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00:00Previously on open house. I'm really excited. I'm nervous. I'm scared.
00:08How's it going? Scared! I can feel him shaking. I have fantasized many times about seeing Johnny
00:17with a female. We've gone along to these swingers parties. When it actually comes to the crunch,
00:22we just sort of... You can't close the deal. Yes! We can help.
00:30It just wasn't what we talked about. No, it's not. But nothing goes to plan,
00:33is it? Let's be honest. Your relationship's at stake, to lose it,
00:37would be to lose everything. I haven't experienced anything with a girl,
00:40so I am a bit curious as well.
00:44I really want him to relax. I want him to enjoy it.
00:48I'm literally ready to go, like, oh, I'll fucking see you later.
00:52What do you think about the idea of a morsome?
00:55Okay. We come in for a girl. We never came here for this.
01:00I know of a lovely year to cross. So, imagine multiple people in the
01:04same room having sex. It's pretty scary, a bit daunting.
01:08Get on the clitoris couch. Clitoris couch.
01:13Right now, I'm feeling anxious. Far too many people in that room for me.
01:17Come on. We're going to have a lot to go.
01:20Just like, what? And it just hit me. It's just hit me.
01:23I am struggling with it.
01:33Tell me how you feel. I've got, like, 10 people in there, and I'm like,
01:3710 horny people in there. They're like, it's scaring me.
01:41Oh, yeah. There you go.
01:43Sarah and Johnny are attempting to open up by experiencing their first ever orgy.
01:48But Johnny is on the brink. It's all been amazing. Yeah.
01:52But it's overwhelming. I can't really enjoy myself.
01:54You don't want to pursue. Is that what you're saying?
01:56Right. It's not that I don't want to pursue a thing.
01:58If we don't do it now, then I don't think we're ever going to.
02:01He's naturally going to be a bit nervous, but we just need to crack on and get it done.
02:08It's a big, big thing for me. Baby, listen, don't, like, don't worry.
02:12I'm so happy that you've sped your mind to me. Yeah.
02:14You've not kept any of this to yourself.
02:16I think my goal, do you think, might be too much for them?
02:18I don't feel like you're getting bored.
02:21There's definitely too many people in that room for me.
02:24It's a scary scenario for a mum.
02:26So what are we going to do about that?
02:29It is intense. It is scary because there's loads of us and, like, you know, two of them.
02:38How are you guys doing? We're good. We just had a little chat.
02:44A little debrief. Yeah, debrief.
02:49You're all amazing.
02:54We had a talk and we'd rather, like, have a little bit more intimacy with a few less people.
03:00That's fair enough.
03:01We'd like to ask a couple of people to stay if that's okay with you.
03:07Hopefully they might want to take that step further.
03:10Yeah, we've definitely got a little bit of a keen eye on them, so hopefully it does go further.
03:16Don't want to offend any of you.
03:19We'd like to spend a bit of time with Jen and Mark and Gracie, if she would stay with us, you know.
03:24I think I'm available.
03:27No offence to any of you, it's just that I'm so overwhelmed with it all.
03:31It's like, wow, it's massive for me.
03:32The main thing is that you have fun.
03:35Cheers, guys!
03:37Cheers!
03:39Have the best time.
03:43Have a great time.
03:45Weird, isn't it?
03:46Fuckers!
03:47There you go.
03:48OK, then, well, do you guys want to start us off with the dice?
03:54Yeah.
04:01Breasts, my choice.
04:04This is lovely.
04:05Yeah? Thank you.
04:05We're both okay with that?
04:06Oh, yeah!
04:07Lovely little ball!
04:08Great!
04:14Nice.
04:15Oh, God, you smell so good.
04:16Do you all?
04:17Yeah.
04:18Ooh, that's hard.
04:19They really are.
04:20They're hot.
04:22They're very hot.
04:26Are you nervous?
04:27No, I haven't.
04:28It's just a little, it's just straight.
04:29Different for me, you know what I mean?
04:34It's my first time, you know, I'm trying to get myself into this and it's hard.
04:39Yeah, I don't understand why it is an issue, but it is.
04:43Are you going to perform?
04:44Is he going to show up?
04:48I was just thinking maybe we could just like take everything from the game that we just played
04:53and maybe just like implement it to each other on the pen.
04:56It's just completely natural to be nervous and, you know, I feel very privileged to be able to
05:05go up to them and just like hold their hand and be like, it's okay.
05:07So we were maybe just thinking like, um, maybe the girls.
05:14Yeah.
05:14Yeah, so I first have a little kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy.
05:17Yeah, kissy, kissy.
05:18Um, and yeah, and we'll just obviously like explore a little bit and then whenever you
05:20thought comfortable maybe join us.
05:22Yeah.
05:22With Sarah jumping straight in, it's riding on Johnny to make their longstanding dream of opening
05:37up a reality.
05:50Seeing Sarah with a woman just got me going.
05:52That, that, that was the main thing that got me going.
05:54I sat, I watched, I sat there and then, and yeah, we started working.
05:58This is what I needed. I needed this kick. I needed this push.
06:22I just relaxed into it.
06:28I just got really excited. I just didn't have any insecurities that I had just weren't there.
06:41I was just lost in the moment.
06:49Oh, my God.
06:58Wow, that was crazy.
07:04Um, I don't know what to say.
07:05Um, it's not like guns, I'm going to be honest.
07:08Like, was that good for you?
07:09Oh, well, uh, it's good for me.
07:12Was it good for you?
07:13Uh, it was, uh, it was all right, you know.
07:15We want more!
07:16We want more!
07:17Look, this is, this is just the first step.
07:20This is the first step and what we needed to do because this is what we want to do.
07:23We want to do. We want to enjoy each other. We want to share it.
07:26That's, that's just an amazing experience.
07:42We bloody did it.
07:46What a roller coaster it's been.
07:48We came here looking for a threesome with a girl.
07:50We've ended up coming out with an orgy.
07:52With a five-week bit of an orgy, what can I say?
07:54My room.
07:57Some amazing memories we've made today.
07:59You're going to miss it.
08:01I'm going to miss it too.
08:03I've learned so much about myself.
08:06I'm absolutely going to carry on exploring my bisexual side.
08:10I was so worried about what other people think about my actions.
08:13You know, all that's gone now.
08:15This is my life and I'm owning it.
08:16There it is.
08:18Yay.
08:19That's where the magic happened.
08:20It certainly did.
08:26For us, we want to open up our relationship.
08:28It's only going to improve what we've got already, which is amazing anyway.
08:33Yeah, I agree.
08:34I love you so much, babe.
08:39I love you.
08:39Also staying at the retreat...
08:50Father Amy!
08:50...are married parents of six, Claude and Amy.
08:53What brings you here today?
08:54I want multiple people in my life at all times.
08:58You're curious to find out if polyamory is right for you?
09:00The thought of it sounds amazing, but maybe in practical terms, it ain't as good as it sounds.
09:07Do you really want this?
09:10That's what we're here to find out, I guess.
09:13For me, if I connect with a couple, I want to know, okay, the connection is so real that
09:16they don't mind that I'm not willing to go or whatever.
09:18Jump into it.
09:19Yeah.
09:19She's definitely on my wavelength.
09:21Are you going to go back with me, aren't you?
09:22Why?
09:23No.
09:25Did you struggle?
09:26Yeah.
09:27Because I've been monogamous my whole life, doing something with another woman, even with consent,
09:33makes me feel like it's wrong.
09:35Oh, this is kind of annoying.
09:39It's definitely weird for me.
09:41For me, the ultimate goal would be to have a relationship with other people,
09:46actually inside of our relationship.
09:48If I couldn't achieve that with Claude, it would definitely be something that put a spanner in our relationship.
09:55Claude and Amy are in the hot tub with residents Georgie and Emily.
10:10While Amy gets stuck in, Claude stays very much on the sidelines.
10:23That was so, like, soft and gentle.
10:35Doing something with another woman, even with consent, makes me feel like it's wrong.
10:45I love kissing Carol.
10:52I think I would do pretty much anything for Amy.
10:56So, I just need to go with feeling guilty about doing it.
11:01You want to get her?
11:04I love you.
11:18Seeing Claude with another woman, it turns me on.
11:21I only want him to be happy.
11:22And if someone else can bring a bit of happiness that I don't even have anything to do with, that's something I love.
11:31Flash.
11:34Where do you visualise the night progressing?
11:37We're happy to, like, go somewhere else.
11:40No internet.
11:42Sorry, I'm going to drop a bombshell now.
11:44No, no, no.
11:45I would rather take this slow.
11:47For me.
11:48Just because when I'm looking for, like, emotional, romantic connection, I take it a lot slower.
11:54Yeah, yeah.
11:55Is that OK?
11:56Yeah, yeah, yeah.
11:59OK.
12:00Should we exit?
12:02Even though we're a bunch of sexually liberated people, like, we also still sometimes like to take it really slow.
12:09I think when it comes to polyamory especially, there is that sort of need to get to know each other to make it more of a special connection.
12:18We shall see you tomorrow.
12:20Yeah.
12:21It was so lovely to me.
12:22You guys.
12:23I think my advice to them would be, like, if you do want to build, like, a really emotional connection, like, maybe take things a little bit slower.
12:31Oh, have an amazing night, guys.
12:33Yeah, you too.
12:34Have a good sleep.
12:35You genuinely have the best time.
12:36Bye.
12:43It's actually a red ring.
12:44Yeah.
12:45Love that.
12:47So, going into this, I feel like it's an adventure that I should have had a million times.
12:55Water?
12:56Yeah, 100%.
12:57Yeah.
12:58I'm just going to set the lighting a little bit.
13:01Amy definitely knows what she wants more than I do. Like, I'm still a bit, like, in the air.
13:07I don't know if I can do it or not.
13:11Oh, no.
13:12There we go.
13:14The worst case scenario for us is that that guilt doesn't go away for Claude and he's just like, this isn't going to be for me.
13:39These are nice.
13:41Amy is desperate to invite multiple partners into their relationship.
13:45Are you going to come train us?
13:46I know.
13:47I'm just hungry.
13:48Just processing.
13:50But as things ramp up, Claude faces the ultimate decision.
13:55Are we okay?
14:01I'm going to kiss you now.
14:02Okay.
14:04Oh, no.
14:05I don't know.
14:06I don't know.
14:07Oh!
14:08Amy definitely wants another girl in the relationship.
14:09I'm going to have to spend time alone with these people.
14:12Okay?
14:13Amy definitely wants another girl in a relationship, and I'm going to have to spend time alone
14:37with these people, so I have to get rid of that feeling of guilt.
14:40I think the only thing that is holding him back is how much he loves me, and that society
14:46tells us that this is just not the normal.
15:10Oh my god.
15:17I'm coming, I'm coming!
15:25Oh my god.
15:26I'm coming, I'm coming!
15:32Do you want to go back to my room?
15:50Do you want to go back to our room?
16:06You alright, little lady?
16:10I don't really know.
16:21Do you feel we're going to get what we need from this experience?
16:27I don't really know how I think I'll feel right now.
16:33Do you feel like you should have known that different?
16:35Yeah.
16:50I can wear them any time you want.
17:00I feel like this maybe wasn't for me.
17:03Yeah, well, yeah, it's the same for you.
17:06Yeah, no, but you should carry on like you're...
17:09No, I'm not, like, I'm here with us.
17:12Not with me.
17:21Hi guys, come in.
17:23With last night's events troubling Amy...
17:26Get comfy on my couch.
17:28They're meeting up with non-monogamy coach Effie.
17:32How are you feeling?
17:35I feel like...
17:39I don't know.
17:41I feel like I made a mistake last night going too far.
17:46Tell me. Tell me about last night.
17:48I feel like I would be...
17:50Me, you and Georgie, we went to the Red Room together.
17:53How was that?
17:55I think it's the reason that I feel not good today.
17:58And at the time it was everything I wanted to do.
18:00This is a lifestyle that I crave, but...
18:10It's okay.
18:12There's some tissues right in front of me.
18:13It's probably good.
18:15For me, it's not about sex and stuff.
18:17It is about building relationships.
18:19Yeah, yeah, yeah. I understand.
18:21Claude, how are you feeling?
18:23Like last night, I was feeling fine.
18:25But obviously...
18:27Yeah, I ruined it.
18:29No, I see an Amy like this.
18:30I never want to see her upset or...
18:32Yeah.
18:33...sad about anything.
18:35What do you think would help you on your journey
18:39to get the polyamorous relationship that you want for yourselves?
18:44Um...
18:46Is there anybody else you're connected with?
18:49Yeah, we've... like Naomi.
18:51Yeah.
18:52Everything about her was, to me, like everything I was looking for.
18:56I feel like I definitely want to speak to Naomi.
19:01Okay.
19:03How about getting back together with Naomi and have like a nice date?
19:08Yeah.
19:10Claude, would you want to go on a date with Georgie?
19:13Yeah, yeah, I'll go and have it.
19:14Like if Amy's going to go and talk to Naomi,
19:16I'll go and have a chat with Georgie, yeah.
19:19Because it is about making those connections
19:21and see if we can hold them in a meaningful way.
19:24Yeah.
19:25Because that will, that will make the polyamorous family
19:29that you guys want.
19:30Does that feel good?
19:31Yeah, perfect. Thank you.
19:32Okay.
19:33Thank you very much.
19:35Yeah, thank you.
19:36Take care.
19:42Polyamorous journey is a long one.
19:43Claude and Amy's time here is short.
19:45The best that we can do here is give them the tools and the skills
19:48and help them overcome some of the hurdles
19:50and build the relationship they want.
19:54I am really looking forward to seeing Naomi again,
19:57to see if there's a much bigger connection there.
20:00And I feel like the best outcome for Claude is that he comes back
20:04and he's like, I really just enjoyed talking to another girl
20:07without me.
20:22I feel like I'm getting more scared.
20:25On their way to join the others at the retreat
20:28are Alex and Alana from Plymouth.
20:30Our first date, Alana said she did the best mash in Devon
20:35and it turns out she doesn't.
20:37She couldn't even...
20:38No, I do.
20:39You can't even cook a sausage in a microwave.
20:43Luckily, the couple are to one another's taste
20:46and they've now settled down as a blended family
20:48with a child each from previous relationships.
20:52We're constantly, like, re-falling in love with each other
20:55all the time.
20:56I don't know why I'm getting emotional.
21:01I've just never had such a safe space with somebody.
21:07And the committed couple are just as passionate
21:10about one another in the bedroom.
21:13Sex is definitely, like, our number one hobby.
21:17We've got our normal sex and beautiful sex
21:19but then we've got the one where we're like,
21:21should we try something new today?
21:23Yeah, we're very experimental.
21:25What's the weirdest thing that you've ever done?
21:27I don't know if I want to say.
21:29Peggyn, you wear a strap on and...
21:32We get to reverse roles.
21:34I know what I'm doing, surprisingly.
21:36Yeah, you can fuck.
21:38Now they want to spice things up further
21:41by exploring non-monogamy.
21:44Ultimately, why we're here is to bring in another couple.
21:48I think because we're boundary pushers,
21:49there's something we both want to be in, like, open relationships.
21:51I think it's actually, like, sex is...
21:54can be shared.
21:55It doesn't have to be for just two people.
21:57We don't want this to just be a one-off experience.
21:59We really want to see ourselves, like,
22:01diving into the lifestyle.
22:06Although they're heading to the perfect place to open up,
22:10Alana will need to overcome her biggest barrier.
22:14My previous relationships with men haven't been great.
22:18A lot of cheating on their part.
22:21It definitely made me more, like, cautious of women.
22:24I've got VAK with Alex being with another woman.
22:29That makes me feel physically sick.
22:35Oh, my God.
22:39I'm so scared.
22:43Oh, he's so fit.
22:44Hiya, you all right?
22:45Hello, everyone.
22:46Hello.
22:47Hiya.
22:48Hi.
22:49Hello.
22:51I love that dress.
22:52Thank you so much.
22:53How are you doing?
22:54Hello.
22:55How are you doing?
22:56I like him.
22:57He's my type.
22:58But, yeah, we have plenty of time to discover each other.
23:01Hi, guys.
23:02Welcome.
23:03I'm Rochelle.
23:04Nice to meet you.
23:05How are you doing?
23:06You all right?
23:07What's your name, Tommy?
23:08It's Alex.
23:09Alex.
23:10Strong handshake, Alex.
23:11I like the look of Alex.
23:12He was tall and gorgeous.
23:13Very good looking.
23:15That was insane.
23:16Like...
23:17That was so insane.
23:18Walking in.
23:19My heart was pounding.
23:20I didn't expect there to be so many people when we first came.
23:22Certainly, other women being around my partner is like a massive thing for me.
23:28I don't want to like bring up Alana's hurt again.
23:30Like, it might reignite that like fear in her.
23:34I'd like to think I'll surprise myself and be like really okay.
23:41That's how I want it to go.
23:43We've got a lot to lose.
23:44Everything is at stake really here.
23:45This is the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with.
23:53I love you.
23:54I love you so much.
23:55Newcomers Alex and Alana are visiting the retreat in search of couples to open up with.
24:08Despite Alana's fear of seeing Alex with another woman.
24:09I need a nervous week.
24:10Yeah, I need to go as well.
24:11Hey guys.
24:12Hi, welcome.
24:13Come in.
24:14I'm Effie.
24:15Come in.
24:16Hello.
24:17How are you doing?
24:18You all right?
24:19Yeah, good.
24:20This is going to be so far.
24:21Nice to know.
24:22I want to know.
24:23What brings you here.
24:24What brings you here?
24:37What brings you here to retreat?
24:39Tell me.
24:40We're like boundary pushers.
24:42I think like from like when we very first met, like we were very like in to look like
24:50into like sex and like pushing boundaries and bringing new things and ideas in and we're at
24:56the stage now where we want to be part of like a couple of sorts but we don't know how that looks
25:02but equally it's probably me that's been like holding us back okay i would class myself as
25:08bisexual okay so i've been with women in the past i've had relationships with women um but yeah just
25:14through like past experiences with men i've been cheated on quite a lot so it's i guess like
25:23damaged i feel emotional well that's okay
25:27from the moment we met like we would go around town if there was like a girl in small shorts
25:35or something like that she would have like panic and freeze and she'd want me to like get another
25:37street so what's at stake is alana's like feelings and emotions where are you with that stuff now
25:44obviously with talking about things being more intimate and stuff that's obviously quite a big
25:51step up from where i was like to say a year ago if you just said to me you're going to be here i would
25:57have been like absolutely not okay so so given that it's so potent for you why do you want to open up
26:04your relationship to put yourself to really test those those parts of you that that are tender
26:08obviously we're doing this like for us as a couple but there's also like a little bit of selfishness
26:15in it for me where i'm like just want to be able to get past that and that would benefit us so much
26:21more as a couple if i could really let go of those feelings and be like i'm good what are you thinking
26:28like no i absolutely agree like i think if you can like overcome that like that's a beautiful place to
26:34be but it's a delicate situation now because i wouldn't want to like take steps back and i know
26:39that you desperately want to get over this and and hopefully this is the safe space that you get to
26:45find out if you can do it or not right and for you attractive woman is the threat right understandable
26:52reasons so we kind of want you to face that threat in this controlling environment where we're going to
26:58take care of you would you be open to maybe find a single woman that you're both attracted to and
27:06then invite them for your little sexy threesome i feel like i'd be more comfortable if it was with like
27:13to invite a couple to spend time with us i just feel like that's going to be too intense i know that
27:21you ultimately want the couple swap and that that is something that i'm not taking that away from you
27:27we just need to work on those insecurities what has happened to you sucks it's terrible you've put
27:34all the charge onto women so if we can just take that charge away you're going to have much
27:40smoother experiences i just like there's obviously that little bit of worry that like say if we go to
27:46like do something and things happen and then i'm like i'm not okay with it i can't unsee those
27:55things yeah what are your thoughts with what you're saying i absolutely agree with what you're saying
28:01i guess the root cause is the female and we can go absolutely slow i'm not good anywhere like i'm with
28:07you like we can go as little steps and see where we go we can do it yeah okay i understand like
28:16why you're doing that and where my head needs to be i still feel really nervous but i feel less sick
28:25now so good good i love that okay i'm excited for you i'm going to be here to meet you tomorrow
28:32so i can't wait to hear how it goes you're glad yeah thank you very much thank you so much
28:40for alana and alex jumping straight into a couple swap would be a difficult thing to navigate
28:49doing something like this is definitely going to challenge her
28:52alana needs to find a connection with other women and feel safe
28:56in their presence so that she can actually have group sessions or threesome sessions
29:01oh my god look that birth check the birth out
29:06come here i don't want to cry again don't cry it's okay if we could come out of this situation
29:17and say we're in an open relationship i think that would be an amazing thing
29:20i literally don't know what to do with myself like
29:24have you seen your place i oh god it's like let's just go in with like
29:30don't know until we do it and we are banjo pushers like open mind yeah
29:34i'm not even joking when she first said it i thought
29:37that that scenario wasn't in my head i'm not doing it i don't want to do it like i want to leave
29:43me and alex absolutely love each other more than anything
29:47it would be devastating if anything went wrong here for sure
29:52i hope you have an amazing time i'm excited for you to get to know someone more
30:04on effie's advice this afternoon both claude and amy will have separate dates
30:10if they're truly to embrace polyamory they need to be confident that they can explore
30:21meaningful loving connections with other people
30:24i said like the end goal is to feel the way you feel about me with multiple people and you
30:30can't get to it unless you do push yourself to try and make friends with other people
30:35my mission
30:37amy is meeting up with resident naomi who she met at last night's social
30:49so the best outcome for me is that me and naomi really like
30:54hit it off i want something this long term eventually
30:58hi hi how are you good how are you it looks so nice to see you there's a million and one
31:07ways to navigate a polyamorous relationship but the importance of developing a bond independently
31:14as well as together is it's essential get comfy yeah it's so nice it's so nice cheers
31:22yeah cheers thank you i mean it's not a bad first date setting is it no it's beautiful
31:26after having sex together last night claude and georgie are meeting for a date
31:33to establish whether the attraction is more than just physical
31:36hello i think i'd like to get to know her personality a bit more
31:45i should explore it to see if there would be more of a connection there
31:49because there could be how are you um i don't know i don't really know like
31:56yeah i've not been in a situation like this before i'm not i'm not sure we're going to
32:01talk about on the date me and georgie but i guess being away from amy makes me feel a
32:06bit uneasy do you feel you got what you wanted coming in
32:11like for me i think maybe i should have like cut the night when i'd finished the social okay
32:18i woke up thinking i wish i'd just said something to naomi like let's go and do something different
32:25then let's go sit around the corner where it's quiet iron
32:29i'm very touchy amy's not so much like even like if we sleep like we won't cuddle for me i would
32:37cuddle every single night if you wanted to like i would love to i'd love to cuddle and snuggle yeah
32:42yeah i'm a snuggler i can't express to you how much i yearn for it every day like when i'm with
32:47someone like i just i just want that like i'm a physical touch person i want to be touched
32:51when we um started cuddling and that i was a bit more apprehensive it's quite an intimate thing
32:59like even though we've had sex with her but after cuddling for a while i was around i think we'll
33:05become really good friends and maybe more
33:07can i kiss you yeah
33:19i like you most about like
33:22yeah
33:24yeah
33:28yeah
33:30yeah
33:32yeah
33:34yeah
33:36yeah
33:37yeah
33:38it confirmed everything for me like it is a deeper connection i'm looking for
33:45it was a lovely kiss i think it's exactly what both her and i want
33:55i would say that we're more than friends and i hope that that claude made that connection as well
34:07i think georgie is an amazing girl and i feel like there's definitely more of a connection now
34:13after spending more time with her
34:15like coming out of this that connection will definitely build with me her and amy and she's
34:23definitely our type of person
34:31this has been beautiful today yes it has it has been amazing
34:33it has been amazing
34:35the fact that the fact that the fact that the fact that i've met somebody is kind of like they are out
34:40there the next step for me would be to see her again um in like a more organic setting and
34:47and then get her to meet claude
34:55and then first step into non-monogamy and it's like polyamory side i think it's been fantastic we've got we've got what we come here for and more i think yeah yeah yeah sadly yeah i don't feel any of the guilt that i've felt before and i've got the best of the truth and i have been so in this way i've just not been so far and i've got the best of the present and i've got the best of my life of what i think it's been so far as i feel like it's been so far as i need to be one of the worst of the year
35:05For our, like, first step into non-monogamy and this, like, polyamory side, I think it's
35:13been fantastic. We've got what we come here for and more, I think. Yeah. Yeah, sadly.
35:22I don't feel any of the guilt that I've felt before, and I've got the best women, so I'm
35:26lucky. Polyamory is rare because you have to find like-minded people who are interested
35:32in being a part of a bigger structure. Hey, beautiful people. Hi. I think now that they
35:37have clarity that there are other people out there that want the same thing, they will go
35:41ahead and put that polyamorous construct together. Meeting people with the same mind as us was
35:48definitely a highlight. Like, safe journey. Thank you for such a great time. It's not just
35:54a dream anymore or like a vision. Now it's becoming more reality now. It's real. Hello, you two.
35:59See ya. Hello, you two.
36:03Thank you. Hope you all have a good time. Yeah, I did. I wish we could stay longer and get
36:08to know you even more, but yeah, yeah, once you get home. Take care. Take care. See you
36:13later. This has definitely been a breakthrough for us, now knowing that it is achievable to
36:18bring other people in. I hope the future for us looks like what we dream of, which is a community
36:25household. Yeah. And hopefully with the people that we've met. We'll see them when they get home.
36:31In the bar, a girl's only night is in full flow. In preparation for new arrivals, Alex and Alana.
36:48Who knows, babe? We might come out of this like absolute animals.
36:54But first, let's see if we can talk to a girl. Let's see if we can talk to a girl.
36:59Could you imagine if like you, you're the one that's like, can't, can't do it. I don't think
37:06you will, but that would be funny. The pair want to open up their relationship with couple
37:11swaps. But Effie has tasked them with first having a threesome with just a woman, so as to
37:18tackle Alana's major insecurities around other females.
37:24Right, let's breathe, breathe, breathe.
37:26I'm holding my breath again.
37:28Just hold your breath.
37:32Alana at the moment's feeling really overwhelmed with like the curve ball that we had with Effie
37:37saying that we need to, it'd be best to introduce a female to start off with.
37:41I definitely have those little feelings in my belly of like, oh God, am I going to be okay?
37:46Am I going to feel threatened in this scenario?
37:50Are you ready?
37:51Yeah.
37:52We're fine.
37:53Okay?
37:53All right.
37:54Love you.
37:54Let's go.
37:55Oh my God.
37:58You ready?
38:02Oh my goodness.
38:07I'm just imagining walking into a room and it just all being absolutely stunning women and
38:11I'm like, ah!
38:16You could say it was my biggest nightmare about what to come true.
38:32At a girls-only social, Alex and Alana have been instructed by Effie to find a girl to open
38:38up with.
38:40Alex will take the lead whilst Alana watches on.
38:43Oh my God.
38:46So as to help her confront her feelings of insecurity around women.
38:51It's going to be hard.
38:52It's going to be triggering.
39:00Potentially, me being with a woman is massive for Alana, but it's a big deal for me as well.
39:05If this is going to work, it has to be the right person.
39:09Bonjour.
39:10I said bonjour, but now it's bonjour.
39:13So like, how have you been?
39:14Like, what are you up to?
39:14Like, what do you do for work?
39:15And I am a lingerie model.
39:17Oh, amazing.
39:18So basically, I love my job so much because it's sexy.
39:22I will describe my sexuality actually high.
39:28I wake up and I want sex.
39:31She's stunning, isn't she?
39:32I'm just trying to, like, breathe.
39:34What things do you, like, are you into?
39:36Like, what's, like, your, your thing?
39:38I love to be pleasuring in any way.
39:42I'm just trying to, just trying to breathe for it.
39:45I have, like, that feeling in my belly.
39:56How are you doing?
39:57Good to remember.
39:57Great handshake.
39:58I remember that.
39:59Oh, yeah, you doing okay?
40:00Yeah, sure.
40:02All right, you all right?
40:02Hello?
40:04You all right?
40:04That's great.
40:05What's your name?
40:06It's Alex.
40:07Emily.
40:07Thank you for joining you.
40:08Emily.
40:09No, Grace.
40:09Grace.
40:10I think right now she's really nervous.
40:13I can see it in her face.
40:15Like, I hope that I'm not being too, like, pushy at the moment.
40:21She's maybe feeling a little bit overwhelmed,
40:24but I'm going to have a chat with her in a minute
40:25and see how she feels.
40:32Obviously, I'm feeling, like, those feelings in there.
40:36Like, I feel nervous about it.
40:37It's obviously, like, weird territory for me.
40:41But, like, I want you to feel comfortable.
40:43I'm aware that you're probably being very conscious
40:46of how you're being because you don't want to upset me.
40:48If there was any, like, physical contact or anything like that
40:52or, like, hand on her leg,
40:54I feel like that's kind of something that I need to see
40:56to be, like, okay, I'm okay with it.
41:00That's a real surprise for me.
41:01This is an absolutely huge step for us.
41:03This is what we're here for, right?
41:04Yeah, 100%, like, this is why we're here.
41:07So.
41:11Love you.
41:13And it makes me feel like I can push those boundaries more.
41:17Like, I've definitely, like, seen another girl
41:20that I'm interested in.
41:21I love your look, by the way.
41:29I love your tattoos.
41:32Monogamy is outdated.
41:33You know, you're not going to have the same ice cream
41:35for the rest of your life or drive the same car.
41:37There's so many different flavours of models out there.
41:41I get to play with them all.
41:42Like, as you can say, another tattoo.
41:45I'm a mermaid.
41:46Oh, that's amazing.
41:47Yeah.
41:47That's amazing.
41:48That's a real picture.
41:50Is it?
41:50That's a photo of me.
41:51Really, really good.
41:52I love that you've got photos of, like, tattoos of you.
41:57Georgie's an incredible person.
41:59Like, she's got an amazing vibe.
42:01She's really attractive.
42:02So, at the moment, everything is looking really good.
42:04I'm really excited to push the boundary even more.
42:07Are you okay, like, I want to, like, push the boundary
42:09for Lana at the moment?
42:11Are you okay if I, like, put my hand on you, like?
42:18If Lana's not okay with it, she was like,
42:26no, no, I can't do this.
42:28It'd be the worst thing.
42:40Hello, beautiful.
42:41Hello.
42:41Um, can we go and sit and have a chat, like, all three of us?
42:46100%.
42:47Is that okay?
42:48100%.
42:48Cool.
42:49Let's go.
42:55Obviously, seeing, like, a little bit of physical contact,
42:58which I didn't know how I was going to feel with that,
43:01but I'm actually, like...
43:02Yeah?
43:04No, like, I think you're absolutely stunning,
43:06that you would absolutely be my type.
43:08So, yeah.
43:10Appreciate that.
43:11Like, I said to you on that, like, my type.
43:14I kind of want to keep the momentum going
43:17whilst I feel like things are okay.
43:19Yeah.
43:20So, if you would like to come and spend some time
43:23in what's up with us, would that be okay?
43:26100%.
43:27Okay.
43:28Yay.
43:28Yeah.
43:29Okay.
43:29Go.
43:30Let's do it.
43:33I'm so surprised at myself.
43:36I can't believe, like, this is such a turn.
43:38Three hours ago, you were crying.
43:41I was crying, going, I don't know if I can do this,
43:43so I might want to leave.
43:45I'm so shocked to myself, though.
43:47Like, I genuinely don't know where this has come from.
43:52I'm scared.
43:53Don't be scared.
43:54You're not too excited.
43:55I know.
43:55Oh!
43:56Oh!
43:56That's why I'm scared.
43:58I got you, I got you.
43:59Jesus Christ.
44:00Oh, that's toasty.
44:02I did not think this is where we were going to be
44:04on, like, our first night.
44:05Oh, we were.
44:06This would have literally been my worst nightmare.
44:08Really?
44:08If someone was like,
44:09how would you feel about doing this?
44:10I'd be like, no.
44:11We didn't think that we would have been in a hot tub with...
44:14No.
44:15No.
44:15I never thought I would be in this situation ever
44:20to say, like, oh, potentially I'm going to watch
44:23my boyfriend kiss someone else.
44:32If this all goes right,
44:34I really think it would be an incredible thing for us,
44:37but if it does go wrong,
44:40is it something I'd be able to get over?
44:45Next time on Open House.
44:51I loved last night.
44:52It was incredible.
44:54I do see that as threatening.
45:00We've had issues in the past.
45:01Opening up the relationship,
45:03Tom really struggled.
45:04My dick doesn't grow, basically.
45:06My dick literally does not grow.
45:08I don't want to pressure him.
45:09However, I don't want to be with just the one person
45:12for the rest of my life.
45:15If you are a curious couple or single
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