00:00I try to help out Ray this morning. This dude sounds just bummed out. Yeah, he is getting ignored by Lindsay since their date or at least he feels that way. So we do have Lindsay on the phone with us. She has agreed to talk to us. Let's bring her on right now. Lindsay there. Yeah, I'm here. Okay. Hey, I know this is a lot to ask and I appreciate you agreeing to come on with us. You kind of just heard us talking about your date with Ray. And that's what we wanted to ask you about.
00:28And we want to see if we can set you guys up again because although he sounds really bummed out, he sounds really into you as well. Is there a way we could maybe set some things back up? Because I know you're not getting back to him and he kind of wants to know why.
00:42I mean, I'm going to pass on going out with him again. Just not feeling it.
00:50Can you tell us why? Can you elaborate a little bit more on that?
00:53I just got this super weird vibe from him the entire time. He was the biggest Debbie Downer. And like at first I was like, I just kept being like, oh, that's, you know, don't say that or that's sad.
01:07And then I found myself like repeating those sentences over and over again. And I was like, yo, this dude is negative. And that is not my vibe. Like I need someone in my life who is happy-go-lucky, smiling, has a good attitude. And Ray is just not that.
01:25So this kind of came out of nowhere or what?
01:28I mean, it started from the jump. Like he was just so negative about things. He got his coffee and he was like, oh, this coffee sucks. And I was like, oh, well, did you want to get like another cup? And he's like, nope, because they're so slow here. I'm like, well, you picked it, bro. Like everything was a problem.
01:49And it just threw me off. Dude is just walking around with a black cloud over his head.
01:56And you kind of felt like he unloaded a little bit too much information about all the negative stuff going on in his life?
02:02Oh, my God. He was disclosing so much. Like his Christmas sucked. And he, you know, why does his family ask him what he wants? And he doesn't get it year after year. And he hates hanging out with them on Christmas Day.
02:17And I was just like, bro, do you have anything nice to say about anybody or anything? Like it just, I left just totally bummed out.
02:25And I was like, well, what a weirdo.
02:29Well, he had some nice things to say about you.
02:31Yeah, he did. He thought you were a great listener. And apparently you were listening.
02:35Yeah, I mean, I'm sorry. I am great. So he is not for me.
02:39Like I'm looking for someone, like I said, happy and like wants to do things and positive about life.
02:45And he's not it.
02:47OK, I can understand that, though.
02:49Well, we do have Ray on the phone with us, Lindsay, and that's how we got your phone number.
02:55I want to bring him back on right now because I just want to ask him about this because Ray, you there?
03:00Yeah, I'm here. That was pretty negative to hear all that.
03:03I mean, it's true.
03:05You don't have good things to say about anything.
03:08I mean, you were just complaining endlessly and like no solutions or suggestions to make things better came out of your mouth.
03:15Or I mean, I don't know that you realize you do that, but you got to work on that.
03:20Like or just I don't know.
03:22Talk to a therapist.
03:23I mean, I didn't get paid for that.
03:25So that's not me.
03:28Wow. I mean, I was just talking about things that you had asked about.
03:32I just have a lot going on right now.
03:34Like, you know, work is really just like whooping my butt over here.
03:38And, you know, I mean, the holidays are depressing for everybody.
03:42Anybody, you know, I'm complaining about Christmas.
03:44No, when you just meet someone like be cheery and like happy to be in their presence.
03:51I don't know.
03:52You just were not cool to be around.
03:54Ray, do you feel like you disclosed too much?
03:56Maybe I thought, you know, women want an honest man.
03:59And here I am being honest.
04:01And now, you know, now you're now you're being dishonest about it.
04:04So it's just like, no, I'm being honest because right now you just sound whiny and like, oh,
04:09I mean, this is just not a very positive phone call.
04:13Like this whole, this is a very negative experience for me right now.
04:16Okay.
04:17Wow.
04:17Now you're turning it on me.
04:18Okay.
04:19I see what's happening here.
04:20Nope.
04:20I am not going to be a part of this.
04:22So guys are good at that.
04:23And no, I mean, I'm sorry that your life is all rainbows and butterflies and, you know,
04:29party flyers and confetti and stuff like that.
04:33And I mean, I'm not saying that it's all like rainbows and butterflies, but like, I just
04:37don't need that kind of negativity.
04:39Okay.
04:39All right, guys.
04:40I think you're very far apart on maybe seeing each other again.
04:44Yeah, clearly.
04:45You had completely different experiences on this one, right?
04:48I think that just was a little bit maybe too honest for Lindsay and she just kind of
04:53didn't hear what she wanted to hear.
04:55And I don't think it's going to happen, man.
04:58I'm sorry.
04:59Uh, all right.
05:01Well, I, I don't know.
05:03I guess I just tried.
05:06That's all I could do is try.
05:07I'm trying.
05:08There you go.
05:09And I got it.
05:10You know, I got you.
05:11Well, thanks for reaching out to us, Ray.
05:13Sorry we couldn't help.
05:14Yeah.
05:14And Lindsay, thanks for coming on with us.
05:16Yeah.
05:17Thanks.
05:18All right, guys.
05:18You guys have a great day.
05:20Okay.
05:21I thought she was a little more negative than he was a little bit.
05:24Well, I thought that when we first talked to him that I was like, okay, we're again, are
05:27we ever going to get through a sentence with Ray?
05:29And yeah, he's slow moving.
05:32He's slow moving on that.
05:33But then we got her on and she was, she was a little sharp.
05:36Yeah, she was a little sharp.
05:37I mean, I didn't hear a lot of negativity, but that was, we weren't on the date.
05:41So who knows?
05:42Yeah.
05:43And if you get on a date with somebody who just unloads on you everything negative in
