- 15/07/2025
Kerra met her fiancé, “G,” on a three-way FaceTime call and wasn’t initially attracted to him—his tattooed face made her nervous. But his voice and kindness sparked an instant connection. Soon after, G went to prison, and their relationship continued behind bars. Her family disapproves, especially after learning that G is already married—a secret Kerra has kept until now. Her sister fears she’ll get hurt again, but Kerra believes in their bond.
Sonali, 36, a comedian, has always waited for the right man—someone who will accept her choice to remain celibate until marriage. Her belief that sex is a sacred act has made dating difficult, as most men can’t accept her boundaries. Now, she’s meeting Carlos, hoping he’ll be different—and maybe even “the one.”
London Rose, 34, grew up under strict religious rules where makeup, beauty, and even swimming were forbidden. At 18, she left her fundamentalist upbringing and became an adult model—liberating herself, but also making dating nearly impossible. She tells potential partners about her job upfront, but fear of rejection has kept her from dating for years.
Does love need permission—or does freedom begin when you stop hiding who you are?
Sonali, 36, a comedian, has always waited for the right man—someone who will accept her choice to remain celibate until marriage. Her belief that sex is a sacred act has made dating difficult, as most men can’t accept her boundaries. Now, she’s meeting Carlos, hoping he’ll be different—and maybe even “the one.”
London Rose, 34, grew up under strict religious rules where makeup, beauty, and even swimming were forbidden. At 18, she left her fundamentalist upbringing and became an adult model—liberating herself, but also making dating nearly impossible. She tells potential partners about her job upfront, but fear of rejection has kept her from dating for years.
Does love need permission—or does freedom begin when you stop hiding who you are?
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00:00People judge me because I have a husband and a fiancé in prison.
00:04In November, when he was in the county jail, he was flexing, making me laugh and stuff.
00:08And then, after I had stopped recording, he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him.
00:18My name's Kyra. This is my partner, G, and he is in prison.
00:22I speak to G every day, like, six, seven times a day.
00:25I get anxious anticipating his call.
00:28He's definitely my favorite person to speak to every day.
00:30He got six years, five of them, which he already served in the county jail.
00:35G will be released on September 4th of 2025.
00:38So I met G through a mutual friend.
00:40I was nervous. I was scared a little bit, honestly, because I'm not used to all those tattoos on his face.
00:45But his voice is very, very sweet.
00:47So me and G started off talking on FaceTime around 2023, and we just had an instant connection.
00:54G has spent thousands of dollars on my jewelry.
00:58My most special gift that he got me was this chain.
01:00I love it when G spoils me, but I also spoil him, too.
01:03This is just a collection of what I've bought him while he's been in the jail system.
01:08I've gotten him teeth, which is diamond cut, a money bag, and I just ordered G a new chain.
01:14He's calling.
01:17I miss all of y'all so much, baby.
01:19I know. What are you most looking forward to?
01:21Coming home to you and the girls, just being free again.
01:25I'm just waking up with your breath in my face.
01:28Put my breath in your face.
01:31Me, too. Me, too.
01:34G is very romantic when he wants to be.
01:37I bailed him out for $20,000 cash, so he wanted to show his reciprocation of love for me.
01:45Oh, my gosh. I miss you so bad.
01:48So the proposal was kind of ghetto, I'm not gonna lie.
01:51In November, when he was in the county jail, he was flexing, making me laugh and stuff.
01:56And then after I had stopped recording, he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him.
02:02I said yes.
02:03I thought it was cute.
02:05I felt excited but nervous because I was already married at the time, you know?
02:10So I seen how one marriage happened, and I get scared.
02:14I have a husband who's doing 25 to life in prison, and we are separated and no longer involved.
02:19I met G through my husband's ex-girlfriend.
02:22Me and my husband are in the process of a divorce.
02:25All right, baby girl, I'll talk to you later. I love you so much.
02:28I love you more.
02:29Give me a kiss.
02:31People tend to judge me and G's relationship based off his tattoos and our situation.
02:37I come with two little girls that are not biologically his.
02:40Today, I'm finally gonna break the news to my mom and sister that G is also married.
02:45Kiera has definitely been with some interesting people throughout her dating history.
02:50Yeah, that's about as nicely as I can put it.
02:53I'm worried she's gonna get hurt.
02:55I'm just praying that it's not a game to him.
02:58What was your first impression of G?
03:01The first time I seen him, I was like, oh, hell no.
03:05Tattoos all over his body, face, just me mugging.
03:09But on the other hand, when I watch him interact with you, it's different.
03:13So, and at the end of the day, like I said, he's not for me, he's for you.
03:16He wasn't my type at first either.
03:18But mine and his, like, connection level was completely different.
03:23Like, we clicked.
03:24How do you feel as far as, like, me going from one situation to the other and them both having to do time?
03:31If it was me personally, I would rather see you with somebody who is able to be with you every day, not have you sitting here by yourself lonely.
03:39I know, sometimes I wish that too, I'm not gonna lie.
03:42I know G will be home soon, you know, so I don't really trip about that anymore.
03:45As long as he stays home.
03:47I think he will.
03:48I think this time in jail has really showed him this is not what he wants to do as far as, like, being away from the girls and stuff, so.
03:57And that is one thing I'll give him too.
03:59You don't ever treat your girls no different.
04:01Like, in that aspect, I am glad that he's a part of my niece's life because ultimately their father isn't gonna be able to be here for quite a while.
04:10So you really think, like, once you and your husband get the divorce, like, you and G are gonna get married?
04:16I think not right away.
04:18Like, it's not, you know, no girls that's gonna pop up or no, like, hitting stuff.
04:23I don't, this actually leads to, like, what I wanted to talk to you about as to why I called you over.
04:30Can you sit up?
04:32Just tell me.
04:33So, um, G's married.
04:39I thought you were gonna say a girlfriend, not a wife.
04:42Yeah, he's definitely married.
04:44I found out G was married when we were arguing, actually.
04:47One day I just seen his phone ringing and it said a wifey.
04:51And I asked him, are you married, like, for real?
04:54And he was like, yeah.
04:55I'm like, what?
04:56Why didn't I know?
04:57But I didn't care because I'm married.
04:59I'm gonna cry.
05:00I hope, like, she's not with him.
05:02Oh, no, no, no.
05:03He's in, she's in a whole new relationship and I'm in a relationship with him.
05:07He's definitely married though.
05:08He'll be all right.
05:09I mean, if that's how it is, I'm gonna cry.
05:12Please don't.
05:15I don't want to see you hurt again.
05:17No, I, trust me, I don't allow certain things to hurt.
05:20You're an invincible, baby girl.
05:22Thanks.
05:24If you guys are both willing to work through it and get there, I think you guys will make it.
05:31I appreciate you approve.
05:33I'm always gonna have, you know, my little worry about you, but...
05:36You approve of this message.
05:38I approve of this message.
05:39Okay.
05:40I feel like everybody in your life isn't gonna like or love your significant other, but
05:46again, it's not for them to like.
05:48It's about what makes you happy.
05:50What would you say to people who judge your relationship?
05:53It's not your relationship to love or like.
05:55He gets me, my mood swings, I get him, his mood swings.
05:58He's really my best friend.
06:00He's nuts, I'm nuts.
06:01We understand each other.
06:03Hi, my name is Sonali.
06:09I'm a stand-up comedian and a TV personality.
06:12Today, I am going on a blind date and I have a huge secret to reveal to my date.
06:18The farthest I've gone is just the first kiss.
06:20In fact, I've only kissed five guys in my life.
06:23I'm looking for my one and only, my forever man, my soulmate.
06:27That is why I have decided to save myself for that special man.
06:31Hello.
06:32Hi.
06:33Let me give you a hug.
06:34I am still a virgin.
06:35I was still a virgin and I am still a virgin.
06:39How do you think it's going so far?
06:44Growing up in New Jersey was interesting.
06:46My parents are from India, so that makes me Indian American.
06:49At home, it was the Indian culture.
06:51At school, it was the American culture.
06:52And it was quite interesting growing up with the two different worlds.
06:56I have decided to save myself for my special man because I believe that sex, which I don't
07:02call sex, by the way.
07:03I call it making love.
07:04It's a very special and sacred act.
07:07And I can't just give my body to any man.
07:09It's hard to date as a virgin.
07:11But on the flip side, I don't have to worry about UTI and STD or an accidental pregnancy.
07:16So I'm protected.
07:17And you know, prevention is better than cure.
07:19So.
07:20Hi, my name is Carlos Vega.
07:22I am 39 years old.
07:24I'm an actor originally from Chicago, Illinois.
07:26My type is somebody who has a good sense of humor.
07:30Somebody that doesn't take themselves too seriously.
07:33But somebody that really is straightforward, honest.
07:37Somebody who just has a really positive energy about them.
07:41Hello.
07:42Hi.
07:43I'm Carlos.
07:44Sonali.
07:45Sonali.
07:46Nice to meet you.
07:47Nice to meet you.
07:48I'm a little wet.
07:49It's okay.
07:50Very nice to meet you.
07:52So where are you from, Carlos?
07:54I am originally from Chicago.
07:56Oh, okay.
07:57I was born and raised in New Jersey.
07:58What brought you to LA?
07:59I'm an actor.
08:01So my career.
08:02I was acting in Chicago for a while.
08:04I came here for the weather.
08:05Not this weather.
08:06Right.
08:07But um...
08:08Yeah, I mean that's definitely another reason for sure.
08:10What's your cultural ethnicity?
08:12Your cultural background?
08:13Yeah, my parents are both from Mexico.
08:15Do you speak Spanish?
08:17I do, yeah.
08:18Me llamo Sonali.
08:19Yeah.
08:20Tengo hombre, tengo beber.
08:21There you go.
08:22Me gusta bailar.
08:23Yo también.
08:24Salsa, merengue?
08:26Bollywood.
08:27Bollywood?
08:28Uh-huh.
08:29Okay.
08:30Do you know what Bollywood is?
08:31Of course.
08:32Oh, okay.
08:33Yeah.
08:34I've decided to come to this blind date today.
08:37Conventional dating methods haven't worked for me.
08:40Sure.
08:41And also, um, in my culture, there's something called arranged marriages.
08:45Right.
08:46Where your parents choose who you're gonna end up with.
08:49Yeah.
08:50And I'm very much against that.
08:52Yeah.
08:53I think it's very old-fashioned and, and just, it's not for me.
08:56You know, arranged marriage, I understand and respect the benefits of it, but I've realized
09:01it is not for me.
09:02Arranged marriage is your parents choosing who you're gonna be sleeping with.
09:06My parents never talk to me about sex.
09:08That to me is just gross.
09:09Ew.
09:10No thank you.
09:11Hard pass.
09:12Cheers.
09:13Cheers.
09:14Here's, uh, here's to our health.
09:16Mm-hmm.
09:17So, tell me a little bit about the work you do.
09:20What is it that, uh, you do for a living?
09:22I work at Equinox Fitness Club.
09:24Okay.
09:25And I work as an operations manager.
09:26Awesome.
09:27And then besides that, I also do stand-up comedy.
09:29Awesome.
09:30Very cool.
09:31I kind of fell into that by accident.
09:33I mean, that's all we can do, right?
09:35Wow.
09:36I have been a stand-up comedian for a little over a year.
09:39I am damn proud to be a prude.
09:41In fact, just like how there's a pride flag, I have a prude flag.
09:46See, here it is.
09:47I kind of fell into it by accident.
09:49People have told me I'm funny over the years, so I guess I've been sort of a stand-up comedian
09:53all my life.
09:56I've found just leveraging my hardships in life and putting a positive spin on it has provided
10:01tons of material for stand-up comedy.
10:04Carlos, if you'll excuse me, I need to use the ladies room.
10:07Yeah, by all means.
10:08I'll be right back.
10:09Absolutely.
10:11Honestly, he's a bit dull personality-wise.
10:16He's intimidating looking and he has a dull personality.
10:19What am I supposed to do with that, huh?
10:21Oh gosh, what am I going to do?
10:23I'm screwed.
10:25Quite honestly, I want to bounce.
10:28I think that he will be very shocked when he finds out that I'm still a virgin.
10:32Oh, welcome back.
10:34Yeah.
10:35Have you had much success on the dating apps?
10:43For me, honestly, I actually don't date.
10:46No?
10:47Dating is a life skill.
10:48I was actually forbidden from developing that skill growing up.
10:53I mentioned my parents are immigrants.
10:55They're from India.
10:56Yeah.
10:57Dating doesn't exist traditionally in the Indian culture.
10:59So anyway, for me growing up, even though I was born and raised in America, I was raised
11:04as if I was in India, so I wasn't allowed to date growing up.
11:07Gotcha.
11:08No dating, no socializing, no sleepovers, no prom, and no dorming in college.
11:13Got it.
11:14Absolutely, the way I was raised has had a profound impact on my adult dating life.
11:19You know, dating is a life skill and I was not allowed to develop that skill as a teenager.
11:25And so even now as an adult at age 36, I have no idea how to date.
11:31And it's been difficult, absolutely.
11:33It's been challenging.
11:34Yeah.
11:35Frustrating, if you will.
11:36What specifically are you looking for in a partner?
11:39I am looking for what Priyanka Chopra has with Nick Jonas.
11:43Okay.
11:44Are you familiar with them?
11:45I mean, yeah.
11:46Yeah, no, for sure.
11:48It seems like they have a really awesome partnership.
11:51From a woman's perspective, she really does have it all.
11:53When was the last time you were in a relationship with someone?
11:57I have been eternally single.
12:01And look, if I don't laugh about it, I'll cry.
12:04So that's why I'm giggling like a little girl.
12:07Incomplete transparency.
12:10I've actually never been in a relationship, short term or long term.
12:15Okay.
12:16I'm 36.
12:17I've only kissed five guys in my life.
12:20Each guy, that's the farthest it's ever gone.
12:23I am still a virgin.
12:24I was still a virgin.
12:25I was still a virgin and I am still a virgin.
12:28I'm the kind of girl who needs a ring on my finger.
12:31Sure.
12:32In order to go all the way.
12:33Yeah.
12:34Whenever these guys have ghosted me, I've been through emotional hell, if you will.
12:38Thank you, Juan, for sharing that.
12:40That's, you know, incredibly vulnerable of you to share.
12:43How do you feel about that?
12:44About me still being a virgin at age 36?
12:47I think that that's just the path that you have been on in life.
12:51And that's no fault of your own.
12:53I feel completely fine with that.
12:55It doesn't really affect me one way or another.
12:57So you mentioned that you enjoy Bollywood?
13:01Yeah.
13:02How about you?
13:03Do you like dancing?
13:04Yeah.
13:05I mean, I'm, you know, Mexican.
13:06It's kind of in our blood to, you know, as soon as we hear music, it's, your hips are
13:10already swaying, so.
13:11Right.
13:12What is your favorite dance style?
13:15It's Bollywood fusion.
13:17Would you like to show me a little move or two?
13:19Okay.
13:20Yeah.
13:21There's a lot of hip movement and hand movement happening at the same time.
13:24Okay.
13:25And the hips are connected to your feet.
13:26Right.
13:27So one, two, three, four.
13:39That's amazing.
13:40So that's Bollywood for you in a nutshell, Bollywood dance moves.
13:43Why don't you teach me some Mexican dance moves?
13:46We start here.
13:47I'll have my hand here.
13:49Yeah.
13:50Hand on the shoulder.
13:51One, two, three, four.
13:56But a lot of it has to do with just maintaining eye contact with your partner.
13:59Uh-huh.
14:00Right.
14:01I'm just looking at our feet because I don't want to get stepped on.
14:04I don't want to step on you.
14:05No, no, no.
14:06You're fine.
14:07You're fine.
14:08This is all new to me.
14:09Oh, wow.
14:10It was great meeting you, Sonali.
14:11Likewise.
14:12Yeah.
14:13No, I really enjoyed talking to you today.
14:14So thank you so much for meeting me today.
14:15Thank you for coming.
14:18You're welcome.
14:19How did the date go?
14:20I had a great time.
14:21Obviously, Sonali, you're an amazing person.
14:23It's been great meeting you and learning about your culture as well.
14:25The highlight of the date for me was the dancing.
14:26Yeah.
14:27No, I gotta agree.
14:28How did the date go?
14:29How did the date go?
14:30I had a great time.
14:31You know, obviously, Sonali, you're an amazing person.
14:35It's been great meeting you and learning about your culture as well.
14:39The highlight of the date for me was the dancing.
14:42Yeah.
14:43Yeah, no, I gotta agree.
14:44How did the date go?
14:46I know, listen, I'm very grateful for this opportunity, for this experience.
14:54I know I've shared how difficult conventional dating methods have been for me given that
14:59I still have my V-card and that I also don't want an arranged marriage.
15:02And yes, I know what you're thinking.
15:04Biggers can't be choosers.
15:06But in all honesty, this date, no.
15:10I don't see any future with him.
15:12I did not feel any sort of natural connection with him.
15:15This blind date experience has taught me to just be open-minded to different experiences
15:20with different people.
15:24I'm London, and I'm going on a blind date hoping someone can accept me for my career
15:32and who I am.
15:33I grew up in what most would call a fundamentalist religious group.
15:38So it definitely made my career choice seem a bit extreme.
15:43So tell me more about your occupation.
15:45Why is it so, I feel like I had to dig a little bit for it.
15:49I used to hide what I do for a living.
15:53I think it was a fear of judgment from others, maybe, or being accepted.
15:57So I'm curious as to what he'll think.
16:01I try to come with no expectations, but I just hope he's friendly and nice.
16:07I'm Marcus, I'm 30 years old, and I'm a photographer.
16:11This is my first blind date.
16:13I've been on many dates, but not many blind dates.
16:16Big turn off.
16:17Negativity, negativity.
16:18I mean, I'm always half full, guys.
16:20So no matter what the situation is, we can make it work.
16:23So my date is almost here.
16:25I'm nervous, but I'm so excited.
16:26Let's do this.
16:27Hi.
16:28How you doing?
16:29Good.
16:30How are you?
16:31Marcus.
16:32London.
16:33Nice to meet you.
16:34It's a good sunny day out here.
16:35Yeah, it's beautiful.
16:36It really is beautiful.
16:37You're beautiful.
16:38Oh, thank you.
16:39Okay, you came out full first today, huh?
16:40Oh, thank you.
16:41Wasn't playing.
16:42No, I wasn't playing.
16:43Where are you from?
16:44I'm actually from Kansas, but yeah, far from home.
16:47Yeah, you are.
16:48But I live here in LA.
16:50Okay, how long have you been here?
16:51Four months, actually.
16:52Four months.
16:53Four months.
16:54Four months.
16:55Yeah.
16:58Oh, you new baby, huh?
16:59Very new.
17:00Yeah.
17:01I've been working in LA for a while, but yeah, living four months.
17:04How do you work?
17:05I work in film.
17:06Okay.
17:07Yeah.
17:08Yeah, me too.
17:09So I work in like a specific genre of film.
17:12I am in the adult film industry.
17:15Oh.
17:16I have been in the adult entertainment industry for, goodness, like 12 or 13 years.
17:23I started working at a strip club and having sugar daddies.
17:26And then just kind of kept branching out from there.
17:30I have had bad reactions when I tell people what I do.
17:33There's a lot of negative connotation to adult entertainment.
17:37And I think that has a lot to do with it.
17:40People have a perception before they actually get to know somebody in the industry.
17:45What sign are you?
17:46I'll give you a hint.
17:47Okay.
17:48I'm born in September.
17:49No, that's not a hint.
17:50That's the whole answer.
17:51That's the whole thing, right?
17:52Is that a Sagittarius?
17:53No, I'm a Virgo.
17:54A Virgo.
17:55Yes.
17:56Oh, that's so funny.
17:57What are you?
17:58A Leo?
17:59A Leo?
18:00Yeah.
18:01You know Virgos and Leos get along?
18:03Do they?
18:04I've never picked that up.
18:05Oh, no, they are today though.
18:06Oh, cheers.
18:07I'll tell you what.
18:08It's been great meeting you.
18:10This is going better than you expected, huh?
18:12Yeah.
18:13Do you mind to buy Renault Gertzville ladies?
18:17It's going good.
18:19I think it's going better than I thought my first blind date would go.
18:22I told him what I do for a living.
18:24He just was like, oh, you know, that's cool.
18:31Okay.
18:32Hey, sorry to keep it waiting.
18:34So, um, so tell me more about your occupation.
18:37Why is it so, uh, I guess I feel like I had to dig a little bit for it.
18:41Oh, um, yeah, because I guess it's just kind of taboo for a lot of people.
18:45It's way more acceptable.
18:46Yeah.
18:47You seem like a normal everyday person.
18:48Yeah.
18:49So it kind of gives me this, you know, mystique that, I mean, you guys aren't different people,
18:54you know?
18:55Yeah.
18:56That's the thing.
18:57We aren't, we're just like normal people, but dating relationships, it can get hard.
19:01I have a hard time like looking at meeting civilians is what we call them.
19:05If you try to go on dates, sometimes guys will think that they can profit off of a relationship.
19:13I haven't really dated anyone in probably like seven years.
19:17Seven years.
19:18Seven years.
19:19Yeah.
19:20Like bad luck.
19:21Yeah.
19:22Uh, just not even an effort.
19:23Yeah.
19:24Yeah.
19:25No effort, huh?
19:26I've got good friends and, um, yeah.
19:28Would you say I'm, I'm like the most effort you put in recently in dating?
19:32Yes.
19:33You are the most effort.
19:34Definitely.
19:35I feel special.
19:36I feel special.
19:37You, uh, I don't have any kids.
19:39I have, I have, uh, maybe 40 nieces and nephews, but I don't have any kids.
19:44Do you want kids?
19:45Um, I have a kid.
19:46You have a kid?
19:47Yeah.
19:48Yeah.
19:49So I have a son.
19:50He's 12.
19:51Home and work is very, very separate, but yeah.
19:54I'm sure there can come a time where it could be an issue maybe, or I don't know.
20:00We'll wait and see.
20:04So, tell me about your upbringing.
20:08I guess it really wasn't normal.
20:11My parents, um, probably when I was like five, converted to a really fundamentalist belief
20:18system.
20:19I grew up in what most would call a fundamentalist religious group.
20:24We kind of wore like little prairie dresses, you know, music, no TV, no dating.
20:33Um, so very sheltered.
20:36I'm thankful for it, but it definitely made who I am now in my career choice seem a bit extreme compared to that.
20:47So, when I chose my career, my parents didn't take that well.
20:51My mom called me and she said, what is it like being a , and I said, it's wonderful.
20:59Thank you for asking.
21:00It's a big deal to have your parents disown you.
21:03That was hard.
21:04I didn't just lose a mom and dad, but I lost siblings.
21:08I lost friends.
21:09I wouldn't imagine.
21:10I couldn't imagine.
21:11Yeah.
21:12I'm glad you made it through.
21:13You made it out.
21:14Yeah, thanks.
21:15Yeah, I mean, it gave you a different perspective, huh?
21:17Yeah, definitely.
21:18But I definitely like yearn for like that family.
21:21I think it's just about creating your own family.
21:23I have a family.
21:24It's just one that I've created.
21:26Chosen family is just as good as anything else.
21:29So, you ready to go?
21:30I am.
21:31Thank you for a great first date.
21:35It was a nice date.
21:38When he first walked in on the date and I saw him, I thought, oh, this is great.
21:43Like, I think they matched me well and, you know, just based off of looks.
21:47But once we like had conversations, we could stay.
21:51Like, I feel like we both had things to say.
21:53I think she was so very honest.
21:55It was easy to talk to.
21:56London, obviously you told your mom what you do for them.
21:59How do you feel you reacted to it?
22:00Oh, just very casual.
22:02So, I think that was good.
22:03So, it was very common these days.
22:05It's not really something that's too crazy.
22:07You guys want to see each other again?
22:09Yeah, I think so.
22:10Possibly, yeah.
22:11So, why not?
22:12It was fun.
22:14I had a good time and I should try this more often.
22:17Maybe not blind dates, but just dating in general.
22:26Micheal who's got hurt.
22:44I think that's what I did.
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