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#90 Day Fiancé UK
#90 Day Fiancé UK
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00:00I've just fallen in love with someone from a different country.
00:11Everyone thinks it's our holiday romance, but he's so hot.
00:15I'm about to fly out to Brazil for love.
00:20As soon as I say Ali, my heart just melts.
00:27I've been on my own for a long time now.
00:29I've sort of given up on the idea of finding love.
00:33In the Gambia, it feels romantic.
00:35When I'm in England, then reality hits me.
00:39Disgusting.
00:41I'm so sorry.
00:42You'd rather game than speak to your wife.
00:44Well, lemon green.
00:48Oh, yeah, okay.
00:49Mate.
00:51What the?
00:52This girl.
00:56You're actually crazy, Sean, and you don't do that.
00:58There is pulp.
00:59Oh, God.
01:02She's gonna need some real British sausage.
01:05I don't like this.
01:08It's true love.
01:09We make the Titanic.
01:12You love more dance or my friend?
01:14Why is everyone so worried about the dancing?
01:17Ara's gonna move to the UK.
01:19I thought you will stay here.
01:21With me.
01:22I just want everyone to be happy.
01:25I don't know how to show affection the way that you want.
01:27Mom.
01:30Will you marry me?
01:35One kissy kissy.
01:35No.
01:36Is it kissy kissy kissy?
01:36No.
01:37It's bad.
01:38You need to grow up to go.
01:42I'm an evil genius.
01:43Today, I'm meeting Ara's mom.
01:48I want to marry your daughter.
01:50You want to marry my daughter?
01:51You're proposing already?
01:53I'd like, with your permission, I would like to.
01:54Not yet.
01:56I'm disappointed.
01:57I don't know where we go from here.
01:59I'm straight at me.
02:00Oh, my gosh.
02:02Could I do this day to day?
02:04The answer is definitely not.
02:05What are your reservations?
02:07It's all my kids.
02:08My sister's gonna tell him things that he doesn't want to hear.
02:11I think Sander would like to have more kids with you.
02:16Really?
02:17That's a surprise to me.
02:18We've had some ups and downs on this caravan trip,
02:22but I just want us to be in a good place,
02:23because I'm not in Turkey for long.
02:31Now we're at the end of the trip.
02:33I feel like I could go caravanning again.
02:35It's been a good night.
02:37Absolutely.
02:58I'm Sarah, I'm 31, and I'm from Kent.
03:02I'm exhausted already.
03:03I'm a photographer and videographer, but I've got so many hobbies.
03:13I love to climb.
03:15I also run.
03:17I dance, bachata, and salsa.
03:22I'm quite an active person.
03:31I'm a porn star.
03:41Whenever I'm not working, I try and catch up with my really good friend, Cassia.
03:45I love her to pieces.
03:46Do you like my selection?
03:48I chose it specifically for you.
03:51Because I'm a porn star.
03:55That's really, really inappropriate.
03:59Cheers.
04:00Salute.
04:00Thank you for my drink.
04:02I'm porno.
04:03Where do we next see Marco?
04:07I'll be going to Italy in a couple of weeks.
04:09Good on you.
04:10He's a couch.
04:11He is a couch.
04:12Literally fish and water, but one of those rare fishes that you can't find.
04:17Yeah.
04:17Only in Italy.
04:18I'm in a relationship with an Italian man called Marco.
04:23And if it wasn't for Cassia, we wouldn't be together.
04:27I'd just come out of a difficult relationship, and I was feeling quite down.
04:32Cassia, she just said, come with me to Italy.
04:36We're going to have the best time.
04:37Hot girl summer.
04:40Come on, let's go.
04:42I went out on the holiday thinking, no, no men.
04:45Not my type.
04:46I don't really like Italian men.
04:50We went to a local lake near Rome, and Cassia said, well, who is your type?
04:56And I pointed at this tall, dark, handsome man.
05:00If I could have a dream.
05:03From the moment I saw Marco, I completely fancied him.
05:06He's so attractive.
05:09Not too perfect, a little bit scruffy, but still looks after himself.
05:14Just really a beautiful human being.
05:17I'd have a dream of you, sweetheart.
05:21Little did we know, Marco walked into the lake and said, by the way,
05:26I speak English and I heard everything that you said.
05:31And the rest is history.
05:33I extended my holiday, and I'm really happy that I did.
05:40We went on our first date.
05:42He took me around Rome.
05:44We went on beautiful walks, and it was just so magical.
05:49He told me he loved me the first two weeks.
05:54I waited, but I felt it.
05:56But I didn't allow myself to tell him that early.
06:01I have a really big barrier when you first meet me.
06:06But it only took me a few weeks to totally fall in love with Marco,
06:10and I'd never felt that about anyone before.
06:15Yeah, we're engaged.
06:16Shh, no, you're not.
06:17Yeah, we are.
06:18No, you're not.
06:22Look at your face.
06:26I can't tell if this is a joke or not.
06:27No, it's not a joke.
06:31Marco proposed to me three months ago.
06:35Mate, I can't believe you've kept this a secret for so long.
06:37Jeez, oh, I'm sorry, yeah.
06:41But I needed to wait, because I needed to tell my parents.
06:47But they still don't know.
06:52No one knows, because I was kind of hoping that Marco might ask my dad's permission to marry me,
06:59but he hasn't done that yet.
07:01I have really high hopes with Marco, because I feel like we're really compatible,
07:11and he seems like a really lovely, loyal man.
07:16Hello.
07:18I'm good, how are you?
07:19Do you miss me?
07:21Yeah, I miss you a lot.
07:23Aww.
07:26It's really weird without you.
07:29Yeah, I know. I don't like it at all.
07:31But I'm coming to Italy soon, so...
07:34Yeah, I really can't wait to see you and hug you.
07:37Yeah, me too.
07:38And kiss you.
07:39Me too.
07:40I feel like there's something missing when you're not here.
07:43There's a part of me that's missing.
07:46What did you do today?
07:52I've just been working a lot.
07:54From my experience, the guys in Italy are a little bit more jealous than in England.
08:03It's really difficult.
08:06When I go out with my friends, he really doesn't like it.
08:13OK.
08:15All right, Oz, I'll call you later.
08:18OK.
08:18All right, love you.
08:20Love you too.
08:21Love you, bye.
08:22Bye.
08:22All right, bye-bye.
08:23I need to talk to Sandra about her sister's bombshell at the family barbecue last night.
08:47Go on my rooftop.
08:49So I booked a really nice place by the river where no one in her family can interrupt.
08:57How are you feeling?
08:59Fine.
09:00I was a bit sad last night, and I feel like the relationship took a bit of a step back
09:07because you left me drowning when I asked you, please stay.
09:11I don't know these people.
09:12I don't understand Portuguese.
09:14Honey, but we are together for two years.
09:16You're supposed to run Portuguese.
09:18And that's what Heloisa said.
09:20But I needed you.
09:21You didn't try, honey.
09:22I'm sorry to say that.
09:23I was scared.
09:24I'm not supposed to be around you all the time.
09:29I wasn't asking you to babysit me.
09:31Yeah, you won that.
09:33You said all the time, come here, come here, sit here.
09:37You need to be brave around my family.
09:39It's not so hard.
09:41It's hard.
09:42No, it's not.
09:43It's hard.
09:44My family trying to be so nice and try to talk to you, and you just sit on the sofa.
09:50I felt ambushed when I met Heloisa.
09:53I felt like I was being told off, like a naughty child.
09:57What did she say?
10:00She has a lot of doubts about our relationship.
10:03And everyone in your family thinks the same.
10:07And that's troubling.
10:10She also said that you want more kids.
10:16Yes.
10:21I said that this before, that I want five kids.
10:28When I was young, yes.
10:30I have never been driven to have kids in the same way as some people are.
10:35Why you don't want children?
10:36My parents split up when I was young, and I would never want to put them through that.
10:43And also, there's enough children in the world for people to take care of.
10:46Do you think this is going to work?
10:48Because I have two kids.
10:51I could never be their stepdad.
10:53And I think you know that too, deep down.
10:55Yeah.
10:57Why can't I just be a role model, that kind of thing, rather than stepdad?
11:02If you come and live with me, it's not going to be the way you think.
11:06Like, something can happen.
11:07Yeah.
11:08And I need to go out and leave my kids with you.
11:11I, yeah, that, I know that.
11:13You need to spend more time with my kids and take care of them sometimes.
11:19I am saying I am open to these things. What more can I give you?
11:24Honey, words, it's just words.
11:27So actions speak louder.
11:30And you don't like that. You really don't.
11:33Wow.
11:34Really, I'm sorry.
11:37I know he doesn't want children.
11:43I know he doesn't want to be my kid's stepfather, but I really love him.
11:48And I want him to be around me and my family and prove everyone that this can work.
12:07I'm nervous.
12:20Shannon is my first girlfriend.
12:22I ever first introduced met my family.
12:26it is really really big deal I really want to make a good first impression
12:38I know how important Methe's family is to him
12:46I'm pretty proud of myself for being out to speak to them a little bit you share the issue of the
13:00I spoke too soon let's say I need your help over here we see you live in England Liverpool
13:11he said if you can come Istanbul we will be happier so much
13:30Methe's family say they want us to live close but we're still not sure where we want to be yet
13:36Methe is getting really lazy on the translations and I have no idea what's being said I feel like
13:50I'm getting grilled a little bit here if my family don't like the Shannon it is really difficult for me
14:09it is making me upset
14:13my family is my everything Shannon is my everything this is really important
14:25I don't know what Methe is talking to his dad about things are starting to feel a little bit tense in here
14:52you see I'm sorry we
14:53we die I'm sorry for the parents either
14:58we go through them
14:59and we need to quit
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15:24I'm having the best time with Ara.
15:26She's shown me around her city,
15:29and she's shown me her culture,
15:31and what life is like for her here.
15:33This is what we call balut, unhatched egg.
15:37When we're together, there's no boring hours or minutes.
15:41My stomach has hurt the past few days
15:43because we were always laughing about something.
15:45They believe unhatched egg makes your knee strong.
15:49Very specific.
15:52I know what I am feeling for you
15:54and that we do have the same feeling for each other.
15:57I hope so.
16:02Tagay.
16:06So who am I meeting today?
16:07My best friend, Erica.
16:09She cares a lot about me.
16:11Okay, so she's going to be judging me?
16:13No, she's going to be a judger.
16:15Don't worry, she's less scarier than my mom.
16:18What if she doesn't approve of me?
16:21Just a yes and yes situation.
16:23There's no no.
16:25I'm feeling quite nervous
16:27because I know how important Ara's friends and family's opinion is to her.
16:31My chat with Ara's mom didn't go exactly to plan,
16:34so I'm hoping my chat with Erica today will go better.
16:37Hi.
16:38Hi.
16:39Hi.
16:40Okay, so Andy meet my best friend Erica.
16:44Hi, nice to meet you.
16:45Erica, this is Andy.
16:46Nice meeting you.
16:47I heard a lot of things about you.
16:50You too.
16:52Andy, why do you come here in the Philippines?
16:55To meet Ara.
16:56To know if she's real, I guess.
16:58Why are you seeking love here in other countries?
17:01I had some bad experiences with women in the UK
17:05and I was in hospital a lot when I was a child
17:09and I had lots of Filipino nurses
17:11and they were always the nicest, most amazing nurses.
17:14so I thought, why not look in the Philippines?
17:18And then I'm like, Ara.
17:20When we started talking, she made me laugh so much
17:22and she was so funny.
17:24Ah, do you think she's a clown?
17:26Yeah.
17:27Free clown.
17:28Ah, okay.
17:29Andy looks like a bit frustrated
17:31because Erica is quite intense.
17:34I need to go to the toilet.
17:35It's okay?
17:36Okay.
17:37Okay.
17:38I'm not sure how much Erica likes me,
17:39but now I've got a chance to chat to her alone,
17:41I'm going to make sure she knows how serious I am
17:43about Ara.
17:44I know I've only known Ara a very short time,
17:47but I can't explain it,
17:49but I really do love her.
17:51Okay.
17:52Ara is very important to me and to her family.
17:54I know that.
17:55What are your intentions about Ara?
17:58I really want to be with her for the rest of my life.
18:00Okay.
18:01But please don't rush anything.
18:04Just take your time to know each other.
18:08Take it slow.
18:10I know you and her family are worried
18:12about me, but my intentions are real.
18:15I really do love her.
18:16Before I leave the Philippines,
18:18I'm going to propose
18:19and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.
18:21Andy just,
18:22that it's too fast.
18:24Married life is very different.
18:27Everything is changed.
18:28Don't rush anything and don't rush.
18:31Just enjoy your relationship.
18:33I'm worried she never met this guy
18:35and I just want them to take it slow
18:38and there's no rush.
18:40I know that you're talking about me.
18:42What happened?
18:43Nothing.
18:44You didn't drill him?
18:45No.
18:46I know Erica thinks this proposal is a bad idea,
18:48but the more time I spend with Ara,
18:50the more determined I am to propose
18:52by the end of the trip.
18:53But I still haven't won her family over,
18:56especially her mom.
18:57and I need to make that right before I propose.
19:00I need to pull her out to the inside of the house.
19:01I can't breathe man.
19:02Don't do it.
19:03I can't breathe man.
19:04But I'm doing a lot of things.
19:05You don't need to breathe,
19:07but you don't need to breathe.
19:08Don't sleep.
19:09Don't sleep.
19:10Don't sleep.
19:11Please understand.
19:12Do you want to take a nap?
19:13You don't.
19:14No.
19:15I will die.
19:16Lisa, what's happening?
19:17I need to breathe?
19:18Can you please?
19:19I need to breathe.
19:20That's it.
19:21You don't need to breathe.
19:22That's it.
19:23What's going to breathe?
19:24No.
19:25That's it.
19:26I need to breathe.
19:27I don't need to breathe.
19:28Ni, you don't need to breathe.
19:29please this morning sandra and i had a bit of a falling out because her daughter and her
19:43were talking in portuguese and i couldn't understand what was going on it started out
19:49as what looked like just an argument that didn't involve me but then i heard my name said in the
19:54midst of other things and didn't say your name i definitely heard finn from someone you didn't
20:01say your name okay i was having an argument with my daughter and finna wants to know what happened
20:10i told him i'm not okay right now i need um this time to myself and he still wants to know
20:18this morning just happened something about my kids and me and i got angry you was laughing i wasn't
20:28laughing yes that's your version of a verse no no this make me angry i wasn't laughing about the
20:33situation i was laughing because it got really awkward you were shouting at me in front of your
20:38two kids in portuguese i was not shouting i just want a little space and you know that
20:45but he went there with your translate asking my daughter what happened and i don't want you to
20:51know because this i think is not your business it's something about me and the kids and in that moment
20:59i was not okay to talk to you and when you came and start laughing about me make me more angry
21:07well that's your version of events but that's not what happened for you everything it's fine
21:12but that wasn't what i was laughing at but in that time it wasn't like that i'm sorry if it
21:18came across that way yeah i accept my timing was wrong but if i'm going to be part of this family
21:23she needs to let me in i take your point that it's not my business but really we're all part of the
21:28same unit and so it is a big issue for me that i can't understand portuguese and i couldn't understand
21:36what was happening because i could see people were unhappy and the laughing wasn't about the
21:42situation the laughing was about how awkward it was then in that room you're right i should have
21:48waited longer when you were in your room that's on me but i guess the reason i wanted to know is
21:53because i felt a little bit excluded i'm still the odd man out and if i'm to move here yes i need to
22:00understand portuguese but i guess you also have to let me into your life i'm trying to let you into
22:06mine maybe my life is simpler it doesn't come with all these things but really i didn't mean to do that
22:13in the way that it came across that wasn't my intention that's never my intention i'm sorry
22:19really i'm so sorry sorry to you it's not a big thing i think it's just language today has been
22:31the biggest waking up call you could have been given we had an argument could have been avoided just like
22:36that and i think if there was ever a case to learn the language it's now i gotta learn portuguese
22:44because this would never have happened you have to
23:06i love salsa and bachata dancing with marco not being around i need to keep myself occupied
23:14out in italy when they do salsa bachata a lot of the time it is to meet someone
23:24whereas for me it isn't that i'm not sure that marco understands it yet when i started dancing he'd go
23:33quiet he'd go really cold and quiet and i wouldn't hear from him until the next day
23:40he's quite a jealous person and that's a challenging thing
23:54my name is marco i'm 37 and i'm from rome i lived in rome from all my life i'm really happy to to live
24:13here when i'm on the mountains or by the lake i'm just in my happy place i love to be outside
24:21it really can't imagine to live anywhere else
24:29i was not really looking for love but as i met sarah i understood immediately that she was the one for
24:35me the first thing that i noticed is a beautiful big smile it went crazy when i saw that
24:41whenever i have free time i really love to hang out with my closest friends fabio and giovanni
24:53how is it going with sarah yeah it's like i think i finally found the love of my life
24:59she's in england at the moment so i'm not really happy but she she will come like in the next few
25:05weeks for the rest the little problem that salsa dance being in a long distance relationship with
25:15sarah is really hard because when you are not together little thing can be a huge thing she's
25:22still doing it she's still doing yeah she did also yesterday she told me that well you know i didn't
25:27sleep this night i slept a bit less than usual you know that she's danced with 15 men in a night and
25:35i'm sitting on the sofa so i'm not happy about it because no i need time to give my trust to people
25:41so i really find it a bit tough to think that she's so close with someone it causes a bit of
25:49jealousy from my side i don't like my girlfriend that go to dance with a with other boy yeah i thought
25:56the same it really doesn't help hearing giovanni have doubts and i do find it hard but i'm trying
26:03to be more open it's just dancing in the end it's just like a stance yeah it's like for you climbing
26:10fabio is my best friend we grew up together and at the start i had some weird thoughts about
26:19sarah's and fabio relationship i just felt that they were getting to know faster than me because
26:27his english was better and because they play chess together so they have a lot of things in common
26:35and so i felt quite jealous she doesn't need to go dancing if she wants to cheat on you yeah of course
26:41because we are still in different countries it's really hard you always doubts of the other
26:48if i could get it in my way i would just get married tomorrow so we can be together all the time
26:59cheers nikki and i met a dance class and she knows me better than a lot of people
27:06i haven't told her much about marco yet but she's really not one to hide her opinions haven't seen you
27:11for a bit i feel like you've been in italy quite a bit how are things good me and mark are really really
27:17happy yeah really good yeah things are going really well what's it like culturally is are there
27:22like cultural differences between the two of you because i don't know many italians but the ones i
27:26do know they're like quite particular about food for example oh 100 a food snob yeah would never eat a
27:32carbonara in britain wouldn't would never eat a carbonara in britain no but it was a bit of a surprise
27:38when we first got together of how jealous italians can be okay he has had a jealous side okay so he so
27:45he's been jealous he has yeah there was a small situation with his best friend fabio
27:53oh okay i was developing a friendship with fabio at the same time i was developing a relationship with
27:59marco and i think he knew that i really liked funny guys and fabio's hilarious so i think he was just
28:05a bit like hi is he going to feel jealous about other friendships he hasn't since then why would someone
28:15be jealous of their best friend what do you think was going to happen i don't know maybe it was just
28:23like i don't know also he was a little bit worried about the dancing thing as in because he thought
28:31like you were dancing to pick someone up yeah but then he's surrounded by people for example he's got
28:38a friend called giovanni who would never let his girlfriend dance ever never let his girlfriend dance
28:44yeah okay so we step back about 50 years yeah the jealousy seems to come from nowhere and i'd find
28:52that really hard also what else are they going to get jealous about if you're in a relationship with
28:56someone where they don't like something you do will that not affect you knowing that your like number
29:01one hobby he doesn't really want you to do he's never ever stopped me dancing and i really appreciate
29:09that you don't have to be thankful to your boyfriend that's a normal human thing to do the things that
29:13you enjoy i know it's just it doesn't sit well with me this idea that you might be having your free
29:21time dictated by someone else sarah has had some bad experiences and people who've been sort of
29:27controlling and she hasn't always spotted that red flag there is that worry that that might happen again
29:33don't let him do what people have done before where you stop doing as much and you go into yourself
29:39there are people in the before who haven't added joy to your life they've made you sad
29:44hmm we don't want that anymore please no i know
29:58i recognize some of this
30:13sandra's taking me back to the orphanage where we first met 17 years ago
30:18it's a sort of bittersweet feeling because it's also a place where there was a lot of sadness
30:23uh it's a little bit weird to be here again so you were here for 218 what was that like
30:37was not easier be without my mom and my father the food that was not good the beans always have bugs
30:47inside really and what what would happen if you didn't eat the food you're gonna be
30:54hungry it's been really difficult when i was hungry i ate fruit in this tree what would happen
31:01if you were seen it was okay no they got angry oh listening to sandra talk about some of the
31:08experiences she had in the orphanage there's a lot of baggage there's a lot of sadness we have a lot
31:14of things to do like crochet i don't know you had to make things yeah and sometimes we have to paint
31:21too because the things we make here they took to england to sell that sounds so tough did you ever
31:27want to just run away yeah one day i tried um but i tried just went there that tree and then i got
31:35scared and come back did many people try and run away yes a lot
31:41for me it's a little bit hard make me have a lot of memories we don't have easy life in that time but
31:52i met finn there and now he can understand a little bit why i'm so close to my family
31:59everything that happened in the past i left in the past
32:04and not everything here was bad you know my symbol is always with me when i was leaving their house
32:15with nyara eloisa and elza when they turn 40 i think they change house so it's me and eloisa stayed
32:28together yeah that's why you're so close yeah the other day i left the barbecue feeling annoyed that
32:35eloisa was asking those questions in the way she was but i actually get it they're super protective
32:40for a reason they've grown up in an incredibly hostile environment and so she's very close to her
32:47family and i'm not
32:49i come from a family that didn't show much affection to each other i didn't have a relationship with my
32:58dad growing up he was absent for most of my childhood even before my parents split up i didn't really see
33:05much of him he was a father that possibly i can't put words into his mouth because he's dead but i couldn't
33:12put words into mouth even if he was here i always got the sense that uh he didn't want to be near me
33:19so i think there wasn't a huge amount of good in my child i know that's quite dark but it's also
33:24the truth but it's nothing in comparison to what sandra went through and i know that now
33:30it's coming if i want to now yes come come come oh just be careful yeah i will be
33:39it's proper eerie this
33:42uh-huh it sounds
33:46it's a bat i'm more scared than you do go honey come on be big man
34:00you can see from here my bed was there oh i remember how many beds in one room eight in that
34:15tiny room yeah wow i can totally see why family's so important now that's why heloisa said the things
34:22she said i get it oh yes i'm gonna cry wow i do that's given me a lot of perspective and maybe now
34:36that i'm aware of that i need to just accept that there are going to be those questions asked of me
34:40but i feel like now i'm beginning to become ready to answer some of them
34:44that's the chicken
35:13it's so good try this ara's made it very clear to me that if i want to be with her i need to be
35:19part of her family so tonight ara has brought me out for a meal with all of her family let's have a
35:25toast for andy and thank you so much for meeting my family thank you so much thank you for welcoming
35:31me to the loud family so andy how do you find my family i love it you're very loud especially me
35:42yeah when i'm talking and talking your face like this because i don't understand so fast
35:49it's like a machine gun let's go i'm gonna miss it when i go home your mom like speaks 300 words a
35:56minute and also manages to eat a bowl of noodles at the same time i don't know how she does it
36:01we're multitaskers it's amazing now you're the part of the loud family so you need to be loud okay
36:07yeah yeah you need to be loud we're all getting along really well but in the back of my mind
36:13there's something hanging over me and i'm feeling quite anxious i don't feel so good i'm gonna go out
36:21for a minute it's a little bit hot now the thought of leaving the philippines without showing ara how
36:28much she means to me is killing me i do have a plan to propose to ara tonight but i still don't have
36:35mama's permission what is going on my mom just followed annie outside is this a prank i don't know
36:46what to think i've got one more chance to get her mom's blessing it's now or never man what
36:57i know you told us to wait but i can't leave the philippines without asking ara to marry me
37:06and i can't do that unless i have your blessing
37:08oh okay so you're going to ask my daughter to marry you
37:20she doesn't look convinced heart is racing but i'm not going to give up on this i really love her
37:29so you're asking me
37:37since i know you better than before
37:43i can say yes now thank you and i hope you will make my daughter happy
37:49and i will give my blessings thank you mama good luck
38:00i'm over the moon that ara's mom has given me her blessing now there's no going back
38:04i'm super nervous and i can't help but think what if she says no
38:08so i like andy a lot and i hope that he gained your trust not only you but the family's trust he's
38:27a nice guy i can see it that he's really serious about your relationship maybe i'm thinking that he
38:35wants to propose you i don't think he will
38:44it's too rushed i can't believe my mom thinks that andy will gonna propose
38:50that's crazy we only just met the way that i saw and this face
38:56it's really serious but it's up to you i am not yet thinking about the proposal because
39:02i want to be physically and mentally ready for all of these things because it's so fast that we need
39:08to think about it a lot yeah so fast yeah i'm loving to getting to know andy but i'm not
39:16sure if i'm ready to get married yet i think i need to learn more about him let's just see where it goes
39:32i tell my dad i am going to ask shannon will you marry me i am looking what my dad say i don't know
39:59my dad wrote off me i am here this i am nearly nearly crying
40:13now i know my family like the shannon my family support to me and i am going to ask big question
40:34i don't know what methe was talking to his dad about in the kitchen but the mood seems a lot happier
40:43now can you ask your dad what was methe like as a kid it is impossible we explain
40:56you don't worry don't worry darling trust me i am your future husband
41:04okie dokie we sit this restaurant darling cold outside okay we sit drink coffee later go if you want
41:20we sit this boat this one yeah let's go wait it's not our boat come on really shannon thinks i am taking
41:31to her restaurant but today is my pro postal day that's good why are we getting on a boat like
41:41you told me we're going to a nice restaurant move it captain let's go
41:46the sun is shining and this view is incredible it's so romantic for him to have booked this
42:02it's such a great surprise from methe cheers cheers this view is beautiful this is a amazing way to see
42:13your stomach yeah you're really cute you're good at surprises yes darling we are sitting we have some
42:22drinks european side and asian side where are we on to the middle plans going good let's we make the
42:32Titanic yeah be careful yeah maybe i am fall here close your eyes and
42:48when we are going the middle of the sea i have a ring i want to spend all my life together with you
42:56me too down there oh look at this really good
43:12will you marry me baby cock
43:16absolutely
43:17i am happiest man on the world now because my girl said yes
43:29it was always going to be a yes i am really really happy me too
43:33we have a lot of plans we want to get married we want to move to turkey um we want you to come to
43:51england visit my family yeah yeah the future looks good you are with me i am okay
43:59i think we married and we live in turkey yeah summer's better weather better lifestyle better cheers
44:29it's good it's fun trekking through the wilderness who just thought well i i thought i arranged it
44:44the trip's coming to an end and i feel like it's got to go out on a bonanza and i could be really
44:49selfish and just say oh sandra can you ask your sister to look after the kids but i don't want to be
44:54part of embracing this lifestyle has to be embracing everything
45:02okay mine's definitely going ahead i'm not doing anything wow you like so i've arranged for a horse
45:10trek on the outskirts of brazilia and let's see if we can do a fun thing together right here right now
45:16whoa here we go okay so this is where i didn't do
45:20sandra can you tell lorenzo it's not me it's the horse he thinks i'm doing something
45:28my horse definitely does not like lorenzo's horse and i hope that does not reflect our relationship
45:34it's better it's better it's better that's not working
45:37nothing there's like a horse attack my horse is definitely the most aggressive are you okay
45:48yeah i feel like on this trip i've come full circle whoa that's not gonna work this made
45:55me realize we can have good times together wow that was fun did you enjoy that yeah i love it
46:02do you think your kids enjoyed it of course wow this is special what do you think top five wow yeah
46:16top five life experiences elisa what do you think of this you like that i think she likes the ice
46:25screen more but um this is pretty special yeah i love it you can see a good stepfather i'm just kidding
46:36you think so yeah yeah yeah what i've realized is sometimes having fun and staying in the moment is
46:45the only way you can live and maybe it would be not that bad being a version of a stepdad
46:51how do you feel after today i really enjoy this place thank you for choosing you do a great job
46:59here really yes the kids enjoy yeah yeah that's what was weird because like i started this trip
47:07thinking i definitely will never ever want to be a stepdad ever but i kind of feel like i could do
47:15something similar this trip seems to have sort of changed me more than i thought it would do and now
47:21it's not only about you it's about the kids i feel like i've built some kind of bond with them i didn't
47:26expect but actually you know elisa wanted to wash her hands and she chose me to go with her you know
47:32stuff like that i didn't expect to like that but there we go you know what i could see this working
47:38more than i thought it could at the start i can see you trying to do things and it's just now a
47:44question of working out the other bits and pieces big life decisions to be made he really trying and
47:52i really appreciate that every time he chose some place he chose just for me and him and this time
47:58i can see that he tried to change a little bit and choose this place that my kids can join and i like
48:04that i really don't want to go back but i know i have to when you go back to england i want you to
48:12be like you're here communicate a lot with me because you know i love this and i know you're not so
48:20good on this i'm sorry to say that i just um want you to call me more send me a message i'd we cannot be
48:31be like this forever like you live in england i live in brazil um just see each other two times
48:41here you need to come here and say because being like this you're just wasting time and you know that
48:53okay let me think let me go away and think
48:56a lot's happened in this time together i just need to go away from the situation now in order
49:05to fully work out how i feel there's a lot more to happen i'm going to leave brazil and
49:12i have more answers than questions but at the same time there's a lot of decisions that need to be made
49:26and i'm sad to be saying goodbye to elisa and lorenzo they're actually not that annoying
49:43will you marry me
49:49you haven't asked my dad to marry me i have to think about it it's not really something that make me
49:54comfortable i can't stay here a minute longer i've got to go i'm getting out yes
50:03ifraham doesn't like me drinking you have to try and stop dancing since i was last on the show me and
50:11ali got married visas 10 grand or move to turkey this is a really important trip for me i could be moving
50:22for my entire life to turkey so it all rides on this trip now
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