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00:00I've just fallen in love with someone from a different country.
00:11Everyone thinks it's our holiday romance.
00:13Well, he's so hot.
00:16I'm about to fly out to Brazil for love.
00:20As soon as I say Ali, my heart just melts.
00:24Ah!
00:27I've been on my own for a long time now.
00:29I've sort of given up on the idea of finding love.
00:33In the Gambia, it feels romantic.
00:35When I'm in England, then reality hits me.
00:39Disgusting.
00:41I'm so sorry.
00:42You'd rather game than speak to your wife.
00:44Well, let me breathe.
00:48Oh, you're earthy.
00:49Mate.
00:51What the?
00:52This court.
00:56You're actually crazy, Sean, and you don't do that.
00:58There is hope.
01:00Oh, God.
01:02She's gonna need some real British sausage.
01:05I don't like this.
01:08It's true love.
01:09We make the Titanic.
01:11You love more dance or my friend?
01:14Why is everyone so worried about the dancing?
01:17Ara's gonna move to the UK.
01:19I thought you will stay here.
01:21Break it.
01:22I just want everyone to be happy.
01:25I don't know how to show affection the way that you want.
01:30Will you marry me?
01:31You need to grow up to go.
01:42I'm an evil genius.
01:45Today, I'm meeting Ara's mom.
01:48I want to marry your daughter.
01:50You want to marry my daughter?
01:51You're proposing already?
01:53I'd like, with your permission, I would like to.
01:55Not yet.
01:56I'm disappointed.
01:57I don't know where we go from here.
01:59And straight at me.
02:00Come in, my king.
02:02I'm real.
02:03Could I do this day-to-day?
02:04The answer is definitely not.
02:06What are your reservations?
02:07These are my kids.
02:08My sister's gonna tell him things that he doesn't want to hear.
02:12I think Sunday would like to have more kids with you.
02:16Really?
02:17That's a surprise to me.
02:18We've had some ups and downs on this caravan trip.
02:22But I just want us to be in a good place.
02:24Because I'm not in Turkey for long.
02:28Sorry.
02:31Now we're at the end of the trip.
02:33I feel like I could go caravanning again.
02:36It's been a good night.
02:37Absolutely.
02:38Absolutely.
02:38I'm Sarah.
02:59I'm 31.
03:00And I'm from Kent.
03:02I'm exhausted already.
03:03I'm a photographer and videographer.
03:07But I've got so many hobbies.
03:12I love to climb.
03:15I also run.
03:17I dance, bachata and salsa.
03:22I'm quite an active person.
03:33Whenever I'm not working,
03:42I try and catch up with my really good friend, Cassia.
03:45I love her to pieces.
03:47You like my selection.
03:49I chose it specifically for you.
03:52Because I'm a porn star.
03:54That's really, really inappropriate.
03:56Cheers.
04:00Salute.
04:01Thank you for my drink.
04:03I'm poor now.
04:05Where do we next eat Marco?
04:07I'll be going to Italino in a couple of weeks.
04:09Good on you.
04:10He's a couch.
04:11He is a couch.
04:12Literally fish and water.
04:14But one of those rare fishes that you can't find.
04:17Yeah.
04:17Only in Italy.
04:19I'm in a relationship with an Italian man called Marco.
04:22And if it wasn't for Cassia, we wouldn't be together.
04:27I'd just come out of a difficult relationship
04:29and I was feeling quite down.
04:32Cassia, she just said, come with me to Italy.
04:36We're going to have the best time.
04:37Hot girl summer.
04:39Come on, let's go.
04:42I went out on the holiday thinking, no, no men.
04:45Not my type.
04:46I don't really like Italian men.
04:50We went to a local lake.
04:52Near Rome.
04:54And Cassia said, well, who is your type?
04:56And I pointed at this tall, dark, handsome man.
05:01If I could have a dream.
05:03From the moment I saw Marco, I completely fancied him.
05:06He's so attractive.
05:09Not too perfect.
05:10A little bit scruffy.
05:12But still looks after himself.
05:14Just really a beautiful human being.
05:17Little did we know, Marco walked into the lake and said, by the way, I speak English and I heard everything that you said.
05:29And the rest is history.
05:33I extended my holiday and I'm really happy that I did.
05:37We went on our first date.
05:42He took me around Rome.
05:44We went on beautiful walks.
05:47And it was just so magical.
05:48He told me he loved me the first two weeks.
05:53I waited, but I felt it.
05:56But I didn't allow myself to tell him that early.
06:00I have a really big barrier when you first meet me.
06:06But it only took me a few weeks to totally fall in love with Marco.
06:10And I'd never felt that about anyone before.
06:14Yeah, we're engaged.
06:16No, you're not.
06:17Yeah, we are.
06:18No, you're not.
06:22Look at your face.
06:26I can't tell if this is a joke.
06:27No, it's not a joke.
06:28Marco proposed to me three months ago.
06:35Mate, I can't believe you've kept this a secret for so long.
06:37Jeez.
06:38Oh, I'm sorry.
06:39Yeah.
06:40But I needed to wait.
06:43Because I needed to tell my parents.
06:47But they still don't know.
06:52No one knows because I was kind of hoping that Marco might ask my dad's permission to marry me.
06:59But he hasn't done that yet.
07:06I have really high hopes with Marco.
07:09Because I feel like we're really compatible.
07:11And he seems like a really lovely, loyal man.
07:14Yeah.
07:16Hello.
07:17How are you?
07:19I'm good.
07:19How are you?
07:20Do you miss me?
07:22Yeah, I miss you a lot.
07:24Oh.
07:26It's really weird without you.
07:29Yeah, I know.
07:30I don't like it at all.
07:31But I'm coming to Italy soon, so...
07:34Yeah, I really can't wait to see you and hug you and kiss you.
07:39Yeah, me too.
07:40I feel like there's something missing when you're not here.
07:43There's a part of me that's missing.
07:46What did you do today?
07:47Um...
07:49I've just been working a lot.
07:57From my experience, the guys in Italy are a little bit more jealous than in England.
08:02When I go out with my friends, he really doesn't like it.
08:13OK.
08:15All right, I'll call you later.
08:17OK.
08:18All right, love you.
08:20Love you too.
08:21Love you, bye.
08:22Bye.
08:22Bye-bye.
08:23Bye-bye.
08:32I need to talk to Sandra about her sister's bombshell at the family barbecue last night.
08:47Go to my rooftop.
08:49So, I booked a really nice place by the river where no one in her family can interrupt.
08:57How are you feeling?
08:59Fun.
09:00I was a bit sad last night.
09:02And I feel like the relationship took a bit of a step back.
09:07Because you left me drowning when I asked you, please stay.
09:11I don't know these people.
09:12I don't understand Portuguese.
09:14Honey, but we are together for two years.
09:16You're supposed to run for two years.
09:18And that's what Heloisa said.
09:20But I needed you.
09:21You didn't try, honey.
09:22I'm sorry to say that.
09:23I was scared.
09:26I'm not supposed to be around you all the time.
09:29I wasn't asking you to babysit me.
09:31Yeah.
09:32You won that.
09:33You said all the time, come here, come here, sit here.
09:37You need to be brave around my family.
09:39It's not so hard.
09:42It's hard.
09:42No, it's not.
09:43It's hard.
09:44My family trying to be so nice and try to talk to you.
09:48And you just sit on the sofa.
09:50I felt ambushed when I met Heloisa.
09:53I felt like I was being told off, like a naughty child.
09:57What did she say?
09:58She has a lot of doubts about our relationship, and everyone in your family thinks the same.
10:06And that's troubling.
10:09She also said that you want more kids.
10:16Yes.
10:19Yes.
10:21I said that this before, that I want five kids.
10:27When I was young, yes.
10:29I have never been driven to have kids in the same way as some people are.
10:35Why you don't want children?
10:36My parents split up when I was young, and I would never want to put them through that.
10:43And also, there's enough children in the world for people to take care of.
10:46Do you think this is going to work?
10:48Because I have two kids.
10:51I could never be their stepdad.
10:53And I think you know that, too, deep down.
10:55Yeah.
10:57Why can't I just be a role model, that kind of thing, rather than stepdad?
11:02If you come and live with me, it's not going to be the way you think.
11:06Like, something can happen.
11:08Yeah.
11:08And I need to go out and leave my kids with you.
11:11I, yeah, that, I know that.
11:13You need to spend more time with my kids and take care of them sometimes.
11:19I am saying I am open to these things.
11:22What more can I give you?
11:24Honey, words, it's just words.
11:27So actions speak louder.
11:30And you don't like that.
11:32You really don't.
11:33Wow.
11:34Really, I'm sorry.
11:40I know he does someone, children.
11:43I know he doesn't want to be my kid's stepfather, but I really love him.
11:48And I want him to be around me and my family and prove everyone that this can work.
11:55I know he does someone, but I don't like that.
12:15Nervous.
12:15Nervous.
12:16Shannon is my first girlfriend I ever first introduced met my family it is really really
12:28big deal I really want to make a good first impression I know how important Methe's family
12:43is to him I'm pretty proud of myself for being out to speak to them a little bit I spoke too soon
13:04let's say I need your help over here we see your life in England Liverpool he said if you can come
13:28Istanbul we will be happy so much Methe's family say they want us to live close but we're still not
13:35sure where we want to be yet I feel like I'm getting grilled a little bit here
13:51if my family don't like the Shannon it is really difficult for me it is making me upset
14:13my family is my everything Shannon is my everything this is really important
14:25ee baba ne dĂŒĆĂŒnĂŒyorum Shannon hakkında
14:29valla hoĆ kız oÄlum iĆte ne bileyim sen sevdiysen de gĂŒzellik sizi gĂŒzellikten
14:37daha ziyade ne böyle yoksa vakit mi geçiriyorsunuz yani bizim I don't know what Methe's talking
14:47to his dad about things are starting to feel a little bit tense in here
14:52What
15:09have you
15:13what
15:16what
15:17One, two, three.
15:24I'm having the best time with Arat.
15:27She's shown me around her city and she's shown me her culture and what life is like for her here.
15:33This is what we call balut, unhatched egg.
15:37When we're together, there's no boring hours or minutes.
15:41My stomach has hurt the past few days because we're always laughing about something.
15:45They believe unhatched egg makes your knee strong.
15:50It's very specific.
15:52I know what I'm feeling for you and that we do have the same feeling for each other.
15:58I hope so.
16:02Tagay.
16:03Tagay.
16:06So who am I meeting today?
16:08My best friend, Erica.
16:10She cares a lot about me.
16:12Okay, so she's going to be judging me?
16:14She's going to be a judger.
16:15Don't worry.
16:16She's less scarier than my mom.
16:19What if she doesn't approve of me?
16:21Just a yes and yes situation.
16:23There's no no.
16:25I'm feeling quite nervous because I know how important Ara's friends and family's opinion is to her.
16:31My chat with Ara's mom didn't go exactly to plan.
16:35So I'm hoping my chat with Erica today will go better.
16:38Hi.
16:39Hi.
16:39Hi.
16:39Hi.
16:40Hi.
16:42Okay, so Andy meet my best friend Erica.
16:45Hi.
16:45It's nice to meet you.
16:46This is Andy.
16:47Nice meeting you.
16:48I heard a lot of things about you.
16:51You too.
16:52Andy, why do you come here in the Philippines?
16:56To meet Ara.
16:57To know if she's real, I guess.
16:59Why are you seeking love here in other countries?
17:02I had some bad experiences with women in the UK and I was in hospital a lot when I was
17:09a child and I had lots of Filipino nurses and they were always the nicest, most amazing
17:14nurses.
17:15So I thought, why not look to the Philippines?
17:19When we started talking, she made me laugh so much and she was so funny.
17:24Do you think she's a clown?
17:26Yeah.
17:27Free clown.
17:28Ah, okay.
17:30Andy looks like a bit frustrated because Erica is quite intense.
17:35I need to go to the toilet.
17:36Okay?
17:36Okay.
17:37Okay.
17:37Wait a minute.
17:38Okay.
17:38I'm not sure how much Erica likes me, but now I've got a chance to chat to her alone,
17:42I'm going to make sure she knows how serious I am about Ara.
17:45I know I've only known Ara a very short time, but I can't explain it, but I really do love
17:51her.
17:52Okay.
17:52Ara is very important to me and to her family.
17:55I know that.
17:56What are your intentions about Ara?
17:59I really want to be with her for the rest of my life.
18:01Okay.
18:02But please don't rush anything.
18:05Just take your time to know each other.
18:09Take it slow.
18:11I know you and her family are worried about me, but my intentions are real.
18:15I really do love her.
18:16Before I leave the Philippines, I'm going to propose and I want to spend the rest of my
18:21life with her.
18:21And it's just that it's too fast.
18:25Married life is very different.
18:27Everything is changed.
18:29Don't rush anything and don't rush.
18:31Just enjoy your relationship.
18:33I'm worried.
18:34She never met this guy.
18:36And I just want them to take it slow and there's no rush.
18:40I know that you're talking about me.
18:42What happened?
18:43Nothing.
18:44You didn't drill him?
18:46No.
18:47I know Erica thinks this proposal is a bad idea, but the more time I spend with Ara,
18:51the more determined I am to propose by the end of the trip.
18:54But I still haven't won her family over, especially her mom.
18:57And I need to make that right before I propose.
19:22Cuidado, vocĂȘ vai caindo.
19:24Essa aĂ eu vou dar uma campanha que vai continuar.
19:26NĂŁo inventa.
19:27Lisa, what's happening?
19:29Honey, can you please?
19:30Oh, oh, oh, okay.
19:31Oh, my Lord, really.
19:39This morning, Sandra and I had a bit of a falling out because her daughter and her were
19:43talking in Portuguese and I couldn't understand what was going on.
19:48It started out as what looked like just an argument that didn't involve me.
19:52But then I heard my name said in the midst of other things.
19:55And I didn't say your name.
19:57And I definitely heard Finn from someone.
20:00You didn't say your name.
20:03Okay.
20:03I was having an argument with my daughter and Finn wants to know what happened.
20:10I told him, I'm not okay right now.
20:13I need this time to myself.
20:15And he still wants to know this morning just happened something about my kids and me and I got angry.
20:27You was laughing.
20:28I wasn't laughing.
20:29Yes, you were laughing.
20:29But that's your version of a verse.
20:30No, no.
20:31This make me angry.
20:32I wasn't laughing about the situation.
20:34I was laughing because it got really awkward.
20:36You were shouting at me in front of your two kids in Portuguese.
20:40I was not shouting.
20:41I just want a little space and you know that.
20:45But when they're with your translate, asking my daughter what happened and I don't want you to know because I think it's not your business.
20:54It's something about me and the kids.
20:57And in that moment, I was not okay to talk to you.
21:02And when you came and started laughing about me, it made me more angry.
21:07Well, that's your version of events, but that's not what happened.
21:10Yes, I know.
21:10Because for you, everything's fine.
21:13But that wasn't what I was laughing at.
21:15Yeah, but in that time, it was like that.
21:17I'm sorry if it came across that way.
21:19Yeah, I accept my timing was wrong.
21:21But if I'm going to be part of this family, she needs to let me in.
21:24I take your point that it's not my business, but really, we're all part of the same unit.
21:30And so it is a big issue for me that I can't understand Portuguese.
21:35And I couldn't understand what was happening because I could see people were unhappy.
21:40And the laughing wasn't about the situation.
21:44The laughing was about how awkward it was then in that room.
21:48You're right.
21:48I should have waited longer when you were in your room.
21:50That's on me.
21:51But I guess the reason I wanted to know is because I felt a little bit excluded.
21:56I'm still the odd man out.
21:57And if I'm to move here, yes, I need to understand Portuguese.
22:01But I guess you also have to let me into your life.
22:05I'm trying to let you into mine.
22:07Maybe my life is simpler.
22:08It doesn't come with all these things.
22:11But really, I didn't mean to do that in the way that it came across.
22:15That wasn't my intention.
22:16That's never my intention.
22:17I'm sorry.
22:23Really.
22:24I'm so sorry.
22:25Sorry to you.
22:26I'm sorry.
22:27It's not a big thing.
22:29I think it's just language.
22:30Today has been the biggest waking up call you could have been given.
22:34We had an argument that could have been avoided just like that.
22:36And I think if there was ever a case to learn the language, it's now.
22:42I've got to learn Portuguese because this would never have happened.
22:46You have to.
22:47I love salsa and bachata dancing.
23:09With Marco not being around, I need to keep myself occupied.
23:13Out in Italy, when they do salsa and bachata, a lot of the time it is to meet someone.
23:24Whereas for me, it isn't that.
23:27I'm not sure that Marco understands it yet.
23:30When I started dancing, he'd go quiet.
23:34He'd go really cold and quiet.
23:36And I wouldn't hear from him until the next day.
23:41He's quite a jealous person.
23:43And that's a challenging thing.
23:45My name is Marco.
24:07I'm 37 and I'm from Rome.
24:09I lived in Rome for all my life.
24:12I'm really happy to live here.
24:15When I'm on the mountains or by the lake, I'm just in my happy place.
24:20I love to be outside.
24:22I really can't imagine to live anywhere else.
24:29I was not really looking for love, but as I met Sarah, I understood immediately that she was the one for me.
24:36The first thing that I noticed is a beautiful big smile.
24:39It went crazy when I saw that.
24:41Whenever I have free time, I really love to hang out with my closest friends, Fabio and Giovanni.
24:49How is it going with Sarah?
24:54Yeah, it's like I think I finally found the love of my life.
24:59She's in England at the moment, so I'm not really happy, but she will come in the next few weeks.
25:06For the rest, the little problem that we have, salsa, dance.
25:13Being in a long-distance relationship with Sarah is really hard.
25:16Because when you are not together, little thing can be a huge thing.
25:22She's still doing it.
25:23She's still doing it.
25:24Yeah, she did it also yesterday.
25:25She told me that...
25:26You know, you didn't sleep this night.
25:28I slept a bit less than usual.
25:30To know that she's danced with 15 men in a night and I'm sitting on the sofa.
25:36So I'm not happy about it.
25:38I need time to give my trust to people, so I really find it a bit tough to think that she's so close with someone.
25:48It causes a bit of jealousies from my side.
25:50I don't like my girlfriend that go to dance with other boys.
25:55Yeah, I thought the same.
25:58It really doesn't help hearing Giovanni have doubts.
26:02And I do find it hard, but I'm trying to be more open.
26:05It's just dancing in the end.
26:07It's just dancing.
26:08Yeah, it's like for you climbing.
26:10Fabio is my best friend.
26:12We grew up together.
26:14And at the start, I had some weird thoughts about Sarah's and Fabio relationship.
26:22I just felt that they were getting to know faster than me because his English was better and because they play chess together.
26:32So they have a lot of things in common.
26:35And so I felt quite jealous.
26:36She doesn't need to go dancing if she wants to cheat on you.
26:39Yeah, of course.
26:40Because we are still in different countries, it's really hard.
26:46You always doubt of the other.
26:48If I could get it in my way, I would just get married tomorrow so we can be together all the time.
26:55Cheers.
26:59Nikki and I met at dance class, and she knows me better than a lot of people.
27:06I haven't told her much about Marco yet, but she's really not one to hide her opinions.
27:11Haven't seen you for a bit. I feel like you've been in Italy quite a bit.
27:14How are things?
27:14Good. Me and Marco are really, really happy.
27:17We're really good, yeah.
27:19Things are going really well.
27:20What's it like culturally? Are there cultural differences between the two of you?
27:24I don't know many Italians, but the ones I do know, they're quite particular about food.
27:29For example.
27:30Oh, 100% a food snob, yeah.
27:32Would never eat a carbonara in Britain.
27:33Would never eat a carbonara in Britain.
27:36No, but it was a bit of a surprise when we first got together of how jealous Italians can be.
27:42Okay.
27:42He has had a jealous side.
27:44Okay, so he's been jealous.
27:47He has, yeah.
27:48There was a small situation with his best friend Fabio.
27:53Oh, okay.
27:55I was developing a friendship with Fabio at the same time I was developing a relationship.
27:59with Marco and I think he knew that I really liked funny guys and Fabio's hilarious.
28:05So I think he was just a bit like, uh-oh.
28:09Is he going to feel jealous about other friendships?
28:12He hasn't since then.
28:15Why would someone be jealous of their best friend?
28:18What did he think was going to happen?
28:20I don't know.
28:22Maybe it was just like, I don't know.
28:27Also, he was a little bit worried about the dancing thing.
28:31As in because he thought, like, you were dancing to pick someone up?
28:34Yeah.
28:35But then he's surrounded by people.
28:37For example, he's got a friend called Giovanni who would never let his girlfriend dance.
28:42Ever.
28:43Never let his girlfriend dance.
28:44Yeah, no.
28:45Okay.
28:46So he stepped back about 50 years.
28:47Yeah.
28:49The jealousy seems to come from nowhere and I'd find that really hard.
28:53Also, what else are they going to get jealous about?
28:55If you're in a relationship with someone where they don't like something you do, will that
28:59not affect you?
28:59Knowing that your, like, number one hobby, he doesn't really want you to do.
29:05He's never, ever stopped me dancing and I really appreciate that.
29:09You don't have to be thankful to your boyfriend.
29:11That's a normal human thing to do the things that you enjoy.
29:14I know.
29:15It's just, it doesn't sit well with me, this idea that you might be having your free time
29:22dictated by someone else.
29:24Sarah has had some bad experiences and people who've been sort of controlling and she hasn't
29:29always spotted that red flag.
29:31There is that worry that that might happen again.
29:33Don't let him do what people have done before where you stop doing as much and you go into
29:37yourself.
29:38There are people in the before who haven't added joy to your life.
29:43Mm-hmm.
29:43They've made you sad.
29:46We don't want that anymore.
29:48No.
29:48Please.
29:48No, I know.
30:08I recognize some of this.
30:13Sandra's taking me back to the orphanage where we first met 17 years ago.
30:17It's a sort of bittersweet feeling because it's also a place where there was a lot of sadness.
30:23Oh, it's a little bit weird to be here again.
30:32So you were here for?
30:34Yeah.
30:35What was that like?
30:37Yeah.
30:38It was not easier.
30:39Being without my mum and my father, the food was not good.
30:45The beans always have bugs inside.
30:48Really?
30:48And what would happen if you didn't eat the food?
30:52You're going to be hungry.
30:55It's been really difficult.
30:57When I was hungry, I ate fruit in the street.
31:01What would happen if you were seen?
31:02It was okay?
31:03No, they got angry.
31:05Oh.
31:07Listening to Sandra talk about some of the experiences she had in the orphanage.
31:10There's a lot of baggage.
31:11There's a lot of sadness.
31:13We have a lot of things to do, like crochet, I don't know.
31:17You had to make things?
31:18Yeah.
31:18And sometimes we have to paint, too, because the things we make here, they took to England to sell.
31:25That sounds so tough.
31:27Did you ever want to just run away?
31:29Yeah, one day I tried.
31:30Um, but I tried, I just went there, that tree, and then I got scared and come back.
31:37Did many people try and run away?
31:39Yes, a lot.
31:42For me, it's a little bit hard.
31:45Make me have a lot of memories.
31:48We don't have easy life in that time.
31:51But I met Finn there, and now he can understand a little bit why I'm so close to my family.
31:58Everything that happened in the past, I left in the past.
32:05And not everything here was bad, no?
32:09My symbol is always with me.
32:12Mm-hmm.
32:13When I was leaving their house with Nayara, Eloisa, and Elsa, when they turned 40, I think, they changed house.
32:26So it's me and Eloisa.
32:27Stayed together.
32:28Yeah.
32:29That's why you're so close.
32:30Yeah.
32:31The other day, I left the barbecue feeling annoyed that Eloisa was asking those questions in the way she was.
32:38But I actually get it.
32:39They're super protective for a reason.
32:41They've grown up in an incredibly hostile environment.
32:45And so she's very close to her family.
32:48And I'm not.
32:49I come from a family that didn't show much affection to each other.
32:56I didn't have a relationship with my dad growing up.
32:59He was absent for most of my childhood.
33:01Even before my parents split up, I didn't really see much of him.
33:06He was a father that possibly I can't put words into his mouth because he's dead.
33:10But I couldn't put words into my mouth even if he was here.
33:14I always got the sense that he didn't want to be near me.
33:19So I think there wasn't a huge amount of good in my child.
33:22I know that's quite dark, but it's also the truth.
33:25But it's nothing in comparison to what Sandra went through.
33:29And I know that now.
33:31Come in.
33:31I don't want to now.
33:33Yes.
33:33Come, come, come.
33:34Just be careful.
33:36Yeah, I will be.
33:39It's proper eerie, this.
33:42Uh-huh.
33:43It's sour.
33:45It's a bat.
33:47I'm more scared than you do.
33:49Go, honey.
33:50Don't push me in, though.
33:51Come on, babe, babe, man.
33:53Come on.
33:55Oh!
34:00No, thank you.
34:02Let's go.
34:04You can see from here.
34:08My bed was there.
34:10Oh, I remember.
34:12How many beds in one room?
34:14Eight.
34:15In that tiny room?
34:16Yeah.
34:17Wow.
34:18I can totally see why family's so important now.
34:21That's why Heloisa said the things she said.
34:24I get it.
34:27Oh, I guess I'm going to cry.
34:29Wow.
34:31I do.
34:31That's given me a lot of perspective.
34:35And maybe now that I'm aware of that, I need to just accept that there are going to be those
34:38questions asked of me.
34:40But I feel like now I'm beginning to become ready to answer some of them.
34:47Vote just stop.
34:50I've had enough.
34:50It's not even funny.
35:12That's the chicken.
35:13Mmm.
35:14It's so good.
35:14Try this.
35:16Ara's made it very clear to me that if I want to be with her, I need to be part of her family.
35:20So tonight, Ara has brought me out for a meal with all of her family.
35:24Let's have a toast for Andy.
35:26And thank you so much for meeting my family.
35:29Thank you so much, Andy.
35:30Thank you for welcoming me.
35:31Welcome to the loud family.
35:33It's our guy.
35:33It's our guy.
35:33It's our guy.
35:33It's our guy.
35:33It's our guy.
35:34It's our guy.
35:34It's our guy.
35:34It's our guy.
35:35It's our guy.
35:36It's our guy.
35:36It's our guy.
35:36So Andy, how do you find my family?
35:40I love it.
35:41You're very loud.
35:41Especially me.
35:42When I'm talking and talking, your face like this.
35:47Because I don't understand so fast.
35:49It's like a machine gun.
35:52I'm going to miss it when I go home.
35:54Your mom, like, speaks 300 words a minute and also manages to eat a bowl of noodles at the same time.
36:00I don't know how she does it.
36:01We're multitaskers.
36:03It's amazing.
36:04Now you're the part of the loud family.
36:06So you need to be loud.
36:07Okay.
36:08Yeah, yeah, you need to be loud.
36:10We're all getting along really well, but in the back of my mind there's something hanging over me and I'm feeling quite anxious.
36:19I don't feel so good.
36:20I'm going to go out for a minute.
36:22It's a little bit hot in here.
36:23The thought of leaving the Philippines without showing Ara how much she means to me is killing me.
36:31I do have a plan to propose to Ara tonight, but I still don't have mama's permission.
36:36What is going on?
36:41My mom just followed Annie outside.
36:44Is this a prank?
36:45I don't know what to think.
36:48I've got one more chance to get her mom's blessing.
36:51It's now or never.
36:53Annie.
36:54What?
36:54I know you told us to wait, but I can't leave the Philippines without asking Ara to marry me.
37:06And I can't do that unless I have your blessing.
37:10Oh, okay.
37:12So you're going to ask my daughter to marry you.
37:15She doesn't look convinced.
37:23Her heart is racing, but I'm not going to give up on this.
37:28I really love her.
37:32So you're asking me?
37:37Since I know you're better than before,
37:43I can say yes now.
37:46And I hope you will make my daughter happy.
37:51And I will give my blessing.
37:55Thank you, mama.
37:56Good luck.
38:00I'm over the moon that Ara's mom has given me her blessing.
38:02Now there's no going back.
38:04I'm super nervous, and I can't help but think,
38:06what if she says no?
38:08So, I like Andy a lot.
38:21And I hope that he gained your trust,
38:25not only you, but the family's trust.
38:27He's a nice guy.
38:29I can see it, but he's really serious about your relationship.
38:32Maybe I'm thinking that he wants to propose you.
38:39I don't think he will.
38:41It's too rushed.
38:46I can't believe my mom thinks that Andy will going to propose.
38:50That's crazy.
38:51We only just met.
38:52The way that I saw Andy's face is really serious.
38:57But it's up to you.
38:59I am not yet thinking about the proposal
39:01because I want to be physically and mentally ready
39:05for all of these things.
39:06Because it's so fast, we need to think about it a lot.
39:11Yeah, so fast.
39:13I'm loving to getting to know Andy,
39:14but I'm not sure if I'm ready to get married yet.
39:18I think I need to learn more about him.
39:21Let's just see where it goes.
39:43Evlenme teklif edeceÄim.
39:48I tell my dad,
39:52I am going to ask Shannon,
39:55will you marry me?
39:56I am looking what my dad say.
39:58I don't know.
40:01My dad wrote off me.
40:09I am here this.
40:11I am nearly nearly crying.
40:12Now, I know my family like the Shannon.
40:27My family supported me.
40:29And I am going to ask
40:33big question.
40:37I don't know what Mete was talking to his dad about
40:41in the kitchen.
40:42But the mood seems a lot happier now.
40:44Can you ask your dad,
40:46what was Mete like as a kid?
40:48Mete'nin yaramazlıklarını
40:51anlata anlata bitiremeyiz.
40:54It is impossible to be explained.
40:59Naughty.
41:00Don't worry, darling.
41:01Trust me.
41:02I am your future husband.
41:04Okie dokie.
41:14We sit this restaurant, darling.
41:16Cold outside.
41:18Okay, we sit drink coffee later.
41:20Go.
41:20If you want,
41:20we sit this boat.
41:23This one?
41:24Yeah.
41:24Let's go.
41:25Wait.
41:26It's not our boat.
41:28Come on.
41:28Really?
41:29Shannon thinks I am taking to her restaurant,
41:32but today is my propostal day.
41:37That's good.
41:39Why are we getting on a boat?
41:41You told me we're going to a nice restaurant.
41:44Move it, Captain.
41:45Let's go.
41:55The sun is shining
41:56and this view is incredible.
41:59It's so romantic for him to have booked this.
42:03It's such a great surprise from Mete.
42:05Cheers.
42:07Cheers.
42:09This view is beautiful.
42:10This is an amazing way to see Istanbul.
42:13Yeah.
42:14You are really cute.
42:17You're good at surprises.
42:19Yes, darling.
42:21We are sitting.
42:22We have some drinks.
42:23European side and Asian side.
42:26Where are we?
42:28On to the middle.
42:29Plan's going good.
42:31Let's we make the Titanic.
42:35Yeah, be careful.
42:37Yeah, maybe I am full here.
42:39Close your eyes.
42:44And...
42:45When we are going to the middle of the sea,
42:51I have a ring.
42:53I want to spend all my life together with you.
42:57Me too, darling.
42:58Oh, look at this.
43:00Really good.
43:01Will you marry me, baby, cock?
43:13Absolutely.
43:14I am happy as man on the world now because my girl said yes.
43:27It was always going to be a yes.
43:30I am really, really happy.
43:32Me too.
43:35Oh, be.
43:38We have a lot of plans.
43:46We want to get married.
43:47We want to move to Turkey.
43:50We want you to come to England, visit my family.
43:53Yeah.
43:55Yeah.
43:55The future looks good.
43:57You are with me.
43:58I am okay.
44:01I think we marry and we live in Turkey.
44:06Yeah.
44:09Summer's better.
44:10Weather better.
44:12Lifestyle better.
44:13Cheers.
44:14It's good.
44:38It's fun.
44:40Tracking through the wilderness.
44:42Who just thought, well, I thought I arranged it.
44:44The trip's coming to an end and I feel like it's got to go out on a bonanza.
44:48And I could be really selfish and just say,
44:50Alessandra, can you ask your sister to look after the kids?
44:53But I don't want to be.
44:55Part of embracing this lifestyle has to be embracing everything.
44:58It's nice.
45:00Whoa, whoa, whoa.
45:02Okay, mine's definitely going ahead.
45:04I'm not doing anything.
45:06Wow.
45:07You like?
45:08So, I've arranged for a horse trek on the outskirts of Brasilia.
45:12And let's see if we can do a fun thing together right here, right now.
45:16Whoa, here we go.
45:17Okay, so this is where...
45:20I didn't do...
45:21Sandra, can you tell Lorenzo it's not me, it's the horse?
45:25Lorenzo!
45:25He thinks I'm doing something.
45:27Lorenzo!
45:28My horse definitely does not like Lorenzo's horse.
45:31And I hope that does not reflect our relationship.
45:34Espera, espera, espera.
45:36That's not working.
45:37Don't be.
45:38I'm trying not to do it.
45:40Oh, my God!
45:42There's like a horse attack.
45:44My horse is definitely the most aggressive.
45:47Are you okay?
45:48Yeah.
45:49I feel like on this trip I've come full circle.
45:52It's a little too.
45:53Whoa, that's not going to work.
45:54This made me realise we can have good times together.
45:58Wow, that was fun.
46:00Did you enjoy that?
46:01Yeah, I love it.
46:02Do you think your kids enjoyed it?
46:03Of course.
46:07Wow.
46:10This is special.
46:12What do you think?
46:14Top five?
46:15Wow, yeah.
46:16Top five life experiences.
46:19Elisa, what do you think of this?
46:21You like?
46:21What do you think, Elisa?
46:23The Cachoeira.
46:24I think she likes the ice cream more.
46:26But this is pretty special.
46:29Yeah, I love it.
46:31You think they're a good stepfather?
46:34I'm just kidding.
46:36You think so?
46:37Yeah, yeah.
46:39What do you think?
46:40What do you think?
46:41What I've realised is sometimes having fun
46:44and staying in the moment is the only way you can live.
46:46And maybe it would be not that bad
46:49being a version of a stepdad.
46:51How do you feel after today?
46:54I really enjoyed this place.
46:56Thank you for choosing.
46:57You do a great job here.
47:00Really?
47:01Yes.
47:02The kids enjoy it here.
47:05Yeah, that's what was weird,
47:06because, like, I started this trip thinking,
47:08I definitely will never, ever want to be a stepdad, ever.
47:13But I kind of feel like I could do something similar.
47:17This trip seems to have sort of changed me
47:19more than I thought it would do.
47:21And now it's not only about you, it's about the kids.
47:23I feel like I've built some kind of bond with them.
47:26I didn't expect.
47:27But actually, you know, Elisa wanted to wash her hands
47:30and she chose me to go with her.
47:31You know, stuff like that, I didn't expect her like that,
47:34but there we go.
47:35You know what?
47:36I could see this working more than I thought it could
47:39at the start.
47:40I can see him trying to do things.
47:43And it's just now a question of working out
47:46the other bits and pieces,
47:48the big life decisions to be made.
47:50He really tried, and I really appreciate that.
47:53Every time he chose some place,
47:55he chose just for me and him.
47:57And this time, I can see that he tried to change a little bit
48:00and chose this place that my kids can enjoy.
48:03And I like that.
48:06I really don't want to go back, but I know I have to.
48:09When you go back to England,
48:11I want you to be like you were here.
48:14Communicate a lot with me, because you know I love this.
48:18And I know you're not so good on this.
48:21I'm sorry to say that.
48:23I just want you to call me more, send me a message.
48:29And we cannot be like this forever.
48:35Like, you live in England and you live in Brazil.
48:38Just see each other two times a year.
48:43You need to come here and see.
48:46Because being like this, you're just wasting time.
48:49And you know that.
48:53Okay.
48:54Let me think.
48:55Let me go away and think.
48:59A lot's happened in this time together.
49:02I just need to go away from the situation now
49:05in order to fully work out how I feel.
49:07There's a lot more to happen.
49:08I'm going to leave Brazil.
49:10And I have more answers than questions.
49:15But at the same time,
49:17there's a lot of decisions that need to be made.
49:20David!
49:23I don't know that.
49:26And I'm sad to be saying goodbye to Elisa and Lorenzo.
49:29They're actually not that annoying.
49:31Why are you marrying me?
49:48You haven't asked my dad to marry me.
49:51I have to think about it.
49:52It's not really something that makes me comfortable.
49:56I can't stay here a minute longer.
49:58I've got to go.
50:00I'm getting out.
50:01Yes.
50:03Abraham doesn't like me drinking.
50:07You have to try and stop dancing.
50:10Since I was last on the show,
50:11me and Ali got married.
50:13Visas, 10 grand.
50:16Or move to Turkey.
50:18This is a really important trip for me.
50:21I could be moving my entire life to Turkey
50:24so it all rides on this trip now.
50:31I'm going to be moving my entire life.
50:32I'm going to be moving my entire life.
50:33I'm going to be moving my entire life.
50:33I'm going to be moving my entire life.
50:33I'm going to be moving my entire life.
50:34I'm going to be moving my entire life.
50:34I'm going to be moving my entire life.
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50:36I'm going to be moving my entire life.
50:37I'm going to be moving my entire life.
50:37I'm going to be moving my entire life.
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50:38I'm going to be moving my entire life.
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50:39I'm going to be moving my entire life.
50:40I'm going to be moving my entire life.
50:41I'm going to be moving my entire life.
50:42I'm going to be moving my entire life.
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