Dear Chixie,
Normal raba ni akong na-feel? I'm Andie, 25 years old. Boyish ko since bata pa ko apan wala dili ko interested nga makigrelasyon og babaye. Naa koy boyfriend karon pero LDR mi kay nagtrabaho siya abroad. Dili malikayan nga mingawon ko sa akong uyab. Sukad nga nilarga siya, wala nagyud koy laag-laag. Until akong nakaila ang akong workmate nga si Kaye. Nibalik ang akong social life kay siya man ang akong kuyog nga molaag. Gwapa ug buotan si Kaye, Chixie. Sure gyud ko nga love nako ang akong uyab apan sukad nga siya ang akong kuyog, murag na-fall nako niya.
Normal raba ni akong na-feel? I'm Andie, 25 years old. Boyish ko since bata pa ko apan wala dili ko interested nga makigrelasyon og babaye. Naa koy boyfriend karon pero LDR mi kay nagtrabaho siya abroad. Dili malikayan nga mingawon ko sa akong uyab. Sukad nga nilarga siya, wala nagyud koy laag-laag. Until akong nakaila ang akong workmate nga si Kaye. Nibalik ang akong social life kay siya man ang akong kuyog nga molaag. Gwapa ug buotan si Kaye, Chixie. Sure gyud ko nga love nako ang akong uyab apan sukad nga siya ang akong kuyog, murag na-fall nako niya.
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01:00And welcome to Dear Chixi Matagmartes.
01:02Atong isgutan ang kinabuhi sa atong letter sender.
01:05Di na ngayong good in town og advice or might as well katinawan kunun siyang anging buhaton sa iyahang situation karun.
01:13But first and foremost, if I'm not mistaken, June is the month of kinabitaong where most of the people who are part of the LGBTQ plus community celebrates their Pride Month.
01:26Saktob ako, Charino, naanamag yung mga inisyatibo ang uban na mga government, even local government units, and even non-government units are trying to emphasize ang Pride Month.
01:39So lahilahe nga kalihukan, lahilahe nga kanabitaong, unsingan, anilahe lahilahe nga mga inisyatiba ang ibuhat, na iuban nga they want awareness sa public when it comes to the identification of LGBTQ plus community, na apoy other nga mga kanang pasundayag or events, no?
02:01Nga that will showcase their creativity. So karun, speaking of, ganun ka naman akong gi-discuss and gishare ninyo because ang story na ito karun is about a female sender nga daubah, daubah, na siya sa state karun nga murasyag nagkuano, am I right with this mark?
02:21Nako napis nitanda rin nga na ano sa itong screen. Okay, so, okay.
02:25So, karun, naamang guay ka nang nahita bo, Annie, wherein, usaka letter sender na ito is quite confused with what she is currently feeling.
02:38Katrae ba mo anang feeling? Anong sabi niwan, ako kasabot sa akong feeling, ba di ko ka-gets kung ganun ako inani nga matang sa feelings towards usaka individual, no?
02:47And I want to know kung how I will get out of this situation, no? And then, ato nang ikuan.
02:56Okay, we're live manjun, so mahalatagin ninyo, no? I think kailangan ni siya.
03:01Unya, sa tanan ng mga nananaw karun, again, I would like to greet everyone.
03:07A happy Tuesday ninyo, kumusta man mo the past few days.
03:10Hopefully, natin makuha karun nga pagtulunan sa story.
03:14And, of course, nang ako lang yung hangin sa tanan nga, let us not make judgments, no?
03:20This society, mangun, is very, honestly lang, grabe yun ang judgment when it comes to kanabitong the community, no?
03:28Okay, dili manjun, ikalimod that, though, siguro some of the generations in the millennial and Gen Z are very adaptive or open,
03:35katong mga previous generations, siguro na ay mga hesitations gihapon.
03:39Naamang gina, because of course, the way we were taught and the way nga we were brought up,
03:45and na nga to ang history po, siyempre, sa tong naso, they were very conservative na apoy yung mga inana.
03:51But now that, you know, the times are changing, daghan po kaayog mga tendencies nga lahi-lahi nga mga kasinatian ang kanibitaong ma-feel sa atuang mga individual mo
04:07nang naapoy yung aning matang sa mga revelations, sa pipila pang mga individuals and about sa ilahang,
04:14kuwan, ilahang preferences sa kinabukit.
04:17So, kinitong letter sender, itago na to siya sa pangalan, nga Andy, she's a female sender,
04:21and then, naasya, kuwan, naasya, kanapitaw, hesitation.
04:29Actually, ang hashtag na to is breakfree, Jude.
04:32Ang hashtag na to, Karo, ng last week ng holdback, pero breakfree.
04:36Kung anong breakfree, kanong breakfree?
04:38Maybe kung makadungo ka na sa kanta, I want to breakfree, breakfree ni Ariana Grande,
04:44ah, di ba, breaking free sa, kuwan, high school musical,
04:49kayo nang tumwala, high school musical, very, kuwan, nostalgic.
04:52Pero, kung sa mga ganda yung meaning sa breakfree, before anything else,
04:56and before na to ihatag ang mga eksena or ipasundayag,
05:01karo nga po na, ang, kuano, ang ito, ang, story of the day sa Dear Chixie.
05:08Ang, meaning sa breakfree, unang sa mga GDI ay, no?
05:11Um, method pa naging iingon ang breakfree is to remove things,
05:15to remove chains, or to remove walls.
05:19So, meaning, kanapitaw, siguro, the norms, the norms, kanang mga normal na tumurag,
05:24nilinan na, let's breakfree, let's, let's, let's, kanang get out of the way, like,
05:29excuse me, ha, ano yung mga, excuse me, no?
05:32So, kanina yung topic ka rin, somewhat, like, interesting,
05:35because, common man na sa to ang, ah, madiscussed yun, siguro, um,
05:38ang common yun most is, and, of course, respectfully lang yun,
05:42sorry, ang kasagaran na to madiscussed before, before yun.
05:45So, Dear Chixie are those who are part of the LGBTQ community,
05:49karo yung atong mga gay, no mo?
05:50Pero this time, kanina siya, she's a female sender,
05:52and she don't know if, kung sa'yong dibati, towards another female, no?
05:58So, ato na yung kuminawon, ang ato na yung hisgutan,
06:00ang ato ang, ah, episode ka ron,
06:03nga na yung hashtag, hashtag breakfree,
06:06atong Dear Chixie episode for today.
06:22Dear Chixie,
06:25Mayong hapon, kanina yung mong sa tanang viewers,
06:28nang inyuhang programa.
06:30Itago na lang ko sa pangalan, nga Andy.
06:33I am 25 years old, and currently, na ako'y boyfriend,
06:38nga itago lang na to sa name, nga Rex.
06:41Before na kakami na Rex,
06:43mo admit git ko, nga may pagka-boyish ko.
06:46Like, I am not easily attracted with boys.
06:49In fact, daghan kayong muingon ako sa una, nga basin, tumboy ko.
06:55Pero ato nga time, hinuon,
06:57bisan o muingon sila, nga tumboy ko,
06:59di li man po'd hinuon ko interested,
07:01nga makigrelasyon, o babae.
07:04Maka-appreciate yun hinuon ko,
07:06o gwapa, o g-attractive,
07:08nga babae.
07:10Fast forward,
07:11pilakatuig ang milabay,
07:14sa dihang nakatrabaho na ko.
07:16Akong na-meet si Rex.
07:18Akong uyab karun.
07:20Okay ba'y agad ang dagan sa among relasyon?
07:23Kaso lang,
07:24tungod sa usaka-desisyon nga iyahang gibuhat,
07:28adunay kausaban ang tanan.
07:30Love,
07:36madayo na ba yajod ko,
07:38glarga, sa gawas?
07:40Mau ba, love?
07:42Di li nagtig ka mapuggan?
07:44Love,
07:45kaybalo na ba yaka,
07:46nga para ni sa itong future?
07:49Maulagi,
07:50para sa itong future,
07:52pero,
07:53di li ba di ay ka pwede mag-andam para sa itong future,
07:56nga,
07:56di li need mo, larga?
07:58Kaybalo ba yaka lang nga,
08:00nasortihan ko kay,
08:02girecommend ko sa bana ni ate.
08:05Love,
08:06ayaw ka ba la ka d'yon?
08:08Di rin lalagay na dugay ang two years.
08:10Pas-pas na na.
08:12Muingon lang ka,
08:13Anna,
08:13pero sa tinuod lang,
08:15lisod ba yag yun ng two years, ha?
08:17Di libe lalim.
08:19Love,
08:20basta promise me, ha?
08:21Imuha kong hawatun, ha?
08:23Kanya,
08:24we will make this work.
08:25Wala mong kuy choice, love.
08:29Uy,
08:29Mubiya,
08:30mag-yut ka?
08:31Sige,
08:31lang-yut.
08:32Pas-pas,
08:33ralagi kayo ng two years.
08:36Promise akong pagbalik,
08:37naaar d'yo tayo enough funds
08:38para sa itong future.
08:41Sige, love.
08:41I love you so much, love.
08:42I love you too, love.
08:46Dili,
08:47good sa yun,
08:48ang musulod sa
08:49long-distance relationship
08:51kong LDR,
08:51Chixie.
08:53Labi na nga na
08:53ay time difference,
08:55o gusahay,
08:57naapagihigayun nga
08:58naami
08:58misunderstandings.
09:01Pero,
09:01maumanggit ko no
09:02ang relasyon.
09:04Naagir mga
09:05conflicts.
09:06Sa tinuod lang,
09:07may ngawon man
09:08sabihin noon ko
09:09sa thought nga
09:09naapirmi si Rex.
09:12Sukat sa iyang
09:12paglarga,
09:13nahimun akong
09:14homebody.
09:15Like,
09:16not until
09:17nga
09:18nausab ako
09:19ang kinabuhi
09:20sa liang
09:21akong
09:21nakailas
09:22si Kay.
09:23Kinsa,
09:23nahimun akong
09:24bagong
09:24workmate
09:25sa company.
09:30Oh,
09:31nga nung
09:31nagmugot man
09:32ka di ha,
09:33Andy.
09:35Ay,
09:35yun saon
09:35na
09:36magihapo
09:37ni
09:37kumyo
09:38si Rex.
09:38Uy,
09:39siyempre,
09:40mag-uulgit ko.
09:41Lah,
09:42boss in
09:43busy rato si
09:43si Andy
09:44niya.
09:45You know what?
09:46Ayaw lang pag
09:47overthink,
09:47no?
09:48Kaya na,
09:48mamugot ka o,
09:49nosos.
09:51Medyo,
09:53kaybalo ba'y
09:53akahanga,
09:54di ikil
09:54lalimparan na
09:55akong among
09:56set-up.
09:57Yeah,
09:58I know,
09:59but siyempre,
09:59six months pa siya
10:00dito,
10:01diba?
10:01Siyempre,
10:02gaadjust pa
10:02po dito siya,
10:03diba?
10:04Anong,
10:04kalman na lang
10:05ka di ha,
10:05good?
10:08How I wish
10:09the ul-repair
10:09may akong uyab
10:10para
10:11dilit na kong
10:12magsigi
10:12o ingunani.
10:13Sige,
10:14ugwari.
10:15Hay,
10:15nako,
10:16gimingaw ra ka,
10:17aglaag-laag.
10:19Kay,
10:19diba,
10:19ingun ka nga,
10:20wala na ka
10:20nakalaag-laag,
10:21sukad nga
10:22nilarga si Rex.
10:24Well,
10:24kanira akong
10:24masulti.
10:25Ayaw,
10:26gyud,
10:26ugkabala ka.
10:27Kaya naara ko,
10:28pwede rati kang
10:29kuyugan.
10:30Masaman,
10:30laag ta?
10:32Salamat ka,
10:33ayaw,
10:33kay,
10:33ha?
10:34I appreciate it.
10:36Sus!
10:37Kibalo ka,
10:38kung akong uyab
10:39parihuni mo,
10:40siguro,
10:41dilit kita kabiyaan.
10:43Gwapa na,
10:44sexy pa,
10:45buutan pagyod.
10:47Ay sus,
10:47mga tik pagyod,
10:48uy.
10:49Sige na,
10:49uy,
10:50back to work na ta.
10:51Tanawin mo na nga tik ko?
10:54Wala ko na nga tik,
10:54uy.
10:55Kung wa,
10:56siguro kay uyab,
10:57siguro,
10:57ipanguyaban nati ka.
10:59Un sa K?
11:00Gigan atong among
11:05conversation,
11:06did to gireveal ni Kay
11:08nga,
11:09part day siya
11:09sa LGBTQ community,
11:12og lesbian siya.
11:13Honestly,
11:14wala ko'y pake.
11:16In fact,
11:17na-admire na ako siya
11:18sa iyahang pagka-open
11:20sa ako ah.
11:21We became
11:22more closer.
11:23Days and months
11:24passed by,
11:26mas nagka-close pa mi
11:27pag-ayo,
11:28og usahay pagyod,
11:29magkaban ding pa mi
11:30after sa trabaho.
11:32I don't know
11:33kung ano,
11:34but I feel strange
11:36nga malingaw
11:37kaayong ko
11:38sa among panagkuyog ni Kay.
11:40And it seems to me nga,
11:42mas kiligun ako sa iyaha
11:43kaysa sa akong uyab.
11:45I don't know
11:46kung unsao
11:47ni na ako akong gibati.
11:49Does this mean
11:50nga part na ako
11:51sa LGBTQ community?
11:54Or basen
11:54na fill in
11:55lang niya
11:56ang space
11:56na para
11:57unta sa akong uyab.
11:59Please,
12:00tambagiko
12:00kay wala na
12:01ko kasabot
12:02sa akong gibati,
12:03Chixie.
12:04Na ako'y uyab
12:05sa gawas,
12:07but mas nag-enjoy
12:08ko karun
12:08nga naas si Kay.
12:10Unsa may angay
12:11na akong buhaton
12:12kay honestly,
12:14amot lang yun ha,
12:15pero mas malingaw
12:16pa ko niya
12:17kaysa sa akong uyab
12:19nga si Rex.
12:21Unsa muka
12:21ni na ako,
12:22Chixie,
12:22no?
12:23Nang hinaot ko
12:24ngayon yung kong
12:25makatagan
12:25o gtambag.
12:27Daghang salamat,
12:29Andy.
12:29Thank you so much,
12:38Sherry,
12:39and to
12:40Eric
12:40for bringing life
12:41to the story
12:42and to me.
12:43Diba, diba?
12:44Diba tayo lalimang
12:45roll ni Kay?
12:46Oh my God!
12:47Oh my God!
12:49Thank you so much!
12:51Okay,
12:52sige.
12:52So,
12:53just a recap
12:53to everyone
12:54who just
12:55watched the
12:56program.
12:57Thank you so much,
12:58Sherry.
12:58Sa tanong ng mga
12:59nananaw,
13:00karun sa ito
13:00ang Dear Chixie
13:01episode,
13:02no?
13:03Mula gini,
13:03ang story ni siya
13:04ni Andy.
13:07Ato lang balikan,
13:08ingot siya nga,
13:08normal,
13:09raba ko no,
13:09yung nafeel.
13:10She's 25,
13:12Andy is 25.
13:13Boyish ko rin siya
13:14since bata,
13:15pan,
13:15pero wala siya
13:16interest na makikrelasyon
13:17o babae.
13:18Na siya uyab karun,
13:19pero LDR sila.
13:20Kaya nagtrabaho siya
13:22abroad ang iyang uyab,
13:23no?
13:23Nga si Rex.
13:24Dilimali kayong
13:25nga mingawan siya
13:26sa iyang uyab.
13:27Pero sukad nga
13:28nilarga si Rex
13:29ng iyang uyab.
13:30Wala naging ko no
13:30siya kalaag-laag.
13:32Until nga nakailan
13:33niya ang iyang
13:34workmate nga si Kay.
13:35Nibalik ang iyang
13:36social life
13:37kay butan
13:38lagi ko no si Kay.
13:39Ang butlang ugun
13:40sa gudin niyang
13:41ibati,
13:42kay sure man siya
13:43nga love
13:43iyang uyab,
13:44apan sukad nga
13:45nagkakuyog sila,
13:47nagkabanding sila
13:48ni Kay,
13:49kay murag na fall
13:50napod siya ni Kay.
13:52Unsan man ni
13:53attachment na
13:54aba ni
13:54Revelation.
13:56She's wondering
13:57actually if
13:58unsan ni nga
13:59klase nga feeling
14:00nga nalingaw siya
14:01nga makiguban-uban
14:02kang Kay
14:03who's actually,
14:04Kay is actually
14:05very open
14:05that she's part
14:06of the LGBTQ community.
14:08So,
14:08gi-confess siya na
14:09gi-open nan siya nga
14:10actually,
14:11dilim ang jugo
14:11straight,
14:12yun no,
14:12na inani ko,
14:14part ko sa LGBT,
14:17niya,
14:17kung ko,
14:17kung koan lang
14:18yun gani-andi,
14:19kung single lang,
14:20ipanguyaban natin
14:21ikaw,
14:22ano siya pag-astorya,
14:23no?
14:23Pero mula ginaba,
14:25no offense men,
14:26I have high respect
14:27with everyone
14:28who are actually
14:29part of the community.
14:30Some,
14:30if not all of them,
14:32most of them
14:32are very creative,
14:33talented,
14:34and all that,
14:35no?
14:35Pero ang kanilang
14:36kanilang yung sitwasyon
14:37ni,
14:38um,
14:39kuwan,
14:40sitwasyon ni,
14:41ah,
14:42kanilang
14:42Andy karoon,
14:43di halang siya na-confused
14:44because na siya uyab,
14:46good,
14:46nalayo man good
14:47sila sa iyong uyab,
14:48murag,
14:49permina makabond,
14:51karoon si Kay,
14:51permina kakuyo guglag,
14:53pag first siguro,
14:53wala lang mali siya
14:54because as friendly
14:55as it is,
14:56as it should be,
14:57di ba?
14:58Pero suddenly,
14:59murag naman siya,
15:00na ano nga,
15:01halo,
15:01times a good girl siya niya,
15:02girl ko,
15:03tapos na ko'y uyab,
15:05nasa gawa,
15:06saan,
15:06Manila,
15:07kula,
15:08onsan na yun,
15:08naman ako sa buti,
15:09onsan ba kung,
15:10anong makilig ko na siya,
15:12sa iyahang kao ba na girl,
15:14no?
15:14Asya kabalo kung ano siya,
15:15di ba?
15:16Shout out,
15:16hi Ate Anne,
15:17hi to Jason Medes,
15:20Jane Abelgas,
15:21Regerio Yarsa,
15:22to Anne who's watching right now,
15:25to Lorraine,
15:26to Jean Puentes,
15:27to Cherie Ding,
15:29last time to everyone,
15:30again,
15:31welcome to our episode
15:32of Dear Chick C,
15:33over Sunstar Cebu,
15:35and Superbalita Cebu,
15:36and DJ Chixie Page as well,
15:37so kung ka mo,
15:38naamong sa sitwasyon,
15:40pali ko katagong tambak,
15:41tayo sagot,
15:42advice na to Rick,
15:43atong basahon be,
15:45hello,
15:46hello everybody,
15:47thank you so much,
15:48okay,
15:49so,
15:50muna ni,
15:51atong i-check,
15:53ilang reactions,
15:55um,
15:55ayan,
15:59sige,
15:59anyway,
16:00hello,
16:01hello to everyone,
16:03kung ganahan mong mo advice,
16:04tagaan na itong advice,
16:05si,
16:06katinawan actually,
16:07si Andy,
16:07because she's not sure already,
16:09with what she's feeling,
16:11liman ka,
16:11ingon siya nga,
16:12naa siya uyab,
16:13okay lang relasyon,
16:14kaso lang nag LDR sila,
16:15pag LDR nila,
16:17nahi mo siyang homebody,
16:19no,
16:19sige lang stay sa balay,
16:20why planong mo lakaw,
16:21kaya lagi mo ang uyab,
16:22to s'gawas,
16:23pagkailan niya,
16:24aning,
16:24yung kauban sa trabaho nga si Keo,
16:26is actually,
16:28ah,
16:28honest niya nga,
16:29dili ko straight,
16:30like,
16:31babae siya,
16:32pero,
16:33kontra part siya sa community,
16:35muna nga,
16:36nagsuod sila,
16:37sige sila,
16:37glaag niya,
16:38feeling niya karoon,
16:39kiligun na siya kang ke,
16:41na,
16:41mura siya,
16:42na fall kang ke,
16:44pero na siya yung uyab nga laki,
16:45so,
16:45unsa ko na itawag niya,
16:47normal pa ba yung gibati,
16:49or what?
16:50So,
16:51let's have,
16:52that's a very challenging thing,
16:54no,
16:54to understand,
16:55what is she feeling,
16:57currently,
16:57kun,
16:58unsa bagid yung gibati,
16:59nabagay something,
17:00no,
17:01nga,
17:01ka nang,
17:02kailangan ba niya idwell,
17:03yung feelings towards Keo,
17:04or is just mere friendship,
17:06kaya basing,
17:07pagkigigala rani ha,
17:08wala rani siya yung something,
17:10dili niya siya,
17:10dapat butang halong mali siya,
17:11pero,
17:12ang iyahama kong feelings ka ron,
17:14is,
17:14mura magkuan,
17:15mura man noon siya,
17:16naka-feel,
17:17nga,
17:18malipay siya,
17:19kiligun siya,
17:20so,
17:20unsa man,
17:21ngunit,
17:22tawag nga,
17:23hashtag break free,
17:24ang ato,
17:24ang dear chick si episode ka ron,
17:26sige,
17:27so,
17:27kung kamoy pastoriya o na ani,
17:29kamoy muhis mo,
17:30tubag ani,
17:31tanaw ninyo,
17:32na naba siya yung sense of attraction,
17:33in a romantic level,
17:35sa iyahang friend nga babae,
17:36or iyahang friend nga part sa community,
17:39or,
17:41ano lang,
17:41basing ano lang,
17:42naglong langgid siya,
17:43na langgid siya,
17:44gagalong langgid siya sa iyahang uyab,
17:46and that's why,
17:47iyahang sense of attachment,
17:48na focus nga,
17:49tukang kei,
17:49kei mo,
17:50orang magig physically present,
17:51no,
17:52per minti,
17:52so,
17:53I'm gonna give you,
17:54the time to comment about the story,
17:57and share,
17:58hello to Langging Gibuena,
18:01hello,
18:02good afternoon,
18:03thank you for watching our live,
18:05and then,
18:06sa tanan ng mga nananapod sa super balita,
18:08at upod silang,
18:09giauhag pod,
18:10to also share their thoughts about our story this afternoon,
18:13given nga,
18:15kanisiya medyo challenging pod bayan ni Tambaga,
18:18no,
18:18na,
18:18sa panahon karun,
18:20especially,
18:20na timing nga,
18:21ang yung story na,
18:22put into,
18:24sa pride month,
18:25nata sa pride month,
18:26so,
18:27unsa man ang angay nga buha to,
18:29sige,
18:29go,
18:30let's go,
18:31diba,
18:31atong basahon na inyong mga comments,
18:33and we are going to,
18:35check on it,
18:37in the future,
18:38kung unsay inyong hang,
18:40in the future,
18:40today,
18:41good day,
18:41in the future,
18:41we're going to check on it today,
18:43dili sa future,
18:44kung unsay inyong hang ma-advise,
18:46ayun,
18:46uy,
18:46may hapon,
18:47Juni Ruka,
18:48hello,
18:48good afternoon,
18:50thank you so much,
18:51okay pa ba itong live?
18:53okay,
18:54okay,
18:54sige,
18:55okay,
18:56go ahead,
19:00advice na mo ha,
19:01sometime na pay time,
19:02kay later on,
19:03ako na silang moha,
19:04tago advice,
19:05ayan,
19:06sige,
19:06what do you think about the story,
19:08kung kamo ang nasa sitwasyon ni Andy,
19:10unsama ni Anggibating,
19:11anong ikilig na kuno siya,
19:12uy,
19:13sige sila guyog,
19:14ni Kay,
19:15naman diya,
19:16uyab,
19:16nga lalaki,
19:17nga si Kay,
19:18koan ma no,
19:20part ko no sa community,
19:21though siya,
19:22sa una ko no,
19:23background lang,
19:24sa una ko no,
19:25maaansad siya nga,
19:26part sa community,
19:27pero she,
19:27she knows,
19:28na she isn't before,
19:30so unsama ni Ia ha,
19:31is this a revelation to her,
19:33kung kinsag yun siya,
19:34or,
19:35na-confuse lang yun siya,
19:36on a current nga situation,
19:38because wala iya hang,
19:40boyfriend,
19:41de rey,
19:41sa Pilipinas,
19:42sige,
19:43ato ang,
19:44hisgutan,
19:45more of this,
19:46ah,
19:46story,
19:47in a while,
19:48pero ato sa atas,
19:49ato ang showbiz news,
19:50karung ha po na,
19:51sa unsay chika,
19:53dirisa,
19:53dear chixi,
19:55grabe good no,
19:59as in,
20:00nawindang jud ko,
20:01kay gabi,
20:01indako,
20:02good,
20:02ni Gipagawas,
20:03ni Zainab Harake,
20:05ang content creator,
20:06nga si Zainab Harake,
20:07o si,
20:08ah,
20:09basketball player,
20:10Ray Parks,
20:12ang ilahang mga hulagway,
20:14sa nahitabo nila nga kasal,
20:16no,
20:16very grand,
20:17ang ilahang Christian wedding,
20:20nga,
20:20makaingon jud ko nga,
20:21kung an jud kay sa nga tanan,
20:22no,
20:22grabe jud ang preparation
20:24for this wedding,
20:25for sure,
20:26especially nga si,
20:27Zainab Harake,
20:28o sabi na siya ka vlogger,
20:29sikat gini na siya,
20:30dili lang po sa ka vlogger,
20:31sikat gini siya nga vlogger,
20:33and halos gani,
20:34part of her life story,
20:36halos tanan na,
20:36kay Baluna,
20:38because she was so vocal
20:39about everything that she went through,
20:41when it comes to her love,
20:42life,
20:43grabe kaysa nga tanan,
20:44iahang kaagi sa una,
20:45iahang relationship,
20:47iahang struggles as a mother,
20:50no,
20:51so,
20:51na siya yung mga,
20:52gipang share,
20:53kabahin,
20:54anang ilahang,
20:54relationship ka roon,
20:56ni,
20:56kanibitang ray parks,
20:58and in fact,
21:00before sila nag-menyo,
21:02dagha na siya,
21:02gii-historyaan,
21:04no,
21:04nga,
21:04parts ay ang rules,
21:05sa mga muateng sa kasal,
21:06nga,
21:07walay mag-video,
21:08walay mag-post,
21:09walay mag-post,
21:11walay mag-picture,
21:12wala,
21:13murag-wala tanan,
21:14kay ang ilang gusto nga,
21:16usara ang mukuha o picture,
21:17which is ang ilang mga cameraman,
21:19ilang mga photographers,
21:21during the wedding,
21:22and mas ma-feel,
21:23jud ko no,
21:24ang,
21:24ah,
21:25of course,
21:25the intimate,
21:26intimate nga wedding,
21:27nga ilahang,
21:28gii-preparar,
21:29no,
21:29but I'm sure,
21:30it's not just very ordinary,
21:32nga intimate,
21:32gipidaghan kay sila guest po,
21:33nga mga ilado po,
21:34nga celebrities,
21:35in fact,
21:36I saw nga naaten po di ay sa mong kasal,
21:38o in fact,
21:38part po sa entourage,
21:40si,
21:40ah,
21:41Tony Gonzaga,
21:42o si,
21:42ah,
21:43Drek Paul Soriano,
21:44no,
21:44yan na po dito,
21:45ang uman pa nga mga celebrities,
21:47daghang kayo ang,
21:48ah,
21:48nalipay,
21:49o na happy,
21:49sa,
21:50na,
21:50ah,
21:50abot na karoon ni Zainab,
21:52considering,
21:53because of her past relationship,
21:55we cannot deny,
21:56nga,
21:57kanang kabalutaan na,
21:58because she's so,
21:59open to the public,
22:00kung,
22:01unsayang naagians ka ni Adto,
22:02and kung unsayang life partners ka ni Adto,
22:05layo na kaya na latas yung love story,
22:07no,
22:08marabang mainguntang,
22:09ah,
22:09kanabang,
22:09nagide,
22:10nagide hope,
22:11no,
22:11after all the heartbreaks,
22:13after all the pain,
22:14no,
22:15after all the kasakit,
22:16nagide kalipay,
22:18sa saktong tao,
22:19kung sakto na,
22:19ang maabot ka ni mo,
22:21ay,
22:21naginaabuhi,
22:22diba,
22:22muna gitawag nga,
22:23kung gitagana ginasay mo,
22:25ha,
22:25di naginasayangon,
22:26diba,
22:27so,
22:27muna siya karoon,
22:28eh,
22:28ngun si Zainab,
22:29siyang caption,
22:30o sa kinika Bible verse,
22:32sa caption niya siya,
22:33mga hulagoy sa kasal,
22:34yung siyang love bears all things,
22:37believe all things,
22:38hopes all things,
22:40endures all things,
22:41no,
22:42sa Corinthians na siya,
22:44um,
22:45kanina,
22:46first Corinthians,
22:47chapter 13,
22:48verse 7,
22:50muna ang yahanggi share niya,
22:51muna makainguntang,
22:52very,
22:54kuantay ni ilang relationship,
22:55Christ-centered,
22:56kay kapila man ni sila,
22:58mag-discuss,
22:59kabahin sa ilang faith,
23:00no,
23:01karoon nga,
23:02naana sila sa,
23:03pag-level up sa chapter,
23:05sa ilangang kinabuhi,
23:06isip,
23:06Mr. and Mrs.,
23:07so from Sun Star Cebu,
23:09congratulations,
23:10and best wishes,
23:11to Mr. and Mrs. Sparks,
23:13maragin tag-invited,
23:14kung maka-congratulate,
23:15no,
23:15pero makainguntang,
23:17kung malipay,
23:17juu ko ka,
23:18honestly,
23:18di ba,
23:19papamiliar mo,
23:19sure ko,
23:20Erika,
23:20papamiliar kasi,
23:21ang ex,
23:21di ba,
23:22awakabalok,
23:22wakabalok mo,
23:23kung kinsabi,
23:23wala lang kabalo,
23:24grabe kayo,
23:25niya sa una,
23:25si Zainab,
23:26open kayo siya sa public,
23:27about what she went through,
23:29and now,
23:29makainguntang,
23:30nga tinuod ko di ay,
23:31after all the heartbreak,
23:32ka no,
23:33mo make sense,
23:33ragyud na,
23:34no,
23:34moneg itawag,
23:35mo make sense,
23:36ragyud na,
23:36someday,
23:37it's gonna make sense,
23:38matod pa sa kanta,
23:39sa Michael learns to rock,
23:40no,
23:41masakitan man ta,
23:42pero make sense,
23:43ragyud na,
23:44usahe bitaw,
23:44no,
23:45kanita taga-antag,
23:45pag-swice kinabuhi,
23:46makapangutan,
23:47no,
23:47ano man lord,
23:48on sa mandi ay,
23:49ang rason,
23:50pero usahe,
23:52karundi,
23:53patakos answer,
23:54pero as we journey,
23:55all along,
23:56answers will reveal,
23:57no,
23:57mo aning rason,
23:58nga nung inani,
23:59mo aning rason,
24:00kanong inana,
24:01nga nung na-delays,
24:02because you are meant for this,
24:03nga nung na-ayong mga,
24:05hurdles,
24:05or naka-ayong mga,
24:06again na-challenge,
24:07because you're meant for this,
24:08nga nga nga yung anana,
24:09so,
24:09at least,
24:10ako malipay ko ha,
24:11though,
24:11di li manjod ko yung,
24:12nga,
24:12super fan ni Zainab,
24:14pero,
24:14knowing what she went through,
24:16with all her interviews before,
24:17with all her Facebook live,
24:19and with everything she went through,
24:21as a single mom,
24:23makaingon ko nga,
24:23malipay yun ko para niya,
24:25sana all,
24:26inana kayong grande,
24:27no,
24:27sa panahon karun ba nga,
24:29kanong itong,
24:30nanakayong strict rules,
24:31nga,
24:32wala yung mag-cellphone sa kasal,
24:33kay kanang,
24:34uba na ba,
24:35Sir Mark,
24:35mo pa'y di liinvited,
24:37ni Kuyo Graz sa kasal,
24:38mo pa'y mag-Facebook live,
24:39mo pa'y mag-Facebook live sa kasal,
24:41so,
24:41importante dun na nga,
24:43kanang maayod dun,
24:43kay sangatanan ang ilahang,
24:45pag-plano sa ilang kasal,
24:46congratulations,
24:48makalipay,
24:49wala yung,
24:50kung sa kaklose,
24:51pero malipay gita,
24:51muna gita,
24:52huwag nga,
24:53di ligid sayangan,
24:53ang kahigayunan ha,
24:55di ligid sayangan,
24:56kung,
24:56nanaginiha ang gugma,
24:57ayaw ginasayangi,
24:58dapat malipay na gita din ha,
25:00diba,
25:01sige go,
25:04anyway,
25:05let's move forward,
25:07and nangitadirisa ito,
25:08balik ka sa itong story,
25:09kadali,
25:09ramanday sa oras,
25:10ay,
25:10kinsa may gada,
25:11home nga,
25:12kapaspas ba,
25:13no,
25:14we are,
25:15time check is 4.42,
25:16just minutes before we close the program,
25:18balikan na to ang,
25:19to ang,
25:20story,
25:21no,
25:21kabahin ni,
25:23Andy,
25:24no,
25:25si Andy,
25:26kina siya yung uyab nga lalaki,
25:28si Rex,
25:28tuwas sa gawa sa nasud,
25:30sometimes si Rex,
25:31tuwas gawa sa nasud,
25:32no,
25:32syempre,
25:33may nga woon siya,
25:33asay na sila yung conflicts,
25:35di na kung na siya maglaag-laag,
25:37pero pagkailan niya,
25:38aning Kay,
25:38which happens to be her workmate,
25:40who actually revealed,
25:41nga dili siya straight,
25:42nga babae,
25:44no,
25:44nakamat mo na siya,
25:45nga malipay siya,
25:46kung kuyog silang kay,
25:47di nilang malipay,
25:48kiligon na siya,
25:49malipay na siya,
25:49happy na siya,
25:50unsa kung na yung buhatun,
25:52kayo marag mas nilingaw,
25:52matang kay,
25:53karun,
25:53no,
25:54nga mag-uban sila,
25:55what is she feeling,
25:57unsa man,
25:57part ba siya sa community,
25:59she's confused with what she's feeling,
26:01i-shout out sa nato si Randy Santenas,
26:02thank you so much for watching Randy,
26:05and to everyone,
26:06so what are your thoughts about this,
26:08unsa man ang inyuhang masulti,
26:11kabahin sa sitwasyon,
26:12aning ato ang letter sender,
26:14I wish nga,
26:15you could give out,
26:16your best opinion,
26:17mga kanang ka sunstar,
26:19mga ka super,
26:20kay,
26:20sa tinuod lang,
26:22ambot,
26:22nagstory aming chari,
26:23pero pari humig opinion,
26:25na murabag ang iyahang feelings kay,
26:26di li man nina,
26:27nakatantong normal,
26:28sa amua lang ha,
26:30normal siguro na,
26:31sa mga admitted doon kay,
26:32kung unsa yun ilang preference,
26:34pero kaming chari,
26:35pari huming,
26:36murabag,
26:37naamidihan sa point ka,
26:39nag-discuss me ganina,
26:40siya di ba miss,
26:41pag naakay friend,
26:42nga masiging mong kuyo,
26:43di li man kakiligun,
26:44oo,
26:45di li kakiligun,
26:45mahappy lang ka nga na,
26:46kay friends,
26:47na kay excited ka to talk with friends,
26:49but di li kakiligun in a way,
26:51no,
26:51pero ka nang kiligun ka,
26:52or na naka kiligun factor,
26:54marag spark,
26:55mayroon siyang joining mo,
26:56nga di ma-describe,
26:57nga,
26:57magsaman ni good money,
26:58or unsa,
26:59ka namura nang something,
27:00na you have to really think of,
27:02no,
27:02di li ka,
27:03magsaman ni sure,
27:04jud ta ni B,
27:04kung unsa ganyan akong gibati,
27:05di ba,
27:06kaya kuya po ka,
27:07isang atan na,
27:08no,
27:08nga kiligun man ka,
27:09nga murag man,
27:10di ba,
27:11so,
27:11muna siya din ha,
27:13so,
27:13ato ni nga,
27:14hisgutan na nga to,
27:15nga,
27:16kung unsa bag yun,
27:17and,
27:18would like to say thank you to everyone,
27:20who interacted with us,
27:22thank you so much,
27:23anay na tadrisa akong advice,
27:25una sa tanan,
27:26ang pasalamatan ni Andy,
27:27and,
27:27with all due respect,
27:29sa mga,
27:29na,
27:30sa LGBTQ plus community,
27:32we are,
27:34of course,
27:34ah,
27:35ah,
27:36kanabitaong,
27:37respectful,
27:38no,
27:39sa,
27:39ay,
27:40ah,
27:40ah,
27:40ah,
27:42okay,
27:43sige,
27:44ayan,
27:44okay na,
27:45ah,
27:46okay,
27:46ah,
27:46okay,
27:47ah,
27:47tara,
27:48okay,
27:49thank you so much guys,
27:50nalimot ko,
27:51sorry,
27:51so,
27:52we are also,
27:53ah,
27:53very respectful sa community,
27:55no,
27:55ang ilang term,
27:56ah,
27:56eh,
27:57kung ikaw,
27:57dili ka part sa LGBTQ community,
27:59pero,
28:00ni respect ka,
28:01and you are actually supportive of them,
28:03ang tawag is ally,
28:05you're an ally of them,
28:07no,
28:07ako mga,
28:08ah,
28:08I have respect with everyone,
28:09whatever your preferences is,
28:11I don't see anything wrong with it,
28:13for as long as you don't do anything harmful,
28:17sa'yong mga isig ka,
28:18for as long as you don't hurt other people,
28:20for as long as you are sure of yourself,
28:23for as long as wala kay gibuhat nga bati,
28:25wala kay gidaot nga tao,
28:28kunun sa ka,
28:29that's who you are,
28:30and you should not be shy about that,
28:32no,
28:33the thing is,
28:33very common in the setting of our country,
28:37no,
28:37nga naamgiuban nga,
28:38dili pagitan tong open about the idea,
28:41nga,
28:41nai mga inana,
28:43nga matang sa relationship,
28:44no,
28:45ah,
28:46siguro,
28:46yung nun ta,
28:47nga same gender,
28:49no,
28:49pero,
28:50lagi,
28:50lahi-lahi-lahi mga good of preferences,
28:52ang mga individual,
28:54siguro,
28:55nanata sa generation,
28:57generation,
28:57generation,
28:58generation,
28:59nanata sa generation,
29:00nga,
29:01mas,
29:01open,
29:03siguro,
29:03depende kung,
29:04again,
29:05it's generational thing,
29:06kaya nai-uban nga mga generation before millennials,
29:10who are conservative kaayon,
29:12na po yung mga millennials na still conservative,
29:14na po yung mga millennials na medyo na-adopt na nila ang concept of being open,
29:18na po yung mga gen Zs who are widely expressive and widely open po,
29:22karo na mga higa yun,
29:23but again,
29:24it's case to case basis,
29:25depende po na sa individual,
29:27depende po na sa nadakaan,
29:28depende po na sa ila ang mga na-absorb,
29:30yung learnings,
29:31kung,
29:31un sa ilang preference,
29:32no,
29:33when it comes to,
29:34ah,
29:35the gender of individuals,
29:36and kung un sa gidsad sila,
29:38but,
29:38I have no judgment,
29:39if,
29:40in the event,
29:40nga,
29:41maugid na sila,
29:42like,
29:42siya female and female,
29:44then,
29:44magka-inlabay sila,
29:45wakaw judgment na na,
29:46kay,
29:46ila mo lang choice,
29:47no,
29:48pero,
29:48ang thing is,
29:49naamagoy uyab ni sande,
29:52mutan na siya di rin nga,
29:53naakoy uyab,
29:54okay me ni Rex,
29:56pero paglarka ni Rex,
29:57murag siguro,
29:58naglong siya,
29:59na,
29:59na siya maka-uban per me,
30:01and just,
30:02just right in time,
30:03nakatrabaho niya,
30:04or nawuhin mo niyang workmate,
30:05si Kay,
30:06who happens to open up nga,
30:08hey,
30:08lili ko straight,
30:09ha,
30:10kung an ko,
30:11LGBTQ,
30:13kung na,
30:13part ko sa LGBTQ,
30:15no,
30:15money siya,
30:16and,
30:17siguro,
30:17na siya yung sense of,
30:18na level nga,
30:19na comfort siya,
30:20kay na adihaan tao,
30:22I was thinking,
30:23she's actually longing,
30:25you know,
30:25for a partner who is actually physically present,
30:28because,
30:29number one,
30:30munang feeling ako,
30:31nga dili siya,
30:32naglong siya,
30:33present nga,
30:35individual siyang life,
30:36because I think,
30:37the love language speaks first,
30:38itself,
30:39una,
30:40did you identify your love language,
30:42di ba naman,
30:42na yung lima ka love languages,
30:44pero saan na,
30:44ang katong kitawag na tong physical touch,
30:46basing ganahan doon siya physically,
30:48na adihaan perminti,
30:50ngayang mafeel,
30:51anya,
30:51present,
30:52iyahang mahiccup anytime,
30:54makaholding hands anytime,
30:55makuddle anytime,
30:57magklingi siya anytime,
30:59basing inana,
31:00no,
31:01nga muna yung physical,
31:02muna iyahang,
31:03love language,
31:05no,
31:05niya,
31:05kung layo,
31:06maragdili kini mafeel ang love,
31:08kay layo man,
31:09niya,
31:09of course,
31:10given nga si Kay,
31:11very vocal about who she is,
31:14and is very,
31:15kanabang,
31:15on siya nga na ni,
31:16open,
31:17no,
31:18siyempre,
31:18basing si Kay mo,
31:19yung makadali na makahatag niya,
31:21uging unana,
31:22like,
31:22ma-hug ba siya,
31:23ma-care ba siya,
31:24makuyugan ba siya per me,
31:26no,
31:27kibasin ka ni si Kuan,
31:29si Andy,
31:30na siya,
31:30clingy personality,
31:32doesn't want to be alone,
31:33ganahan nga,
31:34naikakuyug sa mga buluhatun,
31:37no,
31:37ganahan nga,
31:38naikalaag together,
31:39no,
31:39and mag-depend on,
31:40individuals to be with her,
31:42niya,
31:43pagka,
31:43laga sa uyab,
31:44medyo,
31:45wala na kaayo,
31:46no,
31:46pero pagbalik,
31:47na-excite siya,
31:48balik,
31:48pagbalik nga,
31:49nanasya yung kakuyug,
31:50which is Kay,
31:51who's very willing to be with her,
31:53all the time,
31:54so,
31:54feeling na ako,
31:55kailangan ni mo i-assess,
31:57kung ka nang imong kilig nga gibati,
31:58karoon,
31:59is it because,
32:00wala na kay love kang Rex,
32:03or,
32:04love ni mo si Rex,
32:05kaso lang,
32:06nalingaw lang ka nga,
32:06naadyo kay bagong gikauban,
32:08naadyo kay gika kuyug,
32:10kiligonsad siguro kakailagi,
32:11given nga,
32:12open kayo ni si,
32:14ku ano,
32:15open kay si Kay,
32:15kung kinsa siya,
32:16basi,
32:16kiligonsad ka niya,
32:18hirit-hiritan sa kanyang story,
32:19diba,
32:20kilig-kiligonsad din ka,
32:21diba,
32:21o say,
32:21mamitik kong story,
32:23diba,
32:23o bisag atik,
32:24kiligonsad,
32:25diba,
32:26so,
32:26mo nang,
32:27basin in anak,
32:28ano,
32:28maybe your love language is physical touch,
32:31and,
32:32of course,
32:32words of affirmation,
32:33siguro,
32:34mo nang malipay ka,
32:36when you're together,
32:37because she also gives you that,
32:39no,
32:39and then,
32:39when it comes to your boyfriend,
32:40syempre,
32:41layo man,
32:41so,
32:41di na niya mahatag,
32:42siguro,
32:43words of affirmation,
32:44through phone calls,
32:44video calls,
32:46pero,
32:46when it comes to the physical aspect,
32:48di mo permi mag-uban,
32:49so,
32:49syempre,
32:50basi na yung detachment gamay,
32:52so,
32:52before ka mo hukom kung unsadyud ka,
32:54you have to understand from within you,
32:57una,
32:57para na ko ha,
32:59we can never assess,
33:00if we are not,
33:02truly accepting,
33:04kung unsadyud ka,
33:05so,
33:05dapat i-accept din mo sa imong self,
33:07unsadyud ka,
33:08is,
33:09ikaw rin mo yung maka-feel good,
33:10kung love ba,
33:11dyan ni mo yung mong na-feel kang kay,
33:12or naglong lang dyan sa imong boyfriend,
33:14and that you just saw,
33:16a comfort,
33:17comfort lang,
33:18comforting lang yun ni si kay,
33:19mo nang,
33:20ma-feel ni mong,
33:21ay,
33:21gin-ge-care ka,
33:23o,
33:23i-ubanan ka mo nang malipay ka,
33:25kiligun na ka,
33:26bigos na itaw,
33:26per me all the time,
33:27considering LDR,
33:28ang time zone is different,
33:30no,
33:30so,
33:31you have to know,
33:32kung saan mag-indig akong preference,
33:34how would I identify myself,
33:36no,
33:37kay only you can justify,
33:38and only you can answer,
33:40kung unsadyud mo na-feel deep inside you,
33:43we can always identify kung,
33:45in love na ba ta,
33:46or nag-admire lang ta,
33:49di ba,
33:49may laman na ni mo,
33:50in love na ko,
33:51or g-admire na lang,
33:52g-admire lang ni siya na ko,
33:54from,
33:54from ways,
33:55like,
33:56na-ador na ko,
33:57kay talented,
33:58na-ador na ko,
33:59say,
33:59kay buutan,
34:01caring,
34:01nurturing,
34:02na-ador na ko,
34:03but not to the extent nga,
34:04I will be together with this person,
34:06in a way,
34:06nga romantic me,
34:07di ba,
34:08so,
34:08pwede man na,
34:09kailangan lang ni mo i-assess,
34:10kung unsady na yung tinood nga na bati,
34:12or,
34:13kanaimuhang kilig niya,
34:15kung makita ba ka nga,
34:16sila yung kuyug,
34:16mag-selos ba ka,
34:18di ba,
34:19kung mag-selos na ba ka,
34:20marag,
34:20hmm,
34:21weird ni da,
34:22marag-selos na ni nga ko,
34:23marag-iuganahan,
34:24napikitan siya na,
34:25si kuyug lain,
34:26pasin ka na,
34:26kananay something,
34:27kay,
34:28ganun mag-selos naman ka,
34:29ganun mag-selos naman ka,
34:31di ba,
34:32but I cannot speak for you,
34:34in all aspects,
34:35all I can say is just,
34:36ideas,
34:37where you can take insights of,
34:39pwede ni mo nga,
34:40mahuna-hunaan,
34:41kung sao na ako siya,
34:43pag-assess,
34:44inala ba,
34:44so,
34:44ako i-assess ni mo,
34:45kung ako ikaw,
34:46ako i-assess ka ni si Kay,
34:48then isuwat na ko ba,
34:49Rex,
34:50things I love about Rex,
34:52and things I love about,
34:54um,
34:54or things I like about,
34:56my friend,
34:57ano dyan,
34:57my friend Kay,
34:59and then isuwat na ni mo din ha,
35:00konun siya,
35:01di ba,
35:02and then when you see,
35:03nga,
35:03ah,
35:04okay,
35:04of course,
35:04I love my boyfriend in such a way,
35:06ngayon-ani,
35:07I love,
35:08I like the company of Kay,
35:09because she's like this,
35:10and like that,
35:11maybe si Kay,
35:12very jolly,
35:13funny,
35:15whatever,
35:15kayo sa'yo mo,
35:16bedo na yung mga,
35:17ganun sa mga girls,
35:18grab a big sense of humor,
35:19or grab a big,
35:20kakaring,
35:21nurturing,
35:22no,
35:22basing ina-anapod siya,
35:23so,
35:24and then second of all,
35:25makompare ni mo,
35:27kiligun pa ba kasi mong uyam,
35:28okay,
35:28kung din ikakilig ko na,
35:29kung yawan na dyan,
35:30tadirang napita,
35:31no,
35:32pero kung napanay kilig,
35:34and you still love your boyfriend,
35:36siguro you just lack the thought of lagi,
35:38physical touch,
35:39and personal nga interaction,
35:42pasindiha pa,
35:43napanadiha,
35:43no,
35:44and do not deny from within you,
35:46actually,
35:46makahibaw man yun mo,
35:47makahibaw mo,
35:48you guys would know,
35:49kung unsagin mo,
35:50like,
35:50kabawin mo,
35:51kung kailagin mo,
35:52unsagin ka,
35:53so,
35:53do not deny,
35:54kung unsag man ganin na,
35:55no,
35:56nobody can out anyone,
35:57all I can say is,
35:58I cannot say nga,
35:59hey,
35:59you are not straight,
36:00I cannot,
36:00because it's only you can identify who you are,
36:03but the thing is,
36:04ang punto sa kung advice kanilang,
36:06and to everyone who's watching right now,
36:08only us can identify who we are,
36:11and nobody is allowed to actually out anyone,
36:14without their permission,
36:17oh,
36:17dili ka pwede mo yungon nga,
36:18si kwan kwan ju na siya,
36:19si kwan kwan ju na siya,
36:20dili matakabuot,
36:22no,
36:22we can only judge by the way they act,
36:24by the way they whatever,
36:26but,
36:27hindi mo gita kabaw,
36:28unsagin silang kasing-kasing,
36:29no,
36:29hindi mo gita kabaw,
36:30kung,
36:31inang ka nang ilang iproject mo,
36:32ba dili na,
36:33no,
36:33we can only think nga,
36:35ah,
36:35basin,
36:36pero,
36:36of course,
36:37in the righteous manner,
36:38sa tinarong nga pang hunahuna,
36:40wag iti karapatan,
36:42wag iti right to,
36:43to say,
36:44and conclude nga,
36:45mo ugin na siya,
36:46sure na dili ko,
36:47ah,
36:47nagit ka,
36:48sure na dili ko,
36:49hindi ko pwede mo yungon,
36:50andi nga,
36:52dili,
36:52uy,
36:53dapat,
36:54identify sa nga mo from within you,
36:55unsa mangyin yung basis of love,
36:57no,
36:58what are the basis,
36:59what are the things you love about your boyfriend,
37:01and then what are the things that you like about Kay,
37:03and then you write it up,
37:05and then mag-swat ka,
37:06muna,
37:06ako alang ni ha,
37:06muna akong buhaton,
37:08mag-swat ko,
37:08tapos akong tanahon,
37:10no,
37:10tapos akong tanahon kung,
37:11I can see my,
37:12who I can see my future with,
37:14and then,
37:15when I can identify na kung,
37:17parang kinsajud ko,
37:18then that's it,
37:19no,
37:20and,
37:20I don't know about you,
37:21if it will help you nga,
37:22mag-likay ka kang kay,
37:23para mas mo balance yung mong brain,
37:26kung,
37:27ganahan ba jug ka niya in a romantic way,
37:29or friendly way lang,
37:30or kiligun ba jug ka niya,
37:31or it's just because you're too clingy lately,
37:34ano,
37:34langit siguro,
37:36okay,
37:36my point here is that,
37:37dilit,
37:38kung pwede mo judge ni mo kung unsa ka,
37:40but kung pananglitan,
37:41ma-identify,
37:42gini mo nga,
37:43kailin ako check siya,
37:43yung dilit yo ko straight,
37:44then,
37:45you have to do something about it,
37:47diba?
37:47you have to be honest with your partner,
37:50your rex,
37:51nga mo,
37:51na,
37:52dilit pwede nga,
37:53musti ikag relationship,
37:54just to force,
37:55because that's part of the norms nyo,
37:57we can never force people,
37:59dilit,
37:59tama ka please sa tanan,
38:00but you can also not force whatever you're feeling,
38:03kung pananglitan nga,
38:04in the event,
38:05ma-feel ni mo nga,
38:06bitaw chik si,
38:06I'm leading towards seeing myself with gay,
38:09and,
38:10in a romantic way,
38:11o,
38:11ka na,
38:11so,
38:12ka na,
38:13kung nanakadihang nga linya,
38:15romantic na ka,
38:16siana zone,
38:16kiligo na ka,
38:18magselos na ka,
38:19kung nasa ila yung kuyo,
38:20whatever,
38:20whatever,
38:21di,
38:21ato ka,
38:22diba?
38:23Eh,
38:23pero chik si,
38:24i-judge namin sa kalibutan,
38:27well,
38:28whether or not,
38:29kung kinsay mo makadayo na,
38:30magigapoy judgmental nga mga tao,
38:32no?
38:32But,
38:33what I'm saying is that,
38:34based on paglalaki mong kadayo na,
38:36magigapoy mastery nga mga tao.
38:38So,
38:38go where your heart feels happy,
38:40go where your heart feels satisfied,
38:42and at the end of the day,
38:45wala naging mahima ang mga tao,
38:46ano,
38:47no?
38:47Follow where your heart would want you to be.
38:50O,
38:50di ba mo gina,
38:50balik ko na nako,
38:51muna same sa last week,
38:52kung asa ka malipay,
38:53add to ka,
38:54for as long as wala ka nakapasakit sa uban.
38:56But,
38:56in this case,
38:57dili sa tikang mga kuwan,
38:58kay sure joke ko,
38:59nga masakitan yun si Rex,
39:00kung makibuwag ka niya.
39:01Pero,
39:02that is if,
39:03sure na joke ka,
39:03ha?
39:04Di ko pwede mo yung guwagin na si Rex,
39:05kay feeling na kukuhin ka,
39:06hindi ko mong kukulod na na,
39:08ikaw rag yun ang maka-identify ni mo,
39:10but I'm just giving you ideas
39:11to weigh things out,
39:13para mabalansi ang yung mong pag-judge,
39:15kung unsag yun,
39:16ang yung mong na-feel.
39:17Okay,
39:17kung ako,
39:18I'll be honest with you,
39:19I have friends who are females,
39:20I'm excited to see them,
39:21but not to the way,
39:22nga kiligon ko nga magkuhuhug me.
39:24Siguro,
39:25kiligon,
39:25may nga na mistoryaan,
39:26nga makakilig,
39:27pero di ko kiligon nga,
39:29siya kong kakiligan mo rag,
39:30di ba?
39:31Oo.
39:32So,
39:32pero kung naakoy ko,
39:33nga kiligon ka ng topic,
39:35siguro may nga kilig-kiligon mo,
39:36o ka na excited kita,
39:37nga kilig-kiligon ta sa mga topic,
39:38ka tumastoryaan,
39:39pero nga kiligon ka nga,
39:40siya dyan,
39:40ang rason nga kiligon,
39:42nga kiligon ko niya,
39:43kung magkita ko nga na siya,
39:44yung kuyug,
39:44selos na na ko,
39:45alahe na,
39:46di na na,
39:46di na na kuhan,
39:47di ba?
39:48Pero magselos na gani,
39:49ummm,
39:50iba na yun,
39:51di ba?
39:51Pero dili isag kumuhukom,
39:53di ba?
39:54So,
39:54inala lang yun.
39:55I hope nga natagaantika
39:57enlightenment.
39:58What I'm actually giving you
39:59is enlightenment,
40:00no?
40:00And weighing things out.
40:02I'm not directly judging you,
40:04and I'm not directly saying,
40:05nga in-anika,
40:06because I don't have any right.
40:08I don't have any right to out you.
40:10If I feel,
40:11nga,
40:11tanaw na ko siya mong story,
40:12nga,
40:13dapat na ka mag-out?
40:13No,
40:14I should not say that.
40:15What I can,
40:16I should say is that,
40:17you have to identify.
40:19Kay basin na lang yun kay longing,
40:21no?
40:22Na,
40:22may nga walang yun kasi,
40:23imung uyab,
40:24maybe because wala siya,
40:25na layo lang yun siya,
40:27and maybe,
40:28kung na-na-draise sa Pilipinas,
40:30kung mauli na,
40:31ma-feel,
40:31lagi hapon mo over again,
40:32ang love,
40:33ang care,
40:34ang joy,
40:34to be with your boyfriend.
40:37O,
40:37so,
40:37karoon,
40:38balance-balance na sa
40:39weigh things out,
40:40and identify,
40:42di ba?
40:43Okay,
40:43kung na-na-na yung mga selos-selo,
40:44siguro you have to,
40:46no,
40:46mag-selos na ka kung si Kay
40:47na ilain kuyog babae,
40:49mag-selos na ka kung si Kay
40:50interested sa ilain,
40:51ako na,
40:51kuyawa na,
40:52tadira.
40:52Pero kung,
40:53di pa ganit,
40:54di ba?
40:55sa part na,
40:56malingaw lang ka,
40:57nga maka-uban siya,
40:58wala na,
40:59chill,
41:00okay pa yan,
41:00no,
41:01so,
41:01mo na.
41:02And I hope you get my point.
41:03Again,
41:04to everyone in the
41:05LGBTQ plus community,
41:07I know that that's always been
41:09a constant struggle to them,
41:11no,
41:11I have friends who are part of the community,
41:13and I know that
41:14they've been
41:15judged,
41:17no,
41:17by people,
41:18but we cannot deny the fact
41:20na people always say something.
41:22But at the end of the day,
41:23what's important,
41:25para nako,
41:25is this,
41:27no,
41:28do not allow people
41:29to dictate your happiness,
41:30only you can decide for your own.
41:32Thank you so much
41:33for watching our live today,
41:36and hangtud,
41:36sunod,
41:37higayun,
41:38para sa itong programang
41:39Dear Chixie,
41:40till next time,
41:41o kung late na mo
41:42nakatanaw sa live,
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41:44ni Balik.
41:45Anyway,
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41:48kung ano,
41:49ito ang programa,
41:50kung namoy mga
41:50storya samaani,
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41:53katinawan,
41:54namoy gustong
41:54mga patambagan,
41:55I would really try
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41:58to give the advice
41:59fitting for your story
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42:25sa laing episode,
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42:29or DJ Chixie,
42:29God bless everyone,
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