The #1 Reason Wives Feel Insecure (And How to Fix It in 3 Seconds)

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"Brothers, your wife has a silent fear that keeps her up at night - 'Does he still find me beautiful?' Here's how the Prophet ﷺ answered this question in the most powerful way imaginable..."  💔 The Painful Reality:  She compares herself to other women (while you never think about other men's looks)  Pregnancy changes, aging, weight gain - she notices EVERY change  Your SILENCE = "I don't find you attractive anymore" in HER language  💞 The Prophet's ﷺ Solution: ✅ The "tight knot" hadith - How Muhammad ﷺ reassured Aisha (RA) poetically ✅ Why "I love you" must be said DAILY (even after 20 years!) ✅ 3-second compliments that rebuild her confidence ("You look radiant today!") ✅ The "knot check" technique - How to use it after arguments  🔥 Critical Warning: "Neglect her need for reassurance, and watch her stop trying to look beautiful for you."

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00:00We don't care about other looks of men and we don't compare ourselves.

00:02But women are always thinking,

00:04am I still beautiful enough for him?

00:06Does he still think me attractive?

00:07Maybe I've gained a few pounds,

00:08maybe after the third kid, this and that.

00:10She's always double guessing her looks, her figure.

00:13And so the husband always has to make her feel

00:16the most beautiful, the most cherished,

00:18the most loved, the most admired.

00:21She always wants these reassurances.

00:23How does he do this?

00:25I'll just point out a number of them.

00:26Number one, words, words, words.

00:29Never underestimate the power of speech.

00:32Simply saying, I love you.

00:35I know it's awkward for men after the courting phrase.

00:37I know it's awkward, right?

00:39But believe me, it never goes out of fashion.

00:42For women, it never goes out of fashion.

00:45They always love to hear this phrase.

00:48And in fact, there are da'if hadith of our Prophet ﷺ.

00:49It's a bit da'if hadith, but it's still mentioned in our books that

00:52our Prophet ﷺ and Aisha were joking once.

00:55And Aisha said to the Prophet ﷺ,

00:57كَيْفَ حُبُّكَ لِيْ

00:58How much do you love me?

00:59How is your love for me?

01:00And our Prophet ﷺ said,

01:02and he gave a beautiful, metaphorical, poetic expression.

01:05He said,

01:05My love for you is like the tight knot that cannot be unbound.

01:10My love for you is like the tight knot that cannot be unbound.

01:13So then in the future,

01:15sometimes if they would have a bit of an issue,

01:17a bit of an argument.

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