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05:59Yeah, it was a really nice night, really nice
06:02I feel really lucky to have met him, really lucky
06:06He's just...
06:11Bette is like, like, I'm a football man, and he loves football, which is perfect.
06:19I love being out on the pitch with the lads, because when they see the girl on the pitch, they just don't think they're going to be as good, but I always show them how it's done.
06:45After a game, after a game, we always head down to the pub for a pint or two, it's like a ritual.
07:02Let's go.
07:32I know, I know, I know, but then, because I'm in a relationship that's long distance, I want to FaceTime him and spend time with him, but the jealousy thing is a big issue.
07:42Yeah.
08:12Yeah.
08:13Yeah.
08:14Yeah.
08:15Yeah.
08:16Hello.
08:17Yeah.
08:21You're going to make me handsome, yeah?
08:22Hello, you're gonna make me handsome, yeah?
08:39Hi guys, I am Mete, I am the 32, I am from Turkey, I'm the positive person.
08:51I like the smile, because life is short, we don't need the stress.
08:57Hello, my friend.
09:00I love boxing.
09:04I love all the sports actually.
09:08But boxing work to all our muscles.
09:15I work to a lot of hotels with entertainment team.
09:19We have a really good time.
09:22We are the party people, really, really party people.
09:28I used to go out with my friends.
09:32But now, not too much, because I meet Shannon.
09:41Shannon, my love, darling.
09:46She is coming to the reception.
09:49All my work friends say, oh, good, beautiful girl coming now.
09:54I am saying, guys, it is mine.
09:57But Shannon, not like other English girl.
10:01You want?
10:02Come, go out, drink.
10:04She say no.
10:05Everyone tried.
10:06No, no, no, no, no.
10:08But eventually, she said yes to me.
10:15Me and Shannon, really similar.
10:19We both like the travel.
10:21Oh my God.
10:22We both like the pastry.
10:24We both like the onion and garlic.
10:27Do you know, too many people don't like the smell,
10:30but we both like the onion.
10:33I love everything about Shannon.
10:35Very hard ways, guys.
10:37But sometimes argument really, really big.
10:40Because I am jealous.
10:43What is make me jealous?
10:47Everything make me jealous.
10:49Anyone interest my girlfriend, I am jealous.
10:52My girlfriend, who had really, really sexy, I am jealous.
10:57Going out with the guys, I am really jealous.
11:02We have later big problem.
11:13I love showing off, and I love looking perfect.
11:17And I love mirrors.
11:19But sometimes when I look in the mirror,
11:21I think, I wish I was born rich instead of beautiful.
11:25But you can't have it all, can you?
11:32My name's Zena, and I live in Oxford, Surrey.
11:35And Oxford, Surrey's a very nice place to live.
11:38My favourite music is reggae music.
11:48I listen to classical music.
11:52I listen to soul.
11:55I listen to jazz.
11:59I just love music, full stop.
12:05I mean, look how old she is.
12:07I have known Lisa about 48 years.
12:10I'm waiting to get my teeth screwed in.
12:12Oh God.
12:13I've had the screws put in.
12:14Very painful, very painful.
12:16I'd rather give birth ten times than have them screws in.
12:19I've had a few procedures.
12:20You know, boob job, tummy tuck, nose job.
12:24I'm just about getting screwing teeth.
12:27So, I'm a bit of a bionic woman.
12:30You're like next Kris Jenner.
12:31I'm Cher.
12:34Any more surgery on the cards?
12:36Bum lift.
12:38Fanny tuck.
12:39I thought about a designer vagina.
12:41But I did go and see a doctor.
12:43And on examination he said, no, no, no.
12:45You can't do nothing with it.
12:47No.
12:49You're glamorous.
12:51You are, you're in good nick.
12:52Trust me, you are.
12:53A fella could meet you near tonight.
12:55And you fall in love and live happily ever after.
12:57Yeah, but I don't really fancy men my own age.
13:00Yeah, I'm 65.
13:01You don't look it.
13:06Men in their 60s, I'm not attracted to.
13:09They're all bald and got big fat guts.
13:11They're like washed up coleslaw now.
13:13I don't like them.
13:14And I don't really fancy young men either.
13:16So I like an in between.
13:18A lot of young men have got auntie fetishes.
13:20Shut up.
13:21No.
13:22I've never heard that.
13:23Yes.
13:24You can Google it.
13:25Google it, yeah.
13:26Now please go through my phone.
13:29I have met someone.
13:30Right.
13:31And it's really nice.
13:32Any pictures of him?
13:33Look on my phone and see if you can find Ibrahim.
13:37I can't find him.
13:39E?
13:40Yeah, E.
13:41E-B-R-I-H-A-M.
13:43Oh.
13:45Oh my God.
13:47How old is he?
13:4844.
13:50Your daughter's older than that?
13:52Yep.
13:54Never mind tip procedures and neck lifts.
13:56You need to get that sorted.
13:58Does he work?
13:59He's a waiter in a hotel.
14:01Where?
14:02In the Gambia.
14:07Ibrahim lives in the Gambia.
14:09And I met him when I was in Africa on holiday.
14:13He asked me out a few times.
14:15And I thought, oh, he's rather nice.
14:17He's tall.
14:18He's handsome.
14:19And we had a few dates.
14:20And we've had a relationship ever since.
14:23Zeena.
14:24Hmm?
14:25You're travelling halfway across the world for a bit of cock.
14:28You not.
14:33Ibrahim.
14:38Hi, Ibrahim.
14:40Looking well.
14:41What have you been doing?
14:42Ibrahim's 20 years younger than me, so there is an age gap.
14:45I'm missing you.
14:46Are you missing me?
14:47Of course.
14:48But I don't really see it as an age gap because he has a very high intellectual out view on life.
14:55Still hot there then?
14:56Yeah, it's hot.
14:58He speaks Arabic, French, English and Gambian.
15:02Very good.
15:03Very good.
15:04Very good.
15:05We like this one.
15:07And he's extremely fit.
15:08And so, yes, I'm very attracted to him.
15:11When I put a few posts up on my social media, a lot of people said, oh, you're just a visa vagina.
15:18You're just a sex tourist.
15:20Bye-bye then.
15:21Love you.
15:22Bye-bye, bye-bye, bye-bye, bye-bye.
15:23No, I'm not a sex tourist.
15:25Because if I wanted to get sex in England, I could.
15:28Even at my age.
15:34Hello, Mum.
15:35It's me.
15:36I've got your shopping here.
15:38I'm going to see my mum.
15:40Yeah, I've got you some milk and bread and, you know, odds and ends what you have, ham.
15:44That's what I want.
15:45Mashed potato.
15:46I've got to take her shopping.
15:48Oh, I'm gagging for me cup of tea.
15:50Yeah.
15:51Done myself a wine.
15:52Have a little chat with her.
15:53See, let me put it down.
15:54Okay.
15:55She's going blind.
15:56She's 95, so she can't really do her own cleaning.
15:59So, later on in the evening, I'll clean all her flat for her.
16:04Are you still seeing Mashedie in Gambia?
16:07Ibrahim, his name is, he's nice.
16:10He's such an ugly bloke, Xena, when I see his picture.
16:16Mum's really rude and a lot of people say she might have dementia, but she's got no dementia whatsoever.
16:22It's just always the way she's been.
16:24I think he's good looking, Marcel.
16:26Oh, yeah.
16:27Well, you must be bloody blind then.
16:29You must have shit in your eyes because you think he's nice looking.
16:31That's rather rude.
16:33Ibrahim is definitely not my mum's type.
16:36My mum only really likes men that are English or men that she's known all her life, really.
16:44I would like you to meet Ibrahim, Mum, because you've got the wrong idea of him.
16:48He's a very, very, very nice man.
16:50I'm 20 odd years older, but he treats me like a queen.
16:55He does everything for me.
16:57Age is no, what's the name nowadays?
16:59I don't take any notice of age.
17:01Look at all the old ladies, got young men.
17:03Yeah.
17:04Wish I could get one.
17:05Well, come to Africa and you can get one.
17:07No!
17:08The only thing you've got to be careful of is if you did go there,
17:10you'd get a lot of geckos running across your feet.
17:13What are they?
17:14I don't know, they're like rubbery and they run across your feet like that.
17:17Are they alive?
17:18Yeah, they're alive.
17:19Good.
17:20So when are you going back then?
17:22Soon.
17:23Soon as I've sorted all the flights out on that.
17:26I'm going to miss you if you go.
17:27I really will.
17:29I've got to go and see it through.
17:32You think you'll marry him?
17:35I hope you don't, but...
17:36Well, I love him.
17:38No!
17:39I can read between the lines.
17:43She says she loves him and all that, but...
17:46I don't think she does.
17:48Not really.
17:49Nothing won't come of her with him.
17:52I hope it does for her sake.
17:54I really do.
17:55Because I love her.
17:56I love her to bits, but...
17:58Nah.
18:09Hi, I'm Shona, I'm 45.
18:28Age is just a number.
18:30I don't feel like I'm in my 40s.
18:33The secret is going to the gym,
18:36eat healthy,
18:38don't drink,
18:39don't smoke,
18:40and a lot of water.
18:43When I have my daughter at the age of 21,
18:45it looked like I was 15, 16.
18:48So I used to get all the looks.
18:50I'm like,
18:51I'm actually old enough to have a child.
18:58Aww, I'll be there soon.
19:00Don't worry.
19:03I met Adnan on holiday.
19:05He's from Albania,
19:06but working in Greece.
19:08I went to COS last year,
19:09and the hotel that we stayed in,
19:11he worked there.
19:13I had problems with my keys to get in,
19:15and he came over,
19:16he helped me.
19:17From there we start texting
19:19and stuff like that.
19:22Oh, thank you, babe.
19:26This is something I would never do,
19:27but we went out together in town.
19:29He was so warm, loving.
19:31He held my hands right throughout,
19:33and I've begun to have feelings for him.
19:36I know it sounds strange though,
19:38in that short time period,
19:40but yeah, it does happen.
19:42Love you.
19:44It was the best time of my life.
19:46We were all over each other.
19:50We were touching,
19:51kissing,
19:52hugging.
19:54There's a lift
19:55to get to the rooms,
19:56and every time we go in that lift,
19:57we get up to staff in the room.
20:00In the room.
20:01Our relationship was quite,
20:04um,
20:05physical.
20:06Because obviously he's young,
20:07he's 25,
20:08but,
20:09love is love,
20:10doesn't matter the age.
20:13It just felt real.
20:18Myself and my daughter, Kayla,
20:20we're like sisters.
20:24You are a MILF.
20:26I love my mum, it's my mum.
20:27Can't change your mum.
20:28But, you know.
20:29If you could change me,
20:30would you change me?
20:31Be honest.
20:33I would change things about you.
20:34You're like the girl with a banging body.
20:37She's not sure about Adnan,
20:39but I would like her to support me,
20:41with the person I love.
20:42Women over 40 do have a life.
20:44Of course, I never said that.
20:46Why can I not take a chance in love?
20:48Because he's 25.
20:50Okay.
20:51Age is just a number.
20:53Okay, sugar mama.
20:54Sugar mama?
20:55How am I a sugar mama?
20:56You're gonna be his sugar mama.
20:57To be honest,
20:58I don't care about the age.
20:59I've never felt this way about anyone else before.
21:01Really?
21:02Yes.
21:03Oh.
21:04And even though he's young,
21:05I don't see age.
21:06I see his personality.
21:07When's the last time you saw him?
21:09August, last year.
21:10August.
21:11You think that he's been silhouette from August to now?
21:13Of course.
21:14Yes, he has, yes.
21:15How do you know?
21:16Because we speak every day.
21:17I just think that you're living in a fairytale.
21:20I'm being serious.
21:22I just think there's gonna be drama because he doesn't know the real you.
21:27What is the real me?
21:29Like, the real you.
21:31Be prepared.
21:32He might have some secrets.
21:33When you meet someone for the first time, they're always gonna be their best version of themselves.
21:39Or, you know, he could be a murderer.
21:41You don't know that though.
21:42You don't know nothing about him.
21:43Do you know what I mean?
21:44This is what happens.
21:45People, you hear it all the time on TikTok.
21:47He might be hiding something.
21:49Because you're hiding something.
21:58Hey Ben.
21:59How was your day?
22:00It's been really hard because long-distance relationship can be quite tedious.
22:03Have you had something to eat?
22:06To me, this is not enough.
22:08Yeah, I eat the spaghetti.
22:11Something inside me wanted more and I realised that Adnan couldn't have filled that void.
22:16And I've met someone.
22:22It's just like a different feeling.
22:27He protects me.
22:28He shows me unconditional love.
22:32And I know that he's there for me all the time.
22:37Who is he?
22:40He's God.
22:41I've become a Mormon.
22:46He will lose the bands of death and bear sins of his people.
22:55Those who repent are baptised.
22:57I want a church that was family-orientated.
23:00And one day I was on social media and I saw this post from the Mormons and it kind of draw me in.
23:08Filthiness cannot inherit the kingdom of God.
23:12To be a Mormon, I had to re-evaluate my life.
23:18Oh, it was fun being a party girl.
23:21Drinking, the attention, my bum, tits, everything on show.
23:26But my days of parting is over.
23:31The Mormons believe that we have to just keep our body pure.
23:37We can't have alcohol.
23:39Cigarettes.
23:40And I have to keep my chastity.
23:53Obviously, I'm in a relationship with Adnan, but he's not aware that we can't have sex anymore.
24:00Amen.
24:10I need to tell Mete that I was out with the lads last night and I am getting a bit nervous.
24:28Last night felt like a dream.
24:31I had a good time.
24:32Yeah, well, it's nice to see you.
24:33I know, well.
24:34Did you tell Mete that you were out with the lads last night?
24:37No.
24:38What?
24:39Right.
24:41It shouldn't be an issue.
24:43Well, no, you should be able to go for a pint with your mates.
24:46Yeah, exactly.
24:50Oh, he's calling.
24:51I'm just gonna...
24:53I'll be back in a bit.
24:55See you in a bit.
24:56See ya.
24:59You okay?
25:01We live next door to each other.
25:03Yeah, I can hear you breathing from your bedroom.
25:05Stop listening to me breathe, you big weirdo.
25:08I'm good.
25:09How are you, darling?
25:11Hello?
25:12Yeah, how's your day going?
25:15Really good.
25:16Your day, how is your going?
25:18Really good, darling.
25:20Really good.
25:21Good, darling.
25:22When Mete and I first met, his English wasn't as good as it is now.
25:27He's definitely improved loads since we first met.
25:30What are you doing?
25:32I am sitting on the coffee, darling.
25:34I think he's just got comfortable with talking English to me.
25:37You miss my face.
25:39True, darling.
25:41Where have you been before?
25:43We are... I'm just in the J's.
25:46What happened?
25:48Nothing, darling.
25:50Why? What's wrong?
25:52Did I say anything wrong?
25:54No, darling.
25:55I'm wondering if his mood's off because I've just left Jay's house, maybe.
26:00What did you do last night, darling?
26:03Last night, we are just going to play the football.
26:06Anything else?
26:09No.
26:10I don't really want to cause an argument, so I'm not going to mention I was with a load of guys.
26:16You want to say anything?
26:18I don't think so, darling.
26:20You don't think so?
26:22I think so, darling.
26:26Jealousy is obviously a big part in long-distance relationships.
26:31You're not with that person. You don't know what they're up to, what they're doing.
26:35What happened last night?
26:36We are going to pubs, celebrate.
26:39With the girls?
26:42I am just with the lads.
26:44Huh?
26:45With the boys' team.
26:50Not good.
26:53Really cold on the football.
26:57It.
26:59It comes with the long-distance.
27:01If you don't want to talk to them, you close the phone.
27:03Or if you don't want to reply to the message, you don't reply.
27:06You're not just in front of that person, you have to confront it.
27:10In four days, I'm going back.
27:13I do think this trip is going to be really important.
27:16If me and Mete can't work on our communication, I don't know how this is going to go forward.
27:21If I feel stressed, I am boxing with my cousin. His name is Ur. Also, he's my best friend.
27:33Good training today, guy.
27:34How is your English girl?
27:35Shannon.
27:36She is good, but I am jealous.
27:38Tipik Türk erkeği işte.
27:40Yeah, I am trusted Shannon, but I am not trusted other peoples.
27:44Also, he's my best friend.
27:47Good training today, Guy.
27:50How is your English girl?
27:52Shannon.
27:53She's good, but I am jealous.
27:56Typic Turkish.
28:02Yeah, I am trusted Shannon, but I am not trust other people's.
28:06My girlfriend going out just different male.
28:10Sorry, I can't accept this.
28:14You know me, I am the Turk.
28:16We say in Turkey,
28:18because a bin kişi ister, bir kişi alır.
28:21That's mean, one girl, one thousand people want this girl,
28:26just one man take this girl.
28:29Last time she called me, she had a football match,
28:32and later they have to celebrate.
28:35That's problem.
28:40Absolutely, I have trusting problem all the people.
28:43Shannon beautiful girl.
28:45If she go out, just sitting the male friends,
28:49I make a problem.
28:51We don't make a problem.
28:53If I don't love her, I am not jealous.
28:56Shannon the same, Shannon jealous me.
28:58It is the just love.
29:00It is the relationship rules.
29:01I have big rules.
29:02She had rules.
29:03Last summer, Shannon got really jealous.
29:15She said, I don't want you work in entertainment.
29:18She don't want, I meet the different girls, English girls.
29:22I say, okay, no problem for me.
29:25I am leaving this Marmaris work.
29:27I am come to live in Istanbul,
29:29and don't go out.
29:31But now, I don't know.
29:34I couldn't stop Shannon going out,
29:39meet friends.
29:41But if she go out with her friends,
29:44I am going out with my friends.
29:47The party boys.
29:48I go out and she couldn't stop me.
30:18Hey.
30:19Hey.
30:20You all right?
30:21Yeah, I'm good. How are you?
30:22Yeah, I'm good.
30:23When I talk to my friends about Adnan.
30:25Oh, that looks lovely. Look at that.
30:27They were like, what are you doing?
30:29So you don't think he's genuine?
30:31No, I don't.
30:33What?
30:34Look at that.
30:35Aren't we a lovely couple?
30:41You might think that the connection that you two have is perfect.
30:47Mm-hmm.
30:48However...
30:49Nah, Shana.
30:52Nah.
30:55No-one can tell me how to live my life.
30:56People are going to have opinions.
30:58They're going to say stuff.
30:59He'll be in the UK before you could even blink.
31:02That's good though, isn't it?
31:03No.
31:04Why?
31:05It's not good because...
31:06You don't know Adnan.
31:07You don't know a relationship.
31:08So I just don't care.
31:12How does he feel about the religion side?
31:14Oh, he doesn't.
31:15No.
31:16What?
31:17You haven't told him?
31:18He doesn't know about that.
31:20Adnan doesn't know that become a moment.
31:23We just have to wait and see when I tell him.
31:26Obviously, we can't have sex.
31:28You've been talking to him for months and you haven't brought that up in the conversation?
31:31No, I'm scared.
31:33What do you think he's going to say when he finds out?
31:36I don't know.
31:37No.
31:38He's not going to like it.
31:39100%.
31:40He's 25.
31:41So when you go and see him...
31:42We can't live in the same household.
31:45What do you mean?
31:46Because we're not married, so we cannot be together in the same house.
31:50To stay in the same house or to stay in the same bed?
31:52Same house.
31:53We have to be married.
31:54Yeah.
31:58I think he wants to go up and down in the lift.
32:00Up and down in the lift.
32:02Up and down, up and down, up and down.
32:03Up and down, up and down.
32:04We're allowed to date.
32:05You can hold hands but we're not allowed to kiss because obviously kissing can lead on to other stuff.
32:09Up and down, up and down, up and down.
32:10Oh my God.
32:11Up and down now.
32:12He's going to be...
32:13He will hate it.
32:14Mm-hmm.
32:15Tell him about the religion.
32:17Tell him what to expect.
32:20You need to try and get things made clear.
32:24I'd rather tell him face to face.
32:25Right.
32:26Rather than do it over the phone.
32:27It's something that's so sensitive that I have to rather go and see him and say,
32:32because of my faith, we can't have sex.
32:35So you're going to go to Greece?
32:37Yeah.
32:38Oh, okay.
32:39Yeah.
32:45Good luck.
33:02Good luck.
33:03Good luck.
33:04Good luck.
33:05Good luck.
33:07I'm Adnan.
33:08I am 25 years old.
33:11I am Auburnian and I live in Greece.
33:15Greece has a special place in my heart because I meet my love here.
33:24my love here but it's my dream to live and create life in UK. Most of young
33:31people are moving from Albania. We dream of UK because money is good, standard life
33:38is good. I would love to take some picture in London Bridge, in Rochard. I
33:44would love to go in the stadium to see Arsenal. I would love to use the bus
33:50because it looks nice. I've never been but I heard about Nando's chicken and I would
33:58like to go. My dream, yeah, life in UK. And now that I meet Shorna, I will come. I miss
34:08her, I miss her smile, I miss her hugs, I miss her cook, yeah everything. Just give
34:17me a second. Giuliano is calling me.
34:24What a start. I will smoke you. Never mind, never mind. I never did that. My best mate
34:32Giuliano. Are you looking forward to seeing Shorna? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Was saying to me
34:36you can find a lot of beautiful girls here, so what are you doing? Are you in love with
34:41Shorna? Unfortunately, yes. Unfortunately? Yeah. Why is that? Because she is more older
34:48than me. I like an older woman. Shorna has a sexy body. First I saw her from behind.
34:56Oh, yeah, yeah. Oh, yeah, yeah. Trick shot, trick shot. We have a lot of kisses, hugs and of
35:01course, a lot of sex. Cheers. Cheers. If you move to London, I will go soon. So you're welcome
35:18in the house? Of course, yeah, yeah. What will be the first thing that you do there? In London.
35:23Yes, sir. Just I will go walking around. I will enjoy the, enjoy the town, you know. I will
35:30go on a short. Yeah. I will eat some Nandos. Nandos? Yeah. Nandos chickens. Spicy. After I will
35:39spend a lot of time with Shorna. Yeah, we will be close. Shorna is super hot. She is a good kisser.
35:52Can't wait for her. Something special will happen. Like what? Like maybe any children.
36:01Maybe any baby boy. I can't wait to spend time with Shorna. First I will hug and I will kiss
36:14her. And in the future I will move. I will go in UK.
36:21So you packing then? I am. I've not got a suitcase big enough. How have things been? Things
36:36were looking good. Yeah. And then they've kind of... Since my phone call with Mete, he's
36:55messaged saying he now wants to spend some more time with his friends, which he hasn't
36:59done for a long time. It's just a bit childish really. You'll get to go see your friends,
37:05I'm going to go see my friends now. Shouldn't be like that. It's almost like tit for tat.
37:09Yeah. Like Shor doing it, he's specifically going out and doing it. Yeah, which is just like...
37:14It's not great like... As long as it's not a bunch of girls. Well...
37:18Being devil's advocate here, could you not think that, you know, maybe something could
37:25have happened? But the more he tells me, oh, I'm worried about this, I'm worried you're
37:30doing this, the more I... The more you worry about him doing it. Yeah.
37:33Yeah. Yeah. He's not answering my calls, he's not answering my texts. Maybe it's
37:37to make me jealous. Yeah. I know he is methamarmerous, obviously. I know he worked the bar scene
37:43and, like, we've seen this, like, social media group. It's called Love After Marmarous. It
37:49outs, like, cheaters and scammers and, like, basically just, like, names and chains. So
37:53it's like, if you just, like, had a look, like... I'm not interested. Okay. No, look. That's
38:02fine. He's not like that. I don't think he would be on there. Like, I don't think he's
38:08that kind of guy. I know he did the entertainment thing, but that was his first season in Marmarous.
38:12So it's not like he's got this big, like, backstory that I don't know about. He's left
38:18Marmarous as well. Yeah. So, like, enough. Okay. You know, I don't want to think I'm...
38:23Just leave it. Yeah. Just leave it. I'd describe you as, like, a little sister. Yeah.
38:29I'm there for you when you need me. Yeah. It makes you think and makes you realise,
38:34you know, how many people are out there, like, like, scamming and, you know, looking for a visa and...
38:42Yeah. That was a thought that I had. But I really don't think that he's in it for a visa at all.
38:49I do want to get him a visa to come here, at least visit him. Maybe he comes here and he...
38:55He finds a nice English girl and he runs off and doesn't come back, like...
39:00What? Anything's a possibility, isn't it? Yeah. You know, anything could happen.
39:04I mean, I... I don't think there's...
39:07I just want you to be careful and I want you to know what you're getting into.
39:11Mm. And...
39:14Yeah. Just... Just, you know.
39:17I'll see.
39:21Be good. Of course.
39:23And I hope you have a wonderful time. Oh, I will.
39:26Bye. Bye.
39:28Jaren, good luck.
39:30You're gonna need it.
39:39Do you think we're gonna make it on time?
39:41Not sure.
39:43My relationship's on the line and it's fucking snowing.
39:47Mete's got my flight details, but he's not answering my calls or texts.
39:53I'm... I'm so stressed.
39:56No answer.
39:57How far away are we?
39:58We're... We're getting close somehow.
39:59It looks like it's stopped now.
40:01It's...
40:02Not sure.
40:03Not sure.
40:04Not sure.
40:05Not sure.
40:06I don't know the system, they say, I go and edit it.
40:07Mete's not answering my calls.
40:08Not hearing from him before I get on this plane is giving me heaps of anxiety.
40:14I don't want a sister message. I go and edit it.
40:19Mete is not answering my calls.
40:22Not hearing from him before I get on this plane
40:25is giving me heaps of anxiety.
40:29All I can hope for is that when I land,
40:31we can finally talk about the things that we need to.
40:44Oh, yeah, it's nice in here, isn't it?
40:56Have you been here before?
40:58I've had three relationships long-term.
41:01I'll sit here.
41:03I've got four children, all grown up.
41:05That's it. Ooh, lovely views.
41:07I've got seven grandchildren
41:09and I've got one great-granddaughter.
41:11Does your boyfriend have a beach near his house?
41:14No, he lives more or less in the bush.
41:16He has to get a boat for an hour and a half to where he works
41:19and then he's got the beach there.
41:21Where he lives, they're very poor.
41:23They don't even...
41:24The children don't even wear clothes for their boy or girl.
41:27They just wear anything. Sad.
41:28Yeah, but Ibrahim's not got kids, has he?
41:30No. Don't you think he might want kids?
41:32Well, I won't be able to have kids. Well, I...
41:34Well, exactly. Do you think that's... How old is he?
41:36You could donate an egg.
41:37I don't think none of us are donating. You're crazy.
41:40How has he stayed single all this time?
41:43He's not... Because he said he hasn't got any money
41:45so he can't have a wife or a child
41:47because he doesn't want to have a child if he can't provide for it.
41:50No, but how do you know this relationship isn't all,
41:53you know, to get money out of you?
41:56I am a generous person
41:58and if I think someone needs money or something,
42:00I'll give it to them because, you know,
42:03you can only keep so much for yourself, can't you?
42:05I bought him an iPhone only because we could contact each other
42:09and I bought him a mattress because he was sleeping on a concrete floor
42:12and I did send him money for his birthday and Christmas.
42:16To me, it doesn't seem like he gets a lot out of this apart from money.
42:20Like, he doesn't have to see you for months on end.
42:22He could be doing anything out there.
42:24He's a young guy, you know, looking for women.
42:29I think that he's sort of possibly maybe even targeted you.
42:32You've got him a mattress, you've got him a phone.
42:34What will you be getting him a car next?
42:39He could have four ladies exactly like you all sending him money.
42:43He might live in a mansion in the middle of the Gambia
42:46and he's got this little house that he's bringing you all to
42:49doing the Poor Me Act. He could be a fraud star.
42:51That's far-fetched. What, you mean like a stage?
42:54What? Yeah, I'm serious, you don't know.
42:56You could be one of four.
42:58He knows I haven't got any money because I told him.
43:01There's a lot of Gambian men that are like hustlers and they do that.
43:05They get a lot of women and they get all the gifts and all the monies,
43:08but Ibrahim's not like that.
43:10I've sent Ibrahim probably about £400, but he hasn't asked for it.
43:15I volunteered to give it to him.
43:17He never asked for his mattress, but I offered.
43:20He doesn't ask for food, but I offer.
43:23He doesn't ask.
43:25I've always trusted your instincts.
43:27You are a bit of a witch sometimes with these things,
43:30but, you know, there's always that one person that gets through our guards.
43:36You can tell the hustlers.
43:37He could be one in disguise.
43:39You don't never know, do you?
43:40But I hope he's not and I don't think he is.
43:43Let's hope not.
43:44I don't think she's thinking straight, but I hope, for her sake,
43:57he's going to, you know, prove us all wrong.
44:00If he does ask for money, that is definitely a red flag.
44:04MUSIC PLAYS
44:22Dear Holy Father, once again we come in your presence
44:25to worship and praise you.
44:27I find it very soothing to read the Book of Mormon.
44:32We thank you for giving us the strength and wisdom
44:35to be where we want to be today.
44:38It just teaches us never lose faith.
44:40Whatever problems I have, I just put it to God's hands
44:43and then he would just pave a way for me.
44:52I'm getting ready, getting packed to go and see Adnan.
44:55In terms of intimacy, that's not going to go well.
45:01He's a very romantic person and it's going to be really upsetting for him.
45:08But it's about suppressing those feelings.
45:12Hopefully he can come around and understand.
45:16That is my new faith.
45:18He's Muslim, but he doesn't practice Islam.
45:23So that's a great start for me because I can easily convert him to Mormonism.
45:36I'm pretty confident that he will convert to Mormonism.
45:46What is the problem?
45:48So what have you got to say?
45:50I'm just not going to say it because I think that you are delusional.
45:57I do value Kayla's advice because in the day she's my daughter.
46:00I'll take it on board and I'll reflect on it.
46:04Just be honest.
46:05You don't take anything I say.
46:07If you listen to what I said, I said I'll take it on board.
46:10I didn't say I'll follow through.
46:12So you are going to jump on a plane?
46:14Yes.
46:16And make Adnan change his God?
46:19Yes.
46:20Good luck.
46:21Christ will be born of Mary.
46:26Those who repent are baptized and keep the commandments.
46:31Now I say unto you that he must repent and be born again.
46:36For the spirit saith if he are not born again,
46:40he cannot inherit the kingdom of heaven.
46:45Amen.
46:51I live in a retirement flat.
47:15So a lot of people are in their 70s and even older.
47:19Oh, get out you bastard.
47:22I am the youngest one and when I first moved there,
47:25I don't think they really liked me because I had a bit of loud music plan
47:29and I had friends in making a lot of noise.
47:31And so they moaned about me.
47:34But since I've took up the gardening,
47:36the Ellsville people really love me
47:38because they know that I keep their garden really nice.
47:40Right.
47:49Oh, hi, Ibrahim.
47:51Hi.
47:52How are you?
47:53Hi.
47:54How are you doing?
47:55Not bad, you?
47:56It's mine.
47:57I'm glad.
47:58Listen, your internet is going down a bit.
48:00It's always a struggle to speak to Ibrahim in the Gambia
48:03because the Wi-Fi is not really that good.
48:06Is the electricity still all right in your house?
48:09Yes.
48:10Yes, it's working.
48:12My old friend from Newcastle, he got the speech for me.
48:15Oh, that's good.
48:16When I come, I can put all my wine in it.
48:19You should stop drinking alcohol now.
48:21I am going to stop.
48:23Yeah, I've been reading the Koran, so I might stop.
48:26I'll see.
48:27Ibrahim is a practicing Muslim, which I accept.
48:31I mean, he could have four wives and four sex slaves if he wanted to.
48:36I miss you as well, babe.
48:38It's lonely on my own here.
48:40But Ibrahim says he never would
48:42because he couldn't really put up with all the trouble that goes with it.
48:46And I forgot to tell you about earning the money to buy a taxi.
48:52Mm-hmm.
48:56How much do you need?
48:58Can I have, say, £3,000?
49:01What?
49:05£3,000 to buy a taxi for business.
49:12OK?
49:13No.
49:14A business, I told you before.
49:17I know you did.
49:18£3,000 is a lot of money to me.
49:20And even though I look like I've got money, I haven't got any money.
49:25I would like to give you the money, and I really would.
49:28It's just that, will it be a good business?
49:31Of course, yeah.
49:33How do you know?
49:34It's just a commercial taxi.
49:38Mm-hmm.
49:39Is that all right?
49:40Well, I would like to help you with the money.
49:44OK.
49:45But I don't know if I can raise it.
49:48If Ibrahim could guarantee that he would pay me back,
49:52then I might consider getting a loan and giving him the money.
49:55But if I get a loan in my name and he doesn't,
49:58then I've got to pay it all back, haven't I?
50:00I haven't got the money at the moment.
50:05Oh.
50:06But...
50:07It's cutting off again.
50:08No, it's not.
50:09Oh, it's breaking down again.
50:11Now you're going dark and I can't see you.
50:14Wait, wait.
50:16It's cut off now.
50:17I would really like to help him,
50:20but once I've handed over £3,000,
50:24then that's gone, isn't it, from me forever,
50:26and I'd need that for my retirement
50:28because I haven't really got much source of income coming in,
50:31so I am a bit dubious.
50:34But I would really like to help him.
50:37I definitely would.
50:41Today has been really stressful.
50:59I just want to see Meto now.
51:06This relationship means everything.
51:11Yeah, it means everything to me.
51:16I love him lots.
51:19I really love him.
51:21And I just want everything to be okay.
51:24Where is he?
51:34He's not here.
51:36He's just going to voicemail.
51:37I've called him so many times now.
51:38I can't even count.
51:39Oh, my phone's going.
51:40Hello?
51:41Hiya.
51:42He's not here.
51:43My God, that's really bad.
51:44I'm really angry.
51:45I'm really upset.
51:46But I really love him.
51:47I know, but I'm just...
51:48Connection's gone.
51:50I'm so pissed off.
51:51Humiliating.
51:52It's embarrassing.
51:53I wouldn't do that to anyone.
51:54Just leave them in a foreign country by themselves.
51:55Like...
51:56Yeah, it's...
51:57I'm trying to think of what I'm going to do.
51:59Cos I'm just full of anxiety.
52:00I'm just full of anxiety.
52:01I'm just full of anxiety.
52:02I'm just full of anxiety.
52:03I'm just full of anxiety.
52:04I'm just full of anxiety.
52:05I'm really angry.
52:06I'm really upset.
52:07I'm really upset.
52:08But I really love him.
52:09I know, but I'm just...
52:10Connection's gone.
52:11I'm so pissed off.
52:12Humiliating.
52:13It's embarrassing.
52:14I wouldn't do that to anyone.
52:15Just leave them in a foreign country by themselves.
52:16Like...
52:17Yeah, it's...
52:18I'm just trying to think of what I'm going to do.
52:20Cos I'm just full of anxiety.
52:29I can't even...
52:30I don't know what I'm going to do.
52:35Yeah.
52:36I just want to be happy.
53:02She has had a jealous side.
53:04We don't want that anymore.
53:06Whoa, whoa, whoa.
53:07You're not convincing us.
53:09It's small stages.
53:10I don't think our family will accept you.
53:15I'm happy about that.
53:16Come on.
53:17Come on.
53:19I'm travelling 30 hours across the world
53:21to meet somebody I've never met.
53:23I'm thinking that he wants to propose you.
53:25It's too rushed.
53:28She don't respect me.
53:30Loser!
53:31Loser!
53:32Are you for real?
53:33Oh, shit.
53:34I'm reading the Quran, learning your religion, and then you're here.
53:42Make us flash this light.
53:43This means don't be moving.
53:45Woof, woof.
53:47Oops, sorry, darling.
53:48Go on, kissy, kissy.
53:49No.
53:50Kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy.
53:51Fuck.
53:56Disgusting.
53:58I'm so sorry.
54:00What does your nephew call you?
54:01Frodo.
54:03Things I don't think are adding up.
54:05But this could be my last chance for love.
54:07Why don't you just go?
54:09We can't have sex.
54:11You gotta go fuck?
54:12You are joking.
54:13No.
54:14I don't know how to show affection the way that you want.
54:17Maybe he's your next door, darling.
54:20I wanna go to my best friend and my boyfriend that I use.
54:23I like you.
54:30Welcome to the day job.
54:31Sim.
54:32Ha ha.
54:33We are your, my aunt.
54:34Happy birthday night.
54:39Open the mail for 2 Braden www. overcome Mundial.com
54:43another incomprehensive message that you could help us.
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