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00:00Previously on Somebody's Son.
00:02I hope you're going to find your wife,
00:03but I'm just not sure you're my husband.
00:07I heard I'm not husband material.
00:10Get the out of here.
00:12Chad and I are making out, and I hear the door slide open.
00:17It's Lauren.
00:22Wow.
00:25You literally catch a man in a woman's bed?
00:27It has been absolutely amazing getting
00:30to know each and every one of you ladies, and just...
00:33Excuse me. I'm sorry.
00:35I can't with a clear conscience stay here,
00:40knowing I don't think this is a romantic connection for you and I.
00:57The house is getting a little quieter because it's just me and Paige.
01:09I do miss Lauren.
01:10She was definitely the glue for us, I guess.
01:14Like, she would ask the question.
01:17You know, yesterday tension was very thick.
01:20It was full of highs and lows.
01:22And then we also seen Lauren leave, so hopefully today is a lot calmer
01:27so we can kind of regulate this nervous system
01:29because the stress has been here.
01:36Good morning.
01:36Good morning.
01:37How you doing?
01:38Doing good.
01:39You excited to have this chat about yesterday?
01:42Yeah.
01:42So Lauren is gone and the atmosphere is now shifted.
01:49Lauren dropped the bombshell on us.
01:51Yeah, she did.
01:52And I wasn't expecting that one.
01:55Neither was I.
01:57But I think that, you know, some of the stuff that happened yesterday
02:01or the day before probably contributed to her leaving.
02:04And if I seen that, I'd probably literally do the same thing.
02:07So, you know, there's really no hard feelings.
02:10Lauren left because she caught Chad in the bed with Jasmine
02:17and she just was not having it.
02:20She was like, no, not here, not for the experience,
02:24not outside the experience.
02:25It's a no go.
02:26It's a hard no.
02:27Like, I was totally blown away.
02:29Yeah, no, I was shocked for sure.
02:32As a woman, I understand.
02:34So I have to respect how she feels
02:37and I have to respect her decision.
02:40So we have two more ladies in the house, Paige and Jasmine.
02:44What are your thoughts?
02:45Honestly, just trying to take it a day at a time.
02:47Now that Lauren decided to leave the experience,
02:49I'm super confused right now.
02:51I'm dealing with Jasmine and Paige.
02:53Obviously, I've been spending a lot of time with Jasmine.
02:57That's how I kind of got caught up in this situation.
02:59Paige, great person, great qualities as well.
03:04I feel like me and Paige's relationship
03:06isn't at the same level as Jasmine
03:08because the connection is just not there.
03:11I kind of have already voiced my opinion on the Paige situation,
03:14so I just don't know where this is going to go.
03:17Like I said, we have two more days.
03:18Mm-hmm.
03:19We never know what can really happen or what can develop.
03:21Okay.
03:35Well, there you go.
03:36I've been waiting on you.
03:37Yeah.
03:37Looking all over the house for you.
03:38Okay, come on in.
03:40All right.
03:41I've been so worried.
03:43How was last night?
03:44I'm sorry.
03:46Now that Lexi's gone, it's time to really focus my eyes and my spirit and my energy
03:51on the woman that's still in this house.
03:53So I'm really excited to be able to show these women a little bit more who I am
03:56and not have my energy so spread out.
03:59How do you feel Lexi going home?
04:02On the way out, she's had some words for me.
04:06What did she say?
04:07I probably would have given the other girls an opportunity to just learn more about you.
04:12I already packed my stuff.
04:14She said, if this didn't happen, she was going to tell the other ladies to go pursue me
04:19themselves because she didn't care basically anymore.
04:23And the way I heard it at the moment was I'm not husband material for her.
04:29You know, nobody wants to hear that.
04:30So it's like, what did I show you here that wasn't that?
04:33Me being neutral, me doing this, it kind of like took me off guard.
04:36And I felt like she was lashing out.
04:37If she didn't want this, she would have gone a long time ago.
04:40Trust me, I know.
04:40Okay, you know, I got to go.
04:41Trust me, I know.
04:42Why was she coming for you, all this?
04:44Please forget about that.
04:45I just, I'm taking, I take the high road, you know.
04:47Let's be focused.
04:50Yeah, bring it up, let's see.
04:52Another day.
04:53Mm-hmm.
04:53Good morning, Joshua and Omar.
04:56Today is all about the importance of connection and compatibility.
05:01Use this opportunity to get all the answers you need and perhaps share any information
05:06you've been contemplating and sharing.
05:08Mm-hmm.
05:08And that's, that's the big one.
05:10Yeah.
05:11Later, Joshua, you will be sent on two individual dates.
05:14Wow, that's good.
05:16The end of the journey is approaching.
05:18Remember to have fun.
05:20But we always have fun.
05:21Yeah, we will.
05:23We will.
05:24We will.
05:24I chose to wait to tell the girls that I play football in the NFL because in the real
05:30world, that clouds all your judgment.
05:32You don't ever get to see me for who I am.
05:34You see the athlete in me.
05:36In the past, I've dated and they just wanted me for my success.
05:40When things didn't go out the way I envisioned it, they started to slowly fade away.
05:45And it sucked.
05:45It hurt.
05:45I feel like it might be time, though, for me to tell them what I do for a living.
05:49Mm-hmm.
05:50I want everybody to be open, but I haven't been given the full truth.
05:53Yeah.
05:54Because for some people, you playing sports tonight doesn't make a difference.
05:57Make a difference to them.
05:57For some people.
05:58It's a big deal.
05:59It's a big deal.
06:00Some people, they don't like it.
06:01At all.
06:01Exactly.
06:02They don't want to be in that position.
06:03Exactly.
06:04So it's a real determinative factor for them.
06:07Mm-hmm.
06:07Because it ain't all about me and me.
06:09Yeah.
06:09They got to choose me, too.
06:11Exactly.
06:11And that plays a big role.
06:12Okay.
06:13Let's do it.
06:14Let's go.
06:15She's left-handed.
06:31She's right-handed.
06:33Today we have an activity.
06:35Something that's calm, chill.
06:36I'm going to tell the girls, let's paint.
06:38Hey.
06:39Hey.
06:39Come, come, come, come.
06:42Hey, girl.
06:43I'll set up the painting.
06:45Hey, oh, now we Picasso.
06:47Uh-huh.
06:48This is going to be the first time that mama's not going to be there with her eyes on us.
06:51It's just going to be us three getting some alone time.
06:54So this will be the perfect time that I'm going to tell them what I do for 11.
06:58And hopefully they take it well.
07:00We're going to paint our hearts today.
07:02Oh.
07:03Oh, that's sweet.
07:03You know, that's what we're doing today.
07:05Something cool, something chill.
07:06Okay.
07:09In this moment, I'm feeling really comfortable with Josh, but there is still a missing piece
07:16between the two of us.
07:18Those things that are intangible are the things that I'm looking for.
07:22Guide my heart.
07:23Lead me.
07:24Like, pray with me.
07:25That's definitely something that I want us to talk about a little more.
07:29I don't know if he's going to be enough.
07:33Y'all played any sports?
07:35I did.
07:35Yeah.
07:36Okay, tell me about it.
07:37I mean, cheerleading.
07:38Some people feel like cheerleading is a sport.
07:40I cheered in college, too.
07:41Oh, wow.
07:42I ran track, too, but that's a long time ago.
07:46Long time ago.
07:46I was like, this is my chance.
07:51Like, we're really getting to know each other here.
07:53We're getting deep in everything.
07:55And I still, low-key, feel like I've been holding a little back myself.
07:59Holding back a little bit.
08:01What you holding back?
08:04Well, um, like, my profession.
08:11Um, I work out a lot because I play professional football.
08:16What?
08:24I still, low-key, feel like I've been holding a little back.
08:27Um, like, my profession.
08:30Um, I work out a lot because I play professional football.
08:35What?
08:36I'm going on year seven in the league.
08:39Oh, my God.
08:41This is crazy.
08:43This is crazy.
08:44And, um, all this time that I've been training for a triathlon, I've been training for this upcoming season.
08:51This experience is wild.
08:54Like, I don't have no time to actually process what he just said.
08:59I mean, what are y'all reservations when it comes to professional athletes?
09:02Athletes.
09:03People have horror stories.
09:05Exactly.
09:06Because it's a little lifestyle.
09:07Yeah.
09:08I mean, there's a big stigma about this, regardless.
09:10I mean, it's all determined by who you're looking at, obviously.
09:13You know, we don't have so much time here.
09:15I'm just like, I can't leave without saying it at all, you know?
09:18Because it is a big determining factor.
09:20Whatever his profession is, he is human.
09:22Um, but it puts a lot into perspective about what he needs in a partner.
09:28I do think that I check some of those boxes.
09:31And that's the importance of knowing someone.
09:33And so you can kind of cater to those needs.
09:36Even the boxes that I have yet to check, I will work to check the boxes that are unchecked.
09:41I didn't want to leave with it coming in because people see it as, oh, this guy can take care of me.
09:46Like, it's not about me anymore.
09:48It becomes about the possibilities of what I can do for them.
09:52That makes sense because everybody's reaction to that news is different.
09:56Some people are like, you know, dollar sign, dollar sign, dollar sign, dollar sign.
10:00I'm big on, like, who are you as a person?
10:03Like, what's your character like?
10:04Like, I've dated, you know, very high-profile people.
10:08And if your character's not right, I don't give a damn how much money you have.
10:13And your character speaks above everything.
10:16Or you can just tell that you're a good person.
10:19And the girls are telling me that being a professional athlete doesn't make a difference.
10:22But I'm not really believing that right now.
10:25Because when it make a difference to you, it'll make a difference to me, at least.
10:28I mean, it doesn't change who I've learned to be.
10:31How I be, yeah.
10:32When it comes to dating, it's hard.
10:35You don't know it's real.
10:37You don't know it's fake.
10:38They might be just my trust issues.
10:40Don't stand so close.
10:45You see me coming, but I'm old, cause my vibe is real cold.
10:49Y'all about to get it, huh?
10:50A stack of money's my, I'm old, cause my vibe is real cold.
10:55Better act like you, I'm old.
10:56You come and honey, watch your throat, cause my vibe is real cold.
10:58So Lauren is gone, and it's a little different.
11:03She was almost like the mother to the other ladies.
11:06So it's a big change in the atmosphere.
11:11So how you feeling?
11:12Like, we ain't gotta go into nothing deep or nothing like that.
11:14But, like, what are your thoughts?
11:16It does feel weird without Lauren being here.
11:18It's a new layout.
11:19There's only two people left.
11:20I think Lauren choosing to leave versus not getting an invite doesn't really provide me with any security because I'm curious to know who were the invites intended for in the first place.
11:33So it does leave me with a little lingering feeling of, am I supposed to be here, or is Jasmine supposed to be here, or were one of us really supposed to be eliminated?
11:46I don't know what flavor this is.
11:49This may be pineapple.
11:51Chad and I are still progressing in our relationship.
11:54But I will say I am uncomfortable because he's telling me a little too much.
12:01I feel like this hug with Paige is kind of, like, you know, there's not much attraction at all, honestly.
12:07Really?
12:07Yeah.
12:09I do keep a lot of, like, things secret.
12:12And now it's hard to sit across from Paige knowing how he feels about her.
12:18What do you think you've learned so far from this experience, then, about yourself?
12:23Um, I'd rather not know how you feel about anyone.
12:29I don't have to be around them, um, like, badly.
12:33Because I don't like to be in people's face, smiling and stuff.
12:37I'd rather not do it.
12:38I don't like to hold stuff in like that because I'll put some type of way.
12:42I am currently pushing Chad to tell Paige about how he feels.
12:49If you need to tell someone something, just go ahead and rip the Band-Aid out.
12:54Also, she might handle it a different way.
12:57She might not be upset about it.
13:00Um, I mean, I could if I wanted to, but it's like, eh, f*** it.
13:12That's not funny.
13:14Jasmine is definitely harping on the Paige situation too much.
13:17You know, right now I'm just trying to get her back focused on the bigger picture, which is, you know, our situation that we have going on.
13:24I kind of handle my emotions differently.
13:27I do what I want to do.
13:30And that's probably why Lauren brought the love, honestly.
13:33I still like Chad.
13:34I like the potential, but I'm not allowing the potential to get into, in the way of the character he has shown with others.
13:44I also don't really know who he is other than what he's shown me in this house.
13:51Yeah.
13:52Do what you want to do.
13:54The fact that you told me sit on that makes me feel as if they're like, you don't care.
14:00You only care about yourself.
14:01And there's two girls right now in this situation.
14:18So my game plan is to tell Paige how I really feel about her.
14:22Jasmine did have a little bit of influence, but at the end of the day, honestly, I felt like it was better to just, you know, pull the Band-Aid off right now.
14:30Okay.
14:31Coming into this experience, I wanted to try something new, and I thought that I would have an open mind.
14:40You know, we have a lot of things in common.
14:42And, um, I didn't want to really rule you out or anything, honestly, but I knew there wasn't a physical attraction.
14:51I knew there was something new, but I knew there was something else going on here.
15:06Now I'm starting to replay this in my head.
15:09Like, the crazier part about this is that you sat there on that date and let me agree to you that, okay, I can be more affectionate.
15:16He was like, yeah, so if you want to have a one-on-one, if you want to be affectionate, you can do that.
15:21So, like, we do the photo shoot, right, and then I try to give you a hug, and you went for a high five, right?
15:25I know, yeah.
15:26I didn't know if you, like, looked at me like a homie or something like that.
15:29That's it, Chad.
15:32And it's really hurtful for me.
15:34You just kind of strung me along the entire process, and that's not cool.
15:39We do have a lot of similarities.
15:40I think that's why we're here on this date.
15:42Yeah.
15:42Because I was like, yeah, I kind of want to know more about you.
15:45We're on the same page, so it's like, I'm not delusional.
15:47Okay.
15:48What Chad has done is not right by any means.
15:52For me, the apology needs to be, Paige, I couldn't be man enough to tell you that,
15:59I didn't see the physical attraction, so I had to take the cop-out route
16:04and make it seem like you was not an affectionate person,
16:09so it could be easier for me to make a decision for myself.
16:14You too busy trying not to be painted in the light,
16:16so you would rather throw me under the bus.
16:19On top of it all, you trying to gaslight me?
16:22Come on.
16:24You see how that's the apology that I would need?
16:27Or you don't see it that way?
16:28Nah, I can see that.
16:30I'm sorry for that.
16:32But you told me you needed the confirmation to do the physical stuff, right?
16:38But that never was the issue, Chad.
16:41The whole issue is that you never was physically feeling it, right?
16:45If the physical attraction was that bad, you wouldn't have made it this far.
16:50That's actually crazy of you.
16:55Yeah, I'm sorry about the situation.
16:57My reaction to what Paige is saying to me right now, honestly, it's kind of flooring.
17:03But at the end of the day, it's her opinion.
17:04I'm really not trying to go back and forth with a woman.
17:08It is what it is.
17:08Whatever helps you sleep at night at this point, I'm cool with.
17:13There's nothing else for me to do in this experience.
17:17I do feel like Chad tried to kind of play in my face a bit and degrade me in this process.
17:27So he's not someone that I would like to take home to my parents.
17:31I'm so sorry to wake you up.
17:49I cannot leave without telling you goodbye.
17:52What happened?
17:53So Chad tried to have a conversation with me.
17:56The reason why we haven't really connected is because he wasn't really physically attracted.
18:01I'm so shocked.
18:04Well, I definitely was rooting for you.
18:09Just so you know.
18:10I appreciate that.
18:12I feel like y'all had a lot in common.
18:16Yeah.
18:16And I felt like you would have definitely brought a lot to him.
18:20But I commend you.
18:23I really, really do.
18:24I do agree with Paige for removing herself from the situation because she has to love
18:32herself.
18:33Don't let nothing and nobody stop you from demanding what you deserve.
18:37But at the same time, I really just want to give Chad a good old-fashioned whooping.
18:43Thank you for everything.
18:46I really appreciate you.
18:47Because Paige was just the one I feel was best suited for Chad.
18:54I just love that I can feel comfortable enough to go to her and feel safe to be vulnerable
19:04and be open and give her that sense of gratitude.
19:11If you're going to be doing all that, fine.
19:12I'm trying.
19:13Go back to your room.
19:13I'm trying.
19:14Go to your room.
19:16Thank you, though.
19:17I appreciate you.
19:18Okay.
19:19Okay.
19:19We'll be in touch.
19:20So, I'm leaving tonight.
19:32I hate that we've allowed him to behave in this manner and you feel the wrath of it.
19:41How weak of a man would you be to put down a black woman to save yourself?
19:51Like, lie on a black woman when you know we already got it tough.
19:56What would Lauren say?
19:58Just breathe.
19:59I never wanted my experience to affect your experience.
20:04So, if it did, I'm so sorry.
20:06If I would have known, I would have left a long time ago because I value my bond with you
20:13more than I would ever value my bond with him.
20:18It's okay.
20:19It's okay.
20:21I know.
20:22And I felt like when Lauren did that, I thought about leaving myself, but I still wanted you
20:32to be able to see it through.
20:34But I'm telling you now that I can't do it no more.
20:39And just like Lauren, like, I choose me too.
20:42Like, I can't just be here for somebody who still can't truly own up to what he's done.
20:50You the best roommate I ever had.
20:52Stop, girl.
20:53We have fun.
20:54It's been a blast.
20:55And it's definitely not the last.
20:58Oh, yeah.
20:59How you been processing?
21:14Yeah.
21:15The bomb I just dropped on everybody?
21:17I know Shamriel's a fun person, so today I want to bring her into my world a little bit
21:22and also hear what she thinks about me and this big bomb of me being a professional athlete.
21:29Yeah, I think it's this.
21:30Okay, how you doing?
21:39Do I play in the right ATVs tonight?
21:40Yes.
21:41Going into this date, I have no idea how Shamriel's going to take it.
21:45I don't know if she's going to be scared.
21:46I want you to get dirty, sweaty, and see if you have the same amount of fun, because this
21:50is my life.
21:50Grab the back and pull over your head.
21:53I feel like Josh is a little nervous if I'm going to like this activity.
21:59I think he's like, oh, here she goes.
22:01She got her hair down.
22:03Like, I don't know if the pretty girls get dirty.
22:06I'm already dirty.
22:07But there are a whole lot of layers to me.
22:11Here we go.
22:11Y'all ready?
22:12Here we go.
22:17Come on, don't get scared.
22:18Once they caught wind, because I was with it, they went crazy.
22:36Shamriel, Miss Beauty expenses up to 5K.
22:39I didn't expect her to really embrace the mud.
22:42She's really just enjoying herself right now.
22:44Go, go, go, go!
22:51Woo!
23:00Okay, all that happened.
23:03Hello.
23:05Oh, my God.
23:07That was fun.
23:08Look, the trail was beautiful and amazing.
23:11It was so much freaking fun.
23:13It was wild.
23:15Woo!
23:17See that?
23:18Your favorite.
23:19You got some Popeye.
23:20Yeah, yeah, yeah.
23:22Oh!
23:23Thank you, guys.
23:24Can you tell me about your little old language?
23:25Oh!
23:26Chill, chill, chill, chill.
23:28OK, so you a romantic girl.
23:29Chill, chill, chill.
23:30I'm trying.
23:32I'm just like, aw, this is actually really romantic,
23:36which is cute, because he kept saying he didn't know
23:37if he was romantic.
23:39At that point, no, he's romantic.
23:40Like, I told y'all he's a lover boy for real.
23:43OK, I'm going to let you dig in first.
23:45Oh, my god.
23:49What do you think about that bomb I dropped on you today?
23:55That was a lot.
23:56My first thought was like, this makes sense now.
24:00When Joshua told me that he's a professional football player,
24:04honestly, him saying that doesn't change anything for me.
24:07The same way I would have dated him if I knew is the same way
24:10I'm dating him now that I know.
24:12I've dated high profile people.
24:14Like, you ain't my first rodeo.
24:15So respectfully, like.
24:19What made you feel like this was the right time?
24:21I think I'm asking everybody to show me their real selves.
24:25And I was just like, you know what?
24:26I think it's time.
24:28Also, I think it helped that, like, Lexi was with his left,
24:30too.
24:31Because now it's like I'm not sharing my emotions
24:33with this many people.
24:33A little more intimate.
24:34Yeah, it's a lot more intimate.
24:36Shamriel's handling this big bomb of me
24:38being a professional athlete very well.
24:41Being in this house, Shamriel's been able to see the real me,
24:44and I've been able to see the real her.
24:46It don't change nothing for me.
24:50I appreciate that.
24:52What's meant to be is going to be.
24:54You take one moment at a time, you trust what you do,
24:57and everything is going to be just fine.
25:03Why you sound like that?
25:05What?
25:05Why you sound like that?
25:06Sounding like what?
25:12This day has drawn me a lot close to Chambrio.
25:16The things are spicing it up a little bit.
25:19It's feeling like it might go there.
25:22You want to go?
25:22Boy, I want to take a shower.
25:24Like, I want to, I want to get to it.
25:27I don't want to go.
25:27You don't want to go?
25:28I love this breeze.
25:29I have that effect also.
25:30Oh, hello.
25:31I'm just joking.
25:35No, we don't got to go.
25:35You know, I'll give it to you.
25:38I've been waiting for some time.
25:43But I can't say that I've always been patient.
25:47I know I have a...
25:52I have to...
25:54Mm.
25:55Uh-oh.
25:56Uh-oh.
25:57I said it.
25:58I said it.
25:59I said it.
26:00I said it.
26:01I said it.
26:02I said it.
26:03I said it.
26:04I said it.
26:05I said it.
26:07I want Joshua to be comfortable, whoever he ends up with.
26:11I think Chambriel is just herself, regardless of who's around her.
26:17But at this time, we'll keep looking and see.
26:21Omar, you miss me?
26:22You're part of mod on him.
26:24Look at you.
26:24You're part of mod on him.
26:26I miss you.
26:27I miss you, too.
26:28I said I put that mod on him.
26:29That was him.
26:31Like, oh, my God.
26:32ATVs is fun.
26:34We had fun.
26:35You're enjoying it.
26:37You're hot and fun.
26:38You're finally in love.
26:39You're all for me.
26:42You're all for me.
26:43Josh and Chambriel are getting very spicy.
26:47And they, like, had a time with ATVs.
26:50I don't want to be rude, but it was, I didn't like it.
26:54I didn't like it.
27:10I feel good waking up this morning.
27:11A lot happened during my date with Chambriel.
27:14Now it's time to really see if I can connect with Tameris.
27:17Ooh.
27:18What's this?
27:19Oh, my God.
27:20Baby.
27:20Tameris told me she never knew how to ride a bike.
27:27And today I want to take her to do that.
27:30I was not lying when I said I could not ride a bike.
27:32Today you're going to learn.
27:33OK?
27:34OK.
27:35I don't know when I mentioned that I couldn't ride a bike,
27:38but it was very cute of Joshua to just pay attention
27:41to the small details.
27:42All right.
27:43You ready?
27:44Yeah.
27:45Well, you ready?
27:46I got you.
27:47Whatever foot you want to push off the ground with.
27:49I think this one works.
27:50Come on.
27:51What you doing?
27:52Nobody ride the bike like that.
27:56Jeez.
27:57Wait.
27:58I was trying to push this one up.
28:02Oh, OK.
28:03I get what you said.
28:04I don't have balance on this side.
28:05Oh, OK.
28:06Just then move forward.
28:07No nerves, no knee pads, just first bike ride.
28:11That's it.
28:13Yeah, no.
28:14There we go.
28:15OK, let me try.
28:16See?
28:17Don't fall.
28:18Just push.
28:19You got to get in tune with the bike.
28:21There it is.
28:22Thankfully, this is the only thing that I don't know how to ride.
28:26Don't worry.
28:27Hello.
28:28Oh, baby.
28:34Come on.
28:36I see you, baby.
28:38I see you.
28:40There we go.
28:42There it is.
28:43Don't even think about it.
28:44Just go.
28:45I'm the coach of the year.
28:47I'm the coach of the year.
28:49I'm the coach of the year.
28:50You know how to ride.
28:51There it is.
28:52I don't want to ride a bike.
28:53It was very cute of Joshua to show me how, step by step.
28:56I'm trying to be Speedy Gonzalez.
28:57Wait.
28:58So how do you slow that?
28:59Oh, backwards.
29:00But no busted kneecaps.
29:01You're good.
29:02You're chilling.
29:03Don't even worry about me.
29:04I'm going to get out of your way.
29:05Yep.
29:06Did it.
29:07It took one little pedal at a time.
29:08But we got you there.
29:09I have a short break.
29:11Yeah, of course.
29:12It's a good thing.
29:13What you think?
29:14What you think?
29:15Oh, this is so cute.
29:16So great.
29:17I wish you do like the Egyptian.
29:18Let me look.
29:19You're going to tell me twice.
29:20That's great.
29:21You got work for it.
29:22It's the little things.
29:23Um, I think that it's even the way that he looks at me into my soul.
29:27Okay.
29:28It's so cute.
29:29It's so cute.
29:30I think it's so cute.
29:31what you think?
29:32What you think?
29:33What you think?
29:34What you think?
29:35Oh, this is so cute.
29:37So great.
29:38I wish you do like the Egyptian.
29:39Let me look.
29:40Here.
29:41You got work for it.
29:45It's the little things.
29:47Um, I think that it's even the way that he looks at me into my soul.
29:51Ooh, my soul.
29:54I liked him.
29:55I'm happy to meet her with you.
29:56I'm one definite.
29:58And from the start, like, we've just
30:02been able to kind of connect, so.
30:04What's your ideal picture?
30:07You would pick me, and we would keep
30:09on getting to know each other.
30:11And then we would go to something.
30:14I've been attracted to Tamaris from the start.
30:17The connection was there off the bat.
30:18It was evident.
30:20But throughout this journey, I've
30:22been left a little frustrated from the lack of openness
30:25and vulnerability.
30:27How do you think that I would fit in to your life?
30:30Do you think I can?
30:32If you're open to it, you know?
30:34All I can do is take your word for it, you know?
30:38But it comes with a lot, like, you know?
30:40And going into this journey, I kind of strayed away
30:42from speaking about that.
30:43And that's why at the end, I was just like, I have to tell.
30:47Because there's just no way you can fully take the picture.
30:50I can really get the full picture.
30:51Yeah.
30:53Have you really took into perspective what that could be,
30:57being with a pro athlete?
30:59And it's not.
31:00The only way you're going to find out is if we do it.
31:02We'll see, you know?
31:03Mm-hmm.
31:06Towards the end right now, I'm getting this affection
31:11or a physical touch.
31:13But is it only happening because we're
31:15coming down to an end?
31:17Is it because I just told you I played football?
31:20I wanted to cuddle, be in your skin.
31:23Wow.
31:25You are really affectionate.
31:27It's different.
31:28Really?
31:29Oh.
31:31It's just different.
31:33Yeah.
31:34It's just different.
31:35You don't really know women's intentions.
31:37Like, that's why I am single to this day.
31:41Sheesh.
31:46Now, it's just leaving me wondering,
31:48am I going to make the right decision?
31:50I'm just laying in bed, and all of a sudden, I get a knock on my door.
32:06I was confused, but it was Tamaris.
32:08I'm seeing this side of Tamaris, and I'm liking it.
32:11You're taking what you want.
32:13But why are you doing it now?
32:14Do you feel nervous that you're losing me?
32:15Like, what's going on?
32:16Like, what's going on?
32:17It's a brand new day.
32:18Couldn't see it, but I really, I ain't gonna try to figure it out.
32:20I'm seeing this side of Tamaris, and I'm liking it.
32:22You're taking what you want, but why are you doing it now?
32:26But why are you doing it now?
32:28Do you, like, you feel nervous that you're losing me?
32:31Like, what's going on?
32:33Well, this is the last day in the house, and I really like Jasmine.
32:41I like the way that she thinks, and I just kind of like the balance that she provides
32:59for me, just because I am, like, a high-intensity type person.
33:02And so, I'm planning on asking Jasmine if she wants to be in a committed relationship.
33:08Chad and I are on our way to the final date.
33:12It's very important to figure out what the next step with Chad is, because I do like
33:18him, and we didn't make a connection.
33:19But I'm like, mm, I know there's some things we need to work on.
33:24How are you feeling?
33:25Feeling good.
33:26I look nice.
33:27You do, too.
33:28How was your night?
33:29Like, how'd you sleep?
33:30I know you had a, I was probably thinking about a lot.
33:33So, let's get into last night.
33:35Yeah.
33:36What are you thinking about it?
33:39I mean, I think I just had to kind of, you know, pull the band-aid off.
33:45I didn't feel like there was really a point of waiting, just to tell her how I felt about
33:50her.
33:51Do you feel like how she reacted was valid?
33:55How do you feel about that?
33:57That was her opinion.
33:58Yeah, I just let her go off, honestly.
34:00I'm not about to go back and forth with her.
34:03I mean, I don't think that that was all true.
34:06And so, I kind of just let her say what she had to say.
34:09Last night has definitely been weighing on my heart.
34:13It's confusing, and it still ain't adding up.
34:15The boys are me.
34:16Sweetie.
34:18Thank you, sir.
34:20During this experience, I've reacted to the things that you've said to me.
34:25Um, so it's kind of like, opened up my eyes a little bit.
34:29And once I saw how down you were, I was like, okay, I need to just take the situation into
34:34my own hands.
34:36Jasmine's posture seemed pretty aggressive.
34:39You know, it kind of caught me off guard.
34:41And right now, I'm just trying to talk to her about us.
34:44Um, I will say, though, it makes me a little nervous.
34:47Because, yeah, the physical attraction was there.
34:51Mm.
34:52And you got happy, and you, like, jumped on the train fast.
34:57Yeah.
34:58I just hope it's not just physical attraction, you know?
35:01Yeah, it's not.
35:02Yeah.
35:03What is it, then?
35:06Almost everything, honestly.
35:07Like, your passion about what you want to do.
35:11I like your calm demeanor.
35:13I like that you write a lot.
35:15You think a lot.
35:16Every night, after a long day of running around, doing the activities, I would find myself just
35:23laying up in your bed, just, like, relaxing and calm.
35:25Like, the state of mind that you put me in and the calmness, like, that is, that's, like,
35:29everything to me.
35:30I think we did build a connection pretty fast, and, like, the hardest part for me was trying
35:35to figure out was if it was just because, you know, we were in a house together, or is
35:42this something that can last outside of this experience?
35:45You know, I'm definitely interested in taking this experience past this.
35:52And, you know, see if, see if we can make it work.
35:57So, I just want to see if you want to date exclusively.
36:02I am going to have to say no right now.
36:15Okay.
36:17I'm not ready.
36:19I'm definitely shocked.
36:20You know, I thought throughout the whole time we spent together, we'd build a connection.
36:25And then, you know, we get up to the last date, and she says no.
36:28So, it kind of threw me off.
36:30Threw me for a loop, for sure.
36:31I was definitely surprised.
36:36That's fine.
36:37Is it?
36:38It is.
36:39That's what you want.
36:40Yeah, that's fine.
36:41Okay.
36:42I wanted to see how he felt about Paige's feelings, and to see if he believed that, yeah, she
36:52was just a girl in the house, but how do, how are you going to handle other situations
36:57when it comes to other people, or even me, if something goes wrong?
37:03You have a great night.
37:04You too.
37:12Me and Jasmine's relationship caused a huge rift in the house.
37:19It was definitely a primary reason for the other two women to leave.
37:24And it kind of just threw me off guard when she said no and walked away.
37:39Hey, son.
37:40What's up?
37:41Was it a dream date or a dud?
37:43What's up?
37:44I was like, both.
37:45What you mean?
37:46Um, I was like, hey, do you want a date exclusive?
37:50She was like, nope.
37:54I just want to continue to kind of get back to my normal life outside of this, and, you
38:00know, and date whoever.
38:03Chad's attitude was, to me, very arrogant.
38:07And I think it was just a cover-up, because now he felt some type of rejection.
38:14You had high hopes.
38:15Yeah.
38:16That jazz is definitely your dream, right?
38:20Right.
38:21So don't use your defense mechanism, like, because I'm going to put your shield up.
38:26Don't put your shield up.
38:27Yeah, this is not a defense mechanism.
38:28Okay.
38:29Like, yeah, like, I'm fine.
38:30Men tend to treat women how they feel about their mother, and so it just really concerns
38:35me that he just has this nonchalant, like, I don't care kind of attitude.
38:40So for me, it's just like, dude, you can't just be cold and callous like this.
38:46Like, whatever is wrong, whatever is blocking you from having that emotion, I need him to
38:52get in touch with that.
38:53Throughout this whole process, you're like, I'm fine.
38:55I'm fine.
38:56I'm fine.
38:57No, that can't be true.
38:58At some point, you have to feel like, damn.
39:00No, I'm telling you how I feel.
39:01Okay.
39:02I mean, happens.
39:03It's very hard for me to be vulnerable in certain situations, and so, you know, sometimes
39:08I have up this wall, and I really don't understand, like, as far as how to really tap into certain
39:15emotions that people would expect me to tap into on certain situations.
39:20Most men have some type of emotion.
39:23Like, you're this cold, callous person that don't give a damn about nobody.
39:27I don't give a damn that I hurt her feelings.
39:29But is there any part of your heart where you feel, like, convicted, like?
39:35It was such a short period of time.
39:38Okay.
39:39Um, ultimately, it was definitely a tough one, you know?
39:44But I hope and pray that you can learn and grow and be in touch and be in tune with
39:52some of your feelings.
39:54Me and Chad came into this experience in hopes that he would find a beautiful mate.
40:00And unfortunately, it did not happen that way.
40:03However, to be in this space with my son and to let him know that it's okay to be vulnerable.
40:09You don't always have to be hard.
40:11You don't always have to have all the answers.
40:14I know it's gonna carry him throughout the rest of his life.
40:19And he'll always have this moment, too, to look back on it, to say that I really love my mom.
40:28And my mom really loves me.
40:30And she wants nothing but the best for me.
40:33And so, for me, I know God answered a prayer that I prayed for a long time.
40:38Okay?
40:39Love you.
40:40All right.
40:41I love you.
40:42Get it together.
40:45Next time I pull out my stench guard.
40:47Next, on Somebody's Son.
40:49Now it's time to trust your heart.
40:52Ooh-wee.
40:53Today, your journey will come to an end.
40:56Up to this point, the decisions have been in mom's head.
41:00So let's see how it ends.
41:02And it's my decision.
41:05You're good?
41:08No, but I'm being right.
41:10Okay.
41:16You're an obvious choice.
41:18You're looking at my past.
41:19It's like, you're the one.
41:20It's easy.
41:21No questions about it.
41:25Would you like to be exclusive with me?
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