00:00Trying to help out John this morning on the 7-15 second date update.
00:03A few things that stood out to me, Lana, was he said, I wanted to keep it casual.
00:07Yes, but he did say it was the perfect date.
00:10He said they were definitely into each other.
00:13They were flirting.
00:15And they just, yeah, like you said, kept it casual.
00:17She works near his house, and so she just came there after work, and then they went out.
00:22So that kind of worked out good.
00:23Right.
00:23They drove together, and I think that's actually good, too.
00:25You can kind of start talking in the car and just kind of get to know each other before you go sit down.
00:29And have some food.
00:30So hasn't heard from her since the date.
00:32We're going to try to call Gabby and see what's going on, hopefully get some answers, and set these guys back up.
00:48Hello?
00:49Hi, good morning.
00:50Is this Gabby?
00:51Yeah, this is Gabby.
00:52Hey, Gabby.
00:53This is J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 995QIK, Tampa Bay's morning crew.
00:58I'm sorry, who is this?
01:01Good morning.
01:02That's what my parents say, by the way, when I call you.
01:03Oh, who is this?
01:04That's not good.
01:04No, I'm just kidding.
01:05QIK.
01:06This is QIK.
01:07Oh.
01:09Okay.
01:10What do you guys want?
01:12Well, Gabby, we do something called a 715 second date update, and we talk to people about dates they've been on.
01:20There's a date that you actually went on that we wanted to talk to you about.
01:23Would that be okay if we talked to you on the air about it?
01:25Oh, you know what?
01:26I've heard of these before.
01:27Okay.
01:28Yeah.
01:29I don't have anything to hide.
01:31Great.
01:31Good.
01:32We don't want you to hide anything.
01:33We like to hear it all, actually.
01:34We wanted to ask you about this guy, John.
01:37I'll just tell you what we know.
01:38We heard you guys met online.
01:40We heard that you kind of worked close to his house, so you went over to his house, and then you guys rode together to dinner.
01:47He thought it was a great time.
01:48He thought that you guys hit it off.
01:49He called it a, quote-unquote, perfect date, and he's really looking forward to seeing you again and has heard nothing from you and just was looking for some answers.
02:00Wow.
02:00That's what he said?
02:01Yeah.
02:02Sounds like that's not what happened in your mind, huh?
02:05No, no, no, no, no.
02:07Well, tell us what happened.
02:08Well, he told me that we were going to go to a concert, and, you know, we were going to go downtown St. Pete to Janice Live.
02:16Okay.
02:16I thought it sounded awesome.
02:18I'm like, yay, let's go, because I love going to concerts.
02:21Right.
02:21I love it.
02:22So I get to his house after, mind you, like I brought all my stuff to work to change because I couldn't go home first, so I changed at work, you know, getting ready for concerts.
02:34I'm like, you know, drifted to the line.
02:36Sure.
02:36I get to his house.
02:37He's not ready.
02:38All right.
02:39So how long did he make you wait?
02:40He made me wait like 15, 20 minutes at his house, and, you know, he's got a cute dog, so I was playing with a dog,
02:45and I was, you know, I love dogs, but once he's finally ready, he's just dressed casual, like he's not going to go to a concert.
02:54I'm like, what's going on?
02:56So he starts switching up the plan, and he says, well, you know, I thought we could just, you know, go to dinner and get to know each other,
03:04and I'm like, okay.
03:07Are you like, you're like dressed to go to a concert, and now you're not going.
03:11Is that what the deal is?
03:12So I'm like, I'm here at his place.
03:15I'm dressed, ready for a day.
03:17Okay, fine.
03:17Let's just go.
03:18So, first he takes me to the dry cleaners to pick up his dry cleaning.
03:24Maybe that was his outfit he was going to wear, no?
03:25Yeah.
03:25No, I'm going, why are you running errands?
03:30This is something you do on your own time.
03:32And then we go to Chipotle.
03:35That's the dinner?
03:36Chipotle.
03:36All right.
03:37That's a big date that I got dressed up at work for.
03:41Would he at least let you get guacamole?
03:43Because I know it's extra.
03:44Come on.
03:45Oh, yeah.
03:46You know, I got the guacamole.
03:48I can see stopping at Chipotle on the way to a concert, because sometimes you don't have time.
03:52You don't want to sit down and have a big meal.
03:54You just want to get something in your stomach so you can drink more.
03:56No, no, no, no.
03:57Chipotle was it.
03:58Chipotle was the date.
04:00Okay.
04:00But that, you didn't go to a concert.
04:02No.
04:03And then he says, well, he didn't even buy tickets.
04:07Really?
04:08Because he would have changed his mind without even telling me.
04:11So this is premeditated.
04:13Because he didn't even buy the tickets for the show.
04:15No, he didn't even buy tickets for the show.
04:17He wanted to pick up his dry cleaning and take me for a burrito at Chipotle.
04:20Okay.
04:21Well, I could see how you'd be going into a date with some expectations, and then that
04:26being switched on, you could throw you off.
04:28Gabby, here's the deal.
04:29Oh, my God.
04:29We actually have John on the phone.
04:30I'd love to hear what he has to say about this.
04:33Oh, me too.
04:34John?
04:35Yeah.
04:35Hey.
04:36So did you talk about, did you tell her that you guys were going to go to a concert,
04:40and then you switched the plans up?
04:42Yeah.
04:42I mean, I changed my mind kind of the day before, which is true.
04:46But I just didn't, I just didn't, you know, I just wanted to keep it casual.
04:51It was the first date.
04:52I mean, I just didn't want to spend all that money, to be honest.
04:54I don't know this girl.
04:56How?
04:57You can tell a lot about a girl without kind of taking them out and spending a ton of money.
05:00So I thought, you know, the first date would be much better if we just got to know each
05:04other.
05:05It's not like everyone just kind of wines and dimes everyone on the first date.
05:09Well, John, wasn't it your idea to go to the concert?
05:12Yeah.
05:12It was his idea.
05:13Sure.
05:14Sure.
05:14But, like, things change.
05:16People can change their minds.
05:18And just, like, I thought it would be a lot easier if we can be at something casual and
05:22get to know each other.
05:23But Chipotle, I mean.
05:25Well, not even that.
05:26To your point, Lana, why don't you just tell her that?
05:28Why don't you communicate with her?
05:29Like, hey, hey, can we switch it up?
05:31Let's do something else.
05:31Like, give her a heads up.
05:33But you didn't tell her until she got to your house, right?
05:36Right.
05:37You don't tell somebody that you're going to go to a concert and then switch it up to
05:41Chipotle.
05:42Yeah, she's got the fishnet stockings on and the knee-high boots sitting at Chipotle.
05:46Lana's projecting.
05:47She's ready for a concert.
05:48Lana's projecting now.
05:50I kind of knew that this would kind of happen.
05:53You're kind of showing, like, your true colors.
05:55Oh, my God.
05:57You're the one who offered this.
05:58It was your idea.
05:59And then you give me no heads up on the switch up.
06:01I guess I understand that, but it feels a little shallow to me that you're not even
06:07talking about our great conversations and getting to know each other.
06:12Was this a test or something?
06:14Who does this on a first date?
06:16Yeah, it does sound like a test, by the way, because you did say that it would tell a lot
06:19about a person by the way they react on a first date.
06:23And so, I mean, John, you can kind of see how that would throw somebody off.
06:26And, you know, Lana, you could speak for this.
06:29Women like to plan probably more than men when it comes to what they're going to wear,
06:32what they're going to do.
06:33Especially, it's a night out.
06:35Going to a concert, that's a whole night out.
06:38John, this does not look good for you because I don't think she's going to trust you on another
06:41date.
06:41But I will ask her anyway.
06:43Gabby, would you be willing to go on another date if, let's say, we planned it for you
06:47guys and you knew exactly what you were going to do?
06:50No.
06:51Okay.
06:51Well, John, you got the results of your test, I guess, and it does not lead to another date.
06:58I guess we got down to the bottom of it real quick here, so she doesn't seem like the one
07:04I would want to hang out with either.
07:06Oh, there you go.
07:06You've agreed on something.
07:07That's great.
07:08Well, guys, I appreciate your guys' time, and you guys have a great day, okay?
