30:44to what was it atlanta is that where you were from to meet you what four times and you flaked on him
30:49that's a little bit excessive but i kind of have an explanation
31:03now is a better time than any to kind of get this off my chest um
31:07so now is a better time than any to kind of get this off my chest
31:23you know we started talking about four years ago um one of the big reasons why i wasn't able to see you
31:29for a few years is because i was still involved with my ex we're still living together um now we
31:38ended up breaking up and i moved out as of like the beginning of this year we have no contact was he
31:44the reason why i couldn't see you know four times i tried to see you a few of them yes other times it
31:50was also me feeling you know just not ready kiki waited till now to break off and tell me in the
32:00four years me and kiki been talking that she's been messing around with her ex that's just damn right
32:08disrespectful let me ask you this question how long were you with that ex about eight years
32:17oh you can't sit here and tell me that you didn't talk to anybody for four years
32:22that you didn't have like yeah i unfortunately i i can't believe that you can't believe it because
32:28you was messing around with your ex that ain't know me but in the even there were periods of time
32:33where we were where we didn't even talk for a couple months like what you you just were waiting
32:37for me to swing back around i'm a busy guy i'm busy too but you still have time for your ex
32:43oh my god well how do you feel about her secret that's a deal breaker i do regret telling brandon
32:53my secret i honestly thought that he would forgive me i thought that he would be like okay well this
32:58sucks and we just kept it moving like that was the ideal reaction i feel like i really could have just
33:04kept that to myself and not cause these problems i know it's been four years but it is kind of early
33:09with this second part of this relationship being introduced and i just feel like some discussions
33:14need to be had i'm gonna second that i think we can work past it yeah of course you know he talked
33:20about you a lot so you know i had to come see what's up for real well it's nice to meet you yes ma'am
33:28let's go bro
33:29i got some things to think about sometimes he has a tendency to play mr perfect mr nice guy
33:39but nobody's perfect all right bro i love you man all right no problem g do my friend right okay
33:47because i can be back here soon as i get a babysitter don't don't i don't want no problem please don't
33:53that y'all have a nice night no we don't have no more family members coming nope that's the last two
34:05oh gosh i kind of just found out that the four times i was trying to meet kiki in the four years we
34:15was talking and she was still talking to her ex right but in the four years that you guys never met
34:22you never slept with anybody in four years before i met kiki
34:29so
34:32why why why i think you know i think i think that went as well as it can with the secret that i had to
34:40tell him what he has trust issues and he feel like i cheated for three years to me it wasn't me
34:46technically on brandon technically yeah if y'all didn't in a relationship how you cheat
34:52that's true because i'm guaranteed for three years he wanted just not having sex
34:55you just broke up you just broke up with your ex when in february that ain't no bomb
35:01ain't no bomb but it's a kiki bomb why not just let me tell him you had a baby a month ago
35:06was it a commitment it was no commitment right of course why wouldn't it be four years
35:12yes you can be loyal yes you can talk to somebody for four years not beat them and be loyal
35:17not gonna lie i'm kind of discombobulated
35:25i take full accountability for you know withholding the truth but i feel like now if
35:30we're here in this house we're getting ready to you know see if everything will work now is a better
35:35time than any to be like oh you know this is what happened i have no contact with my ex
35:42anymore that i don't think about him like i just i don't know thank you sir
35:57i think the water is hot you good
36:05i'm good
36:12all right where the cinnamon rolls at let me go ahead and get mine for a month
36:27coming here and start booking the cooking yep hey kiki how you doing how you sleep last night
36:35time where you sleep at in my room damn no i was a little sad because i had got used to you know
36:46killing but whatever so he's still sad about yesterday i mean i get the initial shock but
36:52let's move it along let's move it along the only point of here is i understand you living with your
36:58ex or whatever he was like come to find out that that was a big reason of the hold up from y'all seeing
37:04each other is what is what's bothering him that was the that was the majority of three and that's
37:09that's why he's upset because he feel like maybe he could have been seeing you if it wasn't for that
37:14and to find out that you kept canceling on him he was thinking it was for like a real real reason
37:19but to find out that you kept canceling on him because you was living with another man
37:23he thinking he talking to a lady that lived by herself and doing her own thing you know brandon and kiki have
37:29a situation it makes sense for me to explain to kiki why brandon feels the way that he feels giving
37:34her a man's point of view yeah i can see why i was wrong i definitely can see it if people come to me
37:41and ask me for advice i give them real advice i just want to see everybody do what's best for them
37:46and i feel like my advice is helping them do that hopefully that helped y'all though yeah one thing for
37:53show two things for certain i'm gonna tell you the truth so let's talk about last night now so why
38:04you waiting so long to tell me about your ex i just feel like we already had a bond there was no point
38:11we weren't seeing each other so i felt like there was no point in shaking the table and now we finally
38:17seeing each other and it's like oh well can't keep hiding that it just never felt like a perfect time
38:24any time was the perfect time we had the little challenge where it said do you hold secrets and
38:28you wrote no you should have wrote yes and been real i think that's a secret i think that's more
38:34just withholding information is it ever okay to keep secrets in a relationship if that person does not
38:41know something and you know they need to know it's a secret no i'm upset more so upset about the
38:49secret and you dishing this is this is me the four times i wanted to meet because of your ex when i said
38:55that was a deal breaker i don't talk to my ex anymore i have no desire to talk to my ex so that's over
39:01and i feel like brandon doesn't listen and that pisses me off brandon you got 83 deal breakers you don't
39:06think i have no it ain't no 83. you doing a three strike rule we're adults so what it's what i don't
39:14want to put up with in my life i don't care about you don't think you have qualities that i don't
39:18want to put up with in my life you definitely do this power it's moving around like all it all of
39:24that you don't let me talk you you didn't even a lot of times you're insensitive to my feelings
39:30like the the petty stuff but then you come around and you're touchy and you're sweet and you're saying
39:35cute and i'm like i don't know i don't know if you like me or not what i just want you to be nice
39:42to me i do be nice i was nice as you just said we had a good week how was that not being but how
39:47is that not being nice i'm the only one that is taking any accountability what i need to take
39:53accountability for the way you talk the way you don't listen that's crazy you sit here and act like
40:01i'm just the only problem in this relationship and the only problem you had with me was the
40:06drinking problem and i let that go oh you haven't brandon yes i have you've been drinking like a
40:11i ain't say nothing all i wanted was apology for what you did and what you said last night and i just
40:17you're not finna keep blaming me for everything because everything is not my problem so you want to
40:21end this right here like damn do you want to end this right here this conversation no period
40:28what the over breakfast tomorrow's a big day we have a big decision it's been four years so of
40:35course i want this to work but right now i don't know that's it i'm gonna eat my breakfast the breakfast
40:44that you prevented me from eating that's on you i keep telling you that stupid
41:01tomorrow you'll be faced with an ultimate decision will you leave here together as a couple how do you
41:06really see me what do you really want from this i'm big on trying to work things out how do i know you
41:13really done with that x we haven't been intimate and i'm getting fed up over it i think monogamy
41:20goes against human nature that don't last forever damn i might walk out of here without him
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