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The 7:15 Second Date Update – Keep It Casual

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00:00We are trying to help out Martina this morning. She is really into this guy. Sean, it's 99.5 QIK, your 7.15 second date update.

00:08Kevin, here's what I will say about this. I kind of ran out of questions for Martina because they only hung out for an hour.

00:13Yeah, and there's only so much you can know about a person within that hour.

00:16But, as you said, a lot can go also wrong in an hour.

00:20Only so much can go wrong. I mean, what possibly could go wrong if you're just having coffee for an hour?

00:24I mean, I don't know. Did she spill it on him?

00:27I know.

00:27I don't know what happened.

00:28Something happened, but I love that it was a casual date.

00:31They met on Bumble. They saw that they worked near each other.

00:35So, they're like, hey, let's meet here.

00:36And then she wants to have like a formal dinner, but now he's not even getting back to her.

00:41And she's tried multiple times.

00:43All right, so we're going to try to call Sean right now and see if we can get a hold of him.

00:46Hello?

01:02Hi, is this Sean?

01:04Yeah.

01:05Hey, Sean. Sorry to bother you this morning.

01:07This is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 995QIK.

01:11Good morning.

01:12Good morning.

01:15It is.

01:16Yeah, man. Hey, listen. This is so random. I know.

01:19We do something called a 715 second date update, and we talk to people about dates they go on.

01:24We are wondering if you had just a few minutes.

01:27We wanted to ask you actually on the air about a date you went on.

01:31I know that's kind of putting you on the spot, but I promise you we're just going to ask you some basic questions.

01:36I mean, yeah, sure, sure. Why not?

01:38Okay.

01:39Well, I'll tell you this.

01:40We've heard nothing but great things about you from this girl, Martina, that you met on Bumble.

01:43We heard you guys just went on a little lunch coffee date, and I guess you weren't close to each other.

01:48She said it was about an hour long.

01:50You guys got to talking.

01:51She felt like there was some joking around going on between you two.

01:53And then she said, hey, thank you for the date, and also asked, hey, we should get together for a more formal date.

01:58No response from you.

02:00She's very confused.

02:01We're a little confused as well because we're trying to think of what possibly could have gone wrong in an hour.

02:07Yeah.

02:07I mean, you know, in one hour, not a lot of time, but I don't think I've ever felt more attacked in ever.

02:15No.

02:16Attacked?

02:17Attacked.

02:17Yeah.

02:18What do you mean by attacked?

02:19I mean, just from the jump, she started criticizing the outfit I was wearing.

02:24You know, it was casual, right?

02:25We just went to get coffee.

02:26It was like a lunch break thing.

02:28It wasn't even major, so I'm just in a T-shirt, jeans, chucks, you know, nothing crazy.

02:34That's what I wear every day, by the way, Sean.

02:36This is true.

02:37I'm with that, okay?

02:38So I got you.

02:39It's a casual date.

02:40I'm not wearing a suit to a coffee shop.

02:42Right.

02:43But right off the bat, she's criticizing my outfit, telling me where I could go buy other clothes, just all kinds of stuff like that for an hour.

02:55And I felt like I was more on like a consulting thing than anything else, but, you know, it was just really uncomfortable.

03:02She felt very controlling.

03:04Yeah.

03:04I just, I wasn't, I wasn't feeling it.

03:06And this is all unsolicited, right?

03:08Like you didn't ask her, you guys weren't on the topic of clothes or anything like that?

03:11No.

03:12Who does that on a first date?

03:14I don't know.

03:14I'm just trying to get some answers here.

03:16She just immediately went for like, why do you dress like that?

03:19You know?

03:20I only imagine if you would have said that to her, that would have been really bad.

03:23That would have been awful.

03:23I can't imagine.

03:24Yeah.

03:25Well, listen, we actually have her on the phone with us.

03:29I want to bring Martina back on with us.

03:32Martina.

03:32Yeah.

03:33Hey.

03:33First of all, it was like playful gang jobs, like that are supposed to be playful and flirty

03:41and fun and like, you're just meeting each other.

03:43There's not much else to talk about.

03:44So it was more of like, oh my gosh, like I didn't realize you could step down for work.

03:49How lucky are you?

03:50Like I have to dress up every day and, you know, but at the same time it was like, all

03:55right, but maybe put a little effort into it.

03:57I feel good about yourself.

03:58And I was kind of just joking and saying and also trying to like help you.

04:02I do.

04:04I feel fine about myself.

04:05I have no issues.

04:06But what if I did that to you?

04:07What if I was like, oh man, those jeans make your butt look big.

04:10Like you would have immediately.

04:11I never commented on your actual appearance in that way.

04:15I never said anything about how it made you look.

04:17I was more so commenting on just like, you know, trying to dress up, like instead of dress

04:23down, dress up, you know, like, I don't know.

04:25It's just funny.

04:26That is a bad, bad first impression way to break the ice.

04:29You know, we're just trying to get to know each other and you're already criticizing.

04:33You know, I was wearing a Star Wars shirt.

04:35You're criticizing that.

04:36I mean, that's just who I am.

04:38That's how I dress.

04:39So I don't know.

04:40It just seemed like that would trickle into other elements of my life, but I'm not into

04:43that.

04:44Martina, can you see how that may come off critical?

04:47I mean, I guess.

04:48But I was honestly just trying to help him.

04:50And I didn't ever think that that would be something that he'd be acting like it was

04:55kind of a little baby about.

04:56Oh, boy.

04:57Wow.

04:58Well, what if he didn't want to change?

05:00If he wanted to keep wearing the clothes that he wears, would you be OK with that?

05:04You can always change what you wear and that girls are there to help guys.

05:09I mean, I like what I wear.

05:10I mean, then don't you think you just told me that instead of ghosting me and instead

05:15of keeping me like, which is like a horrible thing to do.

05:19That would have kind of been a weird text.

05:21You didn't like my clothes.

05:22I'm not calling you back.

05:23Yeah, I just figured easier to just cut it off now before it bleeds into other things.

05:30Well, Sean, is this going to be a deal breaker for you?

05:32I mean, what if she just said she didn't bring this up anymore?

05:35I don't know.

05:36I'm good.

05:37I'm sorry.

05:38But that's really, really rubbed me the wrong way.

05:40It was a whole hour just spent on my appearance where I could buy better clothes.

05:45I was not talking about your clothes for the entire hour.

05:49If I were, why would I want to see you again?

05:51I actually enjoyed our time together, which is why I wanted to see you again.

05:55Like, I was not talking about that for the whole hour.

05:58You're exaggerating.

05:59Yeah, I'm not, though.

06:01That was that was the bulk of the conversation was, you know, you were like, I'll send you

06:06links to better things.

06:07Were we on January dates here?

06:09I mean, I'm just, that's too much.

06:12All right.

06:12Well, listen, sounds like Sean is not willing to go on another date.

06:16Martina, now you've got your answers.

06:18I'm sorry I took this to do that.

06:20But you did get some answers.

06:22And I appreciate you coming on with us.

06:24And I wish you luck in your future dating.

06:26All right.

06:27Great.

06:27And Sean, thank you for your time as well.

06:29Okay.

06:30Yeah.

06:30I guess.

06:31And Sean, may the force be with you.

06:33Okay, Kevin.

06:34All right.

06:34Now I had to get that.

06:36I know.

06:36I'm a Star Wars fan on the show.

06:38Kevin, do you want to go get coffee?

06:39I love it.

06:41I love it.

06:42All right, guys.

06:43Thanks so much.

06:45Have a good one.

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