Dear Chixie,
Ang akong problema kabahin sa akong boyfriend nga magsige og duda nga wala pa ko naka-move on sa akong ex. Nindot ang pagsugod sa among relasyon. Nagkaila mi sa usa ka dating app. I must admit ato nga time nga nagkaila mi, bag-o pami nagbreak sa long-term ex. I was rushing ato na time to meet someone para madivert akong attention gikan sa kasakit sa akong ex. Hinayhinay gyud kong nakamove on ug wala nagyud nisud sa akong hunahuna ang akong ex. Apan, nagsugod ang iyang pagduda dihang wala ko mosugot nga maglive in. Gikan man gud ko sa ingon ana nga setup sa akong ex, ug wala gyud ko kauyon. Unsaon man ni nako nga maora man og basehan na hinoon niya ang akong love nga wala ko mosugot sa iyang gusto.
Ang akong problema kabahin sa akong boyfriend nga magsige og duda nga wala pa ko naka-move on sa akong ex. Nindot ang pagsugod sa among relasyon. Nagkaila mi sa usa ka dating app. I must admit ato nga time nga nagkaila mi, bag-o pami nagbreak sa long-term ex. I was rushing ato na time to meet someone para madivert akong attention gikan sa kasakit sa akong ex. Hinayhinay gyud kong nakamove on ug wala nagyud nisud sa akong hunahuna ang akong ex. Apan, nagsugod ang iyang pagduda dihang wala ko mosugot nga maglive in. Gikan man gud ko sa ingon ana nga setup sa akong ex, ug wala gyud ko kauyon. Unsaon man ni nako nga maora man og basehan na hinoon niya ang akong love nga wala ko mosugot sa iyang gusto.
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00:30Oh
01:00Oh
01:07Hello everyone
01:15It's another tuesday today and of course, it's the last tuesday of the month of may
01:21Time flies so fast. You know may
01:252027 2025
01:35Our election our mother's day and the rest of the activities
01:54But apparently maybe some of the
02:24No
02:55Foreign
03:11Assurance
03:24Foreign
03:54Foreign
04:01I must admit
04:05I was fresh from a breakup
04:10I was rushing
04:24Foreign
04:26Hi nick, i'm sorry
04:31Oh
04:32Hello claire
04:33No problem
04:47Thank you
04:55Foreign
05:09Well
05:24Anything that you want
05:27Wow
05:28Anything good, huh?
05:30Of course
05:41Foreign
05:54Foreign
05:57I must admit
06:01And slowly
06:12However
06:25Foreign
06:41Huh
06:55Foreign
06:59You mean
07:14Foreign
07:25Foreign
07:41Foreign
07:55Foreign
08:14I didn't see this coming babe
08:24Foreign
08:40Foreign
08:54Foreign
09:19I feel like he is always insecure about the kind of relationship
09:23I had
09:32Foreign
09:45Clear
09:53Thank you so much claire and
10:04Thank you eric and charlie for always being
10:10For always
10:13Joining us no and giving life and bringing life to the story. Honestly
10:17Honestly
10:30I mean
10:47People you feel safe, however
10:55Girlfriend
11:17Foreign
11:21Happy watching
11:24Hello
11:34With your decision making
11:47Okay, I respect you
12:05I'm not saying
12:16That's the modern thing, you know
12:20Into it. No, we don't want to judge their decisions. But here
12:25They're not in the same boat boat, you know, sorry boat
12:34Can you see
12:35Claire just want to express that she doesn't want to be in a live-in setup again because she was once there
12:47Or
12:52Boyfriend wanted to level up the game just to
12:56Have that assurance
13:17Foreign
13:34But anyway
13:40Find another person
13:47Foreign
13:50Thank you for watching
13:54If you have
13:55Uh, can I put down your opinion with regards to this?
14:02I am boyfriend
14:16Foreign
14:44Lorraine, thank you for watching and
14:46Mamona Madera, thank you so much for joining us today, if you have something to share,
14:55go ahead and share your thoughts on this live stream so that we can honor Claire.
15:01Listen to what she has to say, if you're a partner, you're not alone.
15:06If you're a partner, instill what they want, listen to what they have to say.
15:11You shouldn't give up, even if it's your first time, don't give up.
15:15Don't give up, it's not enough if you don't love them.
15:19You can't move on, because it's hard for you to live in.
15:23There's an issue of trauma to the relationship, right?
15:27So, on our way back, we'll pause for a while, because it's almost 4.40 p.m.
15:33We'll take a break, and then speaking of relationship,
15:36because it's something that I didn't see it coming,
15:41in terms of how you respond to the showbiz news,
15:47when there's a reunion, when there's a gathering.
15:50If there is, and if there isn't, this is what we're going to talk about in today's showbiz news.
15:58♪♪♪
16:06Okay, so, the children of Marjorie Barreto and Dennis Padilla
16:12reached out to the children of Dennis' ex-partner.
16:18So, meaning to say, it shows the relationships that Julia, Leon, and Claudia have
16:25with their younger siblings.
16:28Of course, Dennis' former partner, Padilla,
16:32at the end of the day, we can see that they're all smiling and very happy.
16:36In fact, Julia's mother of the half-siblings,
16:43and the half-siblings of the Barretos,
16:46was very happy with the reunion.
16:49She saw that Dennis' ex-partner,
16:52and Marjorie, in the picture, seemed to have a good relationship.
16:56Here, I'm looking at Dennis here, but he doesn't seem to have one,
16:59and maybe that's why they're not okay with their father.
17:03But so far, it's a nice balance.
17:06It seems that Julia is okay with her half-siblings,
17:10and her mother, Dennis Padilla.
17:13So, that's good.
17:14Now, speaking of Julia, from this happy story
17:19that she met with her siblings,
17:21I'm intrigued now.
17:22Now, I want to ask Julia Barreto,
17:26now, speaking of her,
17:28there are a lot of rumors that haven't been confirmed.
17:31We are just saying that it's all over the news, right?
17:35It's all over, you know,
17:38people are asking if the relationship status of Julia Barreto and Gerald Anderson is true,
17:45because there are a lot of pictures of Julia,
17:50and Gerald.
17:52In fact, from our research,
17:57we found out that they just bought it together.
18:05So, they just bought it together.
18:09Though, actually, for me,
18:12even though they were intrigued,
18:15and even though they proved that they didn't have an affair,
18:18but for this time,
18:19for news sources to actually ask the question,
18:26if are they okay,
18:27there must be something good, right?
18:29Because they haven't seen each other for quite some time already,
18:33and of course,
18:34people are different.
18:35The basis of my current relationship with my partner is Instagram.
18:40If they post like this,
18:41if they don't post like this,
18:43they're not together anymore, right?
18:44But what if you're just private?
18:46What if you tend to not show off your relationship?
18:49So, it's not up to you to judge if they're okay or not.
18:53But this post,
18:54according to Chari,
18:55I'll read it for you,
18:57the post that we flashed earlier was from March 7,
19:00and if not mistaken,
19:02March 7 is Gerald Anderson's birthday.
19:05So, that's the last photo.
19:06Where were we?
19:07We were in May, and now we're in June.
19:10So, those are the last photos together.
19:12Now, if they're okay,
19:13if they're not okay,
19:15we don't know.
19:16I'm sure that during the wedding of Claudia,
19:19Gerald wasn't there.
19:21During Claudia's wedding,
19:23but this is a controversial wedding,
19:25Gerald wasn't there.
19:26Some people are saying,
19:28because he's shooting a project,
19:30that's why he's not there.
19:31It's okay, it's a valid reason.
19:33But, from this point on,
19:36are they still together?
19:37Don't worry.
19:37They can still be together.
19:39So, this is my last confirmation with regards to this.
19:43At the end of the day,
19:44what can you say about their love life?
19:46Because they are public figures,
19:48they are celebrities,
19:49and of course,
19:50there are a lot of people you can say goodbye to.
19:54So, what I can say is,
19:57I don't think I can directly conclude.
20:00There are a lot of people who delete their pictures.
20:02They can just archive it,
20:04but there's no proof that they deleted it.
20:06There are others who...
20:07There's a hide setting,
20:08I'm not sure, on Instagram,
20:10but maybe in some way,
20:12you can archive it.
20:13You can hide it in the timeline,
20:15but it's okay, right?
20:18It's okay, right?
20:19If it's on Facebook,
20:20it's only me, right?
20:21I'm the only one.
20:23But for me,
20:24if they are still together,
20:26well, then it's good.
20:27If they are not together,
20:28it's for them to tell the world, right?
20:31But for now,
20:32these are all rumors.
20:33So, I haven't confirmed anything yet
20:35because they haven't reacted yet.
20:37I'm just going to wait
20:39until the time is right.
20:42However,
20:43I'm not going to hide it.
20:44If it's a rumor,
20:46I'm going to hide something.
20:48So, rumor has it
20:50that something is wrong,
20:52but let us not conclude
20:54unless otherwise stated, okay?
20:57So, let's conclude
20:59unless otherwise stated.
21:00So, for now,
21:01this is what I'm afraid of.
21:03This is what I call
21:04waiting for the next episode.
21:06This is the time
21:07when we'll see
21:09if they react or not.
21:11But I'm just shocked
21:11if they post more pictures
21:13because we're looking for more pictures, right?
21:16But so far,
21:18let's leave it there
21:19and let's leave it hanging.
21:20Sian Gasa is going to pick up the chicken.
21:23He's going to pick up the chicken.
21:25He's going to pick up
21:26the legit sources, right?
21:28I'm going to pick up Oji Dias.
21:30He's going to pick up
21:31all the good stuff, right?
21:34He's going to pick up the main sources.
21:36But let's see
21:37because honestly,
21:38this is not the first time this year
21:40that I've heard that they've posted more pictures.
21:42But for now,
21:43it's just too much
21:44because you're wondering
21:47what's the point of posting more pictures.
21:49Okay, so,
21:50well, let's wait
21:52and let's wait for Julia to speak out
21:54or Gerald to speak out
21:55for that matter.
21:56Okay, anyway,
21:57let's go back to our story
21:58because this should be the solution
22:00for all of us.
22:02Because
22:04at least, if you're in a relationship
22:06who doesn't understand
22:07the trauma you've been through,
22:10who doesn't understand
22:12that you went on to
22:15or you have a fear
22:16or you have an instillation
22:18that once you live in
22:19because you don't have an assurance, right?
22:22That you're going to regret it.
22:24Right?
22:24That's the problem.
22:29The sense of comparison.
22:31It's when
22:32the boyfriend starts comparing
22:34that that became an issue.
22:36I don't know, Sad,
22:37if you can open up to Claire.
22:39Because Claire is the type of person
22:40who is very extrovert.
22:41Anything under the sun.
22:43Randomly.
22:44You're crazy, babe.
22:45I'm not the one who started it.
22:47She's the one who started it.
22:49You're crazy, babe.
22:50I'm the one who started it.
22:52I'm not the one who started it.
22:53We've been together for a long time.
22:54We've been together for a long time.
22:54We've been together for a long time.
22:55We've been together for a long time.
22:55We've been together for a long time.
22:56But your babe
22:58is the one who started it.
22:59Oh, my God.
23:00You're comparing your ex, right?
23:02So, how can I level up the game
23:05so that you can get through the phase?
23:07I think, Claire, we also have to
23:09assess ourselves.
23:11What kind of partner are we to our partners?
23:13How did your insecurity grow?
23:15It's like
23:17people are insecure
23:19if they don't have a basis.
23:21I'm not saying that it's your fault.
23:23Obviously, your partner
23:25doesn't have a sense of respect
23:27to your decision.
23:28But what led him to that?
23:31First of all,
23:32what led him to the feeling
23:34that he felt
23:36that you're still in love with your ex?
23:38What about
23:40the stories that I shared
23:42that led him to conclude
23:44that you're still in love with your ex?
23:46Right?
23:47So, I think we have to be careful.
23:50We are open to our partners
23:52as we should be.
23:53Because as they say,
23:54the foundation of a strong relationship
23:56is friendship.
23:57And it's when you become friends,
23:59you get along,
24:00you bond better,
24:02you can talk about anything
24:03under the sun.
24:05However,
24:06there are boundaries.
24:08Whatever we say
24:10cannot hurt our partner
24:11or cannot hurt their egos.
24:13Because their ego
24:14has the feeling
24:16that you shared
24:18that you lived in each other.
24:20So, you feel like,
24:21let's just live in each other.
24:22Because you also understand
24:23that if you live in each other,
24:25let's live in each other.
24:26But you rejected him.
24:28So, you feel like,
24:29let's just live in each other.
24:31Honestly,
24:32everyone has their own ego.
24:34And I think he has his own ego.
24:36He has his own ego.
24:37He has his own ego.
24:39He feels like,
24:40oh,
24:42so,
24:43even if I reject him,
24:44I won't answer him.
24:45But if your ex answers you,
24:46will you be in love with him?
24:47I won't be in love with him.
24:50I think it's very important
24:51that you ask him
24:53what are the reasons
24:56why he mentioned your ex.
24:59Because I believe
25:00that he already has his own mind.
25:03People can already guess
25:05because it's already in them.
25:07Because if your ex doesn't matter to you,
25:09you won't be jealous.
25:10You won't mention him.
25:12You won't be like,
25:13excuse me,
25:14wow, I'm full.
25:17Are we live?
25:18Oh, my God.
25:19I'm shy.
25:23This is an effect, guys.
25:26I'm so sorry.
25:28Oh, my God.
25:29Wow.
25:30You're not a girl anymore.
25:31Did you wear a headband when you were young?
25:35Sorry for the acidic person.
25:38Anyway.
25:42Okay.
25:43I don't want to post this.
25:44It's embarrassing.
25:46Bloopers.
25:47Okay, let's go live.
25:48Let's go live.
25:53Let's go live
25:54on Sunstar.
25:55There are a lot of natural effects.
26:00You're not a girl anymore.
26:01Anyway.
26:02Let's go back.
26:04Again.
26:05Let me tell you
26:06that you need to open up.
26:10Annie, how will you fix this?
26:12Talk.
26:13Talk.
26:15You need to talk
26:16and then you lay down everything.
26:18You have to ask him,
26:19babe, are you serious?
26:20How did you know
26:21that I love my ex?
26:23How did you know?
26:25How did you know
26:26that I love my ex, babe?
26:28How did you feel
26:29that I love my ex?
26:31How did you feel
26:32that I love my ex?
26:34How did you feel
26:35that I love my ex?
26:36And in this case,
26:38you need to ask,
26:39do you really need to?
26:41How did you know?
26:43Because people
26:44don't get jealous easily.
26:47It's a root cause.
26:49It's a root cause
26:51that led him to conclude
26:55that he's not enough for you.
26:58So, you need to ask.
26:59Now, second,
27:00you have to tell him,
27:02babe, there's a reason
27:03why I don't want to live anymore.
27:05I'm tired.
27:06I have fears in my life
27:08and I want an assurance
27:10that this will lead to somewhere.
27:13I want to know
27:14that you're sincere with me
27:16that you love me
27:17and I don't want to go back.
27:19I'm not saying
27:20that I won't move on.
27:21I'm not saying
27:22that I don't have trust in you.
27:23I just want you to know
27:25that for now,
27:26I can give you space.
27:29Though we can be intimate
27:31as partners,
27:32we're not to the extent
27:34that we can be together.
27:37This time,
27:38I want you to know
27:39that I have high respect
27:41for our relationship.
27:42And this is my way
27:43of telling you
27:44that when we're ready,
27:45we can be together.
27:46We can be together.
27:47But for now,
27:48I'm not ready yet.
27:49And I don't want you
27:50to compare yourself
27:52with my past
27:53because at first,
27:54we had a high relationship.
27:56But now,
27:57we're still learning
27:58each other's characters.
28:00We're still trying our best
28:01to get to know each other.
28:03And do not compare my love.
28:06Because now,
28:07you're the one choosing me.
28:08Now, you're the one
28:09who's choosing me.
28:10Now, you're the one
28:11who's choosing me.
28:12Do you understand?
28:13Because
28:14we don't have
28:15an assurance yet.
28:16For me,
28:17we need to let
28:18our partner feel
28:19that they also are
28:21acknowledged.
28:22They're also admired.
28:24They're also loved.
28:26And of course,
28:28part of it is
28:29knowing their love language.
28:30What type of love language
28:32does your boyfriend want
28:34from you?
28:35Because
28:36you don't have
28:37that feeling yet.
28:38You don't have that feeling yet.
28:39You're like,
28:40I don't have a boyfriend.
28:41I'm just a boyfriend.
28:42But maybe that's not enough.
28:43So,
28:44you have to let him feel
28:45that way.
28:47Assurance,
28:48and then talk,
28:49and then let him understand.
28:50And always tell him,
28:51when you go out,
28:52say,
28:53babe, let me understand
28:54how much you're angry
28:56that I won't move on.
28:57What did I do wrong
28:59that led you to feel that way?
29:01Because if it's like this,
29:02I will change it.
29:03And if it's like this,
29:04I want to say sorry.
29:06Because
29:07as long as
29:08you as a partner,
29:09as a girlfriend,
29:10when you're offended,
29:12you just let it happen.
29:13You're just like,
29:14it's full now,
29:15just let it go.
29:16You're just like,
29:17you're angry,
29:18and you're angry.
29:19And you don't let it go.
29:20One month ago,
29:21two months ago,
29:22you just let it happen.
29:23And you're like,
29:24you're angry,
29:25you're angry,
29:26you don't want to let it go.
29:28Because there are some partners
29:29who can hold on to their emotions.
29:31Once it bursts,
29:32it's already there.
29:33It's already alive.
29:34So,
29:35when you feel that,
29:36when you feel that
29:37insecurity is just rubbish,
29:38you tell him,
29:39babe,
29:40let me understand,
29:41Wear this outfit, for example, your ex-boyfriend is here,
29:45your ex-boyfriend is there, you match each other,
29:47but you don't, because you don't listen to him.
29:49So what are you doing, subconsciously, unconsciously?
29:52I'd rather see if you're the one who built up his insecurities.
29:58Don't fight with him.
29:59I'm just trying to tell you that you also have to ask,
30:02whatever made him insecure in the past,
30:05what led him to this point?
30:07Because I don't see it like,
30:09it's just that you can't live with the same reason?
30:12No, I feel like there's a deeper reason,
30:14and that is your assignment for now.
30:17What is the deeper reason?
30:19How do you want your boyfriend to feel?
30:22How do you want him to conclude that you love your ex more than him?
30:26And we get to know our partner, that's the most important thing.
30:30In order to know our partners, we have to talk.
30:33Talk, don't fight.
30:35Talk, calmly explain.
30:38Because if you really want to fix the relationship,
30:41it's not one way, it's always,
30:43it's not just one person, rather, not one person,
30:46but two people who wants to work it out.
30:49For sure, you'll be hurt if you hurt him.
30:53Meet halfway.
30:55And if it doesn't work out,
30:58if he just built up his insecurities because he is always insecure,
31:01then I don't see the point of staying in a relationship.
31:06We are assured of the love that we give,
31:10and so we are assured of the partner of the love that we could give to them.
31:15But I think it's important that one way or another,
31:18even if you already have an affair,
31:20always let your partner feel the assurance
31:24that you respect them, you love them,
31:27you're honest to them,
31:29because if not, you'll forget.
31:31So girls, there's a tendency to forget,
31:34to forget the feelings of guys.
31:37So we also have to be sweeter,
31:40be kinder.
31:42We are not perfect individuals.
31:44At times, we forget where we're going.
31:47And don't let them feel insecure.
31:50Because every time you said you're going to have an affair with Nick,
31:54you mentioned John,
31:56you're the one who doubted that you've moved on.
32:00And as the song goes,
32:02let's not bring the past back anymore.
32:08It's a learning experience,
32:09but you don't have to stay in that zone.
32:12You have to move forward.
32:14So that you can grow deeper
32:16and your current relationship will flourish.
32:21And therefore, I conclude.
32:24Thank you so much for listening.
32:26I hope you got it.
32:28I hope Canon got it.
32:30He posted it.
32:32He gave me advice.
32:33He's the one who rephrased my grammatical error.
32:36Mr. Chair,
32:38I don't have much time because it's 4.58.
32:41But thank you so much.
32:42Jerry Depulsa, hello.
32:44Feliana, hello.
32:46Thank you so much.
32:47And to those who are watching now,
32:48thank you, thank you so much.
32:50And to you, Claire,
32:51I hope you can fix your relationship
32:53because you can.
32:56You can fix it.
32:57The element of your relationship
33:00that you want to fix,
33:01there will always be communication
33:03and comprehension.
33:05And that's it.
33:06Communication and comprehension, right?
33:08And when you don't know how to communicate,
33:11how to comprehend,
33:12how to answer,
33:13those are the important elements
33:14for you to get.
33:15And that should be applied to every one of us.
33:17Whether or not romantic relationship,
33:19work relationship,
33:20or you're just friends with your best friend
33:24or whoever you're with.
33:25Thank you, thank you so, so much.
33:27It's 4.58.
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33:54Until next Tuesday.
33:55Thank you so much.
33:56Take care.
33:57I'm DJ Chixie.
33:59Till next Tuesday.
34:00God bless.
34:01And have a great Tuesday.
34:03I keep repeating Tuesday.
34:05I keep repeating.
34:07Have a great evening ahead.
34:10It's almost evening.
34:12It's already 5 o'clock.
34:13Okay.
34:14Bye everyone!
34:15Bye!