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Episode name - Bring Me a Ring
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00:00Oh, wow.
00:14Oh, my gosh.
00:16This is great.
00:28Oh.
00:30Oh, okay, what am I going to wear today?
00:39I've been anticipating this date with Bruno since Luisa showed me his video way before
00:44I left for Brazil.
00:45When I think about finding love, I think about a partner who wants to grow together
00:52with me, and I'm ready to love.
00:56That was cute.
00:58And now I can't believe this day is here.
01:01But I still really like Bernardo, and we have been talking every day since our first date.
01:07I don't know how to make sense of what I'm feeling.
01:13I think I'm just getting a little bit nervous about potentially liking two people so much
01:18at the same time.
01:19I'm a worrier, but I'm trying to be open to the process.
01:26Oh, hi, Mom.
01:27How are you guys?
01:28Right now I'm walking to my date.
01:34I'm actually going to go see Bruno.
01:37Oh, my God.
01:39And we are going to be rollerblading.
01:41Oh, wow.
01:42Wow.
01:43I don't know how to rollerblade.
01:44I don't think I've ever rollerbladed in my entire life.
01:49That's so funny.
01:50Oh, my gosh.
01:51Think about me over the next couple of hours as I'm on rollerblades.
01:54Oh, my gosh.
01:55Okay.
01:57Love you.
01:58We love you.
01:59All right.
02:00Chat later.
02:01All right.
02:02Bye.
02:05Bernardo was a great match for her for the first date.
02:09But I think Bruno is a better match for Monica
02:12because Bruno is much more firm about what he wants in life.
02:19And he's really ready for a relationship.
02:22I'm excited about Monica's future with Bruno.
02:25And I hope they can build this relationship together
02:29with good communication and maturity.
02:39Hello.
02:40Hi.
02:41I'm Monica.
02:42Hi.
02:43Hi.
02:44Nice to meet you.
02:45We give a kiss.
02:46Oh, we do?
02:47I have a rule against kissing.
02:49I'm just kidding.
02:50Don't worry.
02:51Nice to meet you.
02:52You smell good.
02:53Yeah.
02:54I'm thinking about we're just going to ride.
02:56You want to ride with me?
02:57You have experience with the rollerblading?
02:58No.
02:59No.
03:00No?
03:01No?
03:02Like zero.
03:03Not at all?
03:04Oh, okay.
03:05You're going to have to help me.
03:06Yeah.
03:07I will.
03:08Okay.
03:09Let's go.
03:10When I first see Monica, I think, oh, she's pretty.
03:14She's smaller than me, and I love this.
03:18And I love the smile.
03:21And I'm really nervous because I've never been in a date
03:25with an American woman.
03:26But when I saw her, my spirit, my mind come down.
03:31No.
03:32So this is probably mine, right?
03:33The smaller one.
03:34Yeah.
03:35With a big head, not going to lie.
03:36Oh, it looks pretty.
03:37But is it, like, tight enough?
03:38Should I take my ponytails out?
03:40No.
03:41I will help you.
03:42It's the other way.
03:43Other.
03:44I had it on backwards, Bruno.
03:48No.
03:49Wow, a dork.
03:50It's not like that.
03:52You can do that.
03:53I'm good.
03:54I'm fine.
03:55Okay.
03:57You're going to think I'm such a dork.
04:00Okay.
04:01You can think that.
04:02I will.
04:03No.
04:05Bruno's turning out to be a real gentleman.
04:07Every girl needs a Cinderella moment, right?
04:09And I just happen to be in rollerblades.
04:11Having a little help from someone so attractive
04:14and handsome like Bruno, he has a bright, brilliant smile.
04:18And the butterflies are just kind of fluttering inside of me.
04:22But Luisa warned me about not kissing him.
04:25I got to keep my emotions in check on the first date.
04:28So, Bruno, what do you do for work?
04:30Um, business consultant.
04:33Oh, yeah, yeah.
04:34But I'm a journalist.
04:35Oh, wow.
04:36Yeah.
04:37And tell me more about you.
04:39So, I have a daughter.
04:41You have a daughter?
04:42I do.
04:43Oh, yeah.
04:44Can you guess how old she is?
04:45Um, 10 years.
04:48A little older.
04:49A little older?
04:50I have a 21-year-old daughter.
04:5221, yeah.
04:53Yeah, yeah.
04:54Um, she's my only daughter.
04:55She looks pretty like mom.
04:57Aw.
04:58Okay.
04:59Breathe.
05:01Concentrate it.
05:04Oh, my God.
05:06Okay.
05:07Okay.
05:08I feel like that kid in, um, Christmas Story.
05:12Yeah.
05:13Holy chihuahua.
05:14Yeah, yeah.
05:15All set.
05:17Let's go.
05:18Okay.
05:25Yay, we're rollerblading.
05:26Yeah.
05:27Kind of.
05:28Western?
05:29No.
05:30No.
05:31Are you afraid?
05:32I am afraid.
05:33I feel like I'm gonna fall.
05:36You're amazing.
05:37Oh, my God.
05:39I'm amazing.
05:40You're sweet.
05:41You're doing well.
05:42Wait, how old are you?
05:44Uh, I'm 40.
05:45Okay, I'm 41.
05:4641?
05:47Okay.
05:48Do you have your daughter so...
05:49So young.
05:50So young.
05:51Yeah.
05:53So do you have any kids?
05:54No.
05:55Okay.
05:56Do you want...
05:57Um, sure.
05:58I mean...
05:59Why not?
06:00Oh, oh.
06:01Do I want to go for more?
06:02For more.
06:03Children.
06:04Oh, I thought you meant rollerblading.
06:05I was like, sure.
06:06Uh, no.
06:07Um, but...
06:08That's all right.
06:09But what about you?
06:10I mean, what...
06:11Yeah.
06:12Uh, mom of my child's are...
06:14Good for you.
06:15Look at you.
06:16Yeah.
06:17Okay, that's...
06:18I'm looking for love.
06:19You are?
06:20Yeah.
06:21Let's sit down.
06:22Yeah, let's sit down.
06:23Okay.
06:24Use the brakes.
06:25Use the brakes.
06:26Asking Bruno if he wants children and hearing that he doesn't, it's like a weight lifted off
06:31my shoulder.
06:32So he's proving to me, you know, that he knows what he wants without hesitation and that is
06:36a big deal for me.
06:37Uh, right now, do you want to go walk away on the, the, do you know, uh, what is the
06:42name?
06:43What is this?
06:44To me, it would be like a little street market.
06:46Street market.
06:47Yeah, yeah, it looks like.
06:48But, uh, in Brazil, uh, the name is Ferinha.
06:50Ferinha.
06:51Ferinha.
06:52Ferinha.
06:53Ferinha.
06:54Okay, I'll do the Ferinha with you.
06:55Okay.
06:59I am having an awesome time.
07:01Bruno is attractive and kind and funny and smart.
07:06But I am now very confused and very conflicted.
07:11I like both guys.
07:13And though this is a lot of fun, it's also very, it's just not my character and it's troublesome
07:19for me.
07:20Here, let's take a picture on your phone.
07:22Yeah.
07:23Do you have any idea where we are going next?
07:36To fly a kite.
07:37All right.
07:38Hello again.
07:39Hello.
07:40There we go.
07:41Okay.
07:42And we're on our way.
07:43Yay.
07:44I haven't flown a kite for years.
07:45Me too.
07:46It's been such a long time.
07:47I have a lot of interest in many things.
07:49And I took an interest in kites because I wanted to make a kite that would be a generator.
08:06You hang a kite and you could charge your phone or you could make a big one.
08:10Wow.
08:11Oh, that's an interesting idea.
08:14Amber and I just finished eating some signature Singaporean food.
08:19And for the second part of my date with Amber, Dolly's idea was to go fly kites.
08:23I'm not sure if she's interested in me or not.
08:26And I hope that with flying a kite, we'll get to know each other.
08:30We'll get to experiment and work as a team.
08:33You know, Benjamin Franklin proved that while flying a kite, light means consist of electricity.
08:38And I hope that there's a spark while flying a kite with Amber.
08:43You talk about so many, like, little things.
08:45How old are you?
08:46Where are you from?
08:47I mean, I know you're here, but where were you born?
08:49So I'm 37.
08:50I was born in China.
08:52I migrated here when I was seven years old.
08:55I'm glad that I came here and I got a very good education.
08:59Oh, I should talk about myself.
09:03I'm 43.
09:04I'm Harold.
09:05Okay.
09:06I'm from the United States.
09:08I was born in Connecticut.
09:09I have a certificate and certifications to work with nuclear material.
09:14So I keep people safe at the nuclear power plants.
09:17Is it a dangerous job?
09:19It's very safe.
09:20There is danger there, but it's like a very powerful tool.
09:24As long as you follow the steps, it's safe.
09:27Wow.
09:28I think I'm in touch.
09:33I'm okay to hold hands.
09:34Oh, okay.
09:35Yeah.
09:36Nice.
09:37Yeah.
09:38I'm so happy holding your hand.
09:40I was distracted.
09:44The chemistry between me and Harold is a bit uncomfortable.
09:48But I think the date is going pretty well.
09:50In the Asian culture, we normally don't hold hands on the first date.
09:54But because of how short he has the time here, it might be a good idea to hold hands,
09:59which will kind of give us more chance to build up this contact and intimacy.
10:06His hand is very chubby.
10:08So it feels like holding on to a sponge kind of feel.
10:12Very comfortable, actually.
10:25I'm going to need a screenshot.
10:26I mean, a selfie of that.
10:28That is awesome.
10:29Selfie?
10:30Oh.
10:31Okay.
10:32So we should go this side, right?
10:33Let's go this side.
10:39Nice.
10:41Oh, what a view.
10:42This looks like a good spot.
10:43I have something planned.
10:44Oh.
10:45Okay.
10:46Wanna do one?
10:47Okay.
10:48We'll do one first because we're going to have to run with it.
10:50Because there's only a slight breeze.
10:52Yes.
10:57I'm having a wonderful time.
10:58I feel as if my lungs might burst.
11:00I feel so full of butterflies.
11:02I have to breathe to let them free.
11:04But I don't know if she feels the same.
11:07I don't feel she's as excited about this date as much as I am.
11:11And I'm trying my best.
11:13Okay.
11:14Let's run, run, run, run.
11:16You got it.
11:17Woo!
11:20Ah!
11:22Ah!
11:23Ah!
11:24Ah!
11:25Awesome.
11:27Okay.
11:28One, two, three.
11:33Yay!
11:38Oh!
11:41It's totally embarrassing as my pants try and fall down as I try to run.
11:47Yeah, I do wish I had suspenders.
11:49It would have kept my pants up.
11:50It would have looked very stylish.
11:53Go!
11:54Oh!
11:55Yay!
11:59Oh!
12:02Okay.
12:03Yay!
12:04That was fun.
12:05Too bad there's not a better wind.
12:07Yeah.
12:08Are you going to enjoy it?
12:09Oh, yes.
12:13She is amazing and, oh my God, she's attractive.
12:17But before I develop any more feelings for her, I have to get something off my chest.
12:23I guess we'll go.
12:24Okay.
12:25Let's go.
12:26I'm nervous because Amber is already sending me mixed signals.
12:29So this very well could be a deal breaker.
12:32But I'm trying to find someone that will embrace the whole of me.
12:35So it's a necessary next step.
12:39It's a bit quiet here, right, today?
12:41Yes, it's very quiet.
12:42You're here for a blind dating experience.
12:52Oh, no.
12:54I didn't have in mind flying halfway across the world to be blindfolded on a first date.
12:59So how long have you been single for?
13:01Five years now.
13:02So you've been celibate for five years?
13:04Hey there.
13:17All right.
13:18Let's go.
13:20All right.
13:21All right.
13:23All right.
13:34Hi, Tony.
13:35Hey.
13:36How are you?
13:37Good.
13:38How are you?
13:39Good.
13:40Good.
13:41Do you know why you are here today?
13:42I don't know.
13:43It looks like I'm at somebody's house here.
13:44You're here for a blind dating experience.
13:47Got it.
13:48Okay.
13:49I want to challenge you to see more of you.
13:52You're here for a blind dating experience.
13:55Got it.
13:57Okay.
13:58I want to challenge you to see more of you.
14:03to see more than looks and physical things.
14:07Uh, do you see what you have in front of you?
14:10Oh, no.
14:11Yeah.
14:12This black blindfold.
14:13Oh, no.
14:14You have to trust this.
14:18I just arrived to Sao Paulo, Brazil a few days ago.
14:23And today is my first date in Brazil.
14:26And I didn't have in mind flying halfway across the world to be blindfolded on a first date.
14:32In the past, I've fallen for women solely based off of their looks.
14:36So I get it.
14:37She's doing something physical to stop me from seeing my dates.
14:41I invited three women.
14:43Okay.
14:44And they're good matches for you.
14:46And they're gonna be blindfolded too.
14:48It's a double blindfold date?
14:50Yeah.
14:51And then you have a little time to talk.
14:54Okay.
14:55To them.
14:56And to connect with each of them.
14:58Okay.
14:59Perfect.
15:00Okay?
15:01In the end, you're gonna choose only one girl to go to an official date with.
15:07Okay?
15:08Okay.
15:09So are you ready?
15:10I'm ready.
15:11Okay.
15:12I decided to create a blind dating experience for Tony.
15:18Because Tony wants a serious relationship.
15:22I need to take physicality out of it.
15:25Mental and emotional connection, those are much more important.
15:29To have a solid long term relationship.
15:32So you guys can sit and talk a little bit.
15:43I'll be back soon.
15:44Enjoy.
15:45All right.
15:46Really?
15:47Oh, my God.
15:50Where are you?
15:52I'm here.
15:53Oh.
15:54Yeah, this is me.
15:55Okay.
15:56Hi.
15:57Hey, what's up?
15:58I'm Tony.
15:59Sorry?
16:00I'm Tony.
16:01Lou.
16:02Lou, huh?
16:03Yeah.
16:04Lou, Lou?
16:05Just Lou.
16:06Oh.
16:07So tell me about you.
16:08I'm Lila.
16:09I'm Gabby.
16:10Gabriela.
16:11Nice to meet you.
16:13I'm 26 years old.
16:15Okay.
16:16I used to work in, like, digital fashion, but now I am just a full-time content creator.
16:23Okay.
16:24What do you do for a living?
16:26I'm DJ.
16:27I usually don't go to nightclubs.
16:29It's just too loud for me.
16:32Um.
16:33Um.
16:34Um.
16:35Yeah, you can go ahead.
16:38That's my goodness.
16:39There you go.
16:40No hair.
16:41Yeah, no hair.
16:42Don't care, right?
16:43Or is it long hair?
16:44Don't care.
16:45Which one is it?
16:46Mine is very long hair.
16:47Oh, okay.
16:48Yeah.
16:49Very long hair.
16:50Oh, wow.
16:51Okay.
16:52I don't mind, like, bald guys.
16:55It's okay.
16:56But, um, of course, I'd rather hair.
17:01But I'm open to know people better.
17:03So I think it's all about the whole package, you know?
17:07So how long have you been single for?
17:12Single?
17:13Um.
17:14One year.
17:15Wow.
17:16Okay.
17:17I think since COVID.
17:19Five years now.
17:21Five years.
17:22Wow.
17:23Is it a long time?
17:24Four years?
17:25That is a long time.
17:26Yeah, that's a long time.
17:27So you've been celibate for five years?
17:30Uh.
17:31There's some stuff in the middle.
17:36Oh, okay.
17:37Normal stuff.
17:38Normal stuff?
17:39Yeah.
17:40Okay.
17:41What's stopped you from getting a boyfriend?
17:45I don't know.
17:47I think sometimes it's just not meant to be.
17:50Uh.
17:51In Brazil, guys are not very committed, so we go with the flow.
17:55Wow.
17:57Um, I'm a little bit more conservative than that.
18:05She told me that she has not been celibate.
18:08And if you're not in a relationship, you should be celibate.
18:11And how long have you been celibate?
18:15Uh, I don't feel comfortable answering that.
18:19So what are you looking for in a woman?
18:23Uh, definitely a woman that has, like, longer hair past her shoulders.
18:27Uh, a woman that exercises, has a little bit more muscle.
18:32Okay.
18:33Interesting.
18:34Mm-hmm.
18:37He was talking about just physical things.
18:40He tells me that he's a little bit insecure or maybe not sure about himself.
18:44He's not my type compared to what I really like.
18:47Do you have any kids?
18:49No, no kids.
18:50No kids.
18:51No kids.
18:52Not yet, no.
18:53And do you like children?
18:54Oh, I love kids.
18:55Yeah.
18:56Cool.
18:57Absolutely, yeah.
18:58Kids are great.
18:59My daughter has one year and a half and six months.
19:03Okay.
19:05I am pretty surprised that she has a kid and is a DJ.
19:11You wouldn't think those two things would really go together.
19:13So it's a little bit concerning for me, especially in a long-term relationship.
19:18Okay, okay.
19:19Time's up.
19:20It's nice to meet you, Gabby.
19:21Nice to meet you, too.
19:22Yeah, yeah.
19:23Walk safe, okay?
19:25This blind date experience, overall, it was a very precarious situation for me.
19:31I tried to make the best of it, but I kind of felt, like, disappointed.
19:35And I'm wondering if this experience is all a waste of time.
19:39It seems as if he's not as established as most men that I'm typically used to dating.
19:48That fairytale Prince Charming doesn't exist.
19:51Compromising a little, is that in the future for you to compromise?
19:56I don't feel like I should have to.
20:00Do you want to go eat with me tomorrow?
20:05I was 100% set on Bernardo, and then enter Bruno.
20:10Oh, my God.
20:18When I look around, I don't see no action, just words.
20:23You can say what you want to, but I know you ain't about that lie.
20:27All right, let's go to the market.
20:29Morning.
20:35Hi, good morning.
20:36Ready?
20:37Yes, sir.
20:38We're ready.
20:47So how'd it go with Freddie last night?
20:48He was really nice.
20:49It was really fun.
20:51He lives with his mom, which I thought was interesting, but apparently here they all do.
20:55We're still married.
20:56Oh, I love that.
20:57I know you would.
21:01But, Mom, let's be real.
21:02We would kill each other if we lived together.
21:03Of course.
21:05I went on my first date last night in Singapore.
21:07It was very, very, very different.
21:10Red light district, eating frogs.
21:12Honestly, I think Freddie's great, but Freddie just seems a little bit young for me,
21:16maybe lacking is stability and success that I was hoping to find in a Singaporean man.
21:22We're here.
21:23We're here?
21:24All right, let's go.
21:25Thank you so much.
21:26Uh-oh.
21:31Okay.
21:33Hi.
21:34Hey, Sarah.
21:36This morning, I'm meeting Dolly to talk about the first date and to go over next steps
21:41because the reality is, like, I'm not trying to waste anyone's time here.
21:47Like, especially not mine.
21:49So, welcome to the durian market.
21:51Okay.
21:52Yeah?
21:54Do you smell it?
21:55It's kind of unusual.
21:56Yeah.
21:57Let's have a look at some durians.
21:58Okay.
21:59So, this is, like, Singapore's national fruit.
22:00Mm-hmm.
22:01Okay.
22:02Right?
22:03And it looks like what you see here is in that shell.
22:05Okay.
22:06Do you want to try that?
22:07Sure.
22:08I decided to ask Sarah and Kitty to meet me at the fruit market to hear all about her
22:17date with Freddie.
22:18I also want them to try some durians.
22:21Mm.
22:22It smells kind of foul.
22:24Uh, it is not for the faint-hearted.
22:27But I want to see Sarah out of a comfort zone because she needs to reset her mind.
22:33She's been dating the same kind of guys in Texas, and I just want to do the exact opposite
22:38of what she's used to.
22:40So, I hope this wakes her up and will get her excited to date differently.
22:50It is a sweet, sweeter taste.
22:52Mm-hmm.
22:53So, the smell actually lingers on your fingers for 24 hours.
22:56Oh, wow.
22:57Wow.
22:58So, um...
22:59I'm just messing with you.
23:00I'm just messing with you.
23:01I'm just messing with you.
23:02I was going to say, not surprising.
23:05Almost looks like what I imagine a yellow kidney or something like.
23:11I'm much more open to eating a fruit than a frog.
23:15And in some sort of weird way, it grows on you.
23:19Do you know how there are sometimes some things that, like, smell kind of rank, but, like,
23:23for some reason, it's, like, a good rank?
23:27Oh, my God.
23:28That's gross.
23:30So, tell me about the date.
23:34Freddie took me to a place in the red light district, and we ate frog porridge.
23:40What did you think?
23:41Did you actually try it?
23:42I did.
23:43It tasted like chicken.
23:44Wow.
23:45I love it.
23:47What I liked about him is I just liked how much fun we had together.
23:51But it seems as if he's not as established as most men that I'm typically used to dating.
23:56You want to have someone to make you feel safe.
24:00Mm-hmm.
24:01I am drawn to guys that kind of remind me of my dad in that aspect.
24:06I didn't really get those vibes from him.
24:12The family life that I had growing up, my dad was kind of like the breadwinner,
24:16and my mom took care of the family and the kids.
24:19And even though I own my own business and I support myself, that's what I want one day.
24:24Why would I put myself in a stressful financial situation if it's not necessary,
24:29especially if you're talking about having a family and even a future with someone?
24:34Yeah.
24:35When you're thinking about bringing children into the world, stability is like-
24:38Yeah, it's very important.
24:39Very important, right?
24:40Yeah.
24:41I think what you've asked for is fair.
24:43Okay, good.
24:44It's just about setting the right expectations.
24:47I think that's very important.
24:49Because even though you may find someone checks a lot of the boxes, that fairytale Prince Charming doesn't exist.
24:55You're going to have to compromise a little bit on certain things.
24:58Mm-hmm.
24:59So I'm just talking about priorities now.
25:01Yeah.
25:02Right?
25:03You have been, like, covered in brands.
25:05Right?
25:06That's what I noticed about you.
25:08Are you going to expect your man to pay for all of your apparel?
25:13Because he's going to look at you and go, oh, can I provide for her?
25:17He's going to wonder that too.
25:19They have to provide for me and my family on a comfortable level.
25:22Does it have to be a luxury lifestyle?
25:24No.
25:25But I am used to a nice thing.
25:28Is that in the future for you to compromise?
25:33I don't feel like I should have to.
25:36Of course, I'm annoyed that Dolly and my mom want me to compromise with what I'm looking for.
25:41I mean, if I can provide this life for myself, then I feel like a guy should be able to as well.
25:47And I'm not to the point where I'm willing to potentially, like, give up on that dream yet.
25:52I am fully committed to finding love in Singapore.
25:55I feel in my heart and soul and gut that I'm getting closer and closer and that he is right around the corner.
26:02I'm just not willing to compromise.
26:05If five years down the road I still haven't found someone, then sure, I'll compromise.
26:10Okay.
26:11Right now, I'm not really willing to compromise.
26:14Try the chicken.
26:15Okay.
26:16And it's actually me.
26:17What do you think?
26:18Mmm.
26:19That's good.
26:20It's good.
26:21Wow.
26:22So good.
26:23I gotta tell you, you guys have some delicious food in Brazil.
26:39Mmm-hmm.
26:40Do you ever try a pastel?
26:42No, but you know what it reminds me of?
26:44A little bit of, like, an empanada, but, like, an empanada, but with more of a fried taste.
26:51It's very, yeah, very super good.
26:53I mean, I love them.
26:54Yeah.
26:55So, I don't mean to change the subject, but I wanted to thank you for that video you made.
27:02Yeah.
27:03Tell me about, like, are you looking for a relationship?
27:06Yeah.
27:07In this moment in my life, I'm very anxious to meet you, and I was wondering, oh, how looks
27:15she or imagining all these things.
27:18So you were nervous?
27:19I'm nervous.
27:20I'm very curious to know you, to talk with you, and know everything.
27:26I'm really, I really like you, really like you to this day.
27:31I really like to be here, and I want for more.
27:36So cute.
27:40I really like you.
27:41I really like you.
27:42Me too.
27:43Me too.
27:44I'm glad we met.
27:45Yeah.
27:46What am I going to do with you?
27:47No!
27:48No, no, no.
27:49Not sexist.
27:50It's love.
27:51I know.
27:52I just.
27:53Okay, sorry.
27:54No, you're great.
27:55You've done nothing wrong.
27:56You're awesome.
27:57You're amazing.
27:58You're wonderful.
27:59I just, yeah, I'm just dealing with stuff, but I just think you're great.
28:02Man, I like it.
28:03I really like it.
28:18Yeah.
28:19You're like, come on.
28:20Come on.
28:21Come on.
28:22Come on.
28:23Come on.
28:24Come on.
28:25Come on.
28:26Come on.
28:27Come on.
28:28Come on.
28:29Oh, my God.
28:30It's a trouble.
28:31You're trouble?
28:32No, I'm not trouble.
28:33Okay.
28:34You're kidding.
28:35I'm not trouble.
28:36I just think you're great.
28:39That's all.
28:40I really like it.
28:41Yeah.
28:42Bruno is such a good kisser.
28:45Gosh, I could have kissed him forever.
28:47I felt like he really wants me.
28:49And I feel like he really likes me.
28:52And there's a part of me that didn't want to kiss him
28:56because of Bernardo.
28:58And Luisa had told me not to kiss somebody else.
29:03And maybe she was right.
29:04But I just feel so connected to him, so impressed by him,
29:08so enamored.
29:10Do you want to go eat with me tomorrow, maybe?
29:17I don't know what my plans are.
29:18But I do want to see you again.
29:20Yeah, but.
29:21I just think you're great.
29:22I just don't know.
29:22I just don't know anymore.
29:25Hey, you're about the distance?
29:28About the person.
29:29Distance.
29:30People I've, yeah, other people I've met.
29:33OK.
29:34I have a lot to think about.
29:35Yeah.
29:42Well, I think.
29:43You're so beautiful.
29:44Ah.
29:47OK, I think I need to go.
29:48OK.
29:49OK.
29:50I'm going to see you again.
29:51Yeah, yeah.
29:52See you tomorrow.
29:55Maybe.
29:56I'll see you again.
29:59I was, I am, was 100% set on Bernardo.
30:02I didn't expect to have such a fun day.
30:04See you soon.
30:04See you soon.
30:08I thought this, that was it.
30:10I could go home happy and then enter Bruno.
30:14And I've got two amazing candidates.
30:17Like, how does that happen?
30:18All right.
30:19OK.
30:19See you.
30:20Bye.
30:21Wait for you.
30:22Oh, my God, this is horrible.
30:26So now I'm like, what do I do?
30:29This is the worst case scenario.
30:31I just, it's like a good problem to have,
30:34but it's the worst problem to have,
30:36because someone's going to get hurt.
30:37And that's the last thing I ever wanted to do.
30:48Have you done any picnics recently?
30:51No, I haven't.
30:52I haven't gone on many dates, actually.
30:54OK.
30:55I just want to fully disclose everything about myself,
30:58especially since I really want to find a woman that accepts
31:02me for the way I am.
31:07You have a great view.
31:14Yeah.
31:16Nice.
31:17Ali wants me to go deeper on this first date with Amber,
31:22so it means speaking more hard truths
31:24and getting to know each other.
31:26So have you done any picnics recently?
31:30No, I haven't.
31:31I haven't gone on many dates, actually.
31:34OK.
31:35I just want to fully disclose everything about myself,
31:40especially since I really want to find a woman that
31:43accepts me for the way I am.
31:46I have not told a date I'm autistic before,
31:47so this is new territory for me.
31:49And it's deeply personal.
31:51I hope she takes it well.
31:55So what kind of qualities do you look for in, you know,
32:00in a wife?
32:02Kind, honest, attractive.
32:04Yeah, I have the chemistry.
32:05Very independent but caring.
32:07And I need her to be patient with me because I'm a little bit
32:13autistic, so I miss obvious things.
32:18Oh, I've been told I'm very patient.
32:20So I think I probably feel the view.
32:24Yeah.
32:26I'm not looking to just casually date someone.
32:28Yes.
32:28I'm actually looking for my future husband.
32:33I've never been with someone who is autistic.
32:36And I know there's a spectrum of autism,
32:40so I'm not sure how much autistic he has.
32:43Actually, if he didn't tell me that he's autistic,
32:48I probably wouldn't have noticed.
32:51I think we match on many different levels, and we have many similar interests.
32:57I am looking for someone who wants to put the family first.
33:01And it's important to my family as well.
33:04Yeah, so, well, I'm the only child, so my parents worry about my lack of a marriage life,
33:15which is also one of the reasons why I was so intent on finding someone.
33:19And you have, like, many tests to pass.
33:24Many tests to pass.
33:25So you have, like, to pass my parents, of course,
33:30and then my close group of friends, my relatives back in China.
33:36So three rings, okay.
33:37And then even my ex-boss is very invested in my dating life right now.
33:43I sound like I have a lot of tests I have to pass.
33:46You do, actually.
33:48You do.
33:51I share this intimate detail with her about me being on the spectrum,
33:55and she seems to understand she takes it well.
33:58And then Amber tells me I must get past her Chinese family, her friends, and an ex-boss,
34:03and have all of their approval before being able to truly move forward.
34:08I'm pretty scared, but I think Amber sharing all these walls and obstacles I must overcome is quite good.
34:15It alludes to that there is a path forward where we might have a future together because she's laying out the path.
34:21And she's on my side, so how can I lose?
34:24I've never been put in a position where I have two amazing people that are just genuinely awesome.
34:36I have been cheated on in the past, and it's the worst feeling in the world.
34:41I feel like I'm cheating.
34:43Hello?
34:44I need to just have you listen to me for one minute.
34:48I just feel so bad.
35:15I feel so bad because I really like, I have feelings for Bernardo.
35:19I really do.
35:20He's awesome.
35:22But then Bruno's awesome.
35:25I've never been put in a position where I have two amazing people that are just genuinely awesome,
35:31and that have been interested in me at the same time, and that I've been interested in at the same time.
35:36And, like, someone's going to get hurt, and I don't want to hurt anybody.
35:40So, you know, I feel like if Bruno's being as nice as he says he is, and he's that interested in me, and he's that cool, and he has that much going on, and we had great chemistry, and the kisses were great, and he wants to see me again.
35:56And if I say no, I mean, that'd be great for Bernardo.
36:01It'd be great for me because I really like Bernardo, and I would feel like I was true to him.
36:12I have been cheated on in the past, and it's the worst feeling in the world.
36:17And so now going on two dates with two great men, I feel like I'm cheating.
36:23Since my first date with Bernardo, we text all day long, and he has become someone that is like a threat in my life.
36:29So I feel this sense of obligation.
36:32I feel this sense of, like, responsibility towards him now.
36:36At this stage in my life and what I'm looking for, I'm not going to build a relationship on omissions.
36:43I want to be totally transparent. I want to be totally clear.
36:46So I just want to talk to him and make sure that I haven't ruined everything between us.
36:51Okay.
36:59Hello?
37:02Hi.
37:04How are you?
37:05Good.
37:07How was your date today?
37:11Um, good. It was good. I, uh, you know, I want to tell you, I need to tell you that I, um, I need to just have you listen to me for one minute.
37:22Um, I had a good date today.
37:29And it was really fun, and, and the person I was with was really nice, and he was really great.
37:34And we spent time talking afterwards, and I really, I like him too.
37:40And I want you to know that, like, I, I kissed him a couple times.
37:48Can you hear me?
37:51What can I say?
37:52I, I feel so bad.
37:55Still to come on this season of Match Me Abroad.
38:03Oh, nice.
38:05What do you want to wager?
38:06If I win the rest of the time you're here, you just take me.
38:10He then definitely is in the running.
38:13But, Glenn has been texting me every day.
38:17So, have you broken up with him?
38:21What's the most exotic place I've had sex?
38:25Uh.
38:26I think mine's a public toilet.
38:29Yes.
38:30You're gonna make me blush?
38:31Oh.
38:32It's something we, I don't want to try.
38:36Mmm.
38:39Oh, wow.
38:40Hello, handsome.
38:42I'm a sucker for big muscles and tattoos.
38:46I spoke to EJ earlier today.
38:48What did he have to say about me?
38:49Um, remember, I'm on your side.
38:51Okay, what are you gonna tell me?
38:55So, Monica, how are you feeling?
38:57I feel like I don't want to make a decision.
39:01I have two incredible men and I'm still unsure of what to do.
39:06I invited Bruno and Bernardo here.
39:10Together.
39:12Grown-ups make decisions, right?
39:14Oh.
39:15Darren and I are supposed to hang out.
39:20Doesn't show up.
39:21I feel like what he did just triggered so much.
39:24I guess I'm just so used to being, like, strong and independent.
39:26So, if I feel vulnerable, it makes, I guess, feel like I'm not strong, I guess.
39:31I have another date for you.
39:37However, how can I help him?
39:41If he doesn't want to be open, if we have a list of deal breakers,
39:48it's gonna be very hard to find someone for you.
39:52I don't think you've ever met anybody that's like me before.
39:55You can't put me in a box.
39:56Get out, because you're not gonna lie on me, bitch.
40:01Get the out.
40:03I don't tolerate people being disrespectful to me.
40:06He gotta go.
40:08Don't lie to my face, stupid ass.
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