00:00Not sure why we're doing this, but we're trying to be artsy, apparently, shooting this into the mirror.
00:04Wow, we are really stepping it up.
00:06But anyway, just had our 7.15 second date update.
00:08First of all, if you missed it, Lana asked a hilarious question to Stephanie.
00:13Well, I was just trying to figure out what was going on because I can't figure out why she even called us.
00:17Do you really think what you asked happened?
00:21It could have.
00:22That would have been a little scary, but here is what happened.
00:24And like you said, we're not sure why she even called us.
00:27Oh.
00:27Well, Lana asked Stephanie if she pushed her date, Dustin, off the pier.
00:33Oh, I was just trying to figure out.
00:36I was trying to help.
00:37Yeah, that's helpful.
00:38That did not happen.
00:40That came out of nowhere.
00:41Interesting.
00:42Anyway, they went to Teak on the pier.
00:45That's why Lana asked that question.
00:47It can be dangerous out there.
00:48But she has not heard back from her date, Dustin, since that date, which I thought sounded awesome.
00:54And I like how they met.
00:55They met in line at Starbucks.
00:57It's, you know, old fashioned.
00:59Yes, I like that.
01:00All right.
01:00So we got Dustin on hold right now.
01:02Let's get him on the phone right now.
01:03Hey, is this Dustin?
01:05Yes, sir.
01:06Awesome.
01:06So I know Kevin talked to you a little bit, but I wanted to make sure I asked again if it would be okay if we talked to you on the air for a minute.
01:13Actually, about a date you went on.
01:16Uh, sure.
01:18All right, man.
01:18Appreciate it.
01:19Well, here's who we're calling about.
01:20We're calling about Stephanie.
01:21We heard the story about you guys meeting in line at Starbucks.
01:24I guess you guys exchanged numbers.
01:25You called her, which was really cool.
01:27And you guys went to Teak on the pier.
01:29Uh, she thought things went really well.
01:30She said that you, uh, have a lot of depth to you, uh, intelligent and a lot of great things to say about you.
01:38And now, I guess she reached out a few days after the date, and now it's been about a week since the date and has heard nothing.
01:45And it's kind of bummed because she really wants to see you again, man.
01:47So we're just trying to figure out what's going on.
01:50Yeah, I wouldn't be too interested in seeing her again.
01:53Um, what's up with that?
01:56I mean, it just seems like she has a really big problem with men in general.
02:00I mean, she kind of told me about why she dislikes men for about an hour.
02:05And, and, I mean, she has this huge problem with men.
02:08She says they don't, they don't listen.
02:10Um, and they don't, the men should have no opinion basically.
02:15And she just kind of told me like, you know, guys should have no opinion and listen to women.
02:19And I just, you know, interesting dating approach.
02:23That's for sure.
02:24Was she like joking or was she trying to have a sense of humor about it?
02:27Or was she serious?
02:28I mean, she went on about it at length.
02:31It was pretty serious.
02:32It's just her whole outlook on, on being with a guy is just like, you know, guys should have no opinion.
02:37And they would do well to basically just listen to women all the time and have, have zero opinion about things.
02:43Um, she was just a, a, a huge nag.
02:47You know, I couldn't, I wonder if she recently just broke up with somebody.
02:50Did she mention that?
02:51Maybe she got hurt really bad and she's still angry.
02:54Not his fault.
02:56I mean, not anything particular.
02:58You know, I think we did talk about her past and stuff.
03:00Um, so she said guys should not have an opinion.
03:03Guys should listen to women.
03:05And what were some other complaints she had about guys?
03:07Yeah.
03:08I mean, that was essentially, you know, like they just said like guys screw up everything
03:11for, you know, whatever, like whenever they talk, the woman is always right.
03:15And I just couldn't imagine being in a relationship with her.
03:18You know, I, I mean, if she was like that on the first date, she'd be just like a complete
03:23nag, you know, in a relationship.
03:25Hmm.
03:27Okay.
03:27Well, well, I mean, doesn't want you to talk, uh, doesn't, doesn't want your opinion.
03:32It wants you to listen.
03:33Sounds like she wants a mime.
03:35Uh, but I don't know if that's going to happen.
03:37Uh, Dustin, we actually have Stephanie on the phone with us.
03:40I want to bring, uh, her back on because she's, that's how we got your number.
03:44And what's interesting about this whole thing is she was speaking really highly of you.
03:47So, um, and she reached out.
03:48She wants to hang out with you again.
03:50I'm super confused about this.
03:51Uh, Stephanie, you there?
03:53I'm here.
03:55Uh, wow.
03:56Were you saying those things?
03:58Well, I mean, I wasn't talking about you, Dustin.
04:03I wasn't telling that to you.
04:05I was just giving you advice and telling you like beneficial things to you when you're dating
04:11a girl.
04:12I mean, I'm trying to help you out really.
04:15And like not because I know a lot of guys tend to say really offensive things.
04:20And so I'm trying to help you out.
04:22I don't think that I say offensive things, even though I'm a man.
04:26I know, I know you've blanketed all men at this point, but, um, I think it was a little
04:31too much advice for me.
04:32But I, I mean, I don't understand.
04:34Like, I really liked you and we had a really great time.
04:37Like, why would I call a radio station if I didn't think highly of you?
04:42So that's why I think it's really-
04:44I don't know why you would call a radio station, actually.
04:47Yeah.
04:48I think maybe you wanted to call a radio station to have like a bigger platform to, to nag
04:52or rag on men.
04:53Get the word out about men, huh?
04:55Yeah.
04:56I mean-
04:56That's not even it.
04:58I mean, this is the thing.
05:00You're taking it personal.
05:01And this is what I was talking about.
05:03Men are always taking things personally.
05:05And, and, and they always make it about themselves.
05:09You didn't even listen to anything that I said.
05:11And so you did exactly what I told you that men do.
05:15I know.
05:15I should just shut up and listen.
05:17That's your whole perspective.
05:18Hmm.
05:19Well, maybe you wouldn't be in this predicament.
05:23You wouldn't be in this situation right now if you would actually listen.
05:26I mean, it just feels like a lot for a first date, Stephanie.
05:29You know, like I understand.
05:30I mean, if you have your opinions about dudes and all that, but I mean, you're talking to
05:35a dude and, and trying to make a good first impression, right?
05:38So don't you feel like you're a little critical?
05:40I don't think so.
05:41I mean, I think I have my opinion and I think we were having a conversation.
05:47I don't think I was being critical.
05:48I mean, if I would have been critical.
05:49It's a conversation when two people are involved in it.
05:52That's just you nagging for like an hour.
05:55Like you using offensive terms like that.
05:58Me being nagging.
05:59It's just, it's not okay.
06:01I mean, I, I thought maybe you were doing it to try to be jokey or have a funny sense
06:05of humor or something like that.
06:06But it sounds like you're, you really think this way about men in general.
06:09Did you just get burned recently or something?
06:12Yeah, I've had, I haven't had great luck to be honest.
06:15But are you trying to like, maybe see what type of guy he was or change him or mold him
06:21into what you want him to be?
06:23I'm not trying to change him.
06:24I really liked him.
06:25I think he is really a great guy.
06:27I mean, I wouldn't be trying to pursue him and calling him after he hasn't even, he ghosted
06:32me pretty much.
06:33Well, there's that.
06:34So I guess the question is, Dustin, she has, she is saying nice things about you at first
06:39anyway.
06:40But now she does want to go on another date and she did call us.
06:43I mean, would you be willing to go on another date with her?
06:46I mean, no, I clearly I, I should be working on myself.
06:50She's pretty much made, made it clear that I got some work to do.
06:54So I wouldn't burden her.
06:56Wow.
06:57Well, Stephanie, now you know why he has not gotten back to you.
07:01I'm sorry.
07:01This is not going to work out.
07:03That's a, it's an interesting approach on a first date.
07:06Yeah.
07:07But smart approach.
07:08What's that?
07:09It's not very smart.
07:10Oh, okay.
07:10Lana, thank you for that.
07:11All right.
07:12Stephanie, I will say this.
07:13We appreciate you reaching out to us and I wish you luck.
07:16And thank you again, Dustin, for your time as well, guys.
