Wide Open Spaces

Beasley Digital

4/22/2025

Wide Open Spaces

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00:00What's up? It is JR talking about the 7-15 second date update. I'll just tell you this.

00:04Joel and Emmy, not going back out, Joel got really nasty at the end of this phone call,

00:09but what he did on the date was just so avoidable, and it actually happened at the very beginning of the date.

00:16He would have been totally fine during the entire date if he just wouldn't have done something that was so avoidable.

00:22He had no problem with doing it. She said this is illegal, not okay, disrespectful, and selfish.

00:30You can tell us what you think and leave a comment right now. It's your 7-15 second date update.

00:34All right, trying to help out Joel this morning on the 7-15 second date update.

00:38He's definitely thought it through. He's definitely listened to the show because he's like,

00:41I wasn't crazy like some of the people we have on this show.

00:44I'm like, all right, which is interesting, but they went downtown for first Friday,

00:48which happened to be the same night as the Parker McComb.

00:50The boat races were going on. This is all Labor Day weekend.

00:52There's a lot of stuff going on there, yeah.

00:53Yeah, and I thought, okay, maybe it's not her scene. Maybe that she didn't like that.

00:57No, but he said she was totally into it, and she was fine with the crowd.

01:01And he's like, the date was fine. We had a lot of fun on the date.

01:04There wasn't anything weird that happened on the date.

01:06Or to him, it didn't look like she was not having a good time.

01:09Right.

01:10We're trying to figure out why she's not talking to him again.

01:12So we have her on hold right now. Let's bring her back on.

01:15Amy, you there?

01:16Hi.

01:17Hi, how you doing?

01:18I'm good.

01:19Well, I appreciate you taking the time.

01:20I know you're kind of confused what's going on,

01:22but I do appreciate you coming on the air with us and agreeing to.

01:25We want to actually talk to you about this guy, Joel, that you went on a date with.

01:28We heard you guys went down to downtown St. Pete for first Friday.

01:31Had a good time down there.

01:33I guess he picked you up.

01:34You guys had a dinner at the Avenue.

01:36He thought things obviously went well.

01:39That's why he's calling us trying to get a hold of you.

01:40And he is just very confused that, you know, after a great date and, you know,

01:46taking you there, dropping you back off at home, having a great meal together,

01:50he just doesn't understand why he hasn't heard from you since when he's been reaching out.

01:53Sure.

01:54I don't mind talking to you guys about it.

01:57You're welcome.

01:58It's actually pretty simple.

02:01I think he's just a really selfish guy.

02:04I was extremely turned off by him from the very beginning of the date.

02:08And I just figured, you know, I don't want to date a guy like him.

02:11Do you have any more to say about that?

02:14Could you kind of tell us a little bit why you were turned off?

02:18This is what happened.

02:19He picked me up.

02:20And, you know, you know parking's always really tough around there, you know.

02:24So I'm circling around for a bit.

02:26And he just had like this thought, like, oh, yeah.

02:29And he ripped out this handicap tag.

02:32And apparently it was his father's.

02:34And he stuck up on his, you know, on the car.

02:36And he pulled up into a handicapped spot.

02:39And I honestly was appalled.

02:41I thought that was absolutely disgusting.

02:44The reason being is because, you know, I'm just really uncomfortable with it.

02:47Because what if another handicapped person needed a spot?

02:50Right.

02:50You know, I understand his dad is handicapped.

02:54But he certainly isn't.

02:55And, you know, I'm a principal girl, you know.

02:59And I just found that disgusting.

03:01Yeah, that can be uncomfortable.

03:02I hear you for sure.

03:03Especially when you get out of the car and people are looking at you or whatever.

03:07Oh, yeah.

03:08Well, here's the deal.

03:09And that's the reason.

03:11Did you say anything to him at that moment?

03:12I know I would have.

03:14No, I didn't say anything to him at all.

03:16I just wanted to go through the date and not argue or have some, you know, weird vibes going on.

03:22So I just left it alone.

03:23But, you know, once I got back home and really thought about it longer, I just, I'm not at peace with it.

03:29I don't need him in my life.

03:31So you knew right at the beginning of the date that she probably wasn't going to go back out.

03:34But she let him take you out anyway.

03:36Well, she's stuck.

03:38He drove.

03:38I guess, yeah.

03:39He drove.

03:39Yeah, he drove.

03:41You know, and, you know, I'm already in it.

03:43I wasn't going to just, like, jump in an Uber or something, you know.

03:46Right.

03:47That makes it a bigger scene for sure.

03:49Oh, well, listen, Amy, we actually have Joel on the phone with us.

03:51And we did not know that, obviously.

03:53I want to bring it back on and get his take on this.

03:55Joel.

03:56Really?

03:57Because of that?

03:58Well, I mean, it's kind of messed up, though, don't you think?

03:59You're using your dad's handicap pass?

04:02That's illegal.

04:03No, no.

04:04It's not messed up.

04:05Let's not act like there was only one spot left.

04:08It was, like, 9 p.m.

04:09There was, like, 10 handicap spots left.

04:12They were wide open.

04:13I took one.

04:14Who cares?

04:14And, like, I helped my dad go to actual things.

04:17It's a legal one.

04:18I didn't, like, forge it off the Internet or something.

04:21I'm a good guy.

04:22I helped my dad.

04:23I don't see the big deal.

04:24I get an occasional bonus parking out of it.

04:27That just shows the kind of person you are.

04:30It is wrong.

04:31First of all, you're exaggerating because there's only, like, three handicapped spots, and we took one.

04:35Okay, what if there's four handicapped people that want to come?

04:39You know, it's more than just a spot.

04:41It's the way you think.

04:42Like, if you're so quick to do something illegal like that and so thoughtless, what else are you about?

04:47It wasn't illegal and thoughtless.

04:49Yes, and we circled for 10 minutes first.

04:51It wasn't like, hey, I got VIP front row.

04:53It's like, there's no spots.

04:55Well, three or five or ten, whatever.

04:57I'm not a math person.

04:58A bunch of those spots are open.

05:00It's nine at night.

05:01Probably those people aren't coming out at this point.

05:04So, who cares?

05:05Because when we got back to the car, guess what?

05:10I was the only one in the handicapped spot, so nothing changed.

05:13Listen, I'm not going to go back and forth.

05:15It's not necessarily the parking.

05:17Once again, I just don't like the way you think.

05:20You're just inconsiderate in my mind.

05:23So, if you want to find...

05:24I'm inconsiderate?

05:25I'm a problem solver.

05:26I'm solving problems.

05:27Listen, if you want to find a woman that's completely fine with you and your handicapped tag and your inconsiderate ways, fine.

05:36Go for it.

05:36I'm a piece of that.

05:37Go find her.

05:38It's not me.

05:39All right.

05:39That's how you're going to stay working at your minimum wage job because you're not taking any risks.

05:43I get it now.

05:44Now it all makes sense.

05:44That has nothing to do with any of this.

05:47What are you talking about?

05:48What?

05:48You're talking about it.

05:49You've got to follow all rules.

05:51You must follow all rules to a T.

05:53You cannot be a person that thinks.

05:55This just took a turn.

06:00Is this a lamb on the phone?

06:02All right.

06:03It's such a turn off.

06:04He's a sheep.

06:05It was a sheep sound.

06:07All right.

06:08Well, listen.

06:08We'll work on the animal sounds.

06:10Amy, I appreciate you coming on with us.

06:12And I totally understand where you're coming from.

06:14So, thank you for that.

06:15Joel, I'm sorry it's not going to work out, man.

06:17You heard it.

06:17Obviously, you guys are already fighting now.

06:19It's that sensitive now.

06:21I'm glad I found out early.

06:22Imagine if something actually happened.

06:25After your display right now, there's going to be no woman that wants to be with you.

06:28It's a little sheep sound.

06:29Well, guys.

06:30Thank you so much.

06:31We're going to wrap it up.

06:32And you guys take care, okay?

06:34All right.

06:36Wait.

06:37I was going to see if he could do a cow.

06:40I don't want to get on a high horse here, but I think it is.

06:43That's wrong.

06:44It's not okay to do that.

06:45It's not okay.

06:46I mean, he tried to defend it as much as he could because he was like, hey, not a lot

06:50of spaces were taken after 9 o'clock on a Saturday.

06:53There were a bunch of extra spaces, but it's still, it's wrong and it's illegal.

06:56Now, I know if you're somebody with a handicap plaque or you may have run into this situation,

07:01and I totally understand why you would say this is not okay.

07:04Totally get that.

07:05I also want to know, though, would this have been a deal breaker for you?

07:08For anybody?

07:09Or do you think maybe it was smart on his part?

07:11Because some people may be thinking that.

07:12I want to know, 800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.

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