Second Date Update - Face Time

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4/23/2025

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00:00All right, trying to make love happen today between Brian and Marissa.

00:04It is the second date update, commercial-free, new country, 99.5 QIK.

00:08They've been on a couple of dates.

00:10Brian says, hey, I don't date a lot, so when you find someone you like

00:14and then you don't hear back from them, that's kind of discouraging, and I get that.

00:17A hundred percent, but we've got to find out what it is, why she's not calling them back.

00:21So we do have her on hold right now.

00:22She has agreed to talk to us.

00:24Marissa, are you there?

00:25Yeah, I'm here.

00:27Okay, thank you so much for coming on.

00:28We do appreciate that.

00:30And we do want to try to set you back up with Brian.

00:33You just heard us talking about your guys' date, but he's having trouble getting a hold of you.

00:37What's going on here?

00:38Yeah, you know, I actually find this pretty hilarious.

00:42It's funny that this guy has time to talk about this now,

00:47but he doesn't have enough time to actually talk to me on our date.

00:51What do you mean by that?

00:53What I mean by that is that on both of our dates that we've been on,

00:58he has been, he has taken FaceTime calls from his son, both dates,

01:05and like not just little short son calls him, oh, is everything good, hang up.

01:11No.

01:11Like long, drawn out, these FaceTime calls go on for at least 10 minutes.

01:16I mean, at least, what it feels like much longer than that.

01:20I think it's very rude and embarrassing and no boundaries at all.

01:26And he basically acts like I'm not even there, and it's just a waste of my time.

01:30I'm not, you know, I'm not into that.

01:32All right.

01:32And Marissa, let me ask you this.

01:34You're cool with him having kids, though, right?

01:36This is not a kid thing.

01:38This is the fact that he's taking a FaceTime call.

01:40Of course, I'm fine with the fact that he, I knew he had kids before he even agreed to

01:44meet him the first time I met him, you know?

01:46Right.

01:47But I do believe that you only have so many chances to make a first impression,

01:51and the lack of respect for my time is clearly not making a good impression.

01:56Like, I get that he has a kid, but I'm not telling him to bring his kid on the date with us,

02:01you know?

02:03I just, these calls, like, I wish you could hear the calls.

02:07They're not anything, even about anything.

02:10Like, I think one of the calls was about the kid talking about his homework and then,

02:15like, a show he was watching, and then another call was literally him showing him, like,

02:21this Lego statue thing, script creature that he built.

02:26And I was just sitting there.

02:27To me, it's like there's no respect for my time.

02:29Okay.

02:30I don't know.

02:31It's just, if the kid can FaceTime, he can clearly shoot a text message, like,

02:36Dad, are you okay?

02:37Or, Dad, I need help.

02:38Or whatever.

02:38Like, and these calls weren't because the kid needed him, you know?

02:42Okay.

02:43I mean, you had to be there to understand it, but I really felt like it was a disrespect

02:47of my time.

02:48Okay.

02:48I got you.

02:49Got it.

02:50Well, Marissa, as you can probably guess, we have Brian on the phone with us.

02:53Of course.

02:54Brian?

02:55Yeah, I mean, I definitely took a phone call from my

03:00nine-year-old, you know, who missed his dad.

03:04It might have been five minutes.

03:06I'm a little bit shocked because, I mean, she was, like, I wasn't, like, I didn't walk

03:12away.

03:12I mean, it was right there.

03:13I was on the phone with him.

03:14It was a few minutes.

03:15And, you know, he's my son.

03:16Like, he's nine years old.

03:17And it's kind of ridiculous that she would be blowing me off about that.

03:21I think, you know, I guess she could kind of be an adult and call me and say, hey, no,

03:25I don't appreciate it.

03:26Or maybe discuss it with me instead of just blowing me off.

03:30That was my time on our dates, right?

03:34And I felt like you just sort of disrespected me.

03:38And you had no thought for that.

03:39I shouldn't have to tell you that.

03:41That shouldn't have to be something that I need to tell you.

03:44You know?

03:45He is nine years old.

03:47It's not like he's a 16-year-old kid.

03:50I mean.

03:50Okay.

03:51Yeah.

03:51Okay.

03:52He's eight or nine.

03:53That's that.

03:53You know, I don't, I think he's a good age then.

03:56Like, he never, he didn't actually ever, like, truly need you on any of those calls.

04:00I heard them myself.

04:02You know?

04:03Like, you were talking about Legos.

04:05Okay?

04:05So then, like, you could have also sort of said that you needed to go and that you'd be

04:11home in a little bit.

04:12It just kind of turned me off.

04:13And that's just not really something that I am interested in getting in the middle of.

04:19Brian, she said it's not enough.

04:21Obviously, we get it like if it was an emergency and your son needed to get a hold of you.

04:25It sounded like it wasn't an emergency.

04:27Do you get kind of where she's coming from at all?

04:29Where it's kind of like, all right, well, he's just talking to talk with his son.

04:33And I get that you have a close relationship with your son.

04:35So that's not what I'm faulting you for by any means.

04:38Yeah.

04:38I just think things could have been discussed a little bit better than just blowing me off.

04:44So, I mean, with that being said, you know, I can see how this would ever work out.

04:48But, you know, I'm okay now.

04:49So I'm happy that we found out the issue.

04:53Oh, okay.

04:53So you're just going to withdraw from the situation altogether.

04:57Yeah.

04:58Yeah.

04:58I mean, it's just I don't want to be a jerk.

05:00So I'm not going to say anything to be a jerk.

05:02And I'll say, okay, you know, I probably should have handled it better.

05:07But for someone to go to the extreme of just not talking to somebody about it, that's pretty, that's like a nine-year-old, you know.

05:15Oh, wow.

05:16All right.

05:16Well, Marissa, thank you for your time this morning.

05:19We were going to try to set you guys back up, but it sounds like Brian's not interested in doing that.

05:23And you said that you're not really interested in that as well.

05:25Yeah.

05:26No, I'm okay.

05:27Okay.

05:28All right, guys.

05:29Well, good luck with everything.

05:30You guys have a great day.

05:32Thanks.

05:33Okay.

05:33Thanks.

05:34You got it.

05:35Take care.

05:36Yeah, that's tough because you want to be there for your kids.

05:39And, you know, he's doing the thing where he's going on a date.

05:43Yeah.

05:43He's got a son at home that wants to get, wants to show him Legos or whatever and wants to FaceTime him.

05:49And, you know, it'd be kind of weird to ignore that call.

05:52Yeah.

05:52Because then the kid's like, why is dad not picking up?

05:55Exactly.

05:55Then it could be a bigger issue.

05:57Yeah.

05:57So it's just like, that's a tough one.

05:59That is a tough one.

06:00I want to know what you think, 800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.

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