00:02Hey, what's up, it's J.R. Alana, we're talking about the 7-15 second date update between Stacey and Nate.
00:07Stacey laid out her goals, I don't think Nate appreciated them.
00:11Uh, no, especially not on a first date, I mean, come on.
00:14But we did say that some dudes would have been down for this, and been 100% okay with this, alright?
00:20Some dudes.
00:21Check this out right now, it's our 7-15 second date update.
00:23Well, Stacey sounds fun, she sounds very smitten about this guy Nate.
00:28It's our 7-15 second date update, J.R. Alana, Kevin here, she's jacked up about this date.
00:33Yeah, sounds like they went to brunch, and she was talking about how good looking he was, he was dressed nice, she said he seemed absolutely perfect, he had a good job.
00:43So, this guy sounds like he has checked all the boxes, but when I asked her if anything unusual or strange happened on the date, she said nothing.
00:51The only thing that she thought could have gone wrong, Kevin, is she said that he didn't kiss me at the end of the date.
00:56That was the only thing that she thought might have been wrong.
00:58Yeah, so it obviously sounds great, but then she's like, I wonder why it was so great, but then there wasn't this.
01:03She wouldn't have minded it, she said.
01:04Alright, so we're going to try to call Nate right now and see if we can get him on the phone.
01:08Hello?
01:26Hi, is this Nate?
01:28Yeah, who's this?
01:29Hey, Nate, this is J.R., Lana, and Kevin.
01:31We're over here at 99.5 QIK.
01:33How you doing?
01:34Hey, Nate.
01:34Sorry, why are you guys calling me?
01:38Well, we are calling you because we wanted to see if we could talk to you on our show, actually, about this woman that is really into you.
01:47Okay, so...
01:50I think you're really going to want to hear what this woman said about you.
01:52Would that be okay if we talked to you?
01:54Yeah.
01:55Okay.
01:56Sure.
01:56Well, we're talking about this girl, Stacey.
01:59Stacey told us about you guys having brunch at Beachwood.
02:02She said that you guys had a lot in common.
02:05She said that you were the complete package.
02:07Very attractive.
02:08She commented on the fact that you wore a Hugo Boss shirt.
02:11She thought that was amazing, too.
02:13She said that she just was very, very impressed by you and that she was hoping to see you again.
02:21Literally, the thing that she said might have been wrong was the fact that you didn't give her a kiss at the end of the date because she really wanted one.
02:28And now she's kind of trying to figure out what's going on with you because she has heard nothing since the date.
02:33So we thought we'd tell you what she was thinking and maybe get some answers from you.
02:37So what's up?
02:38She sounds really fun.
02:40Yeah, that's hilarious.
02:42What?
02:43First of all, Stacey is very out of touch with reality and has no idea what's going on in the world.
02:51And basically, I have zero interest in her.
02:55I'm not interested, no.
02:57Okay.
02:58And we are talking about the same girl, Stacey.
03:00I didn't get that at all.
03:02Yeah.
03:03Well, what's the deal?
03:04Why are you saying that she's out of touch?
03:06Well, we were talking about what we want to do with our lives and our careers and stuff.
03:10And she said that her goal was to become a stay-at-home mom.
03:16And that, to me, is just ridiculous.
03:21I mean...
03:22Does she have kids now?
03:23No, no.
03:24She doesn't have kids now.
03:25She just wants to be a stay-at-home mom.
03:28And I just looked at her like, what?
03:30When she said that, I...
03:32No, that doesn't...
03:33No, that doesn't ring with me.
03:35Because this wasn't...
03:36Nate, this wasn't something like, hey, you know, hopefully one day I'll be able to do this.
03:39Like, this is...
03:40She said, this is my quote-unquote goal.
03:42Yeah.
03:43Yeah.
03:43She just said, it's our goal.
03:45And I understand if you're in a financial position to do that.
03:48But that's your line on a date?
03:51I was so turned off by that.
03:53I want somebody that has real goals.
03:55Well, did you feel like she was looking for somebody with finances that would allow her to do that?
04:02Just to stay at home?
04:03I mean, that's what it felt like.
04:07I just never had somebody just straight up come and say that's their goal.
04:12Because, you know, like I said, it's okay if you've been working hard for a while and that's where you want to be eventually.
04:20But to be the first thing that you're thinking about, I mean, that thinking is just insane to me.
04:24Yeah, I think putting that with, that's my goal, is a little strange.
04:27That can go a couple different ways there.
04:29I mean, raising children is a job at its own, yes.
04:33And I think every mom wants to stay home.
04:36Well, maybe not every mom.
04:38But would stay home and raise their kids.
04:40But like he was saying, Nate said, it's a financial situation if you afford the opportunity to do that.
04:46Yeah, but oof.
04:48Okay.
04:48So, obviously, Nate, this turned you off a little bit.
04:51We have Stacey on the phone.
04:52I want to bring her back on.
04:54Maybe get some clarification from her.
04:56Stacey.
04:57Hi.
04:58Hey, Nate.
04:58How are you doing?
05:00Hi.
05:01How are you?
05:03A little confused, I guess.
05:05Stacey, does that sound accurate, what you said?
05:07That's like your goal?
05:09Yeah, but I don't see what the problem is with that.
05:12Like a lot of women are stay-at-home moms.
05:14And I mean, that's like how I was raised.
05:17Like my mom was a stay-at-home mom and my dad provided.
05:19And like I know that there's a lot of guys who like to do that.
05:23So I guess I'm just like I don't understand why that's a problem.
05:26So are you just like not going to be able to do that?
05:29Or is that what you're worried about?
05:31Because, I mean, I'm patient.
05:33You know, I just like being upfront about what my goals are, you know, upfront.
05:38Listen, I understand that that is the way some families are.
05:42But when you're on a first date and someone says that's your life goal, that's insane to me.
05:48I mean, it just means you're not willing to contribute.
05:52Stacey, do you work now?
05:53I mean, like, yeah, I have a couple like part-time jobs.
05:57But, you know, I'm like really working towards my goal.
06:00I don't want to work full-time other than being a mom at a full-time job.
06:05That's like really what I want.
06:07But my dad, he like really manned up and took care of the family.
06:10And I kind of expect that of whoever I'm with.
06:13I agree with Nate, though.
06:15Like, it depends on your situation.
06:16If that makes sense for your family and you're able to do that, what a blessing.
06:20Right.
06:20But to hear someone say, this is me working towards my goal, Stacey.
06:24There's going to be plenty of men out there that actually want to, that are totally up for that and say, all right, cool.
06:28That's fine.
06:29And in that situation.
06:29Right.
06:30But it sounds like Nate is thinking, hey, that's not a decision you make or want to hear on a first date.
06:35Is that right, Nate?
06:36Yeah, exactly.
06:37I mean, like, she's just talking about she has a couple part-time jobs right now.
06:41And it's just at this point, I would expect more.
06:45Like, I can just see where this is going to lead to.
06:47Yeah.
06:48So is this a deal breaker for you?
06:49Yeah, yeah.
06:51Stacey, I mean, basically, you just you need to work on how you're talking to people because this is what's keeping you from getting with someone.
06:58I mean, it sounds like unrealistic expectations, especially in this day and age.
07:03I mean, maybe that's just like maybe we're not like the right fit or something.
07:08I don't know, because I just it's a little confusing to me.
07:12I think this is just one of those instances where we say a lot is you're on a different page.
07:17And even if you want to call this a goal, it sounds like you guys have different goals.
07:20And that's OK.
07:21I mean, like I said, Stacey, there's plenty of men out there that are going to be like, oh, totally what you're saying.
07:25I'm ready to go.
07:25I want you at home taking care of the kids.
07:27I don't want you working.
07:28That's what I want you to do.
07:30And they're out there.
07:31Just Nate's not one of them.
07:32Nate's not one of them.
07:32So I'm sorry we can't set up another date, Stacey.
