Le Scuse delle Donne Quando Non Sono Interessate

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Scopri le scuse più comuni che le donne usano quando non sono realmente interessate! In questo video di 10 minuti, esploreremo le frasi ricorrenti e i segnali che possono dirti di più su un incontro. Utilizzando solo media stock e la musica della YouTube Audio Library, presentiamo una guida utile per capire quando è il momento di andare avanti. Con un linguaggio semplice e chiaro, questo video è perfetto per chi desidera migliorare le proprie interazioni sociali. Non dimenticare di lasciare un like e condividere questo video con amici e conoscenti che potrebbero trovarlo interessante!

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00:00Hi everyone! Today we're talking about the most common excuses women use to avoid a date.

00:09Who has never heard a phrase that leaves you confused, like when the waiter

00:13Does he tell you that the dish you wanted is finished? This video is just for laughing together and

00:19Recognize that, deep down, we've all been there. Girls, if you have any other brilliant excuses,

00:24Write them in the comments. Grab the popcorn. We're about to crack the secret code of the

00:30more classic excuses, those that have been around for generations. Are you ready? Let's start with the

00:36Queen of all excuses. Here it is, number one. I already have a boyfriend. Simple, direct, unassailable.

00:48It nips any attempt in its tracks. The best part? Often the boy is more mythological than real,

00:54a ghost boyfriend who appears only when needed. Maybe he adds details, lives abroad,

01:02We just got together. It's a perfect strategy. Checkmate on the first move. No

01:09You can't even get angry or investigate. You'd risk looking like a stalker. In the end, he just...

01:15saved time. That's a polite way of saying no way. Think of it like a bouncer.

01:21invisible at the entrance to an exclusive club. If you meet her again and ask about the boy,

01:27Often, they don't even remember their excuse. It's diplomacy, not malice. Does he accept defeat with grace?

01:33You weren't on the list. Don't take it personally. Let's move on to the next excuse. Another classic.

01:39I'm not ready for a relationship. It almost seems like I need special training for love. Move on.

01:48the problem is about her, as if she had an emotional block. In reality, the subtext is I'm not

01:54Ready with you. It's a classy way to avoid hurting your feelings. Maybe you think you can help her,

02:01But you often see her engaged to someone else two weeks later. It's reverse psychology. It makes you feel...

02:08a hero who arrived at the wrong time. You can't insist on someone who confides in you a weakness. It's a

02:16Oscar-worthy performance. Applause for the diplomacy. Casting for the role of the fiancé is still open.

02:24But you didn't pass the audition. Don't worry, there's another excuse coming. And this one is just as

02:32Brilliant. I'm very busy these days. A phrase we hear everywhere now, almost like

02:41had become the new Hello, how are you? It seems like the universal response to any proposal,

02:48invitation or even just a quick chat. It's the perfect excuse for anyone who has a

02:54A diary, even just to note birthdays or bill deadlines. A full diary is enough.

03:01real or fake, and no one can ask you anything anymore. Until a moment before it seemed free,

03:08relaxed, maybe even a little bored, but as soon as you ask out, her schedule suddenly changes

03:15fills her with unpostponable commitments. Appointments scheduled months ago, promises made to herself to

03:21Taking time for yourself. Yoga, pottery, dinners, visiting the vet, birthdays of distant relatives,

03:28cooking classes, Netflix nights alone, even grocery shopping becomes an event not to be missed.

03:34lose. You are amazed by his organization, by his ability to fit a thousand things into one

03:41single day, while you don't even know what you'll eat tonight or where you left your keys

03:47home. The truth? He'd rather do anything else than go out with you. Even a

03:54An evening alone, between hobbies and TV series, seems more appealing to her than a forced date.

04:01Even cleaning the bathroom grout becomes more interesting, almost a noble excuse to avoid

04:06a meeting that doesn't excite her. If you insist, you seem insensitive to her commitments, as if you don't understand.

04:13how important it is for her to stick to her schedule. She's a brick wall. Your every move

04:19The proposal bounces back. You can only respond with, I understand, maybe next time.

04:26Maybe in 2028, when he finally finds a free slot. It's not a competition to see who's busiest. It's a

04:34A gentle but firm invitation to exist. An elegant way of telling you that there's no room for you,

04:40At least for now. She doesn't have time for you. You shouldn't waste any time with her. Better to dedicate it

04:47your energy to those who truly want to share it. And now, an excuse that turns everything into friendship.

04:54Because sometimes it's better to stay friends than to have a schedule full of silences.

05:03Welcome to the legendary Friendzone, a mythical place that everyone talks about but no one knows.

05:09would ever really like to visit. Here, romantic dreams collide with harsh reality.

05:15and often you get stuck with no way out. I prefer to stay friends. It seems like a compliment,

05:22Almost a caress for the ego. But in reality it's a gentle condemnation, a door that closes.

05:28with a smile. It's like going on a talent show and being told, why don't you try it?

05:35the dancer. No matter how hard you try, the result is always the same. Out

05:42category. You become the confidant, the advisor, the one who listens to his love stories, his

05:49doubts, its joys and its disappointments. You're the shoulder to cry on, the number to call.

05:55late at night. It often comes after you've misread all the signs, convinced there was

06:02something more. You find yourself rethinking every message, every smile, looking for clues.

06:09that perhaps had never existed. The laughter, the late-night texts. Just the basis for a

06:15solid friendship, nothing more. Everything that seemed special was just normal, at least.

06:21for her. It is communicated to you with a solemn air, like important news, almost as if you

06:28they were entrusting a state secret. It's a gift that is actually a scam,

06:33Well wrapped, but inside there's only disappointment. A package that no one would want to receive.

06:39Once inside, it's hard to get out. Every romantic gesture will be seen as a friendly one.

06:46Trying to change things risks ruining everything. You're filed in the Friends folder not to be missed.

06:53touch. A well-defined category from which it is almost impossible to be promoted. You can accept

06:59the role or walk away elegantly, choosing to save your dignity and maybe even yours

07:05Friendship. Being friends is nice, but only if both want it. Otherwise, it's just an act.

07:12Sooner or later, it gets tiring. And now, an even more vague excuse. Because sometimes even friendship isn't enough to...

07:21Explain everything you really feel. I'm going through a difficult time. An excuse.

07:29which opens up a world of undefined problems, work, family, the depressed cat? It's a shield of

07:37mystery and suffering. You immediately turn into a Red Cross nurse, you offer support, but you end up doing

07:44The unpaid psychologist. This difficult time can last for years. It's a perfect alibi.

07:52To be evasive and cancel appointments. You can't say anything, otherwise you seem insensitive.

07:59In reality, it often just means "I have other things on my mind" and you are not a priority. It's a way

08:07Poetic, to keep you at arm's length without being rude. Don't try to solve his problems.

08:13Maybe the problem, for her, is you. Wish her the best and move on. And now, an excuse that plays

08:22about the fear of ruining something that perhaps doesn't exist. I don't want to ruin what we have.

08:30She seems full of concern, but often "what we have" is just a couple of chats. It's like

08:38fear of ruining a sand castle that is actually just a little pile. She's talking about a

08:44precious bond, but you've known each other since Tuesday. It's a noble excuse, he sacrifices himself to save your

08:50friendship. Sometimes he uses it preemptively, even if you hadn't even asked him out. It's a way

08:57polite way to say "I like you as a person, but I'm not attracted to you." Try to maintain sympathy,

09:04separating it from any romantic implications. Appreciate the attempt at delicacy. There is no

09:09No treasure to ruin. It's just a nice way of saying no. And now, the mother of all excuses.

09:17Here we are at the holy grail of loving apologies. It's not you, it's me. A phrase that has now become

09:28almost legendary, used in every corner of the world when it comes to ending a relationship without

09:35seem cruel. It is the ultimate excuse, the one that tries to absolve the other of any guilt, as if

09:43was enough to erase the pain of rejection. Everyone uses it. Friends, strangers, even

09:50TV series characters. But the truth is that, often, the problem isn't really the person receiving it.

09:58The problem, ultimately, is you who says it, even if you don't want to admit it. She takes it all in.

10:04It's my fault. I'm the one who's incapable of loving. I'm the one who has problems. An elegant way to

10:12avoid facing reality and uncomfortable emotions. And so, you end up comforting her,

10:18Even if you're the one being left behind. A paradox that repeats itself in a thousand different stories.

10:25This phrase is everywhere. In movies, in songs, in friends' stories. It has almost become a ritual,

10:34A magic formula to close without causing too much hurt. In reality, it's just the most diplomatic way.

10:40to say I don't like you enough or I don't see a future with you. It's a cliché now,

10:48but it works because no one wants to be seen as the bad guy in the situation. Everyone

10:53They prefer to appear sensitive and understanding. In reality, it only means one thing. It's me.

11:01I don't want you, but I don't have the courage to tell you directly. Saying we're not compatible

11:07It would be too cold, too honest. Better to hide behind a cliché. It's not you,

11:15It's me, it sounds more human, more empathetic. But often it's just a mask, a little lie.

11:21white. When you hear it, take a mental bow. You've just witnessed the perfect closing,

11:28one that leaves no room for discussion. Don't seek explanations, don't insist. Accept.

11:34the gift and move on, because sometimes the truth hurts more than the lie. And remember,

11:41Maybe next time you'll be the right one for someone else. Every ending is just a new one.

11:47beginning, even if at that moment it seems like just a door closing.

11:52We've reached the end of this tragicomic series of excuses. I hope you enjoyed it.

12:01and have acknowledged some personal experience. The important thing is not to take it too seriously.

12:06on the staff and move on with a smile. Now it's your turn. What excuses have you heard or

12:12Used? Leave them in the comments. If you enjoyed the video, please like and subscribe.

12:18to the channel. Thanks everyone, see you next time!

12:22Thank you all.

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