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  • 6/30/2025
Minyo si Wilma, 41 anyos. Siya ug ang iyang bana pulos dunay trabaho. Malinawon ang ilang pagpuyo ug relasyon. Kon dungan ang ilang schedule sa pag-off, kuhaon siya sa iyang bana sa trabahoan.

Apan nakabantay siya sa pagkausab sa iyang bana sukad ni nakasuod og babaye nga giingon sa iyang kapikas nga paryente niya kay the same og apelyedo sa iyang mama. Gaw pa gani ang tinawganay kay makadungog siya usahay kon manawag sa selpon.

Nakabantay ko nga magsige na og overtime ang iyang bana nga unta sukad di man ni ingon ani. Kausa iyang giadto sa trabahoan, wa diha ang iyang bana sa trabahoan kay nangaon uban sa barkada ug nakadungog siya sa tingog sa babaye.

Nagpatambag si Wilma kon unsa ang iyang buhaton. Maayo bang iyang panid-an? Mao kini ang atong tukion sa Tambagi Ko, Noy Kulas, karong hapon. Comment kon gusto kang mopasawo sa imong tambag kang Wilma.
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04:23So what I'm saying is that you're still in a place.
04:28There's a problem that has been a problem with your own children.
04:33When you're walking away, you're walking away from your own children.
04:36You're walking away from the children.
04:38You're walking away from the children.
04:40You're walking away from the street now.
04:42You're walking away from a street or a street.
04:44It's just a picture of your son.
04:46asawa,
04:48magdudas yang bana,
04:49kaya doon ay kaistorya,
04:50permi,
04:50sa phone,
04:52o di ba,
04:53katsat,
04:53nakaubans trabaho,
04:54makabantay na,
04:55sige lagkuyog,
04:56opposite sex.
04:58Maun ay,
04:59sagad yun,
05:00daghang mga problema,
05:01ngayon niya.
05:02O niya,
05:03ang nakakuha na ni Moni,
05:04ang duha na to,
05:05atong tukiyon,
05:05kining defense pa,
05:07ganibang,
05:08sagad na pariente,
05:10ano,
05:11ginira bang pariente,
05:12kaya,
05:13hindi niangay,
05:14nung,
05:14kuhanan ka ng,
05:15kumbinsahan ba,
05:17kay naga ni mga,
05:19daghanan ni maingunani,
05:21na,
05:21tungod sculpture na to,
05:23kunuhay,
05:23kunuhay lang,
05:24kay,
05:25mingun nga di magkarelasyon,
05:26na mag-agaw,
05:27daghan man gani,
05:27no,
05:28daghang mga pariente,
05:29na,
05:30nagka-relasyon,
05:32ato ni unang tukiyon,
05:34kining pariente ba,
05:35hinuon,
05:35magining losot,
05:37no,
05:38kari-arita sa legal,
05:39ato sa ding gamay,
05:40lakbitan,
05:40yung legal aspect,
05:41ano,
05:42log sa,
05:43kiningsimbahan,
05:44upo sa balaod,
05:45atong balaod sa Pilipinas,
05:47family code,
05:48kining,
05:50kwan,
05:50kining,
05:51correct me if I'm wrong,
05:52no,
05:52ako mga higala,
05:54ng mga lawyers,
05:54na,
05:55tiktan na oning atong tuluman nun,
05:58as,
05:59ang kaning,
06:00gindili-ergered ni marriage,
06:02no,
06:02between sa mag-agaw,
06:04mag-tagsa,
06:04kanya bang,
06:05first cousins ba,
06:06on saan man ang first cousins,
06:07kanya first cousins,
06:09muna silang,
06:10kining,
06:11mga tao,
06:12nga,
06:13o saang lulo o glula,
06:15kanya bang,
06:17pariho,
06:17raglulo o glula ba,
06:19so,
06:20mauna yung mga first cousins,
06:22on sa man ang second cousins,
06:24kanang second cousins,
06:26mauna sila'y pariho,
06:27o great grandparents,
06:30tinamban ba,
06:30tinamban,
06:31lulo,
06:32o ginikanan sa iyang lulo o glula,
06:36so,
06:37tiri na sila,
06:37second cousins na na sila,
06:39so,
06:40pwede na na mag-mini,
06:41o bo sa itong balaod,
06:43o bo sa canon law,
06:45kung katuliko ka.
06:46Kanarabang ingon pa sa akong higalang pari,
06:49nga,
06:50kining,
06:51kwanpod member sa marriage tribunal,
06:54sa,
06:55kining simbahang katuliko,
06:58kining,
07:00mag-agaw,
07:01kining atong family,
07:04kwan,
07:04kining family kod,
07:05o kining balaod na tos kami niyon,
07:08base ni,
07:09generally,
07:10sa canon law.
07:11So,
07:12maunang,
07:12wak tayo'y divorce,
07:14na ay kitawag,
07:15o,
07:15o,
07:16annulment of marriage,
07:17no?
07:18I-annul ang kasal,
07:19so,
07:19daghan,
07:19stringent kayo,
07:20strictod kayo,
07:21o,
07:22kanang mga lagda mo,
07:23ng daghan ang nagduso,
07:25karoon sa,
07:26kining divorce law,
07:28daghan ang ginahan,
07:29o,
07:29o,
07:29o,
07:30o,
07:30o,
07:31so,
07:31balikan na to,
07:33daghan kayo niyong mugamit,
07:34aning pariente lagi niyong,
07:35it's about more on culture,
07:37but,
07:38kibaw naman ta,
07:39nga daghan kayo niyong mga,
07:41ingon-aning relasyon,
07:43sa mga pariente,
07:44doon ay tagurha,
07:45nga nagminyo,
07:46doon ay kay prominent,
07:47prominent family nga,
07:50na to nga,
07:51ang ilang anak,
07:52gikasal sa ialahang,
07:54si kan kasin,
07:55kay legal mani,
07:57o,
07:57anong,
07:57anong,
07:57anong,
07:58ng,
07:58anong,
07:58anong,
07:58anong,
07:58tungod kay dunay,
08:00kanang,
08:00kaning sa DNA ba,
08:02kining,
08:03possibly,
08:03magunin mo resulta sa inbreeding,
08:05pariwag,
08:06yung,
08:06is mga hayop,
08:07good nga,
08:08gidili nga,
08:08ang kanang,
08:09magunay,
08:10magsuon,
08:11or,
08:11ang amahan,
08:13ang amahan,
08:13gili,
08:14pahilap dun sa anak,
08:14kanang sa mga hayop ba,
08:16baboy,
08:17manok,
08:17kung sa panaday,
08:18iro,
08:19so,
08:19dili una yun,
08:20kay,
08:21ang inbreeding,
08:23possibly kayo,
08:25so,
08:25at walang yung ilakbita,
08:26no,
08:26kay,
08:27kinanglan masan ni gamay,
08:29no,
08:29aspect ba,
08:30kinibain nun na agaw-agaw,
08:32kanang ig-agaw,
08:34ig-agaw,
08:35dili ig-agaw,
08:36ig-agaw,
08:37so,
08:37tagan na sila gaw,
08:39so,
08:40pero,
08:40dili ni ang ay kumpiyansahan,
08:42kay,
08:43mo lagi na,
08:44kanabang,
08:47doon naman goy,
08:48pattern ba,
08:49dili maayo nga mga,
08:51kuhan,
08:51excuse me na,
08:52ah,
08:53maglisuntag,
08:54kuhan,
08:54magbasa,
08:56kineng,
08:58dili magod maayo,
09:00ang,
09:01mga tilimad doon ba,
09:03so,
09:03unsamay maayong buhatun,
09:04aray na ta,
09:05sa tambag ni,
09:06alang kang Wilma,
09:07well,
09:08ang may mong buhatun,
09:09samtang sayo,
09:09paparangkahan,
09:10anin mo,
09:11ang imong bana,
09:12sa imong observation,
09:15una,
09:16ganung,
09:17sa kalit lang,
09:18doon na naman siya,
09:19overtime,
09:21tinuod yung kang nag-overtime,
09:23pagkita ko nag-overtime slip,
09:25kay,
09:25Saga,
09:25Dabagis Company,
09:26doon na ginay-overtime slip,
09:28kineng pirmahan ba?
09:29Kaya,
09:30ko sa unang,
09:30sa empleyado pa ko,
09:31at doon,
09:32usakad akong broadcast company,
09:34na ayok ko'y pirmahan,
09:35no?
09:36Gawa sa akong,
09:37kineng,
09:38akong time card,
09:39na ako'y pirmahan,
09:40na nag-overtime ko,
09:43unya,
09:43night time premium,
09:44kay lahi man ng,
09:45lahi man ng bayad sa night one,
09:47na ganung gabi,
09:48ina ka mo jute,
09:49no?
09:49Night time premium,
09:50hangtod sa buntag,
09:52doon na naikikuhan.
09:53So,
09:53pagkita ay siya,
09:54o,
09:54kineng,
09:56overtime slip,
09:57naaamang gina,
09:58ka na,
09:58kung tinuod man,
10:00no?
10:01Masuko siya,
10:01ay lang sa pagkabugti,
10:03kasuko,
10:04pangutana raman ka,
10:05kaya daw na magkatungon,
10:06kaya asawa man ka,
10:07kinimagong ubang mga,
10:09kuhan ba,
10:10uban bang magtiayon,
10:11nagtuon na lang gini sila,
10:13nga,
10:13giniusaka partner,
10:14wala na ikatungon,
10:15nga mga utana,
10:16simpre na,
10:17okay,
10:18you are one,
10:19no?
10:19Kusa naman mo?
10:20Nagi legal nga,
10:23basihanan,
10:24nga ang asawa,
10:25ang ay may baw,
10:25ang bana,
10:26ang ay may baw,
10:26sa unsaman,
10:28bisan unsa nga,
10:29kanang lakaw sa asawa,
10:31lakaw sa bana,
10:32ang ay manangid,
10:33kinsay mga kauban,
10:34manangid,
10:35magayon ng ubang,
10:36kuhan nga,
10:36kanang uyab lang,
10:37unsana ka ng minyo,
10:38so,
10:39ang ay,
10:39diod nga,
10:40masayod ang misis,
10:42so,
10:43masayod ang bana,
10:45so,
10:45mauna,
10:46panid e,
10:47naanamay kausaban sa liyo,
10:48panid e,
10:49nito will,
10:50no?
10:50Kay,
10:52kuhan ba ya,
10:52kanabang gikinhanglan,
10:54ginini mo,
10:54no?
10:55Ang imuhang,
10:55naimuhang panidhan,
10:58na naamagin na,
11:00di ba,
11:00doon na may higayon,
11:01naimuhang itong pakalitan,
11:02so,
11:03katuos ba to?
11:04Ay,
11:04pag-announce,
11:05no?
11:06Kung,
11:07masubli na gani,
11:07kanala,
11:08ay nasab na,
11:09pasangin lang over time,
11:11ba't tuwa din,
11:11nagkuyog sa bay,
11:12doon na pagkuyog,
11:14ng mga,
11:14matawag,
11:15na itong decoy,
11:16kanang decoy,
11:17baka na bang,
11:19way labot sa relasyon,
11:21ba't,
11:22gihibo lang taming,
11:23kung tabun,
11:24na kami mang kuyuga,
11:25ba't,
11:26nagpanguli,
11:28na,
11:28puli,
11:28magbubuwag na manggid na,
11:30niya,
11:30diritsaw ka ng mangguli,
11:31is balay,
11:32di ba?
11:33So,
11:33ato din na,
11:34salain di,
11:34ay,
11:34mutipas na ito,
11:36no?
11:36Adi din,
11:37sumabug naong dapit.
11:38So,
11:38dun na may mga ingon yan,
11:40na,
11:40na,
11:40na,
11:41ng,
11:41anong,
11:41uban gani,
11:42na,
11:42pamagigani,
11:43family member,
11:44ganang gada doon,
11:45pero,
11:46lipat-lipat na ito,
11:47lipat to ng family member,
11:49na,
11:49kanang,
11:51lain da ito ang guhan,
11:52o di ba,
11:53drama-dramahon.
11:54So,
11:54na ganang may ingon yan,
11:55ano,
11:56kay,
11:56atong nasugatan,
11:57dun na yung mga uban,
11:58ng mga,
11:58mochat na ito,
11:59na,
12:00mo ni ang problema,
12:02mo ni mga itabo,
12:03so,
12:03gibasi na ito ni,
12:04ang ito ang,
12:06atong,
12:06atong,
12:08incident,
12:09no?
12:10Incident,
12:10ng,
12:10na,
12:10mga possibilities,
12:12na,
12:12nahitabo,
12:13ni aning,
12:14aning,
12:15bana ni,
12:16WELMA,
12:16no?
12:17na,
12:18na,
12:18na,
12:18na,
12:18gamit,
12:18tingali ni,
12:19yung decoy,
12:19wako mag-ingon,
12:20nga tinudan na yung atong kuhan,
12:22but,
12:22makaduda man yun,
12:23nga,
12:24nga nung,
12:25sukad-masukad,
12:25nag-overtime,
12:26wala mag-itabo,
12:28na nag-overtime,
12:28ganyan ito,
12:29karo naman lang,
12:30na,
12:30naasilay,
12:31naasay kauban,
12:33nga,
12:33babay,
12:34na,
12:34yan kitawag ugaw,
12:36helugaw,
12:37ig-agaw,
12:38so,
12:38mo na diya,
12:40so,
12:42moto,
12:43kunya,
12:45kining,
12:47dimansad,
12:48WELMA,
12:49nga,
12:49magpakuha ka sa imuhang,
12:52trabahoan,
12:53nga nung,
12:53giliin naman ka niya,
12:54makuha ka niya,
12:54to,
12:54makuha man ka,
12:55kung,
12:56magkadungan mo ni,
12:56karo nga naman hinuon,
12:59no?
12:59Di naman kay hinuon,
13:00kuhaon.
13:02So,
13:02naan na yun,
13:03no?
13:03Una,
13:04kining,
13:05behavioral change,
13:07no?
13:07Kining,
13:08una,
13:08mag-overtime,
13:09nagsige,
13:10ikanun ha,
13:11wala nakakuha ah.
13:13So,
13:13di ligid maing atilimad doon,
13:15kay,
13:16kanyag to,
13:17makuha ko ka,
13:18waw mo yung problema,
13:18no?
13:19Imung,
13:19pag-ingon nga,
13:20kuhaon ka,
13:22sa,
13:22kuhan,
13:23kiniganing,
13:24imung trabahoan.
13:25Ikarun,
13:25ikaw na no,
13:26yung kalit nga mo at to niya.
13:28So,
13:28pakalit eh.
13:29Kung pananglitan,
13:30ayaw pa'y bawa,
13:31kung unsang,
13:32adlaw ka,
13:33nga pareho mo,
13:34o dungan mo,
13:35di off.
13:36Okay ba lo?
13:36Masa ni mo,
13:37ipalibog unsa kay,
13:38unsa'y imung konon,
13:39base in medical staff ka,
13:41o diba,
13:42o,
13:42mag-usap-usap,
13:44ang imung duty.
13:45So,
13:45doon ay time na mag-aabot mo,
13:47doon ay say time na dili.
13:49So,
13:50bauna,
13:50ang ay gina ni mong,
13:52kuhaon,
13:52kining,
13:54kuhaon ni mo,
13:56kanang,
13:56dili ni mo pasagdan,
14:00no?
14:00Ayaw giyot pasagdahi nga,
14:02mo slide,
14:03o,
14:04magkagrabi ang ilahang,
14:07kuha ng ilahang,
14:08o kanabang mga changes ba nga,
14:10to the point nga,
14:12doon na ni time na din na mo uli,
14:14kining,
14:15daga nagpasangil,
14:16doon na ni outing sila,
14:18namurugin ang uban,
14:19team building,
14:19o,
14:19ang team building,
14:20tuwa dahi sa motel,
14:22la-inday ang team building,
14:24o,
14:24diba,
14:24pasangil nga ka ng outing,
14:26beach outing,
14:28kinyo,
14:28mga barkada,
14:29mga kaubans trabaho,
14:31o,
14:31kanang karoon naman lang,
14:33kanang karoon naman sa unang,
14:34wala mana,
14:34no,
14:35I assume nga,
14:37kining,
14:39so,
14:39forties naman mo,
14:40possibly ni mga,
14:4110 years na mga kapi,
14:42no,
14:43nga kasado,
14:44o,
14:44niya,
14:45sa una,
14:46for the first 10 years,
14:47wala mana may tabo,
14:48no,
14:48wala mana may tabo nga,
14:49kanang,
14:50ah,
14:51wala mana ng hidni mo,
14:53o,
14:53niya,
14:53nag-overtime,
14:55o,
14:55niya,
14:55kanang,
14:56wala nakakuha,
14:57so,
14:58sakalit lang doon na,
14:59na yung mga changes,
15:00na,
15:01dilig,
15:01maayo,
15:01nga tilimad doon,
15:03so,
15:03mouna ay,
15:03from time to time,
15:05either asawa ka,
15:07or bana ka,
15:08doon na na gani yung mga tilimad doon,
15:09doon na na changes,
15:11sa iyong partner,
15:12sa iyong kapikas,
15:13ang ay nakang magsusin niya na,
15:15no,
15:15kayo doon na,
15:16delira ba kay mga,
15:18bana rin sipat,
15:19naaasay sipat nga mga asawa,
15:21kapila,
15:21namang gugukuha ni dirigod nga,
15:23nagpatambag na kong bana,
15:25na iuban yung tao,
15:26no,
15:26grabe gud ka,
15:27grabe gud kabuutan nga bana,
15:29kanabang,
15:30to the point nga,
15:32kanabang,
15:34okay lang mo yung sipat,
15:35basta ayaw lang yung kubya eh,
15:37I know,
15:37I know someone,
15:39no,
15:39na ako yung nailan,
15:40ano,
15:41na,
15:41kanang,
15:42okay ragid nga yung iyang bana,
15:45o yung asawa,
15:46doon na yung relasyon,
15:48but,
15:49basta di lang ginsabiyaan,
15:50no,
15:51kinibang,
15:51nagsugod ba sab sa,
15:53kininkamin yun,
15:54nga dili maayo,
15:55o sinugdanan,
15:57na bang,
15:57napugos lang,
15:58ang uban,
15:59napugos,
15:59kimabdos,
16:00pagpugo sa ginikanan,
16:02mauligin na,
16:03kanang,
16:03ingunan na,
16:04ang mga circumstances,
16:06no,
16:07but,
16:08aside from that,
16:09kanilang,
16:10well,
16:10wala man ni problema,
16:11kay,
16:12ang ingon pa niya,
16:14indot,
16:15maayang dagat silang relationship,
16:16malinaw,
16:17ng ilang pagpuyo,
16:18hangtod nga,
16:20nakasuod ni o babae,
16:22na,
16:22ilang,
16:23na igagaw,
16:24kanagan ba yan ng apelido,
16:25parehog apelido,
16:27no,
16:27dagag apelido,
16:28o parehog apelido,
16:29but,
16:30wala,
16:30dili naging,
16:31bisang ganig,
16:32igagaw,
16:33tagnapu,
16:33dili naging ganig,
16:34matrace,
16:35no,
16:35hindi ginagin matrace,
16:36sabi na akong pananglitan,
16:38doon na may mga langyaw,
16:40no,
16:40kanang,
16:41hining,
16:42ubang mga langyaw,
16:43nga,
16:43ang ilang great-grandfather,
16:45ni abot diri sa itong naso,
16:46doon niya,
16:47di rin na puyo,
16:48layan ng apelido nila,
16:49sa ilang naso,
16:50nagda sila,
16:50glain nga,
16:51apelido diri,
16:53so,
16:53doon na sila,
16:54itagang kaparihog apelido,
16:56but,
16:56dili nila,
16:57pariente,
16:59bisang pagsubayo ni mo,
17:00ang ilang family tree,
17:02dili gud-related,
17:04no,
17:04dili gud-related,
17:06so,
17:07kahit tungod lang kayo,
17:08ni dala,
17:09o anang klase sa apelido,
17:10sa ilahang pagkuhan,
17:12ilahang,
17:14pagbalihin diri,
17:16sila yung naso,
17:16so,
17:17o na,
17:18lahi na ilang,
17:19lahi ilang apelido diri,
17:21but,
17:21daggan sila parihog apelido,
17:23but,
17:24bisang un saon,
17:25so,
17:26bayon pa ni mo,
17:26ang family tree,
17:28wala,
17:28adyo,
17:28yung relationship,
17:30between,
17:30anang mga tawana,
17:32so,
17:32possibly,
17:32sabna,
17:33na mauna,
17:34wilma,
17:34ang imong kuhan,
17:35na,
17:35to,
17:35rasimindanaw,
17:37unya,
17:37alabina,
17:38kaliw,
17:38doon na bay kaliwat,
17:39ang imong bana,
17:39ng great-great-great-great-grandfather,
17:43na langyaw,
17:45diba,
17:45ka ng mga silingan na itong naso,
17:46doon niya,
17:47pag abotir eh,
17:48nagdala,
17:48uglay ang apelido,
17:49daggan mo na may unana,
17:50so,
17:51dagang nagkapareho,
17:52so,
17:52mao to,
17:53no,
17:53ang mao tingali na ang gay,
17:55nagkakuha,
17:56nagihimo lang,
17:57igagaw-igagaw,
17:58kay,
17:59taming-taming,
17:59tabon-tabon,
18:00kay pareho,
18:01nagkapelido ang mama,
18:03mahimong,
18:03ganang kaslo ng parehog apelido,
18:05yes,
18:05ang parehog apelido,
18:08mahimong kaslo,
18:09kay tungod,
18:10kay ang gitanao,
18:11rigyudani,
18:11ang gibasihan,
18:12na ginatitong itong balaod,
18:13consanguinity,
18:15dili ang parehog apelido,
18:17so,
18:17kung panalitan,
18:18matrace,
18:19na,
18:20igagaw-tagutlo,
18:21tagupat,
18:22taglima,
18:23fifth case na,
18:25unya,
18:25parehog apelido,
18:26makasal,
18:27di hapo na,
18:27bisyan sa simbahan,
18:29kay consanguinity,
18:30lagi ang gitanao,
18:31ang kanakaduguan ba,
18:33kadugo ba,
18:34ang irrelasyon,
18:37kining consanguinity,
18:38ang dugo,
18:40ang kanang,
18:41kadugo nila,
18:42un sa kaduol,
18:43moto,
18:44first case,
18:44dili,
18:45mahimo nga,
18:46magbinyo,
18:47lainsabdiri nga legal nga,
18:49dili sa pwede magbinyo,
18:51mauang,
18:52kining,
18:53ikuan,
18:53sinagop,
18:54morigina,
18:55kanang legally adapted,
18:56no,
18:57paitan,
18:57magsoon sila,
18:58but,
18:59sarugo,
19:00dili,
19:00but legally,
19:01magsoon sila,
19:02kay legally adapted ang usa,
19:03dili,
19:04iya po na,
19:04mahimo magbinyo,
19:06so,
19:06kanang,
19:06igagaw,
19:07igagaw,
19:08mahimo na,
19:09kitabon-tabon lang na well,
19:11sa imuhang bana,
19:12kanibang,
19:14makita mo ko din mo,
19:15nga defensive na kayo ba,
19:16kanibang,
19:17ang iyahang,
19:20huwago ka bang utana,
19:21na ingo na ganyan nga,
19:22pariyo mo sila,
19:23apelido sa kong mama,
19:25nga,
19:25hindi pariyo ang apelido,
19:26hindi mahimo magkarelasyon,
19:28nga,
19:28magagaw-agaw ganda yun,
19:29bisag wala masubay,
19:31tuwagos Mindanao,
19:33possibly nga,
19:34inoon,
19:34kaliwat din rin sa Cebu,
19:35tingali,
19:36dili,
19:36mana imposible,
19:38but,
19:39kung tanahan ni mo,
19:39magmayo,
19:41masubayo ni mo,
19:43layo,
19:43naging tingali kayo,
19:44kawagod sila magkailag,
19:45o diya ako nagkailag,
19:46diya na,
19:46diya na sa opisina,
19:48no,
19:49kining,
19:50tuwagos Mindanao,
19:51niya ang maman,
19:52northern Cebu,
19:53so,
19:53isang pag,
19:54minguntag,
19:55na-trace sila,
19:56sixth na ba,
19:57sixth degree,
19:58no,
19:59oh no,
19:59sixth,
20:00kuwan na ba,
20:00kinikapitong igagaw,
20:03dili langgi hapo na,
20:04rason,
20:05o mahimong itabon nga,
20:07kinik,
20:08pwede na sila makasuod,
20:10magtawganay,
20:11nasa lagigagaw,
20:12pwede rin yun,
20:13magagaw,
20:13parhinti,
20:14but,
20:16lagi oraday kayo,
20:17no,
20:18it's more on culture na to,
20:20but,
20:20nagkamoderno man na tong panahon,
20:22doon na yung mga magagaw,
20:24nga tagurha,
20:25magagaw tagutlo,
20:26na,
20:27nagkaminyo,
20:28no,
20:28gitugtan sa both parents,
20:30okay naman sila,
20:32ang parents,
20:33kasi sinabot naman,
20:34wala nang nila napanong balingan,
20:36nga,
20:36kaliwat sila,
20:37so,
20:38okay na nila,
20:39which,
20:39legally,
20:40and sa simbahan sa katuliko,
20:42gitugot po di,
20:44nga,
20:45kining,
20:46sa itong,
20:47sa canon law,
20:48nga,
20:48mahimong magmenyo,
20:49so,
20:50so,
20:50mauna Wilma,
20:51una,
20:52pangutan na,
20:53imumban na,
20:54prangkahi,
20:55sa imuha mga observations,
20:57nga nung,
20:57nagsiginan na siya,
20:58over time,
21:00kunya,
21:01wala ka na yung makuha sa,
21:03kuhang,
21:03kining trabahoan,
21:05kani,
21:05imu ning buhaton,
21:07arundili na na,
21:08muslide further,
21:09o magkalaom pa,
21:11ang ilang relationship,
21:13no,
21:14so,
21:14ayokahadlok eh,
21:16asawa mang kakatungod ba na ni mo,
21:17no,
21:18kunya,
21:19so,
21:19unsawa man ni mo pagsakop,
21:21o pagpanyuan,
21:22panagsahan ni mo,
21:24yung gadto,
21:25madugayan,
21:26imu,
21:26ramginang masakpan na sila,
21:27no,
21:28basen pag masakpan ni mo,
21:29naghinungitay,
21:30o diba,
21:31nagkoptanay sa kamot,
21:33so,
21:34ayokahadlok,
21:35asawa mang ka,
21:36nili mangkaingung puyo-puyo lang,
21:38naka nagpuyo-puyo gani,
21:39mamugno pa mang gani ng,
21:40o bandiya,
21:41kung ilugan silang kapuyo,
21:42unsa nagagang asawa ka,
21:45where you're legally,
21:47kining,
21:48ah,
21:49dun ay katungod,
21:51sa imong bana,
21:52dun ay katungod,
21:52masayod sa imong bana,
21:54e first niya,
21:54tanan,
21:55based on finances,
21:56no,
21:57so,
21:57asawa mang ka,
21:58so,
21:59muna,
21:59pakaliti,
22:00panidi,
22:01panagsahan,
22:02makit masakpan na ka mang gina,
22:03kung tinuod man,
22:04na doon na sila ikuhan,
22:06so,
22:06kanang imong papangutan,
22:07warning niya na,
22:09so,
22:09ayaw giyod,
22:10pasagdahi,
22:11nga may tabo,
22:12nga,
22:12pasagdahi mong marriage,
22:14unya,
22:15kasagdahi mong ang kanil kausaban sa imong bana,
22:17unya,
22:18one day,
22:19makalit lang kaghigmata,
22:20nga suma sa kabilang bahay na,
22:23ang imong asawa,
22:24kay wala ka,
22:25pangita o,
22:27paagi,
22:27nga imong mapugnan,
22:29ang imuhang bana,
22:31nga,
22:32makuwan ka,
22:33ganyang,
22:35ah,
22:38unya,
22:39ganyang,
22:39malikayan,
22:43nga dunay,
22:44may tabo,
22:44nga dautan,
22:45sa inyong kaminyo on,
22:47you have to assert your right,
22:49as a wife,
22:50not ni sarili,
22:51nga mangaway ka,
22:52sige sa imong bana,
22:54no,
22:54nga magnag na ka,
22:55maglamba ka,
22:56spultahan,
22:57panghagis na ka,
22:58ipalupad na ni mong plato,
23:00nga muragpulang suser,
23:02o diba gany,
23:03kineng,
23:04imo ng,
23:05imong ilabay ng mga sininas,
23:07imong bana,
23:07ayaw na po,
23:08dana,
23:08no,
23:09ipakita nga,
23:10disinti ka ng asawa,
23:12kalma ka ng asawa,
23:14dili ka bastos,
23:15wala ka mag-skandalo,
23:17that's a very good wife,
23:19nga,
23:19ma-appreciate sa imong bana,
23:21ma-appreciate sa lalaki,
23:23no,
23:24dili pa rin ng uban,
23:25nga,
23:26grabe nagid ka-skandalo,
23:27ma-turn off,
23:27nagsamot ang bana,
23:29ma-turn off,
23:29nagsamot ang laki,
23:31no,
23:31tungod sa iskandalo,
23:33so,
23:34wala naman tayo panahon,
23:35dilapas na ganita sa atong,
23:37atong luman nun,
23:38tambag ikonoy kulas,
23:40so,
23:41dagangking salamat,
23:42no,
23:42sa inyong pagsunod,
23:43inaot pa Wilma,
23:44na,
23:45doon na kay,
23:46na nakatabang ko,
23:47aning imong,
23:48suliran ka ron,
23:49nga giatubah,
23:50na,
23:50posibleng mahimong dako,
23:52kung,
23:52dilin ni mo mapuggan,
23:54sa sayong bahin,
23:56samtang sayo pa,
23:57wala pa'y daotang may tabo,
23:58sa inyong kaminyo on,
24:01inaot pa onda,
24:02so,
24:02kamong mga asawa,
24:04i-assert po,
24:05kamong mga bana,
24:05i-assert po na inyong katungod,
24:07ayaw pasagdi,
24:08na,
24:09doon na'y daotang may tabo,
24:11mabungkag,
24:12inyong kaminyo on,
24:13kay inyo lang ipasagdan,
24:14yung partner,
24:15kay na ikug mo,
24:16ayaw ka ikug,
24:17kay,
24:18legal man mo nga partner,
24:20dilin ma mo,
24:21ordinary yung partner,
24:22to dagang kang salamat,
24:25sa mga viewers,
24:26sa Super Balita Cebu,
24:27o Sunstar Cebu,
24:29dagang salamat,
24:31may hapon na itong tanan,
24:32thanks to God,
24:33it's Friday,
24:33mag-amping,
24:34sa inyong,
24:35pag-uli,
24:36sa tagsa-tagsa kabalay,
24:37tagsa-tagsa kadapit,
24:38itong mga,
24:39manguli sa probinsya,
24:40itong mabihay paglayo,
24:42God bless na itong tanan.
24:43Tebu.