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Honeymoon Island Season 1 Episode 4 - Full
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00:00:00Previously...
00:00:02This is probably the wildest, craziest thing I've ever done.
00:00:06Six couples found their feet in a 21-day dating experience.
00:00:10I think I'm still in shock that I just got married.
00:00:12Unlike any other.
00:00:14No external factors. It's just me and one other person.
00:00:18Some of them flourished.
00:00:20This is a challenging experience, which is why I'm doing it.
00:00:23We're two different people. That doesn't mean we can't progress.
00:00:26We're working on it.
00:00:28And some of them floundered.
00:00:29Last night, Tom whispered something to me
00:00:32that has just completely changed the dynamic of our relationship.
00:00:36And...
00:00:38At the first couples cove...
00:00:40I found out last night, Tom's got a girl on the outside.
00:00:43A big secret pushed Emily and Tom out to sea.
00:00:48Tom, why do you have a relationship on the outside of this?
00:00:52Damn! That's a big bomb drop.
00:00:54Let's not attack him.
00:00:56Now...
00:00:58Where to from here for Emily and Tom?
00:01:02Are you actually willing to give this a go?
00:01:04And as fallout from couples cove makes waves...
00:01:07To be honest, I felt like you didn't have my back.
00:01:09That meant to be a joke.
00:01:11Is that...
00:01:12Do I find that funny?
00:01:13I've said it.
00:01:14You're going to listen to me for a second. I'm sorry.
00:01:16I'm sorry.
00:01:17I'm sorry.
00:01:18I'm sorry.
00:01:19I'm sorry.
00:01:20I'm sorry.
00:01:21I'm sorry.
00:01:22I feel like that's not going to happen.
00:01:24I know.
00:01:25I'm sorry.
00:01:26That's all I needed to hear.
00:01:27Who will see sparks?
00:01:30Oh, amazing.
00:01:32I was like a nuclear sex bomb.
00:01:35Who will burn out?
00:01:37Have you thought about me sexually?
00:01:41That's all I needed to hear.
00:01:42And who will run away after that conversation?
00:01:46I can't find him and he hasn't come back.
00:01:50Sex!
00:01:57I don't want to be alone tonight.
00:02:07It's a beautiful morning in the South Pacific
00:02:10where six couples have now been stranded for six days.
00:02:15At yesterday's Couples Cove,
00:02:17they came together for the very first time.
00:02:20And a shocking revelation swept one couple into dangerous water.
00:02:27Waking up this morning,
00:02:31there's just so many emotions going through my head.
00:02:33I'm feeling betrayed.
00:02:35I'm feeling like I've been lied to again.
00:02:38I'm confused.
00:02:39Like, why drop that bomb on me?
00:02:42Tom tells me there's a secret girlfriend on the outside.
00:02:46But then he told me he's just lied
00:02:48to get out of building this relationship with me.
00:02:53To be fully honest with you,
00:02:55being on the island made me panic a little bit
00:02:59and just kind of, you know,
00:03:00blurt this thing out to you
00:03:01as a way of, I don't know,
00:03:05avoiding the intimacy part, maybe.
00:03:11Are you willing to keep giving this a go?
00:03:13Yeah, I don't know.
00:03:22I don't understand.
00:03:23And I'm really frustrated by it all
00:03:26and I'm frustrated by him.
00:03:29How'd you sleep?
00:03:32Yeah.
00:03:34Pretty shit?
00:03:35Not my best sleep.
00:03:36I still don't know where Tom's head is at.
00:03:41I don't know where his heart's at
00:03:42and that worries me.
00:03:45How were you feeling after yesterday?
00:03:47It was a big day.
00:03:48I think I just wanted to have a conversation with you now
00:03:57after, like, you know,
00:04:01the dust has settled from everything that happened.
00:04:05Off the bat,
00:04:09I want to be completely honest with you.
00:04:16I think I panicked a bit
00:04:17and potentially, like, slipped into my old ways
00:04:21by telling lies.
00:04:26It, um, yeah,
00:04:30it was a way of trying to make me
00:04:31self-sabotage in a way.
00:04:42I think the reason I was kind of pulling back from Emily
00:04:45is that I didn't have that kind of instant attraction.
00:04:50And, like, in the past,
00:04:52I'd say if I didn't see that spark with someone,
00:04:54I would usually cut things off
00:04:56instead of exploring where
00:04:58that relationship might go
00:04:59if I kind of just push through that.
00:05:02I think the biggest thing for me is, like,
00:05:04now, how do you feel
00:05:05that you are going to move forward with this?
00:05:08Are you actually willing to give this a go?
00:05:16I definitely do want to do this with you
00:05:18and I do want to give it a go.
00:05:20Um, and I'm, like, I am going to...
00:05:22I'm, like, I'm willing to put in the effort.
00:05:25I just want to, you know,
00:05:27have deeper conversations with you
00:05:29and, um, put myself out there more.
00:05:33I think I was really pulling back
00:05:35and kind of preventing that, um, in a lot of ways.
00:05:39Um, and I think my main goal
00:05:43is to just get to know you.
00:05:44Yeah.
00:05:45You know, find out why we were matched together.
00:05:48Yeah, I just want to...
00:05:49I want to give it a proper go.
00:05:51So, I appreciate you telling me that.
00:05:54Yeah.
00:05:55And, like, I'm glad that we can get to here.
00:05:58Like, we're here to...
00:06:01..start fresh and, like, learn new ways
00:06:05of coping with this sort of stuff.
00:06:06Yeah.
00:06:08Yeah, I'm, like, I just want you to know
00:06:09I'm really happy to be here with you
00:06:10and, like, this is what I want to be doing
00:06:13for the next three weeks.
00:06:14Oh, I appreciate it.
00:06:23I'm still very guarded.
00:06:25I'm still sort of holding back a little bit with him.
00:06:28But I'm hopeful.
00:06:31That chat, to me, it actually made him more attractive
00:06:34because he did just say, like,
00:06:36the old me is a self-sabotager.
00:06:38I do really like Tom.
00:06:41And I really hope that, you know,
00:06:43this is Tom being genuine
00:06:44and this is actually him trying for a relationship.
00:06:47Just the exact same reason I'm here.
00:06:49I need to give Tom the benefit of the doubt.
00:06:52But...
00:06:53Fool me once, shame on you.
00:06:55Fool me twice, it's going to be shame on me.
00:06:57Fresh start.
00:06:59Cleaning the slate, Emily.
00:07:01Bree and Byron went to yesterday's Couples Cove
00:07:06riding high on their growing connection.
00:07:09But the social dynamic around the Emily and Tom drama
00:07:12has opened up a rift between them.
00:07:15Do you know that Tom has a girlfriend on the outside?
00:07:17No.
00:07:18You did know that?
00:07:18No.
00:07:19I hate Tom.
00:07:20I literally...
00:07:21I don't hate him.
00:07:22You should hate him.
00:07:23We hate him now.
00:07:24Don't put words in my mouth.
00:07:26Tom.
00:07:26Why do you have a relationship on the outside of this?
00:07:31This is all...
00:07:32Let's not attack him.
00:07:33Let's...
00:07:34This is an experiment, man.
00:07:35We are fast-tracking so much.
00:07:36And I feel like the best relationships in life
00:07:39form from a friendship.
00:07:41So you've got to give that a chance.
00:07:42Yeah, but this isn't...
00:07:43I get that.
00:07:44No, but can you not...
00:07:46It seems like he's talking, you know what I mean?
00:07:48Like, it's a great start.
00:07:49Like, this...
00:07:50It's not the...
00:07:51It's not the best situation, obviously, you know?
00:07:53Like, you're in a crazy little pickle, man, but...
00:07:57To be honest, I felt like you didn't have my back
00:07:59too much at the table.
00:08:01I feel like the one thing that you said
00:08:04that I was kind of a little pissed off with,
00:08:05you were like, well, let's not attack him.
00:08:09Yeah, I was really, really disappointed with Byron.
00:08:13I should come before the boys.
00:08:14We're married.
00:08:16My intention was not to attack Tom,
00:08:18and I felt like I did it in a way that was just like,
00:08:21how are you going to be forward?
00:08:22And, like, is this fair to him?
00:08:23And you could have had my back a little bit more.
00:08:26I just saw how passionate you were,
00:08:28and I just...
00:08:28It looked like you were getting really animated,
00:08:30and it kind of...
00:08:31It looked like you were about to jump down his throat.
00:08:33But let someone else say it to me, not you.
00:08:36Some people just really enjoy that drama,
00:08:39and I can see it kind of excites Brie.
00:08:42To be honest, it was a bit of an ick.
00:08:45Turns me off a little bit.
00:08:47What would you have liked me to have done differently?
00:08:49If anything, just not said anything.
00:08:55I think after yesterday,
00:08:57something kind of changed inside of me,
00:08:58and walls were kind of coming up.
00:09:06How do we recover from this?
00:09:08Where do we go from here?
00:09:12I don't know.
00:09:13But Brie and Byron aren't the only couple
00:09:17who have been rocked by yesterday's get-together.
00:09:20Jess and Sam are also waking up to a tense vibe this morning
00:09:23after an offhand joke from Jess yesterday
00:09:26has sent Sam spiralling.
00:09:29What happened yesterday at Couples Cove
00:09:31was Jess mentioned that I hit her in the face,
00:09:36and I remember the words being punched in the face.
00:09:40She didn't just say it once, she said it twice.
00:09:43And that is not cool with me at all.
00:09:48You are struggling with the sleep.
00:09:50Yeah, yeah.
00:09:50Three hours.
00:09:52I think I'm getting more than Emmanuel.
00:09:54OK, I'm definitely getting more.
00:09:55You're getting way more.
00:09:56He punched me in the face last night.
00:09:58I don't know why he said it like that.
00:10:00He hit me in the face.
00:10:02He hit me in the face.
00:10:03I'm going to go grab a Coke.
00:10:04Don't say that.
00:10:04That's not nice to say.
00:10:06Wait, what's that?
00:10:07He hit me in the face last night.
00:10:08I said I let him sleep.
00:10:09Jess and I both did a really good job in trying to act like adults
00:10:17and get through the afternoon.
00:10:19But it's important for me to tell Jess exactly how I'm feeling
00:10:22because I need to stay true to myself.
00:10:25Yeah, I feel like we've hardly had a chance to actually catch up.
00:10:31Yeah.
00:10:32You know?
00:10:32And yesterday was pretty big for a lot of other people.
00:10:38But yesterday was big for me as well.
00:10:39What happened yesterday when we walked into a group of new couples
00:10:45that I've never met before, not once but twice,
00:10:49you said, Sam punched me in the face last night.
00:10:51I said it.
00:10:52You're going to listen to me for a second.
00:10:53I'm sorry.
00:10:54It really got to me.
00:10:57You said, Sam punched me in the face.
00:10:59Sam hit me.
00:11:00And I think my reaction straight away was like,
00:11:03I even said to you, like, don't say that.
00:11:05It's not funny.
00:11:06I know you said that.
00:11:06In no aspect of my life, Jess.
00:11:09Is that meant to be a joke?
00:11:11Is that, do I find that funny?
00:11:12Do I find it humorous?
00:11:13It wasn't backed up with.
00:11:15We had a really bad sleep.
00:11:17The wind was so bad.
00:11:18Sam rolled over and accidentally elbowed me in the nose.
00:11:20It's not what you said.
00:11:21OK, first of all, I'm sorry.
00:11:22It was meant to be a joke.
00:11:30But I was then upset because your reaction,
00:11:33which was very strong.
00:11:35To what you said about the punching in the face.
00:11:37Yeah, it was, like, really jarring for me
00:11:39in a group of new people.
00:11:41Yeah.
00:11:41In a place where I was trying to be, like,
00:11:45like, walk in with someone, like, a new partner
00:11:48and be like, yeah, this is the person I'm with.
00:11:49Like, we're together.
00:11:50Going great.
00:11:51Yeah, well, I think it's good to set the boundaries early
00:11:54that that's not funny.
00:11:55I don't find that humor funny.
00:11:57I don't ever want to be cast in that light at all.
00:12:02And you said it twice.
00:12:04In the context of sleeping in the wind.
00:12:07Like I said, from my perspective, there was no context there.
00:12:10OK.
00:12:12There wasn't.
00:12:16When I said Sam hit me in the face
00:12:19or punched me in the face,
00:12:20I was referring to how bad our sleep was
00:12:25because we slept through such windy weather
00:12:29and Sam had kind of palmed me in the face,
00:12:33which I told him in the morning.
00:12:34We had a little bit of a joke about it.
00:12:36There was absolutely no ill intent from me
00:12:40around showing Sam up.
00:12:42I wouldn't do that to a partner.
00:12:44Like, you're going to brush me off and go, OK, there was.
00:12:47Like, for me, there was a chance.
00:12:49Like, I'm communicating there was a...
00:12:51The conversations with Danny and I think it was Emmanuel,
00:12:53we were all talking about how shitty our sleep was.
00:12:55I don't even know if I was in that conversation.
00:12:57I seriously don't.
00:12:58There's, like, three-hour sleep increments.
00:13:01Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:13:01Three hours.
00:13:02I think I'm getting more than Emmanuel.
00:13:05OK.
00:13:05I'm definitely getting more.
00:13:06You're getting way more.
00:13:06He punched me in the face last night.
00:13:09It was in context.
00:13:11It was in context.
00:13:12We were saying, we had bad sleep,
00:13:14Sam hit me in the face.
00:13:15I didn't see it in that context.
00:13:16Fair enough.
00:13:17I apologise.
00:13:18I understand the way that it came across
00:13:20and I never want to disrespect you like that.
00:13:23It was meant to be a joke.
00:13:24I get that it's not funny for you.
00:13:25I'll drop it.
00:13:28What upsets me most is
00:13:29you just responded so quickly
00:13:32and kind of didn't give me the benefit of the doubt.
00:13:35So what I'm worried about is, like,
00:13:39you reacting that way to me in public.
00:13:43It's very scary
00:13:44because you come here with such high hope.
00:13:49I've been single for five years
00:13:51and I wanted the chance to find love
00:13:55and a real connection.
00:13:58I'm resilient.
00:13:59I'm independent.
00:13:59I'm all those things.
00:14:00But what I want is a partner
00:14:01that's going to be gentle and loving and tender.
00:14:04He gave that to me when we got married
00:14:06and that's kind of just dropped off.
00:14:11I don't know where we are.
00:14:14Where we're at now, to be honest.
00:14:20Both of us probably need breathing space.
00:14:24At this point, I'm struggling.
00:14:28I'm stuck between wanting to be patient with it
00:14:30and just seeing where it goes
00:14:32and wanting to say to him,
00:14:34it feels like this might be too much for me.
00:14:52Nearly a whole week has passed
00:14:54in the stranded-on-honeymoon-island experience.
00:14:58Woo!
00:14:59Day number six.
00:15:00And six days of being stuck on a desert island
00:15:03with just one other person
00:15:05has had very different effects on all our couples.
00:15:08I'm so looking forward to eating you.
00:15:11I'll be eating with you.
00:15:12Some are already catching feelings.
00:15:16Massage on you there.
00:15:17Oh.
00:15:17Stop it.
00:15:18Others...
00:15:19Let's get some fish.
00:15:21Not so much.
00:15:22But something is about to land on these beaches
00:15:26that might just change everything.
00:15:28What is that?
00:15:30Is that another one?
00:15:32That's right, Tom.
00:15:33It's another crate.
00:15:34Holy shit.
00:15:35And five others just like it
00:15:38are washing up on all our couples' beaches.
00:15:41Is that another crate?
00:15:42Oh, is that a crate?
00:15:43That's another crate.
00:15:44These orange crates are an integral part
00:15:47of the Honeymoon Island experience.
00:15:50Yay!
00:15:51And each one is carefully designed
00:15:54to help our couples break down walls
00:15:56and navigate their way towards a lasting relationship.
00:16:00You can do the honours.
00:16:02I can't look.
00:16:03The only question is,
00:16:04what's inside?
00:16:06Okay.
00:16:07Before you do,
00:16:09if it's an iPad,
00:16:11I'm swimming in an iPad.
00:16:13And how will it challenge each
00:16:14of these new relationships?
00:16:17Okay.
00:16:18Ready?
00:16:18Yeah.
00:16:19One each.
00:16:20Let's do...
00:16:20Oh!
00:16:23What is this?
00:16:26Babe.
00:16:27We're getting kinky.
00:16:28We are not playing handcuffs.
00:16:30Why not?
00:16:31What's a honeymoon
00:16:32without a pair of fluffy handcuffs?
00:16:35Wherever they're at in their relationship,
00:16:37this crate is here to take our couples
00:16:39to the next level of romance.
00:16:41Oil?
00:16:42Yeah.
00:16:42Massage oil?
00:16:44It's filled with items to help them spice things up.
00:16:47What do you reckon that is?
00:16:48I think it's body chocolate.
00:16:49And deep questions
00:16:51to help them broach conversations
00:16:53they might be avoiding.
00:16:55Ooh, intimacy cards.
00:16:59Intimacy doesn't just mean sex.
00:17:02And it's up to each couple
00:17:04to decide how they'll use the items in the crate
00:17:07to advance their relationship.
00:17:08I don't think we're at this level.
00:17:10Obviously, today is a fresh start
00:17:14and, you know, I'm happy for that.
00:17:15I don't know how you feel,
00:17:16but, like, not 100% comfortable.
00:17:19Yeah, I know.
00:17:20But I'm happy to have a glass of red
00:17:23and read the questions.
00:17:24Yeah, that sounds good.
00:17:25I'd feel more comfortable with that.
00:17:27All right, thanks.
00:17:28Appreciate it.
00:17:29All right.
00:17:29Intimacy with Mike
00:17:35on a scale of 1 to 10
00:17:37would be in the negatives right now.
00:17:40OK.
00:17:42What an awkward box.
00:17:45But I feel like I'm starting
00:17:46to build a friendship with Mike,
00:17:48which is good.
00:17:48We're starting to laugh together
00:17:50and have a good time
00:17:51and just chill out.
00:17:52We've moved on from
00:17:53all of the stuff from the first day
00:17:55and, yeah, we're starting to build
00:17:57a bit of a connection.
00:17:58You look better already.
00:17:59Ha-ha!
00:18:01Oh, OK.
00:18:02That was a good one.
00:18:03All right, my turn.
00:18:03I think the contents of this crate
00:18:04could just help us have a bit of fun,
00:18:07relax, get to know each other
00:18:08a little bit better
00:18:09and just goof around a little bit,
00:18:11which is the kind of mic
00:18:13that I want to see more of.
00:18:14I have an idea.
00:18:16Fire away, madam.
00:18:17I was thinking maybe with the wine
00:18:19I could chain you to something
00:18:23and I have to feed you your drink
00:18:25and you only get a sip
00:18:26every time you compliment me.
00:18:27OK, that's pretty tame.
00:18:30I like that.
00:18:31What do you think?
00:18:31That's good.
00:18:33OK, ready to get cuffed?
00:18:34Let's take you over here.
00:18:36We won't need the key.
00:18:38I'm not freaked out by the box.
00:18:41Yeah, Amy's a babe.
00:18:42She's a gorgeous-looking girl
00:18:44and there's no two ways about that.
00:18:46Last time I got her handcuffed like this,
00:18:48it was 3 o'clock in the morning in Auckland.
00:18:50Oh, really?
00:18:51OK.
00:18:52At the moment,
00:18:53her and I are playing a very,
00:18:54very, very slow chess game,
00:18:56but every single day that goes by,
00:19:00it's like we just have more and more fun.
00:19:01I hate to admit it,
00:19:02but I actually think we got the match right.
00:19:05Don't even think about wrestling
00:19:07out of those handcuffs.
00:19:08And I think it would be nice
00:19:11if we gave you the pink blindfolds.
00:19:17Of course.
00:19:19Oh, wow.
00:19:20Look at you.
00:19:21Do I look pretty?
00:19:21You look so pretty.
00:19:25OK, now remember...
00:19:26Yeah, no, the compliments.
00:19:27..you only get a set when I get a compliment.
00:19:31OK, easy.
00:19:33Let's see.
00:19:34Oh, you have very pretty green eyes.
00:19:36Oh, thank you so much.
00:19:39That's so kind.
00:19:41Next one.
00:19:42Today has been by far the best day that we've had
00:19:45and we've been working solidly as a team.
00:19:48I think I get a sip for that one.
00:19:49Why do you get a sip for that one?
00:19:51Because it wasn't a compliment to me.
00:19:53It's a compliment to both of us.
00:19:55We're focusing on me here.
00:19:59And you're funny.
00:20:01Oh, big sip.
00:20:03Now she...
00:20:04Big sip.
00:20:05That's a good one.
00:20:07Now she busts out the jokes.
00:20:08It's been a while since we've seen you smile, Missy.
00:20:11This experience has been crazy.
00:20:1448 hours ago, we were ready to stab each other.
00:20:18Now we're playing fun games with each other
00:20:19and actually laughing and smiling the whole way through.
00:20:23It's good to see, like, her smile
00:20:24and I can see her relaxing with everything
00:20:27and just becoming herself.
00:20:29And it's definitely a turnaround, which is exciting.
00:20:32I want one more.
00:20:33Let's get one more, one more, one more.
00:20:35Make it a good one.
00:20:37Um...
00:20:37Oh, I don't want to say this because this is...
00:20:40Oh, my God, oh, my God.
00:20:40Go on.
00:20:42I hate to say it,
00:20:45but there's many things that you're smarter than me at.
00:20:49I'm going to give you some of mine.
00:20:51That was...
00:20:52Yeah, that was hard to...
00:20:53That was hard.
00:20:53It's a hard pill to swallow.
00:20:54This is more like a chug.
00:20:56I'm going to throw out with a bit of a thing,
00:20:58but you're still a dick.
00:20:59Ha-ha.
00:21:00Fair.
00:21:01The Intuistic box is actually really fun.
00:21:04I'm surprised.
00:21:05I thought it would be more awkward,
00:21:07but, yeah, we had some fun with it.
00:21:09We had some laughs.
00:21:10And you know what?
00:21:11I actually feel like maybe we're starting to be friends.
00:21:15OK.
00:21:16Good.
00:21:16Well done.
00:21:17Woo!
00:21:17Cheers to us.
00:21:18How did you do that?
00:21:22Well done.
00:21:24Thank you for my compliments.
00:21:25No problem.
00:21:30On Jess and Sam's beach,
00:21:32today's crate has gone unnoticed
00:21:34in the aftermath of a heated discussion
00:21:37earlier this morning,
00:21:38in which Sam confronted Jess
00:21:41about a joke she made at yesterday's Couples Cove.
00:21:45The pair haven't spoken or seen each other for hours.
00:21:49And now Jess can't find her husband anywhere
00:21:52on the beach they've been calling home for six days.
00:21:56Sam!
00:22:06Sam?
00:22:07It can't be far.
00:22:24I don't really know what's going on.
00:22:26I don't know where he is now.
00:22:27He's been gone for a while.
00:22:29Yeah, I'm getting kind of worried.
00:22:31After that conversation,
00:22:33to be honest,
00:22:34it was a lot.
00:22:37Sam?
00:22:41Sam?
00:22:45Sam?
00:22:48I know it's a really emotional experience
00:22:51and it's really,
00:22:51really emotionally challenging
00:22:53and he and I have had some really difficult conversations
00:22:56but it's making me nervous
00:22:59that I can't find him
00:23:00and that he hasn't come back.
00:23:03Sam!
00:23:04Sam?
00:23:27Sam?
00:23:28Shit.
00:23:29after an emotional discussion this morning
00:23:50jess hasn't seen her husband sam for hours
00:23:54i'm getting really worried about where sam
00:23:58is now and i'm just starting to spin about it
00:24:03it's brought to light a lot of my insecurities
00:24:07that i'm going to be left
00:24:10and that i'm not good enough
00:24:14i've seen so many men walk out of my life
00:24:19because they just couldn't lock in when they really needed to
00:24:23i had so much hope that this experience would be different
00:24:28for me and i'm left feeling really confused
00:24:33and wondering if it's my fault
00:24:37hello
00:24:38are you okay
00:24:42how are you going
00:24:46i'm worried
00:24:47worried about why
00:24:48i feel great
00:24:52i was taking time out today
00:24:54i've spent a fair bit of the morning meditating just trying to reflect on our conversation
00:24:59i feel good so that's why i want to just check in with you
00:25:02yeah look i mean it was obviously emotional for me
00:25:06i'm sure it was for you too
00:25:08i completely respect the message that you were delivering and i get it
00:25:19for me the delivery was a little bit hard for me to swallow
00:25:25the last eight into 12 months has been really traumatic for me
00:25:28going through a really toxic breakup and and most of all
00:25:31losing my dad
00:25:32i really became emotionally reactive
00:25:36like in regards to delivery
00:25:39i get it if you feel like it was a bit harsh or anything
00:25:41i recognize that i probably could have acted a little differently in that situation
00:25:45i was really dismissive and rude in the way that i responded
00:25:49i've definitely noticed that i'm falling back into some pretty gnarly old habits
00:25:54i need to be with someone that's going to be open to seeing my perspective
00:25:58and who is going to be gentle and tender and soft with me
00:26:05yeah i promise i will thanks for expressing that
00:26:12yeah i guess it doesn't take much for me to put my walls back up pretty quickly so i'm sorry about that
00:26:16i can see that and the same for me too
00:26:18yeah
00:26:20i want to find love that's why i'm here i want a partner i want a life partner
00:26:25no one wants to see this side of me i don't want this side to come out
00:26:28i've done a lot of work on myself to remain calm and and use the tools that i've got
00:26:32i'll do my best to make sure i pick stuff up earlier and
00:26:35yeah i'll communicate and yeah be gentle and
00:26:39yeah i'll do my best i'll try not to be
00:26:41too overly emotionally reactive but
00:26:44it's fair you got you got you got stuff inside there
00:26:48i promised you patience in my vows too and
00:26:51i'm trying to do that as best as i can i'm trying to give you space
00:26:54and both of us space to let this develop organically
00:26:57yeah um you know i'm committed to getting to know you and like going through this
00:27:04with you i feel a little bit rattled it was a really hard morning it was emotional
00:27:11i feel that that kind of drama spiral got to me but we have turned a corner i believe i think
00:27:20we just need to get used to communicating and the way each other communicates
00:27:25and he wasn't running away from me
00:27:27all right
00:27:28feel better
00:27:29yeah i feel better and thanks for hearing me and like i'm fully aware that i'm the furthest in from birth
00:27:35for the very box
00:27:37same
00:27:38all right
00:27:42each day on honeymoon island brings its own unique relationship challenges
00:27:47jess and sam have turned this one into a breakthrough
00:27:53and today's intimacy crate has given chad an idea of how he and georgia might have a breakthrough of their own
00:28:00this is like make or break time chad
00:28:03mm-hmm
00:28:07chad's massage parlour
00:28:09georgia and i we've been so focused on creating like a solid foundation
00:28:14which is getting to know the inner personality the core the traits
00:28:18the things that made us who we are
00:28:20and we've sort of invested most of our time in that that now all of a sudden
00:28:24we've maybe forgot about the intimacy part
00:28:26we have been a little bit safe
00:28:28it's now time to get a little bit deep
00:28:31hello
00:28:32hello
00:28:34you're a sight for sore eyes
00:28:37so are you
00:28:39what are you up to
00:28:41just scheming
00:28:43oh yeah
00:28:45come with me
00:28:46georgia and myself i think
00:28:48in order to fall deeply madly truly in love
00:28:52sexual chemistry needs to be explored
00:28:55can i welcome you to our next experience
00:28:58sure
00:28:59what is it
00:29:01well
00:29:02excited
00:29:03right well come and sit down let me tell you all about it
00:29:05okay
00:29:06this whole experience is called
00:29:08it's all about you
00:29:10oh i'm excited
00:29:13so lay back
00:29:14sure
00:29:15do you trust me
00:29:16i do trust you
00:29:17do you trust me
00:29:19do you trust me
00:29:20i do trust you
00:29:22i just wanted to give georgia the enjoyment that she deserved that she needed to feel relaxed in that moment with someone that she's now beginning to trust
00:29:30so in order for me to do this
00:29:33i'm gonna have to take this item of clothing
00:29:36lower
00:29:37lower
00:29:39ooh
00:29:41gonna give me a good oiling chat
00:29:44okay
00:29:47strong hands
00:29:51really
00:29:52yeah
00:29:53that's nice feedback
00:29:54he's hitting all the right places
00:29:59is it
00:30:00hitting all the right places without hitting all the right places
00:30:04correct
00:30:05do i want intimacy with him
00:30:08yeah definitely
00:30:10yeah definitely
00:30:12i do
00:30:13yeah i feel
00:30:17that will be a great step for him and i
00:30:20making a few noises that i haven't heard you make before
00:30:25what else have you got in the bank
00:30:29you'd like to know
00:30:32i actually think like that that slow burn and that build up
00:30:36it's adding to the fire
00:30:38you know
00:30:39putting fuel to the fire per se
00:30:42so
00:30:43yeah when it does happen it'll be amazing
00:30:47so how are we feeling after this
00:30:49it's all about you experience
00:30:51oh amazing
00:30:53yes
00:30:55amazing
00:30:57so
00:30:58yeah
00:30:59i can't give you all of my tricks all at once
00:31:02right
00:31:06for georgia and chad the intimacy crate has brought them closer than ever literally
00:31:29but for another one of our brides this crate shipped in insecurities she thought she'd left in the real world
00:31:35i think the intimacy box unfortunately like brought up some insecurities within myself
00:31:42i definitely think that the physical side of things things is coming but
00:31:48it's almost like he's someone who i typically would find really attractive but would never really go for
00:31:55because i think that he's like you know too hot
00:32:00i think i'm just like not feeling super confident in my body at the moment and i think it makes it difficult to like feeling i think it makes it difficult to feel i guess super confident around someone who you do think is really hot
00:32:20hot
00:32:21i've definitely struggled with body image issues over the years
00:32:23it's easy to feel i guess like you're not good enough
00:32:30i don't know
00:32:31yeah
00:32:33okay
00:32:35alright
00:32:36okay
00:32:37okay
00:32:39first
00:32:41today
00:32:42after the intimacy crate washed up on the shore
00:32:49I know that Danny is feeling a bit upset.
00:32:52Can't even really understand why.
00:32:55I want to sit up next to the bed.
00:32:58I feel like Danny has a wall up,
00:33:01but whatever the reason, you know,
00:33:03I'm here to help her and have her back.
00:33:06If she's going to get a little bit weary or sad,
00:33:09I'm here for her to, you know, help her figure it out
00:33:13and figure it out for the both of us.
00:33:15I just want to kind of know how you're feeling.
00:33:21I don't know.
00:33:24There's just, like, things going on for me.
00:33:30And I just feel like being here in this environment
00:33:33just, like, exasperates everything.
00:33:40The issue for me is...
00:33:42To me, you're, like, super hot.
00:33:47Like, a mega hot kind of, like, ideal person
00:33:50that I wouldn't generally go for
00:33:51because I would think that, like,
00:33:54oh, that, like, he's out of my league.
00:33:56So I probably just wouldn't even bother.
00:33:59And it's, like, such a trigger for me.
00:34:02To me, you're, like, super hot.
00:34:22Like, a mega hot kind of, like, ideal person
00:34:24that I wouldn't generally go for
00:34:26because I would think that, like,
00:34:28oh, that, like, he's out of my league.
00:34:30So I probably just wouldn't even bother.
00:34:33And it's, like, such a trigger for me to not...
00:34:37I think what happens with me
00:34:45is when I don't voice my thoughts
00:34:48and what's going through my head,
00:34:49like, I pull back and I take a step back.
00:34:52But this time I really wanted to just let it all out
00:34:54and be vulnerable
00:34:55because that's the only way
00:34:56that you really get to know somebody.
00:34:58and, you know, I'm saying this
00:35:00because I do really like you
00:35:02and I don't want to withdraw
00:35:05and not communicate how I'm feeling
00:35:09and pretend that everything is fine
00:35:12because that doesn't help anybody.
00:35:19Look, for me, I don't want you to feel like...
00:35:23I don't... I'm not happy to be here.
00:35:26You know what I mean?
00:35:26I really...
00:35:27I really am liking you and falling for you,
00:35:31like, every day that I get to hang out with you, like...
00:35:33and I get to spend time with you
00:35:36and I see how you are as a person.
00:35:39You are the most beautiful person.
00:35:41And it's beyond the physical for me.
00:35:42I think you're hot by your mind,
00:35:44by the way you're driven,
00:35:46by the way you look at me.
00:35:49That's hot.
00:35:50That's what tracks me.
00:35:52And, girl, you are smoking.
00:35:53Your eyes, your smile,
00:35:56your beautiful olive skin,
00:35:58everything about you.
00:36:02I appreciate it.
00:36:04I do.
00:36:04I really appreciate it.
00:36:07It was just validating, I guess,
00:36:09to, you know, get that reassurance
00:36:11that I am worthy and I am good enough
00:36:13and he sees me, you know, through his eyes.
00:36:17I think sometimes if only we could see each other
00:36:19through the eyes of the people who love us,
00:36:22you know, we'd have a completely different perspective
00:36:23on ourselves.
00:36:24Thank you for listening.
00:36:26Thank you for talking.
00:36:28I am very glad that we had this conversation.
00:36:32I'm just really happy that I got to, like,
00:36:34really understand how she felt about it,
00:36:36how she has been feeling during this process.
00:36:39Intimacy, but...
00:36:40I am growing emotionally closer to her
00:36:44and our bond is actually stronger than ever.
00:36:48It's going to, like, drip everywhere.
00:36:50It's scary and exciting, but I'm just,
00:36:52I'm going with it and I'm embracing
00:36:54this whole experience with her
00:36:56and it's feeling great.
00:36:57Yeah, I mean, the intimacy box did its job,
00:37:12so...
00:37:13We'll see what unfolds.
00:37:17Hold on, look.
00:37:20While Danny and Emmanuel are making good use
00:37:23of their intimacy crate,
00:37:25Bree and Byron are about to take the plunge into theirs.
00:37:31Should we get into these cards?
00:37:32Yeah.
00:37:33We did want to play cards.
00:37:35This is not a deck of 52.
00:37:36I'm glad the intimacy box came.
00:37:40Yeah, I am a very sexual person.
00:37:44Sexual compatibility is probably one of the most important things for me
00:37:49in any relationship.
00:37:50Are you?
00:37:51Well, I'm going to have a bit of wine.
00:37:52I think I'm going to have a little bit of a liquid.
00:37:54And then I'm going to get courage.
00:37:55Yeah.
00:37:56Yeah, I'm definitely moving slower than I usually would.
00:37:59I would have gone there by now, for sure, in the real world.
00:38:01Absolutely.
00:38:02In fact, I probably would have done it on the wedding night
00:38:04because you've got to try before you buy,
00:38:06but I've already bought.
00:38:09Can't take it back now.
00:38:10Describe something that turns you on,
00:38:16which you haven't shared with me.
00:38:18I know we will get more intimate.
00:38:20It'll happen.
00:38:20I'll jump in one night, or maybe during the day.
00:38:22You never know.
00:38:23Those showers can get cut.
00:38:25Sexy.
00:38:26That turns me on?
00:38:27Yeah, and you can't just say me.
00:38:30Chopping wood or something like that.
00:38:33That turns me on.
00:38:35I love sex toys.
00:38:38Right.
00:38:39I've actually never been down that road.
00:38:42Really?
00:38:42Yeah.
00:38:43It's really cool.
00:38:44Right.
00:38:45That turns me on.
00:38:47If anything on the island is, like, the most uncomfortable,
00:38:51it's probably that intimacy part.
00:38:54I definitely think Bree is a little bit,
00:38:57a couple steps ahead of me.
00:38:58I've thought about what, like, it'd be like.
00:39:01Sometimes, like, if you think about sex with someone,
00:39:03you get a little bit, like, of a fanny flutter.
00:39:06Right.
00:39:07I've had that with you.
00:39:09Wow.
00:39:09Which is good.
00:39:10It's a good sign.
00:39:11Wow.
00:39:12Yeah.
00:39:12So, good job.
00:39:13I'm a big believer in, like, a feeling,
00:39:16and when it's right, it's right,
00:39:17and, you know, I just, I haven't felt that just yet.
00:39:21Cool.
00:39:21So, yeah, it's tricky.
00:39:28Have you thought about me sexually?
00:39:30If so, tell me about it.
00:39:35Ooh.
00:39:38Ooh.
00:39:44It's a big question, right?
00:39:45I don't know where I've had time.
00:39:51I'm here.
00:39:53Yeah.
00:39:55To this day, this very moment,
00:39:59I haven't really, like,
00:40:07there's been so much going on.
00:40:10Mm.
00:40:11Like, maybe, I just don't know
00:40:13if it's, yeah, maybe.
00:40:16Mm.
00:40:17What is a maybe?
00:40:19Like, tell me you want to have sex with me.
00:40:22It makes me feel like he doesn't really want to.
00:40:26His boss.
00:40:27OK, here we go.
00:40:45Yeah!
00:40:47Yes!
00:40:48Today, I am looking forward to
00:40:51expelling some energy.
00:40:53And I'm getting out of my life
00:40:56in this world
00:40:57I'm holding it to the top.
00:40:59Yesterday, a crate arrived on Honeymoon Island,
00:41:02which has some of our couples
00:41:04feeling overstimulated this morning.
00:41:07Whoa!
00:41:09Yesterday was a very, um...
00:41:12How would you say it?
00:41:14There was a lot going on yesterday
00:41:15that was energy enriching.
00:41:17Maybe if I go back further, no?
00:41:19Um, arousing.
00:41:22Come closer to me.
00:41:23Come closer.
00:41:24So I was like a nuclear sex bomb.
00:41:27Ha, ha!
00:41:28Whoa!
00:41:29And I had nowhere to detonate.
00:41:32Ha, ha!
00:41:33Ha, ha!
00:41:35And, of course, I was just up all night.
00:41:38Oh, yeah.
00:41:39Oh, my God.
00:41:40Ha, ha!
00:41:42My eyes were up.
00:41:44Oh, my eyes were open.
00:41:45Oh!
00:41:45Oh, you did it!
00:41:46Let's just not say the word up.
00:41:48Ha, ha!
00:41:49It's hot.
00:41:51But I can handle hotter.
00:41:52Ha, ha, ha!
00:41:54Ha, ha, ha!
00:41:54Ha, ha, ha!
00:41:55So, did anything happen last night?
00:41:57Ha, ha, ha!
00:41:59No, nothing happened last night.
00:42:01You'll never be hungry when you're with me.
00:42:04You know, I can honestly say my feelings are growing in that direction, as you can tell
00:42:09by the smile on my face.
00:42:11Bon appétit.
00:42:12Mmm.
00:42:13We can't keep our hands off each other.
00:42:16But it is hard to judge.
00:42:18Like, you know, I've only known him a week.
00:42:20We're still discovering things about each other.
00:42:23I don't want to rush it like I have previous relationships.
00:42:26I'm just really happy with a slow burn.
00:42:31I don't think the intimacy will be a problem between him and I, because there's so much chemistry.
00:42:37Ooh.
00:42:37It's gone would be nice.
00:42:39I know.
00:42:40It's gone with some strawberry and cream.
00:42:42Ha, ha, ha, ha!
00:42:44Mmm.
00:42:46Georgia and Chad aren't the only couple feeling the sexual tension rising after the arrival of the crate.
00:42:53For Danny and Emmanuel, the crate brought out hidden vulnerabilities, creating a new level of emotional intimacy.
00:42:59Uh-huh.
00:43:00Hey!
00:43:00And, well, this.
00:43:03Oi!
00:43:04A little skinny dip.
00:43:09Where was my invite?
00:43:10Ha, ha, ha, ha!
00:43:11After the conversation that I had yesterday.
00:43:14I'm feeling good.
00:43:15Yeah, feeling fresh.
00:43:15I think it's nice that we're both able to be really, like, vocal and open about where we're at.
00:43:22It's nice to know that there's, like, mutual attraction there.
00:43:24It makes it a lot easier to be more comfortable in my own skin.
00:43:34We're stranded.
00:43:35It's just us.
00:43:37And there's nothing to hide behind.
00:43:39And there's no makeup.
00:43:41There's not even any clothes.
00:43:43I think we're both really leaning into island life and becoming our best island selves.
00:43:53And, yeah, I look forward to getting to the next level.
00:43:58So, yeah, intimacy crate.
00:44:00Yeah, big tick for me.
00:44:01A big what, Danny?
00:44:03Hahahaha
00:44:04On Jess and Sam's beach, the arrival of the intimacy crate yesterday went unnoticed on an emotional day for the couple.
00:44:21Oh, God.
00:44:24The red crate of doom.
00:44:27But today, they're better placed to tackle it.
00:44:30When I saw the crate today, I was a little bit anxious, I'm not going to lie.
00:44:37Woo, this is heavy.
00:44:38After yesterday, Sam and I are in a really good place,
00:44:42and I just didn't want anything to kind of ruin that or rock the boat.
00:44:48Look at this pool.
00:44:49This is unbelievable here.
00:44:51I'm definitely looking to build intimacy with Sam.
00:44:55Okay.
00:44:56Would you like me to do the honours?
00:44:58Yes, please.
00:45:00But it's been a rocky couple of days.
00:45:03Intimacy.
00:45:05And I don't know if I'm ready for this.
00:45:10A few cards.
00:45:11Yeah, I'm pretty nervous.
00:45:13Are you?
00:45:13Yes.
00:45:15Look into my eyes, describe what you feel.
00:45:18Oh, okay.
00:45:29I feel a little bit nervous.
00:45:37A little bit scared.
00:45:38I don't know, I also feel like a sense of warmth.
00:45:46That's all I've got for the minute.
00:45:55Okay.
00:45:58After the last couple of days, being stranded on the island with Sam is definitely testing the relationship,
00:46:05but I have faith that it's going to come full circle and it's going to make us stronger.
00:46:11Do you want to read the next one?
00:46:12Yeah.
00:46:12How many sexual partners have you had in your past and how have these experiences affected you?
00:46:26Wow.
00:46:26How many sexual partners have you had in your past?
00:46:48How many sexual partners have you had in your past and how have these experiences affected you?
00:46:53Wow.
00:46:55How many sexual partners?
00:46:58All right, well, mine's around 100.
00:47:09Give or take.
00:47:10I don't keep count, but if I had to take a stab in the dark, then it'd be around that number.
00:47:16Yeah.
00:47:17Have you had any experience before finding out and it's changed how you look at someone?
00:47:23I don't care.
00:47:24Really?
00:47:24Yeah.
00:47:25Really?
00:47:25You just don't care at all?
00:47:26I'm not going to judge.
00:47:28Your turn.
00:47:31I'd be happy for you to be honest and give me a roundabout or an exact or whatever.
00:47:37I was definitely concerned about Sam's response.
00:47:42At times, I've definitely felt that I've been judged, but I just thought, I'm not going to lie now.
00:47:53About the same as you.
00:47:54And how have their experiences affected you?
00:48:00Hugely.
00:48:02As a woman, I've certainly been judged for that in the past.
00:48:08Yeah.
00:48:09Yeah.
00:48:09Yeah, there is a stigma around it, unfortunately.
00:48:18Yeah.
00:48:19It's not something that a woman or a man should be judged on.
00:48:23Yeah.
00:48:24She's got experience.
00:48:26She knows herself.
00:48:26She knows connection.
00:48:27It's great for me.
00:48:28It's really good.
00:48:29Hell yeah.
00:48:30How many times do you like to be intimate each week?
00:48:35Intimacy for me, physical intimacy for me, is like key to a relationship.
00:48:40Every day, if not twice.
00:48:42Every day?
00:48:42Every day, if not twice a day.
00:48:45Thanks for sharing that.
00:48:47I've learnt from past relationships that I am a physical lover.
00:48:51I love to connect deeply with my partner on a physical level, regularly as well.
00:48:56Yeah, I'd like to be intimate every day.
00:48:57Yeah, I'd like to be intimate every day, for sure.
00:48:59It's good for you else.
00:49:00I feel like Jess and I were actually really close to one another's responses, which really
00:49:05does excite me.
00:49:06What do you think I'll be like in bed?
00:49:10Very skilled.
00:49:11Great.
00:49:12There we go.
00:49:12I feel like you'd probably be a little bit of a weapon in bed.
00:49:15Absolutely.
00:49:16Yeah, that's the feeling I get from you.
00:49:18I enjoy my work.
00:49:19Yeah.
00:49:19After a pretty big day this morning, I think it was a really timely package to let my guard
00:49:24down a little bit.
00:49:25Today has been huge.
00:49:27Emotionally, yum.
00:49:29What have we got in here?
00:49:30This is dangerous.
00:49:32Mmm.
00:49:33It's chocolate.
00:49:34I've got to say, I've learnt heaps about myself and I've learnt heaps about Jess as well.
00:49:41You were meant to get that part, I think.
00:49:46That was a real part of it.
00:49:47Yum.
00:49:49Yum.
00:49:51And there's some Sparks.
00:49:52There's some Sparks.
00:49:56I think I missed.
00:49:58Oh.
00:50:08I'm glad I missed.
00:50:09It, it, it, it.
00:50:21Cheers to intimacy questions.
00:50:23Cheers to intimacy questions.
00:50:26Cheers.
00:50:26Cheers.
00:50:26Yesterday with the intimacy crate coming in, obviously that's a really deep dive into a
00:50:34relationship, but I think at this point we're still, you know, at the shallow waters.
00:50:38Yeah, I haven't had cheese in so long.
00:50:40I feel a little bit optimistic that this could become something romantic, but I also don't
00:50:49want to get ahead of myself either.
00:50:51It's just the abs.
00:50:52I love his abs.
00:50:55Emily and Tom have passed on the massage oil and handcuffs for now, but together they've
00:51:01decided to brave the intimacy questions.
00:51:05Do you want me to go first?
00:51:07Yeah, okay, you go first.
00:51:08All right.
00:51:10What are three qualities you like about me?
00:51:13Three qualities.
00:51:17The first, I'd say I love that you're willing to just throw yourself into anything.
00:51:23The second, I think we've got very similar humour.
00:51:29Third, I think, I think you're a good listener as well.
00:51:33Really good listener and, you know, you ask the right questions.
00:51:37That's very nice.
00:51:40Do you genuinely think we could work?
00:51:43I think there's elements of our relationship that work really well at the moment, but then
00:51:51I'm still sort of very reserved with what has happened and just frightened to sort of move
00:51:59past it.
00:52:02What are you most frightened of?
00:52:06Just getting hurt again.
00:52:09But I'm a very forgiving person and I think I'm not going to dwell on this.
00:52:13I feel like I am ready to move past this.
00:52:15Yeah.
00:52:18I'm glad to be here.
00:52:24Ask me anything.
00:52:26Anything?
00:52:27There's a million and one things I want to ask.
00:52:32I don't even know where to start.
00:52:34A million things?
00:52:34Cool.
00:52:36Pick the very top one, the one that's most important.
00:52:39What are you dying to know?
00:52:40Would you kiss me?
00:52:49Yeah, I'd kiss you.
00:52:53Do you want to kiss me?
00:53:01Maybe.
00:53:01Ask me anything would you kiss me yeah
00:53:25I'd kiss him do you want to kiss me maybe
00:53:55you went in with tongue straight away again just like our wedding kiss you came straight in with
00:54:02the tongue gosh she loves a bit of tongue doesn't she straight in with it don't even give me that
00:54:07dude no no no it was a good kiss um she's definitely a good kisser and I knew that from
00:54:13the wedding day if someone told me that you know after couples cove that I'd be having a
00:54:19full French kiss with Tom I think I probably would have laughed in their face and told them
00:54:23to shut up but I think for some reason our clean slate our fresh start has really worked
00:54:29the intimacy crate has had a massive impact on all our couples Emily and Tom have had a major
00:54:36breakthrough just days after their relationship seemed doomed to fail but for Brie and Byron
00:54:42the crate unboxed a blind side for Brie when Byron admitted he'd never thought about her sexually
00:54:49I didn't have the best sleep after the conversation yesterday so I was in my head a bit last night I
00:55:03was kind of like oh does he not think I'm attractive like I went straight to being like he doesn't want
00:55:08me I might go for a quick shower then hey um can we just like chat first we can
00:55:20armed with leftover supplies from the intimacy crate Brie wants to know if the spark she and Byron
00:55:28once shared is still aflame you all right um I don't know I think um the way you answered some of the
00:55:45questions yesterday mm-hmm kind of freaked you out freaked me out a bit and sent me thinking
00:55:51yeah that's fair I think I just it's hard to hear for a girl as a girl that like the guy that
00:56:00you're dating married to spending a lot of time with yeah doesn't think about you sexually
00:56:05yeah that like makes me feel ugly it makes me feel like not attractive makes me feel not good enough
00:56:14none of those things I don't want to think like that ever yeah I have been I definitely don't want
00:56:21to lead Brie on but I don't know the answers I don't know how I'm feeling fully so I can't give
00:56:27answers that I'm not sure of you know if we met each other on the outside mm-hmm would you be attracted
00:56:35to me like I'd like to say yes but you could you're not saying yes well I just like I don't know
00:56:48um I just want to know if I like if that it's gonna happen
00:56:57uh I like I think the concern is like maybe that that spark and maybe that attraction like
00:57:09I'm just trying to work out where where are a lot where we lost that so you lost the attraction
00:57:18well I I don't know where you know if it's going to be formed and stuff like that that's all I need
00:57:24to be out like I'm trying to be open here like it's all good I'm just gonna have a minute
00:57:29honestly like to be honest if he doesn't want to that's absolutely fine couldn't give a
00:57:50but like it's not gonna work I'm not like it's like if I feel not wanted and not feel beautiful
00:57:57and attractive enough you don't want to have sex with me then like I'm not gonna waste my time here
00:58:04this is where I go back to back to the guys I'm familiar with they're comfortable they want me
00:58:15get one of those guys here they'll enjoy the holiday
00:58:21it's been a difficult 24 hours on Brie and Byron's island since the arrival of the intimacy crate
00:58:40and Byron's admission that he's lost the spark has pushed Brie to breaking point
00:58:45I wanted to run as soon as I didn't like one thing that he said
00:58:50because I don't want to get hurt I want to sit there and listen to things I don't want to hear
00:58:55I'm not good at relationships
00:59:00because when as soon as things get scary and hard I go away and I run and I go to someone else
00:59:07because I don't want to get hurt and I don't get hurt
00:59:11it's easy to run and it's easy to just give up
00:59:15but I just realized like I don't want to be scared that's why I'm here
00:59:21to stop those fears
00:59:24and I don't want to regret anything
00:59:29I'm sorry
00:59:45I'm sorry
00:59:46I just needed to sort out my head for a bit
00:59:50I got a little like blindsided and like
00:59:57I don't know
00:59:59I know I saw your face and I just it hurt me as well
01:00:04I hurt her
01:00:07I never came into this experience wanting to hurt anyone
01:00:11only to try and fall in love
01:00:14I don't know what's missing but maybe I'm scared to go to that next level
01:00:21because there has been some hiccups and I see red flags
01:00:24you know like all the drama and Couples Cove
01:00:27and in the past I have run from these situations
01:00:31maybe not because of the person in that relationship
01:00:39maybe it was me
01:00:40obviously there are some things that I have going on as well
01:00:46but I understand where you're coming from
01:00:48and if I was in your shoes and I heard that
01:00:50it would cut deep
01:00:53I think my biggest fear right now is
01:00:58I'm going to you know
01:01:01sabotage another relationship
01:01:03before it's even had a chance
01:01:05to grow
01:01:07it sounds true because I feel this
01:01:09like I feel like we are actually on the same page
01:01:11I think we're both
01:01:12yeah we are
01:01:13we both came here because we both struggle to be in relationships
01:01:16100%
01:01:17and then they put two people who struggle to be in relationships
01:01:19on an island together
01:01:20and say they're married
01:01:21I know
01:01:21it's obviously highlighted
01:01:24things that I haven't dealt with maybe as well
01:01:28and maybe things for us to work towards
01:01:32I just want to keep on getting to know you
01:01:35you know like I feel like that's where my intimacy grows
01:01:38you know like
01:01:38yeah yeah absolutely
01:01:40that's where I find attraction
01:01:41I think being with Bree in this experience
01:01:44and what she's sort of taught me is
01:01:46it's not always going to be perfect
01:01:48it's not always going to be easy
01:01:50but you know I'm out here to find love
01:01:52and I'm going to keep working
01:01:54on this and us
01:01:56are you as sweaty as me?
01:02:00I'm stinky and sweaty
01:02:00should we just have a dip?
01:02:02can I have a swim?
01:02:02I think that's it
01:02:03would be good
01:02:03and you know what the beauty is?
01:02:06it's the beauty is not imperfect
01:02:07it's what's present
01:02:08what's in front of you
01:02:09and what makes you happy
01:02:10what makes you laugh
01:02:11I don't think we'll ever reach perfection
01:02:14ever in life
01:02:15with no matter what we do
01:02:16but you strive to get better every day
01:02:19and grow
01:02:20and I feel like that's what we're doing here
01:02:22still to come
01:02:32next time
01:02:34oh my god
01:02:34whoo
01:02:35an island movie date with a twist
01:02:38movie night
01:02:39brings our couples back to where it all began
01:02:42oh no wait wait wait
01:02:4514's really hot
01:02:46I'm on now
01:02:47but not every movie has a happy ending
01:02:51Luke's 11
01:02:51stop flirting with my man
01:02:5311
01:02:54summer 11
01:02:5511
01:02:5511
01:02:5611
01:02:56my wife's going to kill me
01:02:58he's my physical type
01:03:01Emmanuel's a cat
01:03:02I'm not upset by it
01:03:04I'm not threatened by it
01:03:05and then at Couples Cove
01:03:07we're here to party
01:03:09things are getting awkward
01:03:11I really want to talk about movie night
01:03:13Emmanuel came in
01:03:14you are making her feel uncomfortable right now
01:03:17are you okay
01:03:19I feel like Jess is actually trying to bait me
01:03:21this for me is a total deal breaker
01:03:24I'm not sure of you
01:03:24I'm not sure of you
01:03:26I'm not sure of you
01:03:26but I'm not sure of you
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