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Movie - Open House- The Great Sex Experiment - Season 1
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00:00We are completely in love, but it doesn't mean you can't screw around.
00:05British couples are increasingly questioning monogamy.
00:09The biggest contraception of knowing to man is wedding cake.
00:15But is it possible to open up your relationship without harming it?
00:19It's a complete mystery, the whole thing. This is it. We don't know what to expect.
00:23These curious couples are about to find out.
00:26Oh, that is gorgeous.
00:27They're traveling to a unique retreat.
00:30Hello, you all right?
00:32Where, with the help of a specialist relationship therapist...
00:36Life is short. Why limit sex to just one person?
00:41And a group of single, available and sexually liberated residents...
00:46It's just natural to have sex with multiple people.
00:51They're about to discover if their sexual fantasies...
00:54Oh, jeez!
00:56...can become a reality.
00:59It'd be like the idea of group sex.
01:02We were just wondering if you'd like to spend the night with us.
01:04...and whether or not they'll be able to break one of society's greatest taboos...
01:09I should have been thinking about the man that I love and how he was feeling.
01:15...and have sex with other people.
01:18Oh, my God!
01:19Wow, I was not expecting that.
01:23This is the most up my comfort zone I've ever been.
01:26I'm nervous.
01:36I'm nervous.
01:37Yeah.
01:38I've got butterflies.
01:39How are you feeling?
01:41Yeah, buzzing.
01:41Checking into the retreat are Ellie and Chaos, whose love affair began online.
01:47When I first saw Ellie, she was wearing these very small shorts and her bum was like...
01:52...kind of hanging out.
01:53Oi!
01:54It was a very hot day, so...
01:56Are you ready to have fun, Ellie?
01:57Yeah.
01:59Can't wait.
02:01Chaos was quick to take the relationship to the next level.
02:04I prepared this video.
02:06Will you be my girlfriend?
02:08And it went viral.
02:09I went bright red.
02:10I went literally the shade of a tomato and all the comments were saying about how...
02:16Yeah.
02:17Sit!
02:18As a professional GB athlete, Chaos knows how to stay cool under pressure.
02:24I'm just a really chilled and laid-back person.
02:27I have complete trust in Ellie and what she does, so I have nothing to worry or be jealous
02:32about.
02:33And being super fit helps him keep up in the bedroom.
02:37We do do it, like, well, every day.
02:40The chemistry is good, so we're quite adventurous.
02:44Top notch.
02:46I would probably say that I have a very high, like, sex drive and, yeah, it's hard to find
02:52someone that matches that.
02:53Now the couple want to find out if opening up their relationship, starting with a threesome,
02:59will help them keep the spark alive.
03:01I'd say the honeymoon period is over, but we're still very much so attracted to each other.
03:07I do think it's a bit naive to think that you can be with one person for your entire life.
03:12Can you see her?
03:14Yes.
03:15Oh, my God.
03:17How are you doing?
03:18Here to welcome them are hosts Jess and Tom, who are in a long-term open relationship themselves.
03:24How are you feeling?
03:25Very excited to see what's to come, yeah.
03:28Hello.
03:29Hello, everyone.
03:30Hi, everyone.
03:32Now, Kea.
03:33Nice to meet you.
03:34Nice to meet you.
03:35God, you look so good.
03:36Yeah.
03:36Intimacy therapist, Dr. Laurie Beth, wants to help the couple take their first steps
03:45into non-monogamy.
03:47Hey.
03:48Grab a chair.
03:49It's good to meet you, too.
03:50So why don't you tell me what has brought you here?
03:54We thought this would be the perfect opportunity to have a threesome.
03:57Yep.
03:58Seeing Ellie, for example, kiss another girl or anything like that, I'm attracted to that,
04:03so...
04:04I think that's Kea's ideal scenario.
04:05I mean, that's kind of every guy's dream, let's be honest, right?
04:10What do you think other people might bring to your relationship?
04:13I mean, more fun, I guess.
04:14Yeah, I guess.
04:15Yeah, okay.
04:15Yeah.
04:16More fun.
04:17Yeah.
04:18So where are you in your sexuality?
04:20I've always said I don't really label things.
04:22I never consider myself as straight or bisexual.
04:25I've always had attraction to both sexes, so that's really how I feel.
04:30So opportunities are structured with that in mind?
04:33Yes, yeah.
04:34What is jealousy like for you?
04:37I've never been jealous in my life, really.
04:39I mean, I've nothing.
04:40I don't know how...
04:41Like, there's nothing that will make Kea's jealous, he says, so that's interesting.
04:45Not that I know of, anyway.
04:46Yeah, exactly.
04:48But nothing that comes to mind.
04:49What's jealousy like for you?
04:50Slightly a bit jealous.
04:52I mean, it would be strange not to be.
04:53I don't think that he would ever do anything behind my back, so I do fully trust him in
04:58that way, but he can be a little bit jealous.
05:01Okay, so before you date together, Ellie, I want you to go on a social alone.
05:08I want you to explore your bisexuality on your own first, without Kea's there, so you
05:14don't have to worry about jealousy.
05:15You'll have the opportunity to meet someone, spend the night with them, and lay the groundwork
05:21for a threesome.
05:22Yeah, that sounds good to me.
05:24Cool.
05:25It's hard to predict how someone will react seeing their partner give or receive pleasure
05:30from another.
05:31She's not actually sure she might get jealous seeing him with another woman.
05:35It can be fine one minute, and absolutely not fine the next.
05:39We're going to go away and have socials, so mine's tonight.
05:44That's what's got my nerves going, but I guess I'm excited as well.
05:49Give me a heart.
05:54We're going to throw ourselves into it, I think.
05:57Give it 100%, see what it's about.
05:59Yeah, and have fun with it.
06:02The couple have only just arrived at the retreat, and one of them has already made a big impression
06:08on the residence.
06:10When Ellie came in, yeah, she was so confident, I was just like, I didn't even care about the
06:15guy, I was just looking at her like, she looked classy as well.
06:17Very.
06:18She is bisexual.
06:19Oh, she is bisexual.
06:20Yeah.
06:20Oh, okay, cool.
06:21And he's straight.
06:22There's a lot of girls that are okay with getting with a girl, but wouldn't want the guy
06:26to have sex with her.
06:27Girl, yeah.
06:28So they'll be having fun, and he can just watch.
06:30Watch.
06:30Yeah.
06:34Are you scared?
06:36A little bit.
06:36Next to check in to this exclusive retreat are couple Helen and Steve from Dorset.
06:43My first impression of Steve, I thought he was Jack the Lad.
06:48Remember, you sent me a picture of a bed at a hotel, a four-poster bed, saying, are we
06:53going to hang out?
06:54I thought, who does this man think he is?
06:57She had a lovely smile, but it was her arse.
06:59She had a very nice bum.
07:00I didn't fall in love with him.
07:04He irritated me.
07:05He would contact me about three times a year on Facebook.
07:09All right, babe, when are we going to get married then?
07:12And then my house burnt down, and he offered to help.
07:16And I don't know.
07:17I kind of really fancied him with his brush, painted my walls.
07:20And now she drives a Range Rover Sport.
07:22What a life.
07:23Oh, hey.
07:24Well, Kusty, you couldn't go wrong meeting me, babe, could you?
07:27Wow.
07:28Oh, look at the river.
07:29Look at the size of that lake as well, look.
07:31Don't have too many drinks, Steve.
07:32You'd be skinny dipping in there.
07:33Damn right I will.
07:35The couple have been together for four years and have a one-year-old child.
07:40My daughter is my baby girl.
07:42My pride and joy.
07:44And she'd make anyone broody?
07:46Broody, does that mean horny?
07:47No.
07:49He's funny with words.
07:50He doesn't get them all.
07:52Helen and Steve have no complaints between the sheets.
07:55I'd rate Steve 9 out of 10 in the bedroom.
08:00This tongue is better than anything you get at Ann Summers.
08:03Ann Summers has got nothing on my tongue.
08:06That's fair.
08:07It's true, though, isn't it?
08:07Yeah, that's fair.
08:09Oh, my gosh, the size of that.
08:12Steve and Helen are here to explore if being in an open relationship with other people
08:16can make them stronger as a couple.
08:20Here we are.
08:21Let's go.
08:22It's an opportunity to discover what we both really, truly want.
08:26I think this will make a huge difference to our relationship.
08:31Wow, pretty, isn't it?
08:32I'm excited about going on this journey.
08:34It's definitely an eye-opener.
08:35Hey, guys.
08:39It's nice to meet you.
08:41I'm going to give you a hug.
08:42Hey.
08:42How are you doing, mate?
08:43You all right?
08:44Yeah, really good, mate.
08:45Smart hat, that, isn't it?
08:46Nice to meet you.
08:46I'm Josh.
08:47Welcome to the house.
08:50Take you on a tour around the place, yeah?
08:52Yeah, all right.
08:52Do you do this way?
08:53Oh, yeah, you all right?
08:54Good, thank you.
08:55Nice to meet you.
09:00There's a steam.
09:01He's got thrown in the deep end.
09:03Obviously, with Lillam, it's quite hard.
09:05Yeah.
09:05I might feel a little bit uneasy, him going on a date with someone else.
09:09So, yeah.
09:11Cross that bridge when I come into that.
09:13You've got to get me and have some sexy outfit.
09:21Ellie and Chaos are hoping to bring another woman into their relationship.
09:25But before they date as a couple...
09:27I mean, I'm no fashion expert, but...
09:31I think it goes.
09:32Dr Laurie wants Ellie to explore her bisexuality
09:36without having to manage her jealousy.
09:39So she's going on a solo social.
09:41Being a little bitch right now.
09:42You need to have it a little bit up.
09:45No, like, point.
09:46Yeah, like that.
09:46Oh.
09:48And this is better.
09:49I love staring at a palette.
09:51If she makes a connection with someone,
09:54she'll have the opportunity to invite them to spend the night with her.
09:57It is amazing that I'm finally kind of getting to explore this
10:02when I'm in a relationship with Chaos.
10:04It's going to be a great experience.
10:05Yeah?
10:06Sexy, yes.
10:08I think she's going to enjoy herself.
10:09And I look forward to hearing all the gossip about it.
10:13Yeah, you look good.
10:15Fun.
10:15Looking good as well.
10:16Does it look good?
10:17Yeah.
10:18I'm excited to get to know new people and have fun.
10:20I'm taking it as it comes,
10:22so we'll have to wait and see what is in store.
10:24Have fun.
10:26What?
10:27No.
10:28I'll see you tomorrow.
10:29I'll see you tomorrow.
10:30Love you too.
10:37Tonight, Ellie has a chance to socialise at a party
10:40where all the guests share a belief in the benefits of non-monogamy.
10:44Hi.
10:46Hello.
10:47You okay?
10:48Good.
10:48Nice to see you again.
10:49Nice to see you too.
10:51Host Jess is on hand to make sure things run smoothly.
10:55I wanted to introduce you to Ellie.
10:57So have you been having a good day?
10:59Yeah.
11:00So, I mean, we were throwing the D-pad.
11:01I don't know what to expect.
11:03I really don't know.
11:04It would be nice to find out their expectations as well.
11:07I don't know whether they'd find me attractive.
11:11Do you have a relationship with that girl?
11:12No.
11:13Have any of you?
11:14No.
11:15No.
11:15I have.
11:17Yeah.
11:18How was that?
11:20KS is quite comfortable for me to get with a girl
11:22because he obviously finds that attracted to him.
11:26Hi, ladies.
11:28But he doesn't find it with men, so he wouldn't want me to do that.
11:31What are you?
11:32Sagittarius.
11:32Okay.
11:33Yeah, I'm Cancer.
11:34Okay, yeah.
11:35So, KS is a Leo.
11:37Oh, really?
11:38My ex was a Leo.
11:40Oh.
11:40Yeah, so, like, a bus.
11:42I'm thinking the same ones as well.
11:44Aries and Leos, they're, like, the ones I've always been, like, romantically involved with.
11:48So drawn to you.
11:50Yeah.
11:50Yeah, like, literally no other signs put that.
11:52Me being Aries, in case.
11:54I know, it's pretty cool.
11:55I'm having a good idea.
11:57How long have you two been together for?
11:59A year.
12:00Oh, okay.
12:00Like, we...
12:01We were dating before that.
12:03Oh, okay.
12:03And we were pretty much exclusive when we were dating,
12:05so it's been more than a year.
12:06Yeah, but efficient.
12:07Yeah, a year.
12:09Well, our anniversary is on the 27th of this month.
12:11Oh, okay.
12:12So soon.
12:13And if you're cute.
12:14Uh, no, not yet.
12:15A threesome.
12:16Yeah.
12:17A threesome.
12:17Don't.
12:18That's what you wanted for his birthday.
12:19Oh, of course.
12:21Great.
12:21So you're available on the 27th.
12:23Yeah.
12:23Cheers, baby.
12:29Cheers.
12:29To help Ellie get comfortable with non-monogamy,
12:33the residents have arranged a game of spin the bottle.
12:36That's you.
12:37That is a home-set new girl.
12:39Whee!
12:41Kissing someone else while in a committed relationship
12:44is a first for Ellie.
12:47I'm nervous, because I feel like it's all eyes on me,
12:50so that makes me very nervous.
12:51Oh, let's go, let's go.
12:58Literally.
12:58It's easy, because we're sat next to each other.
13:00Exactly.
13:02Whee!
13:03Yay!
13:04Yes, ladies!
13:06That was really cute.
13:07Yeah, you've got very nice lips.
13:09Oh, thank you.
13:10For me, kissing the girls, there's no feelings involved.
13:14Yay!
13:16It's just a game.
13:18Like, just have fun with it.
13:21Ooh!
13:23Oh!
13:24Yay!
13:26Game over.
13:27Ellie's decided she would like to spend time alone
13:30with one of the residents.
13:32With girls, it's harder to choose.
13:34They're all so lovely,
13:35and I didn't get to kiss Gracie.
13:38And obviously, she's, like, so pretty.
13:40And I chose Gracie.
13:42Yay!
13:42Yay!
13:42Yay!
13:42Yay!
13:43Yay!
13:43Yay!
13:44For Ellie, the date is an opportunity
13:49to lay the groundwork for a threesome
13:51before boyfriend Chaos gets involved.
13:54Her vibe is great.
13:56Like, she seems really fun.
13:58I do fancy Ellie, yeah.
13:59She's really, really sweet.
14:01She's definitely my type.
14:02So, yeah, I think me and Ellie got on really, really well.
14:05And the girls could see it as well,
14:06so that's also a good sign.
14:10It definitely makes me nervous,
14:12but I just take it step by step,
14:14and, you know, if you're comfortable with it,
14:17then just have fun with it.
14:29Ellie is on a date without Chaos
14:33before the couple trial opening up
14:35their relationship together.
14:37Would you like to even do the honours?
14:38Yeah, you first, darling.
14:41Oh, adorable.
14:42This is cute.
14:43This is literally, like, glamping.
14:45It is, isn't it?
14:46And she's invited Grace
14:47to spend some one-on-one time with her.
14:49I'm going to take my heels off.
14:51Please, get comfortable.
14:53Cheers.
14:54Chin-chin.
14:55This is obviously my first time on a date with a girl,
14:58so that is really exciting,
15:00and, like, I can't wait to explore that side of my sexuality.
15:04I guess you're, like, open to getting to, like,
15:07know me and, I mean, Chaos as well.
15:09Yeah.
15:10You'd be happy to, like, have a relationship
15:11with someone who's in a relationship
15:13or be involved in their relationship, like...
15:16Yeah, either way.
15:17Like, because it would be me coming to, like,
15:21your two's relationship.
15:22Yeah.
15:22Whatever works best for you two.
15:23While Ellie and Grace get to know each other more intimately,
15:29Chaos is keeping himself busy.
15:32I'd like to think she's having a good time.
15:36And I'll find out tomorrow.
15:39I feel a little good just to work out,
15:41just to tie myself up.
15:43But the only thing is there's loads of wasps in here
15:46and bugs are a big no-no for me.
15:50Oh, fucking spiders.
15:51So, I don't know how I'm going to sleep tonight in this room
15:54knowing there's two wasps flying around.
15:59Back in the yurt, the girls have found a game to play.
16:03Shall we try these dices out?
16:04Yeah, you want to?
16:08OK, so, you're my lover.
16:10OK, cool.
16:11So, you've got to lick me.
16:13Where do you want to...
16:13Are you having me to lick you?
16:15I'm having me to lick you.
16:16OK, I'll just let you be surprised.
16:21That was nice.
16:26And that's actually, like, one of my spots.
16:29So, I was like...
16:30OK, so, OK, cool.
16:33You can't go wrong with it.
16:35I threw myself into it and, like,
16:36tried to see whether I could develop, like,
16:38a deeper connection.
16:40OK, my turn.
16:43Massage.
16:44Oh, my God, yes!
16:45Yeah!
16:48You've got very, very, very soft skin.
16:50No, yeah, it's very nice.
16:53It's so good.
16:55Amazing!
16:56OK, well, clearly, it was just kiss my boobs.
16:58So, feel free.
17:00Boob kiss, kiss my boobs.
17:02Yeah, well, I'll give a little...
17:07Loved it.
17:08Yeah?
17:09Yeah.
17:09Before I turn the light off,
17:15do you want to have a little kiss?
17:19It feels like, you know...
17:21It would have been so much tonight.
17:24It was quite a new experience,
17:26so maybe, I don't know,
17:27maybe I was just a bit nervous.
17:28Kind of, um, hard for me
17:30when I already have an emotional connection
17:32with someone else in a relationship.
17:34Committed couple Helen and Steve
17:46have come to the retreat
17:47to explore opening up their relationship
17:49to other sexual partners.
17:51Hey, guys.
17:52Hello.
17:53Come on in and sit down.
17:54Dr. Laurie is on hand
17:55to help the couple brave
17:57their first few steps
17:58into non-monogamy.
17:59So, what brought you here now?
18:04I want to date other people,
18:06have a connection with someone.
18:08You're the driving force.
18:09Would that be a fair thing to say?
18:11Would you say me?
18:12Yeah, definitely.
18:13On this experience,
18:15I've pushed this a little bit more
18:16because I want Steve to recognize
18:19things that are important
18:20in a relationship
18:21because there's a lot of things
18:23that we don't do together.
18:25What's the romance like
18:26in your relationship?
18:28Steve's very, very busy.
18:29All the time.
18:30You know, I'm a busy person, too.
18:33We don't have a massive amount
18:34of time for each other.
18:36If romantic is nice,
18:38I could write you a list.
18:39I'm always nice to her like that.
18:40I'm just that sort of guy.
18:42Isn't it?
18:42That's not romantic.
18:43Romance is winning and dying
18:45someone and taking them out.
18:46We've not been for a date yet.
18:47I took you on the back
18:48of my jet ski.
18:49Steve, do you have any ideas
18:50of things that you would like to do?
18:52I don't think I could just meet someone
18:53and just jump into a bedroom.
18:56I think they'd have to get
18:57to know the people more.
18:58Consensual non-monogamy
18:59takes lots of different forms.
19:01This gives you the opportunity
19:02to see how different things feel
19:03and to challenge some of your boundaries
19:06that come from monogamy.
19:08We've got quite a good relationship
19:09with sort of, you know,
19:11we don't have the insecurities
19:13or anything.
19:14You love me, don't you?
19:16Of course, babe.
19:16Oh, there you go.
19:17See?
19:17Well, that was a pretty quick response.
19:21So tonight, you're each going to go
19:23on a social, spending the nights separately.
19:27Then you're each going to have the opportunity
19:28to choose somebody to spend
19:30one-to-one time with.
19:32You don't have to do anything,
19:34but I'm encouraging you
19:35to push out the boat a little bit.
19:38Yeah, lovely.
19:39Come on then, Steve.
19:40Nice to meet you.
19:41See you later on.
19:42You too.
19:46This is a really interesting couple.
19:49I suspect that there's an emotional void in Helen
19:52that is really driving this whole thing,
19:54but I'm not sure that meeting
19:55and potentially having sex with other people
19:58is going to fill that void.
20:01I'm really curious to see
20:03how they do on their socials.
20:05That's so nice, isn't it?
20:07Yeah.
20:07Oh, so nice.
20:09So where do you find yourself at with this?
20:14I don't know.
20:15I think...
20:16I don't know.
20:17It's very hard, Steve, isn't it?
20:20Yeah.
20:21I am looking forward to my social.
20:23It's a good bunch of people.
20:24It'd be good to get out and enjoy the company
20:26and see where it takes us.
20:27I just plan to have some fun.
20:29But Steve is considering the potential risks.
20:33I wouldn't mind being game and experimenting and that.
20:36Would you let me go and bang...
20:37Sorry.
20:38Sleep with one...
20:39Would you let me go and sleep with one of these women
20:41just to go on a trial,
20:42just to see what I was like?
20:44It's not a laughing matter, this really.
20:46This is very serious decisions, Ellie.
20:48All right, put the whip down.
20:49Last night, Ellie went on her first-ever date with a girl.
21:02Hello.
21:02Hello, stranger.
21:04While boyfriend Chaos spent the night alone.
21:07Yeah, I think Gracie's really attractive.
21:09She has, like, such a nice smile
21:10and, like, her skin is so good.
21:12I love her freckles, her hair, everything.
21:15But it's not that I really want to rip your clothes off kind of thing.
21:19I was, like, nervous to see my own boyfriend.
21:22I like your smile.
21:23Are they new?
21:23No, they're Gracie's.
21:28So, tell me about the night.
21:30What did you do?
21:31No, I'll tell you.
21:32You tell yours.
21:34Well, we played Spin the Bowl.
21:37Yeah.
21:37So I kissed Kelsey and Chanel.
21:40When Ellie told me that she was kissing multiple girls
21:43doing Spin the Bottle,
21:44I thought that was quite hot, to be honest.
21:46I mean, who wouldn't?
21:47I think that's, for me, that's a turn-on.
21:50So I've got, yeah, I'm all for that.
21:52Then Gracie and we went to a yurt.
21:57I ended up licking her neck.
21:58I mean, she licked my neck.
22:00And I, like, kissed her boob.
22:03You say you have quite a fun night, then.
22:05Tonight, the couple will have the chance
22:07to invite someone on a date together
22:09in the hope of having a threesome for the first time.
22:13I just don't know how much I feel
22:14about you going and kissing people.
22:17Well, you know it's going to...
22:19Something like that is going to happen.
22:20You know that?
22:21Yeah, but obviously you don't have to.
22:25No, but...
22:26I'm going to be nervous and maybe...
22:28Maybe jealous, I don't know.
22:30For me, him kissing girls,
22:32that's definitely tiptoeing on, like, boundaries.
22:35Helen and Steve are getting ready
22:47for separate socials.
22:49Got chicken legs at the minute.
22:50Dr Laurie wants them to try
22:52and make a connection with someone
22:53and then invite them to spend some time together
22:56alone on a date.
22:58My expectations are to have fun
23:01and go on dates with a couple of people.
23:03It will be nice.
23:04The social will be an opportunity
23:06for Helen to experience romance,
23:09something she thinks her relationship lacks.
23:12Remember Christmas Eve?
23:13I wanted us to wear Christmas pyjamas
23:15and watch a movie together
23:16and you were at the pub.
23:18Yeah.
23:19It's Christmas, isn't it?
23:19It's when you go out, Christmas, isn't it?
23:20No, family time.
23:21Family time.
23:23I'm out of here.
23:24Oh, have fun.
23:26Love you.
23:27On more.
23:27On more.
23:27On more.
23:29On more.
23:31On more.
23:33The retreat's sexually liberated residents
23:38are ready to welcome the couple.
23:41Sorry, thank you.
23:42Hello.
23:44I'm good, thank you.
23:45Nice to see you.
23:46You look stunning.
23:47I'm a little bit stressed.
23:49Steve.
23:50How you doing, Tom?
23:51You all right?
23:51How you doing, man?
23:52I don't get many parties like this, do you?
23:53No, absolutely not.
23:54No.
23:54No, absolutely not.
23:55I don't get any parties like this.
23:56I don't get any parties like this.
23:57Hello.
23:58How you doing?
23:59You all right?
24:00You doing all right?
24:01Enjoy.
24:02Have a nice evening.
24:03What's happening, girls?
24:04So what brings you here, then?
24:05Experience, isn't it?
24:06Yeah.
24:07I've used to it.
24:07I've used to it.
24:08I've used to it.
24:09I've used to it.
24:10I've used to it.
24:11I've used to it.
24:12I've used to it.
24:13Not used to dating etiquette, Steve takes a novel approach to flirting.
24:27What's your ideal date night, then?
24:29A bit Emmerdale Farmer in front of the telly, innit?
24:32I was joking, I was joking.
24:34I'd be straight out there.
24:35Put that on a date night, you joking?
24:38It's quite hard.
24:39I'm not really a person to talk into depth about sexual life like that.
24:42I like a bit more privacy.
24:44I don't like to boast about things that I've done or boast about things that I'd like to do.
24:49So are you, like, into anything kinky, then?
24:51I used to be very bad.
24:53What do you mean, very bad?
24:55I used to be a ladies' entertainer.
24:57No!
24:58Oh, wait, like a magic mic.
24:59You're a magic mic.
25:00Yeah.
25:01Can I see a move that you used to do?
25:03I might show you one of those.
25:04Oh, come on.
25:05What's your use?
25:06What's the typical type of person you're doing to go for?
25:09I've never been all for the big sort of,
25:11hench guys, kind of, all the muscles and that.
25:14At her social...
25:15You two are right, because you've got definition.
25:18How much do you weigh?
25:19I'm 14.
25:20Helen is wasting no time getting to know the residents.
25:23That's muscle, then, isn't it?
25:24That's muscle.
25:25Yeah, because you've got, like, a 30-inch waist, don't you?
25:28Yeah, fair two, fair two.
25:30Yeah, yeah.
25:31And how tall are you?
25:32I'm 6'1".
25:33And, obviously, you work out.
25:35You don't do that lifting your breakfast spoon in the morning, do you?
25:37I love it.
25:38Do you know what I mean?
25:39These guys are great.
25:40Everyone's chatting, everything's flowing.
25:42It made me feel like I can be myself,
25:44so I'd like to know where it kind of goes from here.
25:46You've got a lot of banter right now, but that's how it comes on.
25:49I don't.
25:50I'm shy as they come.
25:52I feel like Helen's rolled out, and me and her were clicking,
25:55we were having a bit of banter.
25:57I'd definitely like to take her out just to show her that it can happen.
26:01Like, you can, there's more things out there.
26:03Hello, hello.
26:04How are you?
26:05You look phenomenal.
26:07You know, I've got some eyelashes on, so it's all good.
26:09You're fresh.
26:10Yeah, you know.
26:11Where are you coming into it?
26:12Dorset, Somerset.
26:13Like, so southwest-y, yeah.
26:15What do you do for a job?
26:16I just set up a barista coffee business called The Screamin' Bean.
26:20What was on your mind when you thought of Screamin' Bean?
26:23My sister said you cannot call it that because it is just disgusting.
26:27Yeah, thank you.
26:28Like a clitoris.
26:29It's a bean.
26:30It's clicky there, isn't it?
26:31I just don't know how you didn't see that, Screamin' Bean.
26:33Architect Josh has taken a shine to Helen.
26:37You sound like an experienced lady.
26:39What do you want?
26:40Oh!
26:41Um, commitment and time.
26:42That's all.
26:43Commitment and time.
26:45Helen's a lovely lady.
26:47I love talking to her.
26:48She just seems like an absolute genuine person that, um, just, you'd want to be around.
26:53I think with tattoos, like, people go, oh, what's your tattoo, Helen?
26:55And it just looks like a little F.
26:57Where are your tattoos?
26:58Where are your tattoos?
26:59Well, you can't really see it.
27:00It's in there.
27:01Oh, see it later.
27:03Another time in the building.
27:04See it later?
27:05Later.
27:06Yeah.
27:07And Helen has also made a connection with Josh.
27:10I liked the way that Josh asked me what it was that I wanted.
27:15Because that, I feel, was important.
27:17And the fact that he'd done that showed that he values the other person's sort of needs.
27:23So, uh, that one was a bit of a winner for me.
27:27On the other side of the retreat, Steve is loosening up.
27:36Can you stand up?
27:38I stand up.
27:40You're lucky.
27:41Ready?
27:42Yeah, I'm ready, yeah.
27:43Ready?
27:44OK.
27:45He's decided to give the female residents a taste of his ladies' entertainment.
27:50I won't fight, OK?
27:51OK.
27:52OK.
27:53Now lay down.
27:54Lay down?
28:00The striptease dance vibe, I'm not gonna lie, I thought there was a dick in my mouth at
28:04one point.
28:05Yeah, that's some way to meet someone anyway.
28:07Just balls straight in the mouth.
28:09He's a really fun character.
28:10You take your mask off now, are you ready?
28:13Oh, man!
28:14Oh, my God!
28:15Oh, my God!
28:16Oh, my God!
28:17You're not shy of me, kid.
28:18Yeah, no, you're not.
28:19trying hard.
28:20Ready?
28:21Yeah.
28:22Oh, my God.
28:24I nearly went up.
28:25Oh, my God!
28:27Oh, my God.
28:28Oh, my God!
28:29Really?
28:30Oh, my God!
28:32Oh, my God!
28:33Oh, my God!
28:34Oh, my God!
28:35Oh!
28:36All the time, eh?
28:37Yeah, all the time.
28:38Oh, my God!
28:44I think my striptease went down really well with the girls, they were very excited.
28:48There was a very large amount of screaming it's nice to make someone smile
29:01As the social winds down Helen is getting closer to resident Josh
29:08There's something that you said today, which made me think yeah, that's a really I want to know I'm interested in you
29:15You're a lovely a lovely person to talk to and she's invited him to go on a romantic date
29:26For me, it's an emotional connection with someone that I can get on with someone that actually wants to listen
29:32That's the reasons why I've picked him
29:39Helen picks me it was a nice surprise
29:41She had the picker of the guys and she brought a lot of laughter out of me and I think she's just a great person
29:47And I just would love just to get to know a little bit more
29:50Post-strip partner Steve also wants to spend some one-on-one time with one of the residents
29:58Jess
30:00You need to come and have a little bit of better
30:02Yeah, yeah, yeah, fun
30:04I'm really looking forward to go and spend some quality time with Jess. She's one sort of person
30:09Very very weird to be in this situation to go for a different woman whilst my wife knows. I will enjoy it
30:22We're gonna have some fun definitely and yeah, we'll just see where the where the night goes. Yeah
30:26Committed couple Helen and Steve are dating people outside of their relationship for the very first time
30:45After you oh
30:47Oh lovely
30:49Oh
30:51I'll take your jacket if you'd like but I think you're cold so I'm not going to take it
30:53Yeah, oh bless you
30:55Helen is being romanced by Josh from West London
30:58So if you want some wine first?
30:59Uh, yes please
31:00Yeah
31:02I'm excited to spend time with Josh. He just seemed really kind of relaxed chilled and genuine and I kind of like that
31:08Me and you are gonna have a fantastic time
31:10Yeah
31:11Look, cheers to this
31:12Thank you for picking me
31:13Thank you
31:14After you Jess
31:17It's cute in here to be fair
31:18While Steve is having a one-to-one with Jess from Belfast
31:22Locking the door
31:23Securing it
31:26Jess is a very nice bubbly girl
31:28Oh fuck it
31:30I think she's on the same wavelength as I am to see how things occur and how things progress
31:35Steve struggled with flirting earlier but being alone with Jess seems to bring out his playful side
31:43So you live in Glasgow then yeah?
31:45No Ireland
31:46Ireland
31:47How fast yeah
31:48The island is not a different country is it?
31:49It is
31:50Is it?
31:51Yeah
31:52No it's a little thing just above England isn't it?
31:53No
31:54I like the accent man, I like it
31:56The Scottish accent or the Irish accent?
31:57Irish accent
31:58Irish?
31:59Do you think I have an Irish accent?
32:00Yeah
32:01Would you like another drink?
32:02Yeah I'll take a top up
32:03What?
32:04A top up?
32:05A top up
32:06A top up
32:07The dates are going really well
32:08Jess is quite a bubbly person and quite a good laugh to be around
32:11She's definitely got a bit of banner and maybe we could see what progresses
32:17Helen says she hasn't been on a single date with Steve in their whole four-year relationship
32:22When I started working on building sites I was scared to go up and do gym ladies
32:26You said you worked on building sites, what did you?
32:28So small talk over dinner is providing welcome attention
32:32I used to just like sort out concrete blocks so they're like 80 to 100 kg
32:38Fucking hell, are you joking?
32:40No
32:41Hi
32:42I got told that I'd chat people to death but you know it's not really a bad thing
32:45I enjoy it
32:46I love it, you've got a lot to say
32:48Josh was actually really gentle and quite intensive
32:51I kind of like that, that he actually wanted to listen to me
32:55It was just nice
32:56I used to be a David Beckham person
33:01Yeah?
33:02Yeah I used to dress up with David Beckham
33:03I can see that to be fair, I can see that
33:05You're definitely not Victoria
33:06I'm not Victoria?
33:07You're definitely not
33:08What do you mean?
33:09You're not that way
33:10That insult
33:11No
33:12I take that as a fucking massive compliment
33:14A compliment
33:15Listen, you've got a bit of physique
33:17Yeah
33:18Yeah Victoria's got bones and kind of like
33:20Do you like curves then?
33:22Yeah I like something, a bit of
33:24A bit of something
33:25Are you more of like a boobs guy or like a bum guy?
33:28An arse
33:29An arse guy?
33:30A bum guy?
33:31A bottom, a bottom
33:32A bottom guy
33:33A bottom person
33:34From what I've understood of you so far
33:36I feel like you need support
33:37I feel like you need people around you that will boost you up
33:40I've never had that
33:43There wouldn't be nothing nicer than the fact that someone actually believing in me and guiding me
33:49Do you get me?
33:50I love everything you subscribe to
33:53I think you can tell that I'm having a fantastic time
33:57Are you?
33:58Yeah, I feel like I can't comment on the situation
34:01You can't comment on the situation?
34:02No
34:03No?
34:04I'm enjoying myself, of course I am
34:05Good
34:06I've been on a date for a long time
34:08Tonight has been like a real eye-opener
34:11For me, it was about getting to know someone
34:14Because that's something I feel is missing from my relationship at the minute
34:18So
34:19Yeah, I've really enjoyed my time
34:26Back in his yurt
34:28Do you get whipped all the time?
34:29Do you like all that whipped shit?
34:31It depends who you're whipped
34:32And despite turning the conversation kinky
34:35I could do more with my tongue than what my spirit would do with the whole of their body
34:39Yeah?
34:40Definitely, yeah
34:41You think?
34:42Yeah, a million percent, a million percent
34:43I'm coming to Ireland with you
34:44You're coming back with me?
34:45Yeah, I'm going to meet you that time
34:46Yeah, come on then
34:47I'll come there
34:48That's right
34:50Steve's decided to call it a night
34:53Did you have fun with me?
34:54Yeah, yeah
34:55Good
34:56Good
34:57I really had a great time
34:58Jessie's a very nice girl
34:59If I was 21, I think
35:01And I come on to an experience like this
35:03I think I'd be well gained for doing it all
35:05But we've been together for 40 years
35:07And that's something I don't want to lose
35:09After a night experiencing their first ever taste of non-monogamy
35:29Dr. Laurie wants to help the couple reflect on their dates
35:33Okay, so let's start with the early part of the evening
35:38How was that?
35:40Fun
35:41It was all right
35:42I picked my date
35:44Yeah, we shared a couple of drinks together
35:46Mm-hmm
35:47Yeah, we clicked, we got on really well
35:49And yeah, he's a nice guy
35:50I went on a date with a girl called Jess
35:52Mm-hmm
35:53I did a little show for the ladies
35:54While we were in there on the actual thing yesterday
35:57So I took her with me just to get to know her a bit more
36:00You enjoyed the time?
36:01Oh, it was a lovely time with her
36:02Very lovely girl, very, very nice person
36:04Now that you've both had romantic dates with other people
36:07How do you feel about open relationships?
36:10The whole idea of this experience really was to sort of better our relationship
36:16I do always feel that he lives life in the fast lane
36:19And sometimes that, you know, not all my needs are met
36:23I do agree with what she's saying and I do work a substantial amount of time
36:27But it has made me realize now that I do need to spend a lot more time with Helen
36:31And be more there for her because I'm not usually there
36:33Oh, that's good
36:34Which to me is a good thing about coming onto here
36:36And it's made me realize I don't think I could be in an open relationship
36:39No, you could just say no
36:40Hand on my heart, I really don't
36:41It's not unusual, you know, often couples think they're ready and then they have to go away and work on themselves and their relationships
36:48It's taught us to sort of work on our relationship, definitely
36:53It's been definitely an eye-opener, 100% an eye-opener
36:58Yeah
37:00Thank you for throwing yourselves into it and I wish you all the best
37:03Thank you very much
37:04Have fun
37:05We will, nice to meet you
37:06You too, take care
37:07See you later on
37:08Bye love
37:13This was a really interesting couple
37:15Helen was really not getting enough attention from him
37:18She's not getting the romance from him that she wants
37:21And she was hoping that non-monogamy was a solution to that
37:24I am happy that they feel that they learned something in this process
37:27And they felt that they had something positive to take away
37:30After you
37:31Definitely feel happy we're leaving
37:33Yeah
37:34But in a good way
37:35I spend some more quality time definitely is a big thing
37:37I definitely, definitely haven't spent enough time with her
37:39And he's learned
37:40Yeah, this has opened my eyes to see that
37:42I didn't expect Steve just to openly say that he really wishes that he could spend more time with me
37:50We've bettered our relationship maybe
37:52Yeah, I think we have bettered our relationship
37:54It did make me well up a little bit actually
37:56You know, because it made me feel that I've got a lot of what I wanted to from this experience
38:16Tonight, Ellie and KS are going on a social together
38:19Hey, you look gorgeous
38:21It's so good to see you
38:22Yeah, I thought it was my first time
38:24Oh, that would be amazing
38:26And based on their preference, only women are invited to the party
38:30I really like your tattoos
38:32Oh, thank you
38:33You have your tattoos yourself?
38:34Yeah, I've got a few random ones to be honest
38:37If anything was going to happen in our relationship, it would be together
38:41So it's good to experience this with Ellie
38:44And this is the ideal scenario for me, so I'm happy
38:47I love tattoos
38:48What's your favourite tattoo that you have?
38:50I'd say my favourite one is this one here
38:53Because my grandad's from Barbados and he passed away, so
38:56I think he's enjoying himself, yeah, and talking to the girls
38:59He wouldn't
39:00They're looking for someone to invite on a date
39:03And potentially have a threesome with
39:05I just want to get in the pool
39:07Have you been in the pool at all?
39:08I know
39:09It's a pool party, why are we not all in the pool talking?
39:13Exactly
39:14I like go on my back when I do that as well
39:17Backstroke
39:18And all anyone to see is the boobs
39:20Just wearing like
39:22Just two pairs of tits just like gliding
39:25And it looks like chaos has made a connection with Precious
39:30We should get in the hot tub is what we need to do
39:32Have you been in the hot tub?
39:33I know
39:34I'm giving these two spaces
39:36I mean Precious is an attractive woman
39:39I would say physical attraction was, yeah, it was definitely there
39:44So ladies, our lovely couple have made a decision on who they'd like to spend the night with
39:49Precious
39:50Hey!
39:52My girl
39:54You're the girl
39:55What attracted me to Precious is that she was just
39:58We had stuff in common and she was just easy to talk to
40:01And she's been in an open relationship before
40:03So I think Ellie will definitely feel a little bit of jealousy as that's just her
40:08Later
40:09Let's go
40:10I think if everything goes well, we have a good, you know, couple of drinks, have dinner, the chemistry's there
40:16Who knows what could happen?
40:18No, we've never done a joint date, so you know, that's going to be in itself something new
40:23Obviously she's lovely
40:24So that's maybe where like jealousy might come in
40:27Ellie and Chaos came to the retreat to see if they could open their relationship to another woman
40:44And tonight they are on a date with Precious
40:47Oh, you've got a neck tattoo
40:50Oh, I didn't...
40:51What...
40:52Do your tattoos have any meaning?
40:53Erm, it just means I'm a gift, to be fair
40:55Really?
40:56Fair enough
40:57I mean Precious, gift, you know, it's just...it's just that
41:01Yeah
41:02I'm excited, a little bit nervous, because I have no idea what to expect
41:07And obviously it's going to be a bit intimidating at first
41:10I'd say the best case scenario is that Ellie's comfortable to bring Precious into our relationship
41:18You're a boob man, aren't you?
41:20I...
41:21I think you like bums, but I think you like big boobs
41:23You also like...
41:24I mean, you like both
41:25But if I choose, I would go bum over boobs
41:28Oh, yeah
41:29Yeah
41:30I think the emotions were just running higher than me
41:32Because I got the feeling that she wanted us to dive in and try more
41:36But the wobble came from just me not wanting to do anything
41:42Precious, who's been in multiple open relationships, is worried Ellie might not be entirely comfortable with the situation
41:50So when a girl kisses, you know, do you go...
41:54Oh, yeah, well, that's never...
41:56That hasn't happened, no
41:57So, if I kissed him, you would get upset?
42:00I don't know
42:01Oh, you see?
42:02If you asked me...
42:03Yeah, you'd be like, I don't care
42:04I would be like, dad, okay
42:05Exactly, so like, I don't know
42:06So you have to be short
42:07Exactly, so then that makes me think, like, am I...then, you know
42:10Then you aren't
42:11I think I overthink it
42:13Why are you so reserved or scared about it?
42:15I don't know
42:16Because I feel like I'd get jealous
42:17Do you think he would get jealous?
42:18Yeah
42:19You're stunning and you seem like you've got your confidence, right?
42:22The person who ever kisses your boyfriend is not going to take him away
42:26He's yours
42:27She's still insecure about sharing her boyfriend, her partner with somebody else
42:34And she's concerned that he will then get more attached to the other person
42:41Okay, well, I'm gonna pop, I'm gonna go, I think
42:44It's hard to imagine, you know, your partner getting someone on a sexual level
42:48I don't know what it is, I feel insecure, like
42:51I know that Ellie was upset, but obviously this is a hard thing to do
42:55Because we are emotionally invested in each other, we love each other
42:59Last night, Ellie and KS' date ended prematurely
43:10Hey!
43:11Hey, you alright?
43:12Yeah, you're comfortable
43:13Now, Dr. Laurie wants to help the couple work through what happened
43:18How was last night?
43:20Um, I wasn't, like, comfortable with doing, like, things with other people, I guess
43:27Right
43:28My insecurities and jealousies, yeah, it was a difficult thing to go through
43:33If you had to put a name to those insecurities, what are they? Like, how would you describe them?
43:39Um, like, not feeling good enough?
43:46In general, or with him?
43:48No, like, myself
43:49In yourself, so when you look at the world, that's how you feel
43:53Yeah
43:54So have you compared yourself to other people?
43:57Yeah, definitely, yeah
43:59And yet, you're a gorgeous woman, right?
44:03Thank you
44:04And he clearly adores you
44:07Correct
44:08Yeah, well, I'm, yeah, and I'm seeing that as well, so
44:12What's come out of this is that, considering opening up and considering non-monogamy has brought up your feelings of, of not being good enough
44:20Yeah, you know, it's not, it's not a jealousy, I don't know, um, it's hard to explain, but
44:27You're not describing jealousy, what you're saying is that you end up feeling uncomfortable because you don't feel good enough
44:33And the fear then is, I'll be replaced, and so coming here has highlighted that
44:39Yeah
44:40So you can actually go away and work on that particular bit
44:43You know, you know, non-monogamy is like difficult
44:45Yeah
44:46You're not yet ready to open up, you're just not there
44:48Yeah
44:49You've got work to do on your own, and as a couple, to be in a place where you will be able to open up and feel strong enough in the relationship
44:58Thank you
44:59It's been wonderful to have you here as our guest, I've really enjoyed meeting you
45:02Thank you
45:03Thank you, it's been so good meeting you as well
45:05I think you'll do fine
45:06Thank you very much
45:07Bye
45:08Cheers
45:10We're all very good at hiding our vulnerabilities, and it's only when things are out of our control, or out of our comfort zone, that these vulnerabilities surface
45:20It's really hard to know if non-monogamy will work for you, or not, until you try it
45:27We thought we would test, like, just dip our toes in the waters and see what we think of it, but speaking about it and then doing it is a completely different thing
45:36We're so happy that we did it, really, I think that it's something great that, like, everyone, if they could, like, have a go
45:43You all right with that?
45:45Yep, all good
45:46You got that?
45:47Yes
45:48There you go
45:51This process has definitely brought us closer as a couple
46:13If you're a curious couple, or single, and are interested in being part of the next open house experiment, visit Channel 4's website, Tech Park page
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