Haroon Rafiq Ka Bhoolne Ki Ahmeiyat Par Zor

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00:00Welcome back, viewers.

00:04The thing is, I wanted to say something for a long time

00:08but I don't get a chance.

00:09You take away the conversation in a funny way.

00:12It's a serious matter.

00:13Yes, it's serious.

00:14You can talk about Haroon's serious matter

00:16when you wear a sour coloured jacket.

00:19Yes, it's sour.

00:20You've got it.

00:22It's such a great jacket. What else?

00:24It looks good.

00:25I'm saying this to our fans.

00:28We love them a lot.

00:29We exist because of them.

00:31That's right.

00:32We exist because we have an audience.

00:33If we don't have an audience, we don't exist either.

00:34Who has seen a peacock dancing in the jungle?

00:36Some fans say, let's take a selfie.

00:39When we take a selfie,

00:41the filter is such that I get lipstick on my face.

00:44And my eyelashes are so long.

00:46Even your tongue is coming out.

00:49It's so weird.

00:50Okay, let's get a natural filter for him.

00:52His eyelashes will come out.

00:54Anyway, what I wanted to say is

00:57that God has given a great blessing to humans.

01:00And we often think of that blessing as trouble.

01:02And because we think of it as trouble,

01:04nowadays, students, whether they are in school,

01:08college or university,

01:09they are not being taught that thing.

01:12And they are being misunderstood.

01:14But it's a very good thing.

01:15What?

01:16Forget.

01:16To forget.

01:17Okay.

01:18It's very important.

01:20Children are being told to remember everything.

01:23They are being forced to remember.

01:25Memory is a good thing.

01:26But God's blessing is such that

01:28you see, humans face a lot of loss in life.

01:33That's true.

01:33They leave their loved ones.

01:35Yes.

01:36They leave their elders.

01:37Mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, children.

01:41So, God has made such a system

01:42that your mental frame is very strong.

01:46So, what does it do?

01:47It starts forgetting things slowly.

01:50Then you remember things with a reference.

01:52Otherwise, you don't.

01:53Think about it.

01:54If all the sorrows and problems

01:57were always on your mind,

02:00and you couldn't forget them,

02:01life would have been so terrible.

02:03Absolutely.

02:04So, forgetting children,

02:06and forgetting is selective forgetting.

02:08It's not that you forget everyone.

02:10Selective forgetting.

02:11And unlearning.

02:12The right word for it is how to unlearn.

02:16How to unlearn what you have learned.

02:20The reason is that the brain has a certain capacity.

02:24You say that you are very tired at night.

02:27My brain doesn't have the capacity to talk anymore.

02:30Or to talk seriously.

02:32Or to solve a puzzle.

02:34The brain gets tired.

02:37So, it has a capacity.

02:39So, until we unlearn,

02:41we won't forget the lesson we have learned.

02:43We won't remember a new lesson.

02:45And I see a lot of people

02:48who are stuck in a particular dilemma.

02:50They can't get out of it.

02:52I have friends who are stuck in the same dilemma.

02:55Let me tell you something else.

02:57You must have seen some elders.

02:59They always remember old movies.

03:02Yes.

03:02They remember old politicians.

03:04They are stuck in the same dilemma.

03:07You must have noticed something else.

03:08The elders, who are older than a certain age,

03:11they repeat the same incident.

03:13Yes, they repeat it.

03:14They repeat it.

03:15They talk about the past.

03:17They talk about the past.

03:20Sir, a man came to Gokhale's father and said,

03:22your son wants to get out of this dilemma.

03:26And Mr. Haroon, all of us sitting here,

03:30if we couldn't forget the negative comments,

03:33we wouldn't have been able to continue the show.

03:34We wouldn't have been able to continue.

03:36Exactly.

03:36There is a difference in the negative comments.

03:40Yes.

03:40I don't know why, but God puts it in your heart.

03:42You realize that it is constructive.

03:45It is good for you.

03:47Or it is bad for you.

03:48And criticism is bad criticism.

03:50Yes, it is.

03:51There is nothing else.

03:52People are hating you for no reason.

03:54There are such comments.

03:55You are right.

03:56But you forget them.

03:57You move on.

03:59Similarly, my request to the children is that

04:02there should be a class at home, school, college,

04:04university, everywhere,

04:08in which, how to unlearn things.

04:10Yes.

04:11You see, some people believe in such things

04:14that the science that has been proven is wrong.

04:16Yes.

04:17But they are not ready to move.

04:20Because there is a fear in the mind.

04:22That if I forget, I have lost my life.

04:24Exactly.

04:25You are an old man.

04:26He is 60 years old.

04:28If you tell him that you have believed in this thing,

04:31science has proven it wrong,

04:33it is not right,

04:34and he will remember that

04:36I promoted it all my youth,

04:38I was very famous for it,

04:40then what should I do?

04:41Should I leave it today?

04:43What will people say to me?

04:44No, it is not like that.

04:46You will become more great.

04:48Has anyone seen such an old man

04:50who says, son, I was wrong?

04:51So unlearning is very important.

04:53Okay, there is a philosophical term, tabula rasa,

04:56which means that a person is born with a clean slate

04:59and then with the experience of life,

05:01he learns.

05:02So tabula rasa or clean slate

05:05should bring a person to every moment of his life.

05:08It will always bring you to a new birth.

05:11You learn new things.

05:12By the way, there is one more thing.

05:14What?

05:15We tell the kids to remember this thing.

05:18There is no class on memory techniques.

05:20It is like that.

05:21There should be two classes.

05:22One is on memory techniques,

05:24in which you explain how to make a mind palace,

05:27how to go to the mind palace,

05:29how to keep memories there,

05:31what to do, all this should be there.

05:33When the thing is in the hand,

05:34the person says,

05:35where have I kept my mobile?

05:38I don't understand.

05:39Yes.

05:40I am so stuck.

05:41Do you know,

05:42this is not a disease of forgetting,

05:44it is a sign of intelligence.

05:46Intelligence?

05:47Intelligence?

05:48Yes.

05:48Look, you…

05:49I don't know where my mobile is.

05:53Okay, this is a sign of intelligence because

05:56often it happens that the thing is not visible.

05:58You must have seen,

05:59God forbid, some people have such an accident

06:01which is so terrible.

06:03Okay.

06:03After that, when they come to their senses,

06:04they say, I don't remember anything.

06:06Yes.

06:06Although the accident happened in their senses.

06:08Absolutely.

06:09So, the brain deletes it.

06:11Oh.

06:11Which is a good thing.

06:12This is a good thing.

06:13That it deletes such a big trauma.

06:15So, when your brain starts keeping important things

06:19at the front

06:20and starts playing with unimportant things at the back,

06:24it's a good sign.

06:25Wow.

06:26That you have better things to think about.

06:28So, that's why this cell phone, watch, keys…

06:31And let me tell you one more thing,

06:32that you go again and again,

06:33that I don't know if I locked the car or not.

06:35Misunderstanding.

06:36This is not stupidity either.

06:38Wow.

06:39This is also a sign of normalcy.

06:41With the remote,

06:42sometimes, you hear a click.

06:45Then you go and open the car and see.

06:48How did you open the car?

06:50Which car is this?

06:51You haven't seen this car yet.

06:52Then?

06:53It's a car for the village youth.

06:56It's a car.

06:57Okay, this is…

06:58The midwife starts crying.

07:01The driver says, I'm not the midwife, I'm the GT Road.

07:04The day after, the boot is open,

07:05and there's a car behind it.

07:06What is he saying?

07:07I don't know, I'm in my prime.

07:09By the way, it's a good thing that

07:11a person forgets his mobile,

07:12forgets his keys.

07:13Thank God, he doesn't forget his kids.

07:15I left my kids somewhere.

07:16No, sir, it happened.

07:18She forgot her Kim Kardashian.

07:19Her kids.

07:20Yes, she forgot her kids at the restaurant.

07:22She came out, said hi to the paps,

07:23got in the car, the car started,

07:25then the car stopped.

07:25People said, she left just now,

07:27why did she come back?

07:28She went inside, then took the kids and left.

07:31No, sir, they forget often.

07:32Okay.

07:33Whenever Goga's family goes out for an outing,

07:36they forget their car.

07:37They go there and ask, where's Goga?

07:38Then the next person says, he's in the car.

07:41Okay, Mr. Haroon, you know a lot about psychology.

07:44Yes.

07:45So, whenever I think of mind palace,

07:48or memories and all that,

07:50the visual I get is always like

07:53there's a sea,

07:54and there's a palace in it,

07:57and I'm making my memories in that.

07:59Why is that?

08:00Okay, first of all,

08:03you said I'm not an expert in psychology.

08:05But I can tell you based on what I've read.

08:08First of all, your mind palace,

08:11you don't want to show it to the world.

08:13Exactly.

08:14You take a lot of care of your privacy.

08:17Right.

08:17You're taking it deep.

08:19You're actually hiding it in the water.

08:22So, if you want to take something out of the water,

08:26you have to put a lock on it.

08:27It's very difficult to take something out.

08:29So, that's why you're kind of a person

08:32who hides his personal things.

08:35Oh.

08:35But I would suggest

08:37that if you want to improve your memory,

08:40your mind palace should be your own home.

08:44Okay.

08:45That will help you remember things better.

08:47You must have seen that even in the dark,

08:50you're walking like this.

08:51You know there's something here.

08:54You're right.

08:55So, you're passing by.

08:56Even in the dark, you're hitting the same button

08:58to turn on the light.

08:59When I'm at home,

09:00even in the dark,

09:02you know there's something there.

09:04I don't even see it in the light.

09:06I always hit the same button.

09:08Believe me, it's the centre table.

09:11So, you keep hitting the same button at home.

09:12I keep hitting the same button at home.

09:13I always hit the same button.

09:15Vicky says,

09:16you're hitting the same button at home.

09:20But you have to forget a few things to live.

09:23Wow. That's very beautiful.

09:25But what about those people

09:26who start reminding us?

09:28They don't say anything.

09:30I ask, who are they?

09:31They say, who are they?

09:32They don't say anything.

09:33They don't give their number.

09:35They don't bathe.

09:36What do you do with such people?

09:37I tell them to tell me their names.

09:39I have so many numbers.

09:42I tell them to forget it.

09:43I don't tell them.

09:44You hang up the phone?

09:46That day, Saleem got up.

09:48He had to take a bath later.

09:51He left the make-up room and went to take a bath.

09:52He got a call.

09:53He heard a voice from the speaker.

09:55He said, what are you doing?

09:58Saleem said, I just took a bath.

10:01He said, are you naked?

10:05Wow.

10:07Ladies and gentlemen, we'll take a short break.

10:09We'll meet again after the break.

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