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00:00I've just fallen in love with someone from a different country.
00:13Everyone thinks it's our holiday romance.
00:18But he's so hot.
00:20I'm about to fly out to Brazil for love.
00:26Everyone just falls in love with this man.
00:29He makes me feel amazing.
00:31She's perfect for me in every single way.
00:33She's beautiful, she's smart.
00:37I am really excited now.
00:39Oh my God.
00:48We are the party people.
00:50We're really, really party people.
00:56It's true love.
00:59What could go wrong?
01:01Shit.
01:04I'm not ready to be a stepdad.
01:06The idea actually makes me feel a little bit sick.
01:09I just want everyone to be happy.
01:11Are we supposed to live together if you can lie?
01:13Oh, come on.
01:14Don't even bother.
01:15Don't even bother.
01:16It's all most game over, isn't it?
01:18Do you think she's real?
01:19Maybe she's dragging me along.
01:20Wifers ain't real.
01:22Is your sister really your wife?
01:25I'm a Muslim.
01:26She is Christian.
01:27You don't drink alcohol.
01:29I've got nothing to hide.
01:30You don't open the phone.
01:31It's a suspect.
01:32I didn't answer the phone to Jay because I was just trying to avoid another row.
01:44It is still in my head.
01:56This is it.
01:57I'm going out to meet Sandra and I'm so excited.
02:01Hugging her feels like the first time all over again.
02:05I will be now spending so much time with the kids.
02:08This is all new.
02:09He does not want to be a stepfather of your kids.
02:12How are you going to deal with that?
02:14They need a father.
02:15Abraham's been keeping secrets from me.
02:18He said he never had one.
02:20Look at his friends on Facebook.
02:22Do you know her?
02:23No.
02:24I'm going to go to the Gambia and get these questions answered.
02:27I'm worried that she's going to be heartbroken.
02:29Have you got a social media?
02:31Why not?
02:32You're lying, man.
02:33You've put single.
02:34It's just a joke, man.
02:35Ain't really no joke.
02:36And I ain't happy about that.
02:37Babe.
02:38Babe, this is a joke, man.
02:39Come on.
02:59Oh, hi, Abraham.
03:00Hi, babe.
03:01I'm all right?
03:02Mm-hmm.
03:03Yeah.
03:04Have you thought about what's happened?
03:05The deception?
03:06Yeah.
03:07Well, I left the room to have a bit of space for Abraham because he's put single in his social
03:20network.
03:21I don't know if he's the man who he says he is.
03:24Is he playing me?
03:26You know, I don't know what to think at the moment.
03:28Yeah, I'm sorry you were upset.
03:31Mm-hmm.
03:32The last time you left, you said I should leave you alone.
03:36So that's why I tried to go on Facebook and try to annoy you and try to convince you to
03:43come back to me.
03:44I did it as a joke.
03:47It doesn't seem a very good sort of joke, does it?
03:51Why did you say you didn't have social media?
03:54Yeah, because it was temporarily.
03:57I don't know, one month or something like that.
04:00So it was not there permanently.
04:03Or maybe I didn't delete it properly.
04:06It does sound a bit cock and ball.
04:09I'm not very good on the phone.
04:11Can you check and see?
04:13Yeah.
04:14No social media there.
04:16No, really.
04:18I don't have anything to hide.
04:22See?
04:23Not in there.
04:24Oh, it has gone then.
04:26Oh, good.
04:27It's a trust thing now.
04:29So how do I know I can trust you in the future?
04:31Yeah, you can trust me because...
04:33How do I know though?
04:34You put a doubt in my mind now and it's upset me a lot because I really love you and I don't
04:40want to jeopardise my time, my effort, my energy into you if you're not trustworthy.
04:47Yeah, of course.
04:48Forgive me for these times.
04:50I think I will because I'm a forgiving person and I think we should start afresh from now on.
04:56What do you think?
04:57Yeah.
04:58Yeah, of course that will be okay.
04:59But I will be keeping an eye out.
05:01If there's any more inaccuracies with any social medias then you could be in a lot of trouble.
05:08Trouble.
05:09So be careful.
05:10I need to confront Ibraham about these disgusting photos that I found on his social media of women scantily clad.
05:22Now I was holding off because these photos are my prime ammunition.
05:28And as a woman I'm a little bit devious and I always hold back the best till last.
05:34So I'll be confronting them about that at the right time.
05:38We'll wait and see.
05:40I don't want to be in a trouble again.
05:43Tomorrow I'll take you to the village, to the family, to try to convince you to forgive me.
05:48And then we go back to good times.
05:50Yeah.
05:51Yeah.
05:52That would be good.
05:53Ibraham's taking me to meet his family and that does mean a lot.
05:56I'm going to enjoy my time in the village but I'm also going to be looking for any other discrepancies that might come to light.
06:05I'm on the side.
06:12This is embarrassing.
06:27Brazil messes England.
06:30One of the best moments of my life has definitely been reconnecting with Sandra.
06:34When I first met Sandra 17 years ago there was a spark but I never thought
06:39that spark would stay alight and now I'm in Brazil after spending eight months
06:44apart so this trip will be a real test for me and for her it's gonna be the
06:49first time that I'm gonna be beating all of her extended family embarrassing
06:55it's also the longest time that we'll be together
07:00come on then let Julia play Sandra's sister was meant to be looking after the
07:05kids but somehow we've ended up looking after her kid buy two get one free
07:13I'm straight happy
07:20it's good what's this name what's his name it's so scary to me to be a parental
07:27like figure but if that's what Sandra wants I'm ready to give that a go one two
07:33three I should count import skis uno dos tres cuatro quick five so I'll try and
07:42embrace it and we'll play a game of hide and seek that's all I can think of they're
07:47not here in the washing machine hopefully not no could one of them fit and oh that
07:54was good oh you hid behind there so you want well you're meant to stay you're meant to hide
08:00running around with the kids in a tiny apartment it is chaos it's just exhausted me and I've got to ask
08:13myself do I want this life we've had two hours of this and I guess it makes me miss some aspects of
08:21normal life it's normal for me I think I've sort of numbed myself to it and just you know what's a
08:29bit stoic about everything Finn's being over the top he needs to do things like stepfather
08:36um I didn't choose this this is the reality there we go done I chose the love of Sandra sure but I
08:47didn't choose anything else that came with it could I do this day-to-day the answer is definitely not
08:55good morning good morning darling me and Messe have got a fiery relationship we argue we
09:24make up we argue we make up that's us but I'd like to have less arguments it's just a lot of
09:32tension this morning Messe's being so quiet I can tell he's still thinking about me not picking up the
09:39phones Jay I just want to get this resolved once and for all I need to apologize I should have just
09:47answered the phone but I just worry I want you to get along I want you to be good maybe this
09:54morning we call Jay if you want darling I don't want to make you upset my first priority you we
10:03can talk I do worry about the doubts that could be in Messe's mind but I just want to prove to him
10:09that I've got nothing to hide let's talk okay if you want you talk first no problem we talk together
10:19and I think the best thing to do is just call Jay and get this over and done with hello hello yeah
10:29yeah okay
10:40it has upset me what you think about me yeah
10:52how awkward is this do I really have to be here I don't think about the visa anytime
11:03yeah it was only out of concern for Shannon and making sure that she was all right
11:08Jay I don't understand why you worry Shannon is my girlfriend it is my work it is my job
11:18I am worried about the Shannon why would he want the reason to come to England anyway look
11:23just looking out for you appreciate it I need to explain myself you think me wrong
11:29Shannon my priority I don't want to get upset Shannon I love really Shannon yeah
11:38you know I obviously have to be honest that sounds really nice seeing that makes me go yeah everything's
11:50fine yeah everything's good yeah that's it like no one's ever met him same time you and Shannon really
12:02good friends I don't want to damage your friendship I want everyone is happy yeah all we needed to really
12:11do was sit and talk and we've done that and it's been great I feel better I am explained myself you can't
12:19talk about me this style now we're gonna get off and thank you very much now we forgot about
12:29everything Shannon seems now happy okay if you're happy I am happy I love the Shannon I once spent all my
12:39life together now I know what I do it is the really big decision on my life I am a scar Shannon will you
12:51marry me it is what I want smiley face I'm hoping we can just put all this behind us now and enjoy our
13:02time together Mete's planned a little trip for us so it'll be nice to get away for a few days let's go
13:10get packed let's go let's go let's go but there are a few worries we've managed to communicate better
13:17today but who knows how long that's gonna last do you pack the bags I'm coming what the fuck I unpack
13:23the bags help me I know we've managed to resolve this issue with Jay but we need to keep this up if
13:30me and Messe keep arguing I don't know how we're gonna move forward we can't sustain such a rocky
13:35relationship really look everything yours yeah not everything mine really what's your problem
13:47the tree don't get the tree
14:11yes my name is Andrew I'm 36 years old and I'm from Watford
14:22I'm a software engineer sorry can I stop a second I've got really boring jobs
14:32my job definitely doesn't suit my personality I love flying drones I love being around nature
14:49out in the wilderness any chance I get to have an adventure I'm always up for it I'm probably a bit
14:57crazy impulsive I actually spent a year as a busker but it's worth all of the risk for the
15:06adventures that I've had
15:07we are recording so welcome everybody how are you doing Andy yeah I'm not too bad my job may be boring
15:18but my podcast is bonkers how many bones would you have that I guess you've broken it
15:22I've I've lost count I have brittle bones they x-rayed my spine once and I had 118 micro fractures
15:30the podcast is really just two idiots in wheelchairs talking about everything from
15:37dating and relationships literally spent like a whole weekend with this girl and then she told me
15:42she was a lesbian shit to the mad adventures we've had together like when was the last time
15:48you've broken a bone went to the bar got my two rum and cokes and as I was walking back tripped over
15:53my own feet now here is slightly drunk Andy's logic I've got a skeleton that could break very easily
16:00what am I going to save obviously obviously the rum so I like superman as I felt try and balance
16:07these drinks landed face first on the floor I don't really walk anymore my condition hasn't held me back
16:14in life but it's definitely held me back in finding true love I wanted somebody to share my life with
16:22and I started thinking about these memories of being in hospital with these amazing Filipino nurses who
16:29were just the kindest most caring people so I went specifically on a website that was for meeting
16:34Filipino people and then I met Ara the first thing I noticed was her deep brown eyes I just thought she
16:42looked really beautiful there was something that pulled me in and when we started talking she was
16:48genuinely interested in who I was she was asking me loads of questions about my life about my job
16:55I told her about my disability and her first response was I don't care and she was okay with it
17:00which is I've never experienced that before
17:02it was very unexpected I mean I wasn't sure if it was genuine or just catfishing me or something
17:11there was all these different thoughts going through my head how are you how was your day
17:15what are you up to now
17:20but I really have fallen hard for Ara so I have to just trust her
17:28your mom okay
17:29um yeah I'll be going there once this fall as I did
17:36yeah yeah we've never met in person before we've only known each other for just a short
17:41amount of time but completely in love with her
17:45all right okay
17:47you want to go I need to take care of my mom outside
17:54all right how about beautiful
17:56okay I love you
17:58I told my friends and family as little as possible
18:11a few of my close friends I said that I'd met this person and I kind of downplayed it
18:18today I'm meeting with my friend Abby
18:21hey hey you all right oh yeah I really value Abby's opinion
18:28thanks so much goodness for you thank you
18:30how have you been busy yeah yeah um how's Ara
18:35she's good yeah she's amazing I'll be honest like when you first said that you were dating
18:41someone online from the Philippines we were a bit like oh is this okay like a bit worried
18:49a lot of people thought that I think yeah I've watched a lot of like catfish TV
18:52yeah me too yeah it does make me a little bit worried
18:57everyone's saying that so do you think she's real
19:03I mean I was a bit worried really yeah I just thought like what if this person doesn't exist
19:08but you know I just saw her and I was like this is the person for me
19:12so I'm gonna go out to the Philippines to meet her in person
19:19yeah I don't know if it's brave or stupid
19:23uh-huh I mean going out to the Philippines
19:26it is it is objectively mental
19:30how long was the flight
19:32in total it's about 30 hours of travel
19:3530 hours yeah Andy
19:38so Andy and I both have brittle bones
19:43we have had similar issues with our spines and personally I would never ever go on a 30
19:50hour flight what's the access like it's not great I can't imagine going there and just trusting
19:58someone that I've never met before I have often been worried about Andy because he does make
20:04reckless decisions and he takes risks I just feel like all of this is happening very quickly
20:10I mean it's kind of what I've always been like I know yeah I think she's understandably a bit worried
20:18that I'm traveling 30 plus hours across the world on my own in a wheelchair to go and meet somebody that
20:25so much that could go wrong and so many risks is it worth it yeah I know that sounds crazy but
20:41yeah if you love somebody you love somebody you can't help that no matter how crazy it is
20:47I think tonight will be fun though did you get a cake I think I also got a cake
21:08tonight we're going to a family barbecue it's her sister's birthday I'm going to be beating lots of
21:14family members for the first time I do have some nerves here because I've got to try and speak
21:20some Portuguese I know very little I am really worried about it and I don't want to let you down
21:25that's the main thing in the whole world I really love Sandra she brings an awful amount of joy
21:33happiness and I want to impress Sandra's family 10 minutes and we'll be there 10 minutes
21:40see when coming here I want to spend time with my family and my kids
21:47at the end of this trip I hope he can decide this is the place he want to be
21:57good to see you hello hello I have a huge family I wish him all good luck
22:08wow what are they singing
22:27that's everyone right there's no one else oh it's another one gonna get through the walls
22:40it's just a sea of people I don't know the place I don't know the language this is totally not my world
22:52whatsoever and breathe it's unusual this there's a lot of people should we sit down
23:01I'm just gonna hide here when I'm with my family I like to spend time with him I and
23:11Finn just sit on the sofa I don't want to do that what's the Wi-Fi password and he is here in Brazil
23:19he needs to communicate with my family the brother yep Erasmus he is full-on and we've got a whole night of this
23:38absolutely humiliating I didn't expect it I didn't want it
24:08and the sooner we forget about that the better
24:10can you stay for a little bit it's quite hard work this I'm really not feeling comfortable enough to
24:23interact with everyone so far our brother's come along he's picked me up there's a lot just dealing
24:27with him I just need to take stuff and breathe yes I know but at this stage it's difficult saying that
24:36right now I can't just learn Portuguese in a night I'm in the city I'm not really struggling because I need you like I've never
24:44needed you before I am not going to be out of time so this is how it's going to be
24:49can you do that no but I don't think I have a choice yes just stay for a little bit because really my heart rate is still going there's a lot going on
25:01Finn's being very dramatic he didn't try and I didn't like that
25:06it's either sink or swim and and at the moment I'm sinking don't leave me I'm properly scared I use laughter as a defense mechanism when I feel uncomfortable I laugh when I think something's funny I laugh there's no difference
25:23oh dear Sandra's just run away which is genuinely annoying because gotta offend for myself
25:36I'm annoyed with Sandra that she's just done that I need her
25:41if I could get off this sofa now and run
25:44I would
25:45oh my days
26:06oh everyone rushing late
26:08oh so busy oh my days
26:12we're on the ferry to meet Ibraham's family I'm meeting them for the first time so I'm really excited
26:19but I'm also on a mission looking for anything that would lead me to believe that he's not been honest with me
26:26I can't wait to see my room my room that you made for me because I'm excited
26:31oh okay I even forgot
26:33oh how could you forget
26:35because of the excitement I forgot to
26:37ah that's so exciting
26:39Ibraham has built me a room in his house and I think that's really sweet and I can't wait to see it
26:46let me show Xena's room
26:54it's gonna be amazing
26:59as you can see it's still
27:03not really ready a lot of things to do
27:07but God is great
27:09maybe very soon I'll be able to finish it
27:12Inshallah
27:14oh isn't it lovely
27:20oh look
27:22I'm glad we're here
27:29it's a long journey on that boat
27:31does your family speak English though
27:33English no
27:34oh wow
27:39this is good
27:40I've never had such a warm welcome
27:55they seem so lovely
27:56where shall I sit
27:58I can see my family
28:02they are very happy to see Xena
28:05and I think she will like it in the village
28:10so can I give you a photo
28:12see around the house please
28:14yes
28:15yes definitely
28:16let's have a look
28:17let's go ahead yeah
28:18not many boyfriends would build a room would they for their girlfriend
28:22I'm really excited to see my room I can't wait
28:26where is it
28:27let's go that's it
28:28what this one
28:29yes this one
28:31oh you're joking
28:33is that it
28:36sorry it's not ready
28:38when it's finished it's going to be perfect
28:42are you upset
28:46I am a bit
28:47it's just like a shack
28:49why hasn't it got a roof
28:51why hasn't it even got a window
28:53is it going to have a window
28:55of course yeah
28:56I wasn't expecting Buckingham and Paris
28:59or anything like that
29:01but
29:01when are you going to get it finished
29:04when
29:06it looks like ages
29:09finances was the main issue man
29:17I know
29:18let's see what we can arrange financially
29:20maybe
29:21I still need
29:232,000 pounds
29:25windows roof
29:27yeah
29:27the bathroom there behind
29:29what ensuite
29:30I think she can
29:32help me a bit there
29:34to finish the room
29:35you're just going to have to get your finger out
29:37and get it finished
29:38ASAP
29:39because
29:39this is a huge disappointment for me
29:42oh
29:42very sorry babe
29:44can you show me where the toilet is
29:49yeah
29:49follow me
29:50okay
29:51is it a long way
29:53no
29:53oh that's the toilet
29:56toilet yeah
30:00oh
30:01you're joking
30:03what do you think
30:04this is a local trolling man
30:11local
30:11why did
30:12if I sit down
30:14I won't be able to get up again
30:15what if a gecko comes crawling around
30:18nibbling up my bum
30:19what do I do then
30:21first impression
30:23no
30:24didn't know it was like this
30:26okay
30:26I like authentic
30:27but that's
30:28I'm thinking of
30:30what is going to be my backup plan
30:32really
30:33my best bet
30:34would be for me to go
30:35wee in a jug
30:35because I can't sit down
30:37or stand over that
30:38I would need a jug
30:39wee in a jug
30:41and tip it down
30:41so have you got a jug
30:43a jug
30:45a jug
30:45you know like a jug
30:46what you cook with
30:47or you tip with
30:48if I'd have known
30:49I'd have brought one with me
30:50I am a lady of a certain age
30:52and I don't know
30:54how
30:54I'm going to manage
30:56because I will need to go to the toilet
30:58more than once
30:58in the night
30:59I'm not feeling it
31:02no
31:05it's pissing it down
31:26it's not a really good start to the trip
31:29me and Messe are going on a trip
31:32he's organised it all
31:34so I have no idea
31:35what he's got in store for us
31:36I am
31:38scared
31:39I love all-inclusive hotels
31:42spas
31:43all that kind of thing
31:44I'd love to be on a beach right now
31:47sipping a cocktail
31:48in the sun
31:49just where
31:50where is he
31:51oh
31:52oh
31:54here
31:54hello
32:01oh my god
32:06look at this
32:07she is absolutely like the caravan
32:10this is the really good way the holiday
32:14amazing amazing
32:16yeah can I see inside
32:17yeah
32:18okay
32:19oh my god
32:23this is not my cup of tea
32:27small though
32:30how we had together this space
32:31we're gonna have to keep each other happy and positive
32:34if we have an argument
32:37there's nowhere to go
32:39no problem darling
32:41we make good holiday together
32:43let's go co-pilot
32:47please don't crash this caravan
32:51why you say it in our negative
32:54just I want this holiday
32:55we make the good holiday
32:57you don't make me arguing
32:58I make us arguing
33:00I don't make an argument
33:01I know
33:02we don't argue this this trip
33:04okay promise
33:05promise
33:06yeah
33:06okay
33:08okay
33:09we see
33:10be careful
33:15I am careful
33:16I don't think you understand this map
33:21how you know
33:23huh
33:24right
33:25if you say turn right here
33:29okay okay
33:30you are the boss
33:32I am listening to you
33:32you say to turn around
33:34do this
33:35do this
33:35do this
33:36methe's not helping me at all
33:38okay
33:39look the fucking map
33:40methe
33:41I don't know
33:42he's not listening to me
33:44really you fuck this map
33:48okay
33:49at this rate
33:52I don't think we're ever gonna get there
33:53oh
33:54what
33:56ah
33:56if you don't look this map
33:59really don't use this map
34:01hey who is that the arguing first
34:07I am glad I am glad I got
34:11maybe we find a good area here
34:16we look yeah
34:17no one here
34:19what yeah
34:20we don't need anyone
34:21this campere looks really great
34:29fishing jump
34:31amazing wheel
34:33calm
34:34no anyone here
34:35just Shannon and me
34:38okay
34:39okay
34:41when I imagined a caravan trip in Turkey
34:46I thought of beaches
34:47sun
34:48this isn't what I thought of at all
34:51oh
34:52uh
34:53you've got to get your ass off
34:54pardon pardon pardon pardon
34:56it's tiny in here
34:59Shannon going to mood slowly slowly
35:01because small area
35:03she's stressed now
35:05if you know if we booked the hotel
35:07they already make the bed
35:09calm down darling
35:11we are here just on the nature
35:13calm relax please
35:15you don't like the camping life
35:17if there's no rain
35:18it's not muddy
35:20really good
35:21I don't like the rain
35:23I'm coming to Turkey for no rain
35:25I'll just eat behind here
35:43this barbecue has gone from bad to worse
35:47Sandra's left me to fend for myself
35:50I'm really struggling
35:51he needs to communicate with my family
35:57and my sister wants to have a chat with him
36:00she wants to know what he's really intention with me
36:05hey
36:07hello
36:08can I have a conversation with you
36:10depends what about
36:11I'm a little bit worried
36:13because she's going to tell him a lot of things
36:15that he doesn't want to hear
36:17you know I'm very protective with Sandra Wright
36:20I just want you to be sure
36:22what do you want with her
36:23this is Sandra's closest sister
36:30and Heloise are coming in like that
36:33it's now put me right on edge
36:35you don't like kids
36:37and she has two kids
36:38well I think my reservations
36:40around having kids are
36:42just
36:43so many
36:45I've never had that desire
36:48or drive
36:49like I would never see myself
36:51as Lorenzo and Elisa's dad
36:54what's that father
36:56I don't think I would want that either
36:58but you need to accept her
37:00with her kids
37:01you are going to be responsible for them
37:04as well
37:04the most important thing is to think about
37:09that she has kids
37:10but I don't know if he's going to embrace this
37:12it's not only about you
37:14I feel like this is becoming a grilling
37:18and I'm not ready for this
37:20I'm very worried about how it would pan out
37:23there's also culture difference
37:24there's a language
37:25I don't see too much effort
37:27for me to learn
37:28you only speak in English
37:29yeah
37:30even with my family
37:31I'm really worried about it
37:33you know our history right
37:36yes
37:36and my mother had
37:38nine
37:38nine
37:39nine children
37:40and so
37:41I think Sander would like to have more kids with you
37:44really?
37:47has she said that?
37:48yes she did
37:49that's a surprise to me
37:51yeah
37:51but she said
37:52I feel like I've signed up to something
37:57I didn't know I'd been signed up to
37:59the impression I got is
38:00is just different
38:01I don't think I can make any decisions now
38:04this relationship has taken a step back
38:06Heloise has put a lot of doubts in my head
38:09you've been with her for two years
38:12and you're not sure about what you really want
38:15but
38:16you are in doubt
38:17but I think that I can't give
38:19what everyone wants straight away
38:22because it wouldn't be realistic
38:22I can't be rushed in a situation like this
38:25and I feel like the more people that rush me
38:27the worse it will get
38:29it will push me away
38:30Sander is more decided
38:32that's why I don't want her to suffer
38:34there is no rule book for this
38:37it's small stages
38:39need to do more efforts
38:41if you cannot
38:42I don't think our family will accept you
38:44okay
38:45you're not convincing us
38:49my family and I
38:50that you really accept our culture
38:52Sander's kids
38:54it's not a relationship
38:55I don't believe in this guy
38:57to be honest
38:59I don't believe him
39:00think about it
39:04this feels like
39:08judgment day
39:10she's saying that I've made no effort tonight
39:13and that's tough
39:15because I think I've put in enough
39:17the biggest thing that's come from all this
39:20is Heloise drops the bombshell
39:22that Sander actually wants more kids
39:25there's a lot to think about
39:26and if I'm honest
39:27I'm not sure how I feel about
39:29where this relationship is going to go
39:30you think this rain it is the fire
39:58it's raining
40:02the sky's gray
40:04it's miserable and depressing
40:05I just feel like I'm back in England
40:07what
40:08do I look like the barbecue breakfast
40:10no
40:11maybe you will watch anyone
40:13here we go again
40:14why has everything got to be an argument
40:16oh fire stop
40:18it is dying
40:20it is dying because you are really talking too much
40:24what the fuck
40:25yeah
40:27median
40:28median
40:29yeah
40:30medium
40:30you think you are in the steakhouse
40:32yeah
40:33oh my god
40:34oh my god
40:35really
40:35Shannon going to stress
40:37darling what are you doing
40:39one's a boot
40:40one's a shoe
40:41really good idea
40:42I think this is hard for Shannon
40:45it is really wet
40:46it is really cold
40:48it is coming off
40:49but
40:51we are together now
40:53cheers
40:54cheers
40:56we will be happy
40:58do you know
40:59would you rather
41:01no
41:02basic one
41:03would you rather
41:04have
41:05bad sex
41:06all your life
41:08when you want
41:09yeah
41:09or
41:09other one
41:11what is the other one
41:12I am choosing
41:12or
41:15best sex of your life
41:18really amazing sex
41:19oh
41:20but
41:20every five years
41:22oh
41:23can we make cheating
41:26me and methe have so much more fun when we are not arguing
41:30I wish it would always be like this
41:32car coming
41:36he has flashed his lights
41:40look
41:40look look look
41:42yeah
41:42you know what this mean in England
41:44no
41:44we call dogging in England
41:48dogging what
41:51really I don't know
41:53I am think just dogs
41:55woof woof
41:56this mean
41:57car sex
41:58that's lighter than the sex any
42:00yeah we're not doing that
42:01now I am show you
42:03my flashing light
42:05better than your flashing light
42:07we don't want to join them
42:10turn your light off
42:11it means that we want to join them
42:13you want the chamois
42:15no
42:15turn off our light
42:17that's mean in Turkey
42:19not the sex anything
42:20just we are doing
42:25does it count if it's in a caravan
42:31really cold now
42:35maybe we draw inside this
42:38you don't want to make it
42:43no I don't want to make it
42:45too cold
42:48really shit
42:49you turn off this light
42:53that's mean that
42:55what does mean this
42:57stop
42:58we're not doing that tonight
43:01turn off
43:03today I'm flying halfway across the world to the Philippines
43:24Aaron and I have never met
43:27I'm terrified
43:33but I need to know
43:35if it's real
43:36the accessibility in the Philippines
43:40outside of Manila
43:41is not great
43:43oh my god
43:45Heathrow
43:46yeah
43:46it's a less developed country
43:50very provincial
43:51the roads are barely good enough
43:53for cars
43:54so they're definitely not good enough
43:55for wheelchairs
43:55ever been to the Philippines before?
43:59uh
43:59no
44:00I think a lot of people
44:02were very cautious
44:03and I've never had that in me
44:05the kind of life I've lived
44:06with having a disability
44:08and everything
44:09you sort of
44:09take chances when you can
44:11because
44:11you don't know
44:12when your next chance
44:13is going to be
44:14I can't wait to be there
44:21my parents were always worried
44:23because of my condition
44:24and they don't want me to
44:25have any fractures
44:26or accidents
44:27away from home
44:28but I think as I've got older
44:29they've learned
44:30that they can't really
44:31stop me from going anywhere
44:32so
44:33I'm
44:34coming to the Philippines
44:36this is all a bit mad
44:41I have no idea
44:43if Hera's going to be there
44:44when I get there
44:44yeah
44:45and I don't know
44:45what I'm going to do
44:46if she's still up there
44:47she'll probably
44:49sort this through a little bit
44:50before I'm just going to play
44:51bless me that
45:06it's taken me forever
45:19to get through customs
45:20and baggage
45:21the airport's insane
45:26it's noisy
45:32chaotic
45:33and
45:35I can't
45:37find her
45:37anywhere
45:38nothing
45:40and there's no wifi
45:41at the airport
45:41my phone
45:43won't connect to
45:44any of the networks
45:45no free wifi
45:50no signal
45:51so I can't
45:52call her
45:53absolute nightmare
45:54why is she in here
45:58what if this ain't real
46:05I've been on two planes
46:09and nearly 30 hours
46:11of travel
46:13I have no hotel
46:22I am
46:24screwed
46:26basically
46:27I can't see
46:36I'm really worried
46:37that she's not going to
46:38show up
46:39maybe she was
46:40stringing me along
46:40the whole time
46:41what happened
46:43sure not
46:44don't respect me
46:45like a partner
46:45like a boyfriend
46:46that she's so fucking rude
46:48this is extremely hard
46:49for me at the moment
46:50I don't want to lose
46:51Adnan
46:51for me everything is done
46:53what are you doing
46:54saying to you stop
46:57I am really angry
46:58Matthew doesn't listen to me
47:00my toes nearly under the wheel
47:02if you don't have
47:03the good communication
47:04I can't ask her
47:05will you marry me
47:06what does your nephew
47:07call you
47:08he called me father
47:09what the fuck
47:10certain things
47:11I don't think
47:12are adding up
47:13oh I'm struggling
47:15oh mate
47:17ah there's a cockroach
47:19that could have gone
47:20right up my vagina
47:27I don't think
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