The 'Tight Knot' Hadith: How to Love Like the Prophet ﷺ

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"When Aisha (RA) asked 'How much do you love me?', the Prophet ﷺ didn't say 'You already know' - he gave an answer that saved their marriage forever. Here's what every husband needs to learn..."  💞 In This Video: ✅ The "tight knot" hadith - The Prophet's ﷺ poetic love language we've forgotten (Dar al-Qutni) ✅ 3 marriage-saving habits you can start TODAY:  Daily "I love you" (yes, even after years!)  Specific praise for her efforts ("This meal was amazing!")  NEVER missing anniversaries (yes, it's mustahab!) ✅ Why scholars are WRONG about anniversaries being bid'ah ✅ The "knot check" technique - How Aisha (RA) used it after arguments  ⚠️ Warning: Take your wife for granted, and watch love unravel like a loose knot!

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00:00And he gave a beautiful, metaphorical, poetic expression.

00:03He said, my love for you is like the tight knot that cannot be unbound.

00:09My love for you is like the tight knot that cannot be unbound.

00:12So then in the future, sometimes if they would have a bit of an issue, a bit of an argument,

00:16one of the two would remark, how is the knot right now?

00:19How is the knot right now?

00:21And Aisha would say this when the Prophet ﷺ sometimes got irritated.

00:23How is the knot?

00:24So he would smile, he would say, as strong as it ever was.

00:28Right?

00:28And this hadith is in Dara Qutnik.

00:30Now the point being that the words, I love you, are something very important.

00:34But not just, I love you.

00:35Praising her and what she does.

00:37Husbands, never take your wife's actions for granted.

00:41Suppose she is cooking and cleaning most of the time.

00:45Never take it for granted.

00:47Always, once in a while, come and compliment her.

00:49MashaAllah, that was great.

00:51You know, I really appreciate what you're doing for me.

00:53Those words, they go a long way.

00:55Your wife realizes, you know what, he's not taking me for granted.

00:58Very important.

01:00Praise her looks when she dresses up, when she does something extra special for you.

01:04Never take it for granted.

01:06Husbands, you all know the big danger of forgetting anniversaries.

01:09Right?

01:10You all know how dangerous that is.

01:11Why do women want you to know their anniversaries?

01:15Because it makes them feel you still love them.

01:18Makes them feel he still remembers me.

01:20He still cherishes me.

01:21And celebrating anniversaries, honestly, I believe there are some scholars,

01:26they say it's haram bid'a.

01:27SubhanAllah, quote me.

01:28Celebrating anniversaries is mustahab.

01:31It is encouraged in our religion.

01:32What greater thing to do than for the husband to tell his wife.

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